Hey guys! Which psychology tricks do you usually use? Here're some other tricks ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-l4tWdTmYZoM.html. They're simple yet they do work!
Yeah that's me. I can't maintain eye contact with my crush for more than 0.3 seconds. Seriously. One time I saw her as I was going down the stairs, and I literally looked her in the eye and instantly looked away. Can anybody help me?!
"However, if they're doing this during coitus, they may be trying to turn you on with their autoasphyxiation fetish. But, if you can't breathe and try to indicate for them to stop and they ignore you, it may mean they're a psychopath or sociopath, and you're being murdered."
OR if someone appears to be strangling themselves while eating this does not mean they dislike themselves it just means their food is going well and they feel fine. I’m good at this.
1. Closing eyes=not interested in convo 2. Cover mouth=hide info 3. Chewing on glasses=worried 4.present face=attracting 5.rub chin=decision making 6.cross arms=irritated 7.fixing posture=attention seeking 8.lean forward=interested in someone 9.leaning back=tired of the convo 10.swing their heels n toes=confident 11.rub hands=positive feeling 12.Glove handshake=trustworthy 13.facing floor palm handshake=respect dominance 14.cupping handshake=sympathize you/or charge reminder 15.handsome w/ touch=need more attention 16.fixing tie=w/ women(attraction) w/out uncomfortable 17.collecting lint=disagreement 18.feet on desk= comfort/disrespect 19. horse chair=dominant person 20.playing w/shoe=women:comfortable/attraction 21.eye contact=BIG:attraction Small:mad 22.avoiding eye contract= thinking or dishonest/discomfort 23. Unbroken staring=intimidating 24. A lot of blinking= attracted This is mostly for me but I'll share the love lol
@@melody._..-. but notice how i said i am a dancer... i do ballet and i always need to fix my posture as i always slouch, so when i see my self slouching, i fix my posture
It doesn't mean you are attracted to yourself... Just use common logic. You just don't want to look bad and know that you are suppsoed to keep posture and not slack like a sloth. Getting used to a bad posture just keeps you doing it without you noticing it. So when you see yourself in a mirror and notice it you try to fix your posture but forget it afterwards as majority of us do anyway, it's pretty normal. So short answer: no you are probably not... The ballet is just important to you and you really try to do all you can for it including the posture (which everyone should keep their eye on anyway).
That or your trying to act like a villain. Rubbings your hands, smiling crazily or weirdly, and trying your best to cackle, are all good signs of attempts at being a villain. Or your just ridiculously happy about something. But it's generally the former.
De̸͟͞rpy Potato 1946-1964🤔 I’m more after generation X. BTW. Still like to gather facts before making assumptions. If you ok with just interacting with your phone and become the greatest keyboard warrior, DO YOU!
Maybe crossing your arms is an emotional defense mechanism to keep people from getting too close to you and you have become comfortable that way.😂 Lol I'm jp that was just a random thought
I know this is out of topic but, what if you can already read people. Some of these techniques aren't true. For some reason it is easy for me to read people easily, even strangers. I only read people if I take curiosity. Other than that, people aren't my business and I have no reason to know who someone is or how they think about themselves. If someone ever asked me what this person thinks of them is wouldn't say anything other than "find out yourself, ask the person what they think of you. Problem solved." If they asked me who this person is and the details I'll just say "easy, be friends with the person and you've got your answer." I have no interest in anyone or even genders since they act all the same in their own ego. Some people may but it's rare to see the free people who don't even care how people think of them or if they are bullied. Those are the only people that catches my curiosity. Though not in a love way just in curiosity. Other than that people in my school is just jerks and only shove their problems to mines.
Many readings of body language can have more then one reason. They're not all black and white. Someone could be crossing their arms because they're are physically cold but not closed off. Covering the mouth can also mean they are not confident speaking. The direction a leg is crossed can change not because they aren't interested in you anymore but because they had their legs crossed towards you so long it became physically uncomfortable and they had to switch directions. Sigmund Freud pointed this out with his famous line "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar".
Ginger the Espeon embarassing, but i cross my arms when im trying to show off my pecs... it makes my chest look super buff, and draws attention to it as well... yeah, lame
“20+ psychology tricks to read anyone like a book” If someone does “this” it has many different reasons. But if someone does “that” it also has many different reasons. The meaning of “this” gesture depends on the situation While the meaning of “that” gesture could mean “this”, but it could also mean “that”. What I took away from this video is that every gesture, posture, handshake, movement, etc. has so many different meanings that you’ll need the CliffsNotes to the so-called book that you’re trying to read.
