1. Nonverbal Communication In public 2. Outward displays of Intelligence (e.g. Reading books) 3. Wear Glasses (Not Sunglasses) 4. Handling stress/negative moments well 5. Wear a watch 6. Brag about her to family and friends 7. Bring her a cup of coffee 8. Acts of Being a good dad 9. Apologize when you are wrong 10. Give her space (don't be clingy) 11. In public, put your hand on the small of her back 12. Chip in on prep, cooking, and cleaning up of a meal 13. Share your food with your lady 14. Make it a habit of being present 15. Wear grey sweatpants
@@doejohnathon3487 You never wrong in front of a woman, if you are - you will lose respect forever - Yes maybe that's childish to act like that but that's the only thing that will keep you important in her eyes, real men or nice men, are left behind broken and used.
I agree with all 15. Being cared for does it for me. I went on a date to a amusement park and he pick me up, put me in the ride and made sure I was safely strapped in before he did it for himself. I fell in LOVE. I've never seen anyone do that except a parent.
As a Senior Citizen & Widow after almost 30 years of marriage, I find your Channel Jeff on point in directing Men to be mature in several aspects of life. Women are also attracted to Men who are honestly grounded in their relationship with God.
Definitely on track with intelligence. Nothing is sexier than a man who can converse intelligently about many topics! Also taking time to continue pursuing hobbies it’s very attractive. Shows dedication, consistency, and gives a couple something to talk about. Great video!
Holding eye contact when holding a conversation, and putting his phone away(or face down). It's a subtle way of showing he is considerate and engaged. A man can go from "meh" 😒 to "I can't wait to see him again"😍 And share dessert!
I do the eye contact thing all the time, I have oddly light brown eyes for a pacific islander who can Easily pass for a black/brown guy with straight hair just because I have a heavy Brooklyn, NY accent, I know women love it so I be like ->👀👁️ 😆
Nothing is more appealing when a man can converse who's well rounded ,keeps a clean home,very considerate and especially who extremely neutering..being able to cook is just an added bonus. Great list bro ❤
Well done! One more... Let your lady know you value and respect her opinion. "That's a good thought", "I value your opinion", "I appreciate you saying that"
I tried the coffee thing. I put on a nice watch as you recommended and brought her a morning coffee in bed. She was furious! She started screaming and yelling then chased me out of the house with a cast iron frying pan... Apparently this only works on women who know you.
😂😂 You’re supposed to set the coffee down on the nightstand, not in the bed where you spill it all over her. Pro tip: watch/ask how she makes her coffee so you can make it the same way
Being a great father is something women have a hand at too. A father raises his kids, but many of these women are not great mothers and men have to help raise them as well.
From one of the 43 😉: You're definitely on the right track. 👍 About the sweatpants - they're soft to the touch, they slide beautifully over a man's physique, and they're easier to remove.
You hit it! I love them. I bought my man black ones this winter because he won't wear gray, but I made sure that they were super soft, long enough (b/c 6'4" means truly long legs) and of course have pockets.
The good dad thing is such a HUGE turn on for me. Men who genuinely love and enjoy their kids are so hot🔥. Cooking me a meal is a close second. The apology thing is also huge especially if it's genuine and accompanied with changed behavior. Great list per usual.
@Slim Sith it speaks to character. Most men who don't take care of their kids aren't good people in many other ways. Also, there are single fathers out there. 🤣 Attraction is unique for everyone no need to reduce it to judgement and name calling. Have a great week.
I've been wearing glasses mostly my entire life. I've always gotten complimented by the ladies. It definitely gives off a certain look especially when I dress up.
Great tips bruh! One other tip is being able to make a woman laugh. Laughter tends to allow women to be more of themselves without having their guards up all the time. It's been my golden rule and has worked 99.9% of the time.
I agree with all the points. Jeff one thing that is also a big turn on is having mature & intelligent social media behavior. I mean like not being so publicly & blatantly thirsty in the comments every time a woman posts a pic or a man posting very childish/immature things on his page. I’m currently not really on SM But when I used to be I remember seeing this quite often & it was like the nail in the coffin for any potential possibilities 🧐🧐🧐
Hey Jeff! That suit and those glasses 🥰. Yes you are on 🔥 I love a man that is smart and can take the lead! Yes when he shares his food puts his hand the small of your back definitely a turn on. Your content is always great! Stay safe!
