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@denzheahmuana2741
@denzheahmuana2741 2 года назад
It hurts that I'm just 12 years old crying to this song. And the worst part is they think I'm just overreacting. They never understand. Everytime I try to open up they end up telling me I'm overreacting. People never understands...Even my mom. She thinks I'm making things up just to get her attention. I struggled so many times but she wasn't there. I sometimes ask myself “if I disappear will they be happy?”I want to end it all. I can't take it anymore. This world is so cruel. They just don't understand.
@lzgtm
@lzgtm 2 года назад
from a fellow twelve year old, i am truly sorry. people tell me it’s just hormones but i’m sad over literally everything, even nothing sometimes. i feel happy but sad at the same time. sometimes i just wonder if it’d be better to just go. but then i want to come back. i js want to be happy all the time idk how.
@hannahlatham9208
@hannahlatham9208 Год назад
I felt the same when I was 12 and was seen as an "attention freak". I'm not even "fat" or "funny", but Ed and trauma led to refusing to eat lunch yet sneaking food from my friend's plates bc I was hungry but didn't wanna gain weight. Exercise really helped for me because it forced me to eat, but then when I was 16 I learned to exercise and not eat. I hope that you'll find the help and care you need, love ❤️ there are people in this world who will love you no matter what. I know at your age it may seem hard, or like time is moving slowly, but you do matter in the here and now even if no one believes you.
@vickyliuu
@vickyliuu Год назад
This is just the same but I am just 1 year younger.
@pikoo392
@pikoo392 Год назад
its sad that you have experienced this in a very young age , you still have a bright future waiting for you! this world is full of judgemental people and that is how it test us in this world but in this world also have a kind and people who still care for you maybe not now but one day in future
@z6906
@z6906 Год назад
This a bit late, but trust me, there are many of us who can relate to your situation. When I was 12 years old I was in a similar state that you're currently in, no one understood me, they didn't try to. I was told that I was overreacting, people invalidated my feelings all the time, then they complained that I would never open up because I had this habit of suppressing my feelings. Yes, unfortunately its true that the world is a very cruel place, but why don't you try making it better for others? I'm currently 18, I've been fighting myself for 6 years, but treating others how I wanted to be treated actually made me feel better. If others are cruel, why don't you be best person among them? If no one listens, why don't you listen to other peoples problems? If your family don't understand you, why don't you try to understand other people who are also suffering? If no one wants to change to make this world better, why don't you become the person that makes others look forward to waking up every morning? Become the person, the friend, that people don't want to lose because you're a rare gem. Be the best person you can be so that you attract others who are like you, others who understand. Again, trust me, you'll eventually become so amazing that you'll begin to be proud that you're such a wonderful person. To this day over 6 years, I've been through a lot and still am experiencing things, but I've become a friend to myself and now understand some of my self worth. I wanted to end it all too, but you're not tested with things that you cannot handle. You'll have your ups and downs, but what matters the most is how you pick yourself back right up. Progress isn't something that increases and never goes down, progress is having your downfalls but still being able to stand up straight after every experience. You'll fall, crash, and burn, but you CAN stand up again, only if you BELIEVE you can. I hope you get better and become a friend to yourself, the reality of the world is horrible, but you're amazing for being this strong. How do I know you're strong? Because you're still here
@_.Kiara._
@_.Kiara._ 2 месяца назад
"do they just keep me around to make their flaws seem silly?" That hits different.
@jellyfishrobin
@jellyfishrobin 2 года назад
this song just hurts. im so much bigger than my skinny friends, im not exactly "fat"? but all i want to be is my friends size. update: hey everyone!! I'm fifteen now lol, almost 16, and I promise it does get better, people accept you for who you are
@leilafaye880
@leilafaye880 2 года назад
literally
@marz9949
@marz9949 2 года назад
Fr
@blen3765
@blen3765 2 года назад
I'm so skinny and i kinda understand the song in my own way
@asinas141
@asinas141 2 года назад
This.
@avax636
@avax636 2 года назад
No cus this.
@evelyn-jv8il
@evelyn-jv8il 2 года назад
this songs just cuts deeper than a knife, I’m not considered as “ fat “ but when I look at my friends, they have such skinny legs, and small stomachs, it makes me so jealous.
@madlenrhys
@madlenrhys 2 года назад
vouch
@4AM-0
@4AM-0 Год назад
You're beautiful no matter what 😊 I honestly want to have some weight since I always get told that I'm a skeleton and I should eat more.
