1 seduction skill ALL MEN Must master to keep women hooked long term and never leave you 

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If a woman thinks she can manipulate you , and you pretty much do whatever she wants , then you’re already in big trouble.

"Absence makes the heart grow fonder."

Yup my girl said that exactly “you make me feel safe” or “I feel safe with you”. A lot of pickup artists down play this but it’s so crucial, she has to emotionally and physically and spiritually feel like she can just rest in your strength. It’s crucial to be grounded and have frame and learn emotional control and how to connect with her to develop this. Good points Casey! Love it.

She told me she felt safe with me on our first date. She also told me that I reminded her of her father. I pretty much had this sealed until I texted her that I liked her amongst other cringe messages. Live and learn.

I needed someone like Casey Zander to mentor me when I was in middle school, and then high school and college. Everything I believed and everything I was told by girls and by my parents all throughout my life was wrong!

I've heard "I trust you more than I trust myself with my life decisions". I'm taking it as a win

In my experience in order to get women and keep them you must love them/show indifference towards them but in a balanced way.

Perfect advice. Ive heard that from one girl, my beautiful, now fiance. Im 54 and have a 42 yr old model as my partner. Not until i walked away, proved to myself their were others out there, she contacted me back, i resisted at first, and took her back. Our relationship has transformed. Also through the process, never lose your cool. Be calm and resepctful in communication and confrontation. My best to you brothers.

Yes, attraction builds up in time spent apart.

Just stumbled on this channel and one minute in I’m hooked. The way you explain it is like a football coach right before the big game. Keep ‘em coming my friend.

I think this guy is really good at what he teaches. Kudos to him for finding his path and making a living out of it.

I have been told that before and it felt absolutely brilliant. It honestly made my day.

I really like your videos. I know you’re talking to guys but it’s very cool to see a guy teaching the things you teach. You know your stuff.

The starving dog never gets fed. Love that quote

One thing we must look out for is the shiny object syndrome. It is natural to want the ABSOLUTE best for yourself, but dont underestimate the degree to which you can build together. YOU must be the leader as a man and guide the ship away from the rocky flats, this is called wisdom- in a perfect world, and at the very least it is something we can strive for.

Bro I checked all this boxes and she still cheat . When i left she did everything to get me back i refused and she became crazy . She’s now on med. it’s all about a womans state of mind . Yes with this you’d get a lot of ladies however it doesn’t mean they’d stay . Me just enjoying my single life till i decide to give love a chance again in decades to come 😂

Something I discovered way back when I had this amazing summer romance, when I was a 19-year-old lifeguard. Even though we were both crazy for each other, going on amazing, romantic dates, and screwing like rabbits, I forced myself to only see her every other day. This kept the tension going all summer long, and kept her hungry for more.

Casey am ngl bro I’m exhausted, I’ve only watched like 5 vids over the last couple weeks and I feel like my brain has been completely fkn mashed with all this new info. No drugs, no drinking, eating well but damn, bro, F**K. 12 years man. 12 fkn years. Take the loss? Bro.

This is prolly the smartest advice I’ve heard amongst all the online BS….often coming from guys who’ve barely even known a women’s touch.

Appreciate this bc as a married man sometimes we go through phases and obviously I understand that’s just gonna happen. I so much appreciate the skills I learn from you!! Nobody works harder than I do, 2 daughters plus side hustle w business but the fact is I’m not a fkn lier and truth be told I’m in a bit of a rough place as far as keeping my marriage spicy. It’s not like we are hurting it’s just like you said vacation but girls have obligations and we just kinda stuck @ home, anyways thanks for the info on masculinity bc that’s my goal is to get BETTER! Better father, husband, etc... Fkn A I have heard that I feel safe line!! My kid like presence was my bread and butter back in the day, girls/ women loved it lol

He is the fkng king of the whiteboard. Very powerful delivery of facts.

I fn love you brother. I married my wife at 19. Yes I was terrible to my wife. I was an introvert and she still is a beautiful extrovert. We did things to each other that others couldn’t handle. I’m not placing blame. That being said, hopefully I can get through my depression of failing a 20 year marriage with some understanding. Short story thank you. Keep doing what you do. I’m a good man without a paddle. No excuses. You offer a paddle floating around. Thank you 🙏

Casey Zander, I am so glad I subscribed. I dated a girl just recently, she said, I feel safe with you as he stopped on a park bench on a hike. Unfortunately I made some mistakes and didn't watch enough of your videos to find out later why she dumped me. Keep up the good work helping men. Especially when were 5'6" and broke from divorce rape.

“Absence makes the heart grow fonder.”

The brother we needed!

I find that more mature women in their 30s and 40s need consistent and steady time together in order to feel safe. Its still a constant balancing act with seduction, so as to not make them feel rejected or discarded

You got me following bud. Good job, very clean and informative, no BS

I appreciate the advice, CZ. Stay insightful.

