Unfortunately most parents are either ignorant, uninformed or simple don't care about mental health issues, making them unequipped to deal with these types of problems. Most of them either don't have or simply ignore their *own* mental health issues, and think that if their kid suffers from a disorder or issue that it's somehow "their fault" (I mean it might be, but I digress). They're so scared of what society will think of them that they don't even consider that owning up to their own flaws and helping those around then might be the best option, instead of simply ignoring the problem or shunning away any signs that something's wrong.
@@vinnyfromvenus8188 It is unfortunate but in the past mental health was ignored mainly because it was associated with evil. I am so glad that we are slowly starting to pick up on and acknowledge mental health problems
I know quite a few parents do that, but it's not all of them. My mom helped me through my mental health issues and still supports me to this day. She is not perfect, no parent ever is, but she tries her best.
@@LucyQ-ew6zp funny thing that happened to me on Monday is I got grounded for ONe missing assignments in a already past quarter. And I had been on the verge of snapping(or just hitting my breaking point) for a while now. And I hit it due to me realizing that this was very unfair and my parents are always like this and will only focus on 1 bad thing and not the rest of the good (especially for their children even me who has learning difficulties and fun stuff like that.) they say I was crying and yelled at me how I shouldn’t pout that I got myself into this and it was my fault. And my mom who had pointed it out (if she didn’t I would have gotten away) when I asked her “why, why did you bring it up” she said that I needed to stop being such a baby and I said I don’t need reminding on how I’m a useless child. And she said something like you shouldn’t listen to other people that say that or idk. And I told her she has said it herself without regret. She sighed looked annoyed and said something negative and then when I tried to say she hurt me ignored me. Fun stuff for parents who claim to love and support you whenever you need it.
Yes Ik this does seem long as hell but this was a summary of the event and a lot more happening that if I said it, it would be a LOT longer and sound worse :/ I must admit I do slightly envy your mother and how she did try her best. Mine seem to thing they care but they don’t really in a lot of ways. I am glad you had a supportive parent it’s nice to see some of them try to help their kids instead of create the problem and not understand why we end up hating or being afraid of them
Me relating to the signs My mind: You just want attention. You're faking it. Noone will believe you. You're a stupid attention seeker who doesn't deserve to be happy. You're the reason why people feel upset and angry. Its always your fault. You can't do anything right.
@@venustrapsflies i know that its your brain telling you these thoughts, but I wanted to let you know that you do deserve to be happy, everyone does. It's not your fault, but we can work it out together :)
Psilocybin saved my life. I was addicted to heroin for 15 years and after Psilocybin treatment I will be 3 years clean in September. I have zero cravings. This is something that truly needs to be more broadly used in addiction treatment.
Psychedelics definitely have potential to deal with mental health issues such as anxiety and depression, I would like to give them a try but haven't found any legit grower to get it.
The Trips I've been having have really helped me a lot,I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well
_.Sanjii._01 2006 I always tell myself that just because I feel sad and think about my 'problems'. But I don't actually know proper life problems, in fact, I have a nice and normal life. I just feel over-dramatic. I can't tell the difference anymore if there's something wrong, or if I'm pretending. "I'm young, and I'm being over dramatic with simple things." Is what I always tell myself, and it might be true.
_.Sanjii._01 2006 Ehehehe... I guess an example could be how I belittle myself compared to others. It's a regular problem, anyway. Nothing too much, nothing too little. There are other "scenarios", but I don't want to (actually) tell them.
@@thejadewolf_omega889 well that is most definitely a problem . No one was put on this earth to belittle themselves . Try doing things your good at . Don't be too hard on yourself, after all we are humans right? And even if you can do the bare minimum it's still amazing, don't Set yourself high standards so that if you fail , which is fine , you won't feel like crap x
_.Sanjii._01 2006 Thank you for taking time out of your day to type those words. I will start trying to do things I am somewhat good at. You might not take my word for it, considering I am not good at expressing things through a screen, but I will do it. 😊 Thank you so much. 😊 The conversation may have been short, but it helped me a lot more than I thought.
