Thank you my friend. I just found out the girl I’ve been with for a year cheated on me. I loved her more than I loved myself, and I ended up losing myself to the relationship. When I caught her in the act all she did was laugh and smirk, and it absolutely killed me. What was crazy is that she would tell me all these wonderful things, like how she wanted my children, and how she wanted to marry me and build a home with me. I keep blaming myself, but from your video I see that this was a blessing in disguise. You’re right, I deserve so much better, so thank you for putting out videos like this. It helps so much with the recommendation *Johnsonspy* . Much love my friend, take care
Before marrying, I wish someone had told me this. My husband of 25 years acted like a dictator, with clear warning signs. Emotional abuse is serious and leads to cheating. Thanks to *Johnsonspy* for collecting the evidence
I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the Great work mate well done respect....
Unrequited love is so hurtful. It never ends well and usually they go with someone else.. Every effort will be in vain. Excuses all they give. Worst pain I've felt
@@tutsybassista I agree. I was so tired of my cheating, lying boyfriend. Now ex boyfriend. I'll admit to missing him. But, it's nice not to have someone disrespectfing me. His loss.
Still doesn’t mean you get to change him or her because they are disrespecting you. If you are being disrespected then leave. Some people forget that they have that option in the relationship. Don’t tolerate disrespect by anyone. You shouldn’t have to feel the need to change them they should just subtly change in their own will without you ever asking verbally or non verbally for you because they truly love you and want to be the man or woman of your dreams. Otherwise don’t try and change them and if you don’t love who they are (including them disrespecting you because that’s who they are and they are only showing you who they are) then leave. It means you’re not compatible together.
I think a lot of doubles in relationships, fake love because for sexual pleasure and they don’t want to be alone and somehow they think they’ll eventually love that person, and it’ll will all workout and lie about their true intentions.
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@@ramlasis7358 you are amazingly thoughtful. Thank you very much. I so appreciate that you wrote out this list cuz I really wanted to make a list of my own. Thanks to y’all I will happily Copy and Paste 🌹
@@TopTierQueen_50 That's what I did to get a marriage visa, so I could stay in Japan legally, and make money teaching English conversation I wish I had never done that!! It wasn't right for her. I'll never live it down 👇!! I'm back in California,she's back in Japan, doing a lot better with out me. But I got to be careful someone doesn't use me for the same reason!
@@kimmergonzales9792 a guy from germany tried to USE me to stay in the states a few years ago, but I watched 90 day fiance and figured out his LOVE bombing game, but a person I was working with took my leftovers lol and USED her and got married in his backyard and now she is getting her KARMA , and walking on eggshells with him I could Neva! Lol. But I wish them well 😊
Anxiety and fear of abandonment has silently ruined a lot of my relationships. I’ve worked hard over the years and have progressed tremendously, but it may be something that I live with forever.
Great stuff. I'm in a rut here though. You say before starting any of this, the spouse must end the affair. So in my husband's offense, it's ended but he still talks and texts the woman because they still work together and it's only about work and he no longer has feelings for her😥. I keep trying to make him understand all the above that you mention about my hurt and everything but he doesn't take empathy or compassion in my pain. How can I make him understand that keeping her around is pretty much making me replay the infidelity over and over again and I was able to move on with the help of *Brian Hacks* when he give me access to the text messages.
The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you. Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. I got full access of my girl’s account through the help of Johnson on *Brian hacks online* . I strongly recommend him y’all.. Highly Recommended for tracking and spying. .
I happy and pray it's true he gave you access to his msg but are you sure he does not delete them before giving you or use another name to carry one or another phone number altogether but just double check that so that you are not fooled and taken advantage of.
100 % correct. That is what mine said and he was cheating on me behind my back. It was awful how he discarded me. Beware when they say that they need a break. You are correct, that usually means they are cheating.
Not always. My partner was the one always on social media flirting and exchanging pictures with other females. I asked for a break so he could do what he wanted and leave me out of it. No point in having a relationship with multiple energies in it.