You can read someone by their hands For example if they are holding a gun they are angry Or if their fist is coming towards your face quickly they are also angry
All this went out the window with the invention of smart phones. If you're bored, stare at your phone. If you're nervous, stare at your phone. If you're lying, stare at your phone. If you're uncomfortable, stare at your phone. It you're disinterested in someone, stare at your phone. If you're interested is someone, state at your phone. The default jesture for everything is stare at your phone!
The actual fact is when u talk, u can't breathe. You can inhale and exhale while keeping the smile... Just like air hostesses do. But you need to stop talking if you want to take breathe.
I have a comment about eye contact: I agree with the examples given for eye contact and would add that someone avoiding eye contact are likely to be uncomfortable because of social anxiety for a number of reasons. Though I want to add that intentional long-lasting eye contact with other positive gestures or a positive conversation can be an intentional way of having a deeper connection; it is like peering into each-others' soul looking into the depths within. The connection (with interactive/reactive content) only happens when both people allow the other "in" and both intentionally allow this connection.
Wait, the blonde guy is crossing his arms, does that mean that he's frustrated and or feels uncomfortable? Conspiracy theories. What're you hiding, sir...?
I was raised in a military family and been around military personnel a good portion of my life, so the crossing arms thing is extremely natural to me; I’ve always used that gesture as a “I plan on sticking around and talking a while” sign. Also, if someone is adjusting their tie in the presence of Darth Vader, it probably means they’re in the process of being choked.
Or maybe… 1. Closing their eyes - when I didn’t get enough sleep 2. Covering their mouth - when I yawn 3. Chewing on their glasses - never. 4. Presenting their face - when there’s nothing to rest my head on 5. Rubbing their chin - nope. 6. Crossed arms/ Rubbing their hands - when I’m cold 7. Fixing their posture - I always try to sit with a straight back Unbroken staring - maybe there’s something on your face A lot of blinking - when my eyes are dry
Too add to this for anyone reading body language, different gestures can have multiple meanings. So to get accurate results, you have to think of each gesture as a word. From there you continue to do so until those words makes sentences. It’s the combination of words and sentences that gives an accurate reading, not individual words.
TIMESTAMPS Closing their eyes 0:45 Covering their mouth 1:00 Chewing on their glasses 1:26 “Presenting” their face 1:52 Rubbing their chin 2:16 Crossed arms 2:34 Fixing their posture 3:02 Leaning forward 3:22 Leaning back 3:50 Swinging from their heels to their toes 4:14 Rubbing their hands 4:37 The "glove" handshake 4:59 A handshake with the palm facing the floor vs ceiling 5:29 Cupping someone’s hands during a handshake 5:57 A handshake with a touch 6:25 Fixing their tie 7:09 Collecting imaginary lint 7:30 Putting their feet on the desk 7:50 Mounting a chair like a horse 8:11 Playing with their shoe 8:35 Eye contact 8:57 Avoiding eye contact 9:34 Unbroken staring 9:50 A lot of blinking 10:16
Keïta Teferi when someone elderly is talking to you especially if they are scolding you, looking them in the eye is a form of disrespect in africa but in england looking away is disrespectful. Struggled with that growing up.
Which psychological approach we use depends on what the other person is doing! Knowledge is power. Thanks for listing the hidden meanings of common gestures and postures. I bet they will be very useful.
You forgot one more thing for the lack of eye contact thing: it's also a sign of being on the autism spectrum. I have realized that due to my aspergers (I know its technically ASD now) people have made assumptions about me due to my lack of eye contact. It is uncomfortable and causes me to feel very anxious, we can force ourselves occasionally but not for very long. I think it's ridiculous that you are socially unacceptable if you can't stare directly at peoples faces for long periods of time. Its just weird to me.... Also, the US is one of the only countries that considers lack of eye contact rude, did you know its actually considered rude in China?
midnight rain Agreed 100% I experience the same issues along with stuttered and higher registered speech. I avoid eye contact in a public situation so much I don't even notice. I think in the new age of things, people are coming around and taking notice that people aren't doing that intentionally.
It's not a sign of being autistic, or having Asperger's. Avoiding eye contact is also hypothesized as a behavioral trait to manage stress. Making eye contact with only those you are indeed comfortable with and know/trust.