First thing she said after the deed and first time at the pad . After my late 20's I lived everything he says and didn't realize what I was doing , just came natural . He's dead on . 57 still having great relationships with all different age women and I'm always the one who breaks it off . Married once , wanted a divorce so I said fine , and then she spent 3 years trying to get me back took me on trips , the whole 9 . Master outcome unattachment is KEY . Casey is the Man .

Yes. When a woman tells me she feels safe with me, it's the biggest compliment and I know in dead on track with her

Perfect timing for this video omg

I’m hearing “I feel so safe around you daddy” now from an amazing woman I’ve been taking to for 2 months. She lives across country and so I only see her once a month. Just about everything you say in this lesson is balls on.

Dude you're like a teacher, keep up, ur vids are cool !

The Hungry Never Get Feed Master Outcome Unattachment hence Your coming from abundance If you Need anything from Anybody it fundamentally puts you at a disadvantage Be presentable Be Confident Have No intentions

This was straight cut and shoot to the main points! I actually really enjoyed this very much. I am an above average looking male and yet throughout my life I still have never mastered how to be extremely comfortable around beautiful women.

A very manipulative narcissistic move called 'push - pull' that's basically placing someone on a pedestal then devaluing them or trying to make them insecure with the intention they will chase you is a very dangerous game. Healthy people with boundaries will just simply see it as a reason to distrust and walk away for good. I know that there are many interpretations on what is meant in this video. I agree that not being very codependent or clingy is always the goal. You want to be at the page where each would still CHOOSE to be with the other but not depend on them for all of every part of life and purpose. Check in with her emotionally every now and then on how her life is going, it really goes a long way to put the friend in boyfriend!

"I feel safe with you" -My girl 2020-2023

At first I thought it was lame when women said "I feel safe with you" right before we enter a relationship when I said something loving and romantic, but now I know that phrase is super powerful and just as loving and romantic as the shit I said. Women and men see love and romance from two different perspectives, and it is just really fascinating how different we are. One of the best videos you have ever made Casey. Long time viewer, but now you earned a sub from me.

Finally a lecture on Quantum rizzics let's gooo!!

Thank you Casey. I am going to watch the broadcast now.

She Must Feel Safe Around you.(i feel safe around you) She must feel this emotion on an evolutionary basis. So have Vision,Goals,Purpose, Hardwork, Strength, Action.

Yes, my woman always tells me that she feels safe.

Spot on as always Casey !

I wish I’d discovered Casey before my heart broke not once but twice

Interesting breakdown man. Filled in some blanks for sure

Good content as always Casey. Have a nice weekend.

very helpful, thank you for creating this kind of videos. not all of them teach about this. you can't learn this in school

I have definitely heard the term "feel safe" before. Great content. Im a 25 year old from nyc.

I'm a woman and I can approve this message

Without Fail, Casey brings CLARITY to an immensely complicated topic. He knows his S**T 👍

My advise to all men out there. Be and stay who you are. Videos like this will get you thinking and that leads to a path thats not you anymore. When you finally get the girl of your dreams she will find out very soon you where just a act. When that happens you will be very very effected by it. Just be.... the women will pick you for who you are. The only thing you can do and still be you is make sure your body and mental health are in top condition and maybe even more important... get your life goals in order. A broken men... women smell them from a mile away. A men who puts on a act.... women will smell that from the other side of the galaxy. Stop watching this and be who you are. You can use this content to improve something you didn't know, but never use it as an act. The good men in this video is telling how it is. Use it wisely.

Absence makes the love grow fonder is not just a quote

This is the kind of video you watch three times and take notes. Good job, really opened my eyes.

Love this. Super helpful, dude!

I just heard the safety line last week, Thanks big daddy!!

Your advise seems legitimate and the sort of advice I wouldn't mind putting into practice to see how it goes.

Basically I get to do less and get more of what I want. You're a godsend man! Thanks for the advice.

Stand fast men, this is valuable true information

Be a high value man, earn a lot, look after your body n be laid back, women love status no matter wat

Very knowledgeable and very good teacher. Good characteristics of a good teacher. Thank you for the content.

Good one on the I feel safe and the magic. All three of my wives and many girlfriends have said that to me and those were moments I knew they were completely emotionally involved and committed to me.

I agree with everything. The only caveat is the woman has to play her role as well. A woman has to appreciate a good man.

Bring her into your world 🌎! I love your videos dude! Thank you

I have heard the phrase "I feel safe around you" directed towards me.

Yep! She's said that to me that she feels safe around me.

Keep telling the truth bro!

Incredible video. Thank you 🔥🔥🙏🏻

I've heard that line more than anyone needs to know.

THANK YOU! This is exactly what I needed to hear! Now I know how to handle the "Chad" who interferes(tall basketball coach) whenever he pops up.

I’ve heard it from many different women and it feels great.

