3 Types of Single Mothers Men Should Avoid: And the 2 Other Types You Can Consider Marrying 

Here's the sad part about how this ends. She is almost certainly telling your daughter you're not a good dad, etc. Those 2 will split eventually and she may end up with another guy. Your daughter will eventually learn the truth of the matter and will look at her mom sideways

Hang in there dogg...

That man better know his place. He's next on top of that sheesh

sue for custody as she stole your sperm under false pretenses. She lied to you about her pattern of seduction & parental alienation. She will only "raise" irresponsible hedonistic citizens.

😢😢 Wow.. This is all too common... Keep reaching out brother never give up!

Women were different back then

A needle in the haystacks

@@daniellewis4464if a woman is respected the man would get automatic submission

Was her first husband killed in war?

Back in the day ok Internet age nope

Yep !!

So many men can relate. A woman will destroy herself and her entire family just for perception. They love to brag.

Rest easy, my brother. Sometimes, the burdens we bear weigh us down to the point of dysfunctionality. That was the exact intentions many years ago when you were ordered to leave. Too many years have passed now. You've done your best. Your actions and words have yielded nothing. Prayer only can help at this point. I'm glad that you are free, sir. Enjoy what is left of your life- in pure joy!

Are you SC?? Especially after 9 years.

@@ericlloyd8059 SC? What’s that? And “Thank You!” ❤️🖤💚

you never look to see the spirit that told you to leave

They cannot love nor are they loyal

Wow, this is sad to hear things like this have really been going on for generations.

@Bwhite1917 They have, but it's up to every man to make sure his seed are protected and properly raised. We all have to be wise about what we're doing and who we're choosing so our future generations can have a legacy of blessings, love, and abundance. Good luck to you. I hope you choose well🤍

@alexishill3342 you're right. We have to prioritize creating actually families over just creating kids and broken homes.

@@alexishill3342 I hate to say this. Are you sure that's really your biological father? Based on what you've said about your mother it wouldn't surprise me if she's the type of person to commit paternity fraud and pin the children on him. While also never admitting it. It's way more common than people think. You saying he was supposedly sterile and 7 years later kids start popping up made me wonder. Have you ever been tested?

As a single mother, I did raise all three of my children on my own, and by myself but with the help of Jesus Christ, I had two daughters that that I loved/protected like lion over her cubs, but as much as I've thought that this dude is so cold and callus to single females. Just because he feels the way he does about single mothers, don't poison the mind of others because he feels so strongly about another man's children. I truly, truly, truly understand what this guy is saying. Some, many young males need to pay attention to this guy. I work at a hospital where I register folk in to have babies. I see a lot of 30 something year old black and white females, but the guys who fathered the babies present a driver's license to me with UNDER 21 on them. It breaks my heart, a young male - especially our young black males should not be put in a situation so soon. The days are gone when we had older males talking to younger males to teach them something about life - we now have this dude to bash single women because he refuses to pay money for another males seed. He'll forever be alone because he's so negative, and hard on a subject that he really need to come from a better angle or just let his not wanting to pay for another males seed be his business and his business alone. No woman in her right mind will sign up for him, however, if she's not in her right mind that should work for the two of them - they'll make a PERFECT match. I think he's in a position to teach young males something WITHOUT bashing single mothers.

@@wb1738 I agree with EVERYTHING that you're saying. My children's father wasn't in their lives because first of all - I was young and foolish when I got them. And I can now see evidence of using wayyyy too much masculine energy as they grew up, but I have learned better and I'm teaching my daughter's not to do the same. My oldest daughter, she's 41, not married, no children, middle daughter, one 14yr. old son, she's raising him alone because she made the same mistake I did of having sex before marriage, and getting a child. I will say that a lot of women make the mistake of dealing with males that never should have been given the chance then we usually go into masculine mode to provide fbut it doesn't help any situation. I've learned that women don't need to go into masculine mode, just be careful who we GIVE our time to because if we're not careful some males can't afford it mentally, emotionally, financially, and DEFINITELY NOT spiritually. That's how I/some females end up taking care of children alone.

Get you facts straight many men by their 40s have children yourselves. Also, Im sure many single mothers who are successful are doing fine without your middle class mind set. You need to worry about saving yourself from prison, unemployment, homicide, preventable illnessess and many other issues that plague men and prevent them from rising to their peak.

​@@yvettesinclair1717You say you have three children. You spoke of your daughters, but what about your son?

I see many single black women with no children. Black men are not marrying them either, and they get trashed for not having kids.

She played two men at once

As the other comment said - playing two men at once and against each other was the plan all along. She got CS and stole the BF's things. Win all-around for her. Avoid all single mothers!

Wooow. Someone could have got hurt or killed. Things could have got very ugly. Hope your brother learned his lesson. She would have got away without even a scratch. And the thing is a lot of these mother especially the ones with little girls will attempt to brainwash their daughters to say things to help spark to cause a fire on the situation.

