Wow! Wish I heard this 4 years ago..... but I learnt the hard way. Had to walk away from a 4 year relationship cos he was not the man God had for me. My heart kept complaining for me to leave, but I did not..... and I was hungry for the word of God. So I fasted and prayed and asked God for His divine intervention...... He surely showed up! Thanks Joshua..... my God is Faithful and in the meantime I will work on myself
I know what you mean . I was that person who pulled a love one from God. She always been a daughter of God but I wasn't a son of God. God had to give me a shake up to realize she was the one . I had to find God and have an intermit relationship with him first, to truly understand. I pray that she may one day see that the lord has blessed me and directed me in his ways . God bless
I initially started this video with the intent to check someone else's fruit, but shortly after I started watching I started checking my own counterfeit fruit. Thanks for the insight. #righttiming
Funny thing I was walking with the Lord fighting my biggest fear (with a therapist) coz I know I don't want to put my future children through all types of trauma I put my friend and family through not dealing with the root of my mental issues. Now this friend pops in my life and I'm all confused why this that looked so perfect on paper doesn't seem to go anywhere. then I realized I don't even want the relationship now I'm not ready at all. I just got distracted... AGAIN and I know in my heart when the time is right, the Lord will speak to me with no confusion. Thank God for his faithfulness because I am often lacking
I made a comment on this video a couple weeks ago concerning an ungodly relationship that I wanted to end, well..... UPDATE! God gave me the strength to get the guy out of my house and he has been gone it’ll be 2 weeks on this Saturday. I give God all the praise and I’m working on a deeper relationship with him. Blessed.
I'm commenting because of your request to at the end of the video, normally I don't like to have people hear my personal life, but here it goes... I found your video on Facebook, a friend posted it tonight, and I didn't ask her why, nor did I know what made her post it but I thanked her. 7 years prior I was dating a young woman and in that relationship I lost a child with her to abortion. Being a man of faith, abortion is not an option, but she felt otherwise for selfish reasons. I decided to leave, turn my back and never look back. That decision was the most crushing moment of my life. We started out as close friends and she betrayed that along with my trust. 5 and a half years later she was asking about me to my family. I ignored her for 3 months, but I knew deep down inside she would only look for me if it was something serious. I hear from her that she only has a few years to live and she wanted time back with me, I was something special she had that she lost. I never lost the love I had for her so ignoring my feelings was rough. 5 months later were dating, but nothing she says adds up. There are way to many holes and her intentions are very deceiving, It's been over a year now and the last 3 months have been rough. Today she decided to take someone else's word over mine and her true colors came out. I'm disappointed to say the least, but I'm not broken. Every single sign in your video was right infront of me and I was ignorant. Deep down I could see my relationship with God slip, and I ignored it. I won't fill in the details but I will say this. The enemy really wants to destroy you, and it came soo close. Even though this demonic spirit tried, theres one thing you can never forget, God is always there with you, and even though I may have been slipping, he was there to catch me. Father I am grateful you have been here for me all this time, that even though I choose to love the wrong person, you never let me go, and here I am again walking away from her again for following the image I wanted and not your will, lord I pray anyone else going through a similar situation be freed from any attempt to deceive, and can find their way back home to you, in Jesus name, amen.
Love this. I ended up married to a psychopath who fit most of these. It was hell. I try to preach this same message to others so they don't suffer the same consequences I did.
God working through you has helped me overcome many doubts I had about life and the many struggles. One message I heard from you had kept me coming back. Thank you for your work
You are so welcome! Its an honor to serve you all! I just want everyone to love God and to really appreciate him! Thank you so much for watching and supporting!
Yo coach this definitely was for me...i met someone I really liked broke my celibacy fell into sin. Felt convicted but still entertaining them cause of the tie and the companionship but bc of the clearance you talked about I thought he was the one. He only feeds my flesh side but not as deep with God as I am so now I have to act accordingly and distance myself thanks.....i don't wanna be captain save a dude.
Preach!!! Abba Father God delivered me from a counterfeit relationship that He did not bring in my life!!! Ended it with the power of the Lord! I repented, The Lord forgave me, I forgave myself and He gave me grace and healed my broken heart quickly! God is LOVE. There is NO Greater LOVE!!!! God is faithful!!! Thank you Christ the Messiah King of Kings and Lord of Lords!!!!
