I have to agree that if a man wants a long lasting and happy relatioship with his partner he definitely needs to do all these things. I want to clarify about what you mean with helpin out a woman around the house. I think a woman does like it when a man does manly things around the house like cut grass and fix things, however, it is nice when a man helps out in the kitchen whether it is to help make food or help clean up, and if a man helps clean up after himself she would be grateful too. I have heard countless women before complain when a man does no chores around the house or doesn't even put his laundry in the right place. All these things make a woman's life a little easier and appreciated just by doing small things like this.
15 Things Every Woman Loves But Few Men Do: 1. Encouraging her independence 2. Small surprises 3. Being Vulnerable 4. Appreciating her efforts 5. Emotional availability 6. Regular communication 7. Understanding her love language 8. Listening with attention 9. Keeping promises 10. Being patient 11. Respecing her boundaries-emotional, physical, psychological 12. Sharing household duties 13. Respecting her friends and family 14. Regular compliments-intelligence, strength, kindness 15. Being her biggest cheerleader
The household chores suggestion is very true. Female friends of mine that have been in long-term relationships have said that it is a greater turn-on and greatly appreciated when men regularly take on household chores. I grew up with both parents in the military so I am good at cleaning and actually enjoy it. I also like to do laundry and my OCD requires me to dry, fold, and put them away before I go to bed. I find it relaxing. My female friends said that I put that on a dating website I’d get flooded with interested women. I really do enjoy cleaning and doing laundry.
Well, no. They will enjoy your help ,but there is no respect in the relationship. Todays household chores are done in 5 minutes per day or even less. I can do the plumbing , some el-work ,fix cars and do general maintenance. In fact when we had conversation about this issue, she would not wanted to change tasks with me, still do not know why???. I do not say i wont do any of it. When i am home and i see a pile of dirty laundry i throw it in and let the machine do its magic. (30 sec job). No issue for me, but the majority of every day household jobs are done by her. What comes to the list of Joyanima i agree points: 2, 4, 9, 10, 11,.Others are absolut BS. Women are not children who needs constant support emotionally. If they do and have difficulties with household chores, you need to set them being free, strong and independent. Do not waste your time with bad women. And i have 2 children, 20 years relationship with same woman.
Actually this was one of the videos that I found helpful and not over the top. Those are doable things, that are realistic and grounded. Not the usual "just don't be yourself, be perfect in every way, and jump through these 1000 hoops while obeying these 1000 rules."
You were lovely and so precise in this one! Thank you so much Anna and after listening to you in something different cases about various matters you must be one of the most subjective person to try and convince but also one of the most exciting once that goal is reached! Cosmic blessings and lots of love and light to you always ❤❤❤
Ok, let us be REAL for a moment here. "Sharing Household Duties," if what you say is true about this being "gender-based duties kind of outdated," I have NEVER SEEN a wife/woman offering to mow the lawn for her TIRED husband/man after a day's work. Why is that, I wonder?
@@andersnielsen6044 Nothing like a response from a delusional triggered person living in fantasy than proving the realities of this world. STICK TO THE POINT and PROVE IT rather than doing an Ad Hominem fallacy.
Out of those 15 a few have not been researched with a poll of women. Women say they want a vulnerable man but if a man does that they leave him in search of a stronger one. If women want emotional men with dreams and aspirations they would marry another woman...which they general hate being around for long term relationships. Women don't appreciate men sharing household duties because they can never be done the way she likes. Best for men to be clean and tidy (no clothes on the floor) and leave things the way she would like them so her work would be easier. How many women want to take out the trash? NONE. ..but they can leave things ready to be taken out in place where a man designates. Men doing grocery shopping for a woman is a fight in the makings because the selection was wrong or wrong brand. Men..buy the house and let her decorate it without a picture of your mother hanging in the hallway. Anyway all other points were good.
So, you are afraid to share the issues you currently are working on with your woman because you may come of as weak. You don´t even dare to do household duties because it won´t be the the way she dictates it to be. Isn´t it your home as well? You sound more like a anxious 17 year old than a strong man.
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Sadly, there are a lot of women who's comfort zone is abuse and conflict, controlling toxic overly-masculine behaviour. They need love, but want pain(unconsciously). Some of those traumatized women can be saved with some amount of therapy. Some of them can only be pushed and "raped". That's what I mean.
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These 15 things are even hard to do. you guys really have given up. It’s not even about jumping hurdles or changing who you are. This list consists of qualities of a respectable long term partner. You don’t have to do everything on day 1. Be considerate and give her space to pick you then come smooth and strong, guide her but be genuine. some girls aren’t ready, so fool around and bounce when they do. Eventually you’ll find one that is finished with the party scene to settle down with. And please focus on your goal and get a 70k job and up. Workout consistently. Giving up is not an option for men truly driven.
All sounds like hard work to me😂 all normal stuff I think but a lot of different models and all have manuals that very😂 majestic creature you really are a lot like a horse you ladies. Thank the good lord😂❤
She would like to have boundaries emotional, physical, psychological but to be emotionally available and vulnerable, how that to accomplish??? she: with boundaries me: without boundaries if plausible open and vulnerable, always available she: independent and strong me: weak and vulnerable she: no need to give effort because she is independent strong me: listening with attention as if there is no tomorrow totally dependent on her and her love and last but not least do not worry if all this seems nonsense (by a little) to you, just be patient and do your homework, eventually she will became stronger for her independence and will leave you and your misery as weak, needy, dependent, patient, always available, without boundaries, open boy will end! :D If I depend on your help, is that making me independent? :D No need to bother answering me, because you do not need to be available and open for conversation... You just have to be respectful to each other and that is it...no endless things lists
Such BS. I've been hearing this drivel since before this girl's mother was born. Dutifully follow all these measures, and you’re sure to be that really nice guy that every girl appreciates and soon leaves for someone more interesting and (in her view) masculine, someone she can admire and flush with excitement about. Keep in touch, though -- while giving her all for him body & soul, she still needs a wonderful guy like you to complain to about how he doesn't pick up his socks.
emotional availability. you have to be very aware as a man how you do this. if you think you can open up about all your vulnerabilities then i'd say: hell no. emotional availability as a man is being in control of your own emotions and being able to navigate your own and to help your partner navigate theirs. i'm sorry to say but if you want a shoulder to cry on as a man, don't go to your wife. you can't express lack of self-control. never ever ever.
Interesting video Joyanima. Try to remember and bear some of those points in mind, do know of a few of them and have used them in past with different woman. Ciao ☺👋
Don't go and tell young men to show vulnerability around women, she will perceive him as weak and monkee branch on him. This is bad advice, you are thinking like a woman, keep this to yourself!!
