10 Signs Insecurities Are Ruining Your Life 

Dear psych to go. I know its not really related to this video but would you consider doing a video about imaginary friends or something like that

everything.

I’m insecure about my marriage

My body. I ALWAYS wear sweaters and jeans, even when it's hot outside. Even when I get to do something fun like go to an amusment park, I sometimes feel worried and think I should refuse because people might think i'm ugly or think something negative about me.

I'm insecure on how people view me.

Life Progress - Health, Wealth, & Happiness Channel truth!

nah the greatest difficulty in life is trying to maintain a conversation with me

:,c

June 4 1989

@@DoNotNon ah That be true

prussia /mde phan grell ahh same

Same here:(

YES

Same

Same :’(

You're amazing for doing this ❤

Why thank you 😊

You're welcome 😇

I love when people do this.

DoubleRR Play Yes you’re welcome

Call me out like that

Or you just really love psych 2 Go. Like Me.

Great...!

yes

Sign 2 you can relate to the video. Sign 3 you wrote a commend but have nothing to say. Edit:that sounds like hate it isn’t I mean your comment is great

Sounds like me.

Lilyn Crapet same

I think I live in the middle of them, I prefer the imaginary but know the reality is the one in which we must live fully, regardless of how bleak it be, it is our job to do our best to change it for the better, if they won't who will?

Reality is not depressing very long when you stop living in your imagination so much

Lilyn Crapet What we think about, we become :-)

A Cup of Tae it’s never too late to change the way you feel about yourself! ♥️

Same..

Me too.. I 💜 u.

A Cup of Tae i purple you 💜

Finding Awesome It’s not that easy...I’ve been trying to love myself since forever ago

same same

I'm insecure about my voice and body too

I'm insecure about my teeth, my face, my blackheads, my clothes, and my weight

Same

this is the most same-est same i have ever same-d in my life.

So you are my doppelganger

ur amazing

For me is just my body type but remember you are amazing and beautiful the way you are! Never compare yourself with others because what you see it's just the expectation side , you never know what they hiding inside!

Wow just like me

heheh same

Zwergz 112 hi dat me

Jeez. I hate seeing these kinds of comments. They're so fucking exhausting to read. People who are giving likes to comments like these are only going to subconsciously make themselves even more insecure. Can you people just stop with these pessimistic comments? Joking is another story, but making it sound so casual like it's okay is NOT okay.

@@sally1319 And excuse me for being more aware here. I believe you need to read my comment again because you're not seeing the *underlying big picture* here. And if you refuse to understand my point then I won't try to convince you any further. And just so you know, I see these kind of comments ALL TOO OFTEN it's sickening and sad. People need to stop romanticizing mental disorders.

sAmE

@@mattgarte8473 She did NOT say this out of greed for likes. There is something called "Dark Humour". It's a thing nowadays, get a reality check.

Indeed

I wish you good luck God is with you~

Then what? I am now aware but then what? 😭

Another good thing is that you're honest and accept to being insecure :)

I've always been aware of my insecurity, but it's not like anyone would care about me anyway so why bother changing "if I told them that I have very low self-esteem, would they still treat me like trash?" probably, yes

Everyone is insecure in their own way, remember

Everyone is insecure . Its just some people are more insecure

Yup

same

same though

Just me literally like 10 seconds ago

Hello everyone! Me and my friend are starting a new Instagram account to share your problems with us. We know that sometimes, it gets too difficult and you need someone to share your thoughts with. We are just like your friends and I am sure that you will definitely feel better after talking about it. We have a lot of insecurities. I also dealt with it but I got someone to talk about it and learnt to love myself and you should too. This is my account- *Your_best_frnd*. Please come to me if you need any help. It definitely feels better to talk about it. @Your_best_frnd .

Number 5 is not me and the bragging one is not me, pretty ugly

Same

- Nicolle trueee

Hahhahahaha same

mah thoughts mah dude

Yeah same

I is the same distance don't feel sad u are not alone I also feel insecure about my looks and shape just try to love yourself , I am alsoo trying so cheer up OK.

