10 Things People Hate About INFPs

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If you’re new to Geek Psychology, my name is Matt Sherman. People call me Sherman. I'm a personality type expert, life coach, hypnotist, author, podcaster, and course creator. I help mainly INFPs embrace their unique strengths and navigate life's challenges. Through practical strategies and deep insights, I aim to help people like you live a more fulfilling and authentic live where you can wake up and feel good about who you are and your impact on the world. Discover the 10 things that some people find challenging about INFPs in this eye-opening video. From being perceived as aloof to struggling with practical matters, explore common misconceptions and learn how to navigate them effectively. If you're an INFP looking to understand yourself better and improve certain aspects of your personality, this insightful content is a must-watch!
Dive into the world of INFP traits and discover ways to embrace your unique qualities. #INFP #PersonalityTypes #SelfImprovement
00:00 Introduction: The INFP Personality Dilemma
00:24 1. Perceived as Aloof or Distant
01:04 2. Overly Idealistic Expectations
02:20 3. Difficulty with Structure and Deadlines
02:54 4. Emotionally Sensitive
04:00 5. Struggle with Practical Matters
05:07 6. Private and Guarded:
06:12 7. Passive in Conflict
07:27 8. Highly Independent
08:19 9. Cutting Ties Without Explanation
08:52 10. Seen as Dreamers, Not Doers
09:54 Improvement Tips: Embracing Change and Growth
12:31 Becoming More Approachable
13:16 Developing Manageable Expectations
14:43 Embracing Structure and Deadlines
16:05 Controlling Emotional Sensitivity
17:31 Handling Practical Matters
18:59 Cultivating Openness
20:03 Becoming Assertive in Conflict
21:59 Leveraging Interdependence for Teamwork
23:50 Communicating Closure Clearly
25:01 Transitioning from Dreamer to Doer
26:45 Conclusion: Embracing Your INFP Identity
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@danab172 4 месяца назад

Job interview today. I was asked if I valued independence more or working with others. I choked up an awkward answer. Then spent the rest of the afternoon alone in the woods to relieve the built up stress about the interview.

@hyacinthdibley2420 4 месяца назад

Oh I'm sorry to hear that. I too had an interview on 8th March and found myself acting more chirpy than my real self based on how the questions were going. I feel like interviews are the one place where we all know we're over-emphasizing (I don't want to say lying), but we are forced/encouraged to give answers that interviewers will like vs giving answers that are true to who we are. I definitely understand taking time to decompress afterwards. I do hope you feel better and find the role that makes you feel whole. Take care ok?

@UniqueGeekFreak 4 месяца назад

I have an upcoming interview, but am dreading it I don't want to go, because I feel like a loser & I don't want to be humiliated & judged by others. I also have nothing to sell about myself or share about myself that is of good use for work

@peachesandpoets 4 месяца назад

Aw babe 😢

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Nothing quite like being alone in nature. Take that sentence however you want to. I wish there were woods and forests here in Tokyo.

@danab172 4 месяца назад

@@hyacinthdibley2420Thank you! :) Wow, and I got 22 likes. Good luck to you as well! And, yea! 😂 I actually practiced for my interview by crying and telling my true story of loss and injustice. Followed by watching fake funny interviews by this guy on youtube. One where he is wearing an appropriate business suit shirt but says hold on let me get my resume, and proceed to show his rear end across the bed wearing leopard speedos. 😂 I did jumping Jacks and splashed cold water on my face...put peppermint in the diffusers. Then acted super chirpy.

@Gjakdjruknownhpjs 4 месяца назад

😮 how can someone call an aloof person narcissistic, when narcissists are the ones who die for spotlight and attention. We are not just aloof, we are awkwardly peculiarly aloof!

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

People say and do the strangest things. Me included.