I was diagnosed with PTSD at the age of 7, I’m 18 now. It doesn’t seem like it gets better, it’s gotten worse for me over the years. I’ve been used to high levels of anxiety, and not sleeping much. The night terrors and episodes have been quite difficult to deal with, and I didn’t take my mental health seriously until I attempted suicide a few months back. It feels like an emotional roller coaster, just on edge all the time. Bursting into tears at random, and having flashbacks. I don’t know when I’ll be able to get a grip on things, but I hope soon. I’ve started doing counseling and I’ve been on quite a few meds, but nothing seems like it’s working. Now I’m not going to give up, just gets hard sometimes y’know. If I could say anything to anyone, please don’t hurt yourself or attempt suicide. It’s a permanent solution for a temporary problem, it hurts everyone around you. If you have thoughts of suicide, please reach out to someone. Don’t become another victim of it, things will eventually get better. Through time and work, but at the end of it all. You will see a good change in yourself, God bless every single one of y’all. And please be safe
Yeah, it's possible, but it doesn't mean you don't deserve to at least go to a doctor and find out. There will be people who will understand how you feel. I feel the same way. But it can change. You can learn how to cope. You deserve to be happy. It won't be easy, but you shouldn't let that make you give up. It can get better. I wish the best to you. 🌺
@@zigzagoon-pl7yh I often think that, too. My brain always "tells" me, that I'm just trying to get attention. Even when I'm at home alone. And then I end up on a downward spiral of self-loathing because pretending to have depression and anxiety would be fucked up. (I'm sorry if my english isn't good. I'm not a native speaker)
@Knight's Games sure because it would be absolutely ridiculous to say that you should take a proper care of yourself and do well at school. These are two completely different things.
Psychedelic are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough.it's fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety..it saved my life
Please does anyone know where I can get them? I put so much on my plate and it really affects my stress and anxiety level .I would love to try to shrooms.
I'm glad myco_louiis is mentioned... I've been having severe depression for years now but I had to hit him up and got some of his product..they work like magic.
My depression: Overdose! My Anxiety: It will fail, and you'll cause irreplaceable damage to your organs and possible chronic pain. My depression: . . . Drowning or Suffocating? My anxiety: Gotta stop you there buddy, you're either filling your lungs slowly up with water or youre slowly losing oxygen. The pain and length of time... My depression: . . . . . . Blood loss? My Anxiety: Have fun cutting yourself deep enough to bleed out. Yes its painless bleeding out, but do you know what's painful? Causing a big enough wound
Korboe Morgan you aren’t being dramatic. Your feelings are valid, and it can really help to talk to a Parent or trusted friend about how you are feeling. But I do t know your situation so you should do what you think is right.
I live in Michigan….suffering for awhile now but didnt realize how serious I may have it until recently - probably bc of @self medicating” with alcohol,I've had so many people say nice things about magic mushrooms but they are hard to source
Please does anyone know where I can get them? I put so much on my plate and it really affects my stress and anxiety level .I would love to try to shrooms.
my family : • insults my weight • insults my grades • calls me stupid and compare me to other people • insults my friends • controls my whole life • keep telling me what to do, what to be one day also my family : “why aren’t you spending time with us?” “it’s that damn phone again” “she’s just overreacting” “stop being so dramatic”
@@itzyogirl8063 pls don't think like that, of you're depressed, you're depressed. The reasons don't really matter. Don't let it drag you down even more please and maye it's time for you to search for professional help. I hope you get better soon🙏
Today, my dad jokingly threw socks at my head. I got annoyed when they fell behind my bed. He said “if your head wasn’t weirdly shaped like that, then they wouldn’t have bounced behind your bed.” What I wish he realized is that these sly remarks really hurt.
Lol literally everyone here, med students suffer the same problem cus of placebo effects, they just study all night long and feel they have the disease they’re studying
@@Born2Losenot2win Really it's a matter of how much. Just asking whether or not you have depression isn't enough, but asking for how long you've been in this state is a step in a right direction.
