Our granddaughter struggled in school, not academically, but with aggressive behavior, meltdowns, not following instructions, disrupting. Thank goodness in 3rd grade her mom moved and within a few months the new school asked if they could test her. She was diagnosed with autism and an IEP was implemented. So instead of being punished for her behaviors they work with her and counsel her. Tremendous improvement. We are extremely grateful.
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs His name is Dr Oyalo on channel on RU-vid My son has improved and completely responds to his name with lots of understanding like never before Thank you Dr Oyalo
Great video! Very informational! I'm 14 and I've been diagnosed with Autism since I was 2 and I've had speech and occupational therapies for over 12 years. I have high functioning Autism and I've always had an obsession with cars and I have exhibited tons of hand flapping and rocking back and forth and other stims throughout the years. I still rock back and forth slightly but I don't really hand-flap anymore. One reason why I got diagnosed was because when I was born, I was born 5 weeks early, and I was tiny and really light(for a baby) and I was also in the hospital for two weeks because I didn't eat and they would have to put a feeding tube into my nose and that was miserable. I was seriously underweight for years and I still am to this day even though I finally hit the three digit mark last year with my weight. I also am bone-skinny(literally, if you grab onto my arm you can feel the bone underneath the skin) Also, when I first started talking, I would say the full word but then I would say less and less of it and that was concerning because I could have become non-verbal. Here's an example: I would say yellow, then yelldow, then yell, and it would go down from there. But luckily because of the speech therapies and me getting diagnosed, I'm in a much better spot now than I was back in 2010 when I was diagnosed. Also, mentally I feel like I'm in a better spot too because when I was in 6th grade, I had the grades and I was old enough physically, just mentally, I wasn't really ready and I was really stressed and I had a hard time. But when I virus hit, I know that it was a hard time for a lot of people, but, and I don't really like saying this but that time really did help me out because I didn't have to really interact with anyone and I matured a lot during that time. Now, I have a lot more interests. I am still interested in cars(main stream cars though and the versions that people actually buy, not super fancy versions and I like to help people buy cars), and I also like buses(school buses, motor coaches) roads(like highways, for instance) and I am also into photography and videography as well. I also have been learning more about the LGBTQIA+ community(my sibling is part of that community. They are non-binary and they go by they/them pronouns and I also am an Ally, which means that I support it but I'm not actually a part of the community), fire alarms, elevators, and more! And a few months ago, I graduated from Speech, which is great! I also used to have OT sessions twice a week but now it's only once a week and with a group. I'm so happy I've made all of these improvements and I hope to improve more in the future! 😁
As an Autistic Senior, I can give you a light of hope. As I got older, I learned more on how to adapt, compensate, and accept. I learned some of my Autistic traits are a very valuable asset. (I became a very successful Technical Writer in the Biomedical field.) Too many people feel their ASD Diagnosis will crush their dreams or give them limitations. The more you become self-aware of who you are, what your challenges are, and what your true potentials are, the better your chances of having a happy future. Interestingly, when I was growing up, there was no such thing as "Autism" or "Aspergers". It was all "Mental Retardation." I too was extremely "thin" as a child, my wrists, forearms and biceps were all the same skinny size. I looked like a Q-tip. My Senior year in High School I weighed a HUGE 87 lbs. So there, I can relate. But again, I had to look backwards and revisit my life during my late diagnosis. What I learned is how much (even then) I subconsciously masked, compensated, adjusted, and pushed on. I am very confident, given your self-awareness, if you keep a positive view of yourself, you will have a great future. Just remember; challenges are not walls, they are simply something we our creativity to get past.
Your story is almost the same as my sons and you guys are the same age too! Born early, NICU, speech therapy and also very into cars and google maps. I wish you guys could meet. We agree, the pandemic has been the best for self esteem and happiness. We started homeschooling a that time and haven't looked back.
@@davef2975 I pray for my sons future. We don't have access to ABA therapy, only speech and OT and he has bad behavior issues. But he is really skilled in music. I hope he later learns to be self aware.
I am17 years old and i have high functioning autism from Bangladesh 🇧🇩.I have no treatment and i am very depressed. I am not talk English but I trying my best 😭.
You are a loving, dedicated father, a hero for your 3 sons and for us, you give us your time and informations , thank you very much! God bless you all♡♡♡
Really appreciate your sense of humor. It def makes the channel stand out. It’s also great as a little relief from sometimes that are difficult to talk about.
