3 Easy Steps To Find Your Personal Style & the Confidence to Wear It

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Today I am sharing how to find your signature style in 3 steps and the confidence to wear it. I hope you find this helpful to find your personal style once and for all!
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@annaknowles5314 2 года назад

I love your videos! It was really useful to try and pin down my style to three words and came up with: classic, comfortable, quality. I'm 80 next birthday but still love clothes and aim to look my best - much helped by your penetrating eye! I choose simple (classic) , well-made (quality) pieces that fit perfectly (comfort). You don't get tired of good stuff like you do of trash - some of my pieces are 30 + years old. I also like to add one stand out item to avoid looking boring - a beautiful scarf, a dramatic piece of jewellery, a lovely bag or pair of shoes.

@jacquelinea8224 2 года назад

What are some of your favorite brands?

@annaknowles5314 2 года назад

@@jacquelinea8224 I love Jean Muir - her business closed years ago after her death but her style was timeless; Jaeger - very well-made clothes; Max Mara - beautiful fabrics; TSE cashmere for ultra luxe sweaters. But you can find quality in lesser known brands too - and in thrift shops! There's an excellent book by Christa Weil called 'Second hand Chic' which tells you everything about quality and finish in good clothes. You can get a (second hand!) copy on abe books for a few pounds (or dollars). )

@Schlei602 2 года назад

I've the same 3 words!!! Love it classic and comfortable, and my wardrobe must be of good quality. Am 75 this month, still working as a museum guide and an educated Fine Artist.

@jacquelinea8224 2 года назад

I totally identify with these words. My heart wants to fulfill well made, but I need a few reliable brands to get me going. I've even gotten back into sewing with the goal of making a capsule of flattering silhouettes using French seams, but it's super challenging to find quality fabrics. And I live in Chicago! I'm retired, too so no rush. Thanks for the book suggestion. It looks like a really fun read!

@jacquelinea8224 2 года назад

@@Schlei602 what are some of your favorite brands?

@lose999 2 года назад

I have a signature silver bracelet. I bought it in Toledo, Spain when I was 17 and I'm almost 70 now. I never take it off.

@ItsJustFashion 2 года назад

Self-confidence is a half part of every great outfit!

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Agreed!!

@analys1422 2 года назад

100 percent

@BadassBitchProject 2 года назад

Exactly.👌🌻

@erallison1 2 года назад

Could you share your tips on taking care of, maintaining, and storing your wardrobe? I'm wanting to invest in some high quality pieces, but want to make sure that they last. Love your channel!

@lesleyc2704 2 года назад

I was so ready for his video! I have my style words “ Visible, Classic, Engaging’. Now I am exploring new style uniforms with the help of Pinterest. I have my closet staples and want to reimagine outfits now that I have a disability and have embraced by grey hair. My uniform is to challenge the stereotypes associated with ageism and ableism in society and to assist me in reintegrating into a post Covid world with grace and confidence.

@jacquelinea8224 2 года назад

I'm still working on my style words. Yours are unique! Can you share how you interpret visible and engaging in your closet?

@lesleyc2704 2 года назад

@@jacquelinea8224 thanks for asking Jacqueline. I was a big fan of neutrals ie navy, stone and grey with accents of plum, burgundy and green. I would accessorise with pops of colour in handbags. I decided to turn this around and make the colour my basics and the neutrals the accessory and I decided to try new colours like orange and to step outside my comfort prints of stripes and try eg an asymmetrical floral print. I work with children and young families so my clothes are comfortable and I wear flat shoes. I go for a youthful but not clownish appearance and I want to maintain a casual elegance. I keep the lines simple. (I’m currently in winter in the Southern Hemisphere.)

@jacquelinea8224 2 года назад

@@lesleyc2704 What a great interpretation! I love learning from the comments as much as Alyssa! 😍

@lesleyc2704 2 года назад

@@jacquelinea8224 I also love the Comments. Such a great community. Share your style words once you choose them!

@kristinchambers1968 Год назад

Lesley C I love your three words! I’m definitely intrigued by “visible” and “engaging.” Great choices!

@scheila8643 2 года назад

Had my birthday....now 72.... comfortable.... current...and creative.....you keep making the world a better place....

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Happy birthday!!!

