15 Signs of a High Value Woman 

Hello Aluxers! This is the most controversial series we've done so far. Get ready for the people with the pitch forks. If you haven't watched our LOW VALUE WOMAN video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-JTDismMBKdQ.html

Just found out my mother has all these qualities.... she'as been with my dad since last 23 years, and they're in a happy marriage....she keeps the whole family intact, she's inspiring, caring and oh God the list is endless..... She's definitely a high value woman!!

While i agree these are all high value traits, it is very difficult to go 15/15. A high value woman, is the best version of herself that works to better herself and her loved ones.

#16 Bonus: Who’s valuing you? I remembered the example with the violinist at the metro station who wasn’t given any attention by the passers by. In the evening he played for million dollars audience. It’s also about where you are positioned. When you’re down everyone thinks you’re worth less then them … 😉

1. You are an asset to your partner and to those in your circle 2. Natural beauty and fitness 3. Ability to raise strong children and flourishing family 4. Comforting character and guiding light 5. Youth 6. She is desired by many high value men for marriage 7. Irreproachable reputation 8. Visibility and fame 9. Exuberant and inspiring 10. Self aware, discerning and she knows she is enough 11. Surrounded by high value women 12. She comes from an elite family or has achieved elite status in her career 13. Can both lead and support 14. In control of her mind and emotions 15. Loyal and focused on the long term goals

One of the saddest things I see all the time is the rejected “first wife” who no longer fits her husband’s vision of his lifestyle now working at a menial job. They find themselves selling cosmetics, hostessing, or working in reception. Jobs that normally are entry level for someone half their age. They all have the same haunted look like they just don’t understand why they can’t have the life they planned anymore. My dad saw many of these in the workforce. He made us promise that we would have our own career and ability to make money. Not because we need the money but because we need to know we can do it ourselves.

A girl may be perceived to have many men wanting her, but most won't commit to her (or marry her) or see her past the bedroom. this is what most women misunderstood and over-evaluate themselves.

Low value woman, alone and my time has passed. I've never been loved or cherished by anyone. At least I love and cherish myself. Wish there had been content like this when I was young. Unresolved trauma but at least I can work on that. That will be my focus going forward and a gift to myself with the years I have left. This has been an eye opener.

Well, I flunked this high-value woman list. No elite family, social skills are okay, and no longer youthful. Yet I know I have the grace and maturity to understand problems; I listened with intent to others' issues, and know when to cut it short. I speak well, no slang. I am not wealthy, but I know my financial parameters. Where do I fit?

I was a 36 year old single mom of 1 and couldn’t figure out what I was doing wrong and where all the men were.. i came across videos like this and apparently I was the problem.. now I have worked on myself and still working on myself battling this ‘independent woman don’t need no man’ mentality… it will take time but so far I met my husband this year and got married.. it is possible don’t give up❤️🙏 My advice , watch videos and get more in touch with your femininity and it will let go of that masculine energy, also drop the F boys and stop entertaining them, tell men what you REALLY want and stick with it, don’t change your mind if something doesn’t work, that’s how I met my husband I was straight up told him I wanted marriage and he did too and we were friends for a year first then dated and married this year, it is possible! ❤️🙏

8:30 "She was never accused or convicted for a crime. She's not a serial cheater." Nice!

Know your faults inside and out so you can work on them or keep them under control. Know your strengths inside and out so you can keep them strong and know when and where to use them.

I met a girl I used to know long ago, she didn't look as pretty as she used to be but when she mentioned she goes to a prison to read to the illiterate... Made me think she's really something.

The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extent) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

A high value woman is a woman who understands herself and who does not feel as though she is more worthy than others. It's a woman who shares her light and who is purely aware of her purpose. She is a woman who understands the essence of a woman, which is being a nurturer but also who comprehends that there are times of vulnerability and with being vulnerable it doesn't reveal a lack of strength. She is a woman who enjoys life and understands that there will be some bad days in between and that is perfectly okay.

Kevin Samuels has been saying this for years, now all of a sudden it's popular. Even TDJakes is riding the bandwagon.

This looks like a list written by a 20 years old guy in Malesia looking for a wife material to be birthing his kids... Don't forget that there are a lot of women in high society (Europe, USA) who are successful, gorgeous, live lives on their own terms, and choose not to be reduced to birthing and milking themselves but nurture their dreams and their potential. Also, most of them don't have these attributes but do have many other ones that are more valued in that class/group.

