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If I had serious plans on relocating overseas I wouldn't waste my time, energy, or money dating anyone here in the States unless they had the same vision because that will only complicate issues especially if that relationship turns out to only be short-term.
As you can see, men not approaching women has become a huge problem for the baw. She calls it rejection fatigue but it is men walking away from these narcissistic women. It is a waste of time trying to find the very few women that maybe somewhat qualified to be a wife.
@@haute2death No. Dating other races of women is a option for productive black men. Black women only get thugs and bums approaching them. A man with means wouldn't speak to black women in public anymore. Unless she's a prostitute.
Yea I'm noticing guys of all age groups minding there business instead in 2023 I hardly see dudes chasing or approaching or bothering asking for numbers when I'm out in public places I no longer see young men entertaining snobbish çhicks at nightclubs bars etc any public event for that matter
Women will give you all kinds of signs set you up for the rejection..if she not coming out saying I like you with the words coming out her mouth im not buying.
Women who are really about it will just ask for the number. For the most part women do that "choosing signal" shit when they go to long without a dude approaching them and they need an ego boost.
Remember, if she's not what you want, you're settling. Women picture the perfect man, in their eyes, to claim they are "settling". This is because about 98% of them do not qualify for anything serious, let alone being a wife. So they'll "give you a chance", foolishly thinking they're settling, when the dude is actually settling. Most men settle. Especially in the western culture.
@@thecrownprince3703 Toxic people deserve to be alone until they fix their ways. A toxic person does not deserve the chance to destroy someone else's life.
I know that I'm not approaching black women anymore and I gave up on them many years ago and I never went back to them ever since and my life is alot better without them
I've seen a "3" hanging with 7's and 8's, and she's acting as though she's an "8", rejecting good men to bost her ego and giggling all the while the other women looking at her like she's a damn fool, try to be something she's not. This happens more often nowadays, more than ever! The delusion is a hell of a drug!
I don't have the energy to chase. So I have to be successful, funny, a chivalrous protector AND pay the bills. You want me to still chase you? And run the chance of getting her pregnant and getting hit with child support or worst case alimony. No deal. Why would anyone want to go through all that? They need to seriously wake up, cuz men ain't falling for it anymore.
Man I don't mess with online dating no more..It's a waste of time. Plus, as a Full time Single Father I don't have the time to Date. I'd Rather be Raising my child, servicing lawn customers, coding, or working on house projects than dating one of these B Dubbs..
I asked a girl out recently. She's a security guard and I'm a truck driver. She gave me her number and agreed to go on a date. A few days before the time she claimed her Auntie died. At first I believed her but then I thought: if it was true she would simply make another date... 2 weeks later nothing 😕. Why lie? Just say your not interested
Because if they see some potential in you then they’ll keep you on the back bench while she’s getting ran-through in her prime years and she’ll foolishly think that you will want her once Thuggo is bored with her and her fertility window starts to close You deserve better than that and never take that offer because she’s settling for you in her mind because modern women think they’re the prize 😂 The man is the prize because a man is only going to be with the woman HE wants and a woman will be with however wants her and is available Women are not the prize, WE ARE 👑
I know about this 1st hand. It's true, there is fatigue that builds up after getting turn down alot. The worst part is because men naturally date down, It's usually by a 4 or 6 who's probably lucky for a guy to step to her.. This one guy told me that's why he always date up because if he's gonna get rejected anyway It my as well be a dime. I get that but most men Understand to be able to drive a Ferrari you have to be able to afford one.
To me it's not even rejection fatigue. It is simply too much to lose and not enough to gain over rationale that make no sense. Women want to be married but still have work husbands. They want to have children but the child may not necessarily be her husband's child but he has to accept that. She doesn't want to pay 50% on anything but wants half of everything in the divorce. It's just dumb
It isn't rejection fatigue men are just smarter in pursuing higher quality people and lower quality options expect to be pursued because of sexual inflation.
I was just speaking to this person for over a week. Shared plenty of informations, talked a couple of times and exchange many texts. On the day before we were supposed to meet up. She’ claimed that she wasn’t feeling it and wish me luck😅. What I realize is that these women have many men to choose from the moment they drop you. Relationship isn’t a priority for them because they don’t need you like that.
@@leontaecoleman3644 se* options to be pumped and dumped/destroyed, no the provision and love of a man who respects them as a quality wife. Either that or they are jump offs for life nowadays
I was just telling something like this to a friend of mines last night. I told them to go to the ones that are attractive to you. But always keep in mind that she is never your woman, it is just your turn! So ride it as long as you can cause you will get replaced. My personal opinion, at this stage in my life, I see women nothing more than rentals for the night. Get your rocks off and move on!
