10 Things You Need To Let Go Of To Be Happy 

Awesome!! Kudos to you!!! Beautiful story!! God is all about love & timing!! 🥰

That is so beautiful....I🙏 just had to say!! MANY, MANY YEARS OF JOY!!😊💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚💜💚

@@gionagrace6279 Absolutely true. When I became a Christian at 45 years old, I prayed for a Christian spouse. I decided after 10 years, God must have said "No" and I was okay with that. Actually God was saying "Wait"

Ohhh your life Story is sooooo lovely...wishing you many many happy years full of love with your hubby 🙏🙏🙂🥰 P S i have also become a Christian i belive in God and have noticed since than my life is abit Happier and some of my prayers and dreams are answered and fullfilled ...priase to the Almighty God in the mighty name of Jesus Christ bis son and the holy spirit 🙏🙏🙏🙂🙂

AMEN! And you don't necessarily have to proclaim to be a Christian to find a happy life with someone, BUT, FAITH in HIM gives you the upper hand. I'm 52 years old & divorce 12 yrs. I have dated on & off and not been in a serious relationship, and mostly on my own... ALONE BUT NEVER LONELY. Whoever said you can't teach Old Dogs new tricks not correct. Because I continue to learn and grow daily. Most importantly this past year I've reflected more on my faith. To trust and wait on HIM and if it is well for Him to send me a partner He will. m Meanwhile, I need to stay focused on Him to help me fight any addictions, learn to love myself despite my flaws because I was WONDERFULLY made by HIM. Sometimes His will is not easy to accept. And I personally believe you need to look to him to be your spouse, your husband first & in doing so HE will prepare you To meet your Earthly spouse. Then again those that you genuinely care for around you may be your spouse & that's an even greater blessing. Be content in that & you'll reap your reward up there. PRAYERS AND BLESSINGS TO YOU ALL🙏😌

Omar S...great job! Mystic RS MY MYSTICAL CHANNEL

BEAUTIFUL

Absolutely..that's the hardest one of all

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🙏Ok 4,😇

Exactly true 🙏

Yes, amen! 💛🙌🏼

I will

So often I need to hear this! My worst punishment is my mind :)

@@kikiprimavera9203 , So dont let it do that. You are not alone💐

It's a dilemma, you like plenty other people including myself need a job or at least a source of income BUT!!! Would love to lose the jobs we have.

Prepare an exit plan. It might take a while, but at least you have something to look forward to when you're ready to leave. An important part of this is don't tell anyone you're leaving. They will likely make your life more difficult at work if you do.

@@MrTruthseeker1980 don't tell anyone about your any plans

I'm holding on smtg that I'm not crazy about but at the moment there's no escape

No comment , things are fine for now.

Epictetus... ☝️💪💯✔️🙏

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For some it takes some time, making you stronger and smarter for the next round. ❤️

I've realized over the years, stuff doesn't bring a bit of happiness. Having what you need and a couple wants is enough

Timeless Self-Improvement...I agree about the the ideas part as well. Most people may not even realize that ideas that are outdated or that no longer serve us or that aren't fit for our new lifestyle can really bring you down if you keep comparing yourself to them. Having Scorpio in 4 planets makes you really want to hold onto a lot so I definitely know about this! Mystic RS MY MYSTICAL CHANNEL

^_^ Sure doesn't, as I wrote in my book ---> "The Way of the Broken Sword II" "Do you own your stuff, or does your stuff own you"? I live as a minimalist, getting ready to move to the next stage, meaning I want to be able to carry all my stuff, if I can't get into my back pack it's toast!? I use to watch my girl friends have COMPLETE MELTDOWNS and SPIN INTO HYSTERIA when they couldn't find their cell phone. I NEVER wanted to be like that where an object has that much power over me, so I ditched tons of stuff and find I'm happy without it!? Besides when you have stuff of value you always have to be concerned with someone taking it, who needs that head ache?

If we don't aspire, don't have wants, then what is life? Just mere existence, is it not?

@@ramaraksha01 ^_^ Rama, sure all of these things you mention of course we pursue them as they pursue us, YES. YES, that is a Part of Life, as life in essence is NOT "Stuff", those are simply add ons, bonuses, benefits and perks of life but they are NOT and SHOULD NOT be our SOLE PURSUIT!? I think what he's hinting at here is our attachments to things (car, homes, clothes, our watch and cell phone, etc) that objects DO NOT MAKE THE "MAN", are you familiar with this concept? Also there are "HOARDERS' have you looked at that? To "Me" it's about "QUALITY" over "QUANTITY", case in point ---> A group of friends spent the day at the beach, the high point was the sunset (I'm in So Cal so we can catch some fantastic sunsets)! Most of my friends and I are about the "Moment", though one of our friends is a PERFECTIONIST EXTREME he's one of the people who pursues stuff and quantity OVER forget about stuff and pursue quality. So our group is enjoying the shared experience catching pics and shooting video, having fun as we watched the sun go down. Our other friend, well he fussed with his camera, then decided he wanted a wide angle lens and then a different camera and add a tripod and change this and adjust that and what about lighting? He WASTED ALL of this time on stuff and getting this PERFECT shot that he MISSED the entire moment!! We should strive MORE for these moments, because it is the memories that remain forever. Stuff can be lost, broken, stolen, sold, traded, memories and feelings can NEVER be taken away! That is life and what I aspire for, the outer manifestation or reality is a manifestation of what resides inside each of us. telarasky.earth^_^

I'm glad you got fired. Thanks former boss for making him happy.