@@chaomatic5328 true, but it’s funny how depression is so obvious when you finally out of it compared to when you had it and kept denying it lol, For me colors were all doll and foods tasted pretty much the same and when I was anxious I over ate, I over slept and didn’t have proper sleeping patterns and didn’t want to get out of the bed till the last moment, I was also obese, and when I thought if I had depression I chuckled and said “naaaaah” like depression was this stigma or sth to be ashamed of, and I kept subconsciously denying it, after a suicide attempt I got my shit together, now that I shed about 60 pounds or more and finally have a life purpose I get what depression was, But I still have that perspective on depression you know? It was really pathetic of me, and ungrateful for things I already had, bad things happen, parents divorce, bullying, outcasted, bad grades, failure, accidents, heck some people even become homeless, and some even die, When I see people being so... self influential(?) and keep telling themselves they’re in this deep unclimbable pit that’s all imaginary and self made I just snort, I’d give them the same attitude I’d give myself when I was a kid “get your shit together man, stop downing yourself, life was always a war, be brave and accept it”
1. You’re having feelings of sadness or depression that last longer than 2 weeks 2. You’re having extreme mood swings and don’t know why 3. Your worry and anxiety have gotten out of control 4. You’ve started withdrawing from others or isolating yourself 5. You may have noticed you’re having delusions or hallucinations 6. You’re having more and more difficulty dealing with normal life situations 7. You’re sleeping too much or too little 8. You’ve started abusing drugs or alcohol 9. You’re having extreme anger outbursts 10. You’ve started thinking of self harm or suicide edit : i love you all and we’ll get through this 💛
What if you're "bipolar" and society says that you're "ill" and "broken"...but in your GUT not mind and all touchy and feely bs...in your GUT your CORE... You feel as if you're here for a MUCH bigger purpose??? I love others and I'm here to build and grow. Provide for the world and everyone and everything around me...at LEAST with love. Easier said than done because I'm easily triggered and will let it go just as quick. Thanks for sharing!!!!
i had 4 panic attacks in my life and i always chill myself and being positive without any other's help cause sometimes you feel like literally no one can understand you. and i think we better all be positive in our own way and doing whatever makes us happy even tho we feel like we can't do anything but we should know our values thoughts and feelings ect. everything on us is precious and no one deserves know our weird or complicated stories, thoughts and feelings.
Some people do listen just that they are rare to be found or just they don't want to coz they are busy dealing with their. Stay strong and move ahead in life. You are doing great.
Facts but I’m also still going to ignore because omg it’s so hard to tell people how you feel and I don’t want my parents or family knowing but I’m 15 so they have to know 😅
"Come on, why are you depressed, there's so much good in the world!" "I don't know DAD, why do you have asthma, there's so much air in the world!" And so people stop freaking commenting about this being on tik tok, yes, I know, that's why I used quotations. I'm sorry if this sounds rude, I'm just tired of people telling me that
Scrolling the comment made me even more sad but realized that I'm not the only one whose living like this. No one would understand, I feel y'all guys, I love you.
Choco Sylph no one knows what wrong with, I tried telling mom but she just laughed thinking I’m just imagining stuff because I was just a kid, but it get worse as you grow up but you hide it behind a smile so no one can see through you
thanks Choco Sylph I love you too, I want to try telling my mom about this stuff but I and just to scared that she will say that being dramatic since I am only 10 years old
@@bangtanforever3230 same, years ago when my mental health wasn't too bad, I asked my mom for a therapist bc I was just really sad all the time, and she said 'you don't need a therapist you can talk to me'. And I believed her and when I talked to her about my sadness, she didn't take it seriously telling me that doing chores would make me happier. After I realized she just didn't care, I continued life without any sort of mental help. Being in the horrendous state that I'm in now makes me realize that if my mom had taken me seriously I could have been so much happier
"it's just a phase, it's nothing serious" "it's because you spend too much on your phone" "you should go out more and socialize, you will feel better" "stop complaining" "you're just being dramatic" "attention seeker" "just get over it"
@@ItsnotLeia_xx well you need to stop caring about what they say, people will always have something to say, and if you know you are really hurt, then you are, you know yourself better than anyone and I believe you and I believe in you
You deserve to live. Speaking to anybody and everybody. No matter what you, or someone else is telling you, you don’t deserve to die. You deserve to live, to get better, to that ditch that person, or group of people (you know who I’m talking about🤨), to eat normal again, to think normal again, to feel like yourself again! Please don’t give up, don’t give in. Because someone will care if you dissapear one day. I will. I promise. ❤
@@thebookbeanno not really nobody cares in the end then everybody dies and rots in the end and not care about each other as time goes on, thoughtful of you to say but it doesn't really help.
