@@trinaq No no. The ISTJ noticed instantly (Si), and CHOSE to walk away. ESTP is way too much input for us to handle unless it's only 1-on-1 and in small doses.
@@somejoe7777 yep, ISTJ here. My dad's an ESTP and it's like trying to reason with a teen in a boomer's body. Utterly exhausting. Just the other day I was talking to my INTJ sister and we were joking about which personality type made us change sidewalks and I said ESTP with no hesitation. I am not trying to be malicious or anything, just the people that I personally had the most trouble getting along with turned out to be ESTPs. ESTPs are great though, we need more sensor solidarity.
ENFP: Compulsion to challenge emotional boundaries ENTP: Compulsion to challenge logical inconsistencies ESFP: Compulsion to challenge party poopers ESTP: Compulsion to challenge everyone and everything
INTJ: Compulsion to preserve evidence for an "I told you so" INTP: Compulsion to preserve evidence for an "I could have told you so, but you never asked that precise question"
That doesn't make logical sense, because... oh wait. Nope, yeah, I am doing it. But then again, I controlled the compulsion easily, so is it accurate? But here I am questioning it again, so I didn't really control it... So maybe you are right... or... are you? *queue Vsauce music*
@commentor four True, but with also tert Fe. We are quite adept at doing it without causing too many problems. Basically we master the way to question and call their BS, while not making them mad. Unlike the stereotypes. So blind Fi, makes us question everything. without having emotional connection to it, so we rarely have a bias in any discussion. It might be this ability of not taking it too seriously, and know when to back off due to Fe. But at the same time there is this compulsion, or a sort of trigger, when someone says something that seems illogicalor we know is not true. But Fe makes us really good at finding a way to say it. It is not sugar coating, mind you, More like knowing the specific way to approach something, depending on the person. If the person values a direct approach we are direct. To others, maybe sneak in some jokes works. For others, sneaking in some compliments or good things about what they said. There is this sort of experimentation we make with people to know how to treat them. So we become good at telling the truth, without creating emotional chaos, like Te users usually do.... Funnily enough, high Te users are so bad at dealing with people, and create emotional havoc everywhere they go... that there is a certain satisfaction in trolling them ,and giving them a taste of their own medicine, lmao.
@@farrex0 Vsauce, Michael here.... Seriously, I had a very similar inner monologue reading this comment. And you are bang-on about Blind Fi and Tertiary Fe. I think understanding this about ENTPs is key to understanding the type, even more than Ne/Ti, and the misunderstanding/ignorance of this is where most of the stereotypes come from (that and and over-emphasis on Se demon spectacle, which is actually crazy rare and unhealthy, but impressive and captivating, so it gets memed). -ENTP
As an ISTP with an ESTP/ESFP/ENFP friend group (they adopted me because I am the reasonable one, yet I laugh at *all* of their shenanigans), this is painfully accurate. Great work Kristin!
I'm curious what kinds of chinanigans! My dad is an ISTP, and he is also reasonable and mischievous. He'll break rules as long as it doesn't perfectly injure anybody. Not the best policy for safety, but he knows how to not let fear get in the way of climbing up a hill made of construction sand.
I just love that it's INTJ who swipes ESTP and that INFJ asks you to swipe her. The fact that it's so straight to the point for each of them represents ESTP so well. Great job !
INTJ swiping herself and the "Challenge accepted" thing with ESTJ was hilarious, as well as the ENFP ultimately getting the check from ESTP. ENFP have charm for everyone, sooner or later, you will have a soft spot for us :3 It's like a Ditto changing always into cuter Pokémon in order to you for picking it to your home :3
I love that you were able to highlight how Se Ti makes immediate judgments and doesn't look back... Apparently except for ENFPs! This was the perfect format for them haha
I laughed so hard at this scence, because as an INTJ my main problem on dating apps really is that I just swipe everyone away o.O I do that very efficiently though.
Concept + execution = hilarity ... Fun fact ... I'm pretty sure I have the Oxford History of the Classical World around here somewhere. So good choice. Thank you for not making it a book about computers, robots or gaming. 👍🏼👍🏼 An INTP
There is still one thing that bugs me a little about this kind of depiction though. We INTPs are not collectors of facts. We are gardeners. An encyclopedic fact is just a single seed, or maybe it's a splash of water, or a spoonful of fertilizer or a ray of sunlight. But we are not out to collect seeds in a bucket or to collect water in a pool. We want to use them to grow a big, lush forest; a forest of tall trees and sprawling bushes and beautiful flowers, which all interact with each other symbiotically as a great ecosystem. And we want to climb those tallest trees and look at the world from there. Seeds, water, and even botany tips may be gathered from books and conversations, but most of the actual gardening takes place inside our minds when we are “doing nothing”.