@muma6559 2 дня назад

i agree. Not likely to be narcissistic

@bakarka 4 месяца назад

Even now at age 60, I recall clearly my high expectations dashed on the first day of Kindergarten when I saw the other kids and thought, holy crap, am I going to be stuck with these noisy brats? I quickly learned the value of being aloof and keeping my distance. At recess instead of playing with the others, I played with the globe and dreamt of going somewhere else. So little has changed.

@brynax170 4 месяца назад

Same, now at age 36, peopel are so annoyingly noisy 😂

@Nezuko_yoyo 2 месяца назад

Nothing needs to change stay as you are

@anushamirkhanyan4600 4 месяца назад

As an INFP, sometimes I want to open up and in fact I do, but I feel misunderstood or I feel that I overshared my thoughts and emotions and others are not interested in(((

@nathanwood4762 4 месяца назад

This is my dilemma too. People say I should "open up and be vulnerable" until I do. Then they say I "overshared" or ignore me as I'm trying to explain something important to me. It's a double bind. Whichever choice you make, you get put at the disadvantage. My choice is to stop wasting effort on people who are not trustworthy. They still call me aloof, but at least I'm not wasting my effort, or revealing vulnerabilities for them to exploit. I hope you find a few trustworthy people. There are some who simply seem safe to me. I do my best not to take a deep dive into raw emotion. Instead, I tell them open-ended stories about things that are noteworthy to me. Then they say "I love how weird you are" and we both feel good. PS: The open-ended stories are only for people I trust. I don't reveal anything I value to people I can't trust. If necessary, I will lie to conceal personal information. I will let them believe I like sports, food, pop music, etc. if it protects my closest feelings from abuse.

@anushamirkhanyan4600 4 месяца назад

@@nathanwood4762 I understand you, I've chosen not to talk about things important to me too. They say the most valuable memories are the ones you haven't shared with anyone. But from time to time I want to talk to someone like I talk to myself and not be condemned for being vulnerable. Sometimes it happens that I see and recognize "my" people from the first sight like I've known them for years, but unfortunately I never get the chance to befriend with them.

@FredCarpenter-pb6bd 2 месяца назад

The larval has no interest in you, you do not exist, unless you can hook into Hir limited reality-island, transmit on Hir narrow mind-band, unless your behavior offers meaning in terms of possible benefit or threat to Hir: 1. cellular well being 2. emotional-hierarchical status 3. artifact manipulation game 4. socio-sexual security; domestic reassurance All larval interactions are instrumental to one of the four survival attitudes. Larvals are comfortably adapted to this limited four-channel communication, scan automatically for the survival meaning of each stimulus and scuttle by each other like ants, each intent on Hir own "reality" - reacting automatically to relevant cues from others. - Timothy Leary PhD

@TheCentralSun 4 месяца назад

I love us INFPs we’re wonderful 💗

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

💯

@TheFpskiller 4 месяца назад

you truly are! from fellow intp here .d

@toothdecay2465 4 месяца назад

I cut ties with another person recently. It was a loyalty issue, something I viewed as a betrayal. The first time I remember cutting someone out was in junior high, someone who was a very close friend-- my best friend, or so I thought. I told him the closest secret to my heart, about my mother's death (suicide). I caught him talking to others about it and making light of it. The hurt was indescribable. I said nothing then, nor at any time afterwards. Instantly cut off. I wouldn't even acknowledge his presence. If I cut someone out, it's usually because they've violated a core value and there's no point, I feel, even discussing it.

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Good for you. I think you did the right thing. And I also think what you did is it better than the alternative of mistreated and not doing anything about it. And it’s your choice if you want to make amends or not.

@peachesandpoets 4 месяца назад

I can't imagine that betrayal. I'm so sorry that happened.

@wanderer4865 4 месяца назад

i can't believe you're 39 man, you look so young!