@seriouslycarefree 2 года назад

I found your RU-vid channel yesterday. I am binge-watching it. You have already changed my life! I have been in a style rut since 2015! I didn't know how to get out of it. Now I know how to combine 3 different styles into one personality. All this time I thought I had to choose one. A dormant part of my personality has blossomed! I never could figure it out on my own. I'll write more again once I've had time to play around with my styles. I'll send before and afters! THANK YOU.

@szfrj 2 года назад

After watching your last video I came up with 2 sets of three words. It was such and inspiring exercise, thank you 🙏🏻💕 The first set is how I want to feel in my outfits, the second are actual descriptions of my clothes. So I want to feel ‘womanly , elegant and tall’. I can do that by wearing monochromatic, losely structured, sweeping lines.

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Oh I love that!!

@garlicgirl3149 2 года назад

I love this!!!!!!!!

@kristinekapteyn8973 2 года назад

So pleased to hear from a mature group, I will be 80 next year and would love to stay elegant

@chubbycheckers53 2 года назад

I liked how you added a pic of you dressed in something that was too girly and fussy. Love your videos and I am working to find my style and not dressing for what others may think is appropriate (for my age). Dressing to feel good about myself - confidence!

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Totally agree Connie life is too short to dress for other people!

@Julieonbeauty Год назад

I’m just discovering your channel this month. I’m almost 58 years old and have never known what my style is. I’m excited to try this method. Wish me luck!

@MarcelaProvaznikova 2 года назад

When I feel good I usually just throw a colorful or patterned shirt on paired with jeans. I have a week spot for tailored suit jackets. It always increase my confidence 😃

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Nice Marcela!

@jodrew1845 2 года назад

I'm in my 60's, looking to refreshing my wardrobe at this time. The advice on this vlog post is very much on point, especially for younger women. When you're starting to build a look, remember to add pieces over time. A signature style will change but it should never be extreme, as classic's are always in fashion, trend will return but never in the same way it was previously presented.

@trinalane6576 2 года назад

I've always been attracted to ruffles and colors and puffy sleeves and continued to purchase and not wear. I feel more comfortable in simple natural neutrals. I've learned to appreciate the style without trying to wear it. I've watched you for years and I still love you. Other people I used to like have changed their...mission maybe?

@verysophia Год назад

It's interesting how your charming, friendly, humble persona is mirrored in the great comments. You are inspiring on many levels, thanks!

@sonjakirchdorfer6838 2 года назад

Alyssa, you are already my style-icon :-) And you definitely have your signature style. I follow you know more than two years, and sometimes I feel I know your closet better than mine ;-) You always inspire me with your classic-chic style.

@4gma59 2 года назад

I agree. I'd follow Alyssa before any of the examples she mentioned here. Alyssa's got a signature style that's constantly "updated classic," and I love it.

@elfriedeschmidt4033 2 года назад

As always, clear and concise. I’m seeing what I have in my closet in a different light using my 3 words and I believe I do have a signature style. But in this every day world post retirement, there is less motivation to “pull myself together” like I used to when I was working. Add the “no place to go” situation these past couple of years, I feel like I’ve lost my oomph. At any rate, I love watching your videos…you are very inspiring…

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

I'm so glad you found it helpful Elfriede!

@trinalane6576 2 года назад

It's always a good time for comfortable, elevated casual. My 3 words. It's worth it. Never duck anyone.

@rachelw8161 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing this note Elfriede. In Alyssa’s ‘3 Words’ videos she talked about dressing for your favourite part of the day. For me, that’s as simple as treating myself to warm, buttery banana bread & a coffee at home. In terms of "getting ready" for this time, I think about doing things like wearing my favourite, comfy loungewear (it’s really cold in Melbourne) and/or wearing my favourite lip oil that makes me feel lovely. Mine just happens to be Clarins. You don’t have to be retired. You don’t have to be going anywhere. You can still do simple, beautiful things with your day. All the best to you.

@garlicgirl3149 2 года назад

I hope you get it back. There is still something about you!

@elfriedeschmidt4033 2 года назад

@@garlicgirl3149 Thank you for taking the time to send me this…it’s made me feel worthwhile and maybe I just needed to be reminded that I am. Tomorrow’s another day, isn’t it…

@marlenegomes4008 2 года назад

I have a formula for workwear and I didn’t even realized it until a friend called me out on it. On casual days I’m more random but two things are always on me, my stack of bracelets and earrings, big, small, hoops, doesn’t matter. I have to have earrings on. Love your videos. Love you style.

