Don’t lie, Aaron, we all know it’s a massive hickey! LOL. Kidding aside, I don’t know if you remember me but I’ve been subscribed since before you had 300 subs…I just wanted to say that it’s been fun watching you grow your channel and offer advice to other young men. Growing up as a young man, it’s hard to navigate through high school and even early university/college years…and it’s even harder for guys who may not have a father figure or other brother to give them advice…so I really like what you’ve done with your channel. All the while, you stay humble and down to earth…which has always made you relatable. I like that you’re not afraid to share your insecurities and flaws too…it makes guys see that they’re not alone when it comes to their insecurities and physical/psychological obstacles & you give them the confidence to overcome them. Keep up the good work and I look forward to seeing how you progress and what direction you’ll take this channel in the future. You’ve come so far from that 16-year old who was so self conscious about his ears, to a man who’s comfortable in his skin and owns who he is. Stay humble and open-minded, two of your best traits. Aloha from Honolulu! 😁🤙🏽
My friends started to slowly ignore me. They don’t include me in their conversations and when i try to engage with them the same way they do with each other they don’t return the same energy and label me as annoying. That makes me upset and I’m sad but they say they were joking but obviously nothing changes. Idk what to do but i don’t want to separate from this group..😢
This happens to a lot of people. It happened - or actually - it is happening to me but you gotta learn to let go and be free of your baggage. Learn to be alone with yourself. Maybe just start focusing on what can benefit you rather than focusing on what what others say.
W vid man... howd u know i needed this?? Also, i dont think u had this experience but, what do i do if i am zesty. Im a freshman in highschool, a biological male, and im hella zesty. Whats ur advice bc ppl think im gay but im not👎
Hey dude, I know I'm not Aaron but I might be able to help. People might think you're "gay" because you might be falling into a gay stereotype. This may be the way you dress, the way you speak, the way you behave, etc. For example; if you wear colorful clothes or socks pulled up high or if you wear short pants. Or if you have a high-pitched voice or have a lisp, or maybe not showing interest towards girls(not having a girlfriend or crushing on them). Or maybe it's your looks if you look feminine like James Charles or Adam Lambert. And if ppl think ur gay, who cares, let them think what they want, even if it's not true, and if they don't accept you for who you are, they are not really your friend. Honestly, I was kinda acting sus and zesty as hell when I was a freshman but Imma hella manly now. I don't know what you look like but different things you can try is getting a new haircut, growing facial hair(no pedo stache tho), going to the gym and working out, talking to more girls and getting a girlfriend, talk in a deeper voice, wear plain clothes, not be into drama or musicals.
@@ben-neon19 Yo, that means a lot, man, thanks! I will say its def the way i sound. I have a couple feminine features too but im not worried about that as much. So first of all, i try to talk deep but its not a habit i have, and i feel like ppl are definitely gonna notice. Another thing is, its so hard to make friends when all the ppl i want to be friends with are homophobic. Ik i shouldn't be friends with ppl who already dont accept me but ppl who are willing to be friends with me are weird. Also, i have like A LOT of girls. I always ask girls to dance at quinces too. I just dont like how much work girls are, how they act, and a lot of girls at my school are either hos, weird girls, or way out of my league. Im also in a weights class so that will help (im a pretty big guy😭) Another thing is im just socially akward. In middle school, after the pandemic, i was so extroverted and always loved talking to ppl but after the first 2 weeks, i started getting bullied so i just stopped talking a lot and became an introvert. Ik it cant be my clothes either bc i literally wear the same things that ppl who call me zesty are. Anyways, what haircut would you recommend? Also how did you get in the habit of taking deeper? Again, thanks bro, much love🙏
@@I_LOVE_EILISH Honestly, it just sounds like you're in a shitty high school. If a lot of guys are homophobic or those different types of girls then there's nothing much you can do unless u transfer, ignore them or change who you are(which I don't recommend). Trust me there were a lot of mean girls in my HS(blonde, pretty, sassy, bullies to anyone under their class). And maybe the dudes think ur gay because you hang out with too many girls, lmao. It really depends on your hair man but there are a lot of videos on youtube and tiktok you can look at for reference. Like some guys look better if they get a buzz cut, or messy hair or fades and tapers. For your voice, project your voice, stand tall, do deep voice exercises, breathe through your belly, talk with confidence. And remember, ur like 15 dude. It's like normal I think, especially if ur going through puberty late. Just have patience, and your voice will get deeper as you age and will def change by the time ur a senior. The pandemic messed everyone up. Just don't be nervous and be confident of talking to ppl. Hope this helps man.
@@ben-neon19 thanks a lot dude! All of the schools where i live suck, im not even exaggerating. I also get that im 15 and going through puberty but i just wish it would go by faster like everyone else. I wish ppl give me a chance. But tbh things are slowly looking better for me i just gotta work on some things. Again thanks a lot dude, God bless you and take care👋
Men.. I understand that you guys who makes videos for you tube.. Needs to put a title on the video that grab people's attention.. But that title ahahahaha bros don't exists an magic formula to make people like you.. That is just weird to read fr ahahahaha bros if you think to much to be appreciate buy other people, you are just going to be unsuccessful.. Just be normal, don't stress ahahahahah
What if your gay and want guy friends, but they shy away from you because they think you only want to date them. Or don’t exactly like your hyperactive personality. It’d be great to know how to fix this.
