umm... he is still the hero or victim in all his stories. He is absolutely fascinated with himself. Even when he talkes about being a dad, he talks about it being HIS identity and HIM losing that, because his villan ex. (victim) Nothing heartfelt or warm about actually being a dad. Fully trashed the mother of his son just to be the hero. Bronte was never a gem, but, he has no redeeming ( or genuine human) qualities. I swear he salivates talking about himself🤢.
I enjoyed this interview with Harrison much more than I thought I would! It was interesting actually getting to great things from his perspective without edits or fighting and yelling involved. He actually makes a lot of great points, especially in hindsight knowing about the leaked messages from Bronte. Seems like they were both toxic af in their own ways
Harrison needs to learn that talking badly about the mother of his son is wrong. It doesn't matter what she has or hasn't done, once children are involved you have to be respectful or keep quiet.
And...he never stated any of this on the show. He said that they fell apart. I call BS on the cheating. I mean who really wants to hook up when you've just had a baby and in the thick of covid. He is just here for the glory.
20 mins in and Harrison is worse than I thought. Red flags: - airing other people's dirty laundry, defaming the mother of his child -love at first sight then calling his mum -making insane life choices and blaming everyone else -faking tears -the victimhood narrative All I see is someone that doesn't own anything he does and blames the woman he is with. The Harrison on Mafs was Harrison lite.
@@andrewmcpherson6374 of course not. But it says A LOT about a person when they speak so badly, And publicly, about their child’s mother. Pretty disgusting.
The best part of MAFS is we all get prior warning of the narcissistic psychopaths roaming this earth. Thank you for highlighting he is still the same even if you’ve kinda fallen for it. Trust your intuition ladies it’s always right
I think the girls did a great job, Dom was like a moderator and Ella expressed what a lot of us are thinking without judgement, but it was interesting to see how he responded. I didn’t watch this season, the love aspect has completely gone and it’s drama (no thanks) so from what I can see of the interview, Harrison has used this whole time as an explanation. I’m sure he feels he needs to defend himself, but you can share your story without dragging your ex partner into it, or highlighting other people. It could be his guard who knows, but he doesn’t feel vulnerable - there’s a constant wall and defensiveness. It’s not about the emotion or crying - it feels like he can’t actually relax into himself or let himself be seen, a constant bravado, a blame game etc. Little introspection, not to say he’s lying or Brontë (dunno what’s going on as I didn’t watch it) but if he talked more about his own feelings and experiences, we’d understand him more For every question He used examples, evidence etc, it feels like a deflection so he doesn’t have to admit he was hurt or got used or played or something…just a lil off
Dom and Ella just fell for his BS hook line and sinker 😢 He has blamed literally everyone and everything but himself. Ask a psychologist to watch and review. 🚩🚩🚩
No one needed or asked for more time of Harrison being Narcissist and the blame game. I thought this would be an interesting interview yet all I see is two women allowing disgusting behaviour.
i think good on you both for getting him in to talk with you because I was v interested to watch/listen to this! May as well share my opinon on this too! My opinion of Harrison hasn't changed at all. He knows how to deflect so effectively and it's quite triggering... I currently received support from a DV charity and have first hand experience of different types of abuse unfortunately (want to clarify I did obvs choose to listen to this and don't regret it! x) The way he has just dragged his baby mum into the spotlight and absolutely thrown her to the lions (people who will search for her and unfortunately most likely find her, then send abuse to her online) is not okay at all. He could've talked about the story but not specifically said it was his son's mother. Why was he talking so much about that and slating her? Of course her side will be different! God knows how he treated her throughout. Absolutely did not buy into the tears... shocking tbh. I agree with Brent when he has said he uses his son for clout. Referring to himself as a "single dad".... does your son live with you most of the time? If not, you don't really have the right to the "single dad" title because you're not doing much work are you. Yes that's my perspective. I'm a single mum. Slating Bronte sooooooo much without giving her the benefit of the doubt just a teeeeeny bit. I just don't trust ANY man who is so quick to blame females. End of. Harrison knows what he's doing. His charm cloaks his calculations and yes this is exactly how people get drawn into abusive relationships. I don't feel like diving into this too much more. I think he should care more about what people think ONLY because it's clearly caused so much vicarious trauma in the public? Obvs i'm not saying cry yourself to sleep every night but be a bit more receptive and less eager to pipe up at every opportunity ??? Listen, basically. Take a step back and don't bring others into this to try and justify yourself.