Wow😮

Did ur bro touch the lil girl

M.E.A.T. 😆 I like that.

@@godflint. Proper credit goes to "Ask An Older Man." He used the acronym in one of his prior YT posts (It was probably one of his "shorts"). ✌🏾

@@SoundScientist1 Coach Greg Adams coined that term.

@@TheFriendlyPsychopath. Ohh. Okay. I periodically listen to Coach G.A. but I had never heard him utter it. (Come to think of it... His videos have not been showing up in my recommended video feed. Probably something weird going on with YT's algorithm).

@@SoundScientist1 ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dfRCmuHrKow.html

Well maybe if men didn't think bad about ALL single moms, you could have had a step daddy to teach you some lessons

Yeah been there aswell and also they are very ungrateful and acting like they making you a favour

It's definitely the worst thing a guy can do with a single mother. However, I think men who date single mothers should adopt her kids, if they aren't willing to do that, why bother? 100% loss on their MEAT investment if they do not adopt the children.

You don't need to adopt the kids. Just cohabitating or marrying her and you are already liable for child support. Most dudes just don't know. But any woman's who is a single mom who lived with you can take you to court for child support for her kids even when the kids aren't yours

@@danwelterweight4137 the equitable parent doctrine at work

Not just young men, young ladies as well.

happiness is not relied on money if whe loves he, but she just love your money and business.

Sounds like she wanted you for what you could give her. When the shit hits the fan you can tell whose for you and not for you and that person def wasn’t for you. Very very rarely will you find ones that are.

@@thadevilzadvocate And why is that? Because a woman cannot love you as a person, she loves what u can give to her (which is sad tbh). That's why u must find one with an excellent character, she must also be young enough so her pair bonding skills are still working. ALSO not a too high body count. So time is running for a man too, it's hard to get a 20yo when you are 50.

@@teeaymusik9811 I’m married. Go figure.

Wise Words!

All facts 💯

Sad but true. Single moms are basically done for. I tried a couple times. No more!

That’s basically what I did. I didn’t have any kids so why should I get with someone who does? I could probably have had gave a pass if the father was deceased depending the circumstances but other than that they were never on my radar.

Ladies who were victims 😢of poorly raised men, and divorced due to toxicity and life threatening situations. Listening to you all right now, despite my geniu intensions and all I went through to make my marriage work but my mother-in-law fraustrated it for me. Today am a single mum, reading through this comment sections right now,I feel soo depressed and sometimes 😢 suicidal. You all make me fee hopeless of getting a beautiful marital life again. I hold firmly to my faith in God that's why am still alive

3 I did it 1c but I knew before the 1 It was never my preference that 1 proved it to myself

slow learner

Hey thanks Brother, I am really trying to bridge the gap between the sexes and bring the message with a degree of “smoothness” for women but still straight and hard so that it hits home. There were a lot of editing…trust me 🤣🤣🤣

@@askanolderman You are creating valuable content! Onwards and upwards! 👏🏾👏🏾

This only applies if the father isnt there men fight to prove their are great fathers yet turn around and act as if only dead beats exist

Well said, good question for sure 👊🏾

@AirWolf. One of the great IRONIES OF THE UNIVERSE. 🤷🏾‍♂️

@@askanolderman I used to listen to Kevin Samuels, he asked a single mother that and I never forgot it, miss him. RIP

That's my go to question. Especially if I'm showing them some red pill content. But even than, women's need to always be right will take over. I've heard them say, "well if he loves her, I'm all for it". 🤦🏾SMH.. I ask again, is this what you raised your son to be? A man that will not want his own family?? Single mothers think we are knocking them. It's more that we are wising up. And realizing that it's a trash deal for us. I'm in my 40s. So meeting a woman with no kids is next to impossible. I did get a vasectomy. I'm totally self sufficient. I will sometimes sleep with single mothers, but they know I'd never enter into a relationship. I wish I knew this before I had a baby with my single mother, baby mama at 19.... She already had a kid at 16. I didn't know any better. I'm thinking I'm going to be a real man and step up 🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾. No one told me what I was doing was foolish. I was raised by all women. They encouraged it. Thankfully I started listening to a radio show host by the name of Tom Leykis. He was the original red pill guy. I started listening to him around 2003. Changed my life. Check him out..some of the videos are on RU-vid.. #Leykis101

I've said that same thing; I'd be curious to see how they'd respond when presented with possibly playing grandmother to another woman's grandchild.

And she did not get punished for that lie?

@@D-Thang_ I don’t recall her getting punished. I do remember him telling me that his brother just broke it off with the mother and moved on to void anymore issues.

​@velwear He is a sensible man !!