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Thank you! I’m starting to get some grey hairs!! So scary

@antoinettenovella1630 4 месяца назад

@@GeekPsychology Don't be. Grey hairs are less ominous than health issues - stay healthy and wise :)

@anonymousavatar6144 4 месяца назад

Looking young is an INFP trait! It’s that dreamy idealism shining through. 👶

@famousutopias 2 месяца назад

The late great Jack Benny had a running joke that he was 39… for years 😁. You can start now!

@LauraCordes 4 месяца назад

Who could hate an INFP? We have our flaws and idiosyncrasies like anyone else, but we're not malicious, not unless someone pushes us much too far, and we care so deeply about everyone and everything. People have accused me of being too distant and aloof, and maybe I am with people I don't know yet, but once I get to know someone, I become more warm toward them and one of their strongest allies.

@julieolson1402 4 месяца назад

"Honest, and can't be controlled," scares the he'll out of most people, especially when couched in a seemingly mild mannered, Clark Kent type.

@joannechua8266 2 месяца назад

@@julieolson1402 I am an INFP! Totally agree on we are honest, and can't be controlled. I just don't understand why it scare people? I believe as an INFP we would appreciate people who are honest and we don't like to controlled anyone. We just want them to be themselves. I would be so happy to have honest people and people who dare to be themselves as my close friends

@UniqueGeekFreak 4 месяца назад

I stopped sharing of my thoughts & emotions & what is going on internally or my different opinions, and just keep them to myself. Whoever genuinely wants to know or hear them will. I just keep all the good energy to myself because ppl can't handle others being dreamy or optimistic, they want to burst your bubble just for you to confirm to their misery. I've been there many times as well, thinking it was too much when someone was cheerful when i was moody or sulking, i got afraid of that person & stayed away from them, because i couldn't believe my eyes i met someone similar to myself....that i just ran away instead. Been praying yo be with my own kind. Whenever it happens, i get so shocked i don't know what to say or do, that i just leave never come back. It's as if i am looking for the bad, because that is all ive ever known. When someone or something good shows up i get very suspicious because it is so unfamiliar. I rhink i will just be myself when im with myself. And i treat ppl accordingly to how they treat me or how they want to be treated

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Do you think that it’s possible that you’re bringing some of those preconceptions into new interactions or relationships? I appreciate the good energy, and I think there may be some ways to be expanded so that you are happier and you have more positive interactions. I know it’s an uphill battle sometimes, but I really believe that INFPs have an endless well of curiosity and joy- but we don’t always allow ourselves to experience it.

@ameliadeshane9192 4 месяца назад

I loved when you said we avoid conflict, and corrected that it might depend on enneagram. I know I do not avoid conflict because I know conflict = growth and opportunity to learn. I know this is not the mentality of all INFP'S. I am a 4w5, Turbulent, with Avoidant attachment style and I wish conflict was more fearful. It would help if I was afraid of people and worldly consequences

@Peachbunnyyay 4 месяца назад

As an INFP I really appreciate ur vids, pls keep up the good work

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Thanks ^^ What would make it even better?

@angelcoyote9802 4 месяца назад

Your way of communicating is so soothing and clear, and more like me than I usually see. Makes me feel happy to be INFP :) Thank you for the good tips.

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

I'm so glad! Feeling happy about your personality type is very important.

@Individually_Authentic111 4 месяца назад

Your description of the struggles of an INFP is so accurate. I appreciate your willingness to share your experience and insights as to how to tap into our potential. Thank you.

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

You’re very welcome ^^ thank you for commenting and telling me

@t.c2031 4 месяца назад

I find it very hard meeting new people as an INFP but your videos have helped me understand more of myself !

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Happy to hear that it helped. Keep at it!

@sweetabby7700 4 месяца назад

This channel is an INFP gold mine 😍

@midnightcat6116 4 месяца назад

Fellow INFPer here 😅 People tell me i come across as a b*tchy mean girl. Once they get to know me, they realize I’m super nice, almost too nice in a toxic way lmao 🤣

@nikolqy 4 месяца назад

? As an INTP, i think that you are very selfish... It's digusting.