I wish my mum saw this video when I was young, so she would've seen the signs earlier. She knew a few of the signs common in people with level 3 autism, but that's it. She saw that I was different and people brought up autism, but it took her a while to accept that. The things she noticed but ignored were that I never made eye contact, I never interacted with my peers, I have an unnaturally strong obsession with dinosaurs, I only toe walk, I struggled to learn basic life skills, and there's a few more that i forgot. When she learned the signs of level 1 autism she realized I needed to be tested. I actually have level 2 autism though. I turned 17 two days ago and I still have a lot of the signs I had when I was younger. Now that I'm a teen I mostly struggle with daily tasks and hygiene. One trick I use that helps me is having a daily visual schedule, and it reminds me to do things like take my medicine, put on deodorant, brush my teeth, take a shower, etc. I have a more detailed visual schedule that lists everything I need before I shower, and everything I need to do during showers. If I'm not mistaken, correct me if I'm wrong, but I think Rob made a brief comment about Ian struggling a bit with hygiene, and I wanted to share that tip with you cause it might help Ian.
🌼💕🙏🏻🙏🏿👍🙏🏼🙏🏽💕Just because we have autism doesn't make us worthless,be stronger than your thoughts so your emotions won't consume you Mom,,tears of joy aren't bad tears, agapé 💕🙏🏾🙏🏻🙏🏿🙏🏼🙏🏽💕🌼
Why do you cry? I know he said in the vid that "something is wrong". But from an autistic perspective; it doesnt hurt, we autistic just think and interpretate things a bit different.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
Took me 7 years of fighting to get my son diagnosed. Because he doesn't present "typically", I was told many times because he doesn't have "meltdowns" he can't be autistic. Finally I found a social worker who believed me. She pulled a favour with a colleague and had him assessed that week. He was diagnosed with L2 autism. Frustrating as he could have been in free therapy for years. I think as a parent, you know when something is going on with your child. Don't let professionals gaslight you. Trust your gut!
Thing is, meltdowns aren't even part of the diagnostic criteria (at least under DSM V, maybe they were earlier). That said, depending on exactly what his presentation is, super-early intervention may not really have been necessary. The stuff a childhood diagnosis would have helped me with probably could have been addressed as late as my mid teens.
I'm diagnosed with autism when I was 44 years old. Behore that I had an AQ screening. I have sensory processing disorder, OCD and a lot of another problems. And I have meltdown's, too. I follow your channel for many years. Maybe one of the longest followers? I like you channel and thank you for what do. A big hug from the Netherlands. 🇳🇱😃❤️🇺🇲
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
My wife was diagnosed just a few months ago. It only took us being married for almost 2 years before I finally put everything together and got her the help that she needs. We have a long ways to go still but at least now we have a pathe to start geting help and get her into a beter place.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
I have a grandchild that has what we believe to be autism and I’m finding your videos very helpful. I’ve actually sent them to my son and his wife because my granddaughter lives with them. Thank you very much.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
I found this extremely helpful; thank you. My son is 3 and speech delayed along with limited fine motor skills but has made progress with speech. However, he has very few stimming, repetitive or sensory behaviors so I constantly question whether it’s autism or not (though he was diagnosed, the doctor said to get him all possible options for treatment from insurance). The most frequent is probably that he flaps his arms when excited. Looking at frequency, consistency and the combination with other factors is a great way to start to figure it out. Thank you.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
I enjoyed watching your video my grandson is 4 years old and has been diagnosed with autism trying to learn what I can about autism it's really important to me to learn how my grandson's mind works so I can help him
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
Autism is so complicated, especially when you start to work with health providers. My son was misdiagnosed with ADHD, it took a lot of work from the wife and I to find the right professionals that eventually got him the correct diagnosis. Occupational therapy, speech therapy, and everything that came afterwards has worked and shown improvement. Those of us “parents” with autistic kids learn to spot other kids in social gatherings with autistic traits quicker than most professionals by using the methods you communicated in this video.
The DSM-5 Manual is a "Guide", not a "Rule Book." It is not uncommon for a person that ultimately is diagnosed as Autistic to have been mis-diagnosed several times. Common misdiagnosis; ADHD, Schizophrenia, Bipolar Disorder. It is always wise to get a second if not third opinion. Parents should read the DSM-5 and be prepared to "challenge" the clinician to support (defend) their diagnosis based on what is "Observed", what is "Opinion", and what is "Statistical."
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
Hello autism family I remember the video of Ian's 14th birthday and that was a great video and I know that he shared his birthday gifts with his brothers and that was a very awesome smart thing to do and I am so proud of him for sharing with his brothers
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
I’m a 26 year old young adult who has both Asperger’s and autism and luckily for me I’ve managed to fought off the nonverbal spectrum and be like anyone else does by having a chat
I know I’ve commented on a few of your videos and sadly just found them thank you so much for sharing your experiences. My own son has been diagnosed with adhd and autism it’s sad to say that they adhd is his Achilles heel not the autism he is beautiful and I want to give him the building blocks to not only accept and be proud of himself but to learn how to cope with his challenges first and foremost and it almost makes me cry that you took the time to educate so I can learn better how to help him build those blocks he’s not disabled he’s wired different and trying to see from his eyes and having people willing to share their own experiences is insurmountable to my ability to do that. Thank you again.
i have been diagnosed with autism for three years now and i can and cant relate to many of these things for example no eye contact i can relate to and tippy toes i cant but i am fascinated in your contact and i would love to see more of your uploads!
