26 days after Ivory died of lung cancer. Giving an update on how things are going with our family. 

Hello Tom🌻 So nice to see that you guys are doing so much better. Sweet Ivory will be so proud. Kyle is such a cutie ‼ can see the mischief in his face. Thank you for correcting us on the spelling of beautiful Zuri's name. I'm an old lady 🤯 and have been left behind with all these beautiful new names. Rest gently with the angels, Sweet Ivory🕊🌻❤. Lots of love Tom and to the children❣

I love to see Kyle so happy!! Yay!!!! Glad u are doing much better!!!!💗❤️💕

Kyle is like the smartest child, amazing!! A born comedian! He will go far in life.

Zuri is so beautiful ❤

Zuri is so beautiful, so pretty, like her Mum. Kyle too, he’s a perfect mixture of you both and a bundle of joy. I’m so glad this week has been okay, of course it’s one day at a time. Sending hugs to you all ❤️ xx

Still prayer for strength and comfort. Your daughter is Beautiful❤

Ivory’s BEAUTIFUL family 🙏🏽 God Bless 🙏🏽

I’m so glad that you and your family Are slowly getting settled in life without Ivory ♥️🫶Enjoy all these calm moments ..Just be assured that this will get better stay focus and strong 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

Let Kyle be the little boy he is on video I'm sure we're all enjoying it he gave me a giggle

Sorry 😔😓I missed your live chat. It's nice to hear you guys are slowly getting back to some normalcy. It's nice to see the kids too Zuri and Kile. Thanks for updating us all Tom, much appreciated. Keeping you all in my prayers. 🤗😍🌹🙏

It’s nice to see the family happy and smiling ❤. You all work great together as a Family. I too have a step daughter and she means everything to me along with my son.

Thank you for letting us all know how you are doing. Your children are beautiful ❤.. I lost my husband six months ago to Stage 4 lung cancer only 3 weeks after his diagnosis .. everyday has felt surreal with my emotions fluctuating from overwhelming grief and loneliness to love and joy. It’s truly a rollercoaster ride. I wish you healing and peace and joy in Ivory’s beautiful memories.

Such a loving dad and husband. Praying for your hearts healing and happiness.

Take time to grieve Tom! You hurt for the loss of Ivory and thy will take time to get over. Zuri is so sweet and Kile is high energy.

How wonderful to see the children laughing and smiling🥹❤️… Caio is so precious, his happiness reminds me of Ivory’s radiant attitude 🥰… Zuri is an amazing big sister, I love how attentive she is towards her brother. Ms. Ivory has a beautiful family💙. Wishing you all peace in your hearts❤️

Zuri has very sweet smile like her mum n pretty too ..all the best in your coming test.

Nice to see you all are doing ok. I see your hands are very full with your son for sure. ,Your daughter is beautiful and very matured. Wish you all well

So sorry to miss you guys live. It's great to see your coping well and trying to have fun. I'm glad that Ivory is not in pain anymore. She'll always be with you. Much love from NC, USA

Nice to see you and your family are well and happy😊

Hello Tom Suri and Kyle ❤ so lovely to see you all. I think you should make Sunday nights a “check in night”. We all love to here your progress and see how you are doing. Ivory is looking down I’m sure she is so proud of her family ❤

Such a beautiful family. Rip. Pretty Ivory.

You are doing a good job Tom. Ivy can only be too proud of you

Kyle is so funny 😂 You are such a strong role model for your children and thank god that they have you. Fingers crossed Zuri for your exams and I know you will have a wonderful time in Greece, it's such a beautiful place and the sea is breathtaking. Sending all of my love, hugs and thoughts and remember we are he always xxx

Zuri is so pretty

The little baby kyle is so cute 😂and lots of energy, very funny 😄. I am glad you are doing all fine..

It must be difficult . But you are doing extremely well. The kids looks happy. ❤

GOD Bless your family ❤. You are a good dad!

Great to see you all so glad to see your doing well ❤❤❤

What a beautiful family you are. God bless you.

Thank you Tom for the update. Wishing you all well. Love you guys 🙏🙏💙💙

Kyle is a cutie ! He’s a normal boy with lots of energy and wants to have fun . Of course it must be hard at times for him especially at night when he wants his mum . However , he’s got an amazing, loving and caring father 🥰✨💖✨💚✨ And a fantastic big sister ❤✨💖✨💚✨✨🥰 Edit : BTW I know what you mean when you say that you don’t want people you don’t really know always asking you about how you feel about Ivory’s passing . It stops the healing process . And it can make one feel more depressed. Good friends and good family will help physically with things that need doing and try to cheer you up!

I have been keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry for your loss and thank you for your updates. You all are such a beautiful family.

That little kid is full of beans! Happy to see your lovely little family are doing well ❤

I’m happy to see you guys here! Good looking kids u have.

Sending you all calm in coping with the highs and lows of grief.

What a beautiful family ❤️🙏

Always in my prayers 🙏

Love to all of you...glad to see the smiles on your faces

Really nice to see a smile on you guys and I’m in the US my name is Elba 😊

Beautiful Family Lots of Love and Prayers ✝️💜

Your daughter looks so much like her mother

Also: hey. Kyle is keeping it together through comedy. He needs help too! He needs big hugs and all the love.

We love to see you all smiling now🤗, keep us always updated. Thank you for this.