I haven't watched the interview yet (ran straight to the comments) but what you said hits so close to home. Harrison always reminded me of my ex - hubby/baby daddy ALWAYS using any excuse to drag my name . 6 years ago I packed 1 back pack, got all my babies and left... Havnt seen the guy since but he will STILL drag my name to anyone willing to listen and Harrisons traits and personality are JUST like him As you said - very triggering - Going thru DV support and the healing process it teaches us to peg those types of guys easily, and I say guys because they aren't men at all. But, I'm about to watch so like many, personal view of him may change, but honestly abuser narcs are easy to pick soooo its doubtful. Stay blessed, precious lady ♥️ ♥️♥️
Absolutely! Came out of a domestic abuse relationship 1 yr ago and seeing things in him that I saw in my abuser. It was like seeing videos of my ex. I get relationships aren't perfect and sure Bronte put some stuff on, but can really see aspects of an abuser
Thanks for putting this on YT. I haven’t caught any of your podcasts til now bc they don’t hit my feed anywhere. I’m now a subscriber and strapped in to listen to this now! Thanks. Love you two. 🤗
Dom & Ella this was an eye opener. And Am also glad u got Harrison on . Definitely have a different POV on him. A fantastic podcast. Am glad I found you guyz❤
5:05 Harrison enters 8:10 interview starts Appreciate Dom explaining Harrison's perspective...ñ Harrison defending himself (including against pork rìbs)
Thanks Dom & Ella for getting Harrison on. I was absolutely in the dislike Harrison camp (didn't like Bronte either, felt she deserved what she got) but this interview gives a whole other perspective and I'm not disliking Harrison as much anymore
Harrison keeps claiming that he was a nice guy w ho was misrepresented by the editing. If it was just editing then how come the almost all of the other participants clearly did not like him?
Love you two❤ Glad to watch your interviews. I just still feel like Harrison is as bad as he was "portrayed". Bronte, by no means, didn't play her part in their ridiculous relationship. I feel they're both fools. I don't care how much BS he states. I still believe he is a jerk. Even Ollie, one of the good guys stated it. And don't forget he was on that radio show claiming " the show would have failed without him"! He is a tool, and is loving all the attention. Sorry... my opinion of him hasn't changed. But I look forward to watching you guys do more interviews! (U.S. FAN) 😊
My sense of humor lol. Has everyone forgotten that THE WHOLE CAST pretty much disnt like him. Please don't try and tell me that was a result of editing and bad jokes or bad timing.
Exactly. His unpleasant manner was clearly apparent to nearly every other participant male and female. They saw him in action and didn't like what they saw.
Does anyone have a link to the Facebook group as I can’t find it on Facebook I have tried searching by typing in the podcast name but it’s not coming up.
Kinda disappointed you make a negative comment about bronte’s voice after others made you feel bad for your own voice when you were on the show. Seems hypocritical…
I completely agree with Storm's comment below. I do think that deflection can happen between two people, though, so I have to disagree with the agreement that deflection only involves an external party from the conversation. Deflection is not addressing something you are being challenged for and instead turning it on the other person or trying to distract (aka deflect) onto another topic.
I felt watching that the group treated Harrison differently based on their dislike. For example when he and Bronte made a 180 nobody believed it but when Claire and Jessie did after the cheating, everyone was happy for them. All he’s guilty of really is being an arrogant bastard and the group turned on him.
Hello to both of you , I was always rooting for both of you , you and your friends were amazing , I agree with both of you , you don’t have to hate on people because they have an opinion that’s different to yours 👍🏴
Harrison states that what viewers think of him is based on the show…Really ! Leopards don’t change their spots. What a supercilious and manipulative guy he is . There must be many men who would like to wipe the smirk off his face. He’s just a smart arse with not a lot upstairs. It’s all the builder’s rubble that has distorted the grey cells….Whoever gets involved with him is in for a rough ride.