Same. I actually like makeup and she doesn't let me do it at all which really sucks cuz I feel much better when I wear makeup.

ur amazing

:( sometimes other people don't realize how words can really affect us. Maybe try to talk to her about it? But without making her feeling the bad guy?

I felt this

True

The truth is right here

"Holy shit dude did you just complete a marathon like that?" "....meh, whatever."

Or compare yourself to a fictional character. Yeah that's me.

Seitoplayzgacha 432 😀

This isn't really what therapists do

Getting a therapist is still an important thing to do.

If this is what u consider therapeutic work, u probably ain't serious enough to need therapy.

oof sad me psych2go just makes me just to manage my problems

Too relatable.

Me

Me💔

So sad the fact that men suffer from insecurities too 😢

I'm actually insecure about my curves. Not only I have a pear body shape (skinny, but still-) I also see some girls on tiktok who have defined waistline and perfect curves, why don't I have them too 😭😭😭😭 it makes me think I have a gap somewhere, even my classmates insult me telling me they thought I get beaten up a lot just cause I have dark circles or they call me a skeleton, or by even my sister who tells me I don't exercise correctly...

hey hold n there you not alone and compared to my past am way much better and so are you

ur amazing queen wear ur crown

Same as a woman , my boobs are not the same..

@@NoobMaster-lf6iu you can also wear an extra supportive bra

@@EgglixAndLILINO still the same you know , I'll still hate my self man..

Which ones in particular?

😃

Psych2Go i think hes dead

Kayla Kate 1. by being grateful for what you have. Do this every single morning and evening, you have to reprogram your subconscious mind to a gratitude state. In the morning and evening are the best time to influence your subconscious state because it’s switching between the different brain waves and theta is the state when you can influence it. This is why people listen to affirmations in the morning and in the evening right before going to bed. 2. Spend time with friends who uplift you. It’s so important to surround yourself with the right people and who bring the best out of you. 3. Prepare yourself for failures. I think one of the reasons why you have self doubt is also because when someone judges you, which reaffirms your believes (self doubt). The truth is, all of us WILL have haters. It doesn’t matter how good you are. These haters will be there either because they hate themselves or they are jealous of you. It might be the truth, but the way they say it and express it might be quite hurtful. So, you have to find ways to deal with that. For me, knowing that I will die someday has helped me the most. This is how I go about things. First, I define my objective + why. Then I set an intention HOW I want to go about it and last but not least having the death scenario inside my head Incase I get rejected, failed or criticized or whatever and ask myself “how I’m feeling right now, would it matter if I knew I’m going to die next week?” If your intentions were good in the first place then you know that you can only be happy because that’s how you wanted to go about it. You wanted to spread love and joy, but if someone got offended then that is not your fault. You can only gauge the situation afterwards and adapt what needs to be adjusted. 4. I also try to avoid these 4 states (hunger, anger, loneliness and tiredness) in these states we are vulnerable and that means that the ego might take over and make us feel bad. The tricky part is that, it’s so believable that you think that omg, this is true and you do suck. Be careful. Try to remind yourself of this that when you are hungry for instance, your ego will take over and that you are in a vulnerable state. This is the reason why people always say “sleep on it” when you are tired because you can’t make good decisions when you are tired. 5. Journal. I journal every morning and evening. At least I try to :) there you will see which thought patterns come up and which ones benefit you and which don’t. It’s amazing how journaling has affected my life. You have 75000 thoughts per day (still can’t believe how much that is!) and so, in order to really know what is helping us reach our goals and not, we gotta analyze these thoughts by hitting them down on a piece of paper and really see what we are saying to ourselves and being really analytical. WHY are these thoughts here? Are they TRUE? WHAT can I do to make it better? 6. Work on something that you are good at or passionate about. When you have something that you are working on then it also builds confidence because you are getting better at it. Competent -> confidence. Now, your self doubt might be holding you back, in that case go back to number 2 and have a friend compliment you, which will give you a reason to do it. Get LEVERAGE and see what works for YOU. 7. Purpose. If you don’t know it yet then try as many things as possible. We are all here on this planet to do something. It’s what fulfills you. This doesn’t have to be your job or career if that’s not your case, but perhaps being the best friend someone can ever wish for or being the best mother or sister. I don’t know, again, you have to figure this out on your own. Don’t rush into it and don’t compare yourself to others because... 8. You have your OWN timeline. Perhaps you are having insecurities and self doubt because you are comparing yourself to others too much. You are UNIQUE. Nobody is like you. You know that I actually damaged my vocal cords because I wanted to sound like Ed Sheeran? And now, I want my old voice back. You will value something more once it’s gone. 9. Self acceptance. You want to have more. More beauty, more money, more of something, but it all starts with NOW. Be ok with who you are RIGHT NOW because that’s all you have. All what will happen in the future depends on NOW. Ok, Kayla, I’ve given you many points and it might be overwhelming and perhaps you don’t know where to start. I would say start with gratitude. Do this every morning and evening and really feel it. If you say that you can’t be grateful for anything then compare yourself to the ones who DONT have what you do. I know I said that you shouldn’t compare yourself to others, but when you realize how much you actually have by just being YOU, you will know how precious your life actually is. I actually have a RU-vid channel concerning self confidence and self esteem and I’m documenting my own journey how I’m becoming my best self. If you resonate with it then it would be awesome if you subscribed and if not, no hard feelings ;)