@brynax170 4 месяца назад

@@nikolqyoh, thats rude man. That is ironic as an INTP, and you dont know her and havent walk in her shoes and just judged her on her one comment! 😂

@nikolqy 4 месяца назад

@@brynax170 no, I just know I’ve spent 10 years of my life in 5 year close friendships with INFPs and they both ended the exact same way. They were definitely the exact same passive people.

@borderedge6465 4 месяца назад

Matt, this is fantastic! So comprehensive and in depth about INFP. From this INTP’s standpoint two things. 1)Something both INTP and INFP may not be too aware of that is off-putting to others, we can both come across as Goody-Two-Shoes, being just ‘nice’ when everyone else is “acting out and being a bit irresponsible, really!” This, as Leon of Type Talks (another incredible INFP) explains, is our 3rd function Si and the immature way we express it, making us look just lame and exaggerated in appearing ‘good’. I know we’re not TRYING, but that’s what it looks like to others. I think our difference is; we INTPs appear to be be Goody TwoShoes about being ‘nice!’ to people (inferior/ aspirational Fe), and you guys about ‘ALWAYS helping to get the work done!’ (Inferior/ aspirational Te). Resonate, anyone? 2)our Fi or Ti makes what comes OUT OF OUR MOUTHS seem more stubborn and dug-in than what we genuinely feel on the inside. And THAT is hugely off-putting to most people.

@billyb4790 4 месяца назад

It's so funny how INFJs and INFPs are vastly different on the cognitive function stack but we often end up outwardly in the same places.

@amporu 4 месяца назад

i cant even connect to myself, so i understand why people would not be able to connect to me

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Good point. I guess you know where to start if that’s the goal ^^

@danab172 4 месяца назад

That's an interesting comment. I have never thought about it in that way. I know that I know my interests and values and life experiences and purpose. Yet, do I connect with myself? What would that mean? Sometimes I think.... would I as an outsider want to connect with me? And yikes. I honestly would feel intimidated by myself. Even when I'm warm and friendly there is something secretive. A coworker told me many years ago that I scared people. Another one made a comment once that she thought I was afraid to be myself. What did that mean? I was professional. This would be some great topic for @geekpsychology on here.

@danab172 4 месяца назад

@@GeekPsychologyCopy and pasting my comment for you. Ideas for a video? That's an interesting comment. I have never thought about it in that way. I know that I know my interests and values and life experiences and purpose. Yet, do I connect with myself? What would that mean? Sometimes I think.... would I as an outsider want to connect with me? And yikes. I honestly would feel intimidated by myself. Even when I'm warm and friendly there is something secretive. A coworker told me many years ago that I scared people. Another one made a comment once that she thought I was afraid to be myself. What did that mean? I was professional. This would be some great topic for @geekpsychology on here.

@christinehallfeldt4280 4 месяца назад

When u said rub the people wrong way it made sense. I am always told that. And it makes me sad like maybe I shouldn't say anything at all and then I can't upset nobody. I'm like what i do or say that was so bad? I still don't know lol. 😊

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Maybe upsetting people is not the worst in the world and is the potential cause for positive change

@Nostalgik 4 месяца назад

Thank you so much for these heart to heart talks. I admittedly struggle to find time to just sit and listen through all of it at once with all these internet stimuli nowadays, but when I do, you really put me at peace 🥰

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

You’re welcome. It’s a long video, too.

@linmonPIE 4 месяца назад

I needed this talk. Thanks, Matt!

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

You’re welcome. Thank you for listening and commenting and taking it to heart.

@zd4w9 4 месяца назад

Nice video. So true about this personality type.

@Mildly_Unsuccessful_Individual 3 месяца назад

Good stuff; I resonate! As an INFP, I generally do not share the same level of enthusiasm for much of what is popular, normal or conventionally appreciated by the average person. On top of this, I also struggle to adapt my expression to match outward, social expectations whenever I'm not feeling it. I think this is often misinterpreted as me judging others, but it's mostly just a result of me being ruthlessly true to myself. I assume this aspect of my personality is what's most often grating to the average person; especially extroverts.

