Me relating to the signs My mind: You just want attention. You're faking it. Noone will believe you. You're a stupid attention seeker who doesn't deserve to be happy. You're the reason why people feel upset and angry. Its always your fault. You can't do anything right.
@@n4nia i know that its your brain telling you these thoughts, but I wanted to let you know that you do deserve to be happy, everyone does. It's not your fault, but we can work it out together :)
I know quite a few parents do that, but it's not all of them. My mom helped me through my mental health issues and still supports me to this day. She is not perfect, no parent ever is, but she tries her best.
@@LucyQ-ew6zp funny thing that happened to me on Monday is I got grounded for ONe missing assignments in a already past quarter. And I had been on the verge of snapping(or just hitting my breaking point) for a while now. And I hit it due to me realizing that this was very unfair and my parents are always like this and will only focus on 1 bad thing and not the rest of the good (especially for their children even me who has learning difficulties and fun stuff like that.) they say I was crying and yelled at me how I shouldn’t pout that I got myself into this and it was my fault. And my mom who had pointed it out (if she didn’t I would have gotten away) when I asked her “why, why did you bring it up” she said that I needed to stop being such a baby and I said I don’t need reminding on how I’m a useless child. And she said something like you shouldn’t listen to other people that say that or idk. And I told her she has said it herself without regret. She sighed looked annoyed and said something negative and then when I tried to say she hurt me ignored me. Fun stuff for parents who claim to love and support you whenever you need it.
Yes Ik this does seem long as hell but this was a summary of the event and a lot more happening that if I said it, it would be a LOT longer and sound worse :/ I must admit I do slightly envy your mother and how she did try her best. Mine seem to thing they care but they don’t really in a lot of ways. I am glad you had a supportive parent it’s nice to see some of them try to help their kids instead of create the problem and not understand why we end up hating or being afraid of them
Psilocybin saved my life. I was addicted to heroin for 15 years and after Psilocybin treatment I will be 3 years clean in September. I have zero cravings. This is something that truly needs to be more broadly used in addiction treatment.
Psychedelics definitely have potential to deal with mental health issues such as anxiety and depression, I would like to give them a try but haven't found any legit grower to get it.
The Trips I've been having have really helped me a lot,I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well
Unfortunately most parents are either ignorant, uninformed or simple don't care about mental health issues, making them unequipped to deal with these types of problems. Most of them either don't have or simply ignore their *own* mental health issues, and think that if their kid suffers from a disorder or issue that it's somehow "their fault" (I mean it might be, but I digress). They're so scared of what society will think of them that they don't even consider that owning up to their own flaws and helping those around then might be the best option, instead of simply ignoring the problem or shunning away any signs that something's wrong.
@@vinnyfromvenus8188 It is unfortunate but in the past mental health was ignored mainly because it was associated with evil. I am so glad that we are slowly starting to pick up on and acknowledge mental health problems
I was diagnosed with bipolar since my teenage. Spent my whole life fighting bipolar. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.
Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.
Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Germany. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.
YES very sure of Dr.alishrooms. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
Mushrooms are very medicinal. This is why anybody familiar with psilocybin and any other kind of fungi will tell you, "They are alive." They have a very ancient wisdom. To my experience, all mushrooms have always said, "Pay attention to your life. How you think, how you feel, and what will you do with the information that you always knew, but now are seeing in this point of view." This is why mushrooms are so respected in tribal cultures. This mental health treatment works for me too. Half micro doses do the trick for me. At least a few days at a time with lengthy time in between. Thank you for sharing this point!
