One of my strong points for Delena is they were friends first. Their relationship built. They didnt start dating each other after a few days of knowing one another, and didnt decide that loved each other a few more after that. It wasnt instalove. There were ups and downs and a real relationship was built before they even kissed. I love steffan but I didnt love him with elena, it was sweet at times, but I always will think damon was a better match for elena.
Yall are stupid. Damon killed her brother and her friend for not dating her. She breaks up with stephan he throws a chess table. Think about it. She was also cheating for a year behind stephan back fucking bitch
@@ReadmyBioo Cheated? How? Stefan legit almost drove her off the same bridge her parents died, yelled at her repeatedly, let her die, involved himself in her life because he's selfish. Also, he acted like the victim when he legit killed so many people! Not to mention all the lying he did; he didn't care about Elena. Elena gave wayyy more energy into the relationship. She didn't cheat, so don't say that.
@@tvds8350 LMAOO elena did not give as much as stefan. all of your points are incorrect. 1. he used elena as leverage, like damon did several times. he knew klaus would back down. 2. did damon not involve himself in her life? stefan came to MF for a normal life with elena. for a new start. and guess who followed with all the trouble making? damon salvatore! 3. stefan never acted like a victim. he knew he was wrong with his past and even present. DAMON was the one who played victim all the time. 4. he cared about elena very much.. so idk what you’re talking about 5. she did cheat. she kissed him goodbye when he got bit by tyler. doesn’t matter if he was dying or not.
@@courtneyxrae9676 Honestly, first off, he didn't know that, he was gonna hurt her, Elena was so traumatized!! She started to cry, but no Stefan had to do it for fucking revenge. Like bruh. Secondly, he's a vampire he can't have a "normal" life if he's dead. He only even started to stalk Elena just because she looked like Katherine. When Damon saw her, he made her forget because he knew that the vampire world was fucked up. Stefan acted like the victim, he was like oh it's genetic, I am such a nice guy because I kill villages. Damon was always portrayed as the bad guy, but he didn't care because he actually got stuff done. While Stefan was too scared to do anything. How did he care about Elena? He never did anything for her, like Damon was the one ALWAYS saving her, but where was Stefan? Nowhere to be found. Wow, cheating because of a kiss, ig everything is considered cheating now. It does matter that he was dying, it was a fricking goodbye kiss, she cared about him. She wanted him to go out on a good note. Jesus you Stelena fans can't let us enjoy Delena.
you're only saying this coz you've watched every single episode and you just prefer damon 🤣 you weren't thinking this the first time you ever watched season 1 and 2
@Maldini009 How you gonna tell this person what they think and I totally agree with that comment not because of damon but because I love Elena and Damon and their relationship
I was Stelena at the beginning, and this is how I became Delena. It was just like them, I suppose. It was something. A feeling. I ignored, or tried, but I just couldn't run from it. I didn't even needed to accept anything...their bond, their faith in each other, how they built and inspired each other, how they needed and listened to each other, their constant understanding with their growing relationship, their love, a so real and once-in-a-lifetime type of love...when I realized, I was in love with this couple, how they worked together, believed...that was unique. I can tell all these reasons you presented here were what made me love them, but I know that something about them just tells is much more than 101 reasons, but we just can't describe or say. It's something everyone wants to find, but no words seem worth to describe 💖💖 you just know deep down all the time.
I loved what all you said😍. I had this kind of love with another TV couple and you just made me remember them. you might not know them. MaNan from Kaisi yeh yaariaan used to air on MTV india. it was a different kind of show for india and the couple was also different. I remember tried to ignore and deny my feelings for them. but at last accepting that I fell for them hard. and today after 8Years I still love them❤❤. and you delena n manan have one tiny coincidental dialogue☺️ damon to elena: "you Are my life💖" and manik to nandini: "you are my shinning star🌟"
this is probably one of the best videos I have ever seen (and trust me I've seen A LOT). wow, wow, wow. the editing was so gracious and powerful... I am in awe !!!
