Story 2: Girlie, shouldn’t your family be your priority? I get they were being a tiny bit petty (Sister saying she would look homophobic if she didn’t come) but your husband CAN fully control it. Even if he can’t, he doesn’t have to announce it. He can just ask to use the bathroom and change. Smh, that is not a nice thing to have.
Girl if he is believing his girl best friend over you that's not going to be a good relationship (also this is for the first story) if your man is going to move in with his best friend that's another red flag. Look I haven't been dating in a while but I do know when red flags show if he's believing her word over you then that's a red flag if he's moving in with her another red flag although he says that he sees her as a sister she doesn't see him as a brother of course she is trying to steal your man and even if you try he's going to pick her over you this is why you shouldn't let your guy have girls best friends because they're either a going to cheat on you with that girl best friend or they're going to leave you for that girl best friend I wish you the best of luck girl.
The story bout the brother in law, no. If he gets insecure about his facial hair then he should know that others would feel the same type of stuff. He started it and this might have been a bit petty but I totally get it. One should always watch what they say since that shit can haunt people for years.
Plus, age doesn’t have anything to do with this. A person older than me can also be a molester and a murder. Respect is earned and not asked for cus you lived longer. Ofc you take care of your elders but that’s part of ethics and beings a kind person and maybe giving back since they helped you when you were even younger. But again, in these cases it’s either out of goodness of heart or love not because of age.
the one with the brother in law with the leg hair, honestly she COULD (and should) have been worse to him, the fact that he insulted her for something completely natural then had a breakdown because he got mild insult is pretty funny. NTA op, keep it up
Second story....hun you CAN control it, this isn't a medical disorder that inhibits bladder control...it's a KINK. Plus announcing it is unecessary and gross, no wonder she wouldn't invite him, I wouldn't either. She needs to stop making excuses for him and he needs to stop the pity party. If he REALY thinks he can't help himself then ne needs professional help. Kinks aren't like tourettes or OCD, it's not a psychological compulsion that is painful not to perform.... I would know, I have OCD. He has NO excuse.
It actually Chyna is a medical condition I am a doctor I think I should know I'm not being mean I know but the surgery to get a bladder control machine it's actually really expensive
1 story- I wouldn’t break up with him just yet. Let’s face it, he’s probably too stupid to see the signs because he’s known this girl for forever. Especially if she’s acted like that a lot it’s easy to think it’s normal or push it aside because it happens so often. If he happens to move in, break up with him but I would still allow him to get back with you. By the sound of it, he really has no interest in her. He’s just oblivious. It’s not his fault lol
STORY 1: I get that you boyfriend wants to be there for her, but that is not acceptable. Break up with that man immediately! He does not deserve you and that girl does not deserve him.
Story 2- go to the wedding. If you want your husband to come bring him as a +1 (if that was an option.) you have to realize your husband is in full control of what he does, whether everyone knows or not. If he really wanted to come so badly he would wear an adult diaper for once or would actually go to a restroom when he needed a bathroom. I get you want to stand by your husband, but there are things he needs to learn to control, especially around family members.
Yea. Plus it’s a kink. And he doesn’t need to satisfy his kinks during important events like this. He can control it for one day, no? Especially if he’s as sorry and sad as it sounds.
story 2: Your husband is acting like a child, if he wants to come to the Wedding let him not announce that he peed himself, just go to the washroom and change without announcing it! it is that simple!!!
Story 2: W👏T👏F👏 THAT AINT NO REAL CONDITION. Omg if I was your sister I wouldn't invite you, like do you find your partner pissing himself in public hot or something, its pathetic and childish
For the story about the guy with the girl best friend that's like clingy girl break up with him he says he doesn't have feelings but if he wants to move in with her he clearly has feelings
Still I know you just putting out your opinion but if she doesn't want to make her husband feel left out then support her on it I understand it's her sister's wedding and she can do what she wants about the invites but her sister is uninviting her about a medical problem
@@carleenadavis3163 Its his husband fault for feeling left out!!! No one wants a man-child at their wedding. It will be embarrassing and he might ruin it!!! Its a "peeing" kink not a disability!! If it was a disability than she would be wrong but its not!!
First one: You should do the same thing the “Pick me” is doing you should get best friend do same thing she doing and make him jealous to point he stops
The story bout leg hair brother in law dish it can’t take it hair grow on everyone’s body part brother in law embarrass himself for saying bout sister in law leg hair he brought that body hair subject that’s my opinion
Story 2: just tell her he’ll wear the diapers for that day. And tell you husband to not pee during the wedding. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Try to negotiate with her.
Girl if ur man is going to chose his girl best friend over u, they r just a b***** so just leave them. Unless u find some other solution to change he’s mind, DONT EVER LET HIM HAVE A GIRL BEST friend cause this will happen.
What happened in the second story is weird as hell and uncomfortable for everyone involved. I understand that kinks are kinks and I don't kink shame but your husband can control that shit and you guys should attend BDSM clubs or shit NOT the wedding if he can't control his damn urges.
First Story: SIS WHAT THE FUDGEE??!! IF A MAN IS BELIEVING HIS GIRL BSF OVER U THAT THAT IS A HUGE ISSUE. BREAK UP WITH THAT MAN ASAP. Second Story: First of all, EW. Second, Why can't he just not announce it??? Simple. That is so unnecassary.
Story 1: stay with him, he is clearly being manipulated into their relationship and he’s staying with her only because they are friends also I highly doubt he likes her because he had a chance to be with her after his old gf broke up with him I just think it’s gonna take time to let the fact that she’s toxic sink in. So yea you should stay with him and set up a trap to help him notice she’s trying to get with him.
1st story why would your boyfriend move in with his best friend you can’t trust him definitely he is probably cheating on you but idk this was written by some who has trust issues so 🤷🏻♀️
Decided to include one of my stories am i the asshole for not wanting to attend my moms wedding w my stepdad So basically me 15 year old female dosen't wanna attend my mothers wedding w a guy she cheated on my dad w Heres the story So basically about 2 months after we moved in at his place and he wouldn't do dishes or clean and my mom wakes up at 4am Just to make her "King" and kids breakfast and it just annoys me how he watches soccer all day when my mom goes to work and stays until 8pm Just to then go to the store and have to carry all those heavy bags to our home bc we have our car at our summer place it just pisses me off and I usually see him texting w some woman that he claims is his cousin plus he has made fun of my sisters weight and saying i'm flat Anyways thats all comment your opinion in the comments=)
3 -story no they were waiting for it so no your okay 2- story um saying it out-loud is embarrassing so yea 1- uHHH just space your self and the leg story no your not you got back at him he did it anyway
First story... first aball i het jealous realy quick like if u talk to another girl instant jealously im not proud of it but anyho the solution is to never date someone with a girl best friend 👍🏽
Lol my fiance has a lesbian bestfriend who use to be his Co worker and he's been begging me to have a 3sum with her and him and it made me realize she's not actually lesbian if he wants a 3sum with her