Perfect, this way you can taste more choices. Do whatever you like, do not worry about others’ opinion. Hi say hi to your father in law, the beard guy, just love the guy. He possess the emotional intelligence, Chinese say “Qing Shang”, I lost my skill to type Chinese after live at US over 31 years. I like your Chinese name, seem related Chinese culture. Tell your father in law, a cop from US say hi to him. I have been a cop over 25 years, still active now.