Hi Jeff! Those were all great. I’ve never given much thought to a man wearing a watch, very good point. I’d like to add to the list, being passionate about something. Whether it’s work, a hobby, cars, clothes, or food, have something that makes you excited, and share it with your lady. I love for a man to share his intimate knowledge about a subject, and to see the spark that it puts in his eyes.
Another one of the 43 here... ALL of these! 👍🏼. But the hand in the small of the back? Oh yeah!! ❤️. And of course, the gray sweatpants. Works EVERY time! Fantastic job, OG! ❤️🙂👍🏼
LOL! Seriously? This is the No1 thing to avoid as per all the dating coaches. A man has to have a purpose in his life and has to give his undivided attention to his activities, particularly his professional ones. The woman, even the woman of his life let alone any random girlfriend, has to be a compliment but not the focus. Giving a woman your undivided attention is one of the main factors of lost attraction. Women do not like men who give them full attention precisely because that signals weakness and a lower prospect for success. Women want you to do your thing, to be successful and them to cling along the way enjoying your success. Women are cheerleaders, men are footballers. A footballer won't give much attention to cheerleaders, he has his game to play.
Another great video Jeff! My wife loves when I have my hand on the small of her back. She feels protected. I think another turn on is when men show their faith in God in numerous ways including praying over a meal for example. It shows vulnerability and strength at the same time.
OG, OG, OG...all I can do is smile, I'm blushing from your questions and answers... Wow! when you put on those glasses I was finished... Anyway who is the lucky woman that tells you our secrets?
Everything you mentioned requires a man to be confident in himself. Being able to appear by her side in a crowded room and her knowing your scent is awesome.
I’ve been trying to bring men into my salon to have their hands and feet tightened up. I’ve even run specials, but they just haven’t taken advantage of them. Oh, how they underestimate.
@@gymeni Do a video of a few men 2 or 3 for a Demo. It might be great if it was somebody who is popular as person, friend or family member. Ijs . That you're not completely out of option. Be Blessed
Summary guy: 1. Can’t her eye from across the room at an event 2. Outward displays of intelligence. 3. Wear some regular glasses. 4. Take life’s ups and downs with stride. Don’t panic 5. Wear a watch. 6. Brag about her to your family and friends. 7. Bring her a cup of coffee in the morning. 8. Be a good dad. 9. Not having a problem apologizing when you’re wrong. 10. Give her some space. 11. Gently put your hand on the small of her back and direct her. 12. Chip in on the prepping, cooking, and cleaning up of meals. 13. Share your food with her. 14. Make a habit of being present. 15. They love us in grey sweatpants.
I watch a lot of your videos and man oh man you really help expand my way of thinking. Iron sharpens iron and man sharpens man. I love being a sponge and soaking up all of this knowledge. Salute to you O.G.
Larry David has an hysterical but true theory on Black men with glasses. They look safer and more sophisticated. Folks trust a man who wear glasses. Those glasses help you getting you that job, and a waiver on that speed ticket.
1. Turn on for a Lady- Don't test her. Both of you all are grown. Have faith that everything is going to be okay between you two. 2. Bring her Flowers once a week or every two week. 3. Call her every day at least 2x a day. 4. Buy her a nice gift once a month. 5. Women don't like absence, unless she doesn't like you like that. (Trust me, I'm a woman) 6. Bring her lunch to work. 7. Believe in something, someone (God) 8. Throw away the sweat pants (lol) 9. No how to relax 10. Take her on an excursion. 11. Women DO love smart men, but not to dumb her down, so watch that fellas.😉 12. Ditch the glasses unless you actually need them. 13. Take her out to eat 2x a week. 14. Take her car to get detailed, oil change etc. 15. DON'T WASTE HER TIME- LET HER KNOW WHERE THE RELATIONSHIP IS HEADING. I'm a woman fellas. Had to add.
You’re speaking true facts, Jeff! One huge turn on is a positive, optimistic guy. There’s this guy that likes me. He’s a cool dude, but a HUGE PESSIMIST! He complains or finds the negative in just about EVERYTHING! It’s hella annoying and is one of the things that keep me from giving him a chance. To see a man that can keep his cool and chooses the positive road is very attractive.
I would also say opening their car door when entering and exiting. Many women now day's are shocked. I guess it's a gesture many men have forgotten. Especially regarding the technological advances of today's vehicles.