@@MindNow thank you so much :D

Sure thing! Wethekim can also cover some videos on this topic too!

@@MindNow Great advice! :)

@@MindNow Thank you very much for this! I am very on/off with journaling and gratitude practice, but a way I like to get back into it is writing one sentence a day to sum up how I felt, in as imaginative a way as I like.

Knew there would be a list before I looked at the comments. Predictable!

I just heard my notification while reading this

k a k y o i n

@@anotherone8941 hello

Omg samee!But is it normal that everyday when I listen to music I daydream about my life?Since I listen to sad music I daydream about me and my crush.I do that because in real life I can't be with my crush because of my anxiety and insecurities,infact when in the the lesson my crush was calling me he wanted to ask me if I had sweets and I ignored him because I was so insecure to even look at him and I ignored him. I feel so bad😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭

All day everyday for me.

Lol! That's actually how RU-vid works with its algorithm.

Same, I keep getting videos from psych2go and when I watch them they seem to describe me well...That's not a good thing but I'm glad my eyes are open and aware of my own problems now. Sometimes I think that RU-vid is stalking me haha

Same!!

Same😢

Same, but also voice, height and weight for me

I'm insecure of my body my body and leg arm look ugly tin and skinny

@@nuambawi9872 noooo, they don't 😭😭 you're just thinking as negative as me.