Casey is the big brother i never had

Yeah, after our first date my girl told me "When you're next to me I feel safe and it makes me wanna love you forever"

I'm just ok at seduction, excellent at making them feel safe, but frame is my biggest challenge. So hard to extract yourself from old, unproductive habits.

Let me tell you somethin. You Sir are a Legend !! Thank You for making such an informative video it really helped.

Note- for the effort and time you hold off on sex, at least until after a clear two way commitment, it has been shown to build trust. So if you want the Woman to really trust you, that is a different thing than to guide her to think she can feel safe with you.

Excellent explanation, nice set up. Fire brooo

This is great stuff!!!

The point of time spent apart being important cannot be stressed enough.

Wow! I’m a Woman And Can Say This Is An Excellent Video! Safety Is No. 1. You Have No Idea How Uncared For And How Unsafe Women Feel On A Daily Basis. We Just Want To Let Go And Relax With A Competent Protector/ Provider Guy But Most Men Are Out To Extort From Us Sexually, And Trying To Manipulate Us, We Can Never Just Be. We Can Sense When We Are Safe, And When A Man Is Weak Or Trying To Con Us.

Great video and perspectives to empower gents. Please be aware of the slight difference between instil and install

In terms of seduction, we are only really excited by what is denied to us, by what we cannot possess in full. Your greatest power in seduction is your ability to turn away, to make others come after you, delaying their satisfaction. Most people miscalculate and surrender too soon, worried that the other person will lose interest, or that giving the other what he or she wants will grant the giver a kind of power. The truth is the opposite: once you satisfy someone, you no longer have the initiative, and you open yourself up to the possibility that he or she will lose interest at the slightest whim

My ex told me, she felt safe laying in my arms on the bed, but I still lost her 😪

Nice video bro!

Awesome content brother

Kasey why did u remove all your old videos!!!?? Some of those were single handedly the best videos that help me change my perspective.

Bro this video is the most top shit I’ve ever seen on sexual dynamics Thanks Uncle C

Believe it or not, my last 3 attempts in the past year, each and everyone of them told me "I trust you and I feel safe with you, but I just want to be friends", so while in the "friend zone" they still wanted to spend a lot of time with me but just as friends. I decided to go along with it until I find someone. Now I have a girl, I managed to shake one but 2 still seem "needy" for my "friendship" up to the point that my current girlfriend accepted them as friends too. Before I met my current girl, ( who I'm with for about 3 months now) I promised myself if I hear those words again "I trust you and I feel safe with you" on the second date I'm running..! So far so good..!😂

EPIC TRUTH ... Thanks CZ

She herself kept on saying that she feels safe with me until the day she walked away.

As a woman I fully agree with this approach!

Remember how Denzel said "Ma nigga" in training day. He's referring to fellas like this here. My guy. You! Know wtf you're talking about. Subbed.

1 & 3 resonated so fkn well. I am working on 2 (safety) 1. For some reason I subconsciously pull away after a date and take time to regroup, but for her it works like an attraction as the next time I see her she is all excited of what crazy idea I will come up next. 3. When I see a woman with other options I subconsciously feel better cuz I see all those simps around her and since she reaches out to me first I know she has no one better than me in her life (kind of boosts my ego and it levels me up in my game making me further not see the reason to reach out to her and she shows even more playfulness after that). Now, when it comes to 2 (safety) I realized just a year ago. I had no game in that area. However, since I started working on it I noticed it is not just about having a vision but also about being alert to your surrounding to be able to predict what will happen next based on what happened so far. This allows you to relax further making you look like you are in control.

Thanks for all these videos. Wish I could of found them earlier. I was raised by a masculine single mom so I had no understanding of what a woman was till now. My wife thanks you, but If I would of found you sooner I probably would of kept shopping for a woman. Shes wanted me to understand her nature earlier. Better late then never I guess.

Thanks Casey, you legend

this is great content!!!

Im full stacked btw P.s follow god, everything will come to u naturally

No need for vision to create safe feelings in others ;) ( this comes from someone that have a tendency to make people feel safe around him and get the safe compliment very often )

Ive always heard that from every girl ive dated and ive been crushing it for 20 plus years. Just got married to the most beautiful czech girl. Time apart is key and showing her you have options and will walk away if she doesnt act right but let her know youre not going to for no reason

In a way the rules of the game are very similar to spiritual lessons. You will lose what you attach yourself to, let go of the outcome, what you force runs away from you etc. Been following your content for a while, after ingurgitating redpill Alpha bullshit for a while (I believe in HVM concepts and such, but most of the redpill content lacks finesse and intelligence, in depth analysis), this is a more healthy approach in my opinion. Not about makings bags, being jacked and pickup, but about becoming a top of your OWN game man. There are alphas, but it doesn’t take being that to get girls and feel happy. I think it’s mostly about leaving the beta frame, but it won’t make everyone alphas, by definition they are a singularity.