16 Personalities in a Waiting Room 

Great video, Frank! I'm a recent fan of yours, and I am a smidge obsessed with the MBTI 16 personalities now🤣. (Disclaimer this message is really long, I appreciate your patience.) I really would love your help with something though. I have a friend that I just can't seem to place in the personalities spectrum. (Obviously, I know that you have said before "everyone does everything" but I really want to understand his preferences) I've gotten close with this friend over the last several months and we used to have super lengthy (hours) conversations about all sorts of things. It's mostly him talking, me listening/commenting/asking questions. Last summer, we became friends when I noticed him stressing out about something (I'm a 100% ENFJ girl so I wanted to help) and he opened up to me about some issues he had dealt with (I'm gonna keep this as general and impersonal as possible, for his sake) which I completely related to. Anyway, fast forward, I encouraged him to be more confident in himself, and he's encouraged me to keep things prioritized and not "take things so seriously." (It was a very mutually beneficial friendship) He identifies as mostly introvert and a thinker (which I agree with) and the things we talk about are mostly abstract, (things like theology, end of the world, people's mindsets and beliefs, etc) He is super smart and I loved listening to him (he also would have internal conversations that I could plainly read on his face, which I found fascinating) However, about 3 months ago, something happened I guess he just kinda totally switched. We just small talk now, he will answer questions with the least amount of words as possible, he will be joking around with his friends one minute, then "disappear," go off by himself, airpods in ears, scrolling through his phone the next. When I try to strike up a deeper conversation, he just doesn't seem much interested. If I had to type him, he seems closest to ENTP/INTP (he's not super debating or nerdy though) As an ENFJ, I'm really disappointed that we aren't so close now. I want to know if there's anything I can do to be a good friend to him despite this change in character. Based on this information Frank, what is your best educated guess to his personality type? What other information could I give that might help you understand this better? Do you have any advice as to how I may be able to help or relate to him? (recently I've just been kinda leaving him alone, not reaching out as much since this happened, I hope I wasn't like, too much for him.) Anyway thank you so much. I appreciate any feedback you can give me. Sincerely, K.J.

Enjoy this time. You've got another 4 years to blame any mistake on "lack of sleep" from baby/young child and you get a free pass. It's lovely. :)

Damn Frank but at least ENFJ has a good fit Love, An ENFJ

How perfectly INFJ of you! 😉😎

We don't mind not wearing a name tag. 😉

and his physical health too lol

You just be an INTJ. You guys really enjoy any topic that centers around your genius.

@@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied Okay, rude. But can I deny it? No.

​@@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied It feels better than listening to your stupidity

Bruhhhh

I can relate to the coughing. Nothing is more annoying than someone spraying u with all sorts of bacteria without a care in the world. Like, do it away from other people.

me too

Same!

As an INTJ, I have learned to walk out due to excessive waiting. Watch out for Urgent Care Clinics that say an appointment is not required, when they actually are if you want to be seen.

This is me, when someone comes in ill and decides to spread the illness. When they should have stayed at home.

I think there's the ENFJ girl who can't watch RU-vid videos between the ISFJ wedding guy and the blue haired-ENFP (starting from 2:12), but the ENFJ tag is missing... 😜

@@8SaoriKatsu8 ahh I thought so! Thank you

Not all hero’s wear capes 🥺

oh wow thanks sherlock

🏆

yay another one

Yep, same.

Yes. Flawless.

Yes. As an INTJ woman I can 100% confirm this.

Yep

I don't think I have ever encountered an INTJ irl. But this one is so hilarious 🤣

Fr and what's worse is when they try to talk to you 💀 that's why I always sit far away from others.

It was especially funny for me, too! My son's INTJ and I'm INFJ.

The orange shirt guy was the esfj who was still trying to get their steps in, I think -INTJ

@@solangelo_shipper2630 Haha, I watched it again later and realized that. Thanks!😊

@@StephanieJeanne np, hope I didn't sound condescending....my Infj mom and enfp friend say that I tend to sound condescending a lot

@@solangelo_shipper2630 no, not at all. 😄✌️

and the fact that she was an estp , which is actually my brother, makes it soooo relatable to me

Same! 😂

Lol yup and that limit is like a light switch lol. Patient and compassionate to DONE!