To who ever said the boy has medical issues. No he is a normal 6 year old. It is a blessing to see him so happy and active! God bless you and your beautiful family. Stay strong and be happy. May God be with you in your good and bad days. God bless you!🙏

Great to see you all!

Love to see you slowly coping up with the loss❤

Lovely to see all so happy ❤

Lovely children and Kyle acts just like my grandson lol It must be the age, Bless you all and prayers for strength and healing.

Sweet boy! Great dad for helping them to adjust as best as you can❤

You’re an amazing person. And inspiration. Losing people is hard. I’ve shut myself off from everyone and just feel I have to raise the kids. It’s painful and lonely.

Glad you all are doing ok. God Bless you all. TFS 🙏💐🌹🌻👍🌻

Happy to see Kyle so happy! I’m sure it helps lift your & Zuri’s spirits as well. Continued prayers for you all. ❤

What a beautiful family ❤

she is beautiful

Great to see you all ❤

Big hugs from Seeta Love you all 🎉❤🙌🙌🥰❤️

Please don’t lock yourself away waiting to join ivy, I don’t mean this nasty, I lost my husband at 49 and I have a new partner. Please live your life. Ivy would want that also. I am a funeral director and I see too many waiting to join their spouse. Take care ur doing an amazing job.❤

Tom.. love the name. My son is named Tom(Thomas) and my sons baby (which was born March 20 th) is also named Tommy (first grandbaby! ) I understand the feeling when people want to give you condolences in public and your really not ready for them. It puts you on the spot.. you are either ready to cry or become angry. All they are doing is trying to be kind. In America one of our daughters friends who was 16 at the time when I gave my condolences to him made him upset. 💔 because he didn't understand how to deal with his emotions and let's be honest here. Our teens whom we have a 16yr old soon to be 19 yr old girls our 2 older sons are both married they are 33 and 36. Anyhow, back to the statement.. they really don't know to express themselves verbally because they are texting, snap chat you name it and the actual conversation pieces have been greatly missed in this generation. I hope you understand what I'm saying. 😆 Your little guy is wonderful and Siri reminds me so much of our daughters. Time will heal all things. As for dating, you do it when you feel ready. Just as Ivory said.. don't listen to other people or their opinions. It's your life. Your son needs you and Siri to get through this. Ivory chose you for a reason. She knew you would be a great father. I hope you have many more great memories with your children.

He's adorable and it is tiring. Keeping him busy is key. Glad you are all well. ❤

I am happy to see You moving on with the children live with your memories and not living in the past your a loving dad with two lovely children God bless you'll

Ivory was a very smart and loving wife, i wish the best for you and your family.

Happy to see that you are coping well! love from India❤

Nice to see you and your kids, they look so much like their mom Suri and kyle. Seeing them keeps Ivory spirit alive everyday in her and your kids just feel so sorry for them to lose their mom so early in their lives, it breaks my heart but you are a good man and dad and will do anything in your power to be there for them in their lives 🙏♥

Que bueno que parece que están mejorando mis oraciones por avory y ustedes bendiciones

Thanks for the update. I speak Bisaya too, watching from Houston TX.

It's good to see you, and the kids are fine. Give yourself time. Give time....time! Be safe, greetings from Melinda from South-Africa.

beautiful kids. Beautiful family . Lots of love ❤ and blessings to you !

Thanks for answering my question

But she and you fight alot.i like and appreciate your love and care for her

Big hugs from Zim ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Thank you 🙏 so much. We know you are also busy. Thank you 🙏 for your update. We greatly appreciate it. And thank you for your time. Thank you Thomm, Zuri and Caio. SALAMAT nang marami. A million thank you and GOD BLESS. LOVE 💕 you guys.

Zuri is a 😍 beauty

Zurich looks really sad does she have someone to talk too outside the family .she needs Zurich time god bless you all all my love 💓 ❤ 😊

Happy kids are smiling 😃... must be hard to continue with life but it's best for everyone's mental health ❤️

Love to you all. Muahhh

Man, now you have to be mom and dad. And big sister is still growing, too.

Your son is the image of you thay are nice looking kids you are coping well 😂😂😂❤❤

Kyle is a resemblance of his mom and we know Ivory is very happy wherever she was now, seeing you guys trying your best on coping without her in your life is really a tough one.But life must continue, she maybe gone physically but she will always remain in your heart's.

Happy boy.

Nice to see and hear you all❤ God Bless

So sorry for ivry

I thought maybe Tom you can join a grief group to talk about your feelings and thoughts. So, you don’t feel you are by yourself. May God bless! Sending hugs and positive energy.

Caio is adorable. Zuri is so pretty. If you guys need a friend, I'm here. I can be your Aunt or Big sister or whatever, hehe. My husband, daughter, and I will follow your adventures here on RU-vid! :)

from negros oriental bais city,,, zuri she is cute beautiful look

Thank you for your update. 🩵💙❤️

Hi sorry to hear ur story wat happen to ur wife just be strong life must go on for ur children god bless 🙏 always pray to God to give u strength ok

Hi Guys 🤘🏻 Hugs all around 🙏🌸

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We love to see you all

Great haircut ! ✨🌺✨

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Damn. Not even a month and that kid seems elated with life. I would be a wreck if my mum had died.

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Hello Kyle your a cute young man

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Hope u let us see Kyle swim

I know you adopted Zuri but, does she call you dad? God bless your family I'm glad you are doing better

They look like ivory beautiful

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