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Thank you for your channel.every feminine woman should have respect for God , herself, others. Signature perfume mine is tresor by Lancôme.everything you put on your channel helps me greatly n i feel like i can conquer the world 🥰
Amazing video! I feel like every woman should have 1. A Hobby that keeps you moving/in shape 2. A hobby that keep your mind sharp (ex.reading, writing, instrument, language, being expert on a subject of choice, etc) 3. A nice pair of every day heels 4. A clean space & living space that motivates you and brings you good vibes 5. A to-go accessory set 6. A little red dress 7. A good skincare routine (SUNSCREEN GIRLS & REAPPLY, retinol, moisturizer, gentle face wash and lipbalm at the minimum) 8. A smile 9. A good posture & walk 10. A bucket list so you do fun stuff you always wanted to do instead of settling for the same thing all the time
A feminine woman should have an Elder, who keeps her secrets and gives wisdom. I have all the things mentioned, but my most prized possession is my Elder, she educates me on life success, communication, financial success, being feminine among a host of other things. She has always been poised, strong but yet delicate a true Southern Belle….
@@zeeda1234 ❤️ it’s my Aunt, my dad’s only sister. She will carry my secrets to her grave, she even disciplined her children in private. I would watch her growing up. When I became a woman she took me and my sisters to another level in addition to what our Amazing Mom taught us. I really admire her and I’m 51.
1. Have a signature look. 2. Have a signature scent. 3. Have a bunch of thank you cards. 4. A routine and a planner. 5. A signature dish. 6. A great handbag. 7. Quality underwear. 8. A little black dress. 9. An emergeny stash preferrably cash. 10. Shopping list.
Here are my Top 13: 1. Full length mirror 2. Ironing board + iron OR steamer 3. am + pm skincare routine 4. Team of medical professionals (ie. Primary care physician, obgyn, dentist, therapist, dermatologist, etc.) 5. Personal care routine 6. Daily nutritional supplement 7. Dry cleaner, seamstress, cobbler 8. Fitness routine 9. A daily/monthly planner 10. Fragrances for body and home 11. Home cleaning + organizing routine 12. Personalized stationery 13. Etiquette book
beautiful video! If I may add: 1-two books: one fictional or poetry, one for education or self-development 2-a good dentist 3-a good hairdresser 4-time alone
Another thing I would recommend is to always have a pen and a notepad handy in your handbag as you cannot perpetually rely on technology, specially during emergencies. Next is to have a set of tissues/wipes in your bag to clean your hands/face/outfit every now and then. A lipstick/lip gloss goes a long way. Keep one along with a hairbrush for those unexpected meetings or outings. Get yourself some nipple pasties for your sleeveless apparel. Have a home fragrance. Have versatile accessories that can be paired with a variety of clothes. Keep your dental health in check. It often gets ignored, specially the rear portion of your teeth. Get yourself the right style of sunglasses to protect your eye area. Get a foam roller/massage tool for your feet after walking in those long heels throughout the day. Your feet are your life. Pamper them. Pimple patches have been gaining popularity lately for their efficacy. Check out some for instant results. Always have an emergency backpack/suitcase/handbag containing your important documents, medicines, some clothes, money and keys so that in the event of an untoward incident, you can grab your bag and make a run without having to suffer later. For example, a fire broke out in your house or there are some burglars, you can escape quickly by grabbing your emergency bag and figuring out everything later. Make sure your bag has your identification papers, academic documents and your resumes. If possible, keep a spare phone. Get yourself a vacuum cleaner to get rid of undetectable specks of dust in your home or car. Have a medicine/supplement organiser box with days of the week marked on it so that you don't miss your dose. I would highly recommend a portable jet spray for those halts on your road trips to clean yourself up. Always have a handkerchief. Whether you have a skin care regime or not, buy yourself an effective sunscreen. If you cannot go to salons for grooming your eyebrows, you can do it yourself with some vaseline and a pair of tweezers. You will have a neat look at the end. Have a first aid kit at your house. Buy some crockery/glassware to treat your guests. Have some snacks or drinks saved up for them. Lastly, keep a pen knife and a pepper spray in your bag. These are a few of the things I can think of. Hope it helps. 😊
Great tips. Definitely love the advice about $1000 in cash. I try my best to keep cash on hand tuck away for emergencies. I think a pocket size Bible every woman should have. No matter where you are, when you have the free time read a scripture. It's relaxing and my opinion one of the best books around. Blessings!
