16 Personalities Confessing Their Love 

That's horrifyingly specific

@@hadngyroland2007 Because I'm going through it myself! LOL

I bet, staring at their backs will help them realise how much we love them╮(╯_╰)╭ Telekinesis is real right

@@EmDecidesToExistToday I'm always going thorough it

As an INFJ I absolutely agree

< INFJ ^ this.

Lmaoooooooooo so true

infp here but i do this 😗✨

Amen

Door slam incoming but the other person will never comprehend it as a protective measure for our own well-being.

I'm sorry to hear that. I suspect my husband is INFJ because he was stalking me. He tried the friends routine but I was like get lost I have a girl friend, full time job and university, I don't have time for friends or even one night stands. He asked me to marry him 1 month after we met and we've been married for 8 year now. The INFJ mind control powers are creepy, I may be a hostage and not know it. ~INTJ

Can confirm, happened to me this week and in the same way ...

At least you guys get rejected, We INTPs are too scared to ask out the opposite sex. Cause, yeah! Being a Computer Nerd or Depressed Overthinking Robot is hot asf 😒

I normally kinda think predicting how people react based on their meyers briggs is such BS, but i just started watching these and the INFJ takes i feel personally attacked.... and now i'm down a rabbit hole watching all of them....

I could never confess to my crush because of my insecurities. Like they legit confessed to me and I was like…. Oh are you playing a joke on me? My regret afterwards was immeasurable but I was too scared to ask if they were for real.

I don't understand how this is possible

Im an Intj and I also dont know how this is possible

@@nattay9852 What part dont you guys understand? I'm curious to know lol Is it that I didnt know we were already dating? At that time, he told me he liked me, and I said I liked him. But just saying that doesn't automatically mean we're together right? In Korea, there's a culture of having a phase between first meeting and then actually being in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. This phase is called a "Some" relationship. So I though that's what we were, while he assumed we were already boyfriend and girlfriend when he confessed. Does that make sense?

This is too accurate to my husband and I and how we got together. We’ve been together since high school and in 2005, we went to our high school winter ball. He actually just started holding my hand out of nowhere. For a couple of months, it was assumed by both of us (I am an INFJ and he is an INTJ) that we were “official” but we never said it until our friends pointed it out lol. We were unofficially “officially” together for two months until we made it officially official 😂

❤

No ESFJ?

@@brindygray4410 at 3:10. My bad.... i wrote p instead of j by mistake

Why are us INFPs almost always towards the end? 😔

Hi, appreciate your effort *wink in entp

You're cool

This is the crossover we need to see

I burst out laughing. My best friend is an INTP and she literally made a boyfriend through discord and it’s a long distance relationship

@@ozuray4307 p- please tell me they’ve at least video called or something

@@yourmotherspetunicorn I guess not. I'm an intp too, i did "date" a boy by messenger, and i quitted real quick when he asked for a cafe meet or video call

@@ozuray4307 🤣🤣

this happened to me in the exact order as above: -I know she likes me, and I like her back, gotta be 98 percent sure before confessing -she's not into me at all and never was or will be apparently, ouch(really) -really? what about all the signs and acting like a couple, etc. i must know why -continue to work and live together for months, acting like nothing happened so not to make her worry -she finds a new guy exactly like her ex and moves away, I feel like a fool

i feel you

That is why we get played. We believe in honesty and believe if someone is acting like they are into you, they are. But news flash....people can be unethical and players. It hurts that our intuition was wrong, but we received what the other person was sending. Then we do not trust anyone every again and have a peaceful life XD

@@madsismad9113aaand this is why im basically a volcel lololol

That's exactly why I'll never confess my feelings ever again, but that's also considering the chance that I might fall for someone which is very slim now

Us bro

that's so true it hurts

🤝

yes 😔

IKRRRR

True , can relate.

Agreed

Yes indeed

Lol so true man.. :')

So spot on really, it's worrying. Infp

Hi. Infj here with a intj partner. I’ve waited 5 MONTHS to hear him say “I love you” 🥲

@@Selenaninphe aw, grand he finally did though! I was a bit shocked when mine said it so soon; turned out he wanted to say it even sooner, but worried I’d be weirded out. 😂

@@Selenaninphe - it took mine 8 YEARS to say it and he started stuttering!

