don't get me wrong. I love your content man. I really do. I find it more attractive than many other famous guys like Rich cooper etc tho they are good too. And lot of times I see how I did some of these things subconsciously which has certainly helped me in my relationship. But we are religious, and commitment is a unavoidable thing. Here's where I am stuck. We have already committed to each other. But i can certainly see the difference in her attitude and enthusiasm as years passed by..
If you're looking to a woman for love, you'll only find misery, love starts with the self; love yourself and you won't *NEED* a woman and that's extremely attractive. High value starts with placing that value in *YOURSELF* , if you feel like you bring nothing and you doubt your value, so will everyone else.
The only love that matters is how deep you can love yourself, your life, others, your environment ... that is the level of love you can bring into any relationship. Looking to external factors for love = FAIL / unreliable / an illusion
Another way of saying this gentleman is to have a strong sense of identity and self. When a women comes into your life a common mistake is to stop doing many of the things that attracted her in the first place. I would point out that a study was done on the testosterone levels of married men versus un-married men. Married men have much lower testosterone levels and would help explain some of why guys stop working out, stop being ambitious, etc....when they enter a relationship. Casey's information lines up with scientific studies on the testosterone levels of men which is fascinating.
This is down to women themselves. Its in her nature to try and clip his wings to stop him straying to other women. Which is what makes him attractive to her in the first place. Once he is no longer interesting to another woman (the competition anxiety she once had disappears killing her attraction to him). A truly pitiful creature that sabotages herself at every step
I think the issue in this philosophy is to assume that a man must be in control of how a woman behaves, by regulating his own behavior, and in so doing relinquishing responsibility for how women behave. I think this is how after so many generations, so many women have a very hard time accepting responsibility for their behavior and mistakes they make, because these type of men do not shift due accountability for womens behavior and the wrongs they can commit. Essentially these type of men do not hold women accountable for bad behavior, because they think it was all their fault and they made the woman behave that way. Thus we have an epidemic of women who refuse to see fault in their own behavior and wrong doings toward men.
He said it would make sense. It makes sense that what he's saying is true, but it doesn't make sense that a woman would think it's a good bet that a selfish prick will protect her. When danger comes he will outrun her. When you don't spend time with them and spend all your time at work they sleep around on you too. Ask military men.
@@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 Nah, let the females have the "self-love." Men need to be *selfish.* Learning to be selfish with our time, energy, focus, finances, attention, etc *IS* the male version of "self-love."
Agree. At the end of the day... understanding all this... you can get all your priorities right, all your shit together... and once you have your goals set and all running, you wonder, for what the hell I may need a weak parasitic, selfish, backstabing and toxic creature at my side... an all around liability. Sex? 🙄 no need of a LTR much less commintment for that... Kids? Better make enough money to go the surrogate way. Single fathers has proven to make it far better than single mothers. Focus on your business and goals, leave 304s on their own, beta-gov already gives them enough priviledge and daddy-love.
I think the issue in this philosophy is to assume that a man must be in control of how a woman behaves, by regulating his own behavior, and in so doing relinquishing responsibility for how women behave. I think this is how after so many generations, so many women have a very hard time accepting responsibility for their behavior and mistakes they make, because these type of men do not shift due accountability for womens behavior and the wrongs they can commit. Essentially these type of men do not hold women accountable for bad behavior, because they think it was all their fault and they made the woman behave that way. Thus we have an epidemic of women who refuse to see fault in their own behavior and wrong doings toward men.
This is quickly turning into my favorite channel on RU-vid. This is truly the right advice. And if you dont believe it, you haven't been around a lot of women
A good part of the reason for men needing to be told this is because of the intense social engineering put into the issue Equality and also toxic masculinity, and very insidiously it has affected a good portion of men. Here in Australia, it was very thick in media.
Sadly i was doing all mistakes and lost my ex. At the beginning of relationship i was toxic asshole and changed me madly even if i hurt her feelings then after long time i got too attached and started becoming nice guy and then she left me
@@johanliebert6859tough man, sorry to hear that. If i was you I’d do some no contact. Live your life, be genuine on social media for her to see. Women like genuine guys, doesnt mean you have to be nice. Just be in your masculine and be consistent. If she reaches out and see that consistency she’ll learn to trust that, but right now from an asshole to a simp, I bet she dont know what to think.
I love the little changes in articulation in every video lol, shows that you're being genuine with us cuz you're showing us this stuff as you learn it yourself. You're a good dude bro, just know that you're appreciated.