I don't make eye contact when having talks with people about things that requires a lot of thinking. I focus away from people's faces so I don't get distracted by their body language.
i cross my arms because its comfortable and i don't like my hands in free fall deadhang but i also like to lean back because its comfortable, if i don't like a conversation then i will just change the subject or leave with an outro like "gotta go" or "bye" so yeah i just do whats comfortable.
This is something I've learned to not take for granted. I used to assume that everyone naturally was very intuitive when it comes to what others are thinking or feeling. But a couple boyfriends later, I know that not everyone naturally has this ability built in.
Gil Oribello Most Probably Confidence. Hands on the hips is generally something only confident people do. Sometimes people in minor positions of power, like shift managers, do this all the time. Not really sure why, just something ive noticed.
So inaccurate LOL, I cross my arms all the time when I talk to people and it's just because it's a position I'm comfortable with when I don't know what to do with my arms. Doesn't mean I'm bothered when people talk to me, people can talk to me even if I cross my arms.
Also a thing that when you are in group like : classroom, playground,etc. You unwillingly stare at someone and you can't take eyes off from that person means that you have started grewing feelings for that person or it can be that you are checking on that person or curious about that person.
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If a girl runs at you, douses you in gasoline and sets you on fire then runs around in circle yelling incoherent gibberish... she might be crazy. So pay attention!
We, as human beings are Electrically powered. From Brain to Muscles, and back, thru nerves via electrical energy. Each of us operate on a very personal Frequency., just as either a persons finger print and or, their DNA. When we come in contact with another person, if the frequencies are in "Tune" the connection is comfortable, then we have harmony, two frequencies, even tho' not the same, they work well together. Then there are people that we just can't get along with, because something is just out of tune. This seems to be working on a very sub-conscience level, like reading body language. This brings to mind the 1960's sayings of being in the right "vibe" or "in tune" with ones surroundings.
Brightside forgot one thing about blinking too. If someone is blinking A LOT it usually means they are very tired. Or something is in their eye Bad dum ts.
If I person who eyes keep moving around during conversation, they give you eye contact but look away after, it's either they trying to avoid the conversation or they're shy.
So let me see if I get this straight. You aren't supposed to avoid eye contact. You aren't supposed to maintain eye contact. But now you're not even supposed to look away at times?!? I'm so confused as to how to go about this.
When someone is smiling and talking at the same time that means that he or she is attracted to you , once this happened to me and I was completely shocked.
Oh uh, yeah, that, uh, what was that again? I'm totally not a lizard person, you know, I just forgot, cause, that would be crazy, right! So why can't yo- we breath under water?
I think the best advice would be dont over analyse, dont over think just be your good self and only do things with good intentions. Sometimes keeping it simple reliefs a lot of the stress and worry people put on themselves when they try to learn too much about things.
Some of these tips work some of the times, which is why it's advised today by many body language readers to read signs collectively rather than basing a reading off one. For instance, arms crossed can also mean a person is feeling cold and needs a jacket, or it's just a way to feel more comfortable for them in that posture. However, arms crossed with no eye contact or smile and feet pointing away definitely means an opposing view or feeling.
Why did this video seem more like a tutorial for men trying to hit on women, and how to dominate a business scenario? This just felt weird and super one-sided of a video.
I feel the exact same way. And the whole fixing posture section on women... like it's not possible that a woman may simply fix her posture because she was getting uncomfortable/stiff? Nope, she MUST be trying to attract a man. And if a woman has her hand on her face she's trying to present herself, and it's not at all possible that this is simply a comfortable position? That's the pose I always sit in during class, guess I've been trying to attract my middle aged female teachers since grade 6.
Ravyn Marie I can fully agree, I’ve never “presented my face” to attract someone😂 btw, if Ravyn’s your real name that is the coolest name I’ve ever read👌🏻
I KNOW RIGHT! Like why does it just have to be that? What if im a girl (which i am) and want to attract a girl? There are so many questions but seriously though, i completely agree with your statement.
I feel like a lot of these signs mentioned can also be miss read , we aften sometimes do thing by not realizing, due to nervousness or various reasons , this is really helpful information that I'll definitely take advantage of . Thank you
I've known my friends forever so I just know stuff. Like how when they say nothings wrong, THERE'S ALWAYS SOMETHING WRONG. Seriously, they think that's gonna fool anyone?