A high-value woman maintains her standards, doesn't settle for less, has MASSIVE self-respect and self-dignity, AND does not allow random people, especially males, to walk all over her.

I already have a high value woman. She supports me every day. We laugh together, we sweat together, we plan and work together. She is an incredible force multiplier. 11 years going strong.

So you basically took every major talking point from Kevin Samuels and The Crimson Cure, as well as many others in the manosphere, and particularly the black manosphere, and compiled it into a single video. Congrats.

1) you are an asset to your partner and society . 2) Natural beauty and fitness. 3)The ability to raise strong childern. 4)comforting character and guiding light. 5)youth. 6)She is desired by many high value men for marriage. 7)Reputation matters to her. 8) Visibility and fame 9) Exuberant and inspiring 10)Self aware deserevant she knows she is enough. 11)Surrounded by high quality woman. 12)She comes from an elite family or has attained an elite status 13)Can both lead and support. But not at same time . 14)In control of her mind and emotions. 15)loyal and focused on long term goals. *(The ability to hold high value over time)*

More signs: 1. Got her shit together. 2. Independent and can always walk away. She doesn't need that job to pay het bills. She doesn't need a man to buy her dinner. She chooses what do do with her life and who to let in. She could always walk away, has more options, and never plays games.

Watched the low value video to keep myself in check, this is to keep myself on track & what I should continue to strive for ❤️❤️ May all the ladies watching take this and use it!!!

age 20 and still working on myself to be the best version of myself oneday I will find a high value woman to live life with 💫 thanks for the video

I so love this. Thank you. It totally validates all my views and ambitions. One of the pitfalls of being a HVW is when you’re around people who do not understand your standards or rules for yourself. I’ve been told I can appear bitchy when in a pizza shop at 2am that caters to the after bar crowd…in those moments I’m doing my best to be poised and patient but my patience runs low in a situation like that. I’m always glad to hear the truth in these videos. Last week I was a little nervous about the low value video because I’m an only child from a middle class family who appreciates vision boards. Ha! Thankfully I have no similarities to any of the other 14 on that list. I’m all HVW, thankfully, and where I fall a bit short I’m actively working on it. I’m always looking to improve. This channel is great for that, thank you! ❤️☺️🙏🏻

Men have a biological clock too. Sperm morphology. Two heads, no tails etc. That also starts at 30 for a lot of men. A lot of men Also start to deal with erectile dysfunction around that time as well.

Compare themselves to others. 2. They never put others down. 3. Things for the wrong reasons. 4. Never give up on their dreams. 5. Let others control them. 6. Because they are beautiful and rich. 7. Never stop improving themselves. 8. They never forget their accomplishments. 9. Never forget their values and morals. 10. Never give up on themselves. 11. Never ignore their intuition. 12. They take care of people They love 13. Never lose themselves in relationships. 14. Never let money define them. 15. Are their own best friends.

Fitness falls under good health. I’d rather know someone practices a healthy lifestyle instead of focusing on their looks. Many model-esque women can’t run half a mile. Even more smoke to stay skinny!

I would just add these few soft social skills 1.fear of God/moral compass, 2. has integrity, 3. treats others with respect irregardless to their position in society (golden rule).

"Many of the great leaders in the future for humanity will have to be women. It is their destiny. It is what they must do. If this is denied, then humanity will not progress. It will remain captive to history, to tradition, to conflict and war. Being providers and maintainers, women are more given to establishing peace and cooperation. In a traditional sense, they have to make families work, they have to hold families together, they have to take care of people directly, intimately. Do you see the advantages here?" A quote from _- The Age of Women -_ a teaching received by Marshall Vian Summers.

Be you. Always. The best version of yourself. Do it for you. Not for partner. Parents. Career. Dont be fake.

"Nobody cares about your side hustle" is a violent statement😂😂🙆🏿‍♂️

Beautiful, discerning, socially skillful, self-accepting, quiet. High value women I knew have all these qualities.

HVW and loved by a HVM. I feel very fortunate, sometimes feeling undeserving of my status, but realized it's our values that elevates us to our full potential.