@@84Melara well in MY case i didnt break it off with MY gf back in the day cause i was seeing other women. i cut her loose cause our relationship wasnt really going anywhere. if you compare our relationship to two ppl sitting in a car; cars started and ready to go, but the car doesnt move cause you dont have a destination. you ask your girl "So are we going anywhere?" she doesnt answer. so finally one day you get fed up with it and just get out of the car (exit the relationship) and just walked away. i dunno, me and her had nothing common, we were 2 different ppl, and she was a spoiled brat in general. i was 17 then. hittin' 40 next month. and throughout these years, i havent dated anyone. women these days have gone from fish, to sharks and now their becoming demons
I can understand bcus that’s exactly how I feel about men they’re so evil. I also will b 40 in a yr so this really sucks. My last partner was a huge narcissist with head injuries so yea it was a nightmare makes me afraid to date. 😂😂😂
I've been married and divorced twice. Throughout my whole life I've experienced nothing but loveless relationships. It made me realize true love doesn't exist for me.
You, Aaron Doughty, Victor Oddo, and Clark Kegley are a good start for getting back into alignment. From there I can just start doing the normal things I enjoy doing on the day-to-day. I love you all and I wish you all the best!
Isn't it though? I watched and realized I had a relationship like this with lots of the negative behaviors. I knew intuitively that it was not love, but I hung in there. Never again!
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Thanks my brother for sharing with the entire protocol. My girlfriend could show and do me all but we separated and am recovering from those scars she left me with.
At some point, i would tell my partner to keep on changing for the better. But i do still love him every change he made on himself. Good or bad. ❤️❤️❤️
how sad..am doing some of these to my partner..am very sorry😥 am gonna make it up to you,hope it's not yet too late to make things right..am sincerely sorry..
Everything that were mentioned in this video, I have it all. Feeling really guilty, don't know how to tell him. He's really a good guy, but my heart is numbed. 😔
Been together 5 years, don't acknowledge anniversary never remember wen we met,don't celebrate any holidays worst of all Christmas & new years.He only remember his friends females
I didn't need this video to tell me what i I all ready knew how my partner feels but it just let me know i am not crazy for thinking that he doesn't care about me
I was cheated on last year and me and her got back together. I loved her dearly but unfortunately she told she wanted to end things a month after we got back together. Fast forward to now I've learned to invest more into myself before entering a relationship
I have done #20 but not because I would or have stopped loving her at that point, but because I was tired of putting all the effort in and loving when she didn't do the same back the issues started with mistake she made and her little world of non-reality that she at least used to live in, it's ok, it's just time to let go, thanks for the video! 😢😕😏
Very sad to see almost all of them in my partner...I have been in denial....I don’t understand then why he chooses to be in this fake relationship and not look for other relationships or just SPs elsewhere? (My partner is very attractive and I believe he doesn’t have someone else as we are together almost 24/7 apart from working and he doesn’t even look at his phone after work) ...
He likes that he holds the power. Humans take people for granted alot, so try to figure out how to stand up for what you deserve and be willing to dish out consequences.
I am guilty of responding in a lot of these ways. I have experienced quite a bit of this in relationships. Listening to this list just made me want to cry-I am definitely NOT ready to date right now
To my greatest surprise, I had a similar heartbreaking experience with my psychotic husband, even with all the signs and clear red flags he'll still confidently deny it to my face. He also lied about the affair he was having…I spoke to my sister about this and she referred me to a friend of hers who happens to be some tech weirdo from her school. This guy remotely linked my husband's phone directly to mine without him knowing... I found out tons of disturbing texts, photos and videos, I was right about his secret affair and still feel a bit sad that I was reluctant at first... I'm just glad that it's all over now and I've moved on from such a heartless man
Fake Love can go to hell ...if ypu don't really love your artner...do not ever break somebody' else's heart...the pretender will pay the price when the time comes
I disagree with the “change” one. Sometimes partners pretend to love you and then violate your trust with lies and deceit. There is nothing wrong with asking them to change these behaviors. Asking them to quit lying and to stop treating you bad is not manipulative. Sometimes change needs to happen. If i didn’t ask them to change these behaviors and just tolerated it...that would be me not caring to save the relationship. If someone presents themselves one way at the beginning and then lies about who they are...asking them to change is very reasonable.
I have a hard Time agreeing with number three point blank because some times keeping the peace and choosing your battles Is a form of compromise and maintaining balance.