well said Lady T , l used to a small Bible , love what you shared l agree ,who are we with our GOD , who gave us His only son JESUS to die for us sinners
My list of what a woman should have would be: 1.Emotional control - learning how to master your emotions has been so valuable for me. 2. A way to protect herself- be it self defense or another option. 3 A 2% account- I have an account where I deposit 2% of my check every time I get paid. At the end of the year I decide what I am going to do with the money be it a vacation or a piece of jewelry. 4. Something hard to achieve - be it refinishing furniture or reading a book an a boring subject. 5. Focus- a vision of what you want your life to be and then be unrelenting as you create it.
@@christineribone9351 depends on what you earn 🤷🏾♀️ If you read her comment again she says at the end of the year she has enough for a vacation or a piece of jewellery so her 2% must be quite hefty 🙂
Superbly put together! 🎉 I would add the following: 1. Your own source of income tied to a bank account in your name only, even if you have a provider in your life. For discretionary and frivolous spending, as well as for when things don't work as expected with the provider. 2. A car in your name only and a smartphone with a decent plan in your name only, with a way to pay for it should you be/ end up on your own for a while ( see 1.) These two are crucial in avoiding isolation and rescuing yourself from, God forbid, abusive situations. 3. A place to live in your name only, not for everyone, and harder to obtain, however a great source of stability. Rent it out and use the rent to pay the mortgage. 4. A prenup or cohabitation agreement that is fair to both her and him, well drafted and approved by lawyers from both sides. The prenup should clearly state that 1 to 3 remain yours after separation and that any money you earn (or a certain portion of it) remains yours no matter what. The prenup should clearly state how much of each other's debt each of you is willing to shoulder during and after the relationship, and that any gifts given are not asked to be returned.
When you say, "when things don't work as expected with provider" you are, in a sense, encouraging women to be insecure in a relationship with her partner. If the relationship is no longer working, her and her partner should peacefully split. In a healthy relationship, a woman (and the man alike) should not harbor worry in her mind over whether his/her partner will continue to perform their duties to each other. I think that women should work jobs that truly make her happy, and fulfill her role in a relationship (and vice versa) and that includes her mindset, not just her actions.
@@kyliechristina234 lovely to meet you! More like "you think you know somebody", see how that footballer's wife that was in the news recently for more context.
Looooooove this!!!! I would just add that every women should have a signature lipstick color, a book to read (while waiting in line or at an airport), an outlet (such as swimming or running) and a signature song or playlist that hypes you up while getting ready to go out and conquer the world!
YSL's Black Opuim is my signature scent. It ends up drying down to be cozy, warm, & fresh smelling on me after a few hours. I always feel so sensual & relaxed whenever I wear it.
Wow, what an incredible and inspiring video! Thats what I LEARNED ! 1. Have a hobby that keeps you in shape and fulfilled. 2. Engage in a hobby that keeps your mind sharp. 3. Own a nice pair of everyday heels. 4. Keep your living space clean and motivating. 5. Always have a to-go accessory set. 6. Own a little red dress that makes you feel confident. 7. Follow a good skincare routine that includes sunscreen, retinol, moisturizer, gentle face wash, and lip balm. 8. Always wear a smile. 9. Practice good posture and walking. 10. Create a bucket list and try new things. Hope this helped ❤
For my ladies who are between sizes, there are bra extenders. They are super helpful especially if you struggle with finding bras or you’ve gained a bit of weight and don’t want to buy new ones. They are awesome! They are not perfect but they help a lot
Love this! There are a few additional items I think every woman should have, such as: -Cash tucked away in your the glove compartment of your car or in your wallet. Not much, $100 or so. -A well organized wallet -A system to keep your handbag organized -A quality key chain... with minimal attachments. Frequent shopper cards and such should not be kept on your key chain. -A good, quality trench coat. (Please consider doing wardrobe must haves!) Love your channel! Please keep the videos coming, so informative and inspiring!