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
Hey there guys! Loving the information you’re giving for those that are seeking. My oldest is 10 has been diagnosed since he was 2 and my 7 year old daughter was diagnosed and has been put in the DD waiver for our state. My youngest is 6 and have suspicions of stimming. 😅 but we have been following for years and love to see everyone grow.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
Thanks for this channel. I am learning a lot by seeing the variety of behaviors in your wonderful children. I certainly admire your family dynamics, your love and commitment to one another. My ex husband is now 66 years old and was never diagnosed autistic, probably because it was rarely diagnosed back then. His parents took him to specialists, but there was no real public awareness of autism in those days. In fact, when I married David, neither one of us had heard of autism. It was only years after our divorce, when I began to study early childhood education, that I started to realize my husband had autism. Since that time, I have had the opportunity to work with a few children on the spectrum. I only wish I had known something about autism when I was married to David. Maybe I wouldn't have jumped to some very erroneous conclusions.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
I watched your latest video. AWESOME! Clear, interesting, solid information, referencing the options to find help… you ROCK. Great and really engaging. Keep it up! Thank you for these wonderful and educating videos.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
P.S, during my infancy, it’s apparent I regressed within my development, but then I’d also progress then go static and then progress. I also had problems mixing with others and I often isolate though I’ve improved a lot since and apparent I’ve shown traits of being autistic (mild) though to look at me now and to see how independent and capable I am, not many would realise there has been things wrong with me until they get to know me better. When someone gets to know me, it would appear they notice certain traits like how I can repeat myself and I can be slow to understand, and it can take me time to register and taking information, and therefore, things have to be explained to me in far greater detail at a slower pace as to, I can find too much, extremely overwhelming where I become frustrated.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
Hi autism family I have been watching your videos recently and me having a hard time right now with my daughter being several autistic and your tips and trikes have helped me a lot thank you for your advice
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
My son was recently diagnosed ADHD. We’ve been having behavioral problems with him since he was little. He didn’t start talking until he was 2yr 5m old and he didn’t like looking you in the eye. We thought for the longest he had a bit of a hearing problem before we’d call his name and he’d just ignore us. I just brushed it off as him being too focused on what he was doing. He would like to run back and forth in the house and twirl around and around. He’s extremely picky eater and always has been. Now he’s 6 almost 7 and his school has been saying he’s acting different from the other. He currently attends a private school with his 8yr old sister who has ADHD. But even though they both have been diagnosed with the same thing my son acts completely different. I have to pack him the same exact lunch daily and if I change anything he has a meltdown. If I pull him away from what he is doing, which is mostly wanting to play Minecraft, he has a meltdown. He throws himself on the floor and repeatedly moves his foot up and down, and gets on his knees and swings his arms back and forth crying as we try calmly him down. I can tell you 10 things my son eats and that’s it. We have to give him multi vitamins and protein supplements just to make sure he’s getting enough nutrients. When he watches tv(Minecraft) shows, he will stand in front of the tv swinging his arms back and forth and then twirls around spinning. We are getting him reevaluated because we feel like he may have more than just ADHD. his sister which has ADHD is mostly just extremely hyperactive, and acts completely differently. I just feel overwhelmed because I took my son to get checked when he was 4 and the people spent five minutes with my son, and told me that he had no issues. Now I have equipped myself with video footage of my son behaviors so I can show them. My son loves to go up to children and try to make friends, but he always comes out extremely awkward. And if he gets blown off he gets so emotional and throws another meltdown. He now looks at me in the eyes a lot more than when he was a baby. That has gotten better. But the tantrums are hard. His picky eating is hard. When he throws a tantrum because he gets pulled away from what he’s wanting to do or a change in a routine at home or in school, it can be hard. I’m really suspecting he has more than ADHD and may be a little autistic. We go in March for his evaluation. I just want to know how to help my son. My son doesn’t flap his hands though, he swings them back and forth repeatedly. When excited or upset. We just want answers and to be heard. Also he has incredible memory and knows exactly where his favorite toys are. He can name every construction vehicle. Knows about every monster truck and tells you everything about Minecraft. That’s all he talks about.