Hey youtube commenters! I just wanted to mention again that Kristin has a patreon goal that when she hits 500 patrons she's going to make "16 Personalities In A Musical." Let's make that happen! Even if you can't afford the lowest patreon tier, I'm sure a custom pledge of any size would help her achieve her goal of becoming a full time content creator. Even a dollar would help! So, if her content entertains you, or enriches your life in some way, please consider donating!
She is doing a Musical? She puts so much into this channel. Supergirl. Or whatever Marvel hero. She makes me laugh. That's important to me. I've been meaning to get on her paetron anyway. That's a yes! 😊💙🦋
Ok, you got me. I guess it takes an ESTP video to finally convince an ESTP to comment. Great work as always! My best friend’s an INFJ and they first got me into typology, but I ended up in the teacher’s spot explaining the cognitive stack to them a couple weeks later. Such are rabbit holes-once I’m in, I’m hooked. Through learning all this, I realized this friend (and my ENFP boyfriend, in fact!) help me grow my emotional blindspot. I’m still quite impatient (as this personality swiping can vouch for, I’m sure!) but progress is progress. ESTPs, find yourself a cool INFJ! You share a lot more in common than you think. And ENFP is completely accurate, LOL! Can you believe the ESTP is the responsible one of the relationship, cleaning up after a scatterbrained and beautifully insightful goofball? Cheers! And bless your days ^^
As an ENFP, I can definitely believe this. We might APPEAR to be the ones more compatible with society, but that's a facade hiding how much of a smoldering wreck we usually are.
Also, I love how every other type sees that the ENTJ is easy to trigger. They don’t see it themselves and think that everyone else is the one with the problem. I SO can’t wait to see the ENTJ goggles… 😈🤣
@@ekaterinakonovalova1377 You must be a little more secure than the ENTJ I know best (my dad). Admitting he has a problem, he’s wrong, or saying he’s sorry would burn the inside of his mouth. 😝
The whole 'through the eyes of' series is really creative, well done and always fun to watch. To be honest it's probably the series of videos that I get most excited to see on RU-vid
I had never considered the format you'd use for this "through the eyes," but it adds to the humor. I enjoy the interruptions and the use of the word "shenanigans." It's a wonderful word.
As an ISTP, I look up to ESTP's because they can do everything with people I cannot. But then they do it to me and I'm like, nah... But I totally enjoy watching them go!
As an INFP with an ESTP friend, can 100% concur, emotional philosophy and deep discussion is a huge miss (relative to other intuitives at least) but his take on social dynamics and interactions is something I find interesting yet somewhat too calculative. Although, we don’t really take it too seriously around each other. The common ground I’ve found with him is that I will more than happily join in on his antics and riff jokes off him. Ne-Si bouncing off Se-Ti is always a fun dynamic. I like to think I’m my funniest around him haha, and given the right Ne brainstorm, his Ti will 100% take off with it, and I get to amusedly watch his Se rapidly spin it into fruition
Oddly enough, I actually seem to get a lot of right swipes from ESTP guys, it's only after the initial conversation (if you could even call it that) do they notice I'm much more invested in the "Oxford History of the Classical World" than in them. Quality video as always 😂 - an INTP
@@grazynawolska8160ikr. After talking to istjs on the internet i fell in love, but in real life we barely came across each other 😅 idk a single one istj irl in my life - estp
The ENFP is so true! It’s the balance I have to get right with my brother- which hey I’m hilarious. It’s frustrating when he wants to move on in the physical though and doesn’t understand that i’m still exploring in the meta-physical of what his last observation was, and very much what is right in front of him. Where as I’m still talking about the links I want to explore and he doesn’t really understand that need. But me being a constant meme does get a fair few laughs out of him so job well done 😂 Also speaking as an ENFP- WE WILL LOVINGLY BREAK YOUR defences with our adorableness and endearing qualities and find a way into your hearts! Literally we will keep trying because we love people and just want to love you, and for you to love us! Also, I have a crushing fear of rejection so… please don’t swipe me away🥺😂 also idk where you get this idea that ENFP’s have a fear of rejection from and have to be rejected in the past by a lot of people from… but damn it’s so spot on, like maybe it’s the nature of the ENFP with Ne externalising all the thoughts that to others are weird and often dismissed with a lot of people not giving us a chance. And that Fi need to belong and never fully feeling like we do.