When I was in high-school I had no idea of the height bias. I was 5'8 during the summer before my high-school freshman year I couldn't put weight on so my grandmother thought I was sick because I would eat all day long and still a stick. I found out why I wasn't gaining weight. I grew 5 inches in one summer. At 14 I was 6'1. I didn't get girls at that time. It changed when I was working as a consultant in a mostly female profession. I had a blonde trophy wife of a PA at the hospital she wanted to me to be her job husband. I had never heard of that before at that time. I had a nurse at the same hospital who gamed me to get my number. She wanted me to text her a picture. Me being green thought it was on some innocent shit. She text me the week before my last day at that hospital and told me she wanted to see me if it's cool with her. I had her all night long and then some after that. I had another girl who was about 30 minutes from my hotel and I was back and forth all week between the 2 after work. I remember once I left another hospital and had to go back to head quarters before going to Atlanta for my next assignment. My manager a female of course she said damn I don't remember you being that tall. She invited me to dinner to discuss work but I didn't go for it. When I got to Grady hospital there was a chick everyone hated her. She was the shift manager and she was nice to me and joked with me. Everyone was telling me she was feeling me. So yeah there is a stupid to me height bias. I know short dude who are tougher and will knock a tall dude straight out. I flipped that consultant job and became a six figure earner. I do stuff I like now. I bought a house. I collect muscle and classic cars. My daughter finished school 2 years ago. I don't drink or smoke. My vice is women and that vice in this day and time will cost you. I turned down an administrative job at Duke University. It was during the me too movement. I weighed the pros and cons of working around women. If I can make 6 figures from home without all the risk why not just stay here.
You are sharing this story in a place where people are happy for you as well as motivated by your story. Thank you for sharing and continue to be great. Congrats Bro. Reading this made my day
2 observations from my perspective. 1, the bw can be way more stringent in selection because she more than likely has multiple attractive pookie sex buddies and simps so she plays hard ball with everyone else...also what's this on dating apps when they will talk to you for 20 messages then go ghost when you ask them out? It's common and I'm sure it plays a factor in fatigue, good stream.
I have only been on maybe four dates in the last decade. They all felt similar to a job interview. The typical questions. What is your occupation? How long have you been at your job? Where do you see yourself in five to ten years? So, I mentally checked out years ago.
In amerikkka; I view rejection as a blessing. Although it may seem problematic to you; as for me, it's a life acceptance's occurrence that helps me to stay focused on my purpose. Even more so; rejection keeps me mentally balanced in using discernment, to fully grasp all the bullsh*t I have to endure on the back 9 of a relationship. I definitely don't cry a river as a man because of being rejected; no sir, it's a benefit; why, because I'm not invested, dealing with other people's problems and foolishness; knowing that they never put in the work to becoming better stewards of themselves. Keeping it a 💯; my PEACE , my HAPPINESS and TMH CREATOR is more paramount in my life, then trippin over the senseless thought and demands of The Foolish that cannot see the forest amongst the trees.
their mindset is just boggling. aint nothin like some melanin tho. But If I wasnt married id be a passport bro for life.. My passport stay ready, I used to work as a contractor overseas, so I know wassup😎🏖️
Was talking to a chick on a site. Convo was going well I thought. Talked about meeting up & she was with it. Convo goes on for a few days. I texted last. All of a sudden she stopped responding. I wasn't disrespectful or any of that. But this is how flimsy & flakey they are. And they want men to go thru this all the time?? Nah I'm good.
The options for truly virtuous women are badly lacking and I refuse to settle for less than a virtuous woman. One day God Almighty put this quote on my mind and I will not forget it. "A none virtuous woman has about as much value as a wooden penny at best and detrimental at worst." I don't fatten frogs for snakes and I don't throw pearls before swine.
The problem is that these b words is that they pull out a magnifying glass to find things about a man that they DON'T like instead of noticing the obvious positive things in a man.
Black ram I'm handsome in shape & make 80-100k per year I don't advertise my earnings and I still get rejected. In fact I don't even approach bw or any woman rn. I honestly don't have the excitement anymore. Now in all honesty I got a woman bc is exhausting out her so I find joy in other areas smashing the same chick
This is the ultimate goal, for man to be with one woman. Women are tired of being used, lied to and cheated on. That's why they are so difficult when it comes to dating. When a good woman sense that your intentions are good and she can trust you, she will fall madly for you.