I HAVE A 26 YEAR OLD THAT COMPLETED SCHOOL WITH AN AA DEGREE FROM A LOCAL COLLEGE , AND A 10 YEAR OLD BOTH BORN 5 TO 6 WEEKS EARLY. THE IEP TEAM AT MY CHILD SCHOOL FOR MY 10 YR OLD IS QUESTIONING 😢 THERE AUTISM. I'M LIKE I LIVE THIS. THERE'S NO CLOCK IN OR OUT FOR THE PARENTS OR CARETAKERS... AT TIMES THESE KIDS ARE UP AND RESTLESS FOR 16 TO 18 HOURS. MY HUSBAND AND I SLEEP IN SHIFTS.😢 I'M IN MARYLAND.... BALTIMORE COUNTY. PARENTS IF YOUR GOING THROUGH THIS GET YOUR CHILD'S PRIMARY CARE DOCTOR TO COMPLETE ALL YOUR ASSESSMENTS OR REFFERALS FOR TESTING. THEY LOOKING FOR A WAY TO SAVE MONEY AT THE RISK OF OUR FUTURE GENERATIONS. WE ARE OUR CHILDREN VOICES ALL DAY AND EVERYWAY...
I'm 60+, so when I got all what I have, there was no name for it. I got chicken-pox with all the trimmings when I was like 8 years old, and after that everything broke out. Bad. Really bad. But it got better as I grew up. I never bothered to get a diagnosis, though, and the MBD or DAMP certainly didn't encourage me. Wouldn't have made any difference anyways for me. I've had a good life. I did really good in my profession (thanks to my Asp, prolly). I guess I have ADD (light), Asperger (light) and TS/OCD (kinda bad) but, again, I've had a good life. Been single all my life and have no kids but I don't miss that. That was partially an active choice of mine. So, cheers to your boys! They're not alone and they're not "odd" although some thinks so. And, most of all, there's nothing wrong with them! Let them develop as they choose!
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
Your videos are soo helpful to me & my family thank you 🕯🙏🏼🌈 your children are a beautiful such a blessing 🕯🙏🏼 I wish you all nothing but the best 🕯🙏🏼🌈
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs His name is Dr Oyalo on channel on RU-vid My son has improved and completely responds to his name with lots of understanding like never before Thank you Dr Oyalo
My grandbaby boy is autistic. He has had all state testing and my grandbaby is 5 yrs old now and he has had therapy in home since 9 months old. I knew something was happening with him and immediately called Early On through Easter Seals in my area. My grandbaby's father refuses to believe he is autistic and the father refuses to help. Examples are, Loud Noises, textured with food or materials, weather, shoes, eating is extremely difficult. Routine has to be spot on, people he meets and does not like right away scares him to death and he hides, rocking so hard and the just back and forth for long period time are some things but not all. The father tries to stop him from all of these things. He took him to Monster Jam and scared my grandbaby out of his mind, monster jam is s loud!! My daughter packs ear muffs for visits for loud restaurants the father takes him to. The father and his older daughter tickle him and clap and yell at my grandbaby on visits...its so sad 😞 My grandbaby is the sweetest little handsome guy. How can a father do this? My daughter struggles to keep my grandbaby with his routine due to the absent father's denial when the father has visits. The judge with parenting time refuses to listen as well. Any suggestions please? Thank you 😇
I was diagnosed with autism when I was 7 and I'm 16 now. Some things I still do is I still walk on my tippy toes. I still do something called spider fingers and I hand flap. I still have a really hard time making friends. I still echo people when I don't know what to say in return.
I am. Bangladeshi🇧🇩.I am not talk English. But I trying to understand you.I am 17 Years old. I am College student and I have autism. High functioning autism is my life helled.I am diagnosed since 3 years. When I am 14 years old.will you help me where i treatment. Which treatment i am recovered😭🤝🇧🇩
I want to share about a herbal recommendations I got about Dr Oyalo on RU-vid and his herbal remedy which work perfectly on my sons improvements and social skill till now.
Hello, I’m 54 and extremely capable of a lot including how independent I am, though I have had to struggle through life very much on my own in relation to my family relationship which is totally separate to the subject. I understand. However, I’ve shown traits of autism/Asperger’s, been a slow learner. The typical signs I have shown in particularly during my infancy, I had a condition if someone said something I’d repeat it several times. I’d often put my hands up to my head and face and go onto a world of my own. If the slightest sound or anything scared me or sudden change overwhelmed me, I’d suddenly go in to a huge meltdown where I’d start screaming, thrashing around, pulling my hair, biting and attacking anything, or anyone in my way and sometimes my meltdowns were not always known the cause off. I’ve gone through life if I’m having difficulty undertaking a task, I become extremely frustrated in a short space of time. As an adult I become extremely frustrated easily, how I still cannot take too much in at a time and become extremely anxious. I’m also known to have difficulty concentrating. Having said that, and on the other hand, I have turned out to be extremely independent including how I’ve been cooking meals since I was 10 years old and younger given the chance. I’m also known for having a very very detailed unique type of memory where I can remember events in great detail et cetera. I’ve also got a profound musical talent and other great interests and I have grown to be a big strapping lad. Doctors were of the opinion I would be helpless by the age of three or four years of age which is complete nonsense as I am the total opposite again, I have shown several signs of autism and or spergers.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
Thanks for explaining in detail. My family still in the denial and keep saying that this kid does that and that kid does that etc. even after diagnosis of my daughter. She is 2 years old. While they think she should be playing at home with us all the time, I am having hard time explaining them why intervention is necessary. Her grandparents even making fun of asking question that are you going to send her to college next year. Could you please share what age Ian, Connor and Allister started speaking and how their speech improved over the years.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
Very informative video! I like your 3 categories to look at with behaviors or traits. One thing I’d add though is that many autistics don’t have these classic traits like flapping and toe walking. Many stim in very subtle ways and just seem hyperactive as they sensory seek or scared/shy/fussy if they avoid.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
I agree that not all autistics exhibit "classic" traits. I am self-diagnosed (seeking a formal diagnosis now), and when I remember myself as a child, I recognize that some of the things I did were stimming behavior. But because I was aware that it wasn't normal, I tried to keep it as secret as I could. But I would get so embarrassed when someone would notice and ask me why I was doing it. I tried so hard to fit in and be "normal", and I still try to day (at age 59). I am so exhausted!
