3 Ways To Stay In The Honeymoon Phase Forever (ft. Ana Psychology) 

Hello thanks for the video ❤

I won’t have honeymoon 😂

Welp... I’ll keep this for when I find someone........ Yup I’m keeping this until my grave

That one person who disliked is worse than a Karen

Thank u psych2go. Your animation is getting excellent

That is why I talk to my plants at school . . . . My classmates think its weird

Actually I was talking to human suddenly there coconut tree on his head now I am here to blame you XD

Cute.

that doesn’t help them grow-

Usually gets kind people taken advantage of tbh.. plants are plants.. humans are (for starters) manipulative, murderous, antagonistic, narcissistic, stubborn, ignorant, abusive, genocidal maniacs.. should I continue the list of what a plant cannot do?..

Niceeeeeee!

Lol I’ll just leave this Reply here :-)

@@Psych2go pfft this reply is so sarcastic

@@_fsg_ get over it. It's quite obvious psych2go is just being adorable.

Same..

Thank you 😊

It’s been a year and we’re not as naked as we used to be. 😆 We have a lot of quiet days and the transition makes me a little nervous. This is my first healthy relationship. I hope I’m doing it right. 😬 We don’t fight. We had a couple of deep discussions but no raised voices or rolling eyes. I might shed some tears though. I’m not sure if this hard or easy. I’m growing up that’s for sure.

that’s adorable

Yay

How long have they been together? And when did they get together?

@@kokokronch2922 they got together when they were 27 (they married almost immediately) so they've been together for more than 36 years now.

... You sure neither ever cheated??? damn... Your grandparents are lucky...

@~Pink Care Bear~ it's normal in the sense that you can disagree with your partner and sometimes based on emotions in that moment it can get heated BUT that is up to the 2 individuals in the argument or disagreement. It doesn't mean allow your partner to be abusive while having the disagreement because then your not really in a healthy relationship. Once that person crosses the line you enable them to continue. Speaking from experience by being married for almost 5 years. My husband and I disagree allllll the time but we don't allow it to get out of hands and apologize to each other even if we haven't said anything offensive, but because we understand that it's not that serious we can move on and be crazy about each other anyways.

That requires an amazing amount of self consciousness and repression. NOt sure that can always be avoided. I mean the yelling part.

Exactly

That’s good to know :) what’s your secret ?

@@Psych2go I haven't found just one secret. Taking time to know each other is key. What makes the other happy, angry, upset and making sure their emotional needs are met. A sink full of dishes is his biggest pet peeve for example- so I prioritize making sure dishes are done. I don't like socks on the floor, so he prioritizes making sure he puts them in the hamper. It's all about give and take. Not holding minor faults against the other is huge. Did he leave his socks on the floor? I put them in the hamper myself without making a big deal about it. Not nit picking the small stuff. Respect is huge, especially in a disagreement. Yelling and name calling never help the situation, but it's important to always find your way back to each other after an altercation. Forgive and Forget. There are no "Well that one time YOU..." in our arguments. We spend A LOT of time together, but it is nice to have a day away too- like your video said. What helps us the most I think, is being like minded- we want the same things in life, and have similar goals. It feels like we're working together for everything, instead of separately. Sorry for the long response, I couldn't think of just one thing that was important that I've learned in 8 years of marriage :D

@@laceystonerock6609 After studying (mainly man, women and dating)psychology by myself for some years, your explanation makes alot of sense. You have got yourself a high value man also. I hope everyone would be mentally that healthy that they can build rare relationship like yours. Hope you reach your goals.

@@laceystonerock6609 Thank you so much for sharing your story, Lacey! ❤️

@@laceystonerock6609 ty so much for sharing Lacey 🤍

While fighting all the isn't great, I don't think that's what people are saying. People can't agree on everything and it is normal to disagree with your partner. It's how the couple handles it that matters. If someone has a disagreement that's not a sign that the relationship is flawed.

@@CLAIRE-_-. Disagreements are bound to happen. I'm not denying that. But you can disagree with your partner in a respectable manor. How couples handle differences of opinion is important. I see fighting as a transition away from a discussion and into heated, angry, and disrespectful actions, including yelling. Your brain function is significantly impaired when you're angry so when fighting happens you're not getting anything productive out of those instances. It's better to take a break, cool down, and try to come back with a level head. Those are the times when you can actually discuss a problem with the intention of fixing it, instead of possibly playing the blame game and not listening to what your partner has to say.

@@allyson186 I agree with you whole heartedly on that!! :)

My partner made the choice to stop idealizing and consyantly haraung me, does that count

there's a difference between fighting and fighting all the time lmao nuance is a thing

S a m e

Relatable.

same

aro? Ur an arrow :D

Lmao,me too

IKRRR

Definitely agree as an introvert

This!

Agreed

Yes!!