The thing that Stelena fans/stans dont get is that Stefan was her epic Love but Damon was true love. Yeah he may have been a terrible and selfish guy but she made him change for the good, SHE made him selfless, SHE was the one to change him. Stelena fans keep saying that Damon cares about nothing except Elena, but that’s not true he cared about other people too like Stefan, Bonnie, Caroline, Alaric, Liz and im sure i’ve missed a few, maybe not as much as Elena but that doesn’t mean he didn’t. If Stefan was her “true” love then why did she fall for Damon, if she and him were true love then she wouldn’t have. Like she said she always somehow finds a way back to Damon. As you can tell i’m a Delena fan but that doesn’t mean i hate Stelena it just means i prefere Delena over Stelena.
i dont see how ,epic' isnt bigger than true though, epic includes true to me. stelena fans simply hate the good girl changes bad boy storyline and deem it ,,toxic''. tbh, yes i cringed, shivered and felt so powerless reading your ,,yeah he was bad, but...'' sentence. first of all, there is no but in accountability. i dont want storylines revolving around women being the one/special because they changed HIM, the unchangeable. women aint rehab centers for misbehaved boys. and you dont care about women if you only care about those who youre attracted to. stefan was an overall good person, while damon became better but mostly expanded the radius of people he cared about and granted them his niceness. and i dont see why men doing the bare minimum is sth to be celebrated. i like damon for his growth, i just wished it happened w/o elena. i dont want girls thinking its nice to be the special one who made HIM change and if he doesnt change LITERALLY walk around like caroline pre transition wondering wtf is wrong with her (nothing, caroline was fine pre transition!!). there's more to achieve in life and if it was only delena, it was fine. but as a society we're obsessed with portraying love to young girls like that and irl you'll rather end up like taylor swift (without the money, the emmys etc) rather than delena. welcome to my TEDXTALK
@@MissFreakinLOL Delena is an epic love. first of all I don't know from where this fandom calls stelena and epic love but not delena lmao. on the show is never said that only stefan is her epic love :)) Damon himself called Elena his epic love. and ELENA herself said (and this was the only time she said it) "The TWO!!! epic loves of MY life" TWO 2 two, the two of them. 2. and besides that, Damon is the only person Elena called her SOULMATE and the Love of her life. besides I don't understand how is it remotely possible that a couple that dated not even a year and then the girl fell for another while being with him is more epic than the couple that had to fought the damn universe to be together, memories lost, they literally forgot they existed and fell again, Damon fought for her without humanity and memories. we have this epic thing of Elena not knowing that the one she met first was Damon amd in that moment he told her he wanted her to get everything she ever wanted and so then Elena when he died thanked him for giving everything she wanted. SHE LITERALLY couldn't live without him. and she chose him with memories, no memories, vampire and human. their story is WAY more epic wtf.
think at first Elena thought that Damon was bad cuz she was always hearing from other (mostly Stefan) that Damon was bad and a murder and god knows what
I started out with shipping stelena only, but then I saw the love damon looked at her with. It was more than Stefan 's. When he left her with stefan it was slowly killing him more than it did to stefan when situations were reversed. She makes him complete. Damon was actually able to get over his obsessive love for Katherine, for which he would've killed his own brother for but Elena made him forget it. DELENA IS BEAUTIFUL AND IT'S EPIC SUE ME
OBVI Damon is going to look at her more passionately because they were in a real relationship outside of the show. They were actually in love irl so I don't think that's a good point to go off of for why Delena is better. Paul and Nina had no off-screen romantic chemistry so it's not fair to compare.
@@hannamills2453 Actually true, Ian would have shown more emotion towards Nina than Paul. But I just loved how beautiful it was. Kind of played into the delena thing
I agree. In the beginning I didn’t think I was gonna be a big delena shipper. I thought I was gonna ship stelena and stelena only. But then I started to prefer delena more and more and I think they had a better buildup. She made him a better person (at least around her) and made him show his sensitive side but he also changed her too. When they got together she came out of her shell and was happier but I feel like even before they became a couple she opened up more and came out of her shell around him. Stelena was more of love at first sight but delena had the buildup from enemies to friends to lovers to husband and wife.
i will always ship delena i dont care what anyone else says. one of my favourite delena quotes is "I DONT CARE IF SHE'S A VAMPIRE OR HUMAN I WILL LOVE HER EITHER WAY."
Damon, wasn’t always mean to everyone as a human being he was always loving, caring, and compassionate. To me he is still loving, caring, and compassionate even though he is a vampire he just has to learn how to control how he handles his emotions and needs to change his ways. He is a good person just like his brother Stefan but he shows it differently and sometimes we have to accept what is and not try to Change that person and live with that. I love how Elena looked past all the things that Damon has done and learned to love and respect who he is in reality.
