30 Minimalism Do's and Don'ts (Minimalism Made Simple)

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Today, I want to make minimalism simple for everyone! So I'll be sharing 30 Minimalism do's and don'ts. This video will be great for anyone who's starting out with minimalist living or decluttering. But also for anyone who feels a little stuck or in need of some fresh inspiration, or who feels ready to take the next steps in simplifying their life.
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@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Did you enjoy this “Do’s and don’ts” setup for a video? And if so, which topic should I make a Do’s and Don’ts video about next? Maybe self care, slow living, decluttering, or something else? Let me know!

@Robert-qm1ld 2 года назад

I hope this isn't a test, I might fail some of these thirty. 😭 I wait too long after I decide to get rid of particular things, that's not so good as you pointed out. Maybe more videos on what is in your kitchen and food prep? I don't know if there is enough viewer interest though. Hi Vera 😀

@jennierollins8789 2 года назад

☮️🌷🥰

@lizzabbott 2 года назад

I’d love to hear your do’s & don’t’s for planning a trip !! And packing for it. I know there are lots of variables / preferences for people with this. But I’d love to hear yours !

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

@Alice Congrats on the new job, so excited for you!!

@solarhydrowind 2 года назад

Hi! Lovely video, as usual, Vera! I would love to hear a Do's and Don't's video about maintaining a workable life... What you Do and Don't do that keeps you keeping on... You've probably mentioned all of these before, but maybe there are some hacks that are simply magical? 🌺☀️🌍🌏🌎✌️🕊️Like, I know for me, good food, water, and sleep are the most healing... plus letting myself be quiet and letting time pass! But I'm not doing as much as you are and I still have trouble letting go of Things!!!

@connieclark1288 2 года назад

I was feeling sad and bad then I sat down and saw you had posted a video. Spending just 14 minutes with you and your kind, calming voice made me feel so much better. If you ever wonder if you make a difference in peoples lives, you do. Truly.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Oh wow Connie, thank you 💕💕💕 Hope you're feeling a bit better today 🌷

@dondyvastarr9029 2 года назад

I tend to shop when I'm depressed and bored which is very often and I'm over it 🙃

@NicolleMelanson.Powell 10 месяцев назад

One minimalism trick that I learned from my closet is this: items in = items out. If I buy 3 new tops, I have to get rid of 3 old tops, in other words the # of items in my closet can't grow over time. This helps me a lot because it is a small immediate effort. I keep a box in my closet and keep adding older clothes to it until it is full and I can donate it. Another helpful tip, which is really hard for me to follow but makes life easier: when you don't need something anymore - don't put it in storage - get rid of it right away. Love your videos Vera!

@fishstick7104 2 года назад

Going to a library is my favorite way to shop for free! I get such a high taking home tons of books and movies for free! It makes me so happy. My library even has "you saved this much" in the check out receipt! Love it! 😁

@kimb884 2 года назад

I love the shop your house idea. My daughter had a beautiful sketch made of my parents when my mom died. I thought I’d get it professionally framed which would cost a fortune. I poked around my house and found a beautiful frame tucked in a closet that was the perfect size. Shop your house!

@Deb.-. 2 года назад

I was looking for a new pot for a spider plant.. Found it, Grandma's ancient teapot that was no longer suitable for tea. 😀

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Love both of these examples!

@pnelson3624 2 года назад

IDEA: Take pic of your rooms & make decisions from the pic of what you want to keep, donate or toss. I think it is less overwhelming & less chances to get distracted on why you were in the room to begin with.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Ah that's very interesting!

@rachelepperly8966 2 года назад

My tip is to not be afraid to return things! Sometimes you plan a purchase and are intentional when researching and still an item doesn’t work out. Luckily most stores will you allow you to return things. So keep your receipts! Your wallet will thank you and you will have much less worry when purchasing.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

YES! That's a great one :) You could even wear something around the house for a few hours without taking off the tags, so you could still return it if you find that it's not exactly what you were looking for.