My parents even told me I may be but my parents were not good parents and would genuinely be disrespectful or make fun of my symptoms a lot of the time. They took and got me diagnosed with ADHD and that was all. This was very helpful. I will talk to my doctor ASAP this helped me understand some things a bit more.
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs His name is Dr Oyalo on channel on RU-vid My son has improved and completely responds to his name with lots of understanding like never before Thank you Dr Oyalo
I like the information, but also it’s hard to say that these things are 100% part of autism. There are many autistic people who are high masking and lower support needs that “appear” normal but are struggling internally.
With Our youngest as soon as he went into school we knew something was different it's been a struggle ever since and he didn't get his diagnosis until he was 10 😞 all I can think is we worked super hard on our own to get him to where he is knowing there was need for extra help just didn't have a diagnosis which ment we had to find ways to help him on our own, a lot of trial and error and tons of research, we didn't know that walking on ur tiptoes could be a sign because their father has done it his whole life so we didn't even know to bring it up.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
When I was younger (before I was diagnosed) i would do this thing we autists call trex hands where we just kinda hold our hands up to our torso and let them hang, and I've been doing this ever since i was little. My step mom at the time would tell me to "stop doing that, you're making fun of autistic people". Oh little did she know...I have a lot of other symptoms too (tip toe walking, spider fingers, melt downs, many different types of stims, getting agitated in "danger" environments, becoming unaware of surroundings due to lack of stimulation, hyperfixating and more) but she never really noticed because I was a girl :P I'm an adult now and I've learned to mask, so a lot of people would never even guess Oh and btw i still do trex hands, they can't be stopped. I did manage to repress it for a while to save my image around my step mom but now i do it freely...at home at least
I want to share about a herbal recommendations I got about Dr Oyalo on RU-vid and his herbal remedy which work perfectly on my sons improvements and social skill till now.
I'm 18 I got diagnosed with several autism and several ADHD and several bladder infection and several bowel movement and several Seizures and several learning differences I have to wear diapers for the whole day and I have been wearing diapers my whole life
my son was diagnose with border line autism. he stim when he is excited. he doesn't sit in class and wants to play and run around. i am asked to do shadow parenting in school and i force my son to sit in one place. for good 5-8 minutes he throws temper tantrum by hitting me , scratching me and by head butting me. he settles down once he is given task (writing/coloring). but once done he once again wants to go out and run around. he is struggling making sentences. selective eye contacts. after observing him closely for last 5 years i think that may be he has ADHD or both. i just hope that he learns going to school and sits in one place so that i could focus on work.
I have autism and anxiety but with my autism I do a lot of stimming when I was first diagnosed with it I think I was like 5 but I had some OCD traits with lining up candles in a line and playing with them when I was officially diagnosed and with it when I was at my high school when my special education teacher would talk to me I would not give her eye contact or if I wanted to talk to her about something I could not communicate with her what I needed when she asked me what I was wanting to talk to her about so she would like get mad at me for it and then count down from 5 and if I did not answer her then she would grab me by my arms and remove me from her office and take me back to my actual class the school almost ruined my future with getting a job with vocational rehabilitation they described me as a wild animal at the school and a lot of the behaviors I could not help and I understand that other behaviors I could help but I am glad that I am not dealing with those teachers anymore and I still don’t give eye contact I just look away from who talks to me and the school I went to we had this thing that they did before Christmas break and it was my senior year so last school year it is called battle of classes and they took that from me as a consequence for me not carrying my behavior folder around when they said that I would not have to carry it around after we went back from our thanksgiving break they switched it up and said they said after Christmas break so they just were mean to me at the school except for a few of them but just glad to be away from the teachers who were mean to me every day
Our Son has autism but this past school year has been rough. We are concerned he has OCD too. We took him back to the person that diagnosed with autism to see if he may have OCD and she didn't run test on him like they did with the autism. They pretty much just did a consultation appointment and updated his Psy eval. I know behaviors can come and go but he's seems to be regressing or refusing to doing things for reasons he previously didn't worry about. For example refusing to walk down the hallway, he wants to be carried. Not using his hands wants you to touch things for him.