@@meagiesmuse2334 DAMN

@@meagiesmuse2334 W O W. 😱

As an INTP, somehow this never happened to me, at least never gone to the confession part. Now, the rules are, "Everyone in the internet is a boy, until proven wrong."

As an intp who never got to confess anything and also kept hiding from that person, this is sad

I confessed via messages to my friend, my God the awkwardness. he proceeded to ignore me the rest of highschool.

As an INTP who put Fe in the time out corner. I'll elude to my feelings, then do everything in my power to scare people away. the ones that stick around are the ones to love. Even if some cant love back. (Oh hello Fe, welcome back.) Neat efficiant system for love, now back to learning about mental disorders... Am... I... a... Narsissist?

OMG LOL

the thing about emotions is theres differences between feeling them, being aware of feeling them, and expressing them.

Exactly. I'm just rethinking this right now.

I swear I thought the same thing, but I'm pretty sure I'm quite expressive. People laughed at the face I make when I'm confused even in front of authority a few times.

@@rafagasim8464 from what ive seen intjs are very expressive but literally every emotion expresses itself as anger or disgust lol

The thing is also that you can interpret an impression how you want. Also people with autism could have more problems with that maybe for example. So you never know. That's why you gave to talk about important emotions (for each other)

I think infjs will understand. ✨

The fact that I acknowledge your existence at all is clearly an indicator of at least mild affection. It's so simple. ‐ INTJ

If I can't control my body language at least I can still control my emotions into neutrality

Mate, I've got INTJ as functional type and this is super relatable, like, if I show you my emotions at all you can bet I kinda like you at the very least.

LOL 😂 Isn’t it great being INTJ

Imagine if he was......

Awwww so cute!!

Same here. I was in love two times and confessed both times via WhatsApp and I would do it again

Haha, same lol. We're on our seventh month 🥰

Congratulatons!

yes 🤣

I've never related more

I had an INTJ tell me "you could probably tell from the start how turned on I was " yet I had no idea.

“I thought it was obvious” 😅

as an infj, socializing with intjs is like being the dog in the "I LOVE YOU DOG!!!!!" meme. just being completely menticided with confusing signals, and then the intj unknowingly gets super alarming with me for expressing that i am super confused and scared. intj: "what do you mean you dont understand me??? mad?? IM NOT MAD!!! WHAT DID I SAY THAT SOUNDED MAD????? IM NOT DOING ANYTHING TO BE SCARY, YOURE JUST STUPID!!!!!"

I'm an INTJ too I just never admitted to anything. Ever.

As an aroace INTJ…wow, I feel represented!

you guys confess your love??? thats not very intj

@@meredithsmailes761 so true 😅

Yes same here 🤣🤣🤣

My hubs ISTJ... Even his besties do not realize he likes them the most.

Ikr!

I mean... it would have worked on me 😅 -infj

🤣🤣

I think it is actually very attractive

Timmy is a 17th personality

TIMMY!!

Absolute destruction for the ESTJ that one

Yep, where would we be without good old Timmy?!

Bbh!

Same 😭

woooow I related A LOT with the INFJ because I passed through a similar situation, and I'm an INFP!! Actually INFJs and INFPs have a lot in common but at the same time they're so different...

Omg that's sooo cute 🥰

Most romantic/feeling INTJ:)) That is amazing, I am happy for you. Yeah, it is really a stereotype that thinking types are robots that cant have feelings, they can/do really care about their close friends/family/partner, at least I do. I am an ISTJ not INTJ and I am imagining the last part as I have never been in a relationship but still

@@oliviacolli9319 you mean "that's so sweet!" ?

💯 - if anyone else could hear what my INTJ husband says to me they'd probably barf, lol: adorkable cheesiness x a million

(that said, full disclosure, his first "statement of affection" towards me, so to speak, was, and I quote, "UGH. I guess I'm just going to have to care about you." 😂)

This would have been even more accurate

@@TheBroadestOne I will even add to it with this analogy: INTJ in love is like our favorite move or weapon in a game with accuracy stats. We "love" the crappier weapon with 90% accuracy over the cooler stronger weapon with 60% accuracy. We don't particularly want either, but we trust one more...

you right

Exactly.

i totally agree. i really don't like the stereotype of intj's being cold and not having emotions and also don't really understand where it's coming from. i mean, we do have tertiary fi and (at least in my case) it's pretty strong. feelings and emotions are definitely there, i just have a hard time articulating/communicating them. though that's also probably more due to my mental health than my type...

and how was your experience? do you find it worth it? have you met any of them irl at least once?