Same 😞

Michael Wallace . by being grateful for what you have. Do this every single morning and evening, you have to reprogram your subconscious mind to a gratitude state. In the morning and evening are the best time to influence your subconscious state because it’s switching between the different brain waves and theta is the state when you can influence it. This is why people listen to affirmations in the morning and in the evening right before going to bed. 2. Spend time with friends who uplift you. It’s so important to surround yourself with the right people and who bring the best out of you. 3. Prepare yourself for failures. I think one of the reasons why you have self doubt is also because when someone judges you, which reaffirms your believes (self doubt). The truth is, all of us WILL have haters. It doesn’t matter how good you are. These haters will be there either because they hate themselves or they are jealous of you. It might be the truth, but the way they say it and express it might be quite hurtful. So, you have to find ways to deal with that. For me, knowing that I will die someday has helped me the most. This is how I go about things. First, I define my objective + why. Then I set an intention HOW I want to go about it and last but not least having the death scenario inside my head Incase I get rejected, failed or criticized or whatever and ask myself “how I’m feeling right now, would it matter if I knew I’m going to die next week?” If your intentions were good in the first place then you know that you can only be happy because that’s how you wanted to go about it. You wanted to spread love and joy, but if someone got offended then that is not your fault. You can only gauge the situation afterwards and adapt what needs to be adjusted. 4. I also try to avoid these 4 states (hunger, anger, loneliness and tiredness) in these states we are vulnerable and that means that the ego might take over and make us feel bad. The tricky part is that, it’s so believable that you think that omg, this is true and you do suck. Be careful. Try to remind yourself of this that when you are hungry for instance, your ego will take over and that you are in a vulnerable state. This is the reason why people always say “sleep on it” when you are tired because you can’t make good decisions when you are tired. 5. Journal. I journal every morning and evening. At least I try to :) there you will see which thought patterns come up and which ones benefit you and which don’t. It’s amazing how journaling has affected my life. You have 75000 thoughts per day (still can’t believe how much that is!) and so, in order to really know what is helping us reach our goals and not, we gotta analyze these thoughts by hitting them down on a piece of paper and really see what we are saying to ourselves and being really analytical. WHY are these thoughts here? Are they TRUE? WHAT can I do to make it better? 6. Work on something that you are good at or passionate about. When you have something that you are working on then it also builds confidence because you are getting better at it. Competent -> confidence. Now, your self doubt might be holding you back, in that case go back to number 2 and have a friend compliment you, which will give you a reason to do it. Get LEVERAGE and see what works for YOU. 7. Purpose. If you don’t know it yet then try as many things as possible. We are all here on this planet to do something. It’s what fulfills you. This doesn’t have to be your job or career if that’s not your case, but perhaps being the best friend someone can ever wish for or being the best mother or sister. I don’t know, again, you have to figure this out on your own. Don’t rush into it and don’t compare yourself to others because... 8. You have your OWN timeline. Perhaps you are having insecurities and self doubt because you are comparing yourself to others too much. You are UNIQUE. Nobody is like you. You know that I actually damaged my vocal cords because I wanted to sound like Ed Sheeran? And now, I want my old voice back. You will value something more once it’s gone. 9. Self acceptance. You want to have more. More beauty, more money, more of something, but it all starts with NOW. Be ok with who you are RIGHT NOW because that’s all you have. All what will happen in the future depends on NOW. Ok, Michael, I’ve given you many points and it might be overwhelming and perhaps you don’t know where to start. I would say start with gratitude. Do this every morning and evening and really feel it. If you say that you can’t be grateful for anything then compare yourself to the ones who DONT have what you do. I know I said that you shouldn’t compare yourself to others, but when you realize how much you actually have by just being YOU, you will know how precious your life actually is. I actually have a RU-vid channel concerning self confidence and self esteem and I’m documenting my own journey how I’m becoming my best self. If you resonate with it then it would be awesome if you subscribed and if not, no hard feelings ;)

Micheal wallace did someone say mean things ti you?

same, like anytime i try to be positive- and like 5 mins later something bad happens, I just start beating myself up all over again.

Same here

It is hard when people are negative about you but don't take it to heart. They have issues. Maybe they're jealous of you in some way. I hope you're doing better this year.

Saios I wish you all the best. It’s great that you are going to a psychologist to try to get better :)

Me too

Same

I definitely don't want to laugh at the seriousness to this, but that was a funny comment. Hope all is well.

@@painfultruth3559 yeah, hope you are fine as well... // It takes time but I'm releasing some of my pocket monsters... one by one...

@@ayrmont You are right, it takes time, some people and their perspectives can help things move along faster but they are hard to find. Seems you found a gem here though. Anyways, good to hear all is well. Congratulations on your success and good luck in the future.

At least you have a good sense of humor

@LXCZ7 َ yeah whatever.

Thanks so much for the support and kind words again!

We could use a video about dealing with this

Same. I felt attacked by number 10...

Same

Samee

4 & 10 for me. Oof.