Yep

This is exactly how my partner and I handled our relationship. Our only failing was actually getting each other to open up about our problems because we never wanted to bother each other with our 'small' problems. It works beautifully, and after experiencing it I'm quite tired of romance movies that pay no homage to it, haha.

your comment is perfect it doesnt have to end and the points you came up to are 👏

@@RyuuRider wow lucky you

@@RyuuRider finding a girlfriend is like 1/million for me its sooo rare😥and even if i had one it wouldnt last forever🙁

​@@samuraiboi2735 This is just my own experience. You can find people who will hold your hand just about anywhere, but finding someone who will do everything they can to support you through life isn't something I'd recommend you rush through. Be honest with yourself about what you're looking for: A long-term, loving partnership or someone who you can enjoy the company of for just the time being. Engage in things that make you feel fulfilled, and the people you meet while living an honest life will see that and want to come along for the ride. Waiting to find someone who honors you as you would honor them, even if it takes a decade, isn't mandatory, but you're setting yourself up to be with someone that will make you truly happy and help you grow.

Hmmmm...I kinda challenge that a bit. I believe in balance between all the qualities of the honeymoon phase.

That already exists, it’s called a bottle of Jack Daniels at 12 at night, when you should probably be going to sleep, but you know what fuck it, fuck work.

I'll buy ten of these. Sound better than gamergirl bathwater.

It's called MDA

It's called ecstasy. Try it.

As a lesbian, i also call my girl... my girl lol I feel the sake :)

That’s gross asf

@@o_KishiI don’t see how it’s gross

Yessss

Thank you, E K.

thank you

It's so true thanks to mentioning that. I wasted six years of my life like that and I wish (even if I don't regret this experience and the lessons I've learned overall) that someone told me that before...

same

What a beautiful story! Thanks for sharing! - Cindy

That is really good to hear😊 Could you say please two things? If the middle ground is accomplished imidiately, or might take sometimes a day or two. And if you ever experienced extreme emotions, as the video says, (obviously except happiness🤭) like anger, jealousy and so on It would be really helpful. Thanks!

I wish my parents are like that because they somtimes argue and shouting horrible things at each other instead of talking things through

@@thetreatment498 when we have a disagreement, we will normally approach the other and say "Hey can we talk? Something happened to upset me and id like to straighten it out please." we will immediately both sit down, unless we're busy then we make time to talk later, and whoever has to speak, has the floor and we promised each other no matter how small something may seem to you, its always BIG to the other person so we listen and respect whatever it is the other person has to say and we correct the problem. If the problem cannot be solved, which has not happened yet and i hope it never does 🤣, we agreed to not raise our voices at each other, give each other space as needed and revisit the situation. If a middle ground cannot be found we said we would just agree to disagree. But NEVER when it comes to my partners feelings💜 his peace of mind is my peace of mind and vice versa💜 We try to keep good vibes in the house at all times💜

@@thetreatment498 as for the extreme emotions, yes we both have experienced extreme anger but its always towards other people🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 its weird how well we get along, my husband is definitely my best friend, we're into the same things and we often feel the same about everything and it just makes everything so comfortable and happy💜 i know things cant be perfect 24/7 but when you have great open communication they often very close to it.

and ur the sweetest

@@soobinsolos tysm! 🤍

Awww thankyou so much. Your are cute 🧡

aww thanks

@@flamingaish tysm! 🤍

Thank you so much! Rina is amazing! One of our newest member on the team :) - Cindy

Agreed. I love all the insiders planted.

That can happen sometimes. I love that for you, BTW. 😊❤

How did you do ?

@@esma124 How did I do...? Well, if this answers your question, we are currently saving up to move in together. But first, vacation!

@@JazzTheChameleon congrats !! But i mean how did you do for keeping your relationship this way

@@esma124 You mean how...? Wow. Well. I'm not sure how to explain it. I think in the beginning we both suffered from anxiety & depression from our situation. We were in fear of trying, & failing. It would cause motivation issues with us both. But we loved each other. I also was still unstable from my last relationship (was also long distance, broke up after 5 years), so we'd get into arguments over dumb things, most of it cuz of my own mental state. I've had a few breakdowns...felt like I fell into a dark hole every time. A few years later, a friend of mine pushed me to try & get welfare, food stamps, & join a job program. Once I got a job, & he finished college with a job, I started recovering, & just like that, our fighting just came to an end. Sometimes, when you're struggling, all you have to do is push to change your situation, even something small, for it to get better.

Press onward !

hey, i would like to know your opinion about "sorry i have to focus on my college first" or such things because it's such a lazy reason for not maintaining relationships.

@@nabiwachouagred

Then you should probably tell him how u feel he can’t know if u don’t say

Try talking to him and telling him how you feel might bring you guys closer Hope it works out for u

I definitely would talk to him about your feelings, and if he still doesn’t make an effort, you may have to let him go. It’s sad, but we can’t change others. You deserve the best!