@theclumsycatanimation8347
@theclumsycatanimation8347 Год назад
THIS
@ZJ2008
@ZJ2008 Год назад
Me too, I wish I were dead
@ViljaEllefsen
@ViljaEllefsen Год назад
Real
@Laufeys_1fan
@Laufeys_1fan 2 года назад
Is it bad to relate to a song like this? …
@darkskies333
@darkskies333 2 года назад
If you relate to this I'm so sorry :(
@bridgitsweeney5425
@bridgitsweeney5425 2 года назад
No baby it's okay ❤️
@beth852
@beth852 2 года назад
you’re not the only one
@renn_lovescats
@renn_lovescats 2 года назад
Darling it’s ok ❤️ I relate to❤️
@laurennn1224
@laurennn1224 2 года назад
it’s not bad at all, you’re beautiful ❤
@dxni.1885
@dxni.1885 2 года назад
I break the ice So they don't see my size And I have to be nice Or I'll be the next punchline I'm just the best friend in Hollywood movies Who only exist to continue the story The girl gets the guy while I'm standing off-screen So I'll wait for my cue to be comedic relief Can't be too loud Can't be too busy If I don't answer now, are they still gonna need me? Can't be too proud Can't think I'm pretty Do they keep me around, so their flaws just seem silly? I say I'm okay 'Cause they wouldn't care anyway And I could try to explain But my efforts in vain They can't relate to how I've Drawn out in Sharpie where I take the scissors If that's what it took for me to look in the mirror I've done every diet to make me look thinner So why do I still feel so goddamn inferior? Can't be too loud And can't be too busy If I don't answer now, are they still gonna need me? Can't be too proud and Can't think I'm pretty Do they keep me around, so their flaws just seem silly? Life of the fat, funny friend Life of the fat, funny friend It's funny when I think a guy likes me And it's funny when I'm the one who says, "Let's go to eat" It's funny when I'm asked to go out on Halloween Dresses and thigh highs, while I hide my body Can't be too loud And can't be too busy If I don't answer now, are they still gonna miss me? Can't be too loud And can't be too busy If I don't answer now, are they still gonna need me? Can't be too proud and Can't think I'm pretty Do they keep me around, so their flaws just seem silly? Life of the fat, funny friend Life of the fat, funny friend Life of the fat, funny friend Life of the fat, funny friend I've drawn out in Sharpie where I take the scissors
@riadhmhamdi1763
@riadhmhamdi1763 Год назад
Thnx
@bbonka
@bbonka Год назад
THANK YOU😭😭
@tharinigayathmi8426
@tharinigayathmi8426 Год назад
Lllllllll
@tharinigayathmi8426
@tharinigayathmi8426 Год назад
Klkkllllllllllllllllllllll
@tharinigayathmi8426
@tharinigayathmi8426 Год назад
Llĺll
@SheDontThinkSheBad
@SheDontThinkSheBad Год назад
Whats worse is when your a teenager and can genuinely relate to songs like this one. It says a lot about society and what the world is coming to.
@ErinMcDermott-gk3oq
@ErinMcDermott-gk3oq 10 месяцев назад
I'm a 10 year old girl I don't leave my room only for school and when I do I wear over sized clothes I'm even scared to leave my house in a t- shirt or shorts BC I get told I'm fat, I have hairy arms/legs even by my family so I gave up. Who knows will I even make it to 12?
@SheDontThinkSheBad
@SheDontThinkSheBad 10 месяцев назад
@@ErinMcDermott-gk3oq i hope u make it mh. No, i know you'll make it to twelve. Things will change for the better. *we got this tg
@ErinMcDermott-gk3oq
@ErinMcDermott-gk3oq 10 месяцев назад
Tysm I'm doing a lil bit better now thank you
@SheDontThinkSheBad
@SheDontThinkSheBad 10 месяцев назад
@@ErinMcDermott-gk3oq yw
@letsrollthediceyeah
@letsrollthediceyeah Год назад
i'm not "fat" exactly- i don't think at least; but this is such a relatable song. my clothes size is medium, not large or above- but still. i have big arms and a big belly. i don't have that much self control and with my family i have to eat whatever they put in front of me, basically. the lyrics, "ive drawn out of sharpie where i'd take the scissors if thats what it took for me to look in the mirror. i've done every diet to make me look thinner, so why do i still feel so god damn inferior?" is so relatable to me. i've literally tried to tape down my stomach and as a child i've thought about cutting off my stomach multiple times. i just wish i was skinnier. this is my life basically: wake up brush my teeth brush my hair put deodorant on change ( not every day as i don't need to but about every 2 days ) eat breakfast go to the bathroom listen to music sit on my couch play games dance play games dance eat dinner but most of my time is thinking about my body, esp when im listening to music most of the songs i listen to are like this because it's what i relate to. melanie martinez, mitski, marina, some lana, eminem, kpop etc i have a very slow metabolism exercise hurts & is so hard for me i sweat profusely ( and that damages my hair so much ) i have asthma and what hurts most is i'm tall so it makes it so much worse :( my body image sucks so bad i wanna look like the girls in my class..