Same here, more than 5 times. Never dared to see any of them in real life, until I was convinced by one of them, he now became my INTJ husband.

I married my internet man in 2002, when internet dating sites were in its infancy.

Similar here😂😂 (infp)

I've fallen in love two times and both of them were on the internet... I don't talk to people enough for a real life crush to even really be an option- (My cognitive functions test results label me an ENTP, but I'm definitely more of an INTP)

Thank you 😢😢😢

@@krims_kringle Guess what? We are engaged😅 And with every passing day, he loves me more. Every passing day, I get to see a better man. I love him, I pamper him in all the ways that are humanly possible. As an INTJ, I have been robotic my whole life, but he makes me human. He makes me a better person. A better doctor. A better everything. He is the love of my life. And he has a little bit of God in himself (if there is one). I grew up with INFJ mother and brother. And my father is ENFJ. So I know how to handle NFs but I didn't know the INFJs could figure us out so well. And you know what? He loves me as I am. Flaws and all.

@@sarahthomas2922 Honestly, I don't think, how someone is treated is a very generalized thing. But yes, I personally have had some of the experiences with my INFJs. My mother, my brother, my best friend of 12 years and now my fiance and even his sister, these 5 people in my life, who are actually in the very close knit circle of mine have had a mix of experiences. I have seen that only a handful of people are able to understand INFJs and treat them the level they deserve to be. Thankfully, I have an insight about this and I make sure that all my INFJs are being treated with the understanding and love they need to be the healthiest and most profound version of themselves. One thing I noted is,all of these have a very inherent and very deep emotional range (unlike mine) and even when they are hurt, they know how to function (which is not seen in INTJs -NiFi loop). I think what an INFJ wants the most is healthy respect, even more than love. They are so sweet and so hardworking. Excellent in their careers. Infact, we are all from science backgrounds. My mother taught Chemistry to highschoolers, my brother is a neurologist, my best friend is an orthopaedician,my fiance is a dermatologist, and i am a doctor, and now preparing for my speciality. Even my fiance's sister is in pharmacovigilance. I think, INFJs do wonders in healthcare and science. They are just amazing people who just are misunderstood and they have their little shells and their lovely, colorful self comes out in front of someone who loves them dearly and is close enough and vulnerable enough. I am in love with my fiance more than I can ever explain. He is the most amazing person in this entire galaxy. Coming from an INTJ, who had to work on this for years, to say it out loud, because My INFJ deserves every bit of it.

@@dr.aromakalra92 I am an INFJ. From Mumbai, India you are from which city??

I feel you man were just like *observe*

"oh good" i imagined this situation in my head now that's never gonna happen

Accurate

~INTP What is love? Who knows, who knows...

It’s so painful not to but I’d be so scared to lol most of us being the most hopeless of romantics doesn’t help either

Loveu too. ♡

Ehh I am ENFJ but.. I never told anyone including my family that i like them... Am i weird?

I am ENFP, but i relate to this more XD

Awww, I love you, too! 🧡

8 years? 😢 Oh, darling. (background sound: Swan Lake finale OST) Your comment brought back heartbreaking memories.

I LOVE BELUGA AND IM AN INTP!!!!!!

I would've never imagined I'd see a Beluga reference in Frank James. Two of my favorite channels ever! This was great! I'm an INTP as well.

I think that made my day.

@@joybelinda5095 same. You can sense my personality through the screen.

@@joybelinda5095 I think I’m an ISFJ

Exactly

Yes yes, I thought the same!

Yassssssssssh!!!! 🤕🤕 with all memories I calculate + people around me giving advice+ opinion = my intuition says "he loves you too, go on girl" then the rest is the heartbroken moment haha~ Welcome~~ another Friend-zone ~~ 🍻

they be probably staring at the ceiling and thinking where their calculations went wrong.

Why we always get friendzoned ;-;

😂😂😂😂same.. I'm girl though

Same I am a INFP too and a male so there is that.

You’re me…

i like the way you think... you can be friends wiith me. ☺️ - INFJ.

