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10 FIRST DATE TIPS FOR YOUNG MEN! 

Trell The Trainer
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Fellas it’s really small details that will set you apart!! It’s not the money, the car, the clothes etc! It’s the effort and energy! Also these should be done GENUINELY! Because YOU wanted to do them. So Don’t date or waste your valuable time, money etc or women you’re not interested in! If you’re bored you’re better off hitting the gym or kicking it with the fellas!!

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@hundredgrander
@hundredgrander Год назад
Really appreciate this info brother! Not all dates require spending $. Usually take a woman out for free the first time (scenic walks, museums, etc.). If she’s receptive to a second date, that’s when you know you found someone who is for YOU. Results may vary… Edit: Apparently everyone has a different interpretation of hiking
@louisbromfield7794
@louisbromfield7794 Год назад
I know the sentiment you're going for but hiking is a terrible idea! Don't get a woman to go into the woods or hills with someone she doesn't know!
@syzygy1776
@syzygy1776 Год назад
i met my girlfriend by taking her out to coffee and a walk at the lake. We ended up spending hours there. Once we felt comfortable to continue seeing each other. we then went out to thai food. I paid of course. But... my point remains is you dont always gotta break the bank to meet women. Just take intiative, make plans and make it special! shoutout to my brokebois.
@syzygy1776
@syzygy1776 Год назад
@@louisbromfield7794 Hiking is okay if its a popular spot. You aint gotta climb mountains, but if you go on a trail/light hike during the day and shes into it it's not a bad suggestion. You just gotta gauge the vibe with the person and whether they're into that or not.
@rasheemthebestfirstone3274
@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 Год назад
Man said hiking for a first date lol mean like walks in parks or just walks in general not no hiking
@rasheemthebestfirstone3274
@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 Год назад
Coffee as well
@Msimelda
@Msimelda Год назад
As a woman I appreciate you and these tips so much. It’s the small details that get me and guys STAY consistent ♥️carry this same energy into the 2nd 3rd and as many dates as you can… because it means a lot.
@mattiaslp9645
@mattiaslp9645 Год назад
what about the guys you let smash without a date? did they even have a car to take you home?
@jgsthenicz7787
@jgsthenicz7787 Год назад
@@mattiaslp9645💀🤣
@blessingjohnson7541
@blessingjohnson7541 Год назад
@@mattiaslp9645 😂😂😂
@powerscallingfiend
@powerscallingfiend Год назад
​@@mattiaslp9645😂😂😂😂
@GaMadeZae
@GaMadeZae Год назад
@@mattiaslp9645nahhh facts tho she want niggas to simp for her ,hell naw🙅🏽😂😂😂😂
@beingme7105
@beingme7105 Год назад
Are you a Mentor? If not, please consider bc our young men need someone like you 🙏🏽
@sieg6635
@sieg6635 Год назад
We don’t
@CordayCorday
@CordayCorday Год назад
We don’t need more simps 😂
@anonymousk1634
@anonymousk1634 Год назад
Hmmm so this guy has all the advice, but his results stink! No wife no kids no family 😂lol
@anonymousk1634
@anonymousk1634 Год назад
@Ariana Hyundai turn them into simps and playas 😂😂
@sieg6635
@sieg6635 Год назад
@Ariana Hyundai you don’t like his advice too? Fr
@yoyomabach4518
@yoyomabach4518 Год назад
Guys you don’t HAVE to spend money on the first date if it makes you uncomfortable or uneasy.. but IF you are in a situation where you invite her to movies, dinner, lunch, etc where a payment is required for entrance or services.. PAYING THE BILL often leads a good impression.
@JourTheeOnly
@JourTheeOnly Год назад
I agree with everything he said. As man dating in 2023 I always plan dates and I always choose something I enjoy because if the date goes left at least I still had a good time and don't feel like I wasted my money.
@realspitter2727
@realspitter2727 10 месяцев назад
Invite her over to smash. Only option.
