I thought it was so painfully accurate! That was me (ENFP) with my INTP husband. I'd beg him to talk to me, but if he tried, it would be just things like "Do you know the latest news about Elon Musk?" 😭 I did quite badly in isolation with him, my hair started falling out... Thank God that it's all opening up again. I need my friends in order to stay mentally healthy!
I as an ISFP am someone who would rather live in the moment like an ISFJ so it would frustrate me listening to an ENFP and an INFP talk about creating an artistic interesting space outside the house but not act on it in the present tense.
@@sandradibiaso7316 My grandma is an ISFP. She's very particular about how things are in her house. She has family pictures all around the house, and pretty carpets and nice pillows and plants... Has a real nice vibe to it and she gets very angry when someone makes a mess or seemingly disrespects her house.
@@XenZartheFallen Same here! Our home is our sanctuary or our bedroom is our santuary or our art room is our sanctuary or being alone in nature is our sanctuary. Disrespecting our sanctuary is an absolute no no to us ISFPs.
I just wanna say: I love how you portray the ISFJs in your videos, because they don't follow the usual stereotype of us simply being obsessed with cooking, cleaning, and making sure they're liked by everyone. You really nail the ISFJs headspace, and as an ISFJ myself, I'm very grateful for this :) It's nice to see my type represented more thoughtfully
As an INFJ who effortlessly spent 21 days lockdown alone in a quarantine room with limited internet access, I can testify the portrayal in the video is spot on. Those were some of the most peaceful days of my life.
As an ENFP i felt that😂😂 me and my friend INFP discuss a lot about what we could do, but in reality we do absolutely nothing except for talking for hours 😂😂
I'm an ENFP with an INFP BFF, and this happens, but I do fully intend to scrimp and save, retire early, pay someone to build a cottage if he still wants one, slowly build up a food forest, and travel. With kids. I listened to the book Early Retirement Extreme, and now feel I can actually retire early. Not in 5 years like the author did and others can, because I'm going to start a family before then, but still sooner than most people. I still intend to work, of course, because I can do whatever I want for a job then. At the very least, I'll enjoy not being scared about meeting basic needs.
I'm an INFP and my father is an ENFP... ^^ But my mother ESTJ can't stand us anymore because she NEED to do in REAL LIFE things ! But with my INFJ best friend, we have appassionating conversations like that ! ❤
“you know you can actually... do it, right?” made me scream as an ISTJ! People talking about good ideas and then not wanting to actually make them ever happen drives me crazy.
The good idea was having the good idea! 😂 The point was to live it out in your head, where no problems ever come. In real life, there are details to hammer out, boring moments, and problems. The point was to have fun by IMAGINING having fun. I love how illogical this sounds. - ENFP
oh man I really feel for you... but at the same time I understand your family... is texting good enough for your Fe? if so, have you tried telling them to text you if they don't wanna talk face to face? I usually feel more comfortable talking with people when it's texting rather than face to face physical interaction. - Infp
Could have sworn the ESTJ discussion was going to be with an INFP lmao. My dad is an ESTJ (me an INFP) and growing up was a constant discussion of him being like "So what are you doing today? Let's make a plan!" and me just chillin coming up with ideas like "I'm hard at work in my own mind right now"
When you're an INFJ in lockdown with ENFJ. ENFJ "We have to stick to these rules ok! Rules are rules and they're in place to keep us and everyone safe! INFJ. "As long as were careful I'm sure we can have a small amount of wriggle room. I know absolutely everything, about everything so I know full well how can maintain an normalish life and stay safe" ENFJ "I don't care if you're my mother! You even open that front door and I'm reporting you" ... 2 hours later INFJ. "FGS you've had 15 minutes of my attention! Leave me alone! ENFJ "I'm crying" "I've hurt my toe" "My hair is falling out! I've got alapea! Why don't you care!" "The dog is sick! Hes slept of 6 more minutes than he did yesterday" "Mum I've signed you up to tinder! Let's look together! I'll choose the swipes though" "I've made cookies" "I'm putting friends on, if you don't come now you'll miss it" "I've subscribed to Disney plus, sky cinema, britbox, and a load of other crap I hate but you love so you can come and watch it with me" "Please! I'll watch classic doctor who, the history channel, discovery anything. I even promise not to ask questions ever 2 minutes! Only every 5 minutes tops! Right I'm going out and I've all my friends coming over later" INFJ. "People here? I'm moving out" We also have an INTJ in the house somewhere but we haven't seen her since 1st lockdown began.