Min 3:00 to 2:19 🔥🔥🔥🔥 „HOW CAN I BE ABLE TO WALK IN LOVE WHEN I CEASE TO WALK WITH LOVE. POWERFUL!!! People, please acknowledge that GOD IS THE EMBODIMENT OF LOVE- GOD IS LOVE!!! John 3:16f
It's not my timing yet....but congratulations to your courtship. Also........continue to pray for me that I will wait and be content with God alone. Thank you brother
HALLELUJAH!!!! I thank GOD for leading me to this channel because everything GOD is saying through you is directly to me, and about many issues I have had with counterfeits who I seen coming, and still out of loneliness I entertained them, but I thank GOD for delivering me from myself, and recently a man who claimed to be a saint, and is after JESUS, actually said something so off to me that I couldn’t believe how he was talking, worldly, and lustfully, and I knew it was the devil using him to get next to me because he appeared as an angle of light, and is a single pastor, but talking crazy, and I rebuked him righteously, not in my own judgment, but I told him that the way he was talking was not right, and disrespectful, and not of GOD, and I don’t talk like that, and he got offended and kept his distance from me, so I cut off contact with him period!!!!! I remember praying, and asking GOD about this man, and show me if he’s the one, and GOD answered me immediately, and let me see the real him, and GOD told me to leave him alone, and move on, and since watching you Joshua, GOD broke me down to the core of my heart and told me to let go, and forget about a husband period, everything, and follow HIM, and by the grace of GOD I am in CHRIST JESUS MIGHTY NAME, amen!!!!!!!
Wow! He is so faithful! Im so glad God guided you through that situation and used my video to help! Gods got you stay encouraged and know he has someone made for you!
Whoa, what an awesome blessing this message was to me. This made me end a brief 3 month relationship were there was alot of manipulation going on. The relationship started with love bombing in gradually ending in this breadcrumbing technique. It took a lot of prayer, seeking God's word, and finding videos like yours to help build up my spiritual discernment. Point 2 really stood out to me the most! I kept questioning the guy's intentions and his answers were always vague and confusing. When I ended the relationship, I literally felt a weight lifted off of me! Thank God! 🙌🏾🙏🏽
You’ve just described what I experienced. It was 4 months of talking but I was given the separation unction right before the 3rd month and I sensed the hand of The Most High separating it and I slowly started to leave it but I didn’t completely end it until the 4th month mark. I had to repent for not moving at the time I knew within me that was given to me. No sex took place but there was pressure in that area, then came the real manipulation and breadcrumbing. This person started to make me nervous and emotionally unstable. Your statement was exactly like mine.
Going through all of your videos and I’m so grateful for your obedience! 🙌🏾 Just what I needed to hear. “So many people settle before their season.” WOW!
I'm so glad the video was right on time for you and you're right they do and its unfortunate! Thank you so much for watching and for commenting I really appreciate it!
Spirit-filled, Honest & Authentic. Thank you I'm so encouraged. Yes, the person may not have it all together in the finances yet, but they may be about ready to come in & burst at the shoreline with an extremely huge and loaded catch.
That was such a wonderful message for single people!! I pray that every precious child of God, hear this message with their heart. Wow. God bless you with health and safety, and keep you and all those who hear this message close to him. Amen, Amen, Amen!!!! WOW....... I just can't get enough. That's because you are speaking truth man!!! This is WORD!!!! WORD UP!!! TRUTH--YOU ARE A GIFTED SPEAKER ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️
Recently I asked God what was really going on in my life, with this, I'm 41 and stopped waiting 5 years ago and had a few wrong relationships that ended poorly. He directed me to find out about Spirit Wives and Husbands. They are entities that prevent marriage. Its been enlightening finding out about this info. Its not popular knowledge in western Christianity. I recommend praying about it looking into it.
You spoke to me on learning stillness. In at that stage of learning to be still learning patience and finding peace/ love in me. I have fallen so far off track but I ask him not to give up on me yet. I'm slowly fighting my way back to him. I use to be ready to rush in wanting love and marriage so badly. Not anymore I am focused on me getting me right and walking in my purpose tooj me 36 years to figure it out but now I know. This was very eye opening for me thank you I needed to hear this today. Please keep me in prayer.
I know it can be frustrating but God has a plan for you and if you have a desire to be married he will bring it to past He just want to make sure He is in His rightful place in your life and that you are ready! Patience is key in life and it is often the prerequisite to promotion! I'll be praying! Stay focused!