@star_s22
@star_s22 Год назад
Hi. I know I’m just a random RU-vid comment, but it would be great if you could listen to some points that I have to say, as this is a very long and heartbreaking comment that no one has replied to yet. First off, I just want to tell you that everyone is beautiful in their own way. Bodies come in all shapes and sizes, which is completely normal and something unique about each person. You might think you look ‘different’ from others, but no human is the exact same. And even so, you only have one body in this short life, so shouldn’t we start to love it? It’s YOUR body, so only YOUR opinion matters, not anyone else's, and quite frankly, most people you meet won’t care about the outside, only the obnoxious people will. Hey, and if you looked like the girls in your class, wouldn’t you become slightly less special? I think you should make it a goal for yourself to learn how to love your body :) Secondly, don’t let your health issues get to you. They might be obstacles in your life, but the point of obstacles is to smoothly jump over them. If it’s harder for you to exercise, you’re obviously not going to be the skinniest girl, which is perfectly okay! You shouldn’t blame yourself for these health issues and punish yourself emotionally and mentally (and from what I’ve read, almost physically), when none of this is your fault. In fact, I think it’s great that you eat what your family puts in front of you, because then we know that you aren’t starving yourself or attempting dangerous diets, as both of these can lead to hospitalisation. And just remember that what you eat and how much you eat doesn’t define you, it’s what’s on the inside. Thirdly, leading on, your body shouldn’t be your top priority for your character. Whilst it’s important to keep it healthy, you’re already doing that and your personality and inner character is what counts. For example, when making friends, would people want to hang around a skinny person with an awful personality? Of course not. Therefore, your kindness, attitude, respect, etc. towards others is what really matters for yourself :) Fourthly, I have some advice on how to improve your body image (without therapy) which you can skip if you like, but I think it would be great if you can take this advice. Limiting social media, so you don’t compare yourself to other girls and so you can use that time to work on your body image Keep making multiple lists of things you love about yourself, whether it be about your body or not Surround yourself with supportive people as much as you can Write down the negative things that you think about your body, then rewrite them in a more self-respecting way, almost as if you’re saying it to another person Wear whatever feels comfortable Explore activities that allow you to discover how your body works and what it can really do Spend time helping others If you really want to feel happy about yourself, all of this has to be done with a positive mindset, so I really hope you work on yourself, soldier. I respect you for fighting this battle with a brave heart. I hope you do well in the future. Wish you the best. Sorry this is late and long lol
@letsrollthediceyeah
@letsrollthediceyeah Год назад
@@star_s22 i really appreciate you , but there are many people that would rather hang out with a skinny & pretty girl that bullies people and is super selfish than one that is slightly fat and super nice. i've only had 1 or 2 friends in my life, and currently have 3. i try not to make my body my top priority but i hate it so much it kinda just becomes it. i will try and do the advice you gave but social media is kinda half my life since it's normally what distracts me & calms me down- but it also can affect me in so many ways. i really really appreciate you and i hope you are healthy, happy, and live the bestest life you can have. this brought me to happy tears, thank you sm
@star_s22
@star_s22 Год назад
@@letsrollthediceyeah You’re welcome, I’m glad that you read that all :) Honestly where I live most people don’t care about weight & body types when choosing friends, but it sounds like you have a different story. At least with a small circle of friends, trust is easier to build and finding out if they’re loyal is also easier. It sounds like you’re already surrounding yourself with the right people. Good luck on your journey ahead.
@lowkeystacyroadto2004
@lowkeystacyroadto2004 Год назад
you literally dont know me . but ik u've heard this like 80000 times in your life but. i love you so frickin much and you dont have to look like the girls in your class. thats what makes you special by being different . so LOVE how unique you are and just accept it ! dont be ashamed about your body ! i love you !
@Dabaddie606
@Dabaddie606 Год назад
@@letsrollthediceyeah you don’t know me and I don’t know you but if I did I would give you a hug and call you my friend. Maybe’s it’s because I have social anxiety and anybody willing to approach me I’ll befriend or maybe it’s because nice people deserve better than mean people no matter what you shape, size, race or height you are. 😊
@nataliethezoo13
@nataliethezoo13 2 года назад
even though im not fat, i still relate to this because i'm skinny everywhere except my stomach. i always have a bloated stomach and it makes me so frustrated and mad at myself.
@yunakim275
@yunakim275 2 года назад
I have the same body type ans honestly it is frustrating, but I think you’re beautiful
@nataliethezoo13
@nataliethezoo13 2 года назад
@@yunakim275 ily i also think ur gorgeous
@yunakim275
@yunakim275 2 года назад
@@nataliethezoo13 awww ilyt ur amazing
@justanotherrandomperson180
@justanotherrandomperson180 2 года назад
hey as long as ur keeping urself healthy (both physically and mentally) it doesn't matter how big or small you are
@itsklevisaforyall7823
@itsklevisaforyall7823 2 года назад
Literally.
@stella_11.
@stella_11. 7 месяцев назад
"Can't be too loud, can't be too pretty, if I don't answer now are they still gonna need me?" I felt that.
@Starkissedshark
@Starkissedshark Год назад
Hello! You're here!! Oh I'm so glad you're taking the time to read this!! Thank you! But I must ask, are you still trying to be good enough for people? Oh hun… You're already perfect the way you are!! You're beautiful just the way you are!! You’re smart, brave, kind, caring, all of those things!! Don’t listen to people that are mean!! They only want to get you down!! We all run along people like that, and we move on! We shouldn’t let what others think affect us,we should be proud of who we are, no matter out, age, gender, skin color, weight, ect.!! Look how far you’ve come! You got this!! I believe in you!! I’m so proud of you for coming this far! You're so handsome/pretty/beautiful!! Look how much you’ve grown as a person! I know you're destined to do great things! It’s only a matter of time!! You need to be patient with yourself!! I know it’s hard…..But you're strong! I just know you can beat this! But don’t push yourself to the point that you're burnt out, it’s okay to take breaks! You're only human after all!! People need breaks all the time and that's okay!!
@kwirkmusic
@kwirkmusic Год назад
you just made my day ❤
@everyonelovesgraceeee
@everyonelovesgraceeee Год назад
I cried reading this thank you so much I really needed this rn...lol I'm just sitting here typing on my phone crying BAHAHAHAHAHA
@Starkissedshark
@Starkissedshark Год назад
@MarylinSmith-b6d
@MarylinSmith-b6d 11 месяцев назад
Thank you so much , I really needed this
@mardhiahrosnizam
@mardhiahrosnizam 11 месяцев назад
Why are people on the internet more understanding and kind than in real life..
@theclumsycatanimation8347
@theclumsycatanimation8347 Год назад
"Drawn out in Sharpie where I take the scissors If that's what it took for me to look in the mirror I've done every diet to make me look thinner So why do I still feel so goddamn inferior? Can't be too loud And can't be too busy If I don't answer now, are they still gonna need me? Can't be too proud and Can't think I'm pretty Do they keep me around, so their flaws just seem silly?" I could scream this to so many people.