I’m 35 years old and have had mixed success with women up to this point. Your videos have helped me make so much sense of those relationships and life in general. I was raised by my mom for a large part of my life, and I got really good at paying attention to her needs. The survival mechanism I learned was basically to make sure mom was happy. That translated to trying to make other women happy too. These are pretty deep patterns that were ingrained in me, but your videos have helped me to see what’s really going on so I can break free from that conditioning. Thank you, Casey. It’s like a whole bunch of things have just clicked for me.
As a man that I was with many women that cheated their husbands with a big smile on their faces, I almost completly lost trust in any woman. I was not cheated cose they were not my women, but to see a woman what is capable to do to other men, men that are working their azz so that woman has everything... well is not a good sight !
@@bggjjhljk The good part being a man, when a woman becomes toxic and she will try to break you the same she did with her husband, you can just kick her out of your life like you do with a roten tooth :)) And take my world, a woman that cheats her husband with you, at one time she will try to do the same to you with the next man, but the good part is, you are not bond to her like her sucker husband :)) You did not invest in her, you just enjoyed the ride.
@bca-biciclindcuaxel7527 I don't disagree with the statement they'll try to do the same thing to you.. if they're faced with the same problems they were facing in their marriage when they strayed? For example, a man who doesn't value her and treats her like shit, leaves her at home with the kids when he goes out for weeks at a time and doesn't return. Having her work and also do the house work and raise the kids. While the man just demands sex? Because I see it like being at a job. First you like your job and everything but if the company doesn't value you and doesn't give you promotions or raises that you know you deserve, you will look for another job. And that applies to men too if they're not being appreciated. They will move to antoehr woman.
When he says act arrogant the only way that can play out in reality is if you can handle yourself physically. Meaning you need to be able to fight. That means you need to learn a combat sport especially boxing. Youll now be a person who doesn't take shit off men or women. You can lift weights All you want but if you can't fight it's meaningless
Exactly acting arrogant is just that an act, but too actually excude arrogance you need to be confident in what you're capable of. So if you know you're capable of beating up other men. you'll be able not to be scared to be disagreeable if need be. That would carry over to both men and women.
No you are wrong, "act arrogance " means to be decisive and selfish to actualizing your goals and hence lead to your improvemeny and growth, and do not be controlled by pussy. (you might be selfish to other things but easy controlled by sex, and thus shouldn't be) . Period
Good stuff. This isn’t purely a list of rules to help men find, attain, and keep women but a remainder of how to structure your life properly & become a whole person/man. You can tell because a guy that tailors their life to a lot of these principles will be better for it (and everyone in your atmosphere) all around… it’s not just for the woman you crave or want to pick up. It’s a structure that men are starting to forget is a guiding light for navigating life.
I think the issue in this philosophy is to assume that a man must be in control of how a woman behaves, by regulating his own behavior, and in so doing relinquishing responsibility for how women behave. I think this is how after so many generations, so many women have a very hard time accepting responsibility for their behavior and mistakes they make, because these type of men do not shift due accountability for womens behavior and the wrongs they can commit. Essentially these type of men do not hold women accountable for bad behavior, because they think it was all their fault and they made the woman behave that way. Thus we have an epidemic of women who refuse to see fault in their own behavior and wrong doings toward men.
@@Goujiki I don't think it's so much about guys being in control of how women behave ... But rather about understanding how women operate so they don't get into situations where the woman will disrespect and then dump them
@@filipposa212 I disagree. Men don't like to give up easily, which is why they don't like to break up with women first. It's usually the case where a guy thinks he can change something about himself, which is a good thing of course, but ultimately if a woman sees you as weak because you open up to her and want a deeper more meaningful relationship, then you should never expect loyalty from her ever, not now or at any point in the future, at which point you should break up with her and move on, because her wrongful assessment of "weakness" should be hers to bear, she holds accountability for being immature and not understanding real intimacy. Expecting to perpetually allure her with raw attraction doesn't work, because she'll just get bored and want something new and fresh.
It sounds like living for a woman to me. When you stop everything you like and do all these things to get a woman, it will burn so much more when she cheats and leaves you. You'll probably lose your mind and murder her. If you don't do all these things you only did to impress a woman and do the things you enjoy, at least when she leaves, you will still have yourself. Becoming someone you never wanted to be will leave you with nothing. But that's easy for me to say.
