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Franckie, INFJ can be the "BEST" Type as soon as they assume 1) their own respective POWER 2) Their respective introversion+ extraversion sides ! Thanks
Lol. I’m INTJ. I came home from kindergarten and said I never wanted to go back because they made us sing nursery rhymes and nap on a dusty mat. And so it went throughout all of school. In grade 12 when I turned 18 I started writing my own absence notes and signing them. The secretaries told me I had to have my mom do it. I replied that I can vote, get married and join the army now. Pretty sure I can write my own note. The VP was in the back room, came out and said I was actually right. To which I replied, “Of course I am.” 😏
When I was 13 I wrote an anti-human essay and then my teacher got offended so she harassed me for the rest of the year. Gotta say, that was very human of her.
The INFP part it's so true, I don't know how many times I had mini fantasies of strangers that opened the door for me (worst part it's that I don't remember any of them anymore 😭)
As an infp when i was in middle school i didn't crush on ppl that much haha. I was the smart kid who just wanted to get over w high school w/o bothering anyone. On top of that ppl were scared of me cuz my mom was also a teacher lol
The INFJ one was so accurate. I'm a 13 year old INFJ and literally throughout my life I have been described as mature for my age. I even remember having a conversation with this one girl and telling her that "I may be quiet however I listen a lot and I know a lot more than I give on so I could ruin everyone's reputation." I remember seeing the astonished look on her face.
Yo that's so me. And I barely had friends in middle school, and now I am a junior is High school. I used to be used for hw and stuff by people, and they used to think I am this smart-dumb kid who isn't aware that they are taking advantage of me. If I wanted I could say some unnoticeable stuff that would shock them but I don't.
Well today I placed a very nice order on Uber Eats and then an hour later realized I forgot to hit send. That's what an ENFP looks like 40 years later.
i am an enfp who constantly forgets things and has had a lifelong obsession with flamingos, so seeing frank represent me WITH THE FLAMINGO SHIRT was horrifying
@@ammarsayegh Yes we exist and I'm personally very impressed by people who are able to make a plan and stick to it, or do mundane tasks, without getting distracted, or bored, or bored and distracted. I mean, yes, you can put all that stuff in your bag the day prior, and you can prepare your presentation in time... but you can also stare into the void, watch youtube videos, daydream about books you'll never even start writing - let along finish writing and do all kinds of other cool stuff :D
Actually had this conversation a few times with my teachers - because I wanted to learn Chinese instead the crap they were teaching. Am actually still upset about that one. :/
As a infp I can confirm that that was true. I crush on everyone, boy, girl, that sandwich on the floor, everyone. So now I'm just a flirty mess confused about every one of my feelings
Specially the math teacher.... There was a particular problem that I solved using all my Ni and got the right option.... But at the end the teacher declared the problem itself was shaped wrong... I'm like WTF 😳... I just solved it and checked the answer key too... But he completely declared the question wrong!!!.. It was a Reputed book too...
I was an hour late for a test at least 2 times and my principal actually called me during my final exams to ask where I was, because I thought I had to take the exam in the afternoon, instead of the morning. I guess that counts xD
I forgot both my shoes and socks one day and was playing around on rocks and didn't realize until i hit one That was a huge hint to find out my personality
I was in middle school in the 80s, and while I listened to pop music, I was already delving into music from 'before my time', and preferring it for the most part. I went through a huge Motown phase during my teen years. And I still love older music, but I have a nostalgic fondness for 80s music too. Starting in the 90s, I really began to ignore popular music altogether, and I think I made the right call.
As an INFP, I can confirm that I developed a crush on a girl who I disliked the previous year, and 2 on girls who just randomly appeared in my dreams...
As an INTJ parent to a 5th grader I am more irritated with the school system than ever. I thought it was bad when I went to school. These kids aren't being helped for the future at all.
@@mahimsterunicorn7948 Yeah, but they’re not doing anything to change it. It sucks :/ in schools they focus more on teaching us about history and what happened in the past rather than helping with dreaming or making plans for our future. They give us so much unnecessary work and they know it, but they don’t do anything to change it cause it’s just how it’s always been and society doesn’t really like change. The way society and the education system works gives off a lot of Si energy.