@lemonxsquarez
@lemonxsquarez 2 года назад
Im 5"2 180lbs and 15 Im not "healthy" I've been told by my doctor that I'm fat and I'm not doing enough I have heart issues and my lungs are slightly small Exercise is hard I have a slow metabolism But my bffs Guy - He May be short but he's really skinny bc of chemo and constantly asks me if he's fat Gal- She has a gluten allergy but she's a dancer and has been in theater all her life Nb- has a binder, is small (height and weight) I live in a pretty rich town and everyone around me is rich and skinny Im in sm pain bc Im questioning my gender and my body image issues don't help I just wanna lose 40-70lbs maybe then I wouldn't stay up late venting on songs on yt after staying up the night before I wish I was born into that one family where they have a pretty mom who is happy and a dad who plays football with his kids and a pretty house with two kids and a pet and they all are skinny no matter what they eat and their drama is things like "omg who's hosting Christmas this year?" Instead of "She's an awful person who loves the attention on her" (my grandma..) Ughhhhhhh i HATE summer.....
@livelaughabby
@livelaughabby 2 года назад
I know this will probably mean very little to you, but you're so insanely strong and beautiful/handsome. You matter, and although I can't convince you that you are worth way more than you look, it's a fact. Your doctor is obviously a dick (hope that doesn't seem harsh), if they say you need to "loose weight", yet call you such a discriminating term that's "fat", isn't going to do anything for you. And I may look how I wanted to look, and believe that Me, myself, is beautiful and worthy, I would love to encourage you to feel the same. Look at your heart problems as a mark, of how strong you are, and your lungs, saying you're such a loveable and small person deserving of love. Then, when things get better you'll think back and see all the things that make you, you. Things will get better, I know it. And I'm not going to sugarcoat your issues into something cute or a good thing to have, and I'm not going to promise things WILL get better. But as long as you're trying your best, you are so important. And I know depression and body image issues are so hard to deal with, and make it seem like you don't belong or fit in the puzzle set (the world), but your puzzle piece (body) is unique. It's the type of puzzle piece that has to be squeezed ever so lightly into the set, to fit. In other words, be good to yourself, treat yourself with respect, not ignorance and hatred. Our brains are so easily convinced by 1-3 phrases that we are nothing, worthless. But you are 15!! You have a whole life Infront of you to change, and be a better you. And although I'm way younger than you are, I would love to insure you that there's a place for everyone, in a little baggy kept in the universe (AKA, categories). Some people are rich and thin, some people are rich and bigger, some people are poor and thin, some people are poor and bigger, but some people..happen to be middle class, and vise versa. The people you call your "friends", aren't really your friends. If they can clearly see that you are a bit larger than they am, and are perfectly skinny, they are definitely NOT your friends. They are two faced selfish people, purposely trying to mess with your head, making you think what's fat and what's not. Like your absolutely abnormal and they're what what fat really looks like, and it's ridiculous. But that's all I have for you, I encourage you with whatever you have planned for the future, and whatever you decide your gender and sexuality is. I may be young (we're looking between 11 and 13 lol), but I would tell you a million times how much you mean to this world, my love
@lemonxsquarez
@lemonxsquarez 2 года назад
Holy shit I was manic Anyways my gym class is really fun this year and it's pretty easy for now drama has gotten better Trying to fix my relationship with food and I have covid and my period rn but I get to see my friends (not as often as I would like but still frequent enough) It's going good this year although I don't like a couple of my teachers I think it'll be an okay year (Future me might laugh at this but oh well)
@livelaughabby
@livelaughabby 2 года назад
@@lemonxsquarez ahh dont be sorry ! I just felt so so bad that you were so disappointed with yourself so I wanted to say that😭😭 But im so glad you're getting better with everything, best recovery
@user-xp9in7qd5l
@user-xp9in7qd5l 2 года назад
irl among us
@livelaughabby
@livelaughabby Год назад
@@deihdenierodriguez6323 girllll 😭
@Korikalakuma
@Korikalakuma Год назад
Even though I'm not on the "bigger" side, I still relate to this song so much. I struggle with so much but most people just think I'm overreacting. I nearly cried when I first heard this song, it just hurts to be reminded on all the flaws you have in your life.
@ChrissyWakeUp.
@ChrissyWakeUp. 4 месяца назад
Exactly how I feel I’m skinny but this is exactly how I feel. I’m gonna be 13 in just 4 months
@atseptic
@atseptic 15 часов назад
I completely agree with this comment. Even without being on the 'bigger' side, you can still feel like you're not enough just being yourself. Also, fellow Muichiro fan :)
@Rizonnie
@Rizonnie 2 года назад
it really hits when it says "it's funny when I think a guy likes me."
@ChrissyWakeUp.
@ChrissyWakeUp. 4 месяца назад
Fr tho
@mเlKea
@mเlKea 2 года назад
This hurts as a person who‘s been overweight her whole live.
@shineeloverr
@shineeloverr 2 года назад
oh no my ed’s getting worse
@kylie-jaidekriel2524
@kylie-jaidekriel2524 2 года назад
you've got this. okay.❤
@gigiimler0866
@gigiimler0866 2 года назад
ong
@emilysvids1234
@emilysvids1234 2 года назад
its alr u can ge t thru it i was struggling a few months ago and im slowly getting better ❤❤
@justanotherrandomperson180
@justanotherrandomperson180 2 года назад
hey as long as ur keeping urself healthy (both physically and mentally) it doesn't matter how big or small you are
@laurastott4654
@laurastott4654 2 года назад
You've got this keep going x
@userniugolwq4663
@userniugolwq4663 2 года назад
1:40 hits me the most
@ChrissyWakeUp.