You have a duty not to give it to his royal demands. Does not want to go down the hallway? Well, you go and eat nice icecream yourself, and let him watch from over there. Or - grab him by hand and drag across and do it three times, not one. Wants you to touch things for him? Are you his servant? Refuse. What kind of parenting do you use.... The child does only what you allowed him. Period.
@@shanelka8304 Wow….very insensitive and uneducated response. Kids with autism do not learn the same as those who aren’t. If it were that simple to correct a behavior, we wouldn’t have any problems. Please educate yourself before making foolish recommendations.
@@Hunee- Well, unedecated response - this is about yours. All mammals operate accoridng to Pavlov's law, and autistic kids are NOT an exception. It is not simple to correct a behaviour when the mother has pathological ideas or Munghausen by proxy syndrome. There is nothing hard of NOT letting your child command. Family hierarchy stands. Look at dog training courses and at owners who truned their puppies into a scared and aggressive warewolves.
@@Hunee- If you or your child is the only mammal in the world immune from Pavlov's law, this is indeed not autsim but a very deep mental ret.rdation below mammalian usual score. I can easily correct yuor child's behavior by very painful spank each time he does something undesirable . Another choice is a bit of wasabi into his mouth each time he does anything undesirable. Simples. The only hard thing is to hold YOU as you intend to prevent the therapy by Pavlov's law from success.
I want to share about a herbal recommendations I got about Dr Oyalo on RU-vid and his herbal remedy which work perfectly on my sons improvements and social skill till now.
My autism was repeating words and sounds over and over and rocking back and forth. I did that every single day as a little kid, but as I got older, I didn’t do it as much.
Truth for truth I use to be scared of watching videos dealing with autism when I thought my son had it. Now I'm no longer scared not because he doesn't have it but because not knowing it more dangerous.
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs His name is Dr Oyalo on channel on RU-vid My son has improved and completely responds to his name with lots of understanding like never before Thank you Dr Oyalo
Thank you! Just discovered your channel, very interesting. Still waiting for my own assessment. Still learning more too. On the “what is autism?” question, and “what causes autism?”, I was digging a bit more. To summarize the hardest evidence that I could find so far (but please always take with lots of grains of salt!): apparently there are a) genetic profiles with a number of gene variants that appear with significantly higher frequencies in autists b) that doesn’t mean that people with a “fitting” profile automatically have autism c) apparently there are a few (or one?) genetic mutations that cause autism with intellectual disability, which only a low percentage of autists have. Also noteworthy is that in men, the way gametes (sperm) multiply over the lifetime of the person, the older the person gets, the more mutations accumulate in the gametes. And age of the father at conception has been identified as a factor. The genetic profiles would help explain why autism is a spectrum. One hypothesis (!) about the “causes” that I find interesting is that children that have a fitting genetic profile may turn (parts of?) their autism profile on through epigenetics while they are in the mother’s womb, depending on external factors, like the stress level of the mother. This would explain a lot, but I believe there is still a lot of work to do to prove any of the hypotheses. Sorry if I am stepping on anyone’s other hypotheses here. I am just excited to share the possible, but of course unproven mental picture that helped me a lot in conceptualizing the autism spectrum. So, if this conceptualization has some truth to it, then it would also help explain what autism could be: a naturally occurring phenomenon, where the person on the spectrum has a certain set of traits that are helpful in some ways but unhelpful or even a barrier in other situations. So, one way to deal with it is to put people on the spectrum in situations where they can use their traits to their advantage, and where they get help when they need to overcome barriers. I have seen autism (and btw, ADHD as well) been described in this way by Psychiatrist Dr. Annie Swanepoel. And, even if we all want more proof, this concept makes a lot of sense to me, and I find it helpful.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
I had family members who would say you can't have autism and this and that until one of my family members found some of my medical records, I had in my paperwork and stole it from me since then they stop saying I am faking it and all that stuff
I am a 61 year old woman I don't have autism however as far as I can go back I'm a rocker! I rock while I am standing in line! Well I'm having my coffee in the morning I rock back and forth I rock all the time! When I was younger I used to rock myself to sleep and bounce my head on the pillow as I got older I would rock my leg! Now once in awhile I will shake my foot before falling asleep! I just love to rock it soothes the Savage Breast in me!
I took my son 3 times to the neurologist and pediatrician and they assure me he’s not autistic but he is hyperactive maybe adhd…. However he is also visually impaired and a lot of autistic behaviors are in visually impairment but that doesn’t mean he is autistic so just make sure there isn’t a visual issue going on with your kid too!