INFP here. I relate to the ENFP though. When I was in middle school, I would leave my lunchbox in the classroom every single time we went to lunch so another student would always grab my lunchbox for me 😂
That's interesting that you're interested in these things at that age. When I was 13, all I cared about was games and school. Well, I'm 15 now and I can't say much has changed but yeah, discovered MBTI during the pandemic and it's been a great find so far
i swear, as an infp, i will fall in "love" with absolutely eveyone i meet, i will think of them as my soulmate, i will literally dream about our whole lives together ~ it's like a natural thing i do and for some reason i can't even help it, and yh, ill end up hating someone one minute and hopelessly loving them the next 😩
I fell in love with one of my friends for 6 years. I hated it. I didn't even want to have feelings for them. One of his friends told him while I was in earshot. I'm glad I never acted upon THAT crush. I hated it. I look back on it now wonder what was wrong with my tastes when I was younger.
I'm an INTP and i just want to say that is the mist accurate thing ever, i would search for hours to find just one unblocked video game website lol, i had to survive on the google drive 1.5v of minecraft. Then i remembered emulators and flash drives exist
@@kuuderesyndrome3249 bro how, I wanna download the wii and 3ds emulators. It wont let me cause i need the admin username/password but it somehow allowed me to download roblox and desmume
Me INTJ in School: Why can't we wrestle on the playground? The old principal let us wrestle. Adult: I don't know. I'm just doing what I'm told. Me: Why do you follow these instructions blindly? You are in charge. You can allow us to wrestle a little.
Me trying to show off my Bigbrain MMA skills I developed watching UFC... It never happened 😢every one thought I was that kid in class who'd fly away if they turn on the fan, the entire time 😑
I had this conversation in elementary with my principal. To the point where she expected me to be in her office nearly everyday complaining about the same thing.
LOL SAME I'm an ENTP though and I legit don't do anything without finding a reason to do so. The only difference between us is that I'm never giving up on creating an official fencing team where we are allowed to use baguettes as swords.
Honestly, mood XD I've taken the MBTI test more than once before, and I've gotten both ENFP and INFP on it and I definitely feel like I'm both of them really. I usually relate to both the ENFP and INFP parts of these videos a lot. ...I didn't relate to the INFP part of this one though because I'm an aroace XD
The INTJ was actually stuff I would argue with my teachers about when I was in school! We really did have to learn the waltz and square dancing and I would argue that learning how to budget and do taxes would be a far better use of our time. I still feel the same way.
I had an English teacher who once took a full 20 minutes out his lesson to tell us about taxes and incomes because “no one else is going to tell you this and then you’re going to be annoyed and confused” He was the best.
I’m INTJ too and I’m really surprised to see so many other INTJs say that! I actually didn’t agree with his portrayal at all. INTJs are seekers of knowledge as well as seekers of efficiency, so it’s in their nature to appreciate learning for learning’s sake. Both in school and still now I have always loved learning about all kinds of cool and interesting things even if they’re not essential. I’m extremely proud of the knowledge I’ve accumulated on a huge variety of subjects, and I think this is something pretty characteristic of INTJs.
@@lordhigheverythingelse8127 I feel that way too, and along with it comes a bit of frustration. In university, there is lots of information that must be learnt. At first, you are happy you got to learn it, but then you realize you forget some in that information avalanche. Not to mention information studied back in school times. Some extra non-university related reading helps during summer holidays, but it's still not enough to contain all information in the universe, sadly.
that's why in technology class i always had my usb full of minigames, they can block the internet but no my programs. Now there's no need to thanks to covid, i just can skip class
Ah I finally understand why INTJ x ENTP is such a good collaboration, we question things and aren't afraid of confrontation. Although, INTJs are more stealthy and sneaky about getting the change they want. More efficient.
Yes INTJs must be more effective. If they don't fall into trap of their genius mind questioning everything and trying to be ever more logical even if it leads them to be less logical (that's not so simple to optimize good system). At least INTJs aren't lazy and all over the place instead of doing what they are supposed to do ;). As ENTP I fight hard with myself to get some more discipline. But it's not a fair fight...:')
@@grzegorzwalas4125 Yes they can get stuck for very long on something and find it hard to move on. But we find it hard to stay put but we're great at being adaptable. We are built to thrive in different circumstances. To each his own race or perhaps we can go into the same race but one of us must lead I more dominantly I suppose.
As an INTJ, this was mega accurate. Literally whenever we have to learn something useless in maths or business I'm like "'Can't we learn how to pay our taxes or get a job instead?"