#3. Ability to raise strong children and a flourishing family 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 “My mother TRIED to be the best she could to provide for me and my siblings. It was SO DAMN HARD because my father was out on the road as a OTR Trucker and A LOT was placed on my shoulders to help my moth with my siblings. As things progressed into High School and we all we’re graduating and growing up it was easier yeah to be self-sufficient and we all started having our FIRST jobs and making our own personal money. And learning how to manage money and paying regular bills while still living with our parents. I definitely wasn’t ready to leave the nest of my parents yet because I was in my partying stage of my life. 19- 22 and it didn’t last long till I became a father at 24 and my partying phase was DONE 😣😖 I had to buy diapers and clothes and baby formula instead of things I needed for myself. I’ve had to pawn my personal belongings to pay for more diapers because at times I was UNEMPLOYED and shit was VERY BAD, VERY HARD and it was just TOO MUCH to live with. That was in 2015 .. it’s 2022 and these last few years it’s been REBUILDING and RESTRUCTURING my life by getting HELP and not being afraid to ask for it. My mother and father FAILED ME to be who I should have been destined to become BUT I just started my NEW CHAPTER in 2020 by starting a NEW START company and getting into Government Contracts to become a Professional Government corporation contractor in the small business private business sector. I know where MY LIFE is FINANCIALLY going and my children are growing up FAST now and their seeing it and I can tell that “I’m Their Hero”

I'm low value and that's ok. My inner circle is my husband and my plants. Reputation: Trash, Cuteness: a 5, Body: a 9, I'm mid-level sociable. I like hanging out in my bed 🙂.

HVW. Thank you for the awesome content. Great communication skills, empathy, and knowing your self worth is important. Men let their actions speak louder than words. You will see how love truly endures through tough times. Thank you

Caterina Sforza, Catherine the Great, Simone de Beauvoir, Lissa Fonssagrieve, Gloria Swanson, Katherine Hepburn, Marlene Dietrich, Princess Margaret of England, Katherine Graham, Lady Diana Spencer, Kate Duchess of Cambridge,Tina Brown, Meryl Streep, Anna Wintour and many more- whom i consider to be women of HIGH VALUE, of substance and of grace.

I equate a HVW with someone who can show compassion, love and kindness towards others. I think most people are evolving and must seek validation from self over others. That self validation is the true power to change yourself into a HVW. Good luck to all.

I not only want to be married to a high value woman, but I want my daughter to become one as well.

I am a HVW. It feels really good to know I am not alone and there are women out there who share the same philosophies as described in the video. Would love to connect with atleast a woman who is like me. Loved the video Alux ❤️

What I do not like about many content creators is stealing ideas and talking points from originators and repackaging them off as your own. Makes videos without giving credit to the source or where you got them from.

Absolutely correct Great job hitting the nail on the head multiple times🙌🏾🙌🏾

Thank you for making and sharing this video.

I honestly don't care what society thinks of me. I am who I am. That should be enough.

Kudos to Alux for another great video.

Great video! Thanks Alux somebody had to bring back reality! A breath of fresh air!

These are the characterstics of *perfect* woman and perfect doesn't exist for man and woman either. You don't have to be perfect for someone else, be who you like to be not the one which others want. You'll get the perfect fit for yourself only when you appreciate that you're imperfect in others vision but perfect in your eyes. BE YOURSELF GIRLS AND IGNORE WHAT OTHERS WANT 😉

While the video about low value women was constructive in nature.... This list somehow feels more opinionated than factual. A high value woman is high value based on what she brings to the table. While motherhood and beauty can be of value to one person, ambition, maturity (age wise) can be an attribute for another.

HVW. I enjoyed this video and all that was covered. I continue to work on myself every day, to increase my value to myself and my community. Thank you, Alux! 🙂

This is a wonderful video thank you so much for sharing 🥰🥰🥰🥰

A high value woman for herself or a high value woman for a nuclear family. These two are usually very very far apart 😒 A big apology to Alux. I’ve been watching for many years and this one time I made a comment without ever watching the video. I’m sorry, as your video was very balanced and informative. Again, sorry. 🙇🏾

A high value woman is educated and knows how to express herself…in more than one language❤️

Big W for alux to bring this topic up ..... in these times this topic has circulated a lot ...... showing your pov was kinda a good move n necessary

Great Reminders, raw and honest

Just because someone is above average in height doesn't mean that it is a sign of good genes, it just means that your parents or parent were tall.

