The experience couples is giving Shang Jin and qui wen suggestion on how to be a better couple but they just keep giving excuses such as no time all those kind of stuff then how would u expect yourself to be like loving couple.If this continues u guys can prepared to breakup to be honest
Sad to say, it's obvious something is not right between SJ and QW already. Change must be innate, change cannot be one party keep asking and the other kept being asked.
Don't teach your boyfriend how to be a boyfriend. Don't ask him to show off. Don't ask him to text you. Don't ask him to wait for you at school. Don't ask him to bring you flowers. Don't ask him to plan dates, and don't beg for time and love. Because the right man will do anything and everything for you even without asking for it.
Lol i don't think you really watch the video carefully I don't think he teaching them but rather just out his opinion. Not going to lie actually for people who coming to 30 year old and still trying hard to earn money many of them it like ls and qw.
@@pohchintan3559 I sure it your views and my views it different. And I did watch it carefully from my point of view i just think he just saying his point of view not really teaching anyone. And i do have friends that like sj and qw releiationship though does did not go well I just felt happy sj and qw have good friends to tell them.
To shangjin. As netizen, I have been watching your relationship with qw. Initially, when some commented that something not right between ur relationship with her, i refuse to believe. But now that most of the netizens, even your fans say the same thing, its impossible not to believe any longer. No matter how u two tried to hide your awkwardness with each other in any video, everybody still can see something is not right between u two. As a fan of both you and qw, I sincerely wish you both stay together forever as couple, and even eventually settle down together. But you have to sit down together with qw and work things out. Many of your fellow youtubers who had featured in your video in this kind of topics, have given you many tips on how to solve this kind of problem. All you need is to act accordingly. Qw is a good girl for any guys. You better appreciate her. Dont just focus too much on work. You are too workaholic. Many guys are lining up in waiting lists to go after her. All they are waiting is for you to break up and make a move. As a fan, I dont want that to happen to you. You have to work hard to improve your relationship with qw, or you can kiss goodbye to such wonderful girl. Dont wait till you regret it. For a start, drive the car and fetch her more often. Also, dont stay separately. Try to gradually spend more time and nights sharing the same bed and bedroom together. Hug her more often and longer. Give her more kiss. Listen to her as she share her thoughts with you. Dont give comment until she ask your opinion. These are the simple thing i often do with my wife, which is why our relationship still stay strong. By doing these things, it will be a good start to improve your relationship with her, and you will see some significant results without you realise. Dont bother explaining it with science. It somehow works. Once again, the last thing i wanna see is both of you break up.
@@Jxian yeah. Thats sad. But whats worst is everyone is happy that they broke up. I mean, their relationship was not toxic. Shangjin's mistake on being too workaholic, not listening to fans' advice too improve himself and being too dense is significantly milder than many other guys who actually haressed their gfs while they were in relationship.
qiu wen, if u are unhappy with shang jin's state of (lack of) wealth right now, then u should consider to break up. if u are still with him, then dont complain of why he cannot be rich and cannot give u a good life. if u are so capable, either u yourself work hard to become that rich, or u find someone who is rich enough to satisfy your lifestyle.
She want him to be rich and yet complain when he spent too much time at work. Then she complain he not romantic, not attentive. I think she need sugar daddy 🤦♀️
@@paperluvxhearts8510 absolutely yes😂 SJ & QW said they dont meet others during the hardest life, but i think this is the hardest life for them to get through this problem. Both of them have own problem in this relationship, if they realize and willing to change, they can go through forever. If not, just let go, and go on with their life, they deserve better than others.
Shangjin needs to do some reflection and soul searching on his relationship with Qiuwen. Qiuwen doesn't like how he looks reveal the lack of depth in their relationship while Shangjin seems to have a lot of hidden reasons and grievance in this relationship.
