Best compliment ive ever gotten was when i was on my way to school. This little girl looked at me and i heard her tell her friend : Woa, did you see how pretty she was?. When i feel insecure i just think about that and it makes me feel so much better.
I've always assumed when people stare at me in public its because I look ugly or my outfit is bad. I think we need to separate this from personal insecurities and the outside world and just learn to love ourselves and stop wondering what others think.. Im still learning myself.
People also get angry when they see you too and can’t help but stare like they’re going to murder you, or go out of their way not to help you, or assume you are already privileged even if it’s far from the truth.