I'm going to pray for the innocent people she robbed at gunpoint and hope that they heal from the trauma she inflicted on them. How bout that.. Let that trick continue twerking.
I moved from Jersey to Atlanta in the summer of '18. Didn't work out with staying with my dad and led me to be homeless on these very same Atlanta streets. Also, I'm in a wheelchair so it made it extra difficult to find shelter that was accessible. I slept on Pryor Street at the gateway for several days. Never gave up, got into the evolution center (shelter) by rice street and they helped me find a part-time job which led me to meet a job corps recruiter. They got me out to Kentucky on a paid flight and got 2 trades and my driver's license. I'm saying this to say I was literally her in 2018 and now I'm more stable than ever. It's not over for her just DONT GIVE UP!
May God cont to bless you🙏🏾your story is encouraging & uplifting. & I pray blessings & Favor this young lady way as well. My motto is as long as we are blessed to wake up daily, we have a chance to keep pressing forward & better days /things will come as long as we don't give up. I know when we're not in one's situation, it's easier said than done but we gotta cont to push past obstacles, hardships & pain. Just like a woman giving birth it's painful & may not look too good as far as the process but the determination to cont to push brings forth a blessing. Sorry so long of a message. I just felt inspired by reading your comment
Can't nobody do nothing but respect your accomplishments. In a wheelchair too, damn ! Your determination ain't no joke. You have more obstacles than the average person which requires twice to 3 times more effort. Respect !
Her spirit is weary and I can feel that Thru the screen. All the hardship she endured at young ages set her down the wrong path . At 22 she still can turn things around . Prayers and Blessings 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Her mother was not a parent, her mother was her friend. I told my son " my job is to be your father, not your friend and if I end up being your friend in the end then I have done my job..."
💯💯. My Mother is My Bestest Friend, but only because im 41💓. Im Very Grateful. May this woman find the path where she can be great..and be a great mother, wife, so she can show someone how to be loved ❤.
The problem with these women is they are never held accountable. Even these women in the comments are ignoring her red flags. She burned bridges with all her friends and family. Obviously her attitude and m8ndset is the problem. But they won't change because bw will just tell her she's not the problem.
My nifga I tell my girl that all the time wit my kids ………I’m not they fuckin friend ,my girl use to be like that till she figured it out ….now a days ppl not raised they kids they friends with them …..I ain’t no friend to a child of mine my job is to guid u and teach u the ways of life not play wit u all day and joke shit way more serious in todays time then when we grew up in the 90s smh I’m on my kids ass wit love and direction this is what happened when ur parents friend u instead of being a real parent love ur kids teach them life can get real really quick
That first sentence says a lot. A friend instead of a parent. Never prepared her for the real world. That's sad. I wish ladies could take a lesson from this. Prepare your children for the world. If you don't know how to help them, find someone who can help.
You can prepare your child for the real world and they can still go left. The choices they make in life is up to them. Even if she had a mother that was raising her up right she still could have turned out like that or just hating on her mom. She said she had her own will and family members tried to tell her right from wrong.
Yeah, but there are still old fashioned parenting skills present in a lot of families! Especially the issue of sexualization of young people before puberty.
@@cinnamonangel5506 but the probability of a child turning that was raised correctly vs an incorrectly raised child is significantly low. Of course we all have free will but most of your ideas opinions morals knowledge etc is based on what was taught to you as a child.
There is no such thing, as the Real 🌎 World. This is Shaitans World which is now under Judgement. It is called a Matrix of corporate Slavery and Greed at the Expense of Of Others. A lot of the youth are just tired and want to live on their own. Humanity is falling, especially in America, and now it’s time for Righteousness and doing something for Self. All foolishness must now Cease. Peace and Joy!! 🎉🌞
I was homeless in 2009. It was one of the most difficult situations I've ever been in. I wasn't on drugs or anything like that, I have a terrible case of ptsd. All I did was get a job and worked on myself. Now I have a family, with a wife and 3 kids. My advice to all my homeless buddies, take a DEEP look into the mirror. I got a job, went to school, and now I'm working on building myself up to.
