Consequences, and obligations are self defined, if you don't abide by it you can regret it. You can decide and have relationship and kid and later found to be not liking, and it's entirely not my fault, because your words are cute and self selling. I do not feel any obligations or responsibilities on your decisions or your words if you are trying to make me feel shameful or unattended of you in anyway, or make me feel obligated in any way because it's entirely up to you for believing something cheap as fictional.