Not everyone is suitable living overseas which takes lot of courage, resilience and independency. For me, it is the baseline for someone not suitable living overseas if he / she has tried more than 3 years and got professional help. So go seek some counselling. If it still doesn't work for you, it's not a shame to move back to HK. I had lived in Europe for 9 years but still did not feel like home and love this continent. In the end, I moved back to HK and I am grateful to my decision.
Hi, I am from Singapore, saw your RU-vid really feel for you. You really need a break, either you try to go back to HK for a break or get your mum to come over. You must clam down your mind before you can think your next step. Actually, do not blame yourself for not liking UK, because I myself been to UK do not like it there too. There are many other option, you have , can move nearer to HK not necessary have to stay put in UK or HK. Your kid is young, easier to move around. Must take care of yourself first before you can take care of others. Wishing you good luck, if you drop by Singapore, I will welcome you. Many hugs n good luck.
No place other than Asia is good for Asians. You have no idea how much Westerners feel genetically and morally superior to your own people. The decline of the West will make them even more hateful. Asians need to be freed from mental colonization and stop consuming Western brainwashing.
在英留學六年宜家中意UK多過HK希望比到少少意見你適應❤ - 搵一d英國野中意，皇室八掛又好，英國RU-vidr又好，英劇又好，追英美d星都好，搵到一樣中意既英國野會令你有sense of belonging （個人自己超中意福爾摩斯!! 來當年初留學的不習慣都係睇bbc Sherlock 救左我仲可以習慣下British accent) - 要習慣英國物欲係冇咁豐富，唔會周街有得shopping，搵d無關shopping既興趣(如種下花) - 家人方面，有時可能真係要無情一d唔好咁掛住在港的屋企人… 其實呢個不適應係一個重新了解自己的機會，希望你ok and get the help you need!
我好明白你感受。我都有抑鬱病。。我都會覺得自己係屋企人嘅torture…但其實只要你是一個人知你係唯一一個可以改變。當你知道沉緊嘅時候，你係會知。我有時候甚至乎諗都係，I’m such a failure…咁多人愛我，我仲係咁傷害自己，傷害自己等於傷害愛你嘅人。。。唉。我明。我抑鬱左病咗10年有多。。。但你都要幫下你自己，知道咩位你要拉番起自己。辛苦㗎。。但要試。唔掂，揾專業人士幫手。朋友，係。。係可以同你溝通下。。比意見你。但專業人士係唔同。因為有時啲嘢。。。你朋友未必經歷過抑鬱病。所以佢未必真正幫到你。不過點都好。。都係要靠自己。得嘅你！💪🏻人生，永遠都係有起有跌。加油！
@@cloudwithwind574 They can't answer you, because they don't want to admit it. I live in Canada all my life. The west is not as free as you believe. There are many problems like racism. What happened in 2019 HK, the police is very nice compared to what you will get in the west.. lol. If they do half the shit they did in HK, the police likely will clear out their bullets.. lol.
Please don't cry. It makes me very sad too. If possible, return to hongkong and lead a normal life. That is the place you are born and your childhood memory will never vanished. Don't force yourself cuz you will get depression eventually. Life is short, do the things you like and stay with your family member. I believe they can provide you warmth and comfort. I wished you all the best in whatever you do. Cheers
Asians need to decolonize their minds. The West has NEVER been a good place for anyone but white people. They especially feel superior to Asians because Asians tend to be meek and quiet.
Why are commenters telling her to go back to Hong Kong, UK is so much better! You breathe the air of democracy, just vote in people that might treat you better and not treat you like a Chinese amirite xd. The more Hong Kong BNOers that move to the UK the better for all parties involved! Maybe now Hong Kong can actually thrive
1.你話英國“好差”, 有咩差呢？ 2.Sorry, 也許你不想接受現實但所有以離開HK的人都應心理準備, 是從今之從不會再踏足HK。除非你願意承受回去後不能離港的風險! 3.每日返工, 接送返學, 再正常不過。難道在HK這不是常嗎？ 4. 有人喜歡, 就有人不喜歡。不能強求 5. UK has freedom of speech but plz don't take it for granted. 有freedom of speech 又如何呢?HK national security law "covers" anyone in the entire universe. 中共要搞你冇難度言。 6. Internet upload is life long and will never be removed. 7. Honestly I doubt your problems are in the UK. Ask yourself what u need and want the most
As a Chinese, I lived in UK for over forty years. I experienced racism in the 1970s when I was first for everything,,,first chinese attend a local school, first chinese in a council estate, first chinese in my local GP etc. Some good and some bad. Even my Chinese not that good (also my English as well). Now reaching my retirement age, I still have a desire to return to my root. So the whole thing about embracing a foreign land is not for everyone. So be pragmatic, calm down and think rationally. Good luck to whatever your final choice.