I watched this video again. I first watched it when it came out. I have mentioned on here before that I was diagnosed with autism as a very young boy. I have always hated having people touch or even hug me. Plus certain fabrics make me itchy like crazy. I don't like crowds of people. I prefer to work with dogs than people. But what most people I see is they believe every person on the spectrum does the same thing. I have to tell we all don't do the same thing. We are like everyone else. Our autism effects each of us different. We are not machines. I have referred people to watch your videos when it is to much for me. I have even been told that people on the spectrum have a certain look to them. I laugh inside. I was wondering does certain smells give any of your boys bad headaches. I also have epilepsy. Thank you for your videos.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
Have you ever looked into the alternate treatments for ASD? Things like certain probiotics that help reduce symptoms or the entire realm of biological based therapy known as biofeedback? There is a branch of that called Neurofeedback that has shown a lot of promise for helping children and adults with adhd and autism. You’re doing such a great job with your kids. Stay away from psychotropic medications those things are really unsafe.
I personally feel recommending "Treatments for Autism" in video comments is a dangerous path. There are still people declaring in various Autism sites and channel they have "cured" their child. Some even have videos on Netflix and Amazon. I cite activity in 2019 "Private Facebook Groups urge parents to poison autistic kids with chlorine dioxide to "cure them" [ref. NBC News]. Be it Facebook, Twitter, or comment sections on You Tube, desperate people with an Autistic family member may blindly buy into ANYTHING. I can see alerting people to current studies by legitimate institutions where parents may access factual data. I continually seek out and read current research data. I also travel throughout the internet seeing "what is out there." It is astonishing and shocking the amount of "snake oil" information being pushed and the number of people willing to use their child as a "Lab Rat." We all are looking for things that can better our lives and the lives of our loved ones. Things that can help with certain behaviors and challenges can be a wonderful thing. However, we are all unique. What works on one, may not work or even have negative effects on others. So although I am sure your intentions are good and honorable, I would be cautious with the term "Treatment for Autism", as it can imply "cure". These are strictly my personal feelings and perspectives, based upon what I have witnessed retrieving legitimate research data. For the record, there is interesting, legitimate research being done on influences of the gut microbiome (including fecal transplantation) and the potential relief of some Autistic challenges. A very good source of current research can be found by typing in Medical adding Xpress, and you know the extension. Look for "Autism"
I want to share about a herbal recommendations I got about Dr Oyalo on RU-vid and his herbal remedy which work perfectly on my sons improvements and social skill till now.
I'd define it overall as the brain and nervous system's inability to process and handle information/input and communicate within itself properly - and just uneven brain development patterns
I want to share about a herbal recommendations I got about Dr Oyalo on RU-vid and his herbal remedy which work perfectly on my sons improvements and social skill till now.
I was always behind on what I was doing in school. Stimming is a stress release for me. I also have meltdowns that are intense the people who have seen it know what I mean the ones that haven't usually when I am relaxed or decompressing I am calm won't see it.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
Ik heb Autisme Spectrum op late leeftijd gekregen, ze hadden mij altijd verkeerd beoordeeld 😢 maar Psychiater zegt dat ik nog meer heb😢 ik vind het moeilijk om mezelf te begrijpen!!
I'm 19 and I am getting a autism diagnosis my first appointment said that the doctor thinks I have it but my mom has believed that I don't have it but dad has thought about it
I have autism and medical disorders I also made happy autism awareness and acceptance month videos on my channel as well. good video by the autism family
Hi! My son now is 18 yrs old and he was diagnosed before with Asperger's syndrome in the Philippines and we are Filipino. Mostly he doesn't like the sound of a roosters crow and dogs bark sounds
Absolutely wonderful informative video. We were unsure wether my youngest son has autism too. He spoke a few words and is very sociable. However, the stimming, the hand over ears, language delay, sensory seeker. All of these combinations proves he has autism like my eldest. He stims a lot less (spider fingers) than his older brother but the eldest does not places hands on his ears whereas my younger one always has hands on ears. It's so complex and hard to really understand. But we believe they are both on the spectrum. One question, have you mom and dad ever considered getting checked if your on the spectrum?
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
In my house I usually mask my autism because my parents aren’t that supportive with me having autism and I was wondering if you have any tips because I always have the urge to stim and sometimes get overstimulated but just hide in my room and not tell them and I don’t know what to do. Then at school I stim a ton and have meltdowns because I don’t mask at school since my parents aren’t there to laugh at me or yell at me. Any tips???
Hi sweetheart ! My son will be diagnosed this month. Im sorry your parents arent supportive. Did you get an official diagnosis ? And if yes, maybe they are just in denial...sometimes parents are just really worried for the future of the child and act as if autism isnt there. Wich is harmful obviusly. I saw it on my son since he was little..but for my husband it took time. I hope your parents can learn to help you.