Honestly at 13 INFJ, I did see the world cynical. I barely even spoke and always had headphones in. I guess the grown up part though I learned is that you have to live in that cynism if you don't excel expectations
Yeah, I remember saying that I don't see the point of living my whole life, because I had already seen what is going to happen by watching all the other people. I wasn't suicidal, just didn't see the point. Thankfully my mom motivated me to live against the grain then, if I already knew what with the grain was like...
As an INFP, u fall in love with person u hated the previous year..AND THE NEXT DAY, U WILL AGAIN HATE THAT SAME PERSON if he/she tries to interfere in your way of thinking
so is this a good sign for mee lol btw i'm an enfj who had a crush on this infp guy, i wonder if he ever hated me thoo i feel as though i don't exist in his life 😊
@@GQ-tf6pd awww Good luck Friend...From INFP here ...btw INFPs tend to think too much about signs they receive usually so it's better if u give him clear signs if possible...Or he might overthink and normalize it.. 👀
Middle school INFP me was all into the "Im not like other girls" and "Im so unique" don't forget the "No one understands me 😭" when I was the one who focused too much on myself and didn't try to understand everyone else 😅 Edit: Forgot the "I'm so mysterious" -Thanks replies!
@@gjones9186 I almost never talked in class and my classmates bullied me because of this. And there was a girl who judjed people by looking at their clothes. The first year she said i had no taste and i was worthless, the last year she literally invited me to her birthday party. I said i couldn't go because i had to buy cLoThEs with my mom muahahqh
Yep, INFP with my Lizzie Bennett energy. The boy who relentlessly teased me became my crush in 5th grade, and then same deal in 8th grade. After that I tapped into my Anne Shirley energy and found myself a Gilbert.
Oh, please, we've already had one for quite a while. I feel the same way. Art class is mandatory, but only a handful of teachers are willing to talk about how the prices of things are fluctuating and soon America will be in a national economy crisis if we don't do something about it? Or holding assemblies about self-confidence where they use dumb metaphors and nobody learns anything for an hour or random field trips in the middle of the day so no teacher can get any work done with her students. It just gets ridiculous sometimes, we truly do NOT need all those random things we will never remember or learn anything from when we could be improving the school system, teacher's wages, the way we learn, learning more important things, reading more advanced literature instead of reviewing kindergarten subjects that nobody would need half as bad if they didn't just let kids waltz through the school system nowadays and pass them without them learning anything.
Agh, INFJ is too accurate. I’m better at loosening up, but HOW MANY TIMES would I get told by my classmates and teachers that it would be better if I was a “little more fun” as if I enjoyed the exact same activities they did.
had a class teacher told me that during parent teacher day. And after I left the room I was just like, the teacher is too naive at his age to assume everyone lives a life of a party - INFJ here
ENFP here. Sadly, I’ve never quite grown out of forgetting my things at home/school/work after all these years. My sister (ISFJ) actually forces me to list off everything I need to remember to bring before we leave, and I still manage to forget something half the time 🤦♀️
My daughter when she was 3 and I was going shopping used to come and ask: mom, do you have money? Do you have your bag? Do you have your phone? Do you have your gloves? Do you have your keys? (Usually at least one point I didn't have. INFP here)
Same here, I forget stuff all the time. One of my friends is ENFP with (diagnosed) OCD, which makes her an interesting subject. She does generally have everything with her that she could possibly need, and spends her free time daydreaming about zombie apocalypses and then makes lists of things she might need to take with her. Or about what to take on roadtrips, when she doesn't even drive xD
As an INTJ this was way too accurate. Not many schools teach you how to do taxes which just proves how much they're not preparing their students for the difficult times in adulthood.
As an ENTP, I was more like what's the purpose of listening in class, taking notes and doing homework when I can learn this on my own the night before the test and pass the class.
As an INTP, that's accurate, I always managed to get around it tho. Most of my school days were spent playing games or drawing 😅 still passed with flying colours tho
In my days, we didn't get Chromebook. How lucky kids nowadays. It's must be good just play kangaroo guess word. Who can INTP kid does? When rest time talk with others just made you wondering you still normal or not. I remember listen to my gang love story and I just curse her in my head for being stupid and next day I don't understand why we need rest time except get a snack. But rest time is long and many of them talk about girls talk again. I mostly goes to library and read calculus book or how human body works. They have many interesting book. I even goes to town library when I am going home. OMG, I remember goes mostly of my time, more than chit chat or goes to my friend home. It's soo boring cause they just talk about how their boyfriend not care about them or this girl like that guy in the class. If they wanna good love story why don't read a shoujo manga. Frustrating.
