Sad. I'm so sorry. I can relate. That's what mine did. Always talking about the girlfriends that rejected him. I'm wishing now I was one of those girlfriends that rejected him instead of marrying him. It's been hell since I discovered who he really is and am going through a horrific divorce.
You have helped me so much. I was 72 when I left my husband. One day I decided whatever time I had left on this earth was going to be peaceful. He can’t believe I did this.
Thats a beautiful thought. And really inspiring and motivational. ❤🙏🏻 It doesnt matter what happened. I decide from this second, I shall never ever suffer again.
Hey guys, this scripture reminds me of a question I have: I have been a victim of deception when it comes to girlfriends/deception. I also had a mom who was a narcissist. I'm christian, and it is embarrassing. But what scriptures are there available for me to stand on re: deception? And what can I do, practically, to overcome deception?
my father was physically n mentally n emotionally abusive to both me n my mother. my mom endured it for 10yrs but u know what he applied for divorce. thinking my mother would beg. but guess what we were donne with his bs. we accepted the courts order for acceptance of divorce n the minute he got to know he came begging me n my mother tried so hard to pursue back to that hell again. but we stood strong . after fighting court battle n healing from the ptsd we are finally healing after 14yrs.
I agree a million percent I left the narc I married after I have gone no contact for almost a year he is reaching out so many times me i. remain silent forever I refuse to deal with him in anyway
if you were a grade A top-flight supply that provided something that the narcissist cannot replace either easily or at all, the narcissist will definitely not forget you. cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
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I recently ended a relationship with a narcissist. Since then he has been trying to contact me and recently he even wrote in an e-mail that he "dreamed about me". Bloody hell... The guy was my client for 7 years. I've been running a tattoo parlor for the same amount of time. Last year I realized that he was no longer my client but a parasite who intimidated me, came to tell me his pathological life stories and gave vent to his sadistic fantasies. When I discovered it, I started observing it and after a year and a half I managed to get out of this sick system and dependence.. Now he is trying to contact me outside of my professional life by e-mail because I switch of my business Phone to get rid of him and others. Thanks Danish! You have helped many people, you probably don't even know how many...
Luke 12:53 NLT Father will be divided against son and son against father; mother against daughter and daughter against mother; and mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.
Was lookin for this comment n now ain’t gotta type it. It explains the constant bitch face I had to stare at for 6 yrs. Now I know what was on her mind it’s what I speculated all along
Yes exactly. He was keeping in contact with ALL the ex's and non ex's. Over 30 women he would text/call in our first 5 months together including the wife I thought was the ex wife! Smh
I'm srilankan and my husband is a narcissist I'm suffering 13years toxic marriage life Ur videos very very useful But one problem is I can't understand English words fully I knw little so always I asking others to help me translate to tamil but no one is helping me Now I'm joined spoken English class bcz for I wanna improve my English knowledge
Just because people are flawed doesn't mean you should give up on them. I keep my distance from people that are self destructive, if your going down, I'm stepping out of your way, because I don't want to get dragged down too.
yeah, this is why my narcissistic dad keeps bringing up my exes (from 5+ years from the past) to me as if I wanted to hear anything about them. I am aroace and I have 0 interest in relationships or men, but he doesn't believe it and thinks that 'deep down I want them". he never forgets his exes and always sees them as a 'canned supply', and he thinks everyone does the same! That's horrifying
Thank you! He tried to destroy my child. My child is thriving. You learn their game and learn to play it better. Now he has the government after him for fraud. It’s all in timing. I’m glad he can’t forget me! Lol!!!
I just got able to disassociate myself with the ex narc that I was with. This video gives the impression that the ex narc want to come back and that is a nightmare.
I'm never sure if my husbands a narcissistic, he's controlling but not isolating, he liked it his way..after 30 yrs it ended and i know he was hoping / thought he would replace me immediately , but he cant, because I now realise he trained me up for 30yrs..he wants me back 5 yrs later..
He keeps on sending me emails that he loves me and he’s sorry but I know in my heart I see right through his energy. I know he resents me and he hates me and how could somebody love you when they’re acting the way that they act it’s all bullshit and it’s a fucking phony lie.