​@@anna-maysalgado4294 thanks random internet person!

I'm scared of being embarrassed

im scared of being in love

As an infp, I confessed to my crush too fast and I repeatedly regret every single word I said from that day.

Lol I’m always vulnerable and I’ve been rejected by all my crushes I hate it here :D

ENFJ attractor

Yeaaahh. My current crush said we could be friends and then slowly faded out to go focus on work and cleaning and probably eventually finding someone else to share her biological responses with. -infj

I think i said his exact words that one time i confessed to my crush, and he rejected me with almost the exact words she said

“Are you Sure??”

@@indeed_issy8254 for me he said yes... and then after a while he said let's be friend and he really truly became my friend unit i stop it.

You are not alone bro

I want this so bad

I have a crush on an INFJ girl as an ESFP and something inside me tells me that she loves me but she doesn't show it for a reason even after I asked her out and rejected by her in a polite manner and I let her be to have some space because I know space and alone time is essential for you. after that rejection she somehow stare at me with worried eyes like she just wants to tell me something but it seems I am unable to understand her right now, so I think I am somehow understand how you are feeling but this misunderstanding happens most of the time about INFJ.

I've had some fantasy relationships that were a lot more fulfilling than real life interactions which is the saddest testament to my perpetual loneliness. I'm sure I've missed out on truly rewarding long term relationships because I always end up focusing on what could be instead of what is actually there.

@@BigTexan7 I feel you, mate.

This. So true dude.

The birth of an INFP

Lmao

Safety makes the INFP brave. If the other person truly gets you, they will make the effort to make you feel safe, or it will happen organically. That is why an evolved INFJ can be a great match for an INFP. We will take the time to stand in your shoes and hear your story without judgement. A safe INFP is the most romantic creature I have encountered.

@@deborahgale I know two or three INFJs and you're right, it feels really comfortable to be around them. There's something very welcoming and warmhearted about INFJs :)

Always love you infp. My husband was an infp. It was a sacred delicate thing. Anyways, we fell apart because I wasn't his ideal. The love was there. But even with force I could only be me. My advice, is to accept who you love though it isn't what you visioned. Good luck and know that infj needs you, you really are the world.

@@deborahgale Exactly! When I feel comfortable around someone, I am able to express my feelings more clearly like this.

You guys also never seem to let a crush go. I have this INFP friend who had this mad crush on a coworker couple of years back. Didn't even confess anything just admired from afar. She eventually switched jobs and somehow still that crush remains. How? How is that possible? My crushes usually die out if I don't see the person for like roughly the same time I've interacted with them. So 2 weeks in 2 weeks out. I really don't get that. It just seems like obsession to me. No offence - ENTP

I'm a grown INFP. All of us INFPs have mental issues. Like that's a norm. What I can tell you is just wait, it'll happen, we tend to be pretty interesting for almost everyone when they get past the first stage of meeting us. But please, for the love of any deity you believe in or science or anything, keep your expectations in check. People can be cruel, specially when you are hyper sensitive 🥺

@@Nemo.404 Thanks for the amazing words of advice 🥹🥹 I’ll try my best to apply it to my current life 💜💜💜

I'm a healthy German INFP with teo children. My husband is ENTP (also the father of the children). I'm the INFP type that confesses her feelings pretty soon. When I was in fitht class it took me an entire year but hey I still confessed, I got rejected and it didn't take to long to get over the boy (he was very respecful and I excepted his desition right away) after that it took some years untill I actually confessed again (I had crushes in between but never confessed, thank god XD). I had a buch of relationships, they didn't last because I fell in love with someone else. It happened more than once. My husband is the only Person that confessed to me first, he is also the most enternaining. What I'm trying to say is I was never cheated on and no one of my Exes would have left me. It did break my own heart to break their hearts

Same. I feel 100% sure they can tell how obviously embarrassed I am, but apparently I just look like I don't give a damn.

My INTJ friend is about as expressive as a concrete grain silo standing in a field. And ive know the guy nearly 18 years. Still have no farking idea how he feels about anyone. And im an INFJ trauma therapist, I'm outstanding at reading other people, especially stuff they want to keep hidden.