@@dearkristin my ENFJ is 10 years older than my INTJ. Shes only 10 so hasn't actually done the test, but I swear I saw it engraved in her head at birth 😅. Its just a guess on my part.. there's nothing more bizarre than watching a teenager beg a toddler to play with her, and the toddler getting irritated by the invasion of privacy. Its usually the other way around. At the age of 10, and 20 nothing has really changed. If the INTJ doesn't want to play, the ENFJ will then start to purposely annoy her. Just for attention. You should definitely do 16 personalities as siblings. When the ENFJ was small I would always be like "please just give me 5 minutes peace" Me with INTJ "Please come and talk to me. Just for 5 minutes..
I absolutely LOVE the INFP-ENFP interaction XD I don't know what makes talking about ideas so fun and interesting, as if giving them life in my mind gives me a sense of accomplishment without going through the work of actually doing it 😅
I agree! This so so true and so dangerous that I found I must avoid telling others of my goals, or else when they get excited for me I'll feel satisfied and no longer feel I need to oush to do the goal.
As an INFJ, I actually did this :0 Put two posters up, one said 'Silence is Golden, Duct Tape is Silver' with a picture of an emoji with duct tape over its mouth.
Your videos are so authentic! Yes, yes, this is me exacly (an INFP)! Well, my roommate was INTJ during the lockdown, but we were just like this: planning and creativity: 10/10, implementation: 1/10. And I am so glad that someone shows INFPs as more communicative people than we are usually seen. We are introveted but we are not always totally closed and inaccessible, it's just difficult to get to know us deeply.
I just discovered this channel and already subscribed! At the beginning of this video I was just like an INFJ interacting with housemates? There's no way! And then I saw the last shot with the "do not disturb" sign and I just chuckled because I could relate!
"But that's not in the real world..." and other phrases to instantly alienate your ENTP. I swear, trying to debate with an ESTJ is like trying to push down a tree without tools. They root down on one point and then never budge regardless of what angle you approach from.
ENTP: I’m digging to much it to these but I’m bored so first I do creating massive stories in my head I hate myself for not writing them down and two I always or at least try to clean my mess I won’t clean your shit you clean your dishes if you use even a spoon you clean it I don’t care who you are I won’t wash yours and you won’t wash mine it’s a fair deal when I cook food I will clean them and you clean your plate when you cook you clean it simple and fair also I don’t openly discuss philosophy with random or people I know only when I feel comfortable or when I think it’s the right time to do so I keep my thoughts to myself
As an ENFP with an INFP sister I really loved this. 😂 Though there's an equal chance an ENFP might start the many household projects they've been intending to do for months. Keep in mind I said "starting"... not "finishing".
INFP here, and rather than ranting about how great you represent us, lemme just say I'm sure you've noticed I'm binging your videos and commenting on all of them. They're really good even without the MBTI context, and I can tell you put in a lot of time and effort making them. Thanks for all your hard work and please validate me.
I really like the idea of an INTP and ISTP who have never spoken to one another in their entire lives, but share a bond stronger than Talion and Celebrimbor. It just strikes me right in the smiles!
I think my sister is ENTP and I’m an ESTJ (confirmed). That clip I saw has happened in my actual life, with her. Although she was not writing a novel 😂
As an ENFP, I would love to actually do all the things, but I don't want to do the work to set up the things. Are there any SJ types that get excited about those kinds of ideas? I really need an SJ friend to take whatever practical steps are necessary to turn my ideas into a real thing. Like, decide on a date and time (because I'm somehow incapable of settling on some arbitrary time when there are so many different times that could work) buy and set up the canvases and speakers and get out the wine and then we can paint alllllll day. Don't worry, I'll venmo you for all the stuff as soon as I stop forgetting about it. -ENFP
As an INTP, I relate to the INTP, the ISTP, the INFJ, the ISFP, the ENTP, and slightly the ESTJ because I do my own dishes. Mostly the Ti doms and the ENTP though.
i don't know how many times i've come up with ideas of activities to someone who would mistake it for a concrete idea, until i tell them, that it "would" be cool, but i don't actually want to do it now, lol maybe later (hopefully until it's forgotten) lol it's the idea! not the action lol
Cannot relate! But I am proud to say that I finally understand this about Ne users!!! (It took me a long time to learn not to get disappointed when the idea wasn't actualised! :P ) It's so interesting how different we all are.