@carriehodges6566 2 года назад

I have worn bangs my whole life. I also started wearing my hair up a few years ago. Last year I went pink. My look is curated and eclectic and timeless. I have old pieces I like to wear in a “now” way. My look is an artistic expression. Love your videos -I love to learn about style. (I’m 67 and still growing I hope: Ancora imparo!)

@lissettehurtadoschoel7573 2 года назад

Jewelry is my favorite! Whenever my husband surprises me with a lunch/dinner or coffee/cocktails date. My go to is statement jewelry! It takes 10 minutes and go from mainstream to glamorous! No outfit change and piles of clothes….effortless CHIC! My husband loves it! 💎💕💯

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Agreed !!

@allthingswavy6420 2 года назад

It's what I truly love about Nili Lotan. She is suuuper clear about who she is and that confidence expresses in her fashion choices. She makes no excuses nor "adjusts" herself to fit whatever is "happening" in the fashion world.

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

YES - agreed!!

@tanyabooysen3958 2 года назад

Just watching your video on a Sunday evening in Cape Town Motivates me for the new week it really lifts my mood and make me confident with what I have in my closet 👖👟🕶💍👚💄

@andrealast Год назад

I am somebody who adores clothes and the art of putting pieces together. It's so fun for me! I know my style, and yet I struggle to put words to it. I hear so many people use words like "chic", "classic", "minimal" etc. and honestly, I don't know the difference. If I were to describe my style without set terms, I would say that I love earth toned colors. I very much lean towards white, creams and different shades of brown, but also wear black often. I don't always add color to my wardrobe, but when I do, it's a settle or muted/earthy yellow, blue, green, red. My top two favorite materials to purchase my clothing in are 100% cotton and linen! I do have a few structured and/or fitted pieces that I enjoy and get good wear from, but I always like to have some sort of flow in the outfit, whether it's the whole outfit or just one element of it! I don't always wear jewelry, but maybe 2-3 times a week will pair a gold set of studs or mini hoop earings or a simple gold necklace with my outfits!

@leashgang1 Год назад

At a time when I was really struggling with depression, I gave myself the gift of making my hands more beautiful. My nails are thin & constantly breaking & splitting. I decided (for better or worse) to use acrylic tips. I have 3 signature OPI colors which go with any color or outfit: Kyoto Pearl, Elegant & understated. Goes with absolutely everything. I use one coat. The frost give my nails extra shine. The look on my almond shaped nails is a gift I give myself every time I look at my hands. I have used it for years. Classic so it never goes out of style. Pale fine mica gold, also classic & compliments my jewelry. For holidays, I’m Not Really a Waitress, a deep red frost. One coat. Really! One coat.

@nancer63 2 года назад

Thank you for this, Alyssa. When you suggested starting small and shared some specific ideas of what small steps might look like, I realized I already have a few signature elements. The same perfume for over 35 years, because when you get so many compliments on it in your 20s and then across the years, you keep wearing it. And the same rings on my finger that mean something to me, but are also simple and classic. All that to say, I am finding it helpful to name those small things and know I’ve already been defining my signature style. Now I can keep going. My current pursuit is growing out my gray and finding the wash and wear, super easy but super stylish haircut that I’m going to wear for the rest of my life. 😘

@SharonWilsonJauquetta 2 года назад

Your outfit - my signature style!! White shirt, jeans, white sneakers. I feel amazing in this outfit.

@juliagoolia72 2 года назад

Every time I watch one of these videos, I want to purge my closet and only keep a capsule of things that are classic, polished, and carefree. But then I look at how I actually shop and dress and I’d say it’s more contemporary, casual, undone. Plus I predominantly shop vintage so my wardrobe is just full of “pieces.” So it’s a constant battle of what I think I want vs. What I actually do.

@liatori6214 2 года назад

"Having your own sense of style" is a sentence I like. As the matter of fact, Ted Kennedy said at the eulogy for Jackie Kennedy: " no one, that we knew of, had a better sense of style than her". Now, I will never be like a Jackie Kennedy, even if tried ( never did) The closest I came is that as a little child I thought Jackie looks like my mom (not the other way around). I am a person always a little on the search of my style and that way, through the years, adapted just this style. Knowing I like a easy system, a little classic and comfortable.

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Wonderful Lia - thanks for sharing that quote!