Isn't it funny how wearing glasses makes you look more intelligent instead of telling the world your eyes are broken.... I personally feel a fit person will look good and pretty much anything
1) I had to rewind when the Style OG put on those glasses 👓 lol. Seriously, once again he is spot on.....I won’t list any, because they all were great! I gotta make sure all men I know subscribe to this channel
I've made plenty of these mistakes in relationships. Especially the "be present" one. Good stuff brother I wasnt even gonna watch. Thought I knew it all lol. Style O.G does it again
Wear glasses if you really wear glasses or contacts not to look studious. "Ain't no future in yo frontin". That's a turn off. Yes, we love a man that wear a watch and we love men who are true watch connoisseurs even more. I've gifted wood, engraved watches to a couple of my male friends. Addition to bringing us coffee in the morning, the fact that you're up EARLY before us is a turn on in itself. Being raised by two kings, being a great father brings you to the top of the list as far as I'm concerned. Again, another GREAT video Jeff. Keep up the good work!
I feel into that old school sitting in the living while my girlfriend cooked. After a few times of dirty looks that I didn’t understand, she said you know you can come help prep dinner, I worked all day too. That hit home. As little as opening cans, microwaving something, getting items out of the refrigerator or basically just offering to help can go a long way. And she will notice you getting up from your show or off your phone to help!
T J I’m one of the 43 ladies! As always you look sharp, especially in that blue blazer, shirt, and tie. Very handsome! In terms Of the tips, I agree 100%. I love men who are confident and who show authority. A man who reads, fixed something in my home, pumps my gas, and keeps a calm demeanor in the face of chaos, is a huge turn on.
Mannnn!!! When you put those glasses on!! Good God from Zion! You took your sexiness to a whole other level. Woo! I agree with the apology. Most men will buy flowers or other gifts to apologize instead actually verbally apologizing. Great tips HQOG! Great video as always. I think that it is absolutely charming that you will actually help your lady with prepping and cooking. Priceless
I enjoy your videos! I like how you do what you do. A nice suit, clean shoes, along with a pair of socks with an unexpected pattern and/or color is a turn on for some. Agreed! The “attach at the hip” thing is not cool. And, when you make a phone call, lead the exchange. Don’t expect the person you are calling to “carry” the call initiated by you. Good day, Ya’ll!
Much like men who are mesmerized watching a woman apply her lipstick, I like to watch a man shave his face...very intimate and often leads to other things..
I completely agree on the helping out on the cleaning and preparing. Strangely I am currently with a woman who doesn't want me anywhere near our kitchen when she's cooking. She has an existing system which she doesn't want me interfering or ruining.
Hey Jeff! I like your dating and relationship perspective. I have to say I really like the idea of making eyes with my love across a room. Especially since I am preoccupied trying to work a room, I'd be more inclined to slow down and concentrate on having a great time with my sweetheart.💕 I'm hoping to get to know my boyfriend's family a lot better. I'd really be flattered if he bragged on me at some upcoming events.💕 My baby brought my morning coffee on a day where I had a really busy to-do list and I just bragged to no end about his thoughtfulness. I just thought this gesture was so sweet. He scored major points especially since we were early in the dating part of the relationship. 💕 I can't wait to turn heads with my beau at some upcoming events as I am admittedly a bit of a showstopper. How wonderful I'd find the change of pace in having him to guide our movement through the venues. Ahhh!
This topic and many of your topics are on point, a lot of the younger crowd will not understand the concept, and relationship rituals, many are not taught. they need to be tuning in to your channel. keep it up, i am always listening, still fine tuning my game, and I am a O.G. Kudos
Nice teeth and good breath are a turn on. Straight, white teeth are sexy. Punctuality, attention to detail, and planners with great follow-through are attributes I find attractive in men. Finally, men who are intelligent, possess mechanical, or carpentry skills are keepers.
I've used a lot of advice you give, so I know it's good. Especially about apologizing. Even if you are always right apologizing shows you can humble yourself and not be pompous. And like I always say, If you want the glory you got to be willing to take the blame.
Always worth a listen, however, my preference is not to let the woman lead while walking. So, while the small of the back is very sensitive, I believe that only applies when you're standing still and you're just letting her know that you're behind her with your hand on her back. When walking through any space such as a restaurant or a concert venue, I always lead and grab her hand while she follows. I would not let my lady lead me through a crowd, even with my hand on her back, unless it's her function and her people all around and she's trying to introduce me.
I have the same color and style of suit ! I wore a red- blue argyle pattern tie like yours with a white straight colour shirt and of course a white picket square !!!
Something that worked for me with an old flame: I asked her how she made her coffee, then I made it for her almost every morning the same way she did with the same brand and type she uses.