AGHHH I know, right? I never quite realized it myself, but now that i think about it, i REALLY cannot handle being 'swiped' and often try to find a way to get attention. like, seriously, i often 'adapt' into personalities so i stay in their eyes 😬
@@RavenStrawman awww I love that sm :D We ENFP’s truly have a talent for the positivity and optimism and getting pure joy out of life! Like life has so many amazing possibilities and wonders to explore and to me it’s endless and it just gives me life! (Also couldn’t be me considering earlier being an INFP- because I’m not really a loud busy social event person. Then again I spent all night last night at a formal event with people I’d met 20 mins before it started and had a great time but I was tried because I was just not feeling like I was being my most authentic self and like they were fun and lovely people I just didn’t really fit in with the group) then left before the disco then sat with the night staff who were a lot more more crowd and talked with them for like 2 hours, and they were so lovely and greta to talk to (always got along better with people older than me than kids my own age- probably because I just feel like I’m more emotionally mature than other people- but I’m a contraction because I am very childlike just a different kind to the emotional and immaturity of people my age if that makes sense?)
If you had a strange gut feeling for a split-second that something sinister, ominous or "this doesn't feel good" stuff is about to go down, before you even saw the punchline of that sketch or the label INTJ appeared... it's because of the lighting. Well played Kristin with the under-lighting to set up the mood!
As an ISFP with an ESTP for a sister, the ISFP would only have to put on hiking boots or swimming gear or a dancing dress -- some type of adventure garb -- to get a completely different result! The Ti and Fi do have potential to clash, but focus on the Se experience-craving traits instead, and you've got a major compatibility factor! Pack snacks and provide aesthetic enhancements for extra points. Final evidence to prove there is great potential in this pairing: I know a VERY happily married ESTP-ISFP couple. Nonetheless, it was funny for the skit, and I'll admit I do enjoy making my sister cringe by speaking exaggeratedly about my FEELINGSSSS.... 🤣
I heart your comment. ~ISFP ❤️ I love that you have common ground with your sister. I wonder if my sister is too? She doesn’t like it if I cry, she will get mad or lose phone reception. 😂
ESTP here married to an ISFP… while Ti-Fi can be a clashing point, I think if both people are mature and make en effort to understand each other, then it’s not that big of a deal.
Damn the INTJ/INFJ So accurate. It is an hard way sometimes to connect with them on personal ways. Yeah, its the very akward moment, when you know that, maybe you would be great together but you see the world in different ways. I know 3 of them, and they are those people i really like to start talk to them, cause you can try your "Smalltalk" and "useless Talks" Talkskill with them, and they would not judge you as hard, just want to have a great time. But i respect them, and i like them in a higher level more then ESTJ
I definitely find that true with the INFJ. My cousin tested INFJ and it makes sense to me because she is really cryptic. In contrast she was shocked and amused watching me (INFP) randomly chatting someone up in the bathroom line. (Remember, “introvert” need not mean “misanthrope”; it just means we need to recharge alone. 😂) INTJs…we’d probably connect a little quicker because we both have the Fi/Te functions. And ESTJs…people are so unnecessarily scared of them. My mom is one and she’s a nice person. My boss is a more intense ESTJ and we get along great too. -INFP
As an INFJ it is intriguing to get your perspective. I'm not a fan of small talk generally speaking. I like get into deep and interesting conversations, but I have a tendency to rein myself in sometimes if I think the other person might be getting bored or think I'm weird or something...
@@carolinethompson376 Yeah, i (INTJ) hate smalltalk like poison, but most of the people arround me have an attention span of an fly and i see that they are scared if they need to talk about private things or they own oppinion on things that are important for humanity. But i understand the need of it for the future (Soon i start an education to an social educator). And is it a need to lear, to get better along with the others. And if you realise, you see that you can learn from everybody, and see yourself new connections. Your Ni mayby can use those things, to get more better solutions.
@@nerysghemor5781 I am an INFJ, and I will randomly chat with someone in a bathroom line. I think that is partly because of my Midwestern US upbringing, and partly because of my tendency to pick up on other people's emotions, and subsequent need to help those having a bad day if I can, even if it's a little thing like telling them that "I love your glasses frames - that is such a cool design!" - because everyone deserves to feel unique and that their choices are valued, and little pick me ups can sometimes really help. Though if the interaction gets too extended, after I get out of the bathroom I have to find somewhere to hide for a few minutes so I can recover the mental energy it took!