@ADayInTheLifeOfJames
@ADayInTheLifeOfJames Год назад
As a guy slightly older in the game; agree but do not text her straight away give it till she tells you she got home safe or the next morning. Leave that message without a hope to catch-up again soon but a have a great week - try link it into an inside joke you had together or a topic like if she had exams etc; all the best for your exams go get em’. You need to give girls a moderate feeling of not knowing where they stand without thirsty immediate reassurance.. I know it’s fked up but this is how women in the west operate.
@o_vroboros
@o_vroboros 11 месяцев назад
Don't confirm no dates. If she doesn't show up, you dodged a bullet. Don't hint at a second date, you want to give her room to tell it to you first, also no need to let her know how much you enjoyed your date either, same reason.
@MsKeyIngredient
@MsKeyIngredient Год назад
Your advice encapsulates all ages, not just young men. Trust me when I tell you that some older men are clueless and can use some coaching.
@sophiaelayne9984
@sophiaelayne9984 Год назад
Big time.
@Kelper30000
@Kelper30000 Год назад
@@arianahyundai480”Skeeza”, you’re hurt bro, go heal.
@katorii4546
@katorii4546 Год назад
@@arianahyundai480 idk if you’re a guy or a pick me girl but that attitude you got is so unhealed n sad lmao
@timmathews803
@timmathews803 Год назад
This man gey as hell though
@jamesbedukodjograham5508
@jamesbedukodjograham5508 7 месяцев назад
Surely the answer.😊
@cassieswint7678
@cassieswint7678 Год назад
I love his videos. He is so informative and thoughtful.
@iviwambo18redh67
@iviwambo18redh67 Год назад
Probably a woman 😭
@lynetteb5544
@lynetteb5544 Год назад
Wow. Thank you for describing how a real man should perform on the first date. I truly enjoyed this.❤
@sophiaelayne9984
@sophiaelayne9984 Год назад
,second, third, forth and fifth....in the words of Miss Faye "It cost to be King".
@epgamer1145
@epgamer1145 9 дней назад
Love the starter. Never give questions. Have a preplanned trip. If she accepts than the ball rolls.
@kristinetwenty9374
@kristinetwenty9374 Год назад
This man is 100 perCENT correct good Lord I want to date him RIGHT NOW because he's giving this fantastic, accurate TRUE advice WHILE he is completing his skin care...wow BE still my heart!!! Guys listen to this man!
@AlokitoPritibi
@AlokitoPritibi Год назад
Sir,we want a video on how to organize things like wardrobe, clothes and saving space.
@deletedaccount9614
@deletedaccount9614 Год назад
Ima have to take that line ”is the toes for me” fr
@shaylagoogle3097
@shaylagoogle3097 Год назад
Teaching young men gentle man ways. It's perfect! Hope they follow your lead. Well, said. Now older men need to listen as well instead of asking a woman to their home instead of a proper 1st date. It's not happening ppl. Bless you for making this video.
@stubbbbbs
@stubbbbbs Год назад
“It’s the toes for Me” ahh hell nah 🤣🤣
@JJGetsGhosted
@JJGetsGhosted Год назад
Just something for y'all to think of before you get serious you have to understand if your in a relationship you gotta believe not just show that you are actually interested in your partner coming from someone who continues to make this mistake
@I90west
@I90west Год назад
I approve this message
@jonathanzyambo8286
@jonathanzyambo8286 Год назад
Damn this man is so wise
@sophiaelayne9984
@sophiaelayne9984 Год назад
There's hope for men out there and you could teach a community.. It's time men. Get it together.
@pwayne219
@pwayne219 Год назад
On a first date tho? If you do all this on a first date every date must be this way and then get better and more extravagant. First date should be about just getting to know and interacting with the woman.
@anonymousk1634
@anonymousk1634 Год назад
😂😂😂 right! This dude just a new age simp. His advice don’t even work for himself because he got nobody
@sophiaelayne9984
@sophiaelayne9984 Год назад
No. Listen to him.