I wish I can cash app her a donation. She sounds like she's really trying to be positive but there's an underlying sound of hurt when she speaks about her mother not being with her....let us know an update please on her story. Thanks
Homelessness is terrible situation but you have to make the best of it. I did I left Alabama move to Minnesota slept on the floor sometimes in a shelter. I got a job, Apt ,2 automobiles in college(Nursing) made Billboard on the city main highway representing the college. Never had mental ,drug or alcohol problems. Never sold my body for sex. This experience taught me a lot mainly about who I am, family , people. I ended up homeless I sacrifice my career to be care for family (deceased). I had nothing to fall back on( moms house) due a greedy sibling who lost it .I made it in a strange city no family or friends. Only because I didn't want to stay down! I thank God !
@@rahimahrashad2351 I'm glad you made it out of that situation without compromising who you are that's a blessing. Most people are just not that mentally strong and get sucked into the street life either criminally or start doing drugs. This country needs to seriously provide more resources for ppl. I was homeless at 17 after I graduated high school my mom who relapsed on drugs got evicted once again. I luckily had my stepmom who let me come live with her and also i stayed with my bestfriend and older sister for a little while and even that didn't really work out. It's nerve wrecking not having a stable home. Even when my aunt help me into college I still struggled with not having anywhere stable to go on breaks bcuz I stayed on campus and couldn't afford my own place and I also started working and I dropped out bcuz I didn't have much time to study it was just too much to handle. 🤦🏽♀️
Why are you throwing out being a stripper? That’s hustling backwards and inviting too much drama, in her already messed up life. She’s got a whole solid 2 years to enroll into Job Corps: 18-24 and pick up a trade and hustle the smart way.
She's pretty much telling you about probably 80% of these mothers nowadays! But we forgive them and forget, but we're taught to automatically throw our fathers away regardless of if he's right or wrong! And I bet her mom never paid 1 Penny of child support
This dude and his interview style is very insulting, for him to suggest that the way for this young woman to get off the street is to be a stripper is jaw dropping to say the least. He has absolutely no resources or positive advice for the people he interview. He digs for the most negative things about them. I don’t like it at all.
Plenty of people can give opinions and that’s cool but until you’ve walked in a person’s shoes you’ll never understand the pain they carry every single second, most of trauma stems from childhood& not ever having a good support system AFTER THE TRAUMA. Life continues to move forward whether we cope or deny the issues! My heart goes out to this young sister ⭐️
Wow reparations now! Our community is failing which is why I have tried to escape but to only see it’s in every state and city. I would love to do a collaboration with you I really appreciate your work man!
I hate when he sends shout to these peoples home state when they are having the worst moments of their lives... " I BEEN HOMELESS FOR 2 YEARS, IM FROM TEXAS" HIM: "SHOUT OUT TO TEXAS, I LOVE IT THERE"...
As a Mother of a Daughter her age, my heart hurts for her. Because she deserves so much more, than what she was given. I always say, when your in the streets this young, your Village failed you. Because mine failed me, I was homeless off and on from 13 to 18. I had to get myself off the streets, because I had a Child at 16 and another at 18.
Not necessarily true " your village failed you"....I have a son who's on the street at age 25. His "village" tried and continually tries but he just doesn't want rules, perimeters, guidelines in his life. He's always been stubborn and ultra independent. No one can make anyone do anything. Not everyone is disowned or given up on or thrown out, sometimes it's truly that person and their decisions that lands them in certain situations like this. Others ( a village) can only do so much for so long.
You can't say her Village failed her. She even admitted to losing her father's trust and her mother being a friend instead of a parent. You see today we give too much shyt a pass and since kid's think they know every fucking thing, it's time for you to learn on your own. It won't be under my roof. I have rules in my house. 1. You will work. 2. You will not get high in my house, I don't give a damn how old you are. 3. You will pay rent and have a 6 month plan in getting your own place. 4. You will keep your living area in my house spotless, in other words, (nobody will know you stay there because the area will be that clean.) 4. I don't owe you shyt, you're grown.
Nobody “deserves” good things in life, that’s not how the world works. You’re given what you’re given and you make the best of what you have to work with. This “I deserve” mindset have a lot of people messed up in the head. They think they are owed things so they tend to fall back hoping a good and decent life just falls into their lap.
Is this a black version of soft white underbelly? Because you’re asking exactly the same questions in exactly the same sequence. The only thing is you are more intrusive, and you don’t ask in a nice soft way like Mark does.
mothers are NOT your friend ....kids need stability and guidance, twerking is the worst dance, I hate seeing little gurls doing it. its not cute its just plain nasty !!