@andytheindividual3862 4 месяца назад

As a person, and an infp, I despise these things too 😂

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

lol

@vivjrhy1129 4 месяца назад

i love sharing any ideas to my brother and talked about it. but in school i cannot open my mouth. i saw the gladness of my classmate's face when i started to talk.

@imeprezime9098 3 месяца назад

Thanks for the video. I completely agree with everything in the first part of the video, naturally, completely skipped the second (advices) and enjoyed the ending :) Only true INFPs will understand ;)

@zach5754 4 месяца назад

Thank you, this was really helpful (:

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Glad it was helpful!

@khadeejadja 4 месяца назад

Wow... A lot of trigger points here but a great video as always, Matt. Thank you for being brave to say all these points, now I can see clearly on why I being and have been misunderstood by a lot of people.

@xxsnow_angelxx3953 4 месяца назад

True many ppl are conflict making 'naturally' nowadays. So it gets hard to on purpose put yourself in a confrontational place

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

I debated making the video. Then debated releasing it. Lots of touchy subjects, but I did my best to deliver them in a way that is still supportive.

@thescribe4742 4 месяца назад

Me, an ISFP, identifying with 70% o these issues👀

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

@julieolson1402 4 месяца назад

"There is a cost to specialization." Most succinct encapsulation of this idea I've seen short of, "You gonna pay!"

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

thanks! its a very important concept that has helped me a lot

@uncoolcat95 4 месяца назад

Bro where has your channel been my whole life? XD

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

I don’t know. I’ve been making videos for like 10 years. I have literally made over 1000 videos.

@joshuamensah9309 4 месяца назад

Cool setup in the back btw

@pauljack2267 4 месяца назад

Thank you

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Thank you very much Paul, it helps out a lot!

@peachesandpoets 4 месяца назад

Also, you look and sound so young. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us

@FredCarpenter-pb6bd 2 месяца назад

It doesn't matter if I hate them first. I didn't always, they trained me to do so.

@enricio 4 месяца назад

My daughter is an INFP, and I'm an INFJ. We are like two hands on one belly. I enjoy her pace but even more her insights and ability to reflect on herself. She has grown so much the last decade with lots of pain. I've always told her she's the most important person in her life. When life was tough my words kept her on her feet. ❤😊🥹

@kilppari78 4 месяца назад

Cracked up at "Lowered expectations..." 🤣

@JohnSims-su8tn 25 дней назад

Once on a job I wrote a line of code that caused my boss to threaten to KILL ME if I set foot on his property ... Needless to say I left that job in the next month 😢.

@sawdustadikt979 16 дней назад

I don’t know where I got it from, but I’ve always been a “work on my weaknesses” kinda guy. I’ve found over the decades, when I choose to focus on something I suck at, everything I’m good at immediately improves. I don’t know if it’s fostering humility by going all in on something I will fail at but time after time I suck alittle less at the thing? There is quite a bit of discipline and structure that goes into this, otherwise I’d never do it. I can easily imagine that if I didn’t do this, there would be fertile ground for arrogant ignorance to flourish, that possibility scares the hell out of me.

@MissLlewella 4 месяца назад

I'm an infp in relationship with an infj, and with an estp. It is really amazing to see how I function and my loved ones. I learned to communicate and be direct and honest though. And I try to be unconditional, and to mirror that. That the differences are ok. Yeah I feel deeply, for others too, and it is ok, even if others don't feel that. I learned a lot, and happy with it, and being an infp ❤