@rhonaklipp 2 года назад

The Three Words guide is fantastic!! I used it recently when looking for a top. It helped me narrow down to 1 easy win! I just LOVE this top and my daughter lit up when she saw my choice. It's my version of a button down. I've tried the white button down and it just doesn't work for me, too crisp. So I found an 'artsy' one that is perfect, with 3/4 length sleeves! I'll have you know I tried on a LOT that day and things just didn't look right plus I was on my own. I couldn't quite put my finger on it. Then I reminded myself to think of my three words and bingo! Thank you for keeping things simple. It makes it easier when styling or getting to shop occasionally. I am 60 and I've decided I have a 'shape shifter' for a body, so finding my style has been challenging. I have figured out A line dresses and tunics with leggings works great for me. Now that my hair is totally gray I find bold colors & prints work best as well. Interestingly when I found my button down and walked it around the store to see how it felt, another customer remarked how good it looked. Confirmed how I felt. Thanks!

@BridgeOfLifeStudio 2 года назад

I always wear the same rings, watch and necklace stack and then I switch out my earrings with my outfits. I have even had people comment on how they like that about my outfits and how it makes it instantly "me".

@sarapan9255 2 года назад

I have been folowing you for some time now. And it happened! For the very fist time there was a compliment i really liked. Someone said to me; 'Wau what you wear today is soo you! It looks great.' And i felt, that this is what i want from my style, to be - very me. Thank you for teaching me how to feel great in my old and new dress choices.

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Amazing!!!!

@Anotherprairiegirl 2 года назад

I wear a plain pearl bracelet given to me by my husband on our wedding day with a watch with a black leather band … I love the dainty with the chunky.

@lisa-janeomalley7041 2 года назад

Ok I think I have my words...eclectic, colourful and classy

@earstoheareyestosee9254 2 года назад

My right wrist always has my three signature bracelets…different but similar. I have five of them but add the fourth and fifth to dress it up:)

@janicevin4207 2 года назад

I was just musing that some women seem to know their style at a relatively young age and then I thought: wait a minute, I have a "uniform": pants, tops and a cardigan for every day/home and a jacket (prefer Chanel style not structured as a blazer) to go out. I wear my hair in a short bob (I have thick and straight hair) and always red lipstick....minimalist, classic, modern! Here you go!!! my 3 words!!! I think I was making this too complicated!!!

@SafianiMahat 2 года назад

I love the uniform idea. It makes the look more cohesive and makes the style more personalized. I’m starting small on finding my signature style, appreciate your video 😊😊

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Yay; have fun with it Safiani!

@alittlebitlaura 2 года назад

Loved this. A few of my signature styles are my RBG low bun that I started wearing because of my wild hair’s response to the heat and humidity of the south, my minimal jewelry and big Sunnies. My style uniform has evolved over the years but always starts and ends with 3 pieces - a basic tee/tank, any bottom and a layering piece because I’m always cold. Cozy, simple, chic would be my 3 words. Thank you as always for the inspiration! ♥️

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Ah love those words and your uniform!

@celeste-236 2 года назад

I was ‘always cold’ & had my thyroid checked, it was hypo ( under active) always feeling cold, especially if others around you aren’t, is one of the symptoms of hypothyroidism.

@Adeline909 Год назад

My signature style is EXACTLY and how you are wearing it Simple and relaxed.

@marionannmacredie 2 года назад

These outdoor videos are so next level! Visually and also the sound seems better? Content is superb, I love these videos where you explain with lots of visuals🌹🌹🌹sitting in winter in New Zealand and wishing I was wherever you are!

@winifredearl5031 2 года назад

Me toooo🙂❤ Greetings from Nelson, NZ

@marionannmacredie 2 года назад

@@winifredearl5031 I love her videos! 🌹🌹

@groovysecondhalf 2 года назад

I love wearing my Frye cowboy boots and have had them since 2015. I’ve had new soles and repairs completed several times so I am in the market for a new pair but taking my time. They are so me and many people comment on them.

@sherikennedy4117 2 года назад

i don't have a signature style...yet. i look in my closet and what an odd mish mash of "stuff". now, after watching your videos for awhile, i am able to take pieces and put them with things i might not have thought of and somehow....boom. looks great. for example, i put on a pair of black wide legged linen pants i have had for over 15 yrs, but forgot i had. lol. i paired that with a linen top embroidered around the neckline with very colorful little "people" that i got at a shop in mexico maybe 6 yrs ago. front tuck. black bag. black naot strappy slide. black and white fedora. all stuff years old. i got so many compliments on my "look". lol. all within my three words...minimal, classic, comfort. thanks so much. this stuff otherwise sits around gathering dust. merci!