Alyssa's attitude sucks!!!lol imo Bronte was in on the whole fake relationship. Evelyn was on for air time but love her. And ollie and his bride are the best. Love them
Dude every pod cast he’s on and he’s attempting to show you the real him and that he’ll be vindicated and every pod he looks and sounds exactly like his edit on the show hahaha
This is my opinion about Harrison. I don’t care that he has ‘receipts’ and ‘this is his story’ about the mother of his child. Everything he says about her should be respectful and, if not, then keep his mouth shut. Because one day his son is going to hear what Harrison says about his mom and it’s going to effect him.
He is not lying I believe him so much!!! Bronte never say I would move for Harrison. I was wondering why she never tell her sister what she say to him.
This was great 👍 everyone got in so well and I felt the phone call of Brontë said it all. Now it makes sense. She’s been out to get him the whole time. Poor guy didn’t deserve all that. His background was good to hear too. I like you Harrison and you changed my sisters mind too, which is huge. X
Thank you for this interview. Things make more sense now because the edit was so bad this year. Add the text messages and voice messages then you can't deny Harrisson was done dirty from Bronte who had an agenda all along.
I still think his motivations for going on the show were wrong. But I understand a little more now some of the context around some of his language he used in the show. To be honest he had no hope with being matched with Bronte because her motivations were even worse so even if he wanted to give the relationship a go it was never going to work.
I really can't believe that Dom fell for Harry's shit talk and I could tell that Ella wasn't!!! Dom knows better about context especially because she has been there with Olivia! I just shocked she was sucked in by him to be honest 😕 #ireland
I am half way through and it's making me mad how much the girls are falling for everything he is saying. What BS. I had enough of this narcissist on the show. Don't allow him air time just to manipulate and gaslight. Sick of this
Thanks for the interview I do agree with Ella watching him get "so called" emotional it just to me looks like he is putting it on.. I also agree Dom im so sick of those people constantly saying "gaslighting " etc... and throwing it around all the time
Hasn't Harrison already stated that he can create receipts? I believe it was the whole butt dial situation. So you'll excuse me if I don't put any credit on his "receipts ".
It was Really disappointing to watch Ella and Dom taking Harrisons side :-( you basically judged Bronte based on what Harrison told you. Comment about Brontes voice and other little digs where so mean :-/
Can we apply some critical thinking here. We know editing is a huge problem. We know it doesn’t reflect reality but we watch it anyway because we love it (and can learn a lot from it). But we watch knowing it’s a misrepresentation and we’re making harsh judgments on people we don’t know. What this interview reveals is that the true unfolding of events is also interesting and would make good content. So why isn’t it the content? Why is the story changed? And how does one person manage - for 10 weeks - keep producers on side to tell a positive representation of them despite presenting very different behaviour? What agreements are in place here? How is it decided that you’re a good character and your a villain, and this isn’t going to change? Or, who decides it going over the footage that a persons true character and actions are concealed and another is twisted? Who? Who is in charge? Who are they? What are their bias? How do they get to decide? Why does their objective trump the individuals on screen and everyone behind the scenes? What are their hurts and pains that they want this to be the narrative? Once an edit is done. It’s out there. But there is an opportunity to influence for future years. We seem to say “they edited” with no humanisation that this is a real group of people deciding and having them be accountable for their narrative. Who are they? Why do they want this message portrayed? Shows like this are great but if we want something more real and better… we need to go deeper. Who are “they”? And why?
Um common sense If you say douche things u are a douchebag Yes they will show more of that than the good stuff but if it came out of your mouth then u said it
Sorry still cant believe this man. How he talks about his ex says enough. I believe that Brontë also is fake and very calculated. It would be better to talk to his ex and she the patterns
Bronte has to come on and give her side... I. sorry but I don't believe a word that comes out of this guys mouth... yeh it was edited, but the cameras don't hide his actions or words...
Shout out to Harrison for being honest about his ex . Too many men's stories are silenced because insecure women can't take accountability for their own past decision & lose their composure blaming men when the truth comes out.