@@sassyclass552 THIS IS ONLY PARTIALLY TRUE, IN ALL ACTUALITY AND ALL FACTUALITY. IF SO THEN WHY DO SO MANY WOMEN? ESPECIALLY BW GO 4 THEE FUTURE TYPES OVER THEE RUSSELL WILSON TYPES? BASICALLY SPEAKING YOU KNOW, THEE-BAD-BOYS OVER THEE GOOD-BOY-TYPES.
I go roller skating. I see a lot of single sisters, but unapproachable personalities at least snow bunny's acknowledge my existence. I stay reserve, ignoring them all
Appreciate you sharing your experiences when it comes to rejection and interacting with these delusional b dubs. Decided to give up on dating years ago and haven't looked back since. Peace and quiet are more valuable to me than p sleeve and the constant rejection fatigue.
Has nothing to do with rejection. Most women especially black have kids and talk about having a serious relationship when you let a guy bust inside you and bail and you except men to raise your lil bastards.
I’ve never gone up to a Woman unless I feel she has displayed some type of interest in Me. As for online. You have to be a “Alpha show piece” as Cousin T. Taw would call it. You have to have a nice looking face and a nice body with the right pictures to get any type of consistent play online. I’ll end this comment with a ITV quote! “A Lion can’t get on a flight to go to another jungle where his prey is slower and of better quality” Unlike the Lion, we can board a plane and meet Women who are receptive and of better overall quality than what we have in the States. Get your passports and enjoy traveling and getting away from The Plantation!
Over height???? Wow, I remember growing up and the older generations didn’t make this a big issue. I’m not when this started to happen but I’ve seen plenty of older people have great relationships with average height men and the women didn’t let their self get sloppy.
My personal mantra: "I am not entitled to anyone's time, attention, resources, skills, or personal space." It applies to me, and it applies to everyone else.
It's amazing how these BAWs keep missing the mark with their delusional BS. It's not a matter of rejection fatigue on the part of we men -- it is a matter of don't need whamen -- don't want want whamen in our lives because of the liability they present to our lives. The one thing that does fatigue me, however, are the desperate whamen who won't leave single men like me alone when in public. Because when I ghost or otherwise reject a whaman in public -- they are the ones who lose it.
"Rejection Fatigue?" No, I've just gotten really sick of needing boots to even listen to the average modern woman talk! I don't approach because I'm observing first, before I say anything, and many of them end up disqualifying themselves during the observation period, with uncouth conduct!
I don't think my fellow passport brothers realize American dating market is a major sausage fest their is far more men seeking women than women seeking men....For now. !
Women be talking about what a man has to make up for as if they have no flaws that a man would have to overlook. . .the baseless arrogance has reached a dangerous level with these broads
That's why I don't do dating apps, a lot of modern w0men have overblown egos, I've seen women that were extremely unattractive, thinking they're a 10 🤣 just ridiculous and delusional, and I hate the ones who do the long drawn out rejection, they're the worst, recently this sexy Latina woman did this to me, she had a cool personality, which is why I tolerated with her for a month but I got tired of her making excuses on why we couldn't meet up, "if you know what I mean" and just faded away from her, and the last point was super true, DON'T BE NO ONE'S COMPROMISE
The mystery and virtue of women are gone. Back in the days women were virgins or had low body count. Women also had a certain shyness and humility about them. Women were more inviting and respectful when initiating conversation. Nowadays nothing is intriguing about the modern woman.
21, I think I’ve got LIFE fatigue. Went from a pandemic to a recession. 60% of my generation is single 1/3 are virgins and if I try my very best I get to qualify for an average ran through intellectually challenged gnat gnat. 🙁 what’s the point in “trying” when I can stack my money and build skills
As it is said in these circles: "It's greater LATER." Have fun with the women but always keep improving yourself and building skills. When you get in your 30s, if you've been doing it right, you'll see.