@Goujiki It's not only about allure and raw attraction. It's about the male - female dynamics. If you watch Casey's videos he speaks about what he calls the "front-end" game which is what you referred to, and then the "back-end" game which is the phase where you're stable with a girl, you're seeing her regularly, or more, you might even be engaged or married. There, it's important to keep the upper hand and you can't do this by showing too much emotion and vulnerability. A woman is hardwired to stay beside a man that's stronger than her and makes her feel he's not easily replaceable. A man who is lovey dovey and soft is not a good match at a primal level, for a woman because she will constantly feel either 1) that he won't be able to protect her or her offspring if need be, or 2) that he's emasculated, too available, too ruled by his emotions, and he's therefore basically a b*tch in which case she will lose attraction. It doesn't mean that you need to have swag to keep a woman. You just need to keep the upper hand and that's done by always showing who's leading (you, not her) and showing that she needs to do the effort to keep him around.
When woman loves you - she is in an "in love" hormonal state. This state lasts in average in a 6-12 month. Marriage, usually planned to be longer than that. 😉 So such "love" is totally not enough.
@@hastensavoir7782 🤣 Let us know how that turns out for you. Edit: Yeah. I get it. I don't like women aggressively pursuing me either but chasing after a woman? Naw dude. Treat her like a celebrity and she'll treat you like a fan. Next thing you know you're walking in on her and your best friend getting sweaty.
A tip. Assert your dominance by giving off a vibe that you can be happy with or without them! And then, don't just settle for anyone, no marriage after 3 months, actually take the time to get to know your woman. Dating game.
Oh 100% & life/society will kick your ass and keep u down if u made excuses like i have in the past. Being able to admit my ‘fuck this’ attitude in the past has started my new outlook as well as mentality with everything i do. These videos really put things-the most important things of purpose into sheer life-changing perspective 🙌🙌
excellent video casey. i have had a hard time with your teachings, because i don't want to be a manipulator, but this one really made a lot of sense. your explanation was very clear and it was hard to not see the wisdom in it. recently, i have been talking with one woman who plays games, she says she wants to set up something to hang out, and then doesn't and then randomly hits me up when im sleeping to hang out, then the next night im awake, she asks if im awake, then i respond yes, within five minutes, then nothing. it seems pretty obvious that she is testing my emotionality subconsciously and i have been failing, because i have been wasting time texting her instead of ignoring her and focusing on my goals.
It could be possible she wanted attention at that moment and she send the same text to other men. She ignored you because some other guy was more interesting. Hard next her.
Casey thank you so much I have been following you and watch most of your video for the past 15-20 days. Now I realised my mistakes and reasons why our relationship doesn't work anymore. So, on Nov 19 I call her and breakup with her without any drama. I'm looking forwards to improving my self first. And if she really love me ( like she always used to say in phone & text ) she will obviously try to text me & call me. That's what true love. …. You teach me how a men should be, how men & women minds work etc... Thank you for your precious guidance. 🙏.
You just got yourself another subscriber... I've watched a few of your other videos; and I liked them all. But you just opened my eyes with this one video...!! I love the way you break it down. Very understandable. You're a sharp dude. Much respect brother...!!
Facts.... Everything you're saying bro are all facts.... And yeah this shit runs really deep..... However I believe a woman's wants and desires are a thirst that's unquenchable...... In a monogamous relationship with a woman, at some point while bringing her into your frame..... You need to teach and instruct that woman what to be happy, satisfied, and content with in life..... If she wants to be with you.
Your girl will even break up for you for falling off and simultaneously route for you to get your sh-t together so that we can get back together.A great thing about women is that their hardwired to push a man to his fullest potential.
This is so true and if you can endure the harsh truths they become somewhat of a mirror. The moment you let your emotions take over you will get viciously destroyed for not stay in control. Well said my man
That’s why they always come back when you don’t care anymore, because by their fantasies, you are putting effort in yourself now, so now you are valuable. It’s treally tricky guys, you have to give something emotionally, but not too much in the way you can’t do anything else or care about nothing else but her. It’s tricky
This just explained a situation I had. My GF got unwell, and I had time off work, so I took her medication and food, spent the time with her watching TV on the couch, keeping her company, and sleeping with her. I did a little work on a laptop 💻 but not a hell of a lot. Once she recovered, she became distant and argumentative, I couldn't understand why she was punishing me for what I did for her.