Lies people spouses die stop being a dummy

@@downbad2874 80% of all children born in the USA in 2021 were born to single mothers. You mean the 304's wanted Thugo's kid.

💯 percent true

With d way of the world today single mothers are in the majority so ur chance of getting a single woman without children is slim even career and military women are single mothers these days 😂

It's a lot of women with no kids dude 😔

I've just had a bad experience never me again 😂

No amount of loneliness is enough to make me date; let alone cohabit. My time and resources are just too valuable.

@@kem3703same I just got out of 1 year SM relationship, only good thing was sex which was first few months, after that it’s all headache, anxiety, suffering, more cons than pros, it sucked

@@kem3703same bro even I took her on holidays 😢 and she still ungrateful and disrespectful

@leocardoroger6270 sorry bro

Why be with or around her if marriage was never on the table. You should leave single moms alone in that case. You really just wasted her time or....should I say was she silly enough to allow you waste her time! Instead of dealing with an indecisive man she could have been on the mission to find a husband. Think about it. Men should stay away from single moms if the want to use them ladies recreationally. You guys are truthly bringing damage also to those kids around don't you see?

If you only dated her and didn't live with her, you weren't providing for her kid and the kid wasn't in your house so the inability to discipline him didn't affect you much. The problem is when you marry or live with a single mom and her kid, you can't discipline the kid and you get chaos while still paying for the kid's needs.

​@@hgfw9295 yup you're right . This man has so many flaws in his argument. So toxic. Gross.

@@hgfw9295You talk as if a woman is a child who has not accountability. What if she agreed that it was fine marriage wasn’t on the table. People like you are disgusting. You speak on women as if they are not adults and are these weak little victims who aren’t choosing the situations they are in. 🤢

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Thanks for not putting all women in one dumb box! 🖖🏽🖖🏽🖖🏽

Still till this day though best sex of my life 😫😂 single mothers will put it on you like their auditioning for an adult film 🎥

Did you get pregnant by choice or by force?

@@Convessosmosis😂

Most woman who does, avoid single father because of the mother of the child

You can never know them enough without sex unfortunately. The sex brings the bond and the bond brings whatever comes thereafter.

​@@insight360_this is why I think sex should be for 2 people who are committed to each mentally emotionally and spiritually between two people who are mature.

simp

Still in denial. Smh

Stop with the denial.....Until you understand the world works you will never be successful

If her children are grown the she is an elderly woman

@@جنجالی😂😂😂

Grown then she will be an OLD problem !!! Lol 😂 with grown kids that’s not going to respect you anyway

Let me guess, at the beginning of the relationship she was down to do anything with you. She was your ride or die only to find out later on that she was putting up a front the entire time.

Many do

​@@downbad2874most dont

Yes, you're so right. I'm tired of men talking about how it didn't work out with a single mom. Just don't commit to her in the first place!

I agree with you 100%! I do not like even talking to them in the first place. When a single mother tries to talk to me I have to quote Ralph Wiggum by saying "Leave Me Alone!!!"

Dont have relations with them either!

I will never ever consider that under any option!!!!

@@sjtalksandlife Let's not be too hasty. Single mothers have sexual needs and desires too. Single mothers should consider it a privilege for a man to go out of his way to satisfy those needs.

I don’t understand your reasoning and why you would go straight for the fact that the worst thing a father can do is to cheat? So based on your logic, you would rather your child not have a father, you not having a support system to help with that child, protection and provision, just because you have to share his penis? Just curious🤔

@@askanolderman Yes. Women who are forced to forgive and forgive grow bitter. Those wives and moms often get overweight and lose resons for happiness bc deep inside her self esteem gets damaged. At the same time the men who are disloyal are often not focused. They are not good fathers at all. They make it seem like by posting pics with children on social media but really usually as far as my observation they put on facade. Men who withdraw the energy from the family sector are not strong men. Those are men who consider the existing family an obsticle on the way to their personal happiness and fulfilment. When it comes to support system. No. Divorce does not mean lack of support system. He is a father still. Child will be with him as much as he wants to have a child. He would pay reasonable childsupport, no alimony, he would be back free plus a social role if a father when his schedule let's him. See.....you men don't understand women are deep inside damaged for having to wash your clothes for their husbands while you really bring leftovers home. I don't wish that for any woman. The feeling is terrible. Children hate for moms to be sad and bitter too. And you cannot be NOT bitter knowing your husband has a side chick.

@@askanolderman I tried to stay with my kids dad after he cheated on me several times. That was the worst situation. Nothing got better even after therapy. The trust was broken and I couldn’t no longer stand the sight of him. It’s sad that you believe that a woman should just stick it out no matter what the men are putting us thu and our personal happiness is irrelevant.

