they can name the baby in a way where it’s pronounced chewy but spelled differently so it would be a unique name and the husband basically gets what he wants
And their whole nickname strategy won’t even work when she’s at school! The other kids will know her name and she will be made fun of for it. It is literally the same name as a dog breed! No shit dumb kid will make fun of her for it. The parents are only thinking of their child’s home life but tbh that doesn’t work out that perfectly either since she’ll be called ‘becca’ with one side of her family and ‘chewy’ whit the other. Will they just call her Chewbacca during family gathering where both families are present then?
i cant belaive they agreed to name their DAUGHTER CHEWBACCA!!! I mean...at least he got a name from some universe tv show. (Guardians of the galaxy). I can already imagine her having issues about body hair when she finds out about the character.
What's the dude's problem? Let her dress the way she wants to. You can't speak for Lance, and as you mentioned, he's always quiet. That's it. The way she dresses has nothing to do with it. Grow up
Chewbacca? ARE YOU KIDDING? At school, she's going to go through hell because of the roll call. It doesn't matter if she says not to call her that, people are going to call her chewy anyways. Yes the parents are the asshole. Names aren't something that the parents can choose for their own amusement. The child is going to have to deal with it for the rest of their lives. If they actually go through with it, I own't be surprised if the child goes no contact with the parents and change her name. what disgusting parents.
But at the same time- they need to think about the name, like THINK. When she's in school she's going to be called by that name not nickname. Kids these days are brutal 💀
First one: NTA-ish, for the question stated at the end i would but would ask to see them unlock the door, and after seeing that they do live next to me i wouldn't be that weirded out, but still ask why there jogging at 4 in the morning and then after i knew would not be creeped out anymore, id say hi even, and say have a good day/jog. But the way it was handled was bad, idk why you didn't tell this lady why u where jogging and waiting till u snapped isn't the right way to hadle it, good come back though with the threats to call the cops.
Me personally I'm almost 10 and that wouldn't weird me out that much cuz people jog really early in the morning so I feel like she was being weird so I don't think you're the bad person
Story 3: first off if he thought that chuwie was option divorce right away because I am not gonna be dealing with my child being called chewy or Chewbacca like how dumb is that are you mad I want my child to be respected I will not be letting them named after something from Star wars I'm sorry it's only people have a different approach but this is not normal that man needs help and if he can't deal with therapy dump him and take your child with
on the one about the baby names, you are and also not nta you are right they shouldn't name their daughter the name of a 5 to 6 feet tall monster full of fur that looks like a very very very oversized dog that sounds like it in pain when it talk they can to that but if they want to they can when their daughter grows up bullied and hates her name then start to hate her parents for naming her that they will learn
Sis...you find your dad watching thst stuff gross....yet you are literally staring in those things, you wouldn't be working there if people didn't watch. She's a hypocrite.
Okay my thing is, it’s the wife’s decision too? Like she didn’t have to agree to that. Also, he couldn’t have compromised more and named her Leia? Hate to say it but your brother in law is a geek