I was diagnosed with PTSD at the age of 7, I’m 18 now. It doesn’t seem like it gets better, it’s gotten worse for me over the years. I’ve been used to high levels of anxiety, and not sleeping much. The night terrors and episodes have been quite difficult to deal with, and I didn’t take my mental health seriously until I attempted suicide a few months back. It feels like an emotional roller coaster, just on edge all the time. Bursting into tears at random, and having flashbacks. I don’t know when I’ll be able to get a grip on things, but I hope soon. I’ve started doing counseling and I’ve been on quite a few meds, but nothing seems like it’s working. Now I’m not going to give up, just gets hard sometimes y’know. If I could say anything to anyone, please don’t hurt yourself or attempt suicide. It’s a permanent solution for a temporary problem, it hurts everyone around you. If you have thoughts of suicide, please reach out to someone. Don’t become another victim of it, things will eventually get better. Through time and work, but at the end of it all. You will see a good change in yourself, God bless every single one of y’all. And please be safe
Psychedelic are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough.it's fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety..it saved my life
Please does anyone know where I can get them? I put so much on my plate and it really affects my stress and anxiety level .I would love to try to shrooms.
I'm glad myco_louiis is mentioned... I've been having severe depression for years now but I had to hit him up and got some of his product..they work like magic.
Korboe Morgan you aren’t being dramatic. Your feelings are valid, and it can really help to talk to a Parent or trusted friend about how you are feeling. But I do t know your situation so you should do what you think is right.
I live in Michigan….suffering for awhile now but didnt realize how serious I may have it until recently - probably bc of @self medicating” with alcohol,I've had so many people say nice things about magic mushrooms but they are hard to source
Please does anyone know where I can get them? I put so much on my plate and it really affects my stress and anxiety level .I would love to try to shrooms.
Today, my dad jokingly threw socks at my head. I got annoyed when they fell behind my bed. He said “if your head wasn’t weirdly shaped like that, then they wouldn’t have bounced behind your bed.” What I wish he realized is that these sly remarks really hurt.
My depression: Overdose! My Anxiety: It will fail, and you'll cause irreplaceable damage to your organs and possible chronic pain. My depression: . . . Drowning or Suffocating? My anxiety: Gotta stop you there buddy, you're either filling your lungs slowly up with water or youre slowly losing oxygen. The pain and length of time... My depression: . . . . . . Blood loss? My Anxiety: Have fun cutting yourself deep enough to bleed out. Yes its painless bleeding out, but do you know what's painful? Causing a big enough wound
I've been fighting my urges to go back to self harm. I tried self harm for the first time when I was 14-15 ish. I stuck with it till my early months of being 16 and here I am now, approximately 1 month away from being 17.
i had 4 panic attacks in my life and i always chill myself and being positive without any other's help cause sometimes you feel like literally no one can understand you. and i think we better all be positive in our own way and doing whatever makes us happy even tho we feel like we can't do anything but we should know our values thoughts and feelings ect. everything on us is precious and no one deserves know our weird or complicated stories, thoughts and feelings.
Some people do listen just that they are rare to be found or just they don't want to coz they are busy dealing with their. Stay strong and move ahead in life. You are doing great.
@Knight's Games sure because it would be absolutely ridiculous to say that you should take a proper care of yourself and do well at school. These are two completely different things.
You deserve to live. Speaking to anybody and everybody. No matter what you, or someone else is telling you, you don’t deserve to die. You deserve to live, to get better, to that ditch that person, or group of people (you know who I’m talking about🤨), to eat normal again, to think normal again, to feel like yourself again! Please don’t give up, don’t give in. Because someone will care if you dissapear one day. I will. I promise. ❤
@@thebookbeanno not really nobody cares in the end then everybody dies and rots in the end and not care about each other as time goes on, thoughtful of you to say but it doesn't really help.