@@1newwoman07 ma'am we are just a hole afterall to these men. Produce kids and shut up and be grateful

Social liabilities that turn men to ATM 🏧 😢

Get out, runnnnn😩

Time to Bounce, Now ! Do not Tolerate Disrespect....

Just get out of there! Yeah I know it sounds hard asf! But you deserve better! You deserve someone who wants to start a family with you and where the kids are also yours.

@7 barrels worth Thank you as of a few weeks ago the teenage girls behavior has drawn attention from another mom who let her daughter sleepover the mother said my stepdaughter was out of control when she found penis straws in her own daughters backpack given by my stepdaughter she said my stepdaughter is out of control I agreed with the statement aloud and was told to leave the house while at work making money for the family her mother later saw the text but said and did little to nothing about it. I have been thrown out by my own family for standing up for values

@@georgevossen3846 This may sound hard and it is, but be happy that they threw you out. This is the ultimate answer to the fact that you were heading the wrong direction. Next time when you decide to date please for the love of god don’t date another single mother! I don’t know you, but from one man to another you deserve better brother! Keep your head up and better times will come.

Same in canada and usa

So true. "Maintain masculine frame" and "put her in her place" will do nothing but get a man accused of being abusive. Just having boundaries and saying no gets a man accused of being abusive. I finally realized in my 40s the reason i couldn't keep a woman was because i dont tolerate disrespect, bad behavior, double standards. It wasn't because there is something wrong with me. The only thing wrong with me is i am not willing or capable of being a womans psychologist or a mind reader to someone who is incapable of communication. Its a form of gaslighting when these simping PUA types blame men for failing an entitled princesses shit tests.

I hear you. Tread carefully Brother 👊🏾

@Vmac. Tread lightly. (I tried dating Single Mothers three times. I would not say that any of them were completely horrible experiences. However, as I've gotten older... I'm more protective of my M.E.A.T. Money.Energy.Attention.Time). No more single Mommas for me). Period.

Exactly it’s all risk cost and no benefits to help raise another man’s seed

I disagree. It’s fine to give a woman respect and honesty. But you certainly don’t need to marry them, live with them, or have children with them. No need to act like scum. Just be judicious and intelligent. Or you can just avoid single mothers altogether. It’s not that complicated

@@Underratedcommentator They all get the swerve the instant I find out they got a rug rodent / crumb gobbler - no exceptions. But do go give a XX 'respect' - Black Pill will be on the other side with an *I Told You So*

@@dedeborya9015 When I say respect, I simply mean common human decency. Nothing more, nothing less. But I agree with you on pretty much everything else.

Wow! Women, never date any man that thinks like this. Keep it moving.

It could work. Women, the mad insane toxic types that have been weaponized, use children including your own to manipulate and punish men. The laws and the culture in the west are to blame, but that rot in social values is spreading, it has landed in Africa and the wrekage is already visible. Just be ontop of the game children are good if the mother does not poisin them. If raised well with a good father figure and a good mother figure, they turn out well, you later become close friends as well as family..the purpose of family life. What the old man here is saying is the most relevant calm dissection of family life and women you will ever get. I am almost his agemate and he says it so well and accurately, I will use his videos to "talk" to my own children, both boys and girls

You don’t have much experience dating, is clear

@@marcialtorres8469 Yes clear to "you" I have 13 children my sister. All under my roof, my care, my responsibility.. Dating and sex is an evolutionary incentive with only one objective, to procreate.. You can date 100 million monkeys and become totally confused. You poor person is lost in the tree, you have lost sight of awareness of the big forest. You are stuck in the process, you totally lost on the objective..typical. I cannot begin to educate you! The ignorance and arrogance!...

He is talking about the Majority in this situation.

It does effect all men, but come on now, who ware we kidding? 🙄😏😏

Usually pushed out by a woman, there is a point where a man will sacrifice and pay the alimony and child support for some damn peace🥲

❤facts on facts best comment this is the thing nobody is acknowledging.Even the men who are saying they are happy with the single mothers now I still pray for them imagine 25-30yrs of life spent with someone the woman has an epiphany one day the relationship is over with and the man's life is shattered in every way 💯.

indeed! not all single mom are bad. human is fallible, don't put blame on one side.

Men tried to teach their daughters that in the past but they were labled as "oppressive patriarcy" My uncles daughter was raised in a very traditional Christian household. She was dating a very good guy but dumped him to run around with bad boy loosers. Her dad was irate and tried to instruct her but she wouldn't take his "abuse" Women just love to play the victim

@@redrustyhill2 I'm sorry sir but that was NOT the Norm at all. FATHERS have been Absent from the home for Decades. Check the statistics. There's more Men chilling with their Bros, incarcerated, Etc Every State is bogged down with millions of pappys that refuse to do what should come naturally ( some women also) That my friend is learned behaviors from the previous generation. No Father to Raise A man & show are Daughters what a Real man looks Like.