I was told that someone will cherish me, someone will enter my life without my knowledge because if I don’t go and pursue happiness, happiness will find me and generally attract a person who will acknowledge me and that special woman will come into my life, I just have to live everyday happily and will be able to happy so happiness starts with you , this is what I was told
He looks through my phone all the time watch he's looking for something like I'm hiding something and stands around and just stares at me and looks in my closet looks through my drawers looks through everything
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Hi top thinker I never heard about a white flag. That is so true I had relationship when things don't go right they write me off. Another mental health video for me. Appreciate you. Blessings 🙏🏾💓
Someone once said You know life is funny, the ones you love. Don't love you, and the ones that love you you don't love them. And someone also said that there's better fish in the sea than any one has ever caught. 🤔
I thank God every single day that my friend of over 20 years and decided to give it a go. He does the complete opposite of all of these traits. My ex did every last one and it almost broke me until Preston came along. I would've never experienced true love if I didn't decide to move on with my life and allow the right person to love me.
Last one I disagree because I threatened to leave when I’m being ignored, pushed away or played & I’m not gone deal with this & im not wrong for not doing so.
ive been with my boyfriend for 6 years now and we stay by eachother side trough bad and good times. i dont understand why people breakup because of only 1 thing thats annoying to them. thanks to him suporting me im back to finish highschool and gonna become an IT which is my dream job. thanks to me encouraging him he found the strenght to quit a job he hated to get one that he enjoys. we wanna have a family together. sometimes we get angry at eachother but we always find a solution to the issue. being a couple takes work but when youre with the one person you cant be without its worth it. i hope everyone can find that one special person
try having a partner that your married to for 22 years that does a 180 and does everything menctioned above wrong. Yes ive checked they do work all time but like even have friends not in common and want go places together anymore. Does not fight for always puts down when you try to talk to them.
My ex boyfriend who I met only 7 months after my late husband passed away was pursuing other women while he'd askd me many times to make us exclusive and he never stopped and I found out he also did his last girlfriend the same way and had an affair twice at least on her. And he was on so many dating and social sites chasing women that I went from feeling loved from my late husband to not worthy of love. Theta how he made me feel.
Despite the fact that he ANNOUNCED that he was committed to NEVER getting married, he often claimed, "I think this is a FOREVER thing", when referencing us. One night, he told me in exasperation, "Don't you UNDERSTAND???? I LOVE you more than a F***ink ROCK!!!". Judging by how much he loved rocks, that was quite the compliment. I don't think any other person in his lifetime held that status. For 3 years, my days were filled with laughter and easy camaraderie. He died in a drowning accident in 2008. His last words to me were, "I love you more than I love myself". THAT, I believe, is TRUE LOVE.
my ex was a all fake love.: 1. refusing compromise because he only cared about himself. 2.internal spontaneity 3. white flag. fake partner 4. guarding his feelings. 5. creating distance. 6. public neglect 7. emotional discomfort. he trying to control me. 8. invisible Romance. 9. passing blame blaming me for everything else. 10. the attention deficit 11. Subconscious pronouns. 12.mutual unhappiness. feel misable. loveless relationship. 13,invastion of privacy. being controlling. 14. hiding secrets. 15.demanging change. 16.unloving langue 17. heavy conflicts 18. taking breaks 19. priority list. 20. drawing compares
Well all I know about that one is my Ex used 2 women, young and very beautiful, to directly get at me. One was his actress beautiful looking friend, he got her initials tattooed on to his wrist, publicly, so I would witness it. Then he sent me video showing Him and Her captioned "My Girlfriend" to upset and hurt me. He got the desired effect and I refused to entertain him for an entire week. So, you're right. He gave me fake love all along. And he was so cruel beyond all words. To the bitter End 👄
I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the Great work mate well done respect....
Add this one. She would talk to her ex constantly. And I had to text to ask if she could talk while she was at home. She said she wanted to marry and have kids but she would never show affection. My favorite one was happy birthday do you know how much I love you, and left the next day. She started to call and talk about all the guys who wanted to hang out with her. So I wished her luck asked what am I to you she hung up. Much better place now that she is gone.
It’s best you let go of her it’s not advisable for a lady to still have her ex’s contact on her phone let alone texting or calling him often it’s very wrong
I usually never thought about a future with anyone,me I'm single now and proud too did I ever cried for someone on the past yes I have and for that I learned and reminded myself everyday that I am beautiful too,I often find females around me that has that eye wandering,which is red flag already,me I'm more worried about where I'm a end up at eventually litterely speaking to myself if ya wandered