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Oooh that sounds so chic! And some lovely stories behind the pieces too Sheri!

@marciagarcia8486 2 года назад

Emanuelle Alt will forever be my inspiration 😍

@violetgreen121 2 года назад

Love your philosophy on style, Alyssa. Most of my clothes are over 20 yrs old and many are older than that!! I gladly wear my dear belated mom's (great quality) blazers, sweaters, etc. I've only recently updated a few items, mostly shoes,/boots and have been gifted some great hand me downs. I have found your advice so helpful on how to style items to make them look more current and I seem to always get compliments on my clothes. People don't realize how old they are! Good classic items are hard to wear out and if you take care of your clothes, they seem to last forever. Just update them with a few 'styling tweeks' and voila! Sustainability at it's best. Thank you for all your videos! Bless you!

@KerraBolton 2 года назад

Thank you for your style advice and videos. The words that I chose to describe my style don’t match my actual purchases. I like relaxed, refined and classic clothes. But sometimes I choose a floral dress or shirt with puffy sleeves. I love both types of purchases but I struggle with incorporating the contrasting styles.

@peeksiek2135 2 года назад

Amy Smilovic is the GOAT. My style is very different from hers but still I learn so much. The “skin sandwich” and not matching shoes to my tops..like she says, once you see it you can’t unsee it lol. Loved this video, thank you😘

@alphabright9138 2 года назад

clean classic and cool. I love a jean with high low shoes and top sometimes a black vest or blazer. and a high end bag to go

@tracimorgan3695 2 года назад

I guess my signature would have to be my gold bangles that I have collected from my travels that I always wear, like your rings it makes me feel good even when I don't feel like I am crazy about my outfit

@brontec9769 3 месяца назад

Hey Alyssa, I loved this. I feel like you have a very healthy work/life balance and that you seem to prioritise certain things like taking a trip to italy each summer, etc. Could you do a video on how you manage all of this? It seems as though you have a really good 'rich life' if you know that term? How did you get to this place? It's very inspiring! P.S: and love this structured shirt/jeans style uniform in this video

@inspireme8695 2 года назад

Thank you for another video! I've binged these for the past year and they're always delightful and insightful! I've tried the three-word-method before, but it never seemed to fit until you talked about the words as something to describe myself, not just my style. I've always thought my style is comfy, flowy and classic, but something seemed to be missing, because I like to mix things up quite often. Besides, the words can be conflicting too, as you said. So in the end I've settled on unpredictable, smart and comfy as my three words and I think I'm a step closer to my personal style. Thank you for helping me realise this! Another thing, I really love your "make new out of old"-series, it really encourages me to look at my wardrobe in new ways. Thank you!

@karengeorge1598 2 года назад

What a friend and mentor you have become to me!! I now see the value in what I already have and by just styling them differently I can get so many new looks! I have discovered that I have a classic style that I like to add a surprise element (like red shoes) and structured pieces. So classic, bold, and polished!

@mbrazeaumodetrats 2 года назад

Salut je viens de découvrir tes vidéos et ils sont tellement instructifs. Je t'écris en français car je pense que tu maitrises cette langue est très bien. Je change graduellement mes vêtements et j'écoute à la lettre ce que tu conseilles. Merci pour le beau chant d'oiseaux comme fond sonore!! Continue ton bon travail!!

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Wow merci Magalie!! Je suis très contente que tu aimes mes vidéos et que ça aide!! C'est mon plaisir de faire ce travail!! xx

@carlosruiz184 Год назад

I definitely have a signature style, I have always dressed very similar, my purchases are only replacements! I still have clothes from university and I am 59. People think I buy vintage 😂😂 but is just my closet!

@JAkk0428 Год назад

So helpful Alyssa! I like classic, but couldn’t figure out what didn’t resonate with me. I don’t like anything that is too polished or put together. Classic, Minimal, Artistic/Undone Last two are just a dash of both elements!

@SarahCunningham71 2 года назад

I wonder if I’ve compartmentalized multiple signature styles for much of my life: things I wore to work were dictated by dress codes and other people’s standards, versus things worn in my downtime when I can experiment more, highlight other aspects of myself that get less focus during the work week.