I'm occupying a sort of middle ground. I want to say let kids have fun, and sensual dances *can* be fun too. Moving your hips while dancing is seen across most of the African diaspora. For instance, in NO, bounce is cultural
@@dottyspotty9835 ma'am there are kids dances and then there are adult dances we need to separate them let kids be kids and adults need to stop acting like kids.
@@patriciarobinson484 I never said anything about her living in my home, when did Wishing someone well become a bad thing, you never know where you will end up so tread lightly, don't hate 0n her because your sin is just different.
This young lady is carrying so much pain and I see the sadness in her eyes and hear it when she speaks. She has no idea what stability and love looks like. I want her to win and I pray she gets into a better situation, she needs someone to take her in and provide guidance with a strong foundation. 🙏🏾✨
This is eye opening , I'm from ATL born and raised , I'm glad they showing the downside and struggle of Atlanta , people comes to Atlanta for better opportunities, these folks are going to take advantage of u , ATL is a nice place to visit from the outside looking in but if you not careful , it can chew you up and spit you out
Why would you encourage tricking or stripping? Those are dangerous lifestyles and many times women are forced to do things they dont want doing those hustles. There's a million and one ways to hustle legally, without selling yourself or your soul. I know she says otherwise but drugs definitely play a factor here. 😔😕I hope she finds her way soon bc the streets are aging her. Best wishes sis. ❤️
You go out of your way to interrogate the sexual lives of these people. People are more than their sex lives. I was so curious about her childhood but you jumped right to when she was first active.
She’s very beautiful and looks like she’s in a dark place and wants help now. People don’t want to be in those situations forever especially at a young age. There’s time for a change
She’s from my hometown one of the most prettiest girl in our area then she all of a sudden just disappeared to see that this is where she’s been this is so sad hope that God leads you in the right direction and helps you back on your feet 🙏🏽🙏🏽
It is called mentally illness. She definitely suffers from bipolar issues. Her head is on straight actually and she has no kids but she obviously needs help with her bi polar issues...that it all..
I went into job corp when I was homeless..at that age my family dropped me off 1500 miles away and left me there at 17. You can live and go to school until your 26. They pay you to take a trade. Job corp will help people if they have any records to get jobs.
This is true because I am a Residential Counselor at the jobcorp in Milwaukee. BUT she would have to know how to live under structure because you like I know, "There are many regulations she would have to live by"!!!!! I have seen a lot of homeless students come and go because they were either A. Did not want to follow the regulations or B. They become highly irate with staff on a regular. It's hit or miss with most of our homeless students. It's SAD.
It is sad. It's really hard to commit to something in general but growing up with no structure or support you're just used to being able to do whatever you want. With no real consequences. It really is not a good thing growing up with parents that had no boundaries. My sister is 37 and is addicted to heroin while she was pregnant using heroin all the way up to delivery. She robbed my brother for a lot of money and my father still supports her. He feels guilty now trying to do the right thing. She's not going to change because she is being allowed to do it and get away with it. You're right and someone can try to help someone but if they don't want help , we can't force it . Just don't enable the behavior. When you're young you don't know any better. I loved Job Corp. Also , I have to add I was completely bullied in school , when I was younger and I snapped and got in to a lot of trouble as a teenager, none of it was on my record I hope but I was really abusive to my parents but they were not innocent. Like letting my brother throw me down the stairs everyday . A lot more than I can speak of on here. All the young kids want is love and acceptance.
H Why in the world is this white boy out there questioning her like that? Some of those questions make me think, he's peeping her for a reason. I just hope he is really trying to get her some help and not trying to be slick.
@@TSCOTT-oz5vy it’s definitely not to late for her no matter what she going through right now she & her life can change at anytime the way she think & go about thing can change as well I’m not going to count her out …. I definitely believe in second chances
I'm glad you brought this story up because recently about 5 years ago I went back to Atlanta thinking things with the same I had a friend boosting my head up thinking I can get this good job when I come my son was 4 years old I gave up my house here wanting to be in the city she couldn't help me get a job she barely wanted to help me go look for a job she felt like I can catch the Martyr everywhere I had my only child there with me everything in me wanted to do something to her but I'm sure she's down there going through it but I know one thing she'll never be a friend to me again
I went through the same with a so called “friend” moved into her city on the promise of her helping me and when I got there she left my a** hanging. Years later I realized she was jealous and wanted to see me fall smh.