@@thebookbeanNot really thanks for your thoughtful statement to everyone but it doesn't really help especially as time goes on, people don't always get better.😒
I wish I could look back and think I was happier but I’ve had several illnesses going on for most of my life that I just can’t remember anymore:/ 9 years of depression just made me used to it so it’s hard to recognize
my family : • insults my weight • insults my grades • calls me stupid and compare me to other people • insults my friends • controls my whole life • keep telling me what to do, what to be one day also my family : “why aren’t you spending time with us?” “it’s that damn phone again” “she’s just overreacting” “stop being so dramatic”
@@itzyogirl8063 pls don't think like that, of you're depressed, you're depressed. The reasons don't really matter. Don't let it drag you down even more please and maye it's time for you to search for professional help. I hope you get better soon🙏
As someone who has been diagnosed with Anxiety, Depression, and BPD over 10 years ago, this list is spot on seriously. I wish it was easy to reach out for help but back then it really wasn’t and even today it’s still difficult. I’m blessed that I get treatment, obviously it’s not easy at all despite everything, but it’s a work in progress. Mental Illness is no joke, I’ve been dealing with it for so long and it just tears you down and distorts your reality.
Scrolling the comment made me even more sad but realized that I'm not the only one whose living like this. No one would understand, I feel y'all guys, I love you.
Choco Sylph no one knows what wrong with, I tried telling mom but she just laughed thinking I’m just imagining stuff because I was just a kid, but it get worse as you grow up but you hide it behind a smile so no one can see through you
thanks Choco Sylph I love you too, I want to try telling my mom about this stuff but I and just to scared that she will say that being dramatic since I am only 10 years old
@@bangtanforever3230 same, years ago when my mental health wasn't too bad, I asked my mom for a therapist bc I was just really sad all the time, and she said 'you don't need a therapist you can talk to me'. And I believed her and when I talked to her about my sadness, she didn't take it seriously telling me that doing chores would make me happier. After I realized she just didn't care, I continued life without any sort of mental help. Being in the horrendous state that I'm in now makes me realize that if my mom had taken me seriously I could have been so much happier
as a teen whos struggled for years with no resources for help, there will be ups and downs, but even when you think you're at your limit, you can get better and time heals all wounds.
"it's just a phase, it's nothing serious" "it's because you spend too much on your phone" "you should go out more and socialize, you will feel better" "stop complaining" "you're just being dramatic" "attention seeker" "just get over it"
@@landa4030 well you need to stop caring about what they say, people will always have something to say, and if you know you are really hurt, then you are, you know yourself better than anyone and I believe you and I believe in you
Lol literally everyone here, med students suffer the same problem cus of placebo effects, they just study all night long and feel they have the disease they’re studying
@@Born2Losenot2win Really it's a matter of how much. Just asking whether or not you have depression isn't enough, but asking for how long you've been in this state is a step in a right direction.
@@chaomatic5328 true, but it’s funny how depression is so obvious when you finally out of it compared to when you had it and kept denying it lol, For me colors were all doll and foods tasted pretty much the same and when I was anxious I over ate, I over slept and didn’t have proper sleeping patterns and didn’t want to get out of the bed till the last moment, I was also obese, and when I thought if I had depression I chuckled and said “naaaaah” like depression was this stigma or sth to be ashamed of, and I kept subconsciously denying it, after a suicide attempt I got my shit together, now that I shed about 60 pounds or more and finally have a life purpose I get what depression was, But I still have that perspective on depression you know? It was really pathetic of me, and ungrateful for things I already had, bad things happen, parents divorce, bullying, outcasted, bad grades, failure, accidents, heck some people even become homeless, and some even die, When I see people being so... self influential(?) and keep telling themselves they’re in this deep unclimbable pit that’s all imaginary and self made I just snort, I’d give them the same attitude I’d give myself when I was a kid “get your shit together man, stop downing yourself, life was always a war, be brave and accept it”
_.Sanjii._01 2006 I always tell myself that just because I feel sad and think about my 'problems'. But I don't actually know proper life problems, in fact, I have a nice and normal life. I just feel over-dramatic. I can't tell the difference anymore if there's something wrong, or if I'm pretending. "I'm young, and I'm being over dramatic with simple things." Is what I always tell myself, and it might be true.
_.Sanjii._01 2006 Ehehehe... I guess an example could be how I belittle myself compared to others. It's a regular problem, anyway. Nothing too much, nothing too little. There are other "scenarios", but I don't want to (actually) tell them.
