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12 Common Guilt-Based Compulsions 

Mark DeJesus
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Toxic guilt will drive us into a compulsive lifestyle. When we act in compulsion, we are doing something to alleviate the feelings of guilt that rise up within us. But as we keep responding to guilt, we actually empower guilt to become a rising voice in our thoughts and emotions. Our decisions and actions can become highly influenced by guilt. Today I want to call out some common compulsions so you can become more aware and gain freedom.
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Комментарии : 67   
@teamTERF
@teamTERF Год назад
Mark is out here doing the work of God. Thank God for this channel !
@sydneylol9
@sydneylol9 Год назад
Amen! I thank God for him so much. Him and his wife have a great reward in heaven for sure
@alexandriarcollins
@alexandriarcollins 11 месяцев назад
Amen🙏🏼🤍
@Wawa-kn8sd
@Wawa-kn8sd 2 месяца назад
I also ended my life because i was si exhausted fighting the voices in my mind telling me i was worthless, that God didnt want me... that i was way too messed up for God to fix me
@rckc.1719
@rckc.1719 10 дней назад
yes 1000%😇😇😇😇
@alextint5987
@alextint5987 Год назад
Hello brothers in Christ, I seek you to pray for me. I'm 22 years old. I am facing battles in my mind like religious OCD, I feel condemned If I rest from activities, If I enjoy secular content and receive attacks from the enemy. Since two years ago I receive intrusive thoughts like don't take the pencil, today you can't drink coffee, today don't visit your grandparents, these are examples. Sometimes I feel I can't hear God's voice, like God's will for my life is hidden. If feel condemned even by talking to people, seeking help from other christians and my community. I also battle with phone and social media adicction scrolling and scrolling instead of reading God's word because I don't understand, looking for the perfect studying plan. 🙏🎶🌟
@jesusis-coming-soon2328
@jesusis-coming-soon2328 11 месяцев назад
I've experienced a lot of this. I'm sorry. I know how difficult it is.😊
@tee1763
@tee1763 Год назад
I was literally just talking about this with my therapist today and she said the same things as you do. Your timing is great! 😅 keep it up, Mark, and thanks so much! You're a great aspect to my healing journey ❤️
@Heaveniswaitingforyou
@Heaveniswaitingforyou Год назад
I have been helped so much with all of these videos. God definitely led me to them. I have shared them with people I know. To have biblical direction and insight into how to do relationships and learn better the grace of God has been so freeing! I was born and raised in the Two By Two cult. It was really hard coming out of it when I was so conditioned and very full of anxiety and ocd. God bless this channel 🙏💕❤️✝️
@gloriasart1239
@gloriasart1239 Год назад
Hiiii please pray for me I don't know what's happening my thoughts are going from one to another please pray I feel releaf but after some time I don't have relief by watching that videos
@Heaveniswaitingforyou
@Heaveniswaitingforyou Год назад
@@gloriasart1239 praying for your deliverance and total peace over your mind, body and soul, renew and refresh Lord Jesus. Create in this person a new clean heart, one of complete surrender to your will and plan for their life, in Jesus Name Amen 🙏❤️❤️❤️
@gloriasart1239
@gloriasart1239 Год назад
@@Heaveniswaitingforyou thanku God bless you
@TheNarrowPath40
@TheNarrowPath40 Год назад
All 12! Trying to heal with therapy. But I’m getting old. And I’m exhausted. Sometimes I just think I will die with all this stuff mark talks about in his videos because I’m exhausted from living. It is such an effort. I can’t grasp God’s gracious eyes. But so badly want to. I just feel so awful all the time.
@jakewinters3941
@jakewinters3941 10 месяцев назад
Jackie, thank you for being so real. You are not the only one. I know that doesn’t “fix” it but that is why we are here. Lol
@elysehenderson3598
@elysehenderson3598 Год назад
You ALWAYS hit the nail of the head. If I hadn’t found your videos I’d still be spinning. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
@katiesanders96
@katiesanders96 Год назад
I love that you tweaked the backdrop so we can see your “oh how He loves us” sign! I was reminded of that sign in your office when experiencing a powerful (and rare) moment of God’s love the other day!