I also keep a bit of cash tucked inside my first aid kit in my glove compartment. It’s not so much that if my car was broken into and it was stolen it would be a huge issue - just enough that I have some cash in a pinch. $100-200 is fine.
You don’t know how Much your videos has helped me change my life around. I am currently recovering from depression and Im trying to update my looks and mindset. TYSM keep making more videos please.🙏🏽
Firstly, I'm so glad we still have women who value being feminine ! It used to be a given, but now it's just a refreshing difference. The most valuable asset to these women won't be anything physical, it actually will be spiritual... just make sure you have the Proverbs 31 Wisdom . It will be your most powerful, and greatest asset.
Every woman should have … a GOOD therapist! Life is only as good as your mental health. You would be amazed how much cognitive load is removed when you decrease your anxiety or other unhealthy processes.
The thank you card bit is interesting. I never heard of that. I am from the Czech Republic and we don´t really send cards except wishes for occassions such as wedding, birthday, anniversary, sometimes Christmas etc. I have never had anyone giving me a thank you card. But we do give tokens of gratitude, often it is a bottle of a good liquor, homemade cakes, jams or pickles, something for their children, depends on who they are. We express gratitude with gifts rather than just writing a note, but I completely understand that notes can have power too.
I love this! Tokens of gratitude are even better ☺️ And having your signature tokens (just like a signature scent, look, or dish) is probably so helpful!
I love the advice on planners. I keep mine handy. One list I have added this year is a white board on my refrigerator where I list anything I am low on plus what's available for meals for the week. This keeps me from running out of essential items and also keeps me from ordering out when I could eat something healthier and less expensive at home.
1. Know your body type and what works for their shape, including correct size and what colors look best on your skin tone 2 A proper fitting bra 3 understamd your face shape amd what hairstyles work best for you 4 A seamstress that tailor your cloths to you 5 a mental and physical hobby 6 understanding of self. What you need and want out of life
I'm a Medical Assistant and this is an amazing tool. You're right patients are always asking when will the lab work be available. This is amazing. Thank you
Can you talk about how to carry yourself after 40 years old and looking for love especially when you don’t trust relationships anymore. How to be open to love, relationship, what to look for in men, how to keep to yourself until you find the one, how to know “the one”. Let’s just call it “ Life at 40” 😢
I loved this list and can't wait to check out Scentbird; I've never heard of them before. Thanks for sharing that. I also think every feminine woman needs a spiritual gym routine. It's not about having a religion, but just doing things that keep you grounded and nourish your soul. Radiance shines from within, so starting with a healthy spirit, mind and emotions brings everything else together. 💖
OMG What a killer list!!! I got a few nuggets from this. The only thing I would add, since I just did it in an emergency hygiene/makeup/"that time of the month"---including panties bag. I can't tell you how many times I've needed a razor, deodorant or a pad in some freakish event. Seriously we need to have a friggin MacGyver kit at all times! Love you ladies!!!💖
Please talk about having a schedule that is totally impacted. How to have femininity and self-consideration while conquering very time burdensome goals. Thank you ❤
I’ve found, Segmenting tasks helps with this. If you take your task and break it into smaller units of time, it keeps you on track, from being overwhelmed, and affords more time to do other things
As a woman in law enforcement. Fragrance is one of my essentials like Kai Ali and YSL for the evening. As for makeup my eyebrows because I wear glasses mascara and gloss
I found your channel earlier this year, & I have to say the timing could not have been more perfect. I was living in my wounded feminine energy for years, & I have made close friends along the way who have been living the same way. But recently, after meeting the love of my life & the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, I have started my journey towards healing myself & living in the divine feminine path, but I felt that I was starting it alone. My friends are doing their own thing, & most of them don’t seem to understand the transformation I am trying to undergo for myself. I was so happy to find your channel & to find this community of beautiful women trying to achieve the same goals that I have. I don’t feel as alone anymore. I really appreciate your channel & the advice that you share with us, & appreciate the beautiful women here who are making the choices everyday to value & improve themselves. 🤍
Almost done with breastfeeding and baby weight is finally gone 7 months later 😅🙌🏿. this 3rd postpartum was really hard . So ready for your amazing fashion tips Thank you 🙏🏿.