@cadencehogge8528 2 года назад

Please do a video on outfit pairings from your own closet that you DON'T like and why!! It would be informative to see how to identify personal style outfit problems when shopping your own closet

@alex-goes-viral 2 года назад

Yes seconded!

@gillrobinson3517 2 года назад

Would you consider doing more videos about the 3 words? Meaning using real people as examples like you used Emmanuelle Alt in this video. Examples do help to make it clearer for me. Much appreciated! Thanks for everything!

@lynnscholes1617 2 года назад

Classic, current, relaxed

@edmeemoerkerken3066 2 года назад

Ever since I stopped dying my hair I find that the color blue suits me better than any other color. I think this is the first step to my signature style!

@elskooi1843 2 года назад

Same here 😉🙂

@bambina3148 2 года назад

You’re so inspiring Alyssa. Your videos really have that feelgood factor for me! Thank you ☺️

@TheZeyre 2 года назад

Always nice to share a bit of Sunday !orning with you wherever you may be!, Alyssa! Signature styles ... In the fall and winter I rely on sweater plus pants, jeans or skirts! Sweaters over dresses because CDA is cold. Summer is complex because I do not have that resolved yet. Do not have thr hang of blazers yet so I watch your videos! Have a great week! Thank you. Xo ♥️Joanne

@mariaisraelcialdini9356 2 года назад

This video and la video that talked about the three words helps me a lot to organize my closet and my settle haven’t been settled yet but hopefully it started somewhere so thank you very much. By the way my three words were not too girly ,open-mind and caring .

@marciagarcia8486 2 года назад

I’ve been following you for so long ! Definitely you have made a huge impact in the way I enjoy my clothes now! I’ve been to decluttering, thrifting … shopping my own wardrobe … and really having a good time dressing up everyday ❤️

@maddieh9005 2 года назад

Oh, nice technic. Find it a bit difficult, case my "thing" i do, i do only in summer... Will try to find out what it is in the other seasons 😂😎🍀 thank you🍀

@laurenesula24 2 года назад

My three words are, comfort, modern, embellished. I used this method to put an outfit together this weekend and was immediately complimented on it by a stranger. This totally works to put together outfits!

@nufoxiemommy 2 года назад

I am transitioning from business casual to very casual. Ready want to find my signature look. I’m glad sneakers are on trend because I can wear them again. I’m also hoping to bring leggings back to my wardrobe an I have a faux leather pair now need to add a winter and spring pair. I am also looking to add color back to my wardrobe. I am bored with Black, white, blue, beige light pink. It does nothing for my complexion. My three words, Classic, colorful, comfortable. Classic style: button downs, blouses straight/skinny jeans, cigarette pants, dresses, blazers, and flats/heels/wedges. My signature jeweler: studs, anniversary band, heart diamond necklace. I have hoops but with wearing a mask I haven’t wore them in a long time. Comfortable: leggings, knit joggers, sweaters and cotton short/long sleeve shirts, sandals and sneakers. Colorful: NEED to FILL. My most important staple piece are my glasses. Cat eye style bold frame. I love your classic style.

@miradjurdjevdan 2 года назад

Solids are my comfort zone as I feel messy in prints. The little things make the outfit…..rolling up sleeves or tucking the front of the blouse and keeping the back loose. I’ve always been a slow fashion kind of girl, buying quality pieces in natural fibers that breathe. Love the videos and love Sibenik as your backdrop - the Croatian coast line is magical.

@lucindalaree4666 2 года назад

I love everything about your channel. Your vibe is positive and “slow fashion “ and promoting thrifting and shopping your closet, using what you own and finding appreciation for yourself first and your beautiful clothes. Start small! Great advice:)

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Thank you so much Lucinda!!

@annewatkis5824 2 года назад

Love how you look in your button down shirt. Xxx

@bluegypsy71 2 года назад

Sounds like Apollo is scaring the birds 😳 but seriously, thank you for the style tips and examples, they’re helping me streamline my personal style…my signature style of late are classic simple line pieces (slacks, a-line skirt, in neutrals) with a small pop of unexpected color or avant-garde piece(mid century brooch, abstract print tee or fuchsia sneakers, etc.)