I still often think about suicide because of my narcissistic ex-partner (due to the flashbacks mostly), but this video of yours reminded me of the way she behaved towards me and other people when my brother helped me implement no contact with her. Thank you so much, as I believe it is helpful to reiterate or learn about certain mechanics to facilitate the healing process of narcissistic abuse.
I'm exactly the person you're talking about. The coward keeps leaving me a message morning and night in my social media account. I'm sick of him. Ignoring him and everything.
Look right they have so many victims even if they don’t forget you you’re just one of many people that they think about consistently probably on some type of cycle And if you search to see if the person still thinks about you and that’s how you got to this video you are still the problem you still have some sort of attachment to somebody who you have already identified is a narcissist even if they still think about you who cares and they’re going to change their behaviour is going to become a better person for you and they’re gonna stop future faking are they gonna stop lying are they gonna stop manipulating you know keep it pushing guys
I did research before I presented her initial lie to her less than two months ago. I asked her a simple question-she lied-I asked her a follow up question-not only did she lie-she actually sent a photo. Then I was fed up and didn’t argue-I told her I’m not playing any games became silent and then finally admitted the truth. But my problem was the argument we had 2 months ago that she lied then-then the bword said it was a surprise. For the 1st time I told her that I hate her and she felt it. This is her 7th lie-and I finally got the courage to leave and let her know I talk to other ppl.
Your videos are good and always on point all this things you said I did that to people I notice as narcissist it’s perfectly work well for me , it’s good for person to be educated and smart enough to bit them on there evil games thanks for the video 👍
If they try to call you or start up things again. RUN 100% from them, don’t fall for anything, JUST be nice and brief and do not talk with them or allow them to contact you again. Be nice and fast my tell them you have to do something urgent. Don’t play the game and don’t think you can be nice and talk with any depth, just 10 seconds be nice, say you have to go and get the Fllllllk away and stay away and avoid any of their friends or any places they might show up. If you work with one, oh you have issues, if they are family oh that sucks. Watch these viedeos and pray pray and learn from Denish
Our relationship was not long, but I assume I was great supply I caught on early to his game, his lies and manipulation and I played him! I just walked away, went no contact I hope I'm a burning scorch in his soul if he had one. And he remembers me for it.
Well i tool a stand and exposed but didnt disappear afterwards... Stayed cause i felt that i coulndt leave cause i didnt want to give up on her. She constantly took shots at me passively aggressively saying things she knew would get a reaction out of me that others woulnt notice on a surface level and i kept slipping and reacting. Doing things i normally wouldnt do. After getting enough evidence to use against me she used it against me to save face with her family. Next thing i know i wake up and im blocked by everyone but the brother. I wish i had this knowledge before.
Interesting because for the past few days I had dream about him not sure what that's about because it's been 7 months no contact I wonder 🤔 what that dream is about
They are always trying to find a way to get back when i divorced him and he remarried while i was healing from his madness, and he never left me alone i had to keep him out and still he would cry to my kids and use them as flying monkeys so i had to distance my self from them, he is still attached to some of my relatives and have used them to get back until i was healed he would come and bother me
I was always there for him and we talked a lot I do have the things he was pleased with I babied him I was always up in the night when he so called needed me. and so on I was always there for him.... But I left now so it is his call now :)
He can't forget his ex, phone calling and talking with her every day while he is living with me. I am ready to walk away no contact. Do you think he will keep thinking his ex or me?
I wish i could forget that i ever met them i forgive them but i never allow them into my life again sign Cynthia Smith these people are led by a evil spirit sometimes we are to good to the wrong people
Since they have various sources of supply it makes sense that they think about all their sources. LOL. Unless there is a special source of supply - the one and only.
