I think the reason narcissists can’t get me anymore is because when people act like that I laugh at them and ask them how their blood pressure is that really pisses them off😂
@@sylviafernandes8818 yeah it really works. Also, I say things like obviously you’re very upset. Just keep making it seem like you’re aware of their masked emotions tell them you’ve been taking a class in body language and F with them a little bit.😂
Danish, as usual you are spot-on and know exactly HOW the narc proceeds and WHAT they intend to accomplish with their outlandish behavior!!! It's all so true! ❤😢
Ppl gets Ptsd after Narcisstic abuse bcs it is so stressful, others even get Fatique and that's a total burn out, leave and get healed ‼️🌹Scapegoat of two Narcissistic parents.
julie smith It's totally okay and understandable to feel angry for periods of time after being abused though, as long as you don't hurt yourself, or others, which you know anyway. ❤
Exactly what He did and does to me. He always told me I'm the only one he has problems with he gets along with everyone else. LOL HE JUST GOT HIS EVALUATION DONE AT WORK . !!! THEY LISTED THE VERY SAME ISSUES I HAVE WITH HIM.. !! MADE MY DAY. AND OF COURSE you never know how he is going to behave what is going to throw him Into a rage. .
Danish, this content is spot on once again! I’m just amazed how you understand this at its core with all the crap on the internet. This is where it’s just abuse to punish you to win at all cost.
OMG!!!! the times I heard "I never had these problems before you" I thought I was the problem! Why did it take me so long to think "y'know, neither did I. I never had these issues before you" Because these things aren't problems for me. I know how to live my life. They were his issues, not mine. It's amazing how much easier life became when I left. It's only been a couple months but already my quality of life has dramatically improved.
Some puts on their recorder on the phone, when the Narcissistic rage stars, the blaming and blameshift, too, you will then have evidence and can go to the Police, then you can put the predator behind bars or get a restraining order ‼️Narcissistic abuse is criminal‼️🌹Scapegoat of two Narcissistic parents.
Thank you very much for your clarity again and your second one is the story of my life, which started in childhood, due to the unpredicatable behaviour of my parents, as well as other people, including so-called partners. It got to the stage where it was too difficult and painful for me to even talk and one blunt family member did tell me that she couldn't stand the sound of my voice, among many other put downs, not to mention physical assaults. I've done a lot of healing work over the years, but still know a few people, who tend to get offended, or angry very easily, so I'm gradually getting away from them. I'm also aware of walking on eggshells with nearly everyone and often think that I've upset people, then clarify what I said next time. It gets a bit much when I freak out after forgetting to say thank you to a shop assistant, or thinking that I did, though. 😊
yes. His favorite saying was I was jealous and controlling and didn't want him to have friends. That's further from the truth. He doesn't get that lying flirting disrespecting is a form of cheating. Now I'm supposed to believe he was never intimate with women.
Yes the unpredictable behaviour is the worst. The misinterpretation of a sentence in a text can send them off on a whole tirade of character assassination and blame for causing them so much distress. They don't bother to get their facts straight our allow for an alternate interpretation of what you aid, they jump to conclusions, convince themselves they're right and act accordingly. It doesn't matter how stressed they are, there is no excuse for that behaviour, towards you or anyone else. No excuses.
They are predators and liars, Gaslightning is also called Crazy-making ‼️Leave those inhumane and animalistic creatures alone ‼️🎯Scapegoat of two Narcissistic parents.
I've been walking on eggshells for over a year now. I remember when he tried to convince me, that he had never acted this way in his previous relationships, that he just loves me so much that it makes him go crazy, and because you this and you that. However, those previous relationships he had never worked out and so far this has been his longest relationship plus I never fight with people, I have no problems with my friends or family, and he has had a lot of conflict going on before I came into his life.
What I am beginning to despise most is the knowledge that most of my life has been shattered by acting in ways that was normalized by my narcissistic family, even as I was bleeding to death from same. That combined with well placed flying monkeys, and a healthy respect for wealth, has made suicidal ideation a constant companion over these last four decades.
YES YES YES YES YES! This is so validating. I know he’s a liar and has a temper but it still messed with my head he would say this. I knew he had to be lying but I also questioned myself.
Once they are convinced that you don't like a particular thing or something irritates you, they'll irritate or trouble you by doing those same things to provoke you.
Record all conversations and then replay in private. Thats how I studied the relationship. He did this to me, its just not acceptable how I would feel. That was my warning, my emotions. Its crazy how this traumatizes you deeply the longer you accept it.
Wow there’s a super narcissistic guy at my job who says the exact line you jst mentioned everytime I confront him about his poor work ethics: but EVERYONE feels this way and talk behind his bk when he leaves. Not to mention, he’d many altercations with other staff members over the same behavior but somehow Everytime I would say something, he would swear I am the only one who feels this way about him.’ It’s quite shocking to say the least. And I stand on my ground, I am not the only one. Everyone feels this way. Jst wow
Yup! It is crazy that I’m the problem even when I’m not even involved. I’m the problem when I ask what is the problem when he’s had a bad day. I’m the problem when I need something for the house. But I got him last night. I did what he does by not answering and walking away before he could raise his voice over a request and he said he couldn’t afford a 100$ shelf we need but instead of saying he’s cheap of trying to negotiate I just walk away. No matter what I would have said he’s not going to get it so why even try. He starts fights over 20$ that he gives me for food. I piss him off and he wants it back! But he ate the food.
Narcissists are takers who only breadcrumbs others, they want's to remove what's valuable to their partner, bcs they are predators ‼️🌹Scapegoat of two Narcissistic parents.
Been there. Can't be wrong on this. They will say none of my x ever made me feel this way or have to quarrel with them. They will go as far as to tell you that you are nothing compare to them and make you know they were the best. And if you ask why did it end? You are told some humble bull crap like he changed his mind about having kids. Yeah right. Even when the previous ones cheat and you try and try and remain loyal they will have issues with you.
I lived like that for years, thinking something was wrong with me, “ I am too sensitive, controlling,a bitch,” It’s not me , it’s him he is very controlling! I am not interacting with him much and way happier.
Many have said that about Narcissists, it's like they changes personality, in 99 % of the cases wt Multiple Personality Disorder /Dissosiative Personality Disorder, there has been sexual abuse in childhood ‼️Narcissists are child of a Narcissistic mother, they have been the Golden child, neglected and abused in many ways, bcs a Narcissist are not capable of love and lacks empathy ‼️🌹Scapegoat of two Narcissistic parents.
The first one sounds just like my wife, i tell her you hit ypur x you maid him come back from over seas cause ypu threatened to kill your self. I asked her once why did you hit me and spit on me. She said cause you pushed me past my point that no one else could. I asked her when i yaled at her do ypu think thats what happened to me. Her response no its different you cause so much. No response ability