Finally I met a fellow ISFJ! And as someone who has to deal with doctors a lot - yes it was frustrating but I dont wanna cause a scene though I've been waiting for like 4 hours and I have to be somewhere else by then 😂

@@maybeimurangel Exactlyyyy see you get it

@@Gjakdjruknownhpjslove you too -isfj

Wearing a nametag please! Love your videos - INFJ all the way!!

nametag! that way my eyes don't have to wander off the character to see the type.

The name tag, I know what to expect m

Name tags please

Name tag! I also really like the different looks for each type. The blue wig for ENFP is spot on!! I love yours vids and they’re always painfully accurate and funny as hell lol. - ENFP💕

@@otsoysyzfjztisyoxncxjgd9 YO I LOVE ENFPs y’all are like sentient rays of sunshine

Idk, feels unreasonable. Obviously they charge money to discourage people from messing up their schedules.

Haha...this is basically me (INTP) every time I'm stuck in a medical waiting room. The longer I wait the longer I have to ponder all the problems with the US Healthcare system. Then I move to systematically theorizing different solutions to said problems. Each hypothetical solution crumbles in the face of my own counter-arguments till I'm a puddle of cynicism. Then the Dr. sees me and treats my symptoms with a big-pharma cocktail. More often than not, I ignore the prescription and decide to let my body try a little harder at healing itself and vow never to return unless I need an ER. Then a few years pass and I forget. Process repeats.

I've had a similar conversation with a dentist. Since my appointment always starts 20 minutes late, I refuse to show up 15 minutes ahead. If I'm going to wait 30-40 minutes you need to stop scheduling more than one person for the same time slot. I think they thought I wasn't being serious.

as an INTP, I have almost all my appointments remotely. for those that cannot be done like this, I book at the times that are most inconvenient for others (broadly speaking) or in the first appointment slot of the day (they've not yet had time to fall behind if you're first XD). though, it seems to depend on the specialty or the location? where I used to live, appointments always started so late! like, literal hours. but I liked the doctor a lot. in my current location, it's usually been on time or 10-20 minutes late at most.

Not really his impersonations of Esfp’s are usually negative

​@@k513faialliance5really? interesting i have not notice that at all. Makes me wanna rewatch all ESFPs part

Agreed, I really empathise with their concerns.

He could have shown the same for INFJ! Catastrophizing about ourselves too adds a little extra spice to also feeling responsible for the other guy sitting there...

Man, I hate peeing part.

Tertiary Si is a rough I bet

The pee in the cup is my literal nightmare - INFP

They're spot on every time. It's probably because INFJ (Frank's type) is the INTJ's most similar type.

Believe me, as an INTJ, I know for a fact that the INTJ portrayed here was either plotting ways to threaten him, plotting ways to leave, or was forced there by a family member of friend and didn't want to see the doctor or be around people from the start. Most likely, the third option.

INTJ and ISTJ iss me 😂

I’m sorry

ISFJ BREAKOUT PERFORMANCE!!

My sister is an isfj. She hardly ever explodes, but when she does, she EXPLODES. Lol she’s the sweetest thing every tho

@@SweetJedi oh, yes! I know an ISFJ and they are usually so calm, caring, sweet people (though kinda impatient at times), but yes, when they explode, then they do EXPLODE, for real.

Haha, Ikr,spot on! 🤣🤣

Same. I’m an INFP and that’s pretty much how I am. Internalizing all those things and freaking out while looking outwardly calm haha

Hope it's the first of many this year, take care out there.

it will all be gr8, fellow infj this side #UneverWalkAlone

Lumos and Fe from someone your shadow type, aka me and my INFJ self May things be brighter!