Good morning Joshua! I hope all is well with you. Thank you so much for this message! I so needed to here this I just cut a relationship off recently, just like you said those counterfeit. God been warned me a long time ago, but I was been disobedience. I know that God has something and someone special for me. Thank you again! I love all your messages; you are truly a man of God! Keep doing what you are called to do. Have a blessed beautiful Wednesday!
Thank you so much for watching and for reaching out Kenesha! Im so glad you obeyed God and are now in position to grow in your singleness! Im so glad the videos have been a blessing! Thank you again!
This was such a word!! Thank you so much for allowing God to use you yet again and pour into me yet again! You never fail to disappoint! This video confirmed so much for me, and has truly blessed me! I can never say thank you enough!
That part in the first 3 minutes is defining a whole lot of people. I had friends who are living that life and questioning my being single and dont understand this kind of knowledge. When I speak on having to be full and love self, they look at me like I'm speaking Russian.
Praise The Lord Jesus !! I felt the unction from The Holy Spirit to let this man go and until I watched this video it has given me the strength to be obedient and verbally tell him !! I pray the Lord bless and pour favor upon your ministry lives are being touch the more you allow and submit to spirit of God God bless you brother Eze!
I really enjoyed this video. I was in a relationship and i was questioning it. God recently gave confirmation to let it go. I can relate to this more than you know.... I needed to hear this.
I want to thank you for this message. It helped me so much and is a confirmation of my prayer for clarity. I actually listened days ago but have been meditating on it every since. I had to come back and comment. I appreciate your knowledge and letting God use you. It's truly a blessing!
I really believe I'm locked into a relationship like this. Please pray for me. I didn't want to settle at all and I am hurt to be in this. I was so at peace in my singleness- and leading bible studies. I think this was sent to derail me. I feel tied to what makes me feel sick. I pray against it, but my will is not fully submitting- which I too am praying for. This man is NOT what he presented himself as...and I see him not submitting to authority in his church etc. It's concerning...
Hey Coach Josh . My feedback is that I’m using this for all connections in and to my life especially relationships. 1 John 4;1 came to mind as I was listening. Sound message as usual.
Josh I must of watch this 10x, you did it again. I needed that. There is so much truth to that you had helped me understand the clearance from God. So many good things happen since our last coaching session. Will be booking my next one. I'm so glad I found you. Thank you so much for everything you do. J
You really are anointed to do this. God bless you abundantly & give you more wisdom, grace & discernment in Jesus name. Amen. I thank God for what HE has put in you to help,build & edify the body of Christ. All the glory goes to GOD aim Jesus name. Amen.
That’s a big message for me the relationship only lasted three months but I’ve cut it off completely and I appreciate you spreading that word which has a lot of power behind it thank you for such a great job
Thank you Brother for your Obedience and Godly wisdom, coming from a man's point of view. I have been totally convicted by every word. I am set free!! Thank you!!
God bless you for putting this video out when you did I wrestle with leaving the person and have did it so now the enemy is using him to try and hurt me but this video will help me to stay strong and wait on the real one in Gods timing
I appreciate what you had to say, but I feel really bad about myself now. I am not a counterfeit Christian, but I definantly fit most of the things you listed. I know I have co dependency issues and such. I'm not sure how to heal from the emotional damage I have. I did buy your book though. World war me. Got it yesterday. I've already started to read it.
One of the beginning stages of healing is to first admit that there is a problem. So you're on the right path. Secondly ask God to show you where is broken, trauma, etc and trust me He will show you those hidden place. Now the enemy condemns but God convicts. So the bad feeling you're having isn't God. In God there is no condemnation. Also fast for your healing and for revelation and clarity in your situation.
Oh boy, do I have a story. So the Holy Spirit convicted me strongly when I met a particular guy. I mean it was like he literally held up a stop sign. Did I listen....Nope! Now here it is 4 years later and I’m miserable, broke up with the guy on and off (8 times) and now I don’t know how to get him out of my life. This video is confirmation of what I’ve been praying about. Btw the guy lives with me but it’s like we’re roommates (my choice). I just wish I had listened! Now I truly do want to do what is pleasing to God.
God can redeem the time! He will give you wisdom on what to do! Don't beat yourself up about it just seek his will and he will keep you covered! Thank you again for watching!