Omg. I'm right where you are at. My narcissistic mother is dying. My sister has mum under her control. It's a multidimensional horror story. I don't feel I will ever completely recover
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I hope my ex covert sociopath forgets I ever existed infinity! Crazy makers at its finest. Count me out!😳👈🏻 liars, thief’s and con artists, zero doubt about it👈🏻👹👈🏻
That tilte is your tell. Ever cinsider that people are unique sould that are irreplaceable and unforgettable ? The majority of "normal" and even worse, "nice" people only care about themselves and see others as commodities for their personal pleasure and entertainment. If they were honest , most people would admit this. That being said, these "commodities" are seen as interchangeable and replaceable. On the other hand, someone who doesnt see things that way is now considered "not normal" or as having "unhealthy attachment". It is a bit sickening. Why do you think there is such a lack of communion on the planet despite the facade and fanfare ? Live and even loyalty are considered commodities. Let me explain at least about loyalty. It is not a commodity and the nature of loyalty is that if you no longer have it, you never had it. Your views and position deem you an untrustworthy person by definition.
If you leave them, they have no closure, they may have won battles but you won the war that they started. You will always be remembered as the challenge that got away. Freedom, yeah!
Thank you, had 53yrs of marriage with a narcissist, he left me as I stood up to him. I broke him after all those years of being controlled and put down by him.
@@amankhandelwal7386 it has a deeper meaning than what it looks like on a surface level. We do not face what we haven't made others face in past lives. And to understand the other side we take birth and experience how it feels like on the receiving end. That way your soul experiences the full cycle of yin and yang. When your cycle is completed, you stand up for yourself and break that equation.
Be careful with that though. You actually can't get through to them. That is the point. You literally never will. Kill the hope and truly move on. Hoping or having any thoughts about whether you got through to them means you are still vulnerable to them. They are not capable of being reached.
I’m going to didn’t, I left my marriage after 29 years and 3 months. I’m 4 years out and going through a divorce because he keeps getting it held over. Just last month he called and asked me to work on our marriage and cancel our divorce. If you’re only 35 days free it’s because he’s giving you breathing room while he decides how to work you over in a nice way to get you back! I’m sorry but that’s the truth.
Hey Danish! I resonate the most with the triangulation. My ex kept comparing me with his ex wife! I also stopped talking with my narcissistic mother, even tho I loved her so much! Thank you for everything ❤❤❤
No, they knows us very well, very well from other people. They know they can mess up with us because we are empaths. Narcissists hunt for empaths, good hearted, ambitious, intelligent and strong people. How could we become a narcissist supply if a narcissist doesn't knows us. A narcissist wants to ruin our life because this asshole knows that what we can achieve. A narcissist never let us live alone & freely because he knows that once we get independent, we can easily show them his place. So in my opinion, narcissists know us way better than any other people.
Good!! My ex will never find someone like me!!! That's why he steals our mail so he can control what we get and see what is coming!! My ex NEVER EVER thought I would leave......I planned it and my son saved me!!! I told my ex that the WORLD will figure him out someday!!! His new supply has no clue and I'm happy it's not me anymore!! I can relate to all your posts!!
@user-pg8jj6cs9c save your cash and invest in a safe P.O Box address and fillout a Change of Address for all your mail ! Stealing your mail is a felony ! He could go to jail for a long time for that alone. Stop trusting anything and be smart . Go silent and keep your private life private !
If one of your parent is a narcisist, they'll never forget you. My narc demon father is still doing the same things he used to do when I couldnt even think for myself: order someone to do black magic on me and badmouth me behind my back. I still get shocked when I get to talk to random relatives and they tell me. I can just pray for justice. I want justice before dying. My entire life has been so fked up. The worst is when you get out of abuse and start healing, the first thing you realize and see and feel is the damage done to you. The most painful thing about healing. I just fking want justice.
Justice will come, one way or the other, in this life or the other, whether you see it or not. Focus on healing and being happy. Enjoy all your achievements!
@@vaninaredondi9580 Thank you. I firmly believe in justice. And yes, I value the other advise as well to not sit and wait for justice and waste time, energy and hope, yearning for justice. But I believe in justice. There is a God in charge, who is the eternal witness and he makes things right.