@ChrissyWakeUp. 4 месяца назад
Same
@iluvheartz5129
@iluvheartz5129 2 года назад
It hurts that am just 12 and relating to this song and the worst is my mon doesn't know cz she wouldn't even understand the way I feel.
@omgitsdiamond
@omgitsdiamond 2 года назад
sameee
@madi_sturniolo12
@madi_sturniolo12 2 года назад
Me too. I am 12 and every time I try to open up to anyone (parents, siblings, friends, even teachers) they just say I am overreacting I hope you are okay xx 🫶🏼🫶🏼
@masontopaz
@masontopaz 2 года назад
Omg I wish I was 12 again so I could tell myself to not develop eating problems. Please don't try to lose weight in an unhealthy way. You are perfect just the way you are and anyone who says otherwise can go fu[k themselves. I love you and stay safe
@strawberriesyumyum
@strawberriesyumyum 2 года назад
Same.. I told my mom Abt my insecurities and she said that I shouldn't be insecure cuz I was still young, meanwhile she's the reason why I'm insecure and she thinks it's easy to get rid of it.
@Idontlikeu705
@Idontlikeu705 2 года назад
Literally same
@prettyslxt_
@prettyslxt_ Год назад
I'm not fat, just a bit chubby, but i feel so fucking inferior. my friends are all skinny and beautiful, flat stomachs and small thighs. even those girls that I don't know, whenever i go out with my parents, i see all those beautiful girls wearing short things. and then, whenever i dare to say 'i think that's a bit short' my mom snaps at me and says 'if you lost weight, you could wear them, too'. she makes me feel so useless. she tells me I'm fat, and everyone will make fun of me. lately I've fallen in depression, but all that she has to say about it it's 'this is only attention seeking'. last time we went shopping, i cried in the fucking changing room. she bought me a size that she knew was small for me, and she told me i was too fat. i wish i could be like the other girls. school is gonna start soon, and I'm so fucking stressed. people say really bad things about me only because of how i look and because of fake rumors. i don't feel good at school nor at home. i just want to be pretty, skinny and have friends. that's all i ask for. one of my 'friends' often tells me that i should kill myself, no one would care. i know that's true. i won't kill myself, but i just want someone to love me, i want to feel better with myself. but no, i feel fucking useless, ugly and dumb
@serenarchive
@serenarchive Год назад
I've never understood why being a little bit larger than someone is something to bully. Why does someone's complexion affect some people so much? Most people don't have control over it, they were born that way. We are ALL people... This world is just cruel. Why can't people just normalize normal things? To all my beautiful chubby people, your size doesn't define YOU. Dress how you want, eat what you want, do what YOU want. I know it's hard sometimes but belive in yourself, use that confidence. I know you have it in you. Don't take criticism from someone you wouldn't take advice from. I love you all ‼️ ❤
@noelyaeyango3609
@noelyaeyango3609 2 года назад
I’m not plus sized and if anything I’m too skinny, underweight. I still relate to this bc there are countless times where people have made me feel bad for being skinny. They say I have the dream body and have no right to be insecure but they don’t understand that being too skinny is also an insecurity and that there might be reasons
@NandikaBishwakarma
@NandikaBishwakarma Год назад
yh i get this alot too ppl call me sick bc i cant gain alot of weight . i may be theit "perfect body" but im not mine yk
@Elsa.Sntres
@Elsa.Sntres Год назад
The line "do they keep me around just so their flaws just seem pretty?" Cuts so deep
@nataliestaggs9838
@nataliestaggs9838 Год назад
Y’all are beautiful just the way y’all are and y’all don’t need to change who y’all are
@lolz1296
@lolz1296 Год назад
i don't consider myself fat, im actually pretty skinny, but i relate to this by not being good enough for my friends and everyone thinking im annoying and ugly and whtv. ive gone thru many of these emotions many times and its just- its hard.
@slunexpectedgirl962
@slunexpectedgirl962 Год назад
I hope you get better, and I bet you ain't ugly nor annoying
@Unknown-hu8kx
@Unknown-hu8kx Год назад
I’m not even fat I’m actually really underweight but this song makes me cry every time I listen to it
@lenabella4622
@lenabella4622 Год назад
Same
@Liarr-gf3xj
@Liarr-gf3xj Год назад
same
@lunargourd4062
@lunargourd4062 Год назад
This is so relatable and honestly as a bigger girl with skinny friends it fucking kills to listen to them tell me how they are "fat" all while I'm genuinely fat wishing I had their size body I just can't handle much more honestly
@Amourrneraa
@Amourrneraa Год назад
“I have to be nice so I won’t be the next punch line” this really is relatable I was always scared to laugh when one of my friends make a joke about someone because I’m afraid the Orion they were laughing at will notice that I’m laughing as well and try to change the topic and focus their jokes on me .
@claireknicely9558
@claireknicely9558 2 года назад
I relate to this song so much. I have always been overweight enough for people to say things and not feeling confident stops me from having fun. My best friend is always with me and i give them piggy back rides and they would say its my turn but i felt bad about myself and never did it and i think they know i struggle with foood because when i was first starting to eat a lot less they would make me finish my lunch (in a loving way not mean) but i dont feel like i can talk to anyone because they wouldnt understand and i check my weight everday and almost cry because it itnt changing like i wamt it to and i hate pictures that are of my whole body and it feels like im not getting nywhere. im sorry for venting but if your still reading thank you for listening.