So you will get in another shitty job. Congratulations. Enjoy. There’s no win in this sick game.

I wanna lose my job, but getting fired. I donno, I need the universe to give me a sign.

I hear you. I worked with horrible people for six years. Every day I asked my husband if I could quit and he would say it wasn’t a good time financially. Then one day, he said I shouldn’t suffer and that life wouldn’t be that hard without my paycheck. I quit that same day and ran out of that place to my car and sang all the way home

@@stephanieklinger6580 😁😇🙏🏽

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Sometimes that’s really difficult to do

Agreed 🙏❤️x

Yep !! Your Awesome Nicole 👍

💘Yes 👍

Yeah absolutely right

Yes, I should've chosen a career in radio or television broadcasting

Follow KEEP SMILING 🌷😁

So true !!!

For sure! Don't have one or like it.

I agree with you a hundred percent. 👏👏👏👍👍👍

Number 3

No mention of Love. Isn't that the most important of All. Maybe I got it wrong? Just sayn.💜🌬

@@cathycharalambous4309 self love

I choose 3 1 2 Respectively 😃

It is very, very hard finding good friends. People, generally speaking, cannot be trusted. I'm much better off being isolated. It saves me great agony.

Same, good luck

You’re strong 💪🏿 Keep pressing on. 😇🙏🏽

"Whoever among you wakes up in the morning secured in his dwelling, healthy in his body, having his food for the day,then it is as if the world has been gathered for him.'" The prophet Mohamed said this 1400 years ago about happiness Wish you all the best 🌷

It’s all about self worth . Love you

@@antoinettegorman8833 exactly! Wish you all the best ❤

Or woman.

teach me more

@@patrickprendergast9589 , the stoic response would be to teach and seek for yourself.

Stoics are cowards.

Stoics are not cowards. Stoics know how to handle what they can control and ignore what they cannot control. Stoics are wise and know the reality of life.

@@georgesontag2192 ,yeah, I said that in my post. You're just restating what I said as a me too.

It's the ego that will take you on a rollercoaster ride. When the ride is over ur mind will feel dizzy and shaken. Pride is one of the negative effect from being driven by the ego. In order to overcome pride , u must put the ego in check and maintain it like a janitor and like a person who evaluates and removes things that doesn't belong thru the process of elimination💯%

Absolutely, yes... 💛

@@learning.growing.1017 Yes! Agree! So very true!

It is all crap. It is all an illusion. We don’t have free choice it was taken from us when we were born. Don’t think that it your failures it was designed like that for someone’s sick entertainment.

I think a lot of us do too much people- pleasing behaviour. And self doubt can be very harmful. I read a quote from the 19th century writer Jane Austen which I think is a good one, " We all have a better guide in ourselves, if we would attend to it, than any other person can be ". I hope you may find it helpful.

@@howardcoles3537 Lovely quote Howard. Thanks for sharing that and also your own opinion. Have a blissful weekend!

@@ElisabeteFortes I'm glad you like the quote Elizabeth. It is one of the best quotes by an author I've ever come across. No wonder Jane Austen is so celebrated as a classic writer ! Thank you for your good wishes and have a wonderful weekend yourself !

sometimes it’s so bad it’s impossible to move on completely

@@-ShootTheGlass- I'm not sure about that! Pray about it and keep on keeping on! If it's really traumatic or heart-breaking, it may take longer; but time is the best healer!

Yes and it's also good karma!

not when they walk on you after.

Be brave & gd luck 💖

^_^ Rehab is good and will be waiting. It's FREE, you can save cash as you recover and when you come out the other side it will be gone, you'll be happy and life will look and feel AMAZING!! TRUST ---> Former alcoholic with 11 years now I have been FREE and I never look back as what I have done (building my life) only gets better!!

You deserve to forgive yourself and are worthy of forgiveness, gentleness with yourself on this path, you are your best friend beautiful being!

@@nyat5413 ^_^Beautiful.

Leaving an abusive sibling was just as bad as a pain filled divorce. 😭😭😭

My mum's 2nd family

Stay strong!

Queen Boudica, you’re so right. Toxic people are often wounded souls with broken ego and full of insecurities looking for some one to step on to feel better about themselves. Running away from them is the best option. Best wishes.

I love your advice

@@tamcat5822 merry Christmas

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Damn how old are you? That’s gonna be hard

As long as you hang on to the past You will have no future. Let go and the beauty happens

No matter how young are old you are love can find your heart . Life is full of options regardless of your age, sex, marital status, sexual orientation, religion, etc.

@@scottclippinger4076 thanks for sharing your beautiful heart through your comment.

I was married to the kids dad He was a Malignant Narcissist. We had a nasty divorce. My 2nd marriage was for money. He was a control freak. After that divorce I decided to raise my son's and never marry. Well when my youngest graduated high school the next month my true love found me. We are married and very happy. I was single for 12 years before my true love found me.

Humour with a U I it.

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So much refers to me r thanks I wish I had a copy to keep it

I have a boyfriend that let pride ruined our relationship. I have told him his pride was much greater than his love for me. I left him a year go.