Extreme 7. I’m never enough

Not even a compliment. If someone being a little kind to me I just start overthinking that if the person has other intentions or not but then I'll tell myself "no..no this is just normal thing" Lol

That happens to me a lot, too! :(

@@solangel8002 :(

If they can't handle the truth then it's their problem.🤷‍♀️

mixon606 how come?

Purplecocoa5 how are you dealing with these?

@@MindNow Well, I do, but I don't. On the case of perfectionism, I try to redirect it in a healthy direction instead of an unhealthy direction. For a lot of the others, since I don't have a proper plan yet, I tend to ball it up to vent out later, through gaming, reading, etc.

Purplecocoa5 at least you are doing something about it. Perhaps you can also look into journaling if the other methods don’t help you anymore. Is there something that you would like to overcome and that I maybe can help you with?

@@MindNow Thank you for the advice! I'll definitely look into journalism if it comes to it. At the moment, nothing comes to mind, but if something does, I'll try and remember to get back to you. Thanks again!

Franco Gutierrez 🦋

Diman Voltaïr bro thats deep

Diman Voltaïr . by being grateful for what you have. Do this every single morning and evening, you have to reprogram your subconscious mind to a gratitude state. In the morning and evening are the best time to influence your subconscious state because it’s switching between the different brain waves and theta is the state when you can influence it. This is why people listen to affirmations in the morning and in the evening right before going to bed. 2. Spend time with friends who uplift you. It’s so important to surround yourself with the right people and who bring the best out of you. 3. Prepare yourself for failures. I think one of the reasons why you have self doubt is also because when someone judges you, which reaffirms your believes (self doubt). The truth is, all of us WILL have haters. It doesn’t matter how good you are. These haters will be there either because they hate themselves or they are jealous of you. It might be the truth, but the way they say it and express it might be quite hurtful. So, you have to find ways to deal with that. For me, knowing that I will die someday has helped me the most. This is how I go about things. First, I define my objective + why. Then I set an intention HOW I want to go about it and last but not least having the death scenario inside my head Incase I get rejected, failed or criticized or whatever and ask myself “how I’m feeling right now, would it matter if I knew I’m going to die next week?” If your intentions were good in the first place then you know that you can only be happy because that’s how you wanted to go about it. You wanted to spread love and joy, but if someone got offended then that is not your fault. You can only gauge the situation afterwards and adapt what needs to be adjusted. 4. I also try to avoid these 4 states (hunger, anger, loneliness and tiredness) in these states we are vulnerable and that means that the ego might take over and make us feel bad. The tricky part is that, it’s so believable that you think that omg, this is true and you do suck. Be careful. Try to remind yourself of this that when you are hungry for instance, your ego will take over and that you are in a vulnerable state. This is the reason why people always say “sleep on it” when you are tired because you can’t make good decisions when you are tired. 5. Journal. I journal every morning and evening. At least I try to :) there you will see which thought patterns come up and which ones benefit you and which don’t. It’s amazing how journaling has affected my life. You have 75000 thoughts per day (still can’t believe how much that is!) and so, in order to really know what is helping us reach our goals and not, we gotta analyze these thoughts by hitting them down on a piece of paper and really see what we are saying to ourselves and being really analytical. WHY are these thoughts here? Are they TRUE? WHAT can I do to make it better? 6. Work on something that you are good at or passionate about. When you have something that you are working on then it also builds confidence because you are getting better at it. Competent -> confidence. Now, your self doubt might be holding you back, in that case go back to number 2 and have a friend compliment you, which will give you a reason to do it. Get LEVERAGE and see what works for YOU. 7. Purpose. If you don’t know it yet then try as many things as possible. We are all here on this planet to do something. It’s what fulfills you. This doesn’t have to be your job or career if that’s not your case, but perhaps being the best friend someone can ever wish for or being the best mother or sister. I don’t know, again, you have to figure this out on your own. Don’t rush into it and don’t compare yourself to others because... 8. You have your OWN timeline. Perhaps you are having insecurities and self doubt because you are comparing yourself to others too much. You are UNIQUE. Nobody is like you. You know that I actually damaged my vocal cords because I wanted to sound like Ed Sheeran? And now, I want my old voice back. You will value something more once it’s gone. 9. Self acceptance. You want to have more. More beauty, more money, more of something, but it all starts with NOW. Be ok with who you are RIGHT NOW because that’s all you have. All what will happen in the future depends on NOW. Ok, Diman, I’ve given you many points and it might be overwhelming and perhaps you don’t know where to start. I would say start with gratitude. Do this every morning and evening and really feel it. If you say that you can’t be grateful for anything then compare yourself to the ones who DONT have what you do. I know I said that you shouldn’t compare yourself to others, but when you realize how much you actually have by just being YOU, you will know how precious your life actually is. I actually have a RU-vid channel concerning self confidence and self esteem and I’m documenting my own journey how I’m becoming my best self. If you resonate with it then it would be awesome if you subscribed and if not, no hard feelings ;)

