This is a highly emotional charged show. I've been watching this show for some time. I noticed a few things. This show feminizes the male guests. The boys cried all the time; overtime, one by one, they all put on ear ring. They sit on the receiving end, which goes against the nature of man and suppresses their masculinity. Men are made to pursue to initiate, woman are made to respond. This show encouraged reversal of the 2 roles. I am not sure it is a a good idea to train men to receive flowers, candies, and gifts and let woman pursue them. Deep within these men, they would not respect these women who try to pursue them. The last female guest is very scary preson.