I love how honest my filipina is. I was well aware she had a kid already. Not a deal breaker for me really. You'll be hard pressed find a woman over 20 without a kid these days
The only "love" women experience is for their children. If you're a man, you're not getting love --you're getting reciprocity. Money or no doesn't matter. When a woman says she "loves you" what that means in Womanese is that she's "happy with you at the moment."
If she tells me it's okay, then I'm going to assume it's OK.I'm not gonna play games and try to figure out what's wrong. I'm married to a Filipina and I told her up front.If something's bothering you than talk to me about. If I'm not important enough to be honest too.Then your problems aren't important enough for me to care about. I also told her that silent treatment crap to get rid of it to be an adult and talk. I know this sounds harsh, but I'm also very open.When she does sit me down and tells me what's bothering her and what's upset in her.I make it a point not to do it again.
Thank you Reine for your thoughts. I personally appreciate these warnings as they apply to people in general. We have all learned these the hard way. Listen to their "words" but notice their "actions." Truth usually rises to the top. A tip for you to consider Reine. It's # 13 on my whiteboard😂..." There are lots of critics in life, no matter what we do. I always listen and learn and am kind. Many thoughts are helpful but some I just put in the trash. I've learned to have a tender heart but be tough. In America we call that "leadership!" Keep doing what you're doing. You have many fans and are respected and appreciated!!
I have a childhood friend who has lived in Davao City with his Filipina wife and kids for the past 15 years. He's back in the states for medical treatment so I had a chance to talk to him. One of the many things he said about the culture is Filipina do not have a guilt trip about telling a lie like we do in the west. It's part of the culture and baked into the cake. So if I end up moving to the Phil's myself I will keep that in mind along with all the other things he told me.
@@Shadowmanchronicles There will always be an exception to the rule. The most important thing to remember is the exception is a very small percentage of women. Maybe she just felt guilty she got caught in a lie.
To be honest with you I subscribe and always click like even I don't agree with the material you presented But I like your enthusiastic keep it up You're good
1. Does she show you off to momma and papa? 2. Does she want you to participate in family gatherings over social media? 2.5 Does she had you off to family so you can get to know each other? 3. Did she ask for money in first three months? 4. Did you offer money and she took it in the first 6 months. 5. Did you ask her to be just yours and request commitment before God? A lot of foreigners don't know they need to ask and make it clear so we know what kind of relationship we are in. At some point you realize money dropping her 60 bucks a month is needed once you're committed so she can eat...if you're deep into the provinces, but the good ones don't ask or go for it right away. Sis up there is young. She's going over what we do with local boys in high school/college.. We grow out of that childishness quickly when faced with the real world.
To you " Smart Girl Phili" ... Are married?single? how the hell you know so much? about relationships? I'm one of your subscribers and liking you because of your knowledge of boys and girls and all the gimmicks ...... now, I want a long standing relationship with you. I live in the US.
Accurate! I bought things on Lazada or shoppee. The delivery company/person sometimes say on the way. In USA on the way is on the way lol. Not tomorrow or in a few days lol
You should have named this the 12 traits in a woman to avoid. And yes, love is very expensive however it’s cheap if you are spending the money on yourself which is also someone you love and care for when the two become one.
Hey good presentation. Those who lie are not happy people. Imagine what is always on the liars mind. They are in a different world and it ain't heaven.
thanks for whiteboard.... When she txts....I can't see you bcuz I'm washing clothes. OR....When I ask "Who is the Pinoy guy?.....OH....He is my brother. My best proposition is " I'm going to AIRPORT in 90 mins, deal or no deal". NEVER chase a professional.
Let me get this straight. If I ask "Do you have a boyfriend?" and she says yes, it's a lie. But if she says no it's also a lie? I thought there are only 2 options, either she has a boyfriend or she doesn't 🤔
With all due respect, is there any more variety on this channel? It's all about things with Filipinas we already know? Ps... PLEASE don't tell me to find another channel, I'm a grown man, and I know what I can do. Don't be that guy.....
We've got 60 second Tagalog lessons, Filipina PsycHacks, Travel Tips, Relationship Advice, Mukbangs, and we're working on some cooking videos this week. What else can we make for you?
Hmmm...simps might be the better choice of terms? Hey suckers hear ye hear ye lineup as you are about to be played like you've never been played before...and yes, I know of what I speak.
Another lie is when they say they have no bf but they do,they have multiple guys from the US,australia,germany etc all sending her peso,she has multiple phones,many facebook accounts one may even be with her name spelt backwards! Yes many fillos do that trick.
All women who travel (or their partner does) do that. The ones who are poor and have to support their family do it even more. NO different from a single mom in the hood playing men out.
Don't give up bro, there are some really wonderful Filipina gals. You just have to do your DD. Find a free Filipina pen pal site and take your time. You correspond with one for 6 months or more, and you get a very good picture of whether she is the real deal or not. I went through 4-5 before finding one that checked all the boxes. I did not do it intentionally, but in hindsight, I was looking for absolute consistency over those months. Ones that failed that, I cut them loose. What was funny though, was that I thought my to be wife had failed when she said that her mother had to be admitted to the hospital. I was darn, I really liked that gal and now she comes out with some story about her mother being on deaths door. I was very wrong about that, he mother had become very ill and suffered kidney failure. That was the only time I questioned anything she said because she always had been totally consistent in her statements. I never caught her misleading me in any way. Wonderful gal. Married her, helped her through nursing school here and we have two beautiful daughters. Best decision of my life. I was too old to start a family here, but with a Filipina wife half my age, no problem.