I understand this, however I'm an autistic girl in a relationship with an adhd boy. He's bound to forget. I'm bound to forget too. We both screw up a lot but still make it work because we both knew what we were getting ourselves into.

Thanks for all the replies! I did talk to my boyfriend, it was a long and hard talk. In the end he decided he would make a schedule for affection. It's not ideal as random acts of affection are preferable, but he's making an effort. He genuinely wants to make me happy and scheduled or not I enjoy the affection. So in the end, it's all good ❤️

Yes! So absolutely true! Thanks for sharing!

yes

Chrysanthemum

Person with leaf on their head has gotten me through a lot

Hi time traveller

Me too

@@user-tr3jw1df6q thats the name of that person?

That’s genius, thank you

You will one day and when you do it will be the most wonderful feeling in the world

Same here 😁

@@liamrenaud2347 why 😳

I have the same issue.

It’s inevitable if they find someone they find more intriguing. That spark w someone doesnt come often but when it does, it’s magical.

@SweetChick10101 I’m so glad you mentioned anxious attachment style. I always struggled with that but after being in my first healthy relationship, it’s been really eye opening. My boyfriend lives in another state at the moment and there’s not a doubt in my mind about our relationship. It’s the best feeling ever 🥰

I would recommend individual counseling for yourself. Maybe there are some unresolved traumas in your past? Best of luck to you! 💕

This comment made my day.

Thx

What happened mate?

@@shaunnathanson6905 Long story short my high school sweetheart and fiance ran off with my good friend. Now they live in my old apt together and are gonna be moving cities in a few months. Shits been rough but we do what we can to survive.

@@lousassle4704 sorry man no one desvies that kind of pain you will meet the right woman one day like I have never give up hope God bless you man!

I know it's grim and lonely right now, but I know that you will find someone who will love you, and treat you with the respect you deserve in a relationship. Focus on yourself, love yourself, and everything else will fall into place when you least expect it.

@@lousassle4704 i am so sorry that happened to you. That must be sp hard when you spent so long with someone. I know I'm just some stranger on the internet, but i really do wish you all the healing and good going forward

How are things going for you guys now? Does it still feel new and fresh? Im currently going thru a bit of a depression and i'm feelin like i'm loosing the love i once had, with the girl who is literally the love of my life, and i would really love to get the feelings i once had, back..

One year is still the honeymoon phase, if you're out before one year I say the relationship won't work

​@@WilliamJayG2 you should first work on yourself, only by accepting yourself you can love someone else

Thank you so much!!

aww thats amazing💕

@@kevinjacob2652 thank you 😂 I really couldn’t help myself his helped me a lot with me own mental struggles 😁

@@helloyoungones1678 that good to hear I hope things will go even better than they already are for you!!!!

@@kevinjacob2652 thank you and I hope you have a wonderful life as well 😁

@@helloyoungones1678 thanks🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

My boyfriend and I are about 8 months into dating and even though we’re not even close to marriage like you, I was wondering what you did to keep the passion going? Recently it’s been feeling a little dull. I don’t know exactly how to explain it but it’s been eating away at me and Im trying so hard to fix it. I know I love him so much and I don’t wanna lose him but I just feel something is missing. Idk if it’s something I need to do or something he needs to do but I just wanna get back into the honeymoon phase. I know he loves me but he’s not doing the same stuff he used to like sending me compliments as we’re saying goodnight, making moves on me, or just knowing what we should have planned for dates. I think he’s getting complacent and I feel like I’m putting in more work into our relationship. Could you please give me some tips?

That’s so sweet 🥰

Bro said “uwu” you 100% got cheated on

Maybe they're insensitive, and because they are so, they don't realize it for themselves

@@Jenavee26 that's what my therapist said too. Still, it eats at me. All I want is to love someone, i don't ask for the same intensity in return. Just looking for one person who can bear me, preferably for the rest of my days. Though I know that's a lot to ask, especially considering the thing I am.

@@Resident--a you're not a "thing". Keep your head up man, don't underestimate yourself okay ? It's okay being sensitive and I'd say wanting to discusss things instead of arguing, I think that it's more matureness than anything

@@Resident--a Maybe you are sensitive and that's a beautiful thing ^^ You deserve to be loved. You know the saying (no matter how corny it sounds it's still true): love yourself first. Easier said than done, but possible. Good luck 💚💚💚

Listen, you're a golden guy, don't let some b****es tell you otherwise😊

No problem :) Thank you for collaborating with us!

imagine being in a relationship couldnt be me

Good Luck bud

@@flohwalzer you'll find that special someone eventually, it's just a matter of time ;3

@@Asgretalos thanks pal

I recommend learning your girl's love language. Knowing someone's love language can help a lot

I can relate to you so much, thank you for writing your thoughts so articulately. I hope you're doing well on your journey 💖

Exactly

I heard that a lot but...1 year is still honeymoon phase

Thank you!! Would you like to see more? :D

Thanks so much! Amanda has the best voice! - Cindy