Look at you go, mama! This is a space for women to grow and learn from each other. And that was such a great reminder that every baby/pregnancy is different! Never know who might need to hear that. Thank you for sharing and glad you're getting back to yourself. Stay rested, well fed and pampered 😊💕
@feminine Universe over 50 here and looking for inspiration to stay on. So grateful for your contribution. I do find myself overwhelmed with the actual daily plan, organizing myself (due to ADHD) any video w guidance would support me tremendously.😊
While having $1000 is more than I can afford, $500 can see me through the likely emergencies like small auto repairs such a tire, unclogging a backed up drain, and yard maintenance such as digging out of a heavy snowfall. I keep it in small bills, nothing larger than $10 with lots of singles because people who run errands for you seldom return with your change. One more thing to have is a matching set of distinctive luggage so you can easily spot it on the luggage pick-up carousel in baggage claim. You really only need two pieces including a carry-on and a larger bag on wheels that must be checked. Your carry-on should include a change of clothes should your luggage be lost or you have a food/beverage spill accident, an extension cord with charging ports and a back-up solar battery for your electronic devices.
I loooooove Pour Femme, has been one of my signature scents for a few years now. Love this little scent bird, perfect gift for my sister who also loves smelling good! ❤
I absolutely love your videos. I’m 28 and I’ve been learning so much from you that I never learned growing up. I can’t thank you enough for your help. Also, my favorite parfum right now is Flowerbomb and I’m a fan of the Roses de Chloe.
Every female need some type of sanctuary. If u don’t go to church , make extra room in your home for your choice of meditation and to stretch, paint, take naps, and etc.
Hello, thank you so much for these important things to have. This is definitely an upgrade for me. I'm over 50 and is looking for things I can do to stay nice looking without trying to look like I'm being young. If you have a video on that it would be helpful. Thanks
I love this all around great list I think every feminine woman should have a look I think this is key once you know your vibe your fluid in everything I have a few different elements I put together based on how I feel always adheres to my orgin look little classy little sensual highly respectable confident in how I move and always matching I get such a pleasurable experience out of putting myself together so I’m grounded when I do that correctly it’s like my armour then i a llow me to be my best self no matter what comes my way I’m solid in a meeting dealing with people enjoying myself it’s all fluid with my look on point
Every feminine woman needs a deeply personal relationship with Jesus Christ to know what true love is. That way, she will not fall for or accept less than true love.🙏🏾🕊️🥰
While your spirituality is your own and I am so happy it works for you, not everyone is, or should be, indoctrinated into the same belief system. Please don't insult others by telling them they are not "feminine" or that they "won't know love," unless they share your beliefs. You certainly won't win any new believers doing that! However, just living your life and showing how your beliefs improve things is the BEST way to get your words out there! As my Uncle (a Pastor) would say, "Let your actions bear witness, as you will know them by their fruit."
I love this thank you. I am on my journey to getting back to my feminine self. Yes please provide more of these videos. Maybe even suggestion on how to on a budget.
Love this and also doing journaling with these tips while trying my best on what i want/have here Recently mastered making soupy filipino food, calslaw and potato salad ❤ During day time my scent is Libre edt by Ysl and night is L'interdit Rouge by Givenchy
It's great that you're incorporating these tips with your journaling. Working with what you have is always a great place to start😉 Love your dishes - you will definitely be invited to all the cookouts!
Every feminine woman should have.. the health app (or equivalent) installed on their personal phone. This was a game changer for me as far as accuracy in predicting when my periods would come (so I’m never caught unprepared when I’m working or out and about), also helping me plan dates, trips, and other “love language” activities with my husband. Also it can tracks steps, calories burned, how much sleep your getting. And getting enough rest is one of if not THE most essential keys to being your most feminine self, imo.