@rachelepperly8966 2 года назад

@Mariana D'Amelio Well take it as a learning experience! 👍🏻

@lv394 2 года назад

“Don’t shop when you’re bored” really hit close to home. 😀 You’re right … I tend to do this and need to change that.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Happy to hear you found it helpful! :)

@lakshmi7925 2 года назад

Vera !!! Every week i wait for ur content. Only few people have that impact/influence on me.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thank you so much Lakshmi for that wonderful compliment 🤗🍵 I'm glad you're enjoying my videos! Take care and have a lovely weekend

@kaede_jing 2 года назад

Hi Vera~ I can't agree more on the point of applying minimalism in other aspect of your life. The reason I start minimalism is to live a simple life. The less I have, the less in handling, doing, thinking, etc. It's not just about physical thing, but also our mind, body, and spirit. Zen and mindfulness is not about physical things, but it is also a type of minimalism practice. It's the belief and value about simple life.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Love that so much! Thanks for sharing Kaede

@ksk881 2 года назад

Your channel relaxes me. I love the way you speak, the way you smile, the softer music, and the space you use to film your videos. I have always disliked a messy home, but it still took me over a year to finally declutter things that I didn't REALIZE were clutter! I kept getting rid of more and more stuff because I never felt "done". One day I realized that my style is more "uncluttered" rather than "minimalistic". My bedroom is a very calm, serene, and zen -like space, but my small living area/kitchen/dining area/combination is very clean and uncluttered, but not what most people would consider minimal. I have only the things that I need/like, and I have only what I consider to be just enough. It took me awhile to get to this place, and your videos, such as this one, help me to understand that minimalism is different to each person and that's ok. Thank you!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thank you so much for your kind words Karen and I'm so happy for you that you made so much progress and got your home to a state you're happy with, in your own way 🤗💖 that's the way to go!

@barbarasylvain5060 2 года назад

"Forgive yourself for past purchasing mistakes" is a big one in my life. It can be months ago, a year ago, or weeks ago and I have that guilt for buying something. I have returned something recently which felt empowering, but other things I've held because I can't dispose of ethically and hate to bag them and toss them. Both situations involve guilt. I think that's a good topic!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thank you so much Barbara! I think we can probably all relate to that feeling of guilt. Definitely a good topic for a video :)

@sct4040 2 года назад

Yes, I forgave myself for all the handbags I bought from 2012-2019. Luckily, they were easy to resell, so are not a complete lost. I was able to recoup from 60-80% of purchase price. Thank you Fashionphile.

@christawildesen4664 2 года назад

One of the best things I have learned on my decluttering journey is to declutter first and then organize. For years I wasted So much time and energy and money shuffling my stuff around our Home. I bought many books on organizing, many Baskets, bins, Totes, etc. only to realize nothing was getting organized, just moved around. Your channel is one of my favorites for it’s down to earth approach to minimalism. I will probably not ever be a true minimalist, but our home is more organized and much neater Than it has ever been. Thank you for your words of encouragement and inspiration.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Love this example, thanks for sharing Christa! And also happy to hear you're enjoying my channel :) Have a nice day today

@shellywms70 2 года назад

🙋🏼‍♀️I can relate. I have a ton of bins, boxes, org bags....that are stacked up ....and empty. I don't know what I'm waiting on. More decluttering?

@verabathory Год назад

Great tips, thanks a bunch! What really works for me is something you mentioned- namely making a list in my notebook. I was eyeing items on a few online shops but when I made a list of all the items I thought I wanted at the moment, a day later I actually realized that not only do I need like 2 of about 30 itens but I would have paid over 400 euros for crap that would clutter my home for months! 😳 I did feel quite ashamed given it was cosmetics too! It is fascinating when a person can spend out of boredom if not thinking about it!

@SimpleHappyZen Год назад

The key is becoming aware :) Great job!

@verabathory Год назад

@@SimpleHappyZen So true! And thanks! :)

@lisaweinzapfel4240 2 года назад

After simplifying my closet, I routinely move clothing around to discover new ways to wear them. Just changing things around seems to give them new life. I also leave items in Amazon cart for a week or so before purchasing, and more times than not, I will end up deleting most of them.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Ah very clever, love the idea of switching things around :)

@Erlrantandrage 2 года назад

Don't expect your first declutter to be your last declutter. That's an unreasonable expectation and can lead to feelings of failure when in reality you're not done yet. Do be open to getting more stuff eventually. Early on you get rid of tons because you find a lot of what you owned you didn't like, however as you refine your possessions you'll refine your tastes and sometimes want to add back things you decluttered just of a different style.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

YES!!! Absolutely love this. Thanks for sharing Erica

@douglasalan5783 10 месяцев назад

I agree with everything you said. I’ve been living a minimalist life in NYC since my divorce. It’s just stuff! There are things that are hard to part with, however: books, music (LP records and CDs), art.