But brother, understand that’s normal AND required sometimes for eg here where she was sick. There was actually a valuable reason another could be you’re back from a trip and you guys haven’t seen eachother for long. Balance is important, u do it once in a while so she misses and craves it and wonders when the next time would be.
Guys... I've been poor and weak and Im currently beyond rich and successful, I can tell you that these mental games are only for guys who are broke and purposeless, if you have a robist work life and plenty of money and you are strong...... You don't need any moves
I don’t think money is a accurate gauge of strength or success. But dealing with the opposite sex can mentally break the strongest of men and make them feel inadequate all because they chose the wrong partner.
Dang bro, hammer on the head. I been keeping Christ first as much as possible and he fills that void that society replaced as our partner. This is powerful , my journey with God and watching you (which is a highlight of my day) has been ordained feels like. Video hits when I need it . Thanks so much bro. be praying for ya (us)
Absolutely true. I was such a simp in my last few relationships. Now I'm just slightly more reserved and lowkey selfish, so now I'm in the best relationship of my life. It's all power dynamics, so the one that cares the most is the loser. Unfortunately, it is all a game. It isn't even about being an arrogant asshole. It's about passing all the shit tests, and depending on how childish she is, just giving in ever so slightly to the games and drama to be interested. It gets easier over time.
A real women who loves you is the secret. You being a real man is the second secret. If one is off it won’t last. Being selfish is beta and manipulation is feminine
True very true but in a relationship it’s gonna be power shifts or times when u lose the power battle BUT each day you wake up is a new day to reclaim it and hold it
Yeah, it sounds silly, but on the other hand a mentally and emotionally weak men with a lot of money is still a weak men, there could one mentally or socially stronger men and take his money or source of money away... It depends how you made money and with which approach the other man could take the money away, that's why she perceives him as weak when he is in fact in one of 3 ways weak: physically, emotionally or mentally.
Love this.... Dude you look like you've just come out of high school and your trying to give advice on women... I'm 50 and still learning about women. Each women is an individual and you cannot generalise a gender.
I have for the last 6 months watched these videos and seen why my wife left me. It wasn't because of money. I spent time and effort in working on our house, and building my business. Trying to gain financial independence. She left because I wanted the time with her. I know now, I no longer want women. Not gay, but I don't want anything to do with them at all. I really don't know why I'm still here. I hope I don't live much longer. Everything has fallen apart and left me, every road has led to tears, no matter how hard I tried. I want nothing here.
Hey man, just want you to know that you are loved and what a you're going through is temporary. It will pass. Find something you enjoy and put your attention toward that and before you know it you will be in a different place. If you need a friend let me know
"She left because I wanted the time with her" that's completely normal man. Find yourself a good woman. Try a church. Ignore this kind of redpill channel. They give the wrong advice.
We were programmed by modern society to serve women since birth. The deprogramming takes a while. We dont need a woman to give us purpose in life. Never take them too seriously.
@@SeniorAdrian Don't worry. Start new hobbies. Learning Spanish/Italian can be very fulfilling. Lots of great channels on youtube about that, like EasySpanish or EasyItalian.
It's not about you or her. That's just evolution. Don't take it personally. Rebuild new you. You will find your strength, happiness and fulfillment. Then a woman will show up to please you. Stay strong. One step and one day at a time. Your power is within. Keep walking with your head up. We're with you.
I love the great comments! People, if a woman wants you, she wants you. If she doesnt, you can stand on your head balancing eggs with your feet and it makes no difference. Ive had plenty in my life. You dont need this mans guidance, you dont need my guidance. You need to find out what works for you. Figure out what makes you and her happy together and stop listening to what others have to say about it. You will find your way. Stand strong with your own morals and principles.
Please guys, I’m begging you, stop overthinking women! Just go out and date. Enjoy yourself and keep going. Don’t stay single forever! Be yourself and eventually your match will come. You gotta get out there and socialize. Good luck.
I was dating a girl once, and she actually said, "You don't have to be so nice, you're NOT ugly." And I was confused as hell by her statement because I was raised to "be nice to women." But now I know better. I'm now a "playful bully" around women and they eat this shit up.
I personally learn from all of the videos I’ve watched cuz I relate all of it to real life experience N it be eye opening. That video with Austin was probably the best general video with everything in 1💯 keep helping these dumasses
omfg bro you are nailing it!!!! i have been glued to your channel for a while now and you really do have it figured out, thank you from me and for every man!!!!!!!!!!!!