alex i guess 🦋

Same here! I hate my anxiety!

@@karinaleon2824 yeah anxiety can sucks a lot

Matthew Same, this makes me feel so shitty because often times I don’t even like or know the person whom I am trying to impress!

Toy Daubert 1. by being grateful for what you have. Do this every single morning and evening, you have to reprogram your subconscious mind to a gratitude state. In the morning and evening are the best time to influence your subconscious state because it’s switching between the different brain waves and theta is the state when you can influence it. This is why people listen to affirmations in the morning and in the evening right before going to bed. 2. Spend time with friends who uplift you. It’s so important to surround yourself with the right people and who bring the best out of you. 3. Prepare yourself for failures. I think one of the reasons why you have self doubt is also because when someone judges you, which reaffirms your believes (self doubt). The truth is, all of us WILL have haters. It doesn’t matter how good you are. These haters will be there either because they hate themselves or they are jealous of you. It might be the truth, but the way they say it and express it might be quite hurtful. So, you have to find ways to deal with that. For me, knowing that I will die someday has helped me the most. This is how I go about things. First, I define my objective + why. Then I set an intention HOW I want to go about it and last but not least having the death scenario inside my head Incase I get rejected, failed or criticized or whatever and ask myself “how I’m feeling right now, would it matter if I knew I’m going to die next week?” If your intentions were good in the first place then you know that you can only be happy because that’s how you wanted to go about it. You wanted to spread love and joy, but if someone got offended then that is not your fault. You can only gauge the situation afterwards and adapt what needs to be adjusted. 4. I also try to avoid these 4 states (hunger, anger, loneliness and tiredness) in these states we are vulnerable and that means that the ego might take over and make us feel bad. The tricky part is that, it’s so believable that you think that omg, this is true and you do suck. Be careful. Try to remind yourself of this that when you are hungry for instance, your ego will take over and that you are in a vulnerable state. This is the reason why people always say “sleep on it” when you are tired because you can’t make good decisions when you are tired. 5. Journal. I journal every morning and evening. At least I try to :) there you will see which thought patterns come up and which ones benefit you and which don’t. It’s amazing how journaling has affected my life. You have 75000 thoughts per day (still can’t believe how much that is!) and so, in order to really know what is helping us reach our goals and not, we gotta analyze these thoughts by hitting them down on a piece of paper and really see what we are saying to ourselves and being really analytical. WHY are these thoughts here? Are they TRUE? WHAT can I do to make it better? 6. Work on something that you are good at or passionate about. When you have something that you are working on then it also builds confidence because you are getting better at it. Competent -> confidence. Now, your self doubt might be holding you back, in that case go back to number 2 and have a friend compliment you, which will give you a reason to do it. Get LEVERAGE and see what works for YOU. 7. Purpose. If you don’t know it yet then try as many things as possible. We are all here on this planet to do something. It’s what fulfills you. This doesn’t have to be your job or career if that’s not your case, but perhaps being the best friend someone can ever wish for or being the best mother or sister. I don’t know, again, you have to figure this out on your own. Don’t rush into it and don’t compare yourself to others because... 8. You have your OWN timeline. Perhaps you are having insecurities and self doubt because you are comparing yourself to others too much. You are UNIQUE. Nobody is like you. You know that I actually damaged my vocal cords because I wanted to sound like Ed Sheeran? And now, I want my old voice back. You will value something more once it’s gone. 9. Self acceptance. You want to have more. More beauty, more money, more of something, but it all starts with NOW. Be ok with who you are RIGHT NOW because that’s all you have. All what will happen in the future depends on NOW. Ok, Toy, I’ve given you many points and it might be overwhelming and perhaps you don’t know where to start. I would say start with gratitude. Do this every morning and evening and really feel it. If you say that you can’t be grateful for anything then compare yourself to the ones who DONT have what you do. I know I said that you shouldn’t compare yourself to others, but when you realize how much you actually have by just being YOU, you will know how precious your life actually is. I actually have a RU-vid channel concerning self confidence and self esteem and I’m documenting my own journey how I’m becoming my best self. If you resonate with it then it would be awesome if you subscribed and if not, no hard feelings ;)