@marcusgears1991
@marcusgears1991 Год назад
@@sophiaelayne9984 well listen to him if on the first date the man does all this and it gets us laid, until then HELL NO, first date is gonna be a coffee date or meet up in a park to get to know one another first.
@djlivvy46
@djlivvy46 Год назад
​@@marcusgears1991- if she slept with you on the first date then you would be calling her a h0e.
@HakimBeyYT
@HakimBeyYT Год назад
it’s unfortunate to see these “red pill” dudes who are obviously bitter towards women and normalize toxic relationships who tell men the opposite of what you just said. as a young man, I hate to admit how easily impressionable I can be at times. in an honorable world, where we treat others as we wish to be treated, this gentleman has the best advice.
@sieg6635
@sieg6635 Год назад
@Ariana Hyundai redpill is cope. Blackpill is where it’s at tbh
@HakimBeyYT
@HakimBeyYT Год назад
@Ariana Hyundai young lady, most “red pill” men aren’t even red pilled. fresh and fit for example get no pussy whatsoever and are misguiding young men. hamza, kevin samuels and trell the trainer however are actually red pilled, and have the physique, style and communication skills to show for it.
@yno1205
@yno1205 Год назад
@@sieg6635 yeah if you’re a chronically online loser with no attributes but if you’re 99% of guys it’ll just limit your potential/ happiness
@flap7024
@flap7024 Год назад
Whats blackpill?
@djlivvy46
@djlivvy46 Год назад
​@@arianahyundai480- hmm, if you really are a woman then you're extremely male identified. 👀
@theresaanderson8938
@theresaanderson8938 Год назад
I really wish there were more men who thinks like this I live in Philly I give up its not enough good men here.
@akherashepsutera2013
@akherashepsutera2013 10 месяцев назад
All great advice! Mind you, even IF you do all this, if it's not a match, it's just not a match. Don't take it personal and dont stop doin these things for other women. Best wishes yall! I know it's wild out here...
@Loveddeeply626
@Loveddeeply626 Год назад
Your attunement and leadership is top tier.
@lyrisgreenidge-adams5941
@lyrisgreenidge-adams5941 Год назад
Great tips. Most women will appreciate the effort
@blackstardove
@blackstardove Год назад
the only thing i disagree with is the text as soon as you get in the car. Ill say wait until she told you that she made it home and then let her know how much you enjoyed her . Because if you text her as soon as you get in the car im pretty sure she might be like " I just saw him, why did he say it face to face?"
@klampers
@klampers 2 месяца назад
nice advice, no bs just straight facts
@taraharris2582
@taraharris2582 9 месяцев назад
You said all the amazing things that are important. They all work for me as a Woman. It's the small things that matter. All the flexing is a immediate turn off
@MC_1993
@MC_1993 7 месяцев назад
Bro said “it’s the toes” hahaha
@dhruv-194
@dhruv-194 Год назад
I do and agree to all the tips except for the 'pay-the-bill' ...i split it always! Neither am I obligated to her nor is she obligated to me.
@Coloringoutsideofthelines
@Coloringoutsideofthelines Год назад
I'm going to say it...I think I'm crushing...real bad 😅
@issa0rama455
@issa0rama455 Год назад
When you ask your single friend for dating advice... They always got the most usefull tips and tricks
@Erika-pq7ip
@Erika-pq7ip Год назад
PERIODTT as a girl in agree
@jasminebaby3375
@jasminebaby3375 Год назад
THIS!!! Men please take note. 🔥🔥🔥
@mbtotall
@mbtotall Год назад
Facts. Well said my brother.
@sleepvideosrelaxvideos3608
@sleepvideosrelaxvideos3608 Год назад
Kiss on the forehead?? HAHAHA he must have been a girl when he was in prison
@ganiibrahim2482
@ganiibrahim2482 Год назад
😂😂😂😂😂
@killclav
@killclav Год назад
Yep you can tell they made him the prison bitch 😂😂😂
@marcusgears1991
@marcusgears1991 Год назад
Had to have been!!😂😂
@phillipbaker2383
@phillipbaker2383 Год назад
Bro keep us updated you the truth !