She's a beautiful woman. I think if she would only show herself trustworthy, someone would date her again or give her a chance towards a friendship. People can't allow someone in their homes or in close proximity to their everyday lives and have to sleep with one eye open and a finger on the trigger.
I wish this young woman the best of luck, and I hopes she soon finds stable housing. I have no right to blame her for her predicament, but an attitude is a powerful force. It can work for you or against you.
Take some pointers from Mark. At Soft White Underbelly. This is NOT the way to interview. You're borderline trying to exploit. Not really help. Logging off...
@@GB81369 you think the military gonna take her? Hell do you think she would even go to the military? Just take one look at her, All the stupid tattoos on her face and the hair and piercings. Stripping or rapping is all she can do LOL
He’s always saying weed and alcohol aside. Lol you do know that ppl can be addicted to alcohol right? To the point they ruin their lives for it? Alcoholism is just as much a hardcore drug (when abused) as something like meth.
Wow, 22? Black people for the most part don't look older than they are,especially when we are in our 20's ... She's really had a hard life and her face shows it.. I'm not believing she's 22...
Lord, protect guide, and lead this woman. Allow her to come in contact with people who will mentor her and guide her and put her in a position to not only get a roof over her head, but to also to cover her finances. Amen🙏🏽💕
I was homeless on and off with my daughter for 5 years she's 5 now I just moved into my apartment in may my rent is paid for the. Year NEVER GIVE UP NEVER STOP PRAYING 🙏GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME
Hard times doesn't last long. I pray she finds a great program to assist her back to her greatness. She is still very pretty and worthy of human compassion.
I have a daughter that 22 in these streets and she looks just as bad. If y'all think she is not on drugs y'all crazy as she is. The fact she lying about her drug use she don't want help. She ain't robbing nobody for candy she is all bones. Her family probably know she on drugs and will do anything 4 them. That's why he ask her twice do she anything because she lied about getting high. Don't nobody that young be out in the streets 4 nothing.
@@leroygreen9227 NOT ONLY her teeth, its her mannerisms as well. I can spot it easily. The way she lick her lips & hold her mouth. & Im willing to bet that her raspy voice is not for nothing! I guess she simply doesn't want 2b honest bc she wants to keep her personal business to herself but it's very obvious 2me that she has a drug problem & rehab should be the 1st step she takes getting her life 2gthr. Prayers going UP 4U young lady🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Man this was a very good interview, until the interviewer started asking the girl about working at strip clubs and going to customer to customer. Shame on you man. You only got 1 job to do, and thats interview the person, not give advice. Bad advice at that. Just Because she is pretty with a body, does not mean she belongs in a strip club or screwed by multiple men. The advice you gave her is whats in your heart..
These folk who lie down have sex just because they can, get up and drop these children and leave them to raise themselves is so devastating to see where they end up later. You will pay for it.
She buttoned up that jacket when he suggested dancing😂 I know that's right love. She regret the things she's done. Probably, slept with family members men and everything. Bounce back love. The streets raised you. So, you don't have a answer to your future.
Really Dude. You can't interview better than this? Or give better advice? Or point her in the right direction without exploiting her and making filthy suggestions? I wish I knew who you are. I would report you!
I knew girls like this in school and I never could understand why they treated their mother or parents the way they do, but now I realize it’s bc their parents were trying too hard to be a bestfriend than parent 😩
She's only 22...she's in an unfortunate situation that prayerfully will change sooner than later🥺😢 🙏🏾 My God I couldn't imagine being homeless at that age. I have kids around her age. God Bless her soul! There's nothing to hard for the Lord!
What I noticed is that as the interview continued she became more and more ashamed (for lack of a better word) of her situation. She started to try to fix herself up and I think she became offended by some of the questions. There was a shift when he asked if she stayed with her male associate in exchange for sex, again when he asked about drug use and also when he asked about her mental history. The fact that she tried to fix herself up means that she still has dignity and a chance (may God have mercy).
@@John-ef8zf I think all of them on the streets do something. I'm hoping at least she recognizes that she needs to change and take some responsibility.
This why irs so important to learn how to take on the spirit of beening a wife or learning how to get educated a go to work sister pray to the God of Creation and change your spirit and mindset