I’m 27 years old working 6 days a week. Also in the Army Reserves, I got my own house, and my flings here and there. Keep pushing yourself to become a better man everyday. Life gets better, trust the process. If she rejects you, consider that a blessing, there’s other women out there. Salute brother Ram 🫡 💪🏾💯
My homeboy of 22 years is 6'3 I'm 5'9, trust fellas the issues are not exempt if you don't or DO meet their "requirements", in fact him and I was out about 3 weeks ago and his situationship got mad at him and told him "her next man gone be 6'5 he is a waste of height" he said her words. Most of this is projection, what's the saying " if they didn't have these standards they would have no standards at all" imagine if every man magically became 6'4 with a 6 and above member. then we would REALLY be living in "she is not yours it's just your turn" its not just rejection fatigue, They are never satisfied, They are exhausting in general .....OF course not all for the "not all" Police
Real talk bro. Its something I realized. Im married been with my wife 3 yrs now altogether 8. Its all these spirits going in unto them. They were never meant to have multiple guys. They think they're one of the guys. They act like men. My marriage aint that bro. Im here for my kids. And tht child support gone smack a mf across the head 😂. Mentally Im drained. I drive trucks and thats where I find my peace. Ill buy some ass before I really fuck with any chick seriously. I tell females im married, str8 upfront with them. They love that shit. Ion understand it tbh, but yeah they see a ring and flock like its a free bottle. Chiraq Westside bro. Out south now. U want me to link u in I gotchu.💯💪🏾
The green light is hook-up. 75% of men don't commitment with modern women. We all see what is going on with the modern woman. Selfishness of modern women is insane, leave the damn apple alone. "Passports Up".
Its brutal here in Toronto too fam I'm 5"11 and still get height shame Yeah online is a 💩 show . Yeah I've smashed a few subhuman beast in times of drought 😅. If you not a chad or a Tyrone of paper stack high its hard mode
I have women in Colombia DMing me and making the first move. I don't have to approach a single woman again as long as I live, so I'm definitely not going to approach a western woman lol.
9:55 They really be thinking height translates to ability to fight. According to them and their theory magic johnson's son is a tough guy. The BDub constantly needs to feel protected. There are 2 reasons for the Height/ Need to feel protected requirement. 1) She wants to be able to recklessly run her mouth in public knowing that her idiot boyfriend/husband will risk his life for her (meanwhile she doesn't even want your last name) AND 2) to impress her friends ("he gotta be TALL gUrl"). Being a well travelled man who has lived in other countries, I can honestly say no other women in other countries have this philosophy as part of their dating criteria and justification. The FeFail is pure silliness I swear.
Let's get into the standards that women want. What guys isn't talking about. They want a guy between 5”10-6”4 dark brown to light skin with coily hair or good hair. Maybe some colored eyes full smooth beard. Strong featured man. your job entertainer, athlete, or have a white-collar job.
Men, if you've ever been in the receiving end of women "shooting their shot," you would want no part of it. They can turn into screeching freaks if you reject them.
I can write a book on this subject!!! I was that guy who was willing to compromise!!! The older I get I can care less!!! I’m glad my wife didn’t waste my time!!!
Another instant classic. And I'm with you, I don't even take shots at them at all... and the part that's most disturbing is I really don't care to. I say that because if it didn't happen to me, I wouldn't even know it was possible for completely hetero BM with a healthy libido would find the idea of interacting with these women to uninspiring or dangerous (even if only to our self esteem) that I feel reproach. Disgust is to lust with water is to fire... it works perfectly well to shutdown the lust that makes evidently bad women even appear desirable. #SYSBM - the plantation help did a great service by "weeding out" BM that fall within a certain "frequency", which is our salvation from their witchcraft. Things are moving much quicker than it would seem if we remain distracted by zaddys helpers. That trip overseas will break the spell many are under, and it really doesn't matter if you go for love, mutually consented sex with adult women, or any other reason that provides sufficient motivation to leave this toxic mind field we call social reality as BM. It's like trying to breathe underwater your whole life (so it's your "normal"), then you go somewhere and take your first breathe of air without filtering it out of water... it's a wrap. You will never be able to take anything they're saying for anything more than the dirty tactics are highly corrupted women.
I think one of the biggest problems is that they have too many options and every man they meet regardless of social status...looks....heights....income etc..is the "will do for now." guy...
I find kinda weird is that when men meet women men may lie and say they don't have a girlfriend or a wife knowing the whole time that they do... and then when men meet women they and say that they do have a husband or a boyfriend when in reality they don't.
Rejection fatigue is so real that you dont want these 304s no more when they stop rejecting 😂 their rejection shows their value once you get passed it then you see why they was rejecting.
Your videos be on point .I like your assertive alpha male sigma male approach .You not biased but you been touching bases on the last 20 years of dating. I'm 38 and the way they acted in 20's is not how they acting pushing 40 .
I don’t even get rejected when I really apply pressure it’s just the pool to choose from in the U.S. is only baby mamas with baggage. Given the choice I wana start my own family. Passport time
I’m not gonna play Captain Save a Ho to these modern 304s who have been rejecting good men like me in favor of street thugs. And I’m not interested in a ready made family
" You aint a good girl and you know it You act so ratchet around me You aint a good girl and you know it I know exactly what you cant be Just hold on we aint going home Just hold on we aint going home......." ~ Drake~
