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@gracekabucho Год назад

Sudan is an Islamic state, which is why the dating period is also considered courting.

@fatmahnakazibwe5151 Год назад

@Rock_ Lee its not a must, its an option and strictly for those who can afford to take good care of those families he made, there are conditions in islam under which a man is allowed to marry more than one, though most polygamous men dont look at that, they just use it to please them selves. Not all muslim men have more than one wife

@tundebakare6887 Год назад

In Nigeria, It becomes a very serious issue to get pregnant before marriage

@okpegodson1675 Год назад

It's a disgrace to the family of the lady

@valleynle5812 Год назад

I think the dating culture of asking of dates is mainly for North America

@TheDemouchetsREACT Год назад

So, no arrangements or “pick me up t this time”?😂

@chimakalu41 Год назад

@@TheDemouchetsREACT In nigeria we still ask the woman out on dates. The men still ask. It is not always a group thing. Actually usually it is not.

@sylviasworld9397 Год назад

Not true. Not sure which country you are from though, maybe where you are from there is no dating. Not sure how you get to marriage, then. I like aspects of the Sudan dating culture too of not going out on a date completely alone.

@bolu101 11 месяцев назад

@@chimakalu41 True but there are guys that always tell the woman to come to their house.

@malcolmmunyaza Год назад

In Namibia 🇳🇦 we pay dowry as well. Paying the dowry is the traditional wedding.

@amadinho7546 Год назад

Muslims are allow to marry only four wives if he is capable of taking care of them both financially and emotionally, if he can not then marry only one, so there is a condition to marring multiple wives.

@abster4709 Год назад

Isn't it up to 7 wives?

@amadinho7546 Год назад

@@abster4709 no four

@beverleybarends57 Год назад

7 wives

@magaraffchannel7840 Год назад

pls react to any of trevor noah videos

@azolamlotywa929 Год назад

Please react to Lloyiso - if I die young 🥺🔥

@adesete1 Год назад

Speaking from a Nigerian perspective, in the 21st century, when dating you're free to do whatever suits you...ask the girl out, go on dates, have sex before marriage, total freedom. The answers the guy was giving is what the society expects of you but no one is really forcing or judging you if you choose to do things your own way as long as you act responsibly. Having multiple wives is acceptable traditionally but it now depends on wether your religions allows it or not. If you're Muslim, you're allowed. if you're a Christian, you're not expected to have more than one wife. Even if you're a Muslim and you did court wedding with your wife, you're not expected to anyone else, if you do, she can make you have serious legal issues.

@Jen-Inspired Год назад

Thank you! It's like James is trying to live up to the stereotypes and nonsense expectations. Embarrassing Nigeria on an international stage😂

@mbusomdhladhla2225 Год назад

I'm Zulu. I just wish the indian lady would have spoken of her culture and stop misrepresantation of other people's culture and customs

@EquaxionX Год назад

I;m Zulu and married to an Indian woman...so, I understand what you mean.

@mbusomdhladhla2225 Год назад

@@EquaxionX Mfo kaMsomi I meant no disrespect to any Zulu man married to an Indian lady or the lady herself, but she could have elaborated further and precise the process as to why it's necessary to go through that process and in this case the context was amiss

@lizlovesafrobeats Год назад

She's still South african and grew up all her life there so she's allowed to speak on the cultures of her country

@mbusomdhladhla2225 Год назад

@@lizlovesafrobeats key word from my point was"I JUST WISH"

@afrounite Год назад

In Nigeria people prefer going on a one on one date , cause guys are expected to buy the lady whatever she wants to eat or drink if she brings her friends the bills will be on the guy to pay for everything , besides that you might be at risk of losing your date to a friend you bring along 🤭

@raymondsnow5252 Год назад

South Africa is so diverse and I feel like the lady didn't represent us well. She tried but if she spoke from her cultural side which I assume is Hindu she would have shared more

@TheDemouchetsREACT Год назад

We wonder why. It would have been interesting to learn about their culture.

@MatNch Год назад

Yep. 1st question nje, lol for most of us s*x before marriage is not taboo and hasn't been for a very long time.