@@thejadewolf_omega889 well that is most definitely a problem . No one was put on this earth to belittle themselves . Try doing things your good at . Don't be too hard on yourself, after all we are humans right? And even if you can do the bare minimum it's still amazing, don't Set yourself high standards so that if you fail , which is fine , you won't feel like crap x
_.Sanjii._01 2006 Thank you for taking time out of your day to type those words. I will start trying to do things I am somewhat good at. You might not take my word for it, considering I am not good at expressing things through a screen, but I will do it. 😊 Thank you so much. 😊 The conversation may have been short, but it helped me a lot more than I thought.
i used to enjoy drawing such garbage looking stuff and showing it to my mom and her telling me thats its nice and she goes back on her phone idk why i smiled although she clearly didnt give one dam
Yea, I have bi polar. I have little moments of excitement, but honestly, I'm more constantly sad. Sad how the world is. Almost any joy turns to sadness realizing it won't last long. I keep telling myself "joy? What's that?" And think it's not reality and find myself checking and pushing it down thinking I'm not in reality.
You deserve to live. Speaking to anybody and everybody. No matter what you, or someone else is telling you, you don’t deserve to die. You deserve to live, to get better, to that ditch that person, or group of people (you know who I’m talking about🤨), to eat normal again, to think normal again, to feel like yourself again! Please don’t give up, don’t give in. If no one else out there believes in you, I do. Because someone will care if you dissapear one day. I will. I promise. ❤
"Come on, why are you depressed, there's so much good in the world!" "I don't know DAD, why do you have asthma, there's so much air in the world!" And so people stop freaking commenting about this being on tik tok, yes, I know, that's why I used quotations. I'm sorry if this sounds rude, I'm just tired of people telling me that
When I spoke to a psychiatrist about my anxiety issues, she just brushed it off saying am not mature enough to understand the problems! And overthinking is normal.
1. You’re having feelings of sadness or depression that last longer than 2 weeks 2. You’re having extreme mood swings and don’t know why 3. Your worry and anxiety have gotten out of control 4. You’ve started withdrawing from others or isolating yourself 5. You may have noticed you’re having delusions or hallucinations 6. You’re having more and more difficulty dealing with normal life situations 7. You’re sleeping too much or too little 8. You’ve started abusing drugs or alcohol 9. You’re having extreme anger outbursts 10. You’ve started thinking of self harm or suicide edit : i love you all and we’ll get through this 💛
What if you're "bipolar" and society says that you're "ill" and "broken"...but in your GUT not mind and all touchy and feely bs...in your GUT your CORE... You feel as if you're here for a MUCH bigger purpose??? I love others and I'm here to build and grow. Provide for the world and everyone and everything around me...at LEAST with love. Easier said than done because I'm easily triggered and will let it go just as quick. Thanks for sharing!!!!
@@bereniceguerra5513 My mom is like: U can share ur problems or secrets with me, I'm ur mother When I share my problems: Cant u solve ur problems urself!? When I was ur age I used to * Blah Blah *
Schools do often get a bad rep for stuff like this. Don't get me wrong, they do definitely cause these emotions, but it seems like things are progressing towards a better system, especially when it comes to teaching about mental health. I'd have to agree though. The first time I ever contemplated suicide, albeit very briefly, was when a teacher made a grading error on an important assignment. I was genuinely distressed because at that point, I had been making straight A's for a few years in a row. There was another event that happened either that year or the next with a group project in history class. Our lead designer (we had to assign jobs), was suspended, and our other team member could barely understand what was going on, but I could tell he was still trying. When it came time to present our project, I was the only who could tell people what things were because even though our designer was back, he didn't make hardly anything. When it came my turn to speak, I began stuttering and could barely explain what I had made. That day and the day after, I was too stressed to eat lunch, despite me being hungry.