@xanderluu3876
@xanderluu3876 Год назад
It is the toes for me is crazy
@user_abcxyzz
@user_abcxyzz 7 месяцев назад
Im a woman who dates women and i approve this 💯 its same rules in same sex relationships 😂
@Gentryrok
@Gentryrok Год назад
Quick and to the point! I like it!
@RB-fz1zu
@RB-fz1zu Год назад
Absolute gentleman!❤️
@zanehudson3680
@zanehudson3680 Год назад
Now the tough part is finding someone worthy of this treatment
@stephancross1640
@stephancross1640 Год назад
I’m a new subscriber love your content on RU-vid and Instagram !! I was wondering what camera you use to record your videos because the quality is insane if you don’t mind sharing?
@ericcarson342
@ericcarson342 Год назад
In today's dating market apps are becoming the normal way to meet. There are some things that women go thru in the online dating world that men don't understand. Things like sexual requests, sexual pictures etc. There are things that women don't understand what men put up with. Guys outnumber women on apps by 3 to 1. Women can be choosy. You have a lot of women who are of the idea that a first date is dinner. That is crazy. I can understand it should be the guy to plan out the first meeting. Coffee, park, wine tasting is perfectly appropriate. Dinner on first date, no way, that's a flag.
@eric44ism
@eric44ism 5 месяцев назад
What's that stuff?
@micsop1107
@micsop1107 9 месяцев назад
I love it!
@gabrielargumedo4955
@gabrielargumedo4955 Год назад
Nigga said “it’s the toes for me”👀😂😂
@X.L.B1
@X.L.B1 Год назад
Going on a first date Tuesday
@guapify2320
@guapify2320 Год назад
How'd it go?
@petelewis950
@petelewis950 Месяц назад
Great advice.Why you gotta be dressed like that.Know you single cause know your lady should not want you giving advice like that.Mr.T.good tips.Psalm 1..Know my man know not to do that out of respect.Psalm 1.Do not wanna cause nobody to be lusting.Some still weak in that area.Peace.🙏🏽😍😎
@chantellbritto8559
@chantellbritto8559 Год назад
I know that's Right!
@ereezie6195
@ereezie6195 Год назад
I approve this message.
@Crystaliswriting
@Crystaliswriting Год назад
I love this.
@deangarland1726
@deangarland1726 Год назад
Way too validating
@earthzone85
@earthzone85 Год назад
Wow this was great . You did very good
@13_Leek
@13_Leek Год назад
I don’t agree with all but some of those are good
@Ex_Nihilo777
@Ex_Nihilo777 Год назад
Guys just be yourself
@solohere5608
@solohere5608 2 месяца назад
I’ll save you time, money and energy. Get your passport.
@beyoncuh_
@beyoncuh_ 11 месяцев назад
Factsssss
@joaovictorsantannabernardo425
Thanks, but i'm not playing the bill Alone. Anyways great video that you made❤❤❤
@ripF5C
@ripF5C Год назад
Dinner as a first date? Immediate L from this dude lmao
@SamiiRSMT
@SamiiRSMT Год назад
@missa7562
@missa7562 Год назад
classy, and definitely would make me want to see him again 😉👑
@chaneykansas
@chaneykansas Год назад
Pay da bill pay da bill 👀 pay da bill 😂😂😂
@dev2Game
@dev2Game Год назад
Have good conversation but don't give her compliments you can give her the compliments but don't flat out say it be you don't want her to know to much about what your thinking about her but don't act like your to good to say it
@CW70115
@CW70115 Год назад
Well done.
@IAmJayBoogie
@IAmJayBoogie Год назад
I have one question? How do you pay without her seeing?
@Taveren
@Taveren Год назад
Wait so you make multiple reservations at different places and then proceed to cancel the ones she doesn't want..?
