3 Things I've Learnt From My 10 Year Relationship 

Alfie touching wood when Zoe says she doesn’t know what it’s like to grow apart from someone is adorable ❤

Awww I've known you guys since I was a teenager now I'm 25 and wow! Can't believe how fast time flies 😱

I have been watching you guys since the beginning of your relationship.. really happy to see how far you have come🥹 Love from India♥️🇮🇳

I’m a third-year psychology student, and my marriage and family psychology professor taught us about all of these tips, so you guys are definitely doing something right!😊

I’m still here, honestly, can’t believe you and Zoe have feel together for 10 years I can’t tell if it feels like a lifetime or 5 years 😂 also Ottie is so big like I swear she gets bigger every vlog 💜

As a relationship therapist I love the first point, the bigger picture of thinking as a team. And I know you probably don't mean this given both your second points, but the flip side to this is codependency, constantly thinking as a team without any acknowledgement for individually could equally cause problems. ♡ love these!

Still here! Crazy to think you two have been together for 10 years! I wasn’t even a teenager when I started watching you and now am almost 24y having been with my boyfriend for almost 5years. Insane how fast time has flown by! Love you two, love you calm happy energy. Really enjoy watching your evolving content!

I’ve been following yours and Zoe’s journey since the first video when she did your makeup, it’s so incredible how far you both have came and how much you have achieved.. I am so happy for you both and wish your the best ❤

One thing I’d like to add about making relationships work long term, you have to each work on yourselves. I know you and Zoe have talked about speaking to a therapist, I think everyone could benefit from that, and especially couples. Learning to communicate is so important!

I’m still here Proud of you and Zoe 10 years, hard work And fun!

I'm still here! I am so proud of you and Zoe. What a beautiful, respectful relationship you've fostered!

I can't believe it has been 10 years for you two. I remember when you first got together. Ottie seems like such a smart little girl. She is growing like a weed.

I'm still here! It's so nice to see what a beautiful, honest and respectful relationship you have and how lovely you both are as parents. Can't get enough from cute little Ottie saying "Hi ya" to everyone and everything and sniffing around!🥰🥰🥰 She reminds me so much of my doughter when she was this age. Thank you and Zoe for taking us with you.

Ottie looks so much like Amanda at times, so cute!! 🥰 Been watching your channel for years, I’ve loved seeing you grow into the person you are now. So inspiring!

Still watching 😊 Started watching around 2015 during the daily vlogging days. I grew up with you during secondary school and as RU-vid was my “escape” from life (still is) you were one of the main people who I watched constantly that got me through school and now beyond. I loved travelling to London, Birmingham and Liverpool to meet you for your book signing, Hello World and PB X Sugg Life pop up shop. It broke my heart when you stopped daily vlogging/ uploading regularly but since your comeback it just feels like old times but more matured which feels refreshing. It’s nice to have OG’s like you, Zoe, Mark and Joe who are making it feel like the RU-vid most of us have grown up with and loved. This is how much you influenced me that my yearbook quote was “Always take the stairs” which I admit I never stuck too 😂 Thank you for always reminding me and everyone to “Do more of what makes you happy” 😊❤️

I’m still here. I have watched every single one of your videos for the past 10/11 years. Still to this day I’ll make time to watch them

I have been with my partner 12 years, now married. My top tips are never go to sleep on an argument, always go to sleep on a fresh slate and kiss each other night. Always make time to spend together even if it’s just eating 1 meal together or playing a board game together. Sitting together on your phones isn’t quality time. And honestly another thing I would say is key is make it your goal to make your partner smile and laugh every day. Laughter really is the best medicine 😊

I’m still here! 9 years later! Wow! I can’t even explain how much you two mean to me and how much you guys have helped me through so many times! Love you guys! ❤

I'm stil here! I've been following you two since 2016, same as Jess and Gabriel. All of you are parents now and it's amazing to watch! Have a wonderful Sunday night and an awesome start of a new week! :)

Loved the beginning of this video. 🥰 The relationship lessons were great, and it was lovely to see Zoe taking part.

Still watching this and I have to say love how you described thinking like a team. Also, being with someone that has similar values helps a lot. You two are great and thank you for posting this!

IM STILL HERE !!! and always will be. 12 years going strong 💪

I'm still here! idk why Alfie, but this vlog really brought me back, really made me realize that I've essentially grown up with you! You have such an amazing family, keep up the good work

I come out of a shitty relationship and have now found the love of my life. It sounds extremely cliche but I just know that he's the best person for me because we communicate. Communication is KEY. And I always thought "yeah sure" but it is. If there is an argument we are both like "Okay let's sit down, what is the actual problem here?" and then come out of it even better then before. Talk. Talk please.

I'm still here, loved the vlog. Love watching your videos and having them in the background while I eat or do some other stuff ❤

It's a weird but nice feeling watching this videos. I, more or less, been following you for those same 10 years, and I makes me a bit nostalgic seeing you grow and become parents also makes me think on my own growth. Hope that maybe I'll be watching your 20 years together video.