“Forgot my pants.” 😂 I needed a good laugh this evening. I can still name each kid in my jr. high school that fit the descriptions. 😂Thanks for posting all of the videos this week. 🙂 (This skit reminded me of a boy in my girls’ grade school. He was always running late, so finally his parents made him go to school in his pajamas.)
INFP: "Today I met eyes with this girl across the cafeteria and I felt Cupid's arrow immediately!" This happened a lot, I got cupid's arrow a lot but I can't do anything about it 😬 I need help to shoot that person with this arrow so I can have love 😂
Ow, I literally gained crushes on a lot of girls in middle school and I never knew why. Middle school was pretty much the reason why I figured out I wasn’t straight, but it didn’t help that a lot of girls I gained crushes on were my friends. No matter what. Closeted Pansexual times were not fun 😬
yeah. By that point, we're all tired and depressed and done with humans. I've been done with them for quite a while, yet I still act friendly so I can connect with someone. I'm good.
@@izzya2515 Same! INFJs are one if not the most empathetical personality out of all but it's awesome and ironic that we can be the most apthetic at the same time It's mentally tiring to hear and understand everything and everyone
As an INTJ I would ask why are we learning crap that I don't need and doesn't apply to the real world back in 1992. I would proceed to explain why. My teachers seriously would regret asking me why. 🤣
I was in 2nd grade and a teacher marked all my math questions wrong once for writing my 4's in the normalized iconographically standard way everything does instead of this weird "American" way the book she was teaching from had it (with the open prongs instead of the pointed arrow look). I'm still mad about it 30 years later.
An ENFP here can relate. I love extracurricular activity. But because of Covid, I only got to take part on those seated competitions like essay writing etc. I want to play basketball and debate with people too:’]
Admittedly I wasn't told I was too young to be that cynical in middle school, but it was brought to my attention at a job when I was 25. Nice to know it's not just me! 😁
Similar thing happened to me in preparatory class when I was 18...we were rehearsing an oral test for a competitive examination and the topic of politics was to be discussed...ahem XD . It feels good to share this with other people who experienced it too.
LMAO INTJ is so true! I has a similar conversation with my teacher once we got into "Further Maths", asking what point in my life I'd need to know differential calculus and why we were not learning something useful like understanding statistics which were used in virtually every modern scientific publication.
I once forgot my school bag. I was running wildly to the school and feeling "lighter", like flying without wings... I didn't realize until my friend said "hey where's your school bag??"
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IM NOT LIKE THATT?!?@?:&# well, i actually am,,, but lowkey yeah ahaha 😀 when someone ask me for music recommendations, i'll give them the most underhype bands i know -middle schooler isfp
i wasn’t the student who would remind the teacher of the homework but i was the one who felt happy (secretly) that someone else did it for me and so i can read my essay and get complemented 😆
ENFP here. I'm not kidding when I say this is so relatable, when I was in middle highschool I kept forgetting everything but somehow managed to get good grades lmao
When I got to Junior Year of High School, I was literally struck by the realization some people wanted to be my friend, in spite of my actual active attempts at chasing people away. "How the fuck do I have friends?" is a phrase that I have utterly unironically. - INTJ (the answer of course being that I am a good person, and want to be good to people even though I am cold and often disappointed in humans. It just took a while to realize that.)
@@ShinobiPhoenix-YT0 most of the times it's hard for me to handle people. I really can't trust anyone. Recently the only friends that I trusted did me dirty and broke my heart soooo I rather be alone, I can focus better
ENTJ here. A teacher threatened to give me a 60 when my avarege was 98 and I did reach to the board of education to get him fired. Thus I am very happy with this accurate portrayal
Don’t worry y’all, as an ISFJ I promise to never be the one to remind the teacher to collect the homework. 😂 Even if I did it it’s not like it affects me to let them forget and give everyone more time lol. Half the time I was in the same boat anyway
The ENFP is so accurate because in seventh grade I got an academic report because I forgot my first art assignment home for 3 straight weeks, it really only went downhill from there
As an INFJ, I was barely allowed to be a typical middle schooler because of the trauma I was going through. Now I'm finally at my prime as you see me today... the most angst-filled 25 year old teenager around! XD
I laugh so much when you do the INFJ and ENFJ as those are my sons and you always nail them and crack me up. Thank you Frank, you have helped me get through this wretched pandemic (INFP)
0:37 (INTP here) Haha yeah, I often spend my lunchtimes at school indoors playing my laptop. The school WIFI blocks Among Us, but I just connect my laptop to my hotspot and go from there XD
I am an INFP/4w5 but identified with the ISFP skit the most. My “obscure” musical journey definitely began in middle school. The start of me marching to the beat of my own drum. I wasn’t super crushy on guys but if I was, I was very particular & shy about it. I had a soft spot for skater boys (the nice shy ones, not the aggros or show offs). I was more into music, wearing crazy clothes and experimenting with drugs (hallucinogens). Daydreaming...