Well for intj... if you check in on them regularly you'll eventually become a friend. Intjs value people who value them and check on their well being. As for conversation... respect their need to express future and possible ideas and their "read" on people. That's pretty much it. We want reliable people i our lives we can talk to who won't suppress our Ni-Te way of expressing ideas.
My best friend is an ESTP and we’ve been through a rebel phase in our high school together. All the teachers were in tears and dreamed for us both to finish the school, lol. ENTP
Wine and a 24 pack are the only things to keep an ESTP's attention, as well as having someone to laugh at their shenagians. ISTP and ESTP are the best wingmans for each other.
@@scilines What I meant was that the date's not going anywhere a date is designed to go. Not that the activity itself would be a waste of time. Totally agree with you!
@@scilines My best man (Also an ENTP) and I almost ruined my wedding over this kind of thing. My fiancé told me that her mom and sister (her maid of honor) had this delusion that he was into my future sister-in-law and was trying to "Get with her." The truth, plain as day, was that she annoyed the hell out of him and whatever he was doing/saying to cope with it during the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner was being hilariously miss-interpreted. I couldn't help but tell him, it was too funny (also, I kinda wanted to see what he'd do). I had to threaten his life, but I think we both showed incredible restraint, all things considered. Luckily, my wife is an ENFP and thought the whole thing was a laugh riot (but if her mom went off during the ceremony or reception, she'd have killed me).
I’m an estj in a relationship with an estp. Everyday it’s just that. A competition…a challenge He keeps me on my toes and I’ve learned to manage my anger and not to expect anything. To be honest…if he gets clingy…I know he screwed up something and he “expects” me to fix it. And if he’s not clingy which is 98% of the time… I get my free space and I can work happily. Surprisingly our relationship works. He told me he is going to marry me. I laughed and said for what? He said just so I know he’s committed and that is one hell of a thing for him to do because he is NOT a commitment kind of guy. He even gave me a ring. Buuut let’s see. I am in NO rush. I give him space.. he works and I’m just thankful for that. That he works and gets a paycheck. And I set it up that 40% gets banked and he can’t touch it. Really thankful for that. So his bills get paid on time. But he is VERY capable of gambling that money away or giving it away. The other good part is I don’t get jealous if he talks to other women. And I think that was what kept him around. He rather spend time with the guys than waste time spending it with women that he knows will probably want a relationship with him. I KNOW he has frequented strip clubs with his friends. I KNOW it. I’m not an idiot. And he flirts. People question our relationship and surprisingly he tells them all to shut up. And it’s none of their business. I also know he would cross hell for me if something happened to me. Yeah somehow our relationship works. How? I dunno it just does.
Hahahahaha, I love how you arranged his finances for him!!!! That is so perfect! My parents are Te-doms and thank goodness, because I’ve heard a lot of other INFPs are bad with money. I have my moments but because I learned a lot from my parents I generally don’t manage to do anything TOO bad. -INFP
@@yeaesthetics3195 going strong. Been with him for 3 and half years now! Getting married in December. He’s literally my favorite person. I love him as much as I love my parents.
Brilliant format for the ESTP, ideal! At first I was like "probably gonna be interesting, but not my type (therefore I'll struggle to relate and consequently not find as much humour)", however I left the end laughing my head off🤣
ESTPs seem to be either phenomenal mesmerizing nearly-super-human Se machines or entirely self-inflating hot air hype. Two seconds is a pretty reasonable amount of time to figure out which category to put one in. I appreciate their efficiency. -intj
As an ENTJ I have to admit that ESTPs are the only ones that don't make me feel at ease. To be clear: I don't fear ANYBODY in a one on one, but they are really good at owning people's favour (which is extremely annoying cause they can be SO confident about something wrong, yet people won't understand it) and they have a slight advantage in terms of physical challenges, combined with the ability of not caring about consequences (basically dangerous, disturbing elements)
ESTP's loooooooove traditional ISFJ's. It's one of the most common pairings. ESTP's value loyalty, and ISFJ's stay in place, never have eyes for anyone else, and patiently deal with the ESTP's shenanigans.
This is my favorite MBTI series on RU-vid. I’m always wondering what everyone’s point of view and perspective on other personalities are. As an ISFP, I can better understand why some personalities don’t like me or why they would... Much better than a tarot reading filling in the mystery of, “Why are they acting like that?!?” 😂
The funny thing is my dad is an ESTP and I am an INTJ. We basically made each other so mad when we were together, that it literally took the Almighty for us to understand each other. Humor is also a good tool with this combo.