I'm in a 8 year relationship and I'd say the same. You have to work together, otherwise it just falls apart. And like zoe said, enjoy your lives together. Also I'm still here 💕

still here! I remember watching you guys from 2012, and here we are 10 years later! much love to both of you and ottie

I’m still here and though I haven’t been here from the beginning, I am loving who you and Zoe are together and as individuals. Keep inspiring, keep being wise beyond your years and keep sharing the love with us! God bless y’all! ♥️

Damn it’s been awhile this was my best childhood RU-vidr and it’s crazy how much u have grown now 3 mill subs already I remember being here when u was at like 300k and u have a child now I’m glad ur still going strong bro 💕

:”We would be disgusting together.” 😂😂😂 I still remember that valentines Video they did together. You too?

Still here! Can’t believe it’s been 10 years, one of my favourite couples ❤️

Some of my favorite memories with my dad were us going to the park, just the two of us. I love seeing you with Ottie

i’ve been with you all these last 10 years! these video always feel like catching up with dear friends. thank you both for always sharing! ❤

I'm still here :) I can't believe, it's been 10 years of your relationship already! I started watching your and Zoe's videos in 2014 and it's so nice to see that you're such a great team ❤

So crazy, 10 years and I follow you ever since. I was sooo in love with the lavender Sweatshirt but it is already sold out. I could cry 😭😭😭 Greetings from Germany 💜

I'm still here! Sooo nice to see you grow with Zoe, Nala, and now Baby Ottie! More power to you and your lovely family. Stay safe and healthy always! ❤

still here, and still after more than 10 years, I witnessed the period before and when you got together w/ Zoe never commented but what you guys have is really lovely, cherish one another

Money struggles are such a massive thing for us and it's stops us doing the date nights and the seperate things as we have children and I always put them first so we're still working things out as we go along in January we will be 14 years together can't imagine him not being in my life x

Still here 🙋🏼‍♀️ Loved the vlog, as always. I don't know what it is about you and Zoe but I just love your vibe. I honestly can't be bothered to watch vlogs but you and Zoe just hit different. Her vlogs are so cozy and comfy while yours are relaxing but at the same time very motivational which I love because they motivate me to get up and get shit done.

Still here. Most of the Future Self/Zoella clothing in larger sizes are sold out, sadly. But, happy for you guys! It’s a beautiful line.

Still here! Never skip a video and never not watch it till the end✨ Love you guys so much,have been following your and Zoe’s journey for so many years, it honestly feels like I’m watching my two old friends! Absolutely adore Ottie and love seeing her grow🥹🐣 I wish you guys to stay happy and well and create many many more memories together~ You are amazing and kind people that I’ve always looked up to❤️ Lots of love from Ukraine! 🇺🇦

I’m still here 🫶 I appreciate your videos so much, look forward to whenever you get a chance to create and upload them. Unfortunately I haven’t been able to make a Future Self order yet, BUT you always inspire me to strive towards becoming the best version of myself and be all that I can be! I’m currently embarking on a new career as a life coach and hearing you’ve been working on a new company, has really reassured me putting in every effort to create my vision will be worth it ✨

I'm still here. So happy seeing you, Zoe and Ottie so happy :)

Still here! 🙌🏻 loved the relationship advice, you and Zoe have such a genuine love for each other, ottie is so very lucky to have you two as parents

It’s so interesting watching this. I’ve been watching you guys for over 10 years now. I’m British born but immigrated to NZ young. I met my current boyfriend while living in America for a year and I am now living in England and we are long distance. Life is a movie I swear 😂

I’m still here! Been here a long time now. Started watching you Zoe and Joe all a long time ago with my daughter and she’s grown and moved out now but I’m still watching. Feels kinda like you all are my too. I love the collaboration on Future Self and dealing with chronic pain in a daily basis I’m always wearing something cozy and comfortable. If I could afford it I would get the the crew, joggers, and socks in the Burro just because I have shortie lamb lined boots that would match perfectly. I still love window shopping and all the colors are beautifully you both did an awesome job!

I’m still here… I do like watching and following both of your lives, you both are so lovely with little Ottie and Nala 🙏🤗

You can tell Otties a daddy's girl, she absolutely adores him! 🥰❤️

I’m still here ❤️ It’s crazy to think so much time has passed! I didn’t find you two on RU-vid from the start but more or less around 7 yrs ago! I’ve loved being brought along for your journey ❤ Happy 10 years and here’s to forever more!

Still here!I have watched you for so many years now and you guys are legit relationship goals. I have a 6 yr long relationship myself and I am pretty sure you guys have influenced me a lot. I wish we had more content creators like you both❤

still here!!! many more decades for you and Zoe :) all the best to you and your gorgeous family!

I AM STILL HERE 💛and I have a QUESTION! when Zoe was pregnant, I distinctly remember you saying there was a baby name you were contemplating, but ultimately decided against because it didn't seem to fit even though you really liked the name.I have to know, what was the name?! I've been wondering ever since!

10 years wow! Ottie has gotten so big!!! I remember the sims 3 gameplays and the Halloween parties, pippin and percy aswell! -love from Brazil 🇧🇷

Im still here.I feel like I've watched both of you grow so much from the beginning of your relationship its beautiful to see.