YES, SAME! Once I thought I was smiling but then I looked at myself in the mirror and I LOOKED EMOTIONLESS 😂😂😂

When I saw the INTJ one I was a bit confused because I have an INTJ friend and I don't think she is expressionless because I usually know what she is feeling by looking at her. I like talking about different things and topics with her, and I think I can hear genuine intrest and excitement in her voice. After reading these comments I think she is more expressive because her older sister is an ENFP and they have a very good relationship between them. P.S: Sorry if I butchered up the grammar 😅, English isn't my first language.

Damn it, I always think I'm showing all my inner feelings actually too much, but I never considered asking someone if it's true or if I just look emotionless all the time 😮😭😂

Is that a real song or just FJ singing?

@@rubyjulivre1136 I have the same question!

I want to know what song this is too??

This is the song used if you're wondering btw ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-VsF8pr6ORZU.html

@@mokki2048 thank you soooo much comrade!

Yes, I would love this loll.

What is Timmy's mbti anyway? And I second this request

@@bluejay7805 He must have got 50% in all of the functions on 16personalities... Then even that website's server went down because of Timmy..💀🤣

@@bluejay7805 I've guessed at ISFP before but who can tell. That Timmy is elusive...

YES

It's important to move on

I hope I can find my soulmate INFP, but mostly the INFP that I've met is only my best friends - from an ENFJ

You are living the INFP dream and I as an INFP I am so happy for you!!!!!

Omggg yesss!! That's exactly how it happened for me as well 💕 We INFPs love romantic, sweet things

If you get rejected plus ghosted be like: Hell is rlly hot and heavy ;-)

literally same with all my crushes. it's always that exact scenario

Same here 😢

Same, that's why I never confess my feelings to my romantic interests because of the fear of rejection and the awkwardness that comes after (especially the fact that all of my crushes are usually my close friends) but I'm glad that my girlfriend made the first move, if she didn't, we probably wouldn't be together rn lmao

that's so sweet of her, lucky you!

Niice

yeah same

@Farran Hill that's pretty much how i confessed lol.. direct and short: "you make me feel good, i like you."

So did the notes workout for u? lol

If anyone has watched the Chinese drama 'The Untamed', one of the characters is an INTJ - Lan Wangji. He is the epitome of INTJ

@@jennareynolds6424 Yes, I agree !

same...

Haha, I am afraid my imaginary romances are better than the real ones could ever be. So I am staying in my shell. Help...

@@Andrea-hc4mm I know, we all have these fantasies that could never come true, then when it comes to real love nothing will live up to our expectations

@@Andrea-hc4mm too relatable……

So, and now imagine hoping for that and being a straight passing tall gay guy. That's me. Fuck my life.

Well, truth to be told, it happened to me. I didn’t express my feelings to him, but yeah I liked him and never met him. But, when I knew how he looked like, I liked him no more. And ghosting him, 🤣🤣🤣. So, the INTP part is quite accurate

us intps gotta stick together yknow 👊 not in person of course but I’m here for ya in spirit

as a male intp neckbeard, i am hopeful that i find a VR girl who loves me

I'm ENTJ and I literally told my friend that I appreciate his existence. I think he got what I meant

As an enfp I can never be with someone who shows love in this way, but hope you find yourself a good partner

@@CamilaVanilla that is better, I have seen entj girls are very good at making the first move that is what I like the most about entp and entj girls

idk, this quote seems too fake and memes

hur dur I tolerate your existence, I'm batman *disappears

What happened after that? 😅

@@Cuteemogirl94 I texted him awhile after and he said “I don’t see our relationship moving forward atm” whatever the hell that means. (He did also say that what I said didn’t change how he viewed me). I just ignored that and took it as a no because I was trying to move on anyway. I was doing pretty good until around Christmas he was really flirty and I was very confused. At this point I’ve just decided that that’s his problem if he doesn’t know what he wants. Because I’m not really interested and want to move on. He’s a nice guy but immature and I do not have the mental stability to deal with that. I just wanna be friends and he doesn’t seem to know what he wants.

Haaaahaaaa, 👍

Sameeeeee

Same here

Same here

Same

You forgot ESTJ: Anger lol

INFJ here, I was just vibing to the music lol

INTJ: Black T - shirt

ENTJ: blazer

unfortunately, the only option is to get into a situation where not saying it is worse. Like, you start texting the roses are red, violets are blue thing, but then you say you love cookies instead. And then you feel bad so you feel obligated to tell them that you wee just kidding and that you love them. Disclaimer: I am not a therapist, my advice is probably terrible

@@kaboomgaming4255 I think it falls apart at TEXTING.