Damon and Elena remind me of Chuck and Blair from Gossip Girl. Elena was with Damon's brother at first and Blair was with Chuck's best friend. Both Chuck and Damon were extremely flawed human beings who fell in love with the girl who they thought they could never have. Both pairs also had undeniable chemistry from day one. Both pairs manipulated each other and both pairs were imperfect, but their love grew and their relationship matured. When they finally started dating, both couples were flawed because they did terrible things to each other which eventually drove them apart again. However, Chuck and Damon begin to find who they are without their love one and the characters began to realize that they must become better men, not for the women they love, but for themselves. Elena and Blair also dated other men, but both were never truly happy in their new relationships, even though they may have been less dysfunctional. Yes both relationships were messy, they had lies and break up sex. But, at the end of the day, they were the worst versions of themselves when they didn't have each other. So, both relationships were given a second chance, where they proved how beautiful and amazing they could really be together. Even though both pairs had so many obstacles in their way and the universe always seemed to work against them, but they always found their way back to each other.
except chuck took blair for granted and sold her for a hotel, meanwhile always loved her and was always there for her when it mattered, ready to die for her.
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yes stelena is for people that like fake love. it's the most superficial disney princess stuff of 'love at first sight' (which really means equating liking how someone looks with love, and not loving a person for who they are) and never having disagreements.
People are hating on Stefan because he said “Damon is the better man” like he doesn’t deserve it! ( To me both the Salvatores has good and bad sides and none of them is the best) but anyway! Stefan was speaking to Elena! I mean.. Am I the only one who thinks.. like for a second.. that he may meant *he’s the better men FOR HER?* I think that’s what he meant.
is even more than that "the better man" was always a Elena - Damon thing "be the better man, Damon" it was always about Damon it wasn't to compare the brothers and argue with which one is better.
She fell in love with Stefan but she fell in love with Damon while in the relationship with stefan and what you should always do is go for the second one which is Damon (Btw I love this)
Agreed because if it was truly love that you have with the first you would never have fallen for the second. Stephan was high school love. I've watched VD so many times and not once did Stephan and Elena talk about the future. Damon and Elena talked about where they would be in the future. Damon was her epic love.
Most amazing video I've ever seen made of their relationship! You did amazing ❤❤❤ I never leave comments, but this truly hit my heart, i had to let you know what a great job you did on this! I love Delena and i don't think anyone else had quite captured the essence of their relationship like you just did ❤
Their flashbacks are just as important to the story because they show these characters as they were and as they are. Stefan saw Katherine as a demon just as he saw Elena as a problem to be fixed. That's why Katherine had to compel him and he wanted the cure for Elena. Damon was always driven by love, so it didn't matter. He was fine with both women either way. That's why he didn't see Katherine as a demon or Elena as a problem to be fixed. He saw the woman he fell in love with. That's why he was willing to become a vampire to be with Katherine and take the cure to be with Elena. Stefan's "pure" heart limited him in love. Elena's heart isn't pure like Stefan's. She could love them either way, but in return, only one loved her fully. That's why Damon was willing to turn her, even when she didn't want it. He'd rather she get stuck being a vampire than be dead. Same with Katherine. He'd rather she be stuck in a tomb for 145 years than be dead. The cure arc basically circles around to the tomb arc. It's why Damon's choices played out as they did. Stefan was already a vampire. He then forced Damon to transition. Stefan was already human. He then forced Damon to take the cure. Stefan's selfishness in the past made Damon selfish in current story. That's why they spent the series working on Damon's character, pushing him to sacrifice everything. He had to want to live and die for his brother, not for a woman. "Doesn't it always come down to the love of a woman?" That's why it was "always" Stefan... until it wasn't.