@jasm1n33xx
@jasm1n33xx 2 года назад
you better keep that best friend. they are fr. you are perfect, dont say that shit about yourself
@carinawithac
@carinawithac Год назад
i feel the same it’s exhausting. i’m not even 13 and i’m thinking of routes i can take to go to the gym after school once i’m in highschool. calorie deficit hasn’t helped a bit. i’m always tired and can’t look at myself without wanting to cry. you’re not alone and if there’s anything else u wanna say you can 🙂
@kurestinaa.5046
@kurestinaa.5046 Год назад
Better keep that best friend of yours coz they're a keeper. Lost mine coz of some misunderstanding that was never resolved so 🙂💔 anws, she was the only one who understood my weight problems without mocking me for it and i was glad to have her in my life... But it seems like our relationship is nothing but in ruins now and I'm heartbroken by it. Life is kinda hard rn coz she's not there for me anymore. But I'm still getting by 🙂
@tesarqct5946
@tesarqct5946 Год назад
I never thought I would relate to a song, especially one like this, but ever since this song was released omg, I've never related to one more.
@erzawaythner7801
@erzawaythner7801 Год назад
I'm not considered as "fat" but I relate to the scissors part because of self harm. I stopped hiding my scars this summer, but it took me four years and still struggling.
@EpicFail199912592
@EpicFail199912592 9 месяцев назад
"Do they keep me around so their flaws just seem silly" 💔 that line feels like a knife piercing my heart
@jade_murn
@jade_murn Год назад
i’m not fat. everyone always says i have a nice body but try saying that when ur a dancer. being compared to all my skinny friends hurts. i’ve always been told my legs are to muscular for a girl or my thighs are too fat and i’m sick of it. ballet hurts the most. the stereotype is basically a skinny twig. sometimes i feel like i’m just the outkast. it’s so sad how this is seriously the stereotype and other people feel this way too 🫶🏼
@msarmono
@msarmono Год назад
Ahhh!! Literally the same thing with my legs!! I'm a runner, I enjoy sport but my thighs are also both toned an muscular, as well as my calves and shins. I have been through the same feelings, but I personally think we're both stunning. It's horrible the things people say to bring others down, and I hope you and your dancing is well!! MUCH LOVE, TAKE CARE.
@jade_murn
@jade_murn Год назад
@@msarmono thank u so much! u too 💓
@msarmono
@msarmono Год назад
@@jade_murn
@EliMWAH122
@EliMWAH122 Год назад
Ive never been able to relate to something as much as this
@TheyLuvAzzy
@TheyLuvAzzy 4 месяца назад
It hits different when ur family is laughing abt ur Weight when ur just upstairs listening to everything.
@keristubbs
@keristubbs 2 месяца назад
Everyone in my family jokes about my weight in front of or directly too me thinking it means nothing, not knowing I take that to heart
@Starrrr13
@Starrrr13 Год назад
It's really hurt... I have 12 years old and I weigh 145 pounds ... I don't know about you but when I confide in myself, everyone tells me "yes, but you are abusing, you are making yourself a victim". Nobody understands me, not even my mother They all say I want attention and sometimes I wonder if I would die will it hurt? Plus I have skinny friends with perfect bodies and it makes me nervous that I'm there girl " who nobody would like to go out with her" This world prevents me from living ....
@Spotyhxs.
@Spotyhxs. Год назад
1:00 rly gets me everytime with headphones❤
@renn_lovescats
@renn_lovescats 2 года назад
The fact that this vid got 8.8k views and 339 likes in 2 weeks is just sad =( are y’all ok? ❤️ Update: this vid has gotten 449K in 6 months, hope you all are doing alright and I hope that whatever your going through gets better
@spill-the-tea-sis
@spill-the-tea-sis Год назад
The whole second verse makes me cry, it just lets me listen to my entire mindset to myself. I hate that I relate to this song, and I hate that i cry every time I hear it, but I’m kinda happy that there’s a song everyone can relate to on their bad days.
@hearts4_hannah
@hearts4_hannah Год назад
I don’t feel like doing this anymore I don’t think it’s worth it. I’ve tried so hard to continue and I’ve told all my friends “you have to keep going” but I keep lying to them and I don’t want to do it anymore i try telling them about my pain but they just change the subject and I have no one to talk to about it and it hurts to live like this
@lijaturk3370
@lijaturk3370 2 года назад
The most relating song ever.
@Ella_12228
@Ella_12228 Год назад
Young kids/teens crying to this thinking how fucking relate able this song is 👇
@Sophia-mu1fk
@Sophia-mu1fk 3 месяца назад
It’s hard to understand what I’m feeling but I know that I feel that know one around me understands me
@lowkey.editor
@lowkey.editor Год назад
I grew up with people calling me fat and bullying me. My friends also called me fat and I always felt so insecure around them. Whenever i stand next to my friend, i feel like a giant. Whenever someone calls me pretty, it feels like a sarcastic comment or a joke, a brutal joke. Even my brother called me fat, although it feels jokingly but everytime I look in the mirror and see my body, I just wish to disappear, i hate my body so much, i always feel like hiding. Sometimes I ask myself 'Why?'. It hurts.
@urdad5844
@urdad5844 2 года назад
1:00 this hits too close to home
@Blossom7870
@Blossom7870 Год назад
“I’ve done ever diet too make me look thinner” hits hard 😢
@LUDWlGVONKOOPA
@LUDWlGVONKOOPA Год назад
This is .. scarily accurate to what I go through irl. I’ve always been overweight (for my height at least), almost at 200, and people would always look at me weird, like a tool. I have “friends” in my chorus who judge everyone no matter who they are. I get scared talking to other people because i don’t know what they’ll say and it scares me. But then they can do whatever they want and no one says anything, and I’m so sick of it. But I know I can’t do anything, because I’ll just be their next punching bag if I do or say anything, so I stay silent.