It's so on point. My friend ESTP became former when she told me that every friend of her had a function. One suppose to make her laugh, another to cook for her...
My roommates while I was dorming were ESTPs. It was hard for me to accept that “what I saw is what I got”, likewise they’d erroneously make assumptions about me in order to make up for the whole mysteriousness. All we ever did was drink and go to the gym and I hated it. INFJ btw
Omg ok I can’t believe I didn’t catch this the first time round. But omg the Brad-Becky storyline continues in the captions (“The last time you broke my heart Into a million pieces”). Love this continuation of the DKCU!
Okay this is spot on, my main character in the comic series I’m working on is an ESTP and this is exactly how she views certain types. However her main love interest is an INFP, but it does take some time. Love your videos! The ENFP is perfect as well (my type).
This is flawless, especially the 3 seconds where you think it's going really great with the ENTP until they pull the existential crisis on you and the ENFP that wins your heart through sheer perseverance. - ESTP
What happens when the INTJ _is_ impressed in the two seconds? I’ll give you an example. I’m taking an Arabic class as a way of boosting my skills since I’ve already studied it on my own. I’ve been doing it for some personal goals. An ESTP is in my class. The first time I talked to him outside of the class, he revealed that he is also taking Greek but he’s taking Arabic "for fun." I was immediately impressed. I have reasons to believe that I impress _him_. Now what? IDK 🤷🏻♀
My experience with ESTPs has usually been them saying something like “Yeah, this guy’s kind of pretentious, but he’s kind of chill. Ehh…I guess we can hang out.” 💀💀💀 - INFJ
The ENTJ one is so accurate!! My youngest brother is an ESTP and anything he does basically triggers my other ENTJ brother, be it either intentionally or unintentionally 😂
They really are easy to trigger! A lot more so than ESTJs. And all the while they insist it’s the rest of the world that has the problem with being thin-skinned!!!! 🤣 (If you REALLY want to trigger an ENTJ, try pointing out any time they have a double standard. That will result in a tantrum guaranteed.) -INFP
@@Scruffed At least a lot of the INTPs I’ve met, we’ve had similar interests in science, technology, philosophy or at the minimum you have topics I would FAR rather listen to than pop culture stuff that I don’t pay attention to. (And are less likely to get bored with the esoteric stuff I like to discuss, too, than some types.)
OMW Kristin!!! Your videos are getting so phenomenal--and they already were to begin with!!! Thank you so much for putting this content out every week! I just want to say, you NAIL the ENFP every. Single. Time. XD (But especially in this video!) Thanks so much again! --ENFP
My two oldest sons are ISTJ and ESTP. It’s amazing how different they are but they are both insanely brilliant. I’m ENTP and it’s sort of fun trying to mediate as their dad 😎👍🏼
Yeah, ENFP are the only type my INTJ brain says in the first moment "You need to get your ass up, this person will be the best one to growth and have fun".
Brave of you to assume INFJs even _Have_ a "True Self"... I love these videos though, you're always very creative, not only with what they other types say, but also with the "style" of video. It's very fitting to the type, so I'm always really happy to see this series on your channel 😁
im intp and they usually, if not, always associate/portray us with gaming/laughing at memes and being tech geniuses etc., when im not interested in those things... then i saw intp kristin reading that exact book (0:02) which is actually one of the many (random and useless) topics im interested in so that was nice lmao
@@runningfromabear8354 Honestly yes, I have my own comfort zone that I made for myself with blood, sweat, and tears. Anyone who can't respect those boundaries is out.
I have been waitng that video for so long. You are analyzing and act Se best in RU-vid. And swiping introverts is most related thing to me in all your videos 😂
ESTP here. You so nailed it with these. The ENTJ isn't an easy one to see but it's perfect. I am usually rather smitten with ISFPs. ESTPs really can't be hippies, but we might be oddly hippie-adjacent. ISFPs OTOH seem to be happy living in a car and collecting wildflowers. Listen to Sublime's somewhat satirical version of Scarlet Begonias for an explanation. 😂 All of that said I really never feel like I have any way to connect with an ISFP. Like, seriously. How do you connect with one?
i love this series so much! the way you change the format of each one to fit how that type sees the world is the perfect mixture of hilarious and interesting!
Friday Confessions: Your videos are top notch fascinating, funny, and I learn so much....but....occasionally I am so distracted by trying to figure out how you did your perfect eye makeup that I miss parts of the video. 🤣 Someday you should do a makeup tutorial and save me from my SE obsessions. 😅 -ENFJ