@natalies.8016 Год назад

I love the tip about not browsing! I recently decided to cut back on buying and then felt tempted by unnecessary browsing on a selling app. I think a great way to avoid unnecessary browsing is to delete shopping apps! If and when you need an item, a quick internet search will suffice. But by deleting the app, it is less accessible and tempting. (:

@mariahsmom9457 Год назад

"Minimalism starts when you do"- that really resonated with me. Thanks for some super helpful thoughts here. See you next year!❤

@SimpleHappyZen Год назад

So happy to hear it :) Happy New Year! 🤗✨🥂🍵

@lizzabbott 2 года назад

A tip I like that I’ve picked up along the way on this Journey : DO remember that Five Minutes Matters ( from Dawn, The Minimal Mom ... maybe Cas / Clutterbug, & Dana / A Slob Comes Clean, too!) . No need to put off decluttering or tidying until we have a huge chunk of time !! 5 mins is surprisingly productive , & it often creates momentum that easily turns into a few minutes more, too. Don’t keep gifts out of guilt. If you enjoyed it for a while, great ! If it was not a good fit, it’s now yours to do what you want to with. The Joy of the moment it was given to you can still be treasured. And you can free up your space.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Absolutely love both of these tips! Thanks Liz :)

@mattford3030 2 года назад

Good morning🌄

@pjayerippley986 2 года назад

Thanks as usual for the inspiration! My “don’t” is: Don’t buy things on sale just because you think you will never get such a good deal again!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Ah YES! Great tip :)

@soumiabenrochd1396 Год назад

It's always good to keep watching such videos because they remind me of what's essential and help me remain a minimalist and benefit from all that it has to offer as a lifestyle and a mindset. Thank you!

@teresaromero8655 2 года назад

Shop your home first ! 👌 Start a “ wish list “ 👍 Don’t dwell on bad purchases of your past ! Your home is not a storage unit ! ! ! 👏 Great video ! 👏👏👏👏

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Yay, happy to hear it! :) Thanks Teresa, have a nice day today!

@christined2495 2 года назад

Perfect advise on minimalism and living intentionally….. I try very hard to keep to these rules.. I love your idea about just taking a walk and treating yourself to a cup of coffee or tea instead of browsing Take care Vera ❤️

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Happy you enjoyed the video Christine!! 🤗🌷 Have a lovely day

@annemariesamples5582 2 года назад

Great list!! I love the "wear the clothes" idea, it's so simple, but I hadn't even really thought about that! Let's see... 1 DO: start small- pick a shelf, (not the whole case, just 1 shelf!) remove all the contents, and put back what you want in that space, rehome the rest- put it away or donate it. 1 DONT: Dont worry about the whole stack, (of paperwork, clothing, toys...) take 30 seconds to find a few items to put away and a few to toss or donate! Slow progress is still progress!!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Love it! Thanks for sharing Anne Marie

@AnimalFarm341 Год назад

I don’t even recall when I started. Not sure if it’s a year yet. But the constant outflow is making a difference!!

@ms.schnapp7415 2 года назад

I like the - don't use decluttering as an excuse to buy more - tip. I'd love to see a video on self control from browsing. Lately I've felt guilt for all the clothing I've purged and donated, who know if the donations went to good use or if they were discarded. The textile industry is one of the most wasteful. Love your plants, by the way.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thanks so much! Hmmm yes, let me think about it. I think it's just something I started doing less and less, as my interest for shopping declined naturally, I just started browsing less. After a while, I started noticing the difference and I really liked it (much 'quieter' headspace when you're not browsing) so then I basically just stopped completely. Maybe it's something like a lifestyle change where you're slowly getting used to it

@ablueslenz 2 года назад

Vera, #20 is for me! I will hold on to stuff for weeks trying to figure out how to upcycle or recycle when I should have just trashed it. It was causing me such stress. I finally let that mindset go. I’m still working on letting go of the expensive items that I just don’t need and can’t sell. Great video as usual!😊

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Good to hear you let that mindset go! :) No need to feel stressed out about it. Let me know if there's anything I can do to help with letting go of the expensive items. :) Have a nice day today!