@ZoeTurcios2
@ZoeTurcios2 Год назад
i’m so so sry. you don’t deserve that at all. your so beautiful/handsome and your one hundred percent enough for me. remember that❤️
@CydneeGrime-vr3ng
@CydneeGrime-vr3ng Год назад
I want everyone to know in these comments it does not matter who you are fat skinny curvy you are beautiful there is no definition of beauty because you are your own definition of gorgeous
@peppapigswife2132
@peppapigswife2132 Год назад
" I say I'm okay cause they wouldn't care anyway "
@EMJ2009
@EMJ2009 3 месяца назад
#relatable
@Evie-b6g
@Evie-b6g 3 дня назад
😕
@hi-jj5pc
@hi-jj5pc Год назад
You don’t have to be fat to relate to this song, word work in all different sorts of ways
@bridgitsweeney5425
@bridgitsweeney5425 2 года назад
1:00 😭😭😩
@_Narii_
@_Narii_ 9 месяцев назад
This is just a reminder that your body does not determine whether your ugly or pretty all bodies are beautiful Just remember.. Your skin is not paper dont cut it If your ever struggling just remember there are people that love you for you ❤
@whoissuzy1329
@whoissuzy1329 Год назад
"it's funny when i think a guy like me" true :)
@Starrrr13
@Starrrr13 Год назад
I completely Understand ...
@Dabaddie606
@Dabaddie606 Год назад
I get super self conscious when I gain even a little bit of weight. Sometimes I stop eating and work out a lot. It comes in waves. Call me crazy but every since I was a little little kid I’ve always loved dogs. The thing I learned from my dogs is that they don’t care what happens in the past or in the future, as they care about is the present. So to everybody out there: Eat Sleep Hydrate And do things that make you happy.
@AllKindOfStuff123
@AllKindOfStuff123 11 месяцев назад
i relate to this song, because i have always been the "bigger friend" even though i am not fat, i started self cutting a few days ago, and i don't know what to do anymore:(
@madisonwilbanks9678
@madisonwilbanks9678 Год назад
So relatable i am the "funny friend" and the "fat friend" compared to the rest
@Mrs_RickSanchez
@Mrs_RickSanchez 8 месяцев назад
The amount of kids/teens commenting on here is actually awful, I am so sorry you are all dealing with this and you are beautiful, loved and do not need to be skinny to feel that ❤
@eesaRahman-yw6zv
@eesaRahman-yw6zv Год назад
I started feeling this way since year 7. Started changing the way I looked,makeup,diets, exercise
@Tchudakkkkkkkk
@Tchudakkkkkkkk Год назад
This song have a special place in my heart
@ahlaijahlay_
@ahlaijahlay_ 2 года назад
This song actually hurts. Too relatable
@plumederosee7060
@plumederosee7060 2 года назад
I listen to this everytime... :)
@Tea-No-Not-The-Drink
@Tea-No-Not-The-Drink 2 года назад
Honestly never feel good abt my weight. I know most of it is muscle from being a dancer but I’ve dropped the amount of calories I’ve eaten in a day. Lost 2 pounds in 6 weeks, I wasn’t happy I wanted more so after every meal I started throwing up my food or not eating at all…
@Random-ol6qu
@Random-ol6qu Год назад
I literally was about to choke myself but I stopped remembering this song♥️ilysm
@Sophia-kw9en
@Sophia-kw9en Год назад
I'm letting everybody know that this song can be for EVERYONE! This song is for everyone who struggles with body image and confidence.
@n0b0dy738
@n0b0dy738 Год назад
it hurts to think back i’m only 13 now but when i think back to when i was younger i was probably only maybe 6-7 i was comparing myself to my cousin bc he was so skinny and i felt so fat. which i am still struggling but i’m trying to love myself even with everything that’s going on.
@msarmono
@msarmono Год назад
I am so sorry love. I went through the opposite to you, so although I'm unable to relate to you, I could only imagine how you must feel. Growing up I was underweight due to a medical condition, and even now I struggle with body image. You're not alone, and I'm sure you're absolutely stunning. I couldn't imagine how it must feel to compare at such a young age like that, that's horrible. I hope you're doing well, I love you. You're loved, you're amazing. Thank you for sharing, I hope you find the love you deserve towards yourself. You're beautiful.
@justine3486
@justine3486 Год назад
i’m am absolutely fat like above 200 pounds, and i’ve always been bigger than the ‘average’ weight, so i got bullied a lot, and i would drop a person i like if my skinny friend likes them since i know i would never have a chance. plus i’m not attractive at all. i always feel like the comedic relief in my own life, like i’m a joke.
@graceOp10
@graceOp10 Год назад
I’m not “fat” but all of my friends including my twin have skinny legs, and a perfect body. I swim on a swim team so I’m constantly using a towel to cover myself when I’m not in the water. I’m always using makeup to cover up the cuts on my arms because people say I’m doing it for attention. I relate to this song so much. I’m the person who always is wearing jeans or sweatpants, nothing that fits me perfectly. I just want to feel like I belong for once in my life, but nobody understands. I try to talk about it with some of my skinny friends and they all say they get me but I know they don’t I can tell. Who else relates?
@mohammadahdab5247
@mohammadahdab5247 Год назад
I relate.