@elizabethwoolington4822
@elizabethwoolington4822 Год назад
This is GOLD, Mark! I never saw #11 before. Thats a huge mental shift - choosing to just say thank you, instead of pushing His gifts of grace away. Thank you, brother!
@laraoneal7284
@laraoneal7284 Год назад
My definition of toxic guilt is guilt we carry from the perpetrator that is not ours to carry. I got rid of that many years ago when I began my recovery process from my childhood trauma. I will say however that I seem to sabotage my growth and it seems like I’m being targeted by a family curse. I seem oppressed. Ty for your continuing work in these areas. I only feel peace when I get into the Word. I try to read my Bible everyday but don’t achieve this everyday like I should.
@Scottfraser250
@Scottfraser250 4 месяца назад
This HAS to be the most underrated channel on youtube. I'm not a Christian but I absolutepy love your content. Especially around guilt. I think guilt and OCD is partly why I have stayed away from christianity and I can say is that if someone presented me the gospel like you did back in the day I would 100% have been a Christian. I feel that in todays it's like your either a hedonist or guilt wridden christian with little in between. The middle ground, as I see it, is all about being 'healthy'. Jesus wants us to be healthy so that we might glorify God and do him justice. Thank you for all of your amazing info and for presenting the gospel in the way that you do!
@norikokomikado
@norikokomikado Месяц назад
I am a Christian and I am so, so grateful for this channel. I have really bad Moral Scrupulosity OCD and I keep thinking I accidentally promised God to stop engaging in (enter: this or that mundane, non-sinful essential activity - from writing/typing to entering the bathroom) because I cannot tell the difference between an intrusive thought, a pseudo-intentional thought, and a real prayer. I briefly lurked around Reddit but all the folks screaming that mental illness is "demonic" scared me off. It's channels like this one that remind me that faith and rationality are NOT exclusive, and Christians are called to "mourn with those who mourn", to quote St. Paul, not scream at each other's throats judging mentally ill people.
@ladyesther
@ladyesther Год назад
Wow, I think all the categories fit me. I'm starting to understand why I have felt so bad for years! It's like a heavy weight pressing me down.
@100videos4you
@100videos4you Год назад
I’m into all this, but what I really want is a nice lady with a good physical condition and nice dedication to be healthy, so I can be inspired to health in my older age.
@user-yi4lf1ev4j
@user-yi4lf1ev4j Год назад
Mark hit all my issues in one video.
@j.aravena2158
@j.aravena2158 Год назад
4 and 12 went hard on me... Im always in the need to reveal my deep private life and what I'm going through. Now Im with the obsession of revealing my porn adiction (and dark details) to my parents even though Im 23 years old, I seem like I can't solve things myself and when I did the same in an ex-relationship or mine confessing fixed a little but it keep me in eternal condemnation and a cycle of confessing. I wasn't like this when I didn't have OCD so Im looking to starve the compulsions
@bradenhanchey3176
@bradenhanchey3176 Год назад
Thank you for what you're doing in these videos. I met God about 22 years ago, and have felt alone because I thought no one understood, and to find someone who gets it...I feel like I can win the fight.
@laraoneal7284
@laraoneal7284 Год назад
What small lamps do u have in ur background. I love them. Very nice ambiance. Ty so much.
@tastehisgoodness
@tastehisgoodness Год назад
Wow I recognize myself in #11 ! ♥️ I just found your channel and I'm already so blessed by it! Thank Jesus and thank you!! 🙏😍
@NikoFinn
@NikoFinn Год назад
Regarding this topic could you pray for me? I have just been cussing like a pirate so many days in a row because my childhood relationship with my dad and my dad's lies about God the Father has RUINED my relationship with God. Just so mad, angry, upset and almost killed myself. Life is just a freaking mess
@sunnieslender6891
@sunnieslender6891 10 месяцев назад
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@seeseewashere
@seeseewashere 2 месяца назад
I will pray for you! Are you ok?
@Star-dj1kw
@Star-dj1kw Год назад
❤ excellent! These 20 minute videos are perfect 👍🏼 My brain 🧠 gets overwhelmed with more information.