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Great lessons to learn ^^

@famousutopias 2 месяца назад

Conflict avoidance is strong in me to be sure. But there have been two (very traumatic) occasions where I couldn’t avoid it (“wouldn’t” avoid is more accurate) and I shocked both myself and my “conflictors” with my forceful resolve, firm communication, and air tight control over the situations. These were matters of principle about things and people I cared about. Fortunately each was short term- becoming what appeared to be a ESTJ or ENTJ was terrifying, painful, and exhausting! I’m secretly gratified I successfully went through it 🙃

@Yukon33 3 месяца назад

My mom is INFP (mom at home), I am INTJ. We clashed on basically two things while under the same roof: 1) I found her overly sensitive to "blunt words" (getting hung over the words instead of the intent, or lack thereof, behind the words) 2) Her lower Si-Te for organising things, which I judged as a waste of time and irrelevant to my Te, and she was super annoyed with me I would not follow her "rules" on ordering and cleaning, and when to do it. I also had to learn to discuss with a Ne person who always leaves the main point of the conversation in a very short time, and interrupts the flow to go in a completely unexpected direction without warning lol. I became very good at having "mind post-its" of unfinished conversations I wanted a conclusion on, to be continued at a later time, sometimes weeks later. :)

@truthtransistorradio6716 Месяц назад

As an INFP male, I have noticed that I have had the most relationships with INFJs. Not sure if they have more understanding and connection with us or what.

@pugninja7037 4 месяца назад

They are adorable , my sons a infpand friends and they care, my only thing they can be really emotional. But they are real.. as a entp, they are literally cute people

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Emotional especially in the younger years. I like ENTP and INFP dynamics

@ranikster9955 4 месяца назад

SO true. Often I’m so caught up in my own thoughts 💭 and daydreams, and I’m pretty sure that no one in my family understands me My mother said I would never get a boyfriend if I am this disorganised lol

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

That’s her perception. I’m sure there are plenty of other people that are not her that would be happy to have a free spirited, curious, and authentic person in their life.

@ericaburdette 4 месяца назад

That was such an INFP ending 😆

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

lol

@KevinBerus 4 месяца назад

When people are put on a pedestal they usually end up falling

@nikolqy 4 месяца назад

Falling on their own or falling in the eyes of the admirer?

@KevinBerus 4 месяца назад

@@nikolqy both I suppose

@ashlieperez3755 4 месяца назад

I don’t think people have a hard time connecting with me as much as I have a hard time connecting with people, because it takes SO MUCH for me to feel connected to others. I remember in college I unintentionally offended someone because he said we were friends but I just casually said that we weren’t, even though we interacted a lot because we had several classes together. In my head we weren’t friends because I do have high standards of what determines friendship.

@aurograce2983 4 месяца назад

For me I have acquaintances, sorta friends (like friends that only talk to you at class or at work), friends (talk to you at or outside of work, you have their personal number and have shared intrest and have shared your personal lives with eachother) and good friend (someone who is alwaus there for you and you are friends at all times, can hang out together and pick up where you left off, can talk about most anything).

@Pizzatime42008 4 месяца назад

“Seal the wall so that the zombies don’t get in” Matt Sherman, 2024

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

lol. Gotta watch out for the zombies.

@andrewfields4516 4 месяца назад

intro music reminds me of maple story kerning square music

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

^^ I sent the guy a bunch of songs that I liked and he made what he thought was fitting of the vibe.

@sabrinaszabo9355 4 месяца назад

I think conflict resolution and compromise are healthy but I’d rather not just issues come up

@user-wx3wz9tu8q Месяц назад

After watching your video.. I have a bit of understanding of my Infp personality.. I'm struggling with negativity.. I feel empty and useless most of the time.. Tbh, I'm thinking, is this life too hard for me or is it just my head that's too crowded with negativity. I'm mostly alone and locked myself in my house .. I never reached out to neighbours or friends. I know they're trying to reach out to help like you said. But I'm so afraid of my own thoughts and locked myself up.. I was thinking about ending my life soon.. I hate this personality.. but this who I am.. How do you guys manage all this time? I really wanna live.. but I don't see the point of living in this world.