This makes me rethink about going to the Philippines. I don't need to go there to have women playing games, I get enough of that from the woman in the US
I have a childhood friend who has lived in Davao City with his Filipina wife and kids for the past 15 years. He's back in the states for medical treatment so I had a chance to talk to him. One of the many things he said about the culture is Filipina do not have a guilt trip about telling a lie like we do in the west. It's part of the culture and baked into the cake. So if I end up moving to the Phil's myself I will keep that in mind along with all the other things he told me.
It’s best to look for a wife in the Philippines in the provinces or country side.And if you are really looking for a Filipina to stick with you long term without investing so much of your own money into her look into southern region of the Philippines 🇵🇭.Mindanao and far south than that avoid the metro areas and areas that have fast rapid development and you will be fine.
It's not that all women are like that, if you're not ready to take a step, you will find yourself in the same place 10 years later. I go there in october to visit my date.What happens there, i will have to find out.
@@jozef8054 A generalization is speaking about a majority of women not 100%. There will always be a small percentage that don't follow the norm of a generalization. Only problem is100% of expats think he's the one who's getting the women that's the exception to the norm. Bottomline, 90% of them are wrong and will find out sooner or later.
@@danielhackney7806so you don’t lie or deny truths Daniel? Tell me, is a transwoman a male? How many genders are there? What is a woman? Can’t wait to hear your 100% factual, non lie, reply. Genuinely can’t wait 😂🏳️🌈❤️😉
Yeah these are all games that wise men don't get fooled by them. Plus there is no patience for games in my book. Either they play by my rules or they can kick rocks.
True, but the men know that because they are wise and ask questions and look in the mirror at their age, height and SMV. For some reason, we evolved to be delusional and believe that somewhere else, in the sky, under the sea, or on top of the mountain is a magical place of paradise. Seems passport is one such delusion. I tried it, 100% fake love in PH. The ones who say they succeeded are just beta-bux$ on steroids without wanting to realize it.
So ive been bing watching your channel along with another channel called regular guy dont really like his channel but he does travel around on trike motorbike or bus so you see alot of different places so what i have learned basically is that if a foreigner comes there to find a wife and stay permanently then smart to find a matchmaker or someone who can help you find someone who is genuine😊😊👍👍
Mrs. Rick told me she was a St. Louis Cardinals fan because I am from St. Louis. Turns out she really liked the Chicago Cubs all this time. Heartbreaking. May never get over it.
She is giving good advice here. She is right, observing is key because the body language will tell or reveal certain things. My girlfriend and I are together for about 3 years now and she is very much like this girl, my girlfriend told me almost all these points like this girl so spot on. Genuine love is the best when it develops naturally and you don't have to figure out things and enigmas.
*......#13, I don't want you to support my parents. #14, My mother, father, brother, sister or buffalo is sick and needs (expensive) medical treatment. #15, I don't have a child back in the Province. #16, It's not about the money. #17......*
I meet a guy in Cebu and his one-word description of girls there as "flaky". I've lived there for a few years over the last 15 years and I recon 9 out of 10 girls only want your money, and that's being generous.
wear a microphone. put some sound absorbent things in the room. Turn down the AGC on the mic. Braces are not a fashion accessory . Use your speaking voice.
I met a filipina long time ago on cupid and it was the first and only time anyone ever said this to me. She was coming on way too strong too soon and was asking for money after about 3-4 days. I refused and she said "You not pay me you no REAL man!" I thought it was quite funny and it always stayed with me as a reminder that women can be very charming when they want to be but the one's who aren't genuine eventually reveal themselves to you. Much sooner when they realize you're not going to give them money in exchange for an "online fantasy, girlfriend experience". And that's exactly what a lot of foreign men are doing right now and telling people they have a girlfriend. I don't feel sorry for those men though, somewhere buried deeply into their sub-conscious I think they know. But they'd still rather have the fantasy and pay for it then to be completely alone without it. At the end of the day both parties are getting something out of it. He gets to "feel" like he has a girlfriend and she caters to his ego and gets paid for it. I am not saying it's okay but I understand why there's a market for it and you just have to know what you're signing up for or lean into the fantasy and be prepared to get hurt.
I met a woman on the dating site there to find Christian partners who told me that cash and gifts were how a real man shows his love. And she was raised in a small village in the Leyte province.
Yep. Passport is cope for trad-cels. A few surgically placed question will have them scattering like roaches. The only ones that seem to be in relationships with expats have families that are financially subsidized (like a sugar baby) or kids from an F-boy that left them barefoot and pregnant.
Men need to be aware of the Black Widow spider. The name “black widow” comes from the female's habit of eating the male after mating. There are woman like the Black Widow spider. It's part of nature. The trouble is most brainwashed men, hypnotised and lured by the the most irresistible young beautiful woan in the world have no clue they are caught in the trap. She will leave you for dead and have no remorse.
The female Homo Sapien is driven to finding a mate (or mates) that can provide healthy offspring and resources to protect and provide for it. Her role in the coupling is to gather whatever resources she can from others and her environment to insure it's survival and developmental success.
I had dreams before about finding a Filipina to marry and have a family with. Then I tried moving there in late 2022. Between the women lying about everything and getting hit by a condo rental scam, I lasted about 6 weeks before I came back to the states. Now I’m getting a brand new condo in Cebu, and I’ll just go live the Charlie Harper lifestyle.