@@thebookbeanNot really thanks for your thoughtful statement to everyone but it doesn't really help especially as time goes on, people don't always get better.😒
i used to enjoy drawing such garbage looking stuff and showing it to my mom and her telling me thats its nice and she goes back on her phone idk why i smiled although she clearly didnt give one dam
1. Feelings of sadness longer than two weeks 2. Mood swings 3. Worry & anxiety out of control 4. Withdrawing from others 5. Delusional or hallucinating 6. Difficulty when dealing with normal situations 7. Sleeping issues 8. Drug or alcohol abuse 9. Extreme anger outbursts 10. Thinking of self-harm or suicide
I wish I could look back and think I was happier but I’ve had several illnesses going on for most of my life that I just can’t remember anymore:/ 9 years of depression just made me used to it so it’s hard to recognize
There you go that’s the right approach lose people find yourself love yourself trust yourself, you and god can believe in yourself you can get out of this by yourself take baby steps.
My son aisle he’s self he is 18 he have ADHD he went to college this year and swim with the college in division 3 but he end to drop swimming and fail a lot classes . I want to help him but I don’t know how because he is blame me for everything and luck me like enemy. I feel that nothing had have helped him .
I think the phone actually helps. Because online friends are so great to have and actually help you keep going. But parents don't seem to understand that. Which I'm very sorry for all the children who have those kind of parents.
I actually took a stress management class in Uni and we went over breathing techniques in lab which was amazing for helping my crippling anxiety I was experiencing at the time.
@@youheartmel Exactly, from the fatigue for lack of oxygen, to the mental distress of sleep dep'. There's s lot that poor posture and simple breathing effects more than we tend to believe. ;o)
as a teen whos struggled for years with no resources for help, there will be ups and downs, but even when you think you're at your limit, you can get better and time heals all wounds.
Schools do often get a bad rep for stuff like this. Don't get me wrong, they do definitely cause these emotions, but it seems like things are progressing towards a better system, especially when it comes to teaching about mental health. I'd have to agree though. The first time I ever contemplated suicide, albeit very briefly, was when a teacher made a grading error on an important assignment. I was genuinely distressed because at that point, I had been making straight A's for a few years in a row. There was another event that happened either that year or the next with a group project in history class. Our lead designer (we had to assign jobs), was suspended, and our other team member could barely understand what was going on, but I could tell he was still trying. When it came time to present our project, I was the only who could tell people what things were because even though our designer was back, he didn't make hardly anything. When it came my turn to speak, I began stuttering and could barely explain what I had made. That day and the day after, I was too stressed to eat lunch, despite me being hungry.
@@shanerdude8121 Yeah, it just sucks, sometimes you can't get over the things that you thought you could have been better at instead anxiety kicks in. And whats more annoying is that schools sometimes doesnt consent what their students are feeling towards school and takes it for granted
When real things happen I don't cry, I feel sad but I don't feel that I have the right to cry. But I cry over dumb things, (with dumb I mean things that shouldn'tmake me cry that much) like a sad video or a movie, or even this video. It's like I release a part of all the stress, like I'm not really crying at the movie but using the perfect timing to release myself a little.
@@sofiacastellanoss21 It is hard to have anxiety, depression and all that stuff and it is even harder to deal with it alone but let's hang in there ✨ Ps. Sorry if it was hard to understand, I learned English kind of by myself.
As someone who has been diagnosed with Anxiety, Depression, and BPD over 10 years ago, this list is spot on seriously. I wish it was easy to reach out for help but back then it really wasn’t and even today it’s still difficult. I’m blessed that I get treatment, obviously it’s not easy at all despite everything, but it’s a work in progress. Mental Illness is no joke, I’ve been dealing with it for so long and it just tears you down and distorts your reality.