@sabrinaszabo9355 4 месяца назад

I want the table organized, I just really struggle to organize it

@peachesandpoets 4 месяца назад

The thing I have a hard time changing is the disappearing. I tell people how I'm feeling, I tell people what I think, I tell people how what they're doing is affecting me. If after I have done that they still try to manipulate me, or gaslight me, or minimize what I'm feeling, I'm not explaining shit. I say okay and they never have access to me again. Like all infps I've met, I can be in a group having a conversation, and someone I've cut off can be in the group and it's fine with me, I just don't address them. I even have a parent that just doesn't exist for me anymore. I don't see a problem with that FOR ME. But I can see why others might want to change that, maybe in a work setting or family.

@TonsOFun8403 4 месяца назад

So many of these hit home, but I always blamed most on my ADHD, I'm surprised to find how many stem simply from being an INFP.. Wondering if you could do a video on the correlation between the two. How many other INFP have also been diagnosed with ADHD? The struggle of this combo is Real!

@coreyroberts47 4 месяца назад

Meeeeeeee

@sabrinaszabo9355 4 месяца назад

I have ADHD to and I suspect some autism and of course high sensitivity. I wonder what astrological signs, I’m a Capricorn cusp

@sabrinaszabo9355 4 месяца назад

It’s not OK to abruptly stop speaking to somebody without an explanation because that is harmful and you have to put yourself in their shoes. I have been at discarded and Extremely hard time believing one of us would do that to a romantic partner. Unless we are very much does stressed or depressed or really mentally unable, but I hope there’s accountability

@alexwelts2553 4 месяца назад

Ugh, 3/4 of tasks. Everything. We need a finisher and would be happy to exchange or barter or trade the services of another talent.

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Yes! Willing to trade emotional support for someone to close loops on boring tasks.

@xxsnow_angelxx3953 4 месяца назад

I had to explain to my bf that I'm headcanon, thats just how I understand the world n he said: I'm both confused and understand a little (like it makes sense). It is scary to let them get into our head when we have our own versions and put up walls.

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

No need to be scared. You control your own reality and reactions to it ^^

@melaniesmith2917 3 месяца назад

Aw 39 but still looking 17...❤

@GeekPsychology 3 месяца назад

lol

@zegeist333 4 месяца назад

This feels like a death sentence

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

What do you mean?

@sabrinaszabo9355 4 месяца назад

Maybe a gift you just have to shift your perspective on. After all, there is a cost for everything. The sensitivity is needed

@Nick-Nasty 4 месяца назад

16:53 omg this is so huge for me at the moment...

@cynthiadenny915 4 месяца назад

I. Am. Known. 😳😉😊 (62yo F INFP-T)

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Hello

@sabrinaszabo9355 4 месяца назад

Then would two of us together be in heaven as friends?

@dermotjones8753 2 месяца назад

Avoids conflict but has 3 Katana's on the wall?

@Luciofernandez666 3 месяца назад

You dont tell an infp what to do. Im an absurdist. People sucks

@Snowlily01 4 месяца назад

I think the advice could be a little more “helpful”and not vague like some 1 star marriage counsellor. Could be this or could be that. Yeah I figured that out myself good enough.

@GeekPsychology 4 месяца назад

Good idea. Like what?

@marcusdefgomes 3 месяца назад

You look 21 dude

@ameliadeshane9192 4 месяца назад

And thank you so much with your insight. If your wife needs a fraaan, lmk. I love ENFJ'S. In a non- carpet munching way.

@TheKonnoisseur11 4 месяца назад

So adhd basically 😑

@kataiwannhn 4 месяца назад

In my opinion, the biggest challenge for your personality type is not selfishness, but rather problems in perceiving objective reality. However, it's not quite as bad as the Fe types.

@kataiwannhn 4 месяца назад

@@ShaSha-zq3my For the MBTI feelers, experience has shown that Te is all about planning.😁