@jimandjudyc48 2 года назад

If I'm in a hurry, or I just want to feel good in something without giving it much thought, I reach for black and white in my closet. Sometimes the white is on top; sometimes on the bottom, especially in summer when I love to wear white pants, but black and white is my "go-to."

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Love!

@chyndarnaya6076 2 года назад

Dear Alyssa please make videos on formal style tips and trick, for going to a wedding, thanks love your Chanel so much

@evelynmelian-glick436 2 года назад

Love your videos! I am afraid that keeping a style for too long might seem like you are stuck in a rut. How do we stay current n fresh without looking like time froze a decade ago? Would love to hear your thoughts on this. My 3 words are effortless, classic n polished.

@karinefrommontreal 2 года назад

Alyssa : fantastic and inspirational as always! Found my 3 words so in order to start small I will curate my wardrobe over 1 year with my 3 words top of mind. Not planning to buy anything except if I need a replacement of an item or something I really need👸🏻🙏🏼

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Wow!! Good luck with the low buy Karine!!

@karinefrommontreal 2 года назад

@@AlyssaBeltempo thanks Alyssa! Small steps in the good direction😘

@sandihunter1260 2 года назад

You must be from Ottawa especially where your sunglasses were from. Love your channel. I'm looking at my clothes in a different way and putting together outfits from the clothes I already have.

@sylviebelanger3096 2 года назад

3 words hein .... elegant, comfortable and creative!

@lisadougherty5999 2 года назад

Great video, my signature style skinny jeans a great top or tee and structured blazer.🇮🇹

@sannastrid 2 года назад

One of my signature pièces is definitely a black pencil skirt. 😊

@teresanash-mcneil3443 2 года назад

Love watching your videos, especially where you use items you already own. I’m a self confessed clothes a holic so things I can put together without buying even MORE are wonderful

@CellaBella241 2 года назад

AH! Emmanuelle Alt is my fashion queen ... I adore her style!!!

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

ME TOOOOO

@marisacooper5364 2 года назад

Such lovely style tips, my signature style includes a watch on one wrist and bracelets on the other, I gush at your wearing your sentimental rings from your mom and Nona- similarly, i am wearing my mother in-law’s jade bracelet that she wore for 35 or so years and my husband just gave to me- it makes me feel so grounded.

@joywhitley3141 Год назад

Yes, you finally simplified a complicated subject! I would say my signature is wearing non-fussy but feminine pieces. ❤

@wrendor9465 2 года назад

Alyssa, loved the uniform take. It reinforces the 3 style descriptions. Thank you as always 🙂

@RB-os7qw 2 года назад

You might laugh, my signature thing is my nordgreen watch. I found them about a year before I found your channel and the fact I can swap in and out the straps (I have a go to pair and one that I barely use!) makes it a forever item. I can base my proportions around the watch face!

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Yes definitely!!

@lilalilahimmel 2 года назад

Wow that was a great great video! Love it and will rewatch several times. I'm currently in the process of finding my own style and what suits me. It's not as easy as I thought it would be especially I lack patience but it is so much fun and I'm "working" on it every day. My three words are "Sensual + simple + effortless", still figuring out my personal uniform but in summer definitely jumpsuits and my "start small" signature pieces are my straightened beach blonde hair and my three small, golden hoops on each ear. I didn't recognise these where already pieces of my signature style till you mentioned it. So happy that I'm further in my style journey than I thought I would be! Love from Germany

@ccf84 2 года назад

❤ I don't find my signature yet. But your videos help me a lot, thanks

@livethelawofone27 2 года назад

I really like the concept of choosing your 3 words. I'm not as concerned anymore about the way I want to be seen as much as how I feel when I wear my clothes. I'm still working on articulating it, but I'm gravitating toward 3 Cs: classic, comfortable, and confident. Thank you, Alyssa! I always love the aesthetic beauty of you and your videos! 🙏💜

@Eekyellie 2 года назад

Thank you for this. Lots to consider. I have come yo the conclusion that my three words are classic, minimalist and ethnic. In that, I always seem to enjoy a little ethnic something, be it a scarf ot earrings, occasionally a skirt or top, nothing too overpowering though. Still assessing my colours though, which are definitely evolving towards more subtle tones. It feels good to have a focus. A life long journey though, I suspect.

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Yes it is a long and slow process that is ever changing!