I am not a real INTP because we had no computers at school, I hated math class and spent most of my awake time in art class making surreal paintings and prints. If I could go back for the free studio I would. Otherwise many aspects of school were similar to a daycare center with examples of capital punishment to keep us all inline
As an INTJ, I did question a lot of useless things we had to do in class in the past. I only did some things willingly once the teacher had provided a reasonable and logical purpose for it. lol
My brother is an INTJ. and he started a move with his boys by sneaking out the whole year during a subject he didn't see the use of. He eventually got caught and he expressed the very same words this video said 😂😂 god,,
I'm an infj in high school and in middle school I used to stand in a corner while my friends fought over something stupid and I used to think that they are missing the whole point of life......to make most of the games period!!!!
I sit in the back of the class but in the middle, so I can watch everyone, and I undestard the feeling of "Why are they so weird and talk all day?", but it doesn't really matter because maybe they think about me something like "Why is she all day so quiet?", so if what they do don't affect me then I don't really care, everyone with their lifes I guess.
I'm an INTJ and I agree with this so much. Why do they not teach us stuff we will actually be forced to do for the rest of our lives, but have time to teach us how to dance-
And you're a heroine, not a glorified DMV clerk there to crush any shred of individuality, creativity and critical thinking in the weak or continue teaching the few others how to manipulate women. 😜
I'm a 14 year old INTJ and this one perfectly fit me. We are currently doing a dance unit at school but we still haven't even been taught about taxes. 🙄
Yeah INTP is spot on but most of the time I'm just doing the homework during the lesson so that I don't have to do it later.... And also because I don't want to do small talk with my neighbours.
Yeah, I also tried to keep me busy with doodling, learning random other things and being still with the teacher when he asks who knows the answer. focusing on class alone is just too boring😂
@@cartlona1202 EXACTLY!! I doodle all the time. On literally every page there is some form of a doodle. but generally speaking my teachers don't really ask me much because they know that I know the stuff.
@@sufasufa9567 I totally get that. I'm just looking at my generation growing up in comparison to kids nowadays and it really makes me realize how much things have changed.
I’m in my teens and even kids nowadays are quite different from the ones 10 years ago. A lot of it has to do with social media trends being so widespread now. I think throughout our lifetimes we’re going to see massive change due to all of these technological advancements. Whether they are good or bad, one thing is for sure. It’s going to be interesting
Omg there was this boy in my class in eighth grade who was so annoying and for the whole year I couldn’t stand him. Then one time he smiled and made eye contact with me and I got a crush on him immediately for the rest of the week. Then I moved on to some other boy the next week. Very spot on for INFPs 😂
So me once I have eye contact with one girl and I started liking and infact I also started thinking of our future date bcz I was thinking too propose her and I was so sure that she will say yes only, but when I proposed her she said I don't even know you🥺🥺
Middle school ENFP: *forgets everything* Me (also an ENFP): It wasn't just a phase. It's who I am inside Seriously though I literally forgot everything all the time (I still do 😅)
The only thing I'm glad I never lost was my housekey. but forgetting passport; documents; bills; wallet; meetings; (I kinna always forget to take my laundry out of the washing machine)
So true, it’s not a phase. We just learn to manage it better with age, lol. I literally have to write down a list of things not to forget, and then I forget the list
Im in middle school andi was waiting tk see if i relate to my type (INFP) and then its abkut falling in love and im aromantic, tho that seems like somethign that would happen to me lol
1:43 I'm still like this to this day. I'm surprised when I actually show up for events I'm invited to. That never happens unless...UNLESS!!! I squeezed ya in somewhere on my freakin calendar 📆