I'm still here and always will be ❤

Still here ! Been watching you for over 10 years which is crazy ! Love Your content and Your relationship with zoe and now ottie ! Always a pleasure to watch Your videos ! Love from France !

Im still here! Can't wait for the announcement🎉 gutted that the tote bag has already sold out on the new collab range! Can't believe it's been 10 years and I've watched them all, currently expecting myself and watching you guys makes me sooo excited❤️

I'm still here! Gosh, it's such an incredible way to chill, just watching your vlogs!

I'm still here! Thank you for sharing your advice at the beginning, I've enjoyed watching your videos over the past 11+ years and then seeing you grow as a couple. Ottie is so beautiful and a credit to both of you!

I'm still here! I have been in a 12 year relationship and all of your tips are 100% true 🙂

been watching for 10 years! always looked up to you guys and now we know what makes it work!

im still here. crazy to think I've been supporting you guys for 10 years, we've all grown so much 🤍

I am still here. I have been loving your videos for about five years. Thank you.

Still here! We're the same age and I love seeing you both grow both as individuals and as a couple :) you deserve all the happiness

Firstly, congratulations 🎉 on your 10th year anniversary. I have been following both of you since the beginning of you relationship. Frankly I knew you two would last long because thats the vibe I get from you guys (just felt it). Second, I cant not agree more about what you both said about being in a relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years now and we literally say the same as you did whenever someone asks for advice. I also want to add that a relationship is never 50-50, its 100-100. Only when two people give their 100% individually can they make it work.

These vlogs make my day! And they have done for 10 years now! Always watching til the end 🙌🏼

I have been here since practically the beginning of your guises relationship, and then you guys have taught me a lot about what it is to be in a healthy relationship and how are you should never settle. You guys have also really pushed me to not only better. The relationships I have with people in my life but to also better myself. It has definitely made me realise what I want in my future relationships just purely from watching your guises videos over the last 10 years, and I hope to 1 day to have a love and relationship like you to have and have a beautiful family as well.

Its so good to see you guys so happy and doing so well I can only wish you guys more happiness and blessings 😊❤

I love this cause my partner and I have just celebrated our 10 year anniversary too 🥰

I'm still here! Your videos bring me so much comfort but at the same time motivates me to go out there and seize the day.

Still here. Love all the family content. Such a beautiful family❤

Watching you and Zoe grow for the past 10 years has been so influential in my life in the best ways possible ! Thank you and congratulations!!

I like these kind of conversations Alfie and all points are spot on!

I’m still here. Love your videos. They are relaxing and make me happy following your beautiful family. Good luck with the collection, it looks great. Tx❤️

I'm still here! I have been following you and Zoe since forever, and I love your videos. Me and my husband have been together for 11 (soon 12) years and I agree on everything that you guys said in the beginning.

I'm still here, love your content Alfie, thanks

I pray one day I meet someone I can have a strong healthy relationship and bond with.

I’m still here..., hugs and laughter from Arkansas❤

Loved this. ❤ I love that you two are so close. Idk if you have ever done a chat with poppy, but I’m curious about any tips on helping your kids be close when they grow up. As a mom, I would love this for my children too.

I’m still here 😊 I’m not able to catch every vlog anymore as life gets in the way but love checking in every now and then

I'm still here! Love you & your beautiful family. ♡

Still here. Love your and Zoe’s relationship!!!! Appreciate you both so much ❤

I’m still here! loving the long family vlogs, so cosy and comforting to watch ❤️❤️

I'm still here! Loooove long videos and just watching you Zoe and Ottie living your best life!

I’m still here! I always watch the entire video. Been watching your vlogs ( and Zoe’s) since 2012.💖

I’m still here! Absolutely love watching your vlogs! Doing a bit of a catch up today and really enjoyed this one!

I’m still here, and so happy to be. love you from Israel and wishing you and Zoe the best! 💗😘

I am still here and loving the longer vlogs, especially with cute little Ottie. 🥰

I’m still here, so happy for you guys, this video made me realize I’ve been following both of you for more than a decade, it seems sooo unrealistic ! I’m so sad everything I wanted to buy is already out of stock… I wanted the lila jumper sooo bad and a tiny one for my one-year-old niece… and the tote bag seems perfect and so useful ! Hope there will be a restock soon, kisses from France !

I'm still here! Love the chilled vibe of your vlogs!🫶

still here!

Love that the tote has a zip never seen that and definitely so handy ❤ happy ten year anniversary and that bench thing is so cool 😎 I think its coffee ☕️ which can't wait #still watching

I love your videos, and I feel like you and Zoe have been in the background of my life for the last 10+ years! I'm still here and watching :)

I‘m still here and i‘ve been here for like 10 years. I love you guys!❤

Still watching, always watch your videos till the end ❤️

I've been watching you since I was 12 now I'm 19 and it feels like I've grown up with you and Zoes :) seeing you two grow from a screen is so crazy

Love watching you guys! Have done for years now. Such an inspirational couple to look up to xx

Still here, love everything you all do! Been here from the jump x

This camera is so crisp and clear xx