Well, I messed up studios Marcy 👏👏👏❤️

Haku Kimoto yeah me too

Haku Kimoto 🦋✨

Same here!

Avé 🦋

Same

I lost 30 kilos and still insecure xD

Same here!

You're not alone in that! I'm sure you're fine! 😊

You can still fix what's broken, but you can't fix what's died.

@@zenldh Well, I already gave up. Multiple people told me to try fix it, but too much is bad and some of them can't be fixed. If no one in my private life can change me, you, especially someone from the internet, can't fix me.

Hi there! You don't know who I am and I don't know you, just wanted to tell you something real quick and try to not bother you for long. Have you ever heard of Kintsugi? It's the Japanese art of fixing broken things like pottery with gold and it's very beautiful. You can look it up on Google if you want. Now, why did I mention this? It's because sometimes we belive something is useless because it's broken and we want to throw it away. I myself have felt useless before, so you're not the only one. But we have to remember that even what is broken can be fixed. It'll take a lot of work, and pain, and it's won't be easy AT ALL, but in the end you'll be a beautiful piece of art that was once broken and is now filled with gold. Keep in mind that the pottery fixed with this technique still has cracks in it, just that they're now covered in gold. Same happens in our lives, we still have scars and memories from things that have happened, but if we manage to find things that fill us with joy and start moving on from the past those cracks will be covered up with happiness. Sorry if this comment bothered you, I don't want you to feel bad at all. I just wanted to try and help and maybe give you a little hope. Again,sorry if anywhere in this comment you felt insulted or if I wrote something wrong, I just want you to not give up okay :) Have a nice day/night, and I hope you get better soon -A random person in the comments of RU-vid that tried to make you feel better

@@s.gabriela It is not that easy, because the people who are making my life worse, are breaking the law. My problems are partly on the illegal side, you can't just smile and leave. It needs so much more than that. And definitely the police. I haven't done anything yet, so please don't take any actions without my consent, or you'll make things worse.

@@mikeyhamato2012 First off, I want to tell you that I will not take any action, I promise. I'm sorry that my previous comment didn't help, I didn't knew how delicate the situation was. I'll be honest, I don't really know how to help you here, I'm sorry. The only thing I can tell you is to not give up and to speak up so other people know what's happening and can help you. It's hard and you'll have to be very brave, but don't keep silence, especially if what those people are doing is hurting you and ruining your life. Okay, i know it's a lot easier written than done, and that you're probably in a very difficult situation that I'll never be able to relate to and won't be able to help you, I just want to try and give you some hope and remind you that every problem has a solution, even if we don't see it right now or if it seems impossible. That's what I belive. I'm deeply sorry for what you're going through, even though I don't know what it is, and I hope you one day manage to get out of that situation and overcome it. Just don't loose faith, please.