You guys are so great and encouraging on this channel!! I'm taking heart and sending the love back to everyone!! It really really helps (medical & healthcare issues, perfect for this video!) 💕💕💕💕

Hope your year drastically improves 🌈-fellow enfp

Really 😭

IKR as an INFP I honestly resonated with INTP the most 😭😭

One of our strong points 😉

Same. Also mentally think the same and do that same 'INTJ glare' when also on public transport. But this just seems to make us more 'attractive' to people instead to sit next to and then chat to us. 🤨🙄

@@ankhmorporkgirl5317 Exactly it is so annoying...I've started to employ "taking a nap" bit, where I pretend to be asleep. They seem to respect a person napping more than the glare these days.

@@irienerd8178 I dont sit near anyone i just avoid the glares and non glares

@@liltay7628 I don't sit next to anyone either but somehow in an almost empty room someone will decide to sit right next to me instead of picking a seat far away...

@@irienerd8178 I guess you’re not as lucky as me,people avoid me like the plague and im last resort when it comes to seats

Pretty sure that’s his editor 😂

He seems cool and attractive

What’s your personality type ?

And some of those might be envious as hell and do all in their power to ruin that for you. (INFP here. On the dark side 👹)

This is actually brilliant.

I get the impression that the whole wedding thing was just a lie to guilt-trip the doctor into letting him in faster xD

Best line 🤣🤣🤣

Lol if I was in a bad mood I wouldn't even answer ESFP , even if there's only two of us in that room I would pretend like they're talking to someone else

as an intp, if it is not remote appointment, then I book in time slots that are most likely to have few people (like the middle of workday in the middle of the week) and I also go full "hermit has left home for first time in months" mode (aka headphones, hoodie, mask, sunglasses even). no one has attempted to talk to me yet. I don't think they have at least . . . there's a non-zero chance that people have attempted to and that I've totally missed it lol.

I find that pretending to mentally curse and then pretending inhuming said inconsiderate, thoughtless people, privately in my head instead works for me. INTJ

Yes,.....i just can't...., It'd be fine if it was just me in that waiting room...... sometimes i think i got ocd 🗿- INTJ

Wrong tactics. Don't fear it as a nightmare - be the nightmare. I'm just kidding. I'm reading something. Or I watch people and try to imagine why they might be there.

@@7XSubaru same, sometimes i just ended up questioning myself instead and blank out

This is my default facial expression (and reactions 0.58+) when dealing with irritating or nosey people. INTJ.

How much did they need? Never heard before that you gotta fill the entire cup.

It was ecen better when they wanted a n°2 to a cup but no blood in it please. It was hilarious because my problem was the bleeding. "I cannot do it, I bleed like constantly...!" "Please do your best!" It really helps if you treat all that medical - erm - adventure as a comic video. Works for me anyway.

Same. Hated it when that happened to me at an airport gate and some lady asked me to watch her carry on while she went to the restroom. They literally make announcements not to accept bags from strangers but I didn’t want to be a jerk.

My ESFJ friend is very enthusiastic about getting our steps in hehe.

I'm an ESFJ and lost 60 pounds from using my fitbit and the app to keep track of calories. I was obsessed with my steps for a while... so this had me laughing. Yet, I'm too self-conscious to do steps in a waiting room. My waiting room style is more like: "Why are you sitting so close to me in this empty room... get out of my bubble" (but I wouldn't want to hurt their feelings, so I wouldn't say anything to them), reading an entire book and/or beating several levels on a gaming app, and finally, "Oh my goodness, that person just coughed on me... are you kidding me??? Cover your cough... it's not that difficult. You learned that in Kindergarten, for crying out loud." (Also not said out loud because I don't want to embarrass them, or be mean... because I recognize and temper my tendency toward being overdramatic)... all while also being nervous about what the outcome of my appointment might be... I hate going to the doctor's office.

I second the motion!

Thank goodness they had cell service!

That emotional outburst but still keep it in ✨polite✨ manner is so her LOL 🤣 I need to send this to her.

Same. I pretend to mentally curse and then inhume people inside my head instead. To stop myself doing something 'unwise' to those annoying, inconsiderate, thoughtless and feckless people like this spreading their illness to others.

Glad you were still seeing animals during the pandemic 🤗. The restrictions were very hard for pets too 🐾🐾