@@shanerdude8121 Yeah, it just sucks, sometimes you can't get over the things that you thought you could have been better at instead anxiety kicks in. And whats more annoying is that schools sometimes doesnt consent what their students are feeling towards school and takes it for granted
Bro I matched some of these- I went online and searched the meaning of those types of mental illnesses, So I have schizophrenia, ADHD, depression and maybe even more? WHAT??? OKAY SOMEONE EXPLAIN??
I plan to check myself, I don’t like diagnosing myself with this but I have been dealing with most of the symptoms. Will seek help from a professional, even if my parents don’t agree.
i know it probably isnt the case (cus me and my family are no example of a functional family and it would never work here)but maybe they are afraid of it happenig so they just neglect it hoping it will go away and not happen, i dont know about you but here in Brazil(yes im brazilian so sorry for any bad english im still learnig the language) the generation that came before me (my parents and grandparents mostly) were not allowed to express emotions well because it was seem as weakness and that made then supress emotions until it was over, and for that reason they espect it to work again but really i dont know, people lie to themselves real often so maybe talk with then and even if they dont believe you nedd help know that deep down they wish they could do something or maybe not, maybe they are just dicks, it happens, more than it should but its ok
also sorry for butting in i got the bad habit of trying to fix things up, even things unreleated to me if anything i said offends you im really sorry i just hope to help
1. Feelings of sadness longer than two weeks 2. Mood swings 3. Worry & anxiety out of control 4. Withdrawing from others 5. Delusional or hallucinating 6. Difficulty when dealing with normal situations 7. Sleeping issues 8. Drug or alcohol abuse 9. Extreme anger outbursts 10. Thinking of self-harm or suicide
I almost shed a tear from this video. I think I have anxiety disorder. Also why do I have an everlasting feeling of boredom during almost everything I do? I don’t even smile that much. Probably only a few times a day.
Yeah, it's possible, but it doesn't mean you don't deserve to at least go to a doctor and find out. There will be people who will understand how you feel. I feel the same way. But it can change. You can learn how to cope. You deserve to be happy. It won't be easy, but you shouldn't let that make you give up. It can get better. I wish the best to you. 🌺
@@zigzagoon-pl7yh I often think that, too. My brain always "tells" me, that I'm just trying to get attention. Even when I'm at home alone. And then I end up on a downward spiral of self-loathing because pretending to have depression and anxiety would be fucked up. (I'm sorry if my english isn't good. I'm not a native speaker)
so many points are just me... having depressions since i am 13...now im 25..and it doesn't get better... can't even reach out to others since its too hard for me just to do anyway nowadays...
Facts but I’m also still going to ignore because omg it’s so hard to tell people how you feel and I don’t want my parents or family knowing but I’m 15 so they have to know 😅
It's a feeling that directly can came to ur mind: you can't let this happen, u can't let anyone know about you, that you are actually a weak or emotionally broke person, you think they will make fun of you,and what will others think abt you and what abt ur reputation,....So the logic is simple many uses it which is act like you r the most happiest person and smile with openly showing ur white teeths to others!!! And the reality was you are hollow,like a dead tree still standing and blooming flowers.
Once someone treated my sf bc of School like they are doing it and didn't know the full story and thought they did told the teacher and then Traumatized me.
"Why are you sad? There's so much hapiness in this world!" Is like telling a person with asthma "Why do you have asthma? There's so much air in the world!"
I have encountered these things in myself a long time ago but ignored these symptoms. Today this video again ensured that I have all the symptoms without the 8 number but who is gonna understand this my parents?!!
I started to have depression when I was 10, maybe even earlier. When I was 11, I had anxiety attacks that span for weeks then went into a crazy panic attack that needed a doctor to calm me down. Finally went to a shrink when I was 17 and was clinically diagnosed with depression and severe anxiety. Gave me some pills and was too eager to psychoanalyze me... Didn't really help. I'm 25 now and my mom still tells me to not think about it and stop saying depressing things. Good thing I'm not actively suicidal and probably never will be, but I'm not averse to dying early, so there's that.
does anyone just have on and off emotions like you’ll have a huge breakdown and the next hour you act like nothing happened and then the next day you like get distracted by it and don’t think about it as much but then it gets kinda worse the day after..