@@bereniceguerra5513 My mom is like: U can share ur problems or secrets with me, I'm ur mother When I share my problems: Cant u solve ur problems urself!? When I was ur age I used to * Blah Blah *
1. Feeling sadness or depression for more than 2 weeks 2. Extreme mood swings (Bipolar) 3. Worry and anxiety disorder 4. Withdrawing from others 5. Delusions and hallucinations 6. Difficulty in normal life situation (Job) 7. Sleeping too much or too little 8. Abusing drugs and alcohol 9. Extreme anger outbursts 10. Suicidal thoughts
um ive actually studied and looked into it and take in mind im 17 but too much is bad for youre health, all this depression took off when phones got into the hands of kids, you guys need to be out finding out who you really are and pushing your selves to be better instead of wasting youre life scrolling and liking, do something with yourself and i promise you will find some form of happiness, people are lazy nowadays and expect everything to come to them, if you really want to expand youre knowledge on the mind i highly suggest watching bruce lee talk or david goggins
@@reichreenactor4874 that's true! , Actually I used to make fun of the "because of that phone" joke ,but then I realized that all of my parents told me are real when I try to minimize my phone/gadget usage and use my energy to more meaningful things and do physical activities I felt more clear in mind and connected to the real world than ever before . I realized that all of the negative and toxic mindsets we're came from excessive phone usage where you will literally be disconnected to the real world, but it usually slowly go to normal again when you minimize or stop your gadget usage specifically internet . I'm 16 btw
I've been fighting my urges to go back to self harm. I tried self harm for the first time when I was 14-15 ish. I stuck with it till my early months of being 16 and here I am now, approximately 1 month away from being 17.
Therapists do what they do to help people. You gotta remember how many other peoples stories they've heard. It's their full time job. They're 100% used to it and are usually very nice and caring people
There is no age to depression even children can be depressed and puberty doesn’t mean you have to have depression I hate this stigma, because all those teenagers who are depressed don’t seek out the professional help they need. I suffered from phases of depression my whole life and when I try talking to someone I feel like they belittle me because I am a teenager. That is so stupid!
You deserve to live. Speaking to anybody and everybody. No matter what you, or someone else is telling you, you don’t deserve to die. You deserve to live, to get better, to that ditch that person, or group of people (you know who I’m talking about🤨), to eat normal again, to think normal again, to feel like yourself again! Please don’t give up, don’t give in. If no one else out there believes in you, I do. Because someone will care if you dissapear one day. I will. I promise. ❤
When you check off everything on the list, but your parents still think you're "just tired" Edit: Since a lot of you guys seem to really relate to this, I know music can really help people, so here's a couple artists I like to listen to: Imgeist - soundcloud.com/imgeist Amelieee - soundcloud.com/ameeeelieee (this one is actually me 0_o) Sadboyprolific - soundcloud.com/sadboyprolific Rxseboy - soundcloud.com/rxseboy Kam Michael - soundcloud.com/kammichaelmusic Feel free to add more in the replys and I'm also always here to talk, my instagram is amelie__online
"Why are you sad? There's so much hapiness in this world!" Is like telling a person with asthma "Why do you have asthma? There's so much air in the world!"
When I spoke to a psychiatrist about my anxiety issues, she just brushed it off saying am not mature enough to understand the problems! And overthinking is normal.
@@MissLinyenify Didn't realize there was government assistance, actually. I'll have to look into that :) I have insurance, but all of the places around me don't take that nor will my insurance pay for it, which sucks lol. I'll have to check out other resources though, just not sure what all is out there still
This video reminded me that I was suppose to be looking for a therapist online so I am. And I wanted to tell you that I found some places I am pretty sure are free. They r easy to find on google. I even found a lgbtq+ one!
This is why i dont feel like talking about this kind of things with somebody i just smile and show them the energetic guy they see on me im the class clown afterall i should be smiling right? right . . .
Yea, I have bi polar. I have little moments of excitement, but honestly, I'm more constantly sad. Sad how the world is. Almost any joy turns to sadness realizing it won't last long. I keep telling myself "joy? What's that?" And think it's not reality and find myself checking and pushing it down thinking I'm not in reality.