I need to apply all of this to my life!! I've only had 2 or 3 serious relationships in my life the other girls were promiscuous trash I need to level up myself but keeping my faith too
It really helps to have the frame of mind, "How doe she make my life better? What does she bring to the table?" - Ask yourself this every time you encounter a woman that you are attracted to. It helped me immensely.
Don’t care about the woman, don’t care how she feels. And she will be all over me. Got it. She says, honey, I got cancer. He says, so what? And she is like, ooooh baby! 🤪
Just stick to being yourself ' if they don't like it ' tough shit Don't loose yourself ' nothing is forever Don't place you're enjoyment in the nature of others what is given can be taken away
You are all so stupid. It has nothing to do with women. This is about life. All the advice he talks about regarding women is translatable to doing with life. We live in an emotional unpredictable flighty world. Learning to “deal” with women will only help you.
Learning a lot from you. I do not have a father figure when I was 18. I am close to him, and he is a good father, but he had stroke at that time and since then he cannot talk anymore. He was mentioning to me before to follow my goals first and have a good mindset. Don't focus on girls. That time I was too young to understand.
Remember, not all women lie like this. "Not all women are like this." Glad i met a funny, goofy, sensitive and interesting woman. Her and i only see each other twice a week, but we have a ' balance ' of missing each other, and our time is great. She even loves our balance. And she texts me now and then, saying she "misses me" . Thank you God for my July born Leo. She's great. ❤️💛
You're right. But all women, even the "good ones" have the outdated natural instincts for survival. The only difference is some are more extreme than others.
Why didn't I saw that 3 month ago ?!?! Just lost a perfect Russian woman that was smart, making a good income and had a crazy top model look. She tricked me saying she needed me to show her she was important to my eyes. Starting gifting her a lot and opening my emotions toward her. Long story short. She started to distanced, I chased, I cried and now she is long gone. Fuck. Next one will be crawling with your tips. Thanks a lot
They are worse than children. With a child you know you cant expect logic and reasoning. But you should expect those things from an adult. If you want good, healthy relationship with a women and maybe start a family with one, your only hope is to find a women who have emotional maturity and can control her emotions instead of letting emotions to controling her. You wont find those type of women in west world anymore, i can tell you.
There exists free energy (electricity) invented by Tesla who was killed because of it. Everybody could have basic incom and people could cooperate (help each other) instead of competition. But we still compete. Women are smart if they are in survival mode, because somethings obviously wrong.
The bottom line is that, long-term, you cannot trust any woman. Therefore, men spending so much time trying to capture and impress women is a waste. I speak from experience, I found the perfect woman, we fell in love and got married, we lived in wedded bliss for 5 years, and then she did a 180 in about 10 minutes. She turned on me like a viper. This can happen to anyone at any time.
Yeah, be better within yourself. STOP CHASING WOMEN. BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOU! Think of women as a side dish to life. The main course is your balance, energy, and internal power.
If she still gets mad that I spend too much time doing business and making cash, not helping much at house and not taking her out that often anymore, but after sometime shes ok, does it mean she understand in the end?
Bring that ho of a woman flowers from time to time, or other dum shi, because that makes her feel loved and appreciated by you. Spend QUALITY time with her from time to time where you actually listen to her bs and give her attention. Dont throw your clothes on the ground, put them where they belong. Be a man and dont make mess. She doesnt want you to do anything in the house, but to show that you appreciate her, without her having to tell you that she wants it.
No offense but i had all this shit.. dat mf still went and fuckd around on me with a married man. At some point u gotta realize alot of these mfs aint ish. And men shouldnt just collapse their brain on making them happy. Either she wit u or she aint. A woman emotions change with the wind so it will be impossible to make them happy fully. Great video though!
Even in a previous video, he said women will always look for what's missing. Meaning they'll never be fully satisfied. I've seen people say a woman can't be yours but it can be your turn with her. Married women at my job flirt, smile at me, compliment me, and touch me, etc. They know exactly what they're doing despite being married. I'm going to work on having multiple women to date. Giving one woman your heart and attention is like standing on the railroad tracks and waiting for the inevitable. At least it seems that way!
Key is no attachment, attach yourself to your own worth and your children, women are like food, sure you love some more then other but theres more then enough to go around and hey you might get pizza for a full month.
I think the issue in this philosophy is to assume that a man must be in control of how a woman behaves, by regulating his own behavior, and in so doing relinquishing responsibility for how women behave. I think this is how after so many generations, so many women have a very hard time accepting responsibility for their behavior and mistakes they make, because these type of men do not shift due accountability for womens behavior and the wrongs they can commit. Essentially these type of men do not hold women accountable for bad behavior, because they think it was all their fault and they made the woman behave that way. Thus we have an epidemic of women who refuse to see fault in their own behavior and wrong doings toward men.