@annewatkis5824 2 года назад

So interesting. I am a petite gamine 5’ 0” and my weight is 8st 9lbs. I’m apple shaped with an extremely short torso. I have found jeans that fit with legs shortened. My three words are comfortable, fun and chic. Fit and flair dresses suit me best, or A line. Little gingham check fitted blouses and very fine knit cardigans. I have a lovely 3 circle chain my granddaughter bought me. Granddaughter said it represents me, her mum and her. I love it! Thank you Alyssia!

@ElliiiBlabla 2 года назад

The three words method helped me so much the last few months and I'm glad to see that more people talk about it! It feels like I understand so much better why I like something or if it's something I will also like in the future. My three words are dark/edgy/alternative (haven't figured it out yet), care free and delicate.

@bobhamilton6866 2 года назад

hi my name is theresa watching form michigan i love your style you are so beautiful i went shoping and bought some button up shirts i can wear with jeans i love that look. thank you so much for helping find my signature style.

@lindsayboudreau5520 2 года назад

This was such an insightful video; it's really got me thinking about the styles I gravitate towards and how I want to present myself to the world. I only have a small portion of time in the week to style myself, I work in the Operating Room and as such, wear my work uniform of surgical blues, and scrub cap (we also can't wear any jewelry or nail polish). I HAVE noticed my signature though, and that is bold, colourful, sparkly, eye makeup. I have hundreds of eyeshadows and don't go any where without a full look, and I never wear neutrals on my eyes! Ironically, I own only clear lip balm. I can't be certain of my 3 words yet, but "bold and edgy, and playful" come to mind. I love pairing contrasts; like platform Doc Marten boots with a short dramatic puff dress! Or a long sparkly pleated skirt with neon pink loafers. I love to play with my look, so I'm sure that as my personal style evolves, so will my words :) Thank you for the lovely video! Definite food for thought!

@silverfox5732 2 года назад

Thank You This Information Wasn't Overwhelming At All, You Always Looks Smart And Very Well Put Together I Love Your Vibe It's A Friendly One 💜

@MeganGarver Год назад

Alyssa, thank you so much for all the content you have been putting out for years. I just discovered your channel this year and it’s been very helpful and inspiring. I’m just at the start of figuring out my style. I have learned some wonderful tips from you so far. I would love to know who made the white tee you are wearing with the black pants and cognac belt at 1:33 into this video. I’ve been trying to find something like it, and I’m struggling.

@pocorosso765 2 года назад

Thank you! I have been wanting to work on this, but a bit overwhelmed. You pointed out that I already have several small signature items that have been part of my style for years. Small steps! So encouraging

@catherinegardner8407 2 года назад

My signature style is interesting pants and skirts, a top of some sort and always a jacket or vest. I love silver and wear handmade bracelets and pendants from artists. Always interesting videos, many thanks.

@lisawyckoff7070 2 года назад

My signature style has been scrubs! 😅 And to relaxed on my days off. That's why I love watching your videos. I love your style and aim to have similar. Trying to kick it up a notch. And I have very similar clothing to you, I just need to learn how to out it together

@mkendralandry1693 2 года назад

Hi Alyssa - I love your videos! I had been struggling with evolving my personal style and feeling like myself since moving to a new climate, and your recommendation of focusing on three words has helped me shop my own closet and feel like me again. My three words/categories are timelessly feminine, ethereal/otherworldly, and effortless. If an outfit feels too fussy, I feel uncomfortable and not like me. Swapping out my stilettos for flats and changing out my structured jackets for flowing fits have been a game changer for me. Thank you so much for all of your practical advice!

@christinamanucy8037 2 года назад

Thanks Alyssa! I think this is a key concept for slow fashion and a more sustainable closet. When I introduce a new item into my wardrobe, I style it with my current season staples and take outfit pics to see if it fits in. This practice has helped me identify something like my “signature” although I’m always learning, it’s a journey. In three words it might be cool-toned, relaxed, and quirky.

@AlyssaBeltempo 2 года назад

Wonderful tip Christina thanks for sharing!!

@holmbergmusic 2 года назад

Collars up forever ❤️😍

@MiaHessMusic 2 года назад

Well done, Alyssa! I have to watch that other video. I have 2 style types. This may help someone out there. I'm 68, a size Large (around a 14-16). I believe my 3 words are: Classic, Dramatic, Retro. I wear, when I get dressed up, statement necklaces. I love having a bit of sparkle too. I'm in the entertainment field. When I'm not "gigging" I guess my style is comfortable, LOL!