Make a video on low value men and high value We should should judge ourselves before judging somebody else 😉

Hilarious! This should be titled "Hunting for unicorns". I discovered at a young age that looking for a "high-value woman" is a pipe dream. I'm not disrespecting women. Our society has set an impossibly high bar for both sexes. Instead of working myself into an early grave trying to get over that hurdle, I chose to interact with many women with a variety of backgrounds, experiences, styles and appearances. Enjoy the best that each has to offer! I realize that pendulum swings both ways, however, and when the woman finally realizes I'm not going to reach the potential she initially (and mistakenly) anticipated, she starts looking for a way to move on. Instead of a bad breakup I bring it up in a private moment and simply ask if she is ready to move on. Sadly, some feel that a bad relationship is better than no relationship and hold on a bit too long but most see the wisdom in the moment and agree that going our separate ways is best. Almost all of my "breakups" ended amicably and I am still on friendly terms with many of my former girlfriends.

This list is from society’s point of view and how she will be adding value to others & I feel it was accurate in that. Although there were few of them, it would have been good to see more points that makes her valuable beyond the conventional roles of motherhood and a partner. But I also believe all of these things are would make any person high value. I would personally add good management skills in all areas of life (time, finance, career & relationships etc), knowing how to take care of herself (emotionally, physically, financially and spiritually) and always evolving herself with time #hvm

Eagerly waiting for the male version of this!

I wouldn’t say, “Nobody’s body is perfect” but I couldn’t agree more with the overall sentiment of the video. Another home run from Alux.

I don't value spending much time with people who don't value depth and wisdom from life experience, but focus on outer beauty or fake personality projection. It's also important to put your best foot forward, but most spiritually perceptive people find it to be a waste of their valuable time to spend time with people whose values are mainly material focussed. It is extremely disturbing to see the world go through this unawareness of the deeper self, but it also makes me realise the reality for the majority in the world is that they cannot see into another's spirit like I am naturally gifted to; and therefore they see only with their eyes. I had to realise that there is a way the majority thinks and values, because of their disconnect from source. So from that point of view I understand the shallow behaviour of people and i have had to learn to have patience with the viewpoint of the majority of beings who do not respect the journey of the soul. I absolutely love being older now and feel so much better about myself and pleased with how i have grown; and treasure all the experiences I have been through, both positive and negative, as it has helped me develop my understanding and compassion. I wouldn't want to be my 25 year old self. Even if it meant that others thought better of me, or I was more attractive and desired. There's a whole other world inside of me that is more valuable to me than ever, and maybe if someone else with similar values could see it, there would be an appreciative connection, but for those whose eyes are closed to the spirit, I do not consider their influence in my world very valuable and I carry on being selective of quality rather than quantity of numbers in my connection with people and my impact on the world around me. If a person has the ability to first understand what value is, and can appreciate another being for their uniqueness, then only you can even begin to love. I never got married because I felt overwhelmed by the amount of craze about me and the emphasis people placed on outer beauty so much that it freaked me out and made me feel awful. It just made me imagine how horrible it would be if I grow older and then these same people would throw me away. That happened too. So I'm careful, grateful and keep my eyes open to what real value is for me in my life. To me, a smaller world with people who add value to your life, by appreciating you, and being loving, caring and supportive, is the most beautiful world I could create, appreciate and find meaning in

HVW! True alux everything u said in the vedio is in our control we must always try to be the best version of ourselves!

HVW Maybe you mentioned this in a certain way(s) HVW are adaptogenic. Calming, inspiring, healing. Also HVW don't generally attract low vibrational "situations" They tend to be balanced individuals that demonstrate perseverance, modesty and most of all compassion❣ Thank you

#14 shows how much you don't know about trauma and how it influences you. There are low value men who will intentionally devalue (sexually assault or slander) a high value woman out of their insecurity because they know that they don't stand a chance with her. And even the highest valued women have a limit to how much of that they can take.

I insist, BRAVE series of videos. Congratulations Alux.

HVW💛 I'm on my level up journey & this is pure gold ✨️

My situation is probably a bit unusual in that I don't want children. Mostly because I think life is cruel and disappointing and filled with suffering and I don't want to make someone I love have to be here. So I don't base my value on my biological clock or attracting a mate. I gauge my value by my contributions.

Thanks a million

This is eye opening. Thank you.