@thaliaguthrie9614
@thaliaguthrie9614 Год назад
Great tips
@B-lazer3
@B-lazer3 Год назад
I thought this was jidion lol
@torytakken5177
@torytakken5177 11 месяцев назад
Niggas would hear all this and still say pull up to the crib come chill at 9pm
@blazeyt9867
@blazeyt9867 10 месяцев назад
Please be my mentor you are so helpful
@Waunderlust-lp3zz
@Waunderlust-lp3zz Год назад
These are facts
@twinamasikoiann
@twinamasikoiann Год назад
Can you drop your music playlist
@bondbarrybonds5774
@bondbarrybonds5774 10 месяцев назад
This must be derrick jaxn’s lil brother 😂
@musiq002003
@musiq002003 Год назад
I agree with everything
@ms.ravenwood
@ms.ravenwood Год назад
Awesome 😎.
@Andu_music
@Andu_music Год назад
Kiss on the forehead is horrible advice lmao. Most girls say it reminds them of their dad and dont like it. Just kiss on the lips when u say bye and hug, but keep it brief 5-7 seconds. Save tongue for second date. Also, asking a girl’s dealbreakers and “what would you have changed in your last relationship” on the first date is too personal and invasive, not good. Talking about any past relationships with a girl that early is not what you want to do.
@djlivvy46
@djlivvy46 Год назад
Nope, no kidding on the mouth on the first date. The woman barely knows you!
@Von_RX
@Von_RX Год назад
So true
@BhoojiBhoo
@BhoojiBhoo Год назад
From a female pov great job
@fion9886
@fion9886 10 месяцев назад
👑💯
@Eltardotv
@Eltardotv Год назад
Pay for the bill and y’all not going out again or see each other again that ain’t worth it. I’m not obligated to pay for the whole meal
@alm5851
@alm5851 Год назад
Cool.
@CasualCasimir
@CasualCasimir Год назад
Agree
@detroitninjas
@detroitninjas Год назад
What’s the stuff you be putting on your face
@sweetiecakes8228
@sweetiecakes8228 Год назад
A man pays bill 💵 before a woman does even if the woman can pay ❤👑
@saadk8905
@saadk8905 Год назад
Is he wearing nail polish?
@No_Fap_Hey_Zeus
@No_Fap_Hey_Zeus Год назад
Make longer videos
@uzumakiziz1705
@uzumakiziz1705 Год назад
Bro i rate you... Simple
@hushpuppi8057
@hushpuppi8057 Год назад
SIMP NATION, this neega omg…
@Loveddeeply626
@Loveddeeply626 Год назад
Thank-you for your understanding and guidance for our brothers.🙂
@shaunaboo961
@shaunaboo961 Год назад
No liquor on a first date.❤
@andrewbyrnes6389
@andrewbyrnes6389 Год назад
Wine with dinner?
@tempmcc3076
@tempmcc3076 Год назад
ALL FACTS!! SHARING ALL YOUR VIDEOS. It's the little things, take the time and make the effort.
@lorettajoneskubeczka3030
@lorettajoneskubeczka3030 Год назад
You are So…So…So…RIGHT ABOUT FIRST DATE, and the Kiss on the forehead… this guy stole a kiss from me I was so mad…Ugh!
@eboniivaationalblackrosebo4825
I appreciate men like you. You're one of the rarest gems to find. Folks lack time, effort, emotional maturity, and communication. I love this
@sieg6635
@sieg6635 Год назад
Yet women don’t have to do anything or put effort towards dating. That’s the only reason you like this
@eboniivaationalblackrosebo4825
@Sieg And, your bitterness is the exact reason why my comment triggered your attention. Nothing in the video nor my comment implies about women being one-sided throughout the dating process. Go somewhere🙄
@sieg6635
@sieg6635 Год назад
@@eboniivaationalblackrosebo4825 So if the man has to pay, set up the date, initiate conversation as per usual according to this video, how is it not one sided? You’re literally getting a free meal and fun time.