#2 ~ I dumped him with a big fat door slam. Good riddance. I have no feelings for him whatsoever. The last thing he did was to drive my car 92 miles per hour down a very busy highway at night. We were taking my dog to an Emergency Vet, an hour from my home. That was the final straw. It took everything I had not to react. I went No Contact. He's still driving by my house. Fool. Came to the house on my birthday and kept knocking but I didn't answer. He sat in my driveway and then in front of the house for several hours. He honked the horn of his car, but I could hear that he hadn't gone. He left a gift and the funniest card I've ever received. It wasn't meant to be funny, it was meant to manipulate me into calling and thanking him. I'm sure he thought he was slick. But I've always been able to see right through him. It used to freak him out. He wasn't used to someone who stood firm in her boundaries and would call him out on his BS. We were only together 6 months. During that time I had Covid twice and three autoimmune flares. It feels so good to be free.
Sounds almost like you are describing my year with a narcissist. He even tried to use money to hoover me back in. But gosh, the answer was a firm no!! Blessings to you!
@@sheilakaye9705 Glad you escaped!! He abducted my 21 year old cat and dumped her 27 minutes from home. Just got her back! She was gone four months and 10 days. Stay free! Be happy!!!
I am going to simplify the reason why a narcissist won't forget you it's because you are still standing you haven't been totally and utterly destroyed so some of the narcissist will obsess about you because they want you to be of no use to your self that's how truly truly evil narcissist are.never ever forget it's the actual devil who you are dealing with and that's the truth!! Positivity peace and love ♥️
Simply try this. Crush/mash 21 garlic cloves to pulp, fill a bucket with enough water to bath, mix the garlic with the water. Bath about 9pm is. Pray, disconnect every thought ill- centred relationship and bond you had with that person. See how you feel 2 days later let me know
Today marks 2 years that I cut out my malignant abusive narcissistic son! He has been pure hell to me and my daughter since he was 15yrs old (he’s 23yrs old now). I suffer from extreme PTSD from that kid and what he’s done to us. The first year of cutting him out of my life, I slept with a knife next to my bed in fear he’ll come for revenge on me and my daughter. He was not raised this way at all, and people automatically attack and blame me for his behavior!! Nobody will ever know what it’s like to fear your own child and what they are capable of unless you’ve experienced the absolute paralyzing FEAR they’ve taunted you with for years!!!
@@maryanne7161his father died when my son was 11. He passed away in a fatal car accident in 2012. I made sure to line up all resources for my son and daughter as well as myself (grief counseling and therapy) to help us through the loss. My son dug his heals every step of the way and downright refused to allow anyone (even me) to help him. A therapist can’t help someone who won’t talk which is what he did. He either would stay quiet and not say anything, or he would say exactly what he knew they wanted and needed to hear to ‘get us off his back’ as he put it. I’ve had to put my own grief on the back burner to do everything humanly possible as a mother to help my child, only for him to look at me with so much hate and rage and threaten my life! He destroyed my property by throwing a can of paint all over my fence. Kicked in my dishwasher and put holes in my walls. Then he started to get physical!
I survived 3 narcissists , father and 2 older brothers. Migration from India to USA and Primal scream therapy helped a lot. Abuse did not stop even in America.
So sorry that you went through that. My younger sister and brother are Narcissists that had my parents walking on eggshells. I moved a few thousand miles away and cut them off, now life is so much much better. I hope you can find peace
My brother was a narcissist, my husband but never knew because years ago this want exposed and explained. Then I met a man that I thought was nice…. Another narcissist
Ohhh, India...especially when Indian & Asian cultures always give more social-status benefits to males over women, due to family lineage & inheritance passed to sons...I understand what you go through, as I'm Asian myself. Keep going strong there & be brave to cut contact with them. So that they no longer can use you for any bullying & scapegoating purposes anymore! Although they're family by blood, peace & meeting your own needs is more important, in your case - they have & won't let you choose anything for yourself without their permission & will give you chaos so that your suffering gives them "peace". Time to stop that cycle of abuse💪👍👌
If they have new supply I don't think they think about you much if at all. So long as you have no contact then out of sight out of mind. They moved on long before the discard.
I resonate with both bc, I was very good to him and we were together 15 years but, at the end when I found out the truth I cut him off suddenly out of the blue, I exposed him and I humiliated and insulted him...I hit below the belt and disappeared. I know all of this had to affect him. He expected me to chase after him like I always did but, instead he got all of this.