Since when do phones cause whirling vortexes of self-doubt depression and anxiety? Oh that's right... NEVER. Without my phone I probably wouldn't be alive right now
I currently have about 10 assignment’s due (probably a lot more) I legit can’t focus for no real reason and I got kind of stressed when I realized I could have adhd since I didn’t want others worrying about me more since I was diagnosed with depression. My phone is keeping me sane because now I have less jealousy but I feel bad because my friends want phones but can’t get them because of the prices. I’m going to fail my class probably if I don’t finish my work. Thanks for letting me rant a bit, this isn’t the full story of course idrc. Reminder that spanking your child is not ok and can make them fear you, I grew up like that and now look at me 😚. Have a great day everyone!
Once someone treated my sf bc of School like they are doing it and didn't know the full story and thought they did told the teacher and then Traumatized me.
its funny cuz teens have to stress about their body changing, their brain changing, trying to fit into being an adult while still appearing to be a child and thats kind of confusing, predicting the next 60 years of their lives through college and careers, but maybe im just making up excuses for being moody and stuff..
I told my mom about my depression and even attempts of suicide as well as sh and all she said to me was "sweety, it's just hormones." She just undermined it and said nothing else.
Yes that's what's my mom is saying now that it's just hormones which it's not because I have suicidal thoughts all the time and I have trust issues and now I feel like shit and I'm 13 and this all started at the age of 7 which I know is very young.
I hate admitting things, because it makes me feel guilty that it sounds like im looking for attention, but all of these signs have happened to me. Even if i do need a therapist, I wouldn't risk telling my parents for it. (Not the drugs and alcohol one) edit: Thank you guys for actually agreeing to me, I honestly expected more hate since i'm in the Gacha, Animation community, and i'd usually get hate for doing this. Even if we are strangers through the internet, I hope you guys have a good life, and get the help you all need,
Hi everyone kindly support ICU Family on their Mental Health Patreon page I just started it up www.patreon.com/ICU_Family, we have a lot of ideas and goals that I would love you to be part of. We give out gifts for 3x months subscribers and help Mental Health awareness to reach thousands of people and helping a lot of people.
I know i am gonna be whooshed as it is a joke but if your introversion is a choice than it is ok. But if you are forced to be introverted than it is better for you to get help.
i know it probably isnt the case (cus me and my family are no example of a functional family and it would never work here)but maybe they are afraid of it happenig so they just neglect it hoping it will go away and not happen, i dont know about you but here in Brazil(yes im brazilian so sorry for any bad english im still learnig the language) the generation that came before me (my parents and grandparents mostly) were not allowed to express emotions well because it was seem as weakness and that made then supress emotions until it was over, and for that reason they espect it to work again but really i dont know, people lie to themselves real often so maybe talk with then and even if they dont believe you nedd help know that deep down they wish they could do something or maybe not, maybe they are just dicks, it happens, more than it should but its ok
also sorry for butting in i got the bad habit of trying to fix things up, even things unreleated to me if anything i said offends you im really sorry i just hope to help
I was always brushed off as dramatic and attention seeking, for as long as I could remember that I couldn't even notice my own depression or overthinking episodes when they were at their worst. Recently reaching out to psychiatrist due to the extreme escalation towards self-harming thoughts, and she started off by requesting me to observe my mood and physical symptoms daily. Turned out my symptoms were there all along, all this time I thought I was just "being dramatic", it's scary. How many of us were being brushed off and told off every single time for reaching out to them for help? I could never know
I always have to tell myself that "I'm just being dramatic to try to make myself feel normal" I don't want to have a mental disorder because it has been made out to be something awful.
@@aubrey597 I do it more out of pride tbh. Everyone in my family has some kind of mental thing and I've always been proud that I don't so I just ignore everything so I have something to be proud of
I'm not sure if this applies to most countries, but I know that there are youth clinics in Canada that are free and will keep your visits a secret from your parents or guardians if you choose to do so... I recommend you search up these sort of youth clinics in your area so that you can get the help you need!! I wish you luck :)
Put your foot down and do it anyway. Don't let them win or else you'll have your problems build up for years which is far, far worse. It's your right to fight for your wellbeing, no matter what people think
These are like things to avoid saying to someone who has mental health problems.. Do you want us to do a video on this to help raise awareness on how toxic these phrases could be? Let us know.