@@dearkristin i don't now why we do that though... sometimes when i suggest things, no where at any point do i intent to execute it, ever! lol i think it's pretty obvious that i'm an enfp by now lol yeah, i don't know how to explain it. my husband (intj) who has been with me for 11 years still can't understand why i'd suggest "activities". he being an intj, almost always disagree to do them until i tell him, "no, i'm just saying that it would be cool. i don't actually want to do it, relax lol" then his like "but why you even suggest it then?" "it's the idea! lol i don't know...! lol" husband stink-eyes me lol
I like having an ENFJ around when I am stuck in my introvertrd feeling dominant function like during relationship troubles but not when I am in a combined state of introverted feeling and extroverted sensing. I prefer to be alone when I am in my combined introverted feeling and extroverted sensing moments.
Well that would make sense! ENFJ's dominant function is Fe, and you said that yours is Fi, it's easier to get along with people who have the extroverted or introverted function. For example Ti-Te Fi- Fe Se- Si Ne-Ni. (and since I think you might be an ISFP just because of context clues your liking of the ENFJ would make sense, since your functions match. ISFP have Fi, Se, Ni, Te, and ENFJ's have Fe, Si, Ne, and Ti) I know that was probably boring and you didn't gain anything out of reading that but I thought it was funny how many dots connected there.
I grew up a strong ENFP then changed to a strong INFP (self awareness/depression) and am back to kind of in the middle between the two. Especially since the introvert change happened I have always had so many ideas and projects (good ones, really!) that I want to accomplish but I'm a horrible procrastinator. I have considerable talent when I do creative projects but there's a deep sense of fruitlessness that stifles working on things with any follow through. It's a complex cocktail of fear of ego, not deserving good stuff, fear of success, fear of failure, lack of motivation, what's the point, etc. Deep feelings have tended to drive me toward goals, working on things, in the past but I've felt flattened out for so long. Without an emotional drive, where's the impetus? Same about intimate relationships. A barren wasteland. Otherwise, life is pretty grand and steady. Anyway, I wonder if any of this is typical NFP psychology stuff.
I’m an isfp and my girlfriend is an infj and just like… it’s hilarious how our dynamic is, She tells me “you simultaneously make me feel like I’m not isolated but also like I’m still alone and recharging” and I tell her “your the only one who understands me and I will fallow you around for the rest of your life” we’re so chill we each other that we are in a poly relationship but never actually see anyone else lol
LMAO as an ISFP wish an ENFJ mum, this is so accurate. I had covid a couple weeks ago and had to isolate for a while, and it wasn't bad at all ngl. it's crazy how accurate that was haha
isfj and isfp gaming and painting, my two favorite hobbies. im in for those. isfj is right, why think about doing those things when you could...do the things. (intj)
HA My best friend is an ENFP and I'm an INFP. We so far have mentioned asking our moms if we can come over to each other's house twice in front of my ISFJ mom when she takes my bestie home from school. I wonder if she's been so confused as to why we talk about asking, and then don't XD
As an ENTP who is socially active and in the spotlight of every main event...everyone expected me to be brooking in disappoinment in the lockdown...but...I enjoyed it...time to be with me...loving myself...doing what I want...well...I have always done that...but...no people to always distract you...I am a bit selfish in socialization...when I want some fun...I am the first to party...if I have something to do(which I love doing...like learning new things...doing new things...blah blah) I am like...sorry society...you are rather petty right now...
As an ENFP your sketches are defiantly me 😂 especially this one. I have so many amazing ideas but never do them because I loose interest in favour of another amazing idea 😂 and then loose interest in that and then the cycle repeats.
Me the whole time trying to guess which one is me before the label comes up and going 'no, they're talking to much to/ spending too much time with other people'. Oh maybe I'm not in it *last three seconds* Damn! That's accurate, but feels like a burn! INFJ
Lockdown definitely wasn't as hard for me as it was for most folks, but that job situation was still pretty hard. At least I had the courage to sell most of my video games to make up for the net loss.
I was nodding my head and relating when the ENTP pointed out that they could be writing a novel in their head. I KNEW it was an ENTP when they suggested that ESTJ do the dishes since it bothered them. I've had this discussion about certain chores with an ISTJ countless times.
ENFP was on spot - I had the same exact discussion with my roommate to have a holiday at home - like with a deck chair and drinks and magazines Never did it, of course