@sieg6635
@sieg6635 Год назад
🙊 ooga booga
@eboniivaationalblackrosebo4825
@Ariana Hyundai Yes, he is very much bitter. His response came from emotion and past experiences. Women like you need to stop cradling men fragility when it comes to dating with a purpose and showing women respect. "Listen to men's logic once in a while," like that's not something we haven't been doing since forever. I stand by what I said. Period.
@donnasmith3593
@donnasmith3593 Год назад
You really know how to tug on those heart strings.♥️♥️🔥
@anonymousk1634
@anonymousk1634 Год назад
So what has all this advice gotten u? No wife no kids no family 😂😂
@gridiron8870
@gridiron8870 Год назад
Not everyone wants to have kids
@jaylenettepagan3842
@jaylenettepagan3842 Год назад
You're very cute just to let you know lol ❤😉
@jbaru648
@jbaru648 Год назад
Sometimes I take a girl out for the first date just to find out that I’m not attracted to her. So all that texting after the date and kissing on the forehead stuff is out the window. I don’t do any of these things unless it’s a girl that I want to take off the market. Which is very rare
@TonyEbukaSG
@TonyEbukaSG Год назад
Bro so, what exactly are you saying?
@kwasiahenkora6583
@kwasiahenkora6583 Год назад
@@anulakshmi1630 No, he's trying not to lead his date on and have them hoping for more, when he's decides he's not interested.
@jbaru648
@jbaru648 Год назад
@@kwasiahenkora6583 Thank you
@OriginalAfricanTales
@OriginalAfricanTales Год назад
I understand you don't want to lead the lady on when you aren't attracted to her bit I believe he's referring to a guy who desires to get a second date, which implies the guy most likely likes the girl. Also the the ice breaking activity before dinner he talked about also gives room for both persons to see if they like each other.
@jbaru648
@jbaru648 Год назад
@@OriginalAfricanTales his video is misleading to women in that it implies if a man asks u out on a date then u are in the clear and the ball is only in the man’s court to prove to you why he deserves a second date. When dealing with high-demand men who are successful this is furthest from the truth and why many u don’t get asked out for a second date. The point of my comment was to bring balance
@gregoryblade1483
@gregoryblade1483 Год назад
I agree with you on these things but for me this is mostly a second date thing. In these modern times I never know if a women is on date for me or just because, so I’d rather go to a coffee shop and spend $20 than on a date somewhere nice and drop $150 plus on someone who isn’t taking me seriously
@danaglass1265
@danaglass1265 Год назад
Im a woman and I agree with you!!! I get so disgusted at the audacity of these little girls trying to take their friends, order the most expensive thing. On the flip side I’m tired of seeing these boys who think they paid for a meal and that entitles them to sex. Glad this chat is for grown men and women!!!! Not these kids. When me and my man started dating I always had my money just in case, ordered appropriately, offered to pay/tip ( he never lets me pay but I always ask to treat him). I snuck and did it once and he didn’t like that. Therefore I spoil him on his bday and other times. Cook/clean. I guess I’m old school. But we spoil each other!
@TonyEbukaSG
@TonyEbukaSG Год назад
Bro you’re the one picking them, how are you complaining.
@gregoryblade1483
@gregoryblade1483 Год назад
@@TonyEbukaSG not complaining I’m saying for men in the dating landscape to protect their wallet. I have the money to drop but why would I do that when at the end of the date she ghost me? Most of the time women that are there for you don’t mind those $20 initial dates. I’m 34 and dated a lot in my 20s so I have seen it all
@TonyEbukaSG
@TonyEbukaSG Год назад
Brother you having that mentally will make them ghost you, enjoy yourself, that’s all, people will want to spend time with you. Like he said in the clip, don’t expect anything in the end. You protect your wallet by Choosing your dates carefully in the first place, I am learning a lot from the clip creator btw one love
@TonyEbukaSG
@TonyEbukaSG Год назад
Don’t listen to @danaglass1265 I don’t understand a single thing she’s saying ,it’s called pity, it doesn’t apply to men.
@msrere411
@msrere411 Год назад
This man knows a thing or 2 about what women love 💕
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