I'm so sorry you don't have the support you need. I understand some religions don't recognize autism as well. Prayers for you and hope you find the help you need ❤️
My wife and I have a huge family that lives in 3rd world countries. I am talking about 15 cousins with 3 to 6 children a piece, receiving 3rd world medical treatment from the second they're born. Not ONE case of autism, NOT ONE.
Our OT and speech therapists told us that they have seen a lot of miss Diagnosed cases. I think mild cases are very hard to diagnose , specially when you have so many aspects going against this diagnose.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
My son is autistic and he went a long way since we suspected autism till now. He is three now. He is only occasionally walking on tiptoes, not more than an average kid of his age. He has all other really telltale signs of autism. As you said, it is just one of the many sensory seeking behaviours.
I got the herbs from Dr Oyalo and use the remedy on my son as he instructed. As I speak my child is speaking well and his social skill has improved. It a good thing to tell this and his herbs is the best for autism kids than any therapy.
Could you please help me I'm a worried mommy..my son has really short tempered he shout and scream on little things .he doesn't eat much he only likes to eat plan pasta.he gets to scared from loud noises.he just hide himself whenever he heard loud noise.he's 5 Can be the sign of autism..
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs His name is Dr Oyalo on channel on RU-vid My son has improved and completely responds to his name with lots of understanding like never before Thank you Dr Oyalo
I am wondering whether those meltdowns are actually psychoses. A recent study hypothesizes the existence of ASD-P i.e. ASD-specific psychoses. There were 112 ASD participants in the study and 28% had ASD-P. The remaining 72% were either free from psychoses or had ordinary (comorbid) psychoses that are associated with mental disorders such as BD, MDD, SZ, SZA etc. If this study is confirmed by other research I am wondering whether continual usage of anti-psychotics is necessary if the type of psychosis is ASD-P. There is also something called rebounding psychoses caused by getting off AP too quickly. Here, experts advise gradual 10% wane-off where the patient should be on a certain dosage X number of months that is equal to the total number of years on AP. Special compounding pharmacies prepare these dosages e.g. 10mg, 9mg, 8.1mg, and so on. Lately, I've heard about pretty safe combination of Buspar 15mg and melatonine 3mg that causes neuro-genesis in the hypocampus similar to major anti-depressants.
This doc helped my son improve and get over autism with his herbs His name is Dr Oyalo on channel on RU-vid My son has improved and completely responds to his name with lots of understanding like never before Thank you Dr Oyalo
No one knew I have autism until I was professionally tested just 2 months ago they thought I didn’t because I already have other special needs that have similar symptoms like visual impairment and seizures
Thank you for this informational video, I have a child with Autism and know 2 people who are in denial with their children who clearly shows the signs, I will share this video with them, hopefully it helps them to no longer deny what's so clear so they can get the help they need 💙🧩💙🧩💙🧩
you know what my dear God he did what he loves so my brother god loves your children and he did what he wants maybe in this world is difficult but in God way is your children is blessed and God knows way he did so much we love you and this beautiful gift of God is great and he gives them like you parents ❤ god bless you brother
Not diagnosed but certainly are picky eaters. I’m not sure it’s severe enough to get a diagnosis and we certainly tried as many foods on them at an early age to get them used to a varied diet 😉
Hello. I am new to this channel. So my son has ADHD, and an intellectual disability, so I don’t know if those are separate, I did try to get him tested for autism, but he shows no sign of autism. We just recently found out a year ago, that he does have ADHD, and a mild or borderline, intellectual disability, however, we found out that my great niece she’s gonna be too, and she’s a real cutie, she is considered high, functional autism, she just found out, well, my niece, my older niece is her mom, so the little baby makes my great niece. And so she’s about to turn two in January, she’s getting speech therapy right now, And I think she’s going to be partnering up, with Westside regional center. Which is actually where my son gets his services out of as well. Westside regional center for his ADHD, and borderline intellectual disability. So I was just curious, what should my niece expect? She is seeing a professional that’s why I said she’s going through speech therapy, but it’s her daughter that has the diagnosis of autism. I noticed that my little niece, the baby is fixated on this TV show she loves to watch Yo Gabba Gabba and I don’t think she really has an interest to watch anything else, I don’t think she likes the texture of oatmeal. I know that we try giving it to her and I don’t think she was too fond of that. She likes eggs. I think she likes potatoes. But I know the oatmeal she didn’t really care for it. I don’t know if she walks on her tippy toes or not, but she just started walking, I want to say in June, late June of this year, or something like that she just started walking, she is I think now I want to say she’s either 20 months or either 19 months because she turns two in January at the end of January 202024,.
I think i might have sensitive hearing just because i tried to turn down my headphones but then muted the video because i turned it down all the way but then i dont want to take them off because i might disturb people
Why would it take so long for my daughter to get diagnosed. Most doctors were looking at the fact she came home from China after being in orphan. She was finally diagnosed at age 10.