@nhlakahkhumalo8618 Год назад

@@MatNch then she was diverse in her answers cos she answered that question according to her culture. And others according to other cultures in SA as you know we're diverse with many different cultures she couldn't have possibly answered for every culture. She said nothing wrong she just went forward if its true for SA and made an example with one of many cultures in SA as proof in the little time she had, maybe if she had hours maybe she could've maybe gave more comprehensive answers.

@nhlakahkhumalo8618 Год назад

If she spoke more from her cultures side She would have been representing her cultures side Hindu not SA and I believe those questions were for countries not cultures. And I doubt Hindus do lobola and polygamy too so on those question according to her culture she would've had to stay back and not move forward. Then whoever is watching would think in SA there's no lobola or polygamy, kanti she wasn't representing SA but her culture. I think She did her best in representing our diverse country SA not Hindu!

@m77ast Год назад

That Nigerian guy is probably speaking from his own / igbo culture perspective. I’m Nigerian Christian and I am thinking what is a He talking about. 😀🤷🏿‍♂️

@yoelle16 Год назад

Fr!!😭

@dinmadionne7544 10 месяцев назад

Y’all always find a way to bring tribe into this😒which one is “Igbo culture perspective” like there aren’t Igbo Christians just talk about his perspective

@neomontja71 Год назад

In South Africa we are so diverse and dating differs according to our cultures. The sex before marriage is not really a taboo in my culture. You just have to grow up a bit then you are allowed to do it but our parents wish that we can get married before we have kids. However, when you get to my age they may pressurize you to have a child even though you are not married. Here sex before marriage is an issue of faith. Polygamy is very common in our country but in my own culture it's no longer practiced , only the royal families still practise it. It's a taboo for a girl to ask a guy out but nowadays people just do it. When it comes to lobola if a girl is a virgin or doesn't have a child and she is educated they may charge more for lobola.

@dslight113 Год назад

i don't know where it was from but someone said this about polygamy . if a man has 10 wife's he knows that he is the father. if a women has 10 husbands, she doesn't know who the father is.

@Jen-Inspired Год назад

I'm Nigerian. What James said about making a lady you're dating believe that you have to marry her makes so much sense now. It's annoying as hell...suddenly the term "Yoruba demon" makes so much sense. Nearly everything James said is triggering! 😂

@TheDemouchetsREACT Год назад

😂😂

@SallieAndrea Год назад

Sudan is a Muslim majority country. Dating I think is haram

@dubemellit2932 Год назад

There are no prostitutes there? No mistresses or infidelity among married men ?

@mushroomsavvy Год назад

@@dubemellit2932 underground yes. You can't even sleep with a woman in a hotel if you are not able to verify that she is your wife.

@chikaodiemyiaka1804 Год назад

The nigeria brother is going offff

@sv6g3sa64 10 месяцев назад

Because SA is so diverse I wish we as South Africans would refrain from participating in these types of surveys and debates where only 1 South African is expected to represent all our peoples. Like it or not, any question posed will usually result in multiple answers and perspectives. With ❤ from SA

@1HourOf. Год назад

Hey fun fact, so I live in Durban and all the Indian girls(3 girls) I know are dating Black guys and the Indian guys(2 guys) are dating Black girls! 😄🔥 got reminded of this just since the South African is Indian

@TheDemouchetsREACT Год назад

Hmm we’ve only heard of the Indians when we were shown Ghandi’s house and the food tour. South Africa’s diversity is refreshing. We’d love to hear live stories between the two.

@liki0844 Год назад

The Rwanda girl is not really into the culture. She has western style brain.

@muv_cass145 7 месяцев назад

She is right tho. That's a dating life in Rwanda

@mushroomsavvy Год назад

The Indian lady is talking about black South Africa instead of Indian culture.

@colourafricanpride Год назад

I am so scared she is saying it right or not 😂😭 she tried.

@beverleybarends57 Год назад

I am going to look for a Nigerian husband😂😂😂😂 my ex husband did not provide for me and the kids! So i need some spoiling

@alaromukhtar2127 Год назад

The dowry is like a thank you for trusting me to take care of your daughter, imma treat her like a Queen type beat. A drowsy is buying but appreciation

@bonganibophela2819 Год назад

Supposed to, but its money-making practice now. The expectation on men remained the same but women are bringing less to the relationship.