@beoansaol
@beoansaol 9 месяцев назад
I'm so thankful I've come across your teaching. #7 nailed me. I have a spouse that never says she's done anything wrong and I have a compulsion to analyze and confess.
@gottmituns8321
@gottmituns8321 11 месяцев назад
This couldn’t be more accurate to how I’ve been living, God bless you
@ljupconewman9357
@ljupconewman9357 Год назад
Hi Mark, greetings from Macedonia 🇲🇰 I appreciate your content very much. Do you plan on talking about dealing with fear of dying to oneself?
@rachaelbeaulieu2121
@rachaelbeaulieu2121 Год назад
Thank you, Mark, for this encouragement 🙏
@danielacuencar8506
@danielacuencar8506 11 месяцев назад
God bless you Mark! And everyone who goes through battle of the minds.
@usernameanonymous158
@usernameanonymous158 6 месяцев назад
Thank you so much..🙏🏻🙏🏻
@jessicascott8780
@jessicascott8780 Год назад
Love the "Oh how He loves us" above your painting 😁
@Star-dj1kw
@Star-dj1kw 10 месяцев назад
9:53 phooey!! Mark, up til now you’ve been talking about my spouse, my teenagers, and sisters. But NOW, you got my number 😂😂
@Becausetheinternet2
@Becausetheinternet2 Год назад
Great content!
@rockerune
@rockerune Год назад
This was a real eyeopener for meg. Great timing
@aaronwhite9794
@aaronwhite9794 8 месяцев назад
This is life changing. Thank you
@LexHeroux
@LexHeroux Год назад
all 3 at the end 😂 LAAAWD
@nicoleheroux5749
@nicoleheroux5749 Год назад
Watching darling daughter ❤
@nicoleheroux5749
@nicoleheroux5749 Год назад
Kk, #1 check📌always must do more. Crumbs > trying to fix anything that makes me feel norm whatevs that means.. uhhum🔎✅
@nicoleheroux5749
@nicoleheroux5749 Год назад
Oh laaawdy sorry for being sorry, but sorry
@nicoleheroux5749
@nicoleheroux5749 Год назад
Yup share to the world listening. Whomever iS listening Geeez!!!!
@nicoleheroux5749
@nicoleheroux5749 Год назад
Lololo research my problematic behavior. ✅✅
@lilykanyana986
@lilykanyana986 Месяц назад
I’m literally here because of #6
@Concretegod18
@Concretegod18 Год назад
Hi mark, would I love to here your tips on existential crises. Been dealing with shadow work for some time and this crisis has put me in in phobias which has put my life on halt.
@Rosierose902
@Rosierose902 Год назад
The way I highly identify with everything 😭any videos on how i can resolve this?
@prairiegirl9188
@prairiegirl9188 Год назад
I’m asking this question here because it’s the most recent video, I’m still working through the old ones. My daughter is 20 (so grateful that she found these videos and presented them to me) -she is getting counseling for the guilt and OCD related kind of the scrupulosity. The therapist seems good but she did recommend medication or CBD oil. So I did some research and got my daughter some very good supplements that are natural from the health food store. Mark, have you done a video about medication, or just someone else know of a video he has done and can point me to that?
@marktdejesus
@marktdejesus Год назад
I talk about it a number of times. I believe I mentioned medication in the last Sunday Night live.
@mollyh8410
@mollyh8410 Год назад
Isn't it more of shame bondage. ... Guilt means you did something wrong ... Shame is more you feel bad about things.
@victoriamulengula212
@victoriamulengula212 11 месяцев назад
Me right now 😢.
@jesusis-coming-soon2328
@jesusis-coming-soon2328 11 месяцев назад
Mark - are you ok? Haven't seen a video in about a month
@donidan4894
@donidan4894 Месяц назад
Over repentor here.
@Gloroxsocks
@Gloroxsocks 11 месяцев назад
Bruh I wish this showed up on my feed a month ago 😭
@andrewcerrone4096
@andrewcerrone4096 Год назад
🙏🎉
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