ITS SO TRUCKING TRUE OML I DID THE SAME SMHHH

@@patriciarose2342 Lol I texted my crush.. it was too late tho, but it could work!

@@liamsammon6123 I'm guessing your crush is a girl? Texting not so good 😉

It seems like a pattern w/INFJ guys :'( Do we just pick the absolute wrong type of girls to like or? T_T

F

Same

I should add it happened to me twice

Yep me too that's why I don't confess anymore

It literally is. I hate it.

I haven't talked to girls in forever so I can't relate :(

@@tubax926 but tubax you have agario and more!

every confession I intend to make begins with some kind of scene like that, good thing that I'm ace lol

Not only confessing feelings, but complementing too. I yelled my friend and crush at the time HEY YOU ARE CUTE and yelled back THANKS. And cry in the inside cuz she thought I was just messing up with her.

Same here. Haha. I've had people call me unapproachable and seemed like I was always in a foul mood, when really I was at a pretty neutral disposition towards them.

I've been told the exact same!

If you're neutral to someone, then you actually don't like them. But by "don't like" you meant 'dislike' which is not the same.

@@gabor6259 you are right but many people dont really make that distinction

I'm an INFP and I also used to get both of those. Some Fi types can have a bit of a disconnect between what they're feeling on the inside and what they're expressing on the outside. Sometimes this means we fail to outwardly express what we're feeling at all, and other times, it just seems to pour out raw and unfiltered. Whereas Fe types tend to have much more natural awareness of how they come off to others and do more modulating of how they express themselves. With time, I've developed that skill to some extent, but I used to be clueless about it.

That was so cute!

So true. But sure! Discuss it further and just be honest about where you're at. And if he confessed right after your breakup then he probably knows your recent breakup. All the best!

Why is this so adorable holy shit

As a felow ENFP, I think this might happen a lot to us. I have lliterally had my friends tell me that they knew I had just broken up but they felt as if they didn't tell me that someone else would get to me first.... So although sweet, it sets up a real issue with us.... My thought when I read this was... "IF you really knew me, then you would realize it takes me about a week to process that I need to do the dishes let alone how long it is going to take me to process my terrible break up... and now having to process even THIS... " I think because we have a hundred ideas we can throw out at people in an instant, they also think we can process our feelings that fast. So yeah, I have been there where if the timing was right, I may have started something with them or even tried but hopping from one relationship to the next is not at all what people in general need to do, let alone an ENFP, that can take a while to realize what reality we are living in. I have learned that I DONT tell ANYONE when I break up with someone.... let me process it.... AND THEN tell everyone.

this is absolutely how i am as an INTJ lmaoo

Tyyy

yes, quite lol

Next you're supposed to move on to picking on them in a joking way so they still feel singled out, stealing bits of their food when they're eating so they feel physical closeness, and figuring out some kind of deep topic they care about so you can have an intellectually stimulating debate with lots of eye contact. At least that's what I would expect. 🤔

As an enfp i can confirm this is true for me as well. Also love your username Edit: clarification

yes lmao

@@bluejay7805 it's what i would expect from an ENTP you'd be surprised what romantic blah blah feelers come up with

ENFJ with commitment issues agrees

I learned that INTJ women express their love for you by deleting your number and blocking you on all social media because you're a distraction from world domination.

@@FalconOfStorms I can relate to that! I also try to get more things done during the day and keep my mind busy to stop daydreaming.

@@FalconOfStorms i blocked my boyfriend a couple days ago bcz i can't tolerate myself wasting all this time. I really tried to stay but i couldn't handle the anxiety nd the remorse

@@haruka2802 what too many people realize unfortunately too late in life is that only relationships and truth matter in the long run. Without love, we have nothing.

@@FalconOfStorms idk Seraph the problem is that whenever i fee resentful of myself for giving passion a space in my life meanwhile I could hardly study or work, I put all my upset on my bf, or take a break from the relationship. I always be very toxic in relationships. I can't make a balance between my emotions nd my goals.