@ngombehailey8905
@ngombehailey8905 Год назад
"Can't be too busy if I don't answer now are they still gonna need me?" hits hard
@HXRRY_ES
@HXRRY_ES Год назад
I’ve never looked at myself weird. Everytime a girl said something I didn’t think anything of it bc girl can be jelly and stuff so I just didn’t pay attention to their comments. But when a boy looked me in my eyes and told me “you eat to much” “your fat!” I stoped eating for a couple days. My mom threatened to beat the kid up. I act like it doesn’t bother me but it still does… Thanks for letting me vent I’m so scared to tell anyone. ❤️
@lexipreston3908
@lexipreston3908 Год назад
the fact that i’m getting skinnier and skinnier but people still make me feel so fat
@msarmono
@msarmono Год назад
You're beautiful!! I don't know you or your looks but I know you're stunning. Don't let whatever they say bring you down, do what makes you happy rather than succumb to their awful comments. Stay safe and take care. :))
@lexipreston3908
@lexipreston3908 Год назад
@@msarmono thank you so much 🥹
@msarmono
@msarmono Год назад
@@lexipreston3908 you're so welcome, I hope you're doing well ^^
@allynavarney8513
@allynavarney8513 2 года назад
I relate to this more than others know but im not fat but i do wanna look like everyone else.
@Blue_Jellyfish736
@Blue_Jellyfish736 Год назад
It’s honestly terrifying how much this song relates to me ☺️😌🙂😐😕🙁☹️😣😖😫😩🥺😢😭
@niagametimeshorts7075
@niagametimeshorts7075 Год назад
Real tip ✨ instead of picking out your imperfections saying “omg I wish I didn’t have freckles” (this is just an example by the way freckles are to gorgeous) But point out your perfections for example say “I LOVE my gorgeous hair)
@cloudi_bliss
@cloudi_bliss 4 месяца назад
“Drawn out in sharpie where i take the scissors”
@nourmansour5563
@nourmansour5563 2 года назад
this song hits so hard even though im not overweight anymore, it hits even deeper if ur average looking:/
@isabelamadrigal2097
@isabelamadrigal2097 Год назад
0:59 💔
@justanotherrandomperson180
@justanotherrandomperson180 2 года назад
I don't really relate to this song but the lyrics still hit hard man💔
@leilafaye880
@leilafaye880 2 года назад
never related to a song sm
@bridgitsweeney5425
@bridgitsweeney5425 2 года назад
Same!!
@KodaaLuvsU
@KodaaLuvsU 11 месяцев назад
Someone tell me why im almost 13 but this is my life?
@bkgcmh
@bkgcmh 2 месяца назад
I am so sorry I also relate to this song as well and I am also 13 but we just need to push through life for those we love!❤️
@teenthor
@teenthor 2 года назад
In this song I can see my best friend, I can see how much he struggles, I know he thinks I can't see it. My friend has stopped eating, I saw him, he has lost so much weight that sometimes I don't see my friend from a few weeks/months back. He is still the funny friend but now the skinnier funny friend, and that's not the person I wanted him to be, he does this for himself to feel better, but it is not what the rest of us wish for him
@bayepardy8141
@bayepardy8141 Год назад
this song hits hard. it hurts when you relate to this song.
@Rain-bu3sj
@Rain-bu3sj Год назад
I'm ready to be friends with anyone here for this... Trust me, I got it.
@georgetteharriott8855
@georgetteharriott8855 Год назад
nah this just hit hard different
@katieblossom3097
@katieblossom3097 2 года назад
“if i don’t answer now are they still gonna need me?”
@leahsarus6008
@leahsarus6008 11 месяцев назад
I’m only 12 and this song relates to me so much!!
@Raine_without_the_v
@Raine_without_the_v Год назад
0:58 hits me the hardest
@amber3037
@amber3037 Год назад
God the words really get to you
@marwamarmar9621
@marwamarmar9621 Год назад
This song is so relatable It hurts and its sad
@tvdalwaysandforever836
@tvdalwaysandforever836 Год назад
having an ed can be the hardest thing u could ever experience. i lost 9kgs during summer (unhealthy weight loss) but i still feel fat and dont see any change
@AleenaKhan-wt2th
@AleenaKhan-wt2th 8 месяцев назад
Hyy I wanna say something it's ok how uh look ur perfect the way u are and I know that u are thinking that the people around uh don't think the same way but uh don't have to think about then ur perfect❤
@mbleahh
@mbleahh Год назад
Feels like I’m not even the main character of my own story
@anyxnyr
@anyxnyr Год назад
i grew up being fat and i can relate to this so f much
@wqnd3rl6st
@wqnd3rl6st Год назад
this is so true for me. like im not "fat" but im bigger than all my friends. i just feel so insecure and all my friends are so skinny and they just have everything i want. most days i just want to lie in bed and cry. this song just hurts.
@sunyana8905
@sunyana8905 Год назад
I used to relate to this song a lot... But not anymore bcz I decided not relate to this and write my own hollywood movie. And I must say guys it's really fun... U are just everything from director to main lead..🤭🤭
@fernandaferrini4700
@fernandaferrini4700 Год назад
I am not plus size but I relate to this so hard as I am extremely insecure about my image all I want is to be as skinny as my other friends who don’t have any acne and have perfect bodies.
@z_a0420
@z_a0420 Год назад
A 12 year old: i hate myself and my body my mom always make me hate it more *you Are so skinny eat more or youll be Ugly* and others always talks about my body because im skinny im trying my best to eat and my life is full of drama But ill try to do my best But im giving up soon..
@masontopaz
@masontopaz 2 года назад
Listening to this song while crying on the bathroom floor
@mya.paige17
@mya.paige17 2 года назад
the fact i can relate to this song so much
@vandasalajkova1025
@vandasalajkova1025 2 года назад
Omg I love this song 😻 you are beautiful
@somar7312
@somar7312 Год назад
I relate so much :(
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