I would add to routine specifically a self care routine: hair care, skin care, nail care, exercise, space care, food intake. All should be routine and well planned. Im working on all at the moment.
Yes. I would like to see more lists like this. I believe in lists. I keep a running list for every store I frequent on my phone. For example, when I go into Trader Joes, I know exatly what I need or want to pick up. I also keep a list of everything in my freezer. This helps me plan meals and not over buy.
My signature scent that I wear EVERYDAY and I get compliments almost EVERYDAY, is the Viktor and Rolf Flowerbomb Perfume!!!! I always get asked what I’m wearing! And guys like it too!
Fowerbomb is so pretty! There's a reason she's loved all around the world! I'm sensitive to patchouli so I can't wear it all the time, but you're absolutely right, I get compliments nonstop when I wear it💕
Hello ladies this is my first time so far I’m liking what I hear and women should always remain dignified there at times when you wanna show out when you know you shouldn’t so ladies remain independent I love the show
Hi and Thank you so much!! This is exactly what I need and I appreciate you!! I’d like to add two items I think every woman should have: a pair of gold hoop earrings (can be whatever size you are comfortable with….they can be dressed up or down) and a pair of diamond stud earrings: also can be worn with a great outfit or a pair of jeans….just my thoughts. I love your channel!!
Okay please share where do you all shop for undergarments now? I used to shop at Victoria's secret but their prices keep going up and quality seems to be dropping. I don't mind paying for quality but i don't want to pay for something that fades, tears, or falls apart after a wash or two.
OK lady your information/tips are excellent...it's in my nature and I have always done many of your suggestions, I'm not far from developing new habits...I have a memory of an aunt...she just ALWAYS looked groomed, well dressed, she was graceful. Not till a couple years ago remembering my aunt I won't/can't leave the house without dressing appropriately, no matter what ( I made a concious effort to smile more, it makes me happy...the bible reads Christ said "whatever you did for one the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me" Thanks for sharing...OH happy day....God bless...byeeeeeee for now
Ah, thank you, love! I have a few good ones lined up - it's been an interesting experience. I appreciate you being here and sticking with me for the long haul 😊💕
I am 17 and here are some thing that I think girls my age should have: 1) a laptop to learn different skills. 2) good skincare 3) a job that makes you money 4) a feminine coach to guide you through life. 5) a university degree or a skill that makes you unique 6) a good bath room and self care day 7) a good hair dresser 8) a good study plan to get you through college 9) transportation to get you around 10) a good closet.
When I was in management I would write thank you cards to my staff biannually or annually. It would include 3 adjectives and ending every one with thank you for being a part of my team.
@@TheFeminineUniverse Thank you. I’m no longer in management,however, I keep in contact with my former team. We try to have lunch together once a year.
I looooove your videos so much. Thanks a lot and please continue to teach us how to be the best version of ourselves at reasonable cost. Many thanks again ❤
You're welcome, love! More to come! I definitely want to provide affordable ways to climb in our journey, as well as help us all enhance our finances to afford what we want 💕
Thank you cards are not a thing in my culture. It would not really be appreciated, it would seem out of touch. I think the important thing is to find a way to thank people and make them feel appreciated, within what’s appropriate for your culture.
Favorite daily perfume is a body spray - Fresh and Clean by Victoria’s Secret. Favorite all time perfumes are Idole by Lancome, Daisy Eau So Sweet by Marc Jacobs, and Ombre Leather by Tom Ford ❤️
Youre so on top with every video's ' you has presented to every one that watches you channel. You realy keep me on track. Thank you very very much. Stay Bless 🙏. And Please continue changing womens and young ladies. Once Again thanks🤝🏼👍🏼✌🏼✊🏽. OneLove ❤
Good morning beautiful woman and soul, thank you for always coming through with amazing and helpful advice. Please may we see your recommended morning and night routine in the near future 🙏
I have a signature scent. Been using the same sent since I was 13. So lets just say I didn’t smell like a young girl. I always had my teacher asking me what I had on lol. I had my neighbors tell me, they knew when I just left the building lol.