Fast forward a few years (decades) and the INTP may wake to their senses and do a background check

Fr

I am the ENTP, and this is our coping mechanism, hide behind jokes so they never know if you're being serious until they're being serious too

@@adwitiyapaul2831 same im that entp too we're both that entp :3 kokichi ouma noises

True too I'm an entp

I’m an INFP and can 100% relate to this

@@adwitiyapaul2831 samee

Dazaiii pfpp ~ INTJ

Ouch hurtful.

I'll try to get to know someone first as friends and only open up to them when im sure we are compatible. So far, my intj second mind, i mean heart (eww) only agree to open up to another intj. And that only happen once in my lifetime lol

You will. And you'll grow past this. You'll get hurt a bunch of times in the process, but it's a necessary part of the "human" experience. Until you've had your heart walked all over, you won't really understand the emotional references everyone else uses. The first one hurts like crazy, but it gets easier each time. Go out there, get rejected. Repeat until victory.

TRUE

yeah I also confirmed this as an ESFP :)

true 😭 i always wait until i don't like them anymore and then i say something like "hey, remember when we were in high school, i liked you back then!" and they always say i should have said something- oh, well 🙂

Can totally agree it's been nearly 5-6 years and I just can't say it

Guys I'm INFP too but like I can never stay that long and just shut up! Do something about it!

@@batoolewina8340 wish I can. I'm on my 6th year now still in love with this guy. Can't say anything since he's already in a relationship with someone and he seemed to be happy about it. ... Not to mention he's been my best friend for 6 years now so I feel like I'm risking a lot here

@@jinkurosana5546 I think you should try your best fo move on.. it's too late..if he broke up with her I think It's gonna be suitable..but Just you better stop wasting time! Move on darling! My best friend loved me for a while..we were bestfriends for over 4 years.. I refused because it was late! Timing is really important! Or just say it and nothing should matter!

Girl, I feel that -infp

I am an infp too and literally I've been in love with a girl for almost five years and just did what was in the video all the time till I decided to get away from her because it was getting quite toxic for me :) , thought I succeeded getting over her till I met her after almost 1 year again and now I'm fucked up

Was in love with a guy for about five years but I was never able to do anything because of my insecure self and doubting if he felt the same way despite so many people telling me that he probably had feelings for me aswell. The fact that he was a damn wreck of a person aswell didn't help either, because anytime we got something starting our anxiety would kick in, I would withdraw and he would go into an offensive state. It was on and off, high and extremely low but for some reason neither of us did anything to break that vicious cycle even tho we both knew how incredibly toxic that was. Last time we saw eachother something had again started to blossom between us and he was even taking some steps. It ended very abruptly and I haven't seen him for almost a year now. I still have feelings for him somewhere deep in my heart but I know it would have never worked and I have made my peace with it, it hurts less now than it did then. Oh boy did it hurt. Five years is a long time. Every time I think I spot him in the city or pass places he would be I pray that I don't see him yet at the same time something irrational in me wishes to get a glimpse of him and for him to see me too. In conclusion, as a very broken INFP, I need to take extra care to not get into this kind of hell hole again.

Why does this kind of story sound so familiar to me ? ~An other, other, other, other INFP

On the bright side you never looked stupid which is something i envy you INTJs for because my face says it all and it's embarrassing

I want his and my face to say it all but I guess it doesn't. The other thing is even if it did, I don't accept it until it is verbally said, like some sort of a declaration - An ENTJ who never likes to assume anything positive like that even if it's kinda obvious, I want to be thorough

Me too

👍🏻🥰

Try not to get catfished on Discord then:)

What's beluga? Also, first time getting catfished?

I can’t stop watching it 😂

Intp and Im slightly offended... But the first time I ever professed real feelings for, I did do it online.... But it was skype lol

Ik same!

Or rationalize it to the point where it disappears.

That is SO True

I'm INTP and do the same 😬

INTJ here, can confirm. Only true love was my childhood crush, everything else is LIES!

We pretend we don't.

It was the best one in my opinion.

🤣as an INTJ, that is definitely something I would say! Except, I've been single my whole life and I'm completely clueless to when people like me and therefore just assume no one does most of the time... but other than those factors, that's totally how I would respond 🤣

Sounds like you married a Vulcan!

As an INTJ, that makes perfect sense. You married a good one.