Hey, I have Dyslexia, ADHD, anxiety and depression. I resieve these comments 24/7. In their mind, they probs think that they are giving u a wake up call, but it makes it 500 times worse. I start tearing up when I hear other ppl recieving the same comments because no one deserves to feel overwhelmed and helpless. The reason I stay inside is because of all the negativity and with this whole situation this year, I cant take anything negative in anymore. No one asks how I'm doing when I help them. Friends should help and consider ur feelings too. I hate to know that u receive these comments too, and I'm sorry u do Heres a Cyber hug❤🤗😔
I have encountered these things in myself a long time ago but ignored these symptoms. Today this video again ensured that I have all the symptoms without the 8 number but who is gonna understand this my parents?!!
litterly me. but i don't really want to say nything about it because then i'd feel like im just being bothersome and scared people will judge me for "faking" it so i just dont say anything.
I started to have depression when I was 10, maybe even earlier. When I was 11, I had anxiety attacks that span for weeks then went into a crazy panic attack that needed a doctor to calm me down. Finally went to a shrink when I was 17 and was clinically diagnosed with depression and severe anxiety. Gave me some pills and was too eager to psychoanalyze me... Didn't really help. I'm 25 now and my mom still tells me to not think about it and stop saying depressing things. Good thing I'm not actively suicidal and probably never will be, but I'm not averse to dying early, so there's that.
“You’re sleeping too much, or too little” Me watching at 4:48 am: Eh, can’t relate Edit: before you all read the replies, it’s literally just a bunch of people telling me what time it is for them (Which I appreciate, nice knowing I’m not the only one awake at these times
Some I can relate too, but idk if I’m being overdramatic or not reading my emotions properly. I don’t remember the last time I was happy, but it could’ve been yesterday and I don’t remember. I always doubt myself and my feelings, I have no idea why Can anyone else relate?
Yup. I mean, I'm...OK, but I haven't been reay happy or enjoyed something I've done for a while, besides maybe walking with my mom. I've been thinking a lot about how my humor deteriorated after quarantine, and I dunno, maybe this isn't healthy? But I can't diagnose myself, and I don't wanna go to a doctor because no answer sounds good. If I'm sick, that bad on it's own, but if I'm not I have to face the reality that I'm just being irresponsible. Like, I had calendars set up and everything, whole week planned ahead of time, and now I can't bring myself to watch classes I don't wanna, or to fulfill my tasks at home or for other projects. I've always been a master procrastinator, but this is getting bad. Reminds me of the end of the year, where shit always gets a bit rougher. Oh, and it's 3:30 AM as I type this. Shit.
Hey guys! After a separation with friends in the past I was feeling down for an extremely long period of time. I never went to a specialist but I am very sure I was in a depression. One thing I can give you as an advice in that situation. Stop digging in your feelings. Trust me I am a person who pretty much overthinks alot of stuff, but that doesn't make me a crazy person, thats just how I am. When you start looking in yourself too much there is the moment you are starting to lose it. With me the problem was when I felt pain I was like "Why I am in pain, can it be something serious?" As every stupid person I started diagnose my condition in internet which is a HUGE mistake. Everything you feel as a pain in the interenet means cancer. If you believe in what they say there, you really dig yourself even deeper. One think we must realize is that we change overtime, we feel different, stuff that made us happy while being a teenager are not as exciting anymore. It is normal. My advice after all the bla bla is to just calm down. Find something that calms your mind. For me it is drawing, or playing something relaxing on the PC. I also found that sports can really really keep your mind well. I hope I helped even I tiny bit. Time flies fast and we need to use it while we are still here. Best wishes!
Yes, many adults have been told that it’s just hormones. And from their experience, it went away once they grew up. (This being according to my mom, who I have an okay relationship with.) However, they could try to consider the exact wording of “it’s just a phase-“ :( I’m the younger sibling in my family, so my older sister took the hardest blow. Thank God she didn’t turn on me instead-
Yep my mom says why do you never go outside Well idk mom maybe it's cause the whole family has always hated me and you're no longer like a parent to me my sister's support me and that's it I got bullied and no one ever cared you always get mad at me I'm always sobbing grandma always called me disappointment and is always mad at me i have to be manipulated everytime :)
