so I have a question I have an issue, so F I’m going to work to make the money I’m a truck driver and I’m doing the dishes and I’m taking out the trash while she goes out with her friends and all of her other family throughout the week when she’s not working then she comes back and smokes and goes to sleep saying she’s tired where does that make my position because I’m having a very hard time with the woman I’m in this relationship with and she wants to be married but she puts in less than 10% and I’m putting in 90 and I work 12 hour shifts. She doesn’t clean she barely cooks. I do work at night so I do understand that she doesn’t cook for me, but she doesn’t do the dishes where does that make my position because I’m having a very hard time with the woman I’m in this relationship with and she wants to be married but she puts in less than 10% and I’m putting in 90 and I work 12 hour shifts. She doesn’t clean she barely cooks. I do work at night so I do understand that she doesn’t cook for me, but she doesn’t do the dishes she doesn’t take out the trash. She literally does nothing but work go out but yet she wants to be married but she’ll get on to me if I don’t get into a lane drive in I am pretty quiet. I do think a lot but arguments end up being started when I do think she thinks I’m upset and I tried to say multiple times I’m not, but she keeps poking and poking and poking until eventually I do become pissed off because after a long day of work, I do all the chores to go to sleep just to wake up to do more chores and then get ready for work and go to work and then that’s the same thing over and over and over, I’ve became quite tired of it not even the slightest bit of help and she likes to bartend and she doesn’t make any money so now I’m paying for everything she can pay for and I told her if her job doesn’t make dollars it does not make sense, but all of this is dragging me down. I can’t do anything. I have no help for anything. and it is quite depressing when she throws in my face. This is your place. If you want something clean you do it yourself to me that doesn’t seem like somebody that wants to be married now somebody please correct me if I’m wrong, but it seems like no matter how much effort or how much money I spend to make sure she has a roof over her head or hell even food in her stomach. It’s not good enough, she paints this image of me she sees on reality TV shows the romantic part the part that’s not really realistic and I’m not a romantic person I can be, but she hasn’t really gave me a reason to be.
Antonio, thanks a lot for taking your time to listen to Dr Otabil. In every relationship, there are ups and downs. The easiest way to have the issues you’ve raised in your comment is to understand each other and set your priorities right. Your wife to be has to understand her role in the relationship and you as well. It takes two to “tango”. I understand what you’re going through and it’s not easy at all. It will take the two of you to patch the cracks in your relationship. I prescribe this video for you and your wife to be ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-yCRvN8N9dEg.html