@chimakalu41 Год назад

21:08 That's true as a Nigeria man i can attest to that. We are expected to take care of our wives And the woman we date.

@idorenyinmboho5104 4 месяца назад

I had a roommate back in university, his father had 4 wives and they are stayed in different countries. All Nigerian, his mum stayed in Dublin and his other mums stayed in Dubai, Australia, spain and USA. Bro could visit any of them and He is Fulani. The dad has mad money

@SydneyRSA Год назад

The Indian south african lady doesn't speak for us please yoh

@beverleybarends57 Год назад

In south africa among the ' blacks'' its the norm.for men to have arural wife and an urban wife .

@queeneze Год назад

😂😂😂 this is wild

@hahmadhabibu2076 Год назад

Am actually from rwanda 🇷🇼 😊

@Evelynokwa 5 месяцев назад

In sudan the reason of not dating is following Islamic laws so it's either arranged or if you like a gal you talk to your parents and parents will talk and get you married if she accepts Am from uganda but being Moslem i think that's how it goes in their country

@Sedonia829 Год назад

I am Sudanese engagement is dating. We get engaged first then we get to know each other

@TheDemouchetsREACT Год назад

What generally happens if you end up not liking the person?

@davidscott3726 Год назад

South Africa would Encompass all those countries. Can you do ',Spotify tour Jamaica.

@celiapinedo3792 7 месяцев назад

I don't know what to think,we all know waiting for marriage is thought to be ideal but we all know that's not reality, many people think it's great to be hooking up with many partners but when it's time to marry trust that men don't want a wife that's hooked up with many

@Pyxe_ZA Год назад

No disrespect to the lady representing South Africa, but we have too many cultures, for one person to give a definite answer to most of the questions that were asked.

@malcolmmunyaza Год назад

What was the weather like the day that those people in the video shot their episode?

@lady23ish Год назад

polygamy for women mmmhh i have one husband i cant even handle him let alone many of them im just thinking of my vahuha no thank you. i guess men can do everyday and they fine

@agb3762 Год назад

The husband in a polygamous marriage takes absolute responsibility of taking care of all the wives & children. ABSOLUTE RESPONSIBILITY. How then is it 'double standard' when the man provides ALL the wives & kids need but the woman provides absolutely nothing (not even for herself) & yet wants to be able to have other men? Polygamy is not for everyone but those who practice it should understand how it works.

@dawoodwilliams3652 Год назад

Facts, also another thing to consider is men are largely territorial and conflict is inevitable in such a situation, and imagine if a woman in a polygamous relations get pregnant, then she won't know who the father is, all the men will be cut off from having sex and she'll expect all the men to look after her. Polygamy as a concept only works with one man and multiple woman.

@cybomakh210 Год назад

.. The question is being flipped for men to say why are men the only gender 'allowed' to have as a many wives yet it is frowned upon when the roles are reserved. I think every woman in a polygamous marriage is not looking to have other husbands.

@vat81 Год назад

The indian speaks for herself

@kevingrant7098 Год назад

Please look into the UKs policy on forcibly sending asylum seekers, including children to Rwanda

@kevingrant7098 Год назад

Thank you for replying to me it means a lot knowing you read our messages

@jayo7812 Год назад

But Rwanda is an amazing country. Definitely better than the countries the asylum seekers are running from, so what's the issue? Have you seen Kigali - it's beautiful! And quite honestly the Rwandans in my view are the most hospitable and peaceful people in the whole African continent. It is also quite developed although limited to it's capital and major cities

@kevingrant7098 Год назад

@@jayo7812 sending unaccompanied children to a country, not of their choosing, and also the UK government are sending women that have been trafficked into prostitution to Rwanda against their wishes

@jayo7812 Год назад

@@kevingrant7098 I've not heard a single case of unaccompanied children being sent to Rwanda. This is new. Could you please send a credible source? I was in Kigali recently and there were a number of Ukraine refugees and they are well settled and were even taking part in the president's green run which is a marathon for the environment that's done every month to promote sustainability. Saw them walking around too undisturbed. There were also a number of Afghan refugees - they seemed well adjusted too. Even saw some of them just chilling at restaurants. Also, haven't heard a single case of prostitution. Could you send a credible link/source for this as well kindly? Rwanda is not known for this and has pretty strict govt laws - Kagame is pretty strict. Also, as I understand the ones who've gone to Rwanda so far have gone willingly as I don't think the country would accept people who won't even get on the plane and are unwilling.