Nearly 3mnths No contact ❤ He sent me a box of old clothes and empty body lotion bottles 😂 I have a shipping container full of stock😮 been moved to a farmer's field by him 😂He also has my father's coin collection and book in a box etc, But he saw fit to send me a near empty Very BIG box 😢 It's OK I Have Finally Let Go! He will Not Hold Me to ransom over STUFF, He can Keep It 😘❤️🙏
@cordelia-xd5xf Wow funny you should say that 🤣 I opened the box on the phone to my cousin and amongst the stuff found a bag of dried fruits first thing She said was don't eat them, Then I checked the sealed bag and there was a tiny hole in it, So I threw them in the bin didn't even Feed it to the Birds 🫠 Love wrapped up in a Very BIG HUG 🫂 2U I Send 😘❤️🙏
@@amyshoneye5455I'm glad you responded to my comment 😅. YT removed it, I think. I can't see it. Wonder if they took it as a threat. Can't say " pois**" or something. IDK. Yes don't ever trust anything they send. My lawyers and law enforcement don't get it. They said he was "just being nice." It's also hard to prove, even with tests. I spent $975 on this test only for them to dismiss it and not wanting to go through the process of his lawyer trying to flip it around on me and blame me for putting something in it. They don't get what love bombing is and how it's just part of the abuse cycle. The hoovering they do is disgusting too. They suck you back in only so they can punish you for leaving and trying to expose them.
The narcissist had lied to me and manipulated for 9 yrs. I lost myself but I gave him the final Mat position. He has many girls and lied that I am the only one. I saw through him from the start. It goes to cyrcles, lies and my "believes". I'm the lightworker I saw what he was/is doing. I reject him and trying to heal myself. Thank you!
''He has many girls '' ''I saw through him. * from the start.'' I don't feel sorry for you! Why? You admit that you ''saw through him from the start'' and yet despite this you still got involved with him. Why? Because he was a 'Chad' ...a 'Bad' boy. You are no different to the many females who sleep with Leo DiCaprio hoping that they will be the ''one''....even though they know that he has ''many girls''. And then when he doesn't commit (after he has pumped them/you numerous times) he is a 'narcissist'' This is a story as old as time!
I wish your words were true for me. My covert ex narcissist husband forgot me. I never wanted to leave him, but the pain pushed me away, far away. I feared him. I love him and pray for his salvation as he needs Jesus, he is lost. I realize he chose me because I was a door mat. He told me if I leave that I will take the salt from his life, yet he remarried and moved on. I never dated nor remarried, he was my last. I broke contact with everyone in my life except my children as they need me. I bond myself with God as he is my only protector and best friend.
i hope you find someone. Its good that you price your kids above anything else, that makes you a great mom. breaking contact with everyone in your life seems radical and unhealthy. Im sure your kids would love you to have an healthy relationship with an healthy good guy. don't carry everything on your own. The guy that you want doesnt want you to want to carry everything on your own. He wants you to be happy.
Just because he "moved on" doesn't mean he forgot you. It's like the movie Ever After when Cinderella tells her stepmother, "From this moment on I will forget you. But I'm sure you will remember me for the rest of your life." Evil doesn't forget what good they lost and they despise them every day for "winning" and leaving. Your ex may play the part in public, but deep down they are miserable. I think that's part of their punishment in remembering every day what miserable bastards they are. They know, and remember what they did, but they will never let on that they do. God knows and sees all. He is just and fair and won't let them get away with it in the long run. Keep your head up high and keep your eyes on Him. You deserve better. I can relate to having to go no contact with most people because the narcissist gains many supporters through his flying monkeys. It's a living Hell. I left a very abusive relationship with a man who manipulated the legal system and took my children full time. He is also hurting them and no one will listen. There are some things worse than death -- in knowing your children are being harmed and nothing you can do to stop it. You are lucky to still have your children. I pray that they will also see what he is someday. We don't need any other relationship. I believe that's where God wants us to be, to where we can rely on and trust completely in Him. I believe He is the only one who has given me the strength and the endurance to take one painful breath and day at a time. Suffering I believe helps us understand what Christ went through for us and to be able to be with Him someday, something abusers will never understand. God bless and take care. ❤
