So true, cause I saw my friends dating multiple men and i would judge them and now they are in a stable relationships because now my friend knows what she wants from the relationship and what she can give. So please date. Same for the men!
This is me now. Serial dating with no intimacy. I really wasted a lot of my young age giving exclusivity that wasn’t earned. And yes I always saw it an cheating but right now, I do not care at all. If a man wants exclusivity, he should pass my interview which will happen without intimacy for minimum of 2 months. If you don’t like it, forget abbarrit. By that I mean, forget about me. Now I have a question and this is my major problem; would you advise a lady who is multidating to visit any of the men at their place? And if that is a yes, at what time into the relationship should she do that? Visiting a man from my observation in my personal experience especially more than once has been my weakness. And I don’t want to ever try that again. Please I need your advise and take on visiting a man even when you decide to be exclusive with him. Thank you uuuuuuuuuuuuuu. I’ll be waiting for your response
Thank you 🤍 Regarding your question, you’ve called it a weakness and that suggests it’s not something you’ve always appreciated the way it ends. If that’s the case, then it is time to put certain things in place to help you stay on track. And whatever you do, you only visit when you know you are strong enough to deal with whatever may happen when you do visit… Finally, when multi-dating, it is better you only visit the man you’re leaning towards being in a relationship with but ultimately, the timing will be up to you…
I have a question is it that when you have dopamine for a guy and you don't have it for another guy that means the guy you don't have it for is better than the other guy
So I have a question yeah, what if you have someone who you really like and this person has shown you signs that they are not ready by words and actions. But you have someone who is available and ticks your boxes, who will you settle for? The available guy or the guy who wants you to wait
I don’t know what is different but I really do like your makeup today and the lashes too. Edit: maybe it’s the eye color. Not sure I’ve seen you with black eye color. It suits you 😍
You’re so observant, it’s a number of things - I didn’t put on my contacts - The lashes are longer than I’m used to - And I had so much energy because I was practically filming in a rush 🤍
Hi! Thank you for all of your dating tips. This is where I am right now. I’m curious though, how do you handle someone who is dead set on you being their woman? He is doing everything right, and I do like him but the other 2 people I’m talking to I haven’t even gone on a date yet and the persistent guy is trying to court and book dates back to back, hahah I’m trying to slow things down so I can at least compare him to others and I’m flattered he is offering exclusivity, but I have communicated I’m still feeling him out. I can tell he doesn’t like that and he’s disappointed but he’s not applying that pressure toward me. But he is expressive about what he wants and that he’s so sure. I have good feelings about him I just can’t logically process jumping into exclusivity after 10 days of knowing someone but for him he says when a man knows a man just knows. He’s also affluent so I feel he may be used to getting his way. Can you do a video on this or can you send a link on one if you’ve covered it? 🙏🏾😊
Most times, not always, men move fast and love bomb you in the beginning so that by the time you figure out it was all game, it’s likely too late because you’ve either been physically intimate with him… I don’t care how consistent a man can be for a week, that’s easy. Let’s see how consistent he’ll be in a month, two or three months… So insist on slowing things down, that’s when you’ll know how intentional he is… I went on a first date with a guy a few weeks ago, he told me how he knows I’m from God, that he’s so sure of me and that we need to get together. I told him I wanted to slow things down and at first he agreed but still tried to subtly pressure me. When he realized that wouldn’t work, he suddenly disappeared… The first date happened on the 17th of July and now he’s no more, he didn’t even last till the end of July 😂😬 My darling, don’t be moved…
@@ayanime_edem got it thank you so much! I saw him today and I reinforced my standards and boundaries and he said he respected them. I’ll see how he moves! 🫡👌🏾☺️🫶🏾
What if the man has told you that he loves you and wabts a serious relationship with you but before then you were multi dating so what should you do.? Then my second question is is it bad to let a man know how you feel towards him after he has told you how he feels towards you that he loves you in the early time of dating is it vulnerable to tell him that you really love him too,does that makkes you vulnerable?
Hi Miss Could the recent workshop be broken into sub categories so we could listen and gain the whole package in bits please. 5 hours looks 'bulky' thank you
Giving gems always miss Ayanime. How can one move out of their parents with or without a job, especially when you've thougit it through. I'm 30 and my parents have an issue about me living in another town as what I'm doing is earning me only little. They've refused me going back when I came for the Christmas holiday.
Hmmm… I can’t give advice because there are likely different factors in play here. I’ll be having a RU-vid Live Q&A session on Wednesday at 07:00 PM WAT Kindly join and we will discuss it…
What a lesson, thank you kindly. One question, say you are on line dating, is it OK to tell a guy you are. Ulti chatting, I alway say cheating, bcos it seems when you say multibdating it paints you badly. One guy said to me, I don't want to be compared, finish up with the other guy, tell me once you are done. I like multi chatting, so I no longer tell L, I just say no I'm chatting to you alone. I wasted 4 months chatting to one guy on the fifth month he just disappeared. And mind you you are on the paying version of the app, then you start again it's now the second half of the year in dating. Thank you for explaining multi dating, ibwill just keep quote and do it privately especially on line he won't see me.
The first red flag is them asking if you are "multi-chatting". It screams insecurities. Then saying they don't want to be compared screams insecurities even more...because they are basically telling on themselves that they have NOTHING of value to offer you.
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Take your love where it’s appreciated… simple as that! Your mantra should be: “I refuse to love who doesn’t love me” “I refuse to want who doesn’t want me”