@gracentefuni9128 Год назад

Even though we are modernised i think every tribe in africa have their own way of dating for example my tribe konkombas from northern ghana is very very different the guy pays money and some stuffs for dating only and and marriage too has it own prde price to be paid so it differ from tribe to tribe

@1HourOf. Год назад

@20:02 Sierra I've mentioned this one before, it's more fun to date the Indian coz you don't gotta pay Lobola😅😅

@jeswazwadi7049 Год назад

but shes SA so you'll still pay haha,jokes on u

@EquaxionX Год назад

The "Sudanese" guy is not Sudanese....He's actually Palestinian!

@dslight113 Год назад

even though they say , its not being bought . its in my mind definitely being bought , the marriage is between u and her , not between u and there family . why would they need 2 get anything for the sake of a marriage that is not about them. he and his future wife can use that cow themselves , so if anything you should get a cow from both there family's instead of one family giving it 2 the other . which 2 me definitely seems like a transaction.

@oarabiletshwagong1736 Год назад

A couple of years back South Africa passed legislation that allowed women to have more than one husband just like how men can have more than one wife

@Svig Год назад

From a South African, please listen to If i die young lyrics from Loyiso.

@lydiakatisi6316 Год назад

Dowry is appreciation to the girls parents for rising an amazing lady, who will bore you children, cook ,and care for you and make your house a home

@alaromukhtar2127 Год назад

A point is Africa as a whole have conservative culture but that’s changing since the turn of the 20th century

@azolamlotywa929 Год назад

Please react to Lloyiso - if I die young . You won't regret 🥺🫂

@christinemoyia1814 Год назад

Its culture, the dowery thing!!!

@koimucai Год назад

The Rwandan girl sounds Kenyan (accent)

@lofulsorro2841 Год назад

Sudan have many cultures within

@Anastazka00 Год назад

Oh my god, this video has now more views then the original :D

@FashodaKing Год назад

In Sudan, dating is very illegal. You have the girl beside you when you are married, and there are many ways you can find a wife in Sudan. You go to the father's house to ask for a hand in marriage. Both Sudan 🇸🇩 and South Sudan 🇸🇸 are religious countries, but the south are majority Christians, but they practise Islamic cultures, so you won't be surprised

@Evelynokwa 5 месяцев назад

So you use Islamic laws

@azolamlotywa929 Год назад

React to Lloyiso - seasons

@ChibuzorSaintmykel Год назад

Lol love yall

@asandahlayo5501 Год назад

We meet people through our cultures sometimes u can choice but if u are like a princess like me I can can choose our second wife

@asandahlayo5501 Год назад

I need 3

@beverleybarends57 Год назад

In the xhosa community my friends say they hve bfs multiple...1 for r3nt 1 for cellph0ne 1 for clothes etc.. so dating in SA is complex

@TheDemouchetsREACT Год назад

We can’t keep up😅

@hyacinthdibley2420 Год назад

@@TheDemouchetsREACT This sounds like some Nigerians too. One bf for something different. lol (for School- cos he's smart; for Rent and upkeep; and the serious guy they intent to marriage). lol

@neomontja71 Год назад

@Beverley Barends I also heard of that, they apparently called them the minister of financw, minister of transportation, housing because men must provide all these for them but Xhosa's that are in my circle deny this, they say it's a stereo type.

@beverleybarends57 Год назад

My own Xhosa friends admitted to this

@teddykriss7517 Год назад

does this notion of a lady having many men even a question really. The Rwanda rep is just so millennial. There is a reason why even a lioness can only have one Lion at a time. The Lion on the other end can have as many lionesses as he wants. Women are built to only love one man at a time. It's God's work. Saying the rule should apply to both is just wrong. I support equality and equity for all women but the line has to be drawn at some point. Ask her if she can have ten men or have kids with ten men and maintain her dignity in African society?

@lizawalker2345 Год назад

3:31 could have done better with South African representation…given that they chose a South African who belongs to one of the South African tribes y’all could have got a better insight …