The advice he’s being giving you is for how to behave around a toxic woman . A guy who cares is a turn on. Healthy healed woman run away from men who act like they don’t care .
You’re missing the point it’s about not caring too much and even women don’t want a man who OVER invest. 1. Even women who love affection eventually will not appreciate it 2. Yes a healed women or a good women want someone who cares and she will show him that she care
This is the video! I think Casey needs to make a few playlists of which videos to watch in order to build up these ideas. This should be one of the first 2 someone watches on this channel.
I respectfully disagree with the premise, but im also not a regular person when it comes to this stuff. Happily married for ten years. My wife and i are deeply in love to this day. Ive had other dudes try to tell me things along the same lines this dude is saying. At the end of the day, if you respect each other, love works. All this stuff just makes it a game imo. Nothing wrong with playing a game as long as you win most of the time, but this aint it.
You’re the exception. All rules have exceptions I’ve had close friends who also thought their relationship was the exception, to find out their wife had been cheating on them the entire relationship
Western women have only followed the standard that western men have set/tolerated/allowed/ and rewarded. It always comes down to us. The responsibility will always fall on us.
@@CaseyZander Casey you should move to Thailand (FYI a Buddhist country that’s never been colonized). It’s a different world over here. Asian men run the show and women are submissive. The West can never be fixed.
I figured this out when watching Jerry Springer and Maury on men getting cheating on. First thing that came out of their mouth would be "I loved you and I gave you everything". Thats when i knew you had to do opposite facts.
I think this a bit reductive. Firstly, I’ll say if a woman doesn’t value you for who you are - if you are happy in who you are, then she can get steppin. Yes, it is important to spend your time making your money and taking care of your health/fitness, however, I feel the women being described here are ones whose convictions are ascribed to delusions of grandeur. Who really wants a chick with a short attention span that gets bored of you being nice to her because you retain good morals? Being “lovey dovey” is a state of vulnerability that should certainly be reciprocal but also means there’s mutual comfort between each other, which is a beautiful thing to have. People also have different interests. A girl may look like a model and be hypergamous but all that tells me is that she likely has diminutive vocabulary and vapid predilections… I can’t say I find that attractive in the least, if I can’t confide in someone and engage in profound discourse. Being an asshole just to attain a degenerate TikToker baiting for clicks is the roof falling in over our heads. I don’t care how “hot/desirable” she is. If the personal connection isn’t enough for me to be vulnerable, I don’t see the point of wasting my time. This advice is good for someone who wants a trophy wife to brag about to friends, not someone they can build something with and be best friends with. Those situations are just as transient as any. Say what you want… but romance is dead. That’s the sad truth and seemingly the ubiquitous notion. How many couples do you hear about now who have a favorite song? Stuff like that used to mean something with artists like Al Green, for example. This cesspool of lames who no longer read leaves little to be desired in the way of shared interests. Nobody is saying be a simp. But still… this is hardly helpful. Just be yourself and find someone whom you are actually aligned with in terms of your belief system and preferences, while hoping for the best. The whimsy is certainly gone. I rather be single than play the game of hunter-gatherer. People are so basic. I thought it we’ve evolved past that.
These type of men don't get the bigger picture: mainly they refuse to hold women accountable for their behavior, because they think that they are responsible for when a woman makes bad decisions, hence why there is such a focus on trying to be so masculine that the woman can't stop being attracted to them so much that she's literally under his spell of allure. But guess what, women will eventually get bored of that person, no matter how attractive they are she'll want something new, someone fresh. Basically without a deeper understanding of human relationships and love, we're now in an epidemic of guys just chasing tail and women who shirk accountability.
Pretty astute observation. I watch these videos but can't help but think all people are different (and complex) and it can't be as simple as he suggests . Look at that whiteboard. I end up with a more simple solution ...just be yourself ..focus on your interests ...treat your partner with respect and try and live in the moment. If you try and follow the RU-vid gurus you will end up going crazy from analysing every move you make with this cost/benefit analysis. It's like bomb disposal...eventually all the wires are red and trying to trace back the circuit to work out which one to cut is impossible. Life is way too short to waste it stuck in a cycle of existing primarily motivated to hold onto another person.