Amal Clooney, Grace Kelly and Monica Bellucci. A high value woman is cultured without being pretentious, takes care of her health and is beautiful in a sophisticated way. She is feminine with excellent manners, can hold a compelling conversation and is a committed spouse and mother. She is at home anywhere in the world and can move seamlessly in a wide range of social circles. She is a complimentary presence to the gentleman of her choosing. She commands respect, but does not Inspire fear and is never overbearing.

It's not how to be a HVW but make yourself a HVW indeed.. 😊 Thank you Alux for the positivity and motivation that you're always share..

High value women is the one who have Self respect Emotional intelligence Analytical mind Stay away from drama and toxic people Take good care of herself Clean, organised and presentable Respect people and their time Curious Take responsibility for their mistakes Educating themselves Keep in touch with positive people Etc

Thanks for great content ❤️ Alux , We all come from different walks of life To get turly rich and successful we need to keep our thinking big and choices toward long term however sometimes we stuck at mediocratic life . although internet help us a lot ..but every thing has its own prons and crons Please create a video on ... How to think big and long term

The bonus you do at the end of the video. Is awesome, HVW. 😊 well, that, ship has sailed then as the saying goes 😅 following the Age part, you mentioned more than once, and because of that, I think then I best still stay true to me and will continue with the improvements I put effort in doing and realise I just don’t fit the narrative of society. Thank You 🙏🏽 again for your videos. Honestly it’s of value.

Once again a very needed video! I can appreciate everything that ALUX has put out! I tell you one thing though, #14 takes the cake 🎂 for the entire 15 lessons about a high value woman!

U guys are awesome love the honest positive & realest negative vids.

What I've seen of women with all the characteristics listed in clip, they end up having a breakdown from the growing expectations of those around them. And this is why anti-depressants and anti-anxiety medications are prevalent amongst 'high value' women. One can only live up to the idea of perfection for so long.

A high value woman speaks her mind by backing up her thoughts with well researched facts and voicing it unapologetically.

This has given me the what I need to talk to my girls off of the bimbo path. This is how community works, it is good when people share knowledge

This video reminds me of Ole KS. Different delivery tho.👍🏾

High value video as always😁. Pls @alux do a video series about Franchising Business model

Can't wait till next week!

Thank you The Crimson Cure and Kevin Samuels (RIP 🙏❤) for bringing these terms into the psyche of so many spaces .

High value women don't need a man to make them feel high value 🙌🏿

Great video...as usual. Keep it up!

Pleasant surprise to see that I am scoring 15/15. With jaw-dropping looks too. Though I had an arranged marriage, to a man who turned out to be abusive and low-value, still I stuck through and helped him become a millionare (with sound financial advice). And now I wish to 'retire', having lost almost all love and respect for him and also coz these years of abuse and hardship have taken a toll on my health and looks. But now he is just not ready to leave me and marry somebody younger and more beautiful, because he says I can still add value to his life. No wonder, some guys I turned down for marriage, years ago, still remain unmarried. Though I'd have liked them to be happily married, but came to know that they did not marry because I was their ideal.

Are you going to do a video on high value men and hold them to the same exacting standard?

Thank you. This was a great video which I have now sent across to my 18 year old university daughter. It will reinforce what teachings I have attempted to download to her over the years. You have articulated them VERY well. Cheers

I am a HVW. Thank you ALUX for this wonderful video. From the Philippines

HVW. I simply understood the Assignment. Thank Goodness for You

Highest value is Love 💕💕💕 self love and love 💞 for humanity 💜💜💜

This is all about being high value to men. There are many high value women in the eyes of the world that doesn't require beauty or youth: think Pulitzer and Nobel prize winners and female leaders of nations.

Shout-out to Coach Greg Adams for calling most of this years ago! Same for Kevin Samuels (RIP), Minister Jap, Steph is Cold, Better Bachelor, Donovan Sharpe, Sandman, Darius M, and of course, Tom Leykis.

HVW 🙋🏾‍♀️. Definitely checked some boxes here but currently working on others. Super informative video. Thank you so much! Btw, I think anyone Subscribed to Alux and watch their videos should be considered “high value”. I mean… it’s where future billionaires come to get inspired 😉

Another banger from Alux!

Beauty is currency, so true. Beauty for a woman is like money for a man. Beauty will open doors for you.

This video will trigger a lot of low value women, it’s a good thing for their awareness.

HVW. Great video. Thank you Alux team for this. Pamoja from Tanzania 🇹🇿

Wonderful Thankfulness and Gratefulness For You.