I was always brushed off as dramatic and attention seeking, for as long as I could remember that I couldn't even notice my own depression or overthinking episodes when they were at their worst. Recently reaching out to psychiatrist due to the extreme escalation towards self-harming thoughts, and she started off by requesting me to observe my mood and physical symptoms daily. Turned out my symptoms were there all along, all this time I thought I was just "being dramatic", it's scary. How many of us were being brushed off and told off every single time for reaching out to them for help? I could never know
I always have to tell myself that "I'm just being dramatic to try to make myself feel normal" I don't want to have a mental disorder because it has been made out to be something awful.
@@aubrey597 I do it more out of pride tbh. Everyone in my family has some kind of mental thing and I've always been proud that I don't so I just ignore everything so I have something to be proud of
There you go that’s the right approach lose people find yourself love yourself trust yourself, you and god can believe in yourself you can get out of this by yourself take baby steps.
My son aisle he’s self he is 18 he have ADHD he went to college this year and swim with the college in division 3 but he end to drop swimming and fail a lot classes . I want to help him but I don’t know how because he is blame me for everything and luck me like enemy. I feel that nothing had have helped him .
It hurts to realise that you where much happier back then.. Wanting to go to school.. Not scared of people, but now it's like a disease spreading in my body. Anxiety has taken over my happiness ever since 2017. Sad but I'm a fighter
I'm experiencing all of these and i know damn well my mother will still pull "you still don't know how bad life gets" despite how I'm visibly mentally unstable
I think the phone actually helps. Because online friends are so great to have and actually help you keep going. But parents don't seem to understand that. Which I'm very sorry for all the children who have those kind of parents.
I somehow had this thought that maybe I am really suffering for some time because my daily life is just in chaos- because I've seen some people and read some books to recognize these symptoms- I then had this crazy plan that maybe I should share this with my sister and no matter what she will support me and explain our parents too. After 3 days of dilemma and finally I gathered my courage and told her. A few weeks later we had an argument about something and she mockingly and angrily said, "suffering from so called life struggles and depression". And now i can't even talk about this with my mother to find a damn solution for my issues. I was so so so naive man.
1. Feeling sadness or depression for more than 2 weeks 2. Extreme mood swings (Bipolar) 3. Worry and anxiety disorder 4. Withdrawing from others 5. Delusions and hallucinations 6. Difficulty in normal life situation (Job) 7. Sleeping too much or too little 8. Abusing drugs and alcohol 9. Extreme anger outbursts 10. Suicidal thoughts
Id completely agree wiv ya bout a yr ago however nowerdays not so much, im weak emotionally difficult to be around annoying at times socially awkward nowerdays and overall I hate my own personality plus I live in a fantasy world most of the time that I keep to myself jus coz it makes life easier lol but least im trying to improve myself when in not roaming around in my head, hell if I give up now I might aswell jus lay in my grave n b done wiv it but nah, sides im too much of a pussy to do it anyway so what choice I got? 😂 if ya feel like a chat tho jus give a heads up and for the record my name isnt rob, I used this account for my random surfing for a few reasons :P
You have a phone? It has a video camera? Start there, Blair Witch style, just talk to it like it's your shrink/best friend/imaginary friend/personal jesus, whatever. The first steps are the hardest, may as well take them when nobody is watching so if you fall on your face and bawl your eyes out you'll feel no shame. Don't they teach kids to write journals anymore?
i self-diagnosed myself with bipolar mania , anxiety , ptsd , &&’ borderline personality disorder … i tried for years to handle this on my own , now i’m 18 , & i’m close to hitting rock bottom , now i feel i need help more than ever … bc i fear losing my life to myself everyday at any moment , all it takes is a small snap … and im gone 🤦🏾♀️