Damon, and Elena always and forever delena. Damon and Elena may have a much more complicated, messy, and frustrating love story, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t love each other they were going through so much in their relationship especially with Kai criticizing Elena for choosing to be with Damon because he thinks that she stopped caring about what’s right or wrong. Kai, should’ve kept his opinion to himself he was being completely condescending.
this is amazing our of al the delena videos I have seen(and I have seen a lot) delena will live forever in our hearts I loved that you showed all of their kisses and moments and the music,editing and video it self was amazing my heart has melted that's how lovely it is
The sad thing is, seeing this video would convince all those Stelena shippers to change their mind, these are perfect reasons to live for Delena, but everybody who's watching this video is already a Delena shipper
I ship both but they are a lot of times where Stefan really annoys me because he doesn’t let Elena make her own decisions. He makes her choose what HE feels is right not what Elena feels his right. Damon let’s Elena make her own decisions because he hates being forced to do things so he gets it. With Stelena that part is toxic. Stefan also brings his story into her life decisions when she barely has a life story because she’s younger than him. Elena needs to make her own mistakes so she can learn and grow from them. Damon let’s her do that. Again he knows what that feels like. Bottom line of that is that Stefan can be quite controlling sometimes which is unhealthy. Damon let’s her feel free and gets her to make her own decisions. I’m only repeating my words because some Stelena fans don’t see that. I am a Stelena fan a huge one but that is a big problem I have with Stefan. I also love Stefan himself too. Hope everyone really studies that side of Stefan because not letting her make her own decisions is wrong. Very wrong
They meant to be together and i want Elena to choose Damon they make each other happy and Damon’s happy endings are for to become heroes and humans to be together and forming them and there is no boundaries and broken away from each other and they will find each other again and to see the best inside of Damon and to see the good within Damon is the one that he choose Elena and they are the match to each other and Elena you found your perfect guy
I think DE was endgame from the very first episode because you don't spend that much time building up a relationship and having them go through do many obstacles and challenges for it not to be. DE met and she didn't like him at first, in 1x02 anyway and then as time went on she saw him in a new light and they bonded and became friends and they had angst and conflicts bit they couldn't cut each other completely out of their life and they developed feelings for each other. she fought those feelings and chose Stefan but she already had fallen for Damon and chose Stefan because she owed it to him after all they time trying to get his humanity back and she was scared bit then she turned and couldn't fight it anymore. her friends don't understand what DE have, they don't see his good at first and they said she changed, well she did it's called growing up! ppl act like her breaking up with Stefan, well actually he broke up with her hut still, made her a bitch, um would you prefer her stay with him if she doesn't love him?! that would be worse. and ppl don't get it, tvd is based on a love triangle which means both ships gotta happen at dome point lol ppl didn't like that she stood up for herself, that she was stronger and no longer a doormat, she bit back and ppl didn't like it lol anyways, I think from the start it was gonna be DE because they had the buildup and the journey, the angst and the conflicts and they actually imagined a future together, Elena saw a future with him while every time Stefan brought it up she didn't wanna talk about it lol DE was meant to be from episode 1. ppl who actually started s8 thinking SE was still gonna get endgame were delusional! and Kevin only said that shit about how if Nina didn't leave they would've been to make SE shippers feel better, they had the perfect opportunity in s6 when Elena lost her memories and only remembered the bad things about Damon but they didn't because SE was over since s3, s4-5 just put the final nail in their coffin.
@@tessamiddlebrooks8216 They spent literally a entire summer happy and now their lives for 60 or 70 years, the only time when they were toxic was IN SEASON 5 like for a month because the supernatural stuff not because of them! (Katherine in Elena's body, the travelers, Quetsiyah, the virus) you DE haters always say "The solve all their problems with sex" and its like what? 5x13 was the only time where they had their ONLY SCENE IN THE ENTIRE SHOW of sex after a fight and it wasn't to fix their problems, the rest of their scenes of love are just because they love each other and was never after a fight or something xD so lol. besides in season 5x21 we had this "My blood can literally destroy him, maybe thats a signal of we are in a toxic relationship"-Elena "Our blood, don't bring all the fault to you, we are vampires, we are a toxic specie, all I know is that you two are miserable without each other, if you wanna be with him, be with him" -Stefan Salvatore 👏
The character of Damon Salvatore nevertheless remains the archetype of toxic masculinity par excellence coupled with a real villain. We must not forget it was to free Catherine to have a woman by her side. He thinks only of his personal pleasure without worrying about the consequences. To put it simply, Damon Salvatore represents everything you should avoid finding in a boy.
Their love is a true true true and epic love, a love that will always be forever, lasting magical and beautiful. Deep deep deep like the ocean love. The greatest thing in TVD amazing and magnificent love that is Delena. 💙💙💙♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😍💜💜💜💜💜
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