@sofiacardoso7475 11 месяцев назад

This list is awesome! When I started watching I was "oh boy, for a minimalist video this has too many rules". But all of them are important and most of them aren't even touched on, congrats! I found you yesterday and I am enjoying your videos a lot, I have been feeling too tired all the time and finally I have someone who has a good idea on why, it all makes sense!

@ronileef8279 2 года назад

Excellent do’ and don’ts. I enjoy your relaxing videos. When l go shopping l will pick up things l think l ‘want’ or ‘need’. By the time l am ready to leave, l have already gone back and put almost all of it (or sometimes, ALL of it) back. I will also not take a cart or basket into places like the dollar stores or big box places, unless l know beforehand that l will need it for items that l REALLY need.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Ah very clever! :) Thanks for sharing

@m.e.nickels 2 года назад

I actually started watching your videos instead of shopping online and I've saved so much money 😁

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Yay!!! 😄💕

@DaestrumManitz 2 года назад

Your comments on “Impulse purchasing” are right on. Taking a couple of days to reflect on the item, do a little research, discuss it with your partner and then make a decision. This will prevent the entrance of more junk from entering the home! 😎

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Yes! :)

@cathylynnpietranton 2 года назад

Hi Vera thank you. Really enjoyed this video. A don't for me is not to hold on to things just for the sake of it. A do is to give more thought before buying something. Another do and don't video on self care would be nice.❤

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Love those tips and thanks for the suggestion Cathy!! 🤗🌷

@AHE1992 2 года назад

"The best things in life are not things" is a very beautiful and wise quote!! Thanks for another very helpful and inspiring video💖 I absolutely LOVE your channel and you are doing an amazing job!✨Hugs from Norway🥰🥰

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thank you so much for your kind comment Aina, so happy you're enjoying my videos! I don't know who originally said that quote but I love it too :) Have a nice day today!

@bstrong5016 2 года назад

Thanks for your ideas Vera (such a pretty name!) Do remember that our tastes change over time, and that is ok, and we can declutter those things (like high heels). Don't get rid of things you can't decide on right away. Put them in a box and come back later- a few months later. You will know better then.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thank you so much! :) And yes, I agree with those tips very much :)

@wendystone4028 2 года назад

"Do" Share your mineralization journey with others so they can be inspired to do the same thing! I started a social medial group and we are all decluttering together, sharing videos, photos, ideas, etc! It's very supportive and inspirational!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Ah that's lovely!

@andreeabelciu6081 2 года назад

I have emigrated twice. And every time I have manage to full my home with stuff. Then I have realized it was just fear of the unknown, the new. Trying to hold on to things is just I sign of a troubled mind set and anxiety. So, I have started decluttering. And to my surprise I love it. I only buy what I really need, return anything that is short from perfect for me. It cleared my mind and I feel much free.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Wow that's so wonderful! Thanks for sharing Andrea

@judysimon8445 Год назад

Tip: In the time it takes for the kettle to boil for tea I can empty the dishwasher or put away the dog toys and straighten the living room.

@8GCAT8 2 года назад

I just discovered your channel just in time for my seasonal decluttering. When you hear that ‘stuff’ is energy and too much stuff around drain your energy or even cause anxiety - unknowingly. I removed the 2 pictures from the wall in my small bedroom and the room was almost echoing. Sound is energy. Interesting. Love your advice 🙏

@joank5585 2 года назад

The wish list has really helped me avoid buying things that I don't need or already have enough of. Waiting to make a purchase for a day or 2 also works because it gives you time to see if you really love it, also having a certain number of things you want like you said is our "sweet spof" also is a good rule.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

It's funny how something to simple like a wish list can be so helpful :) Hi Joan!

@valeriewheeler3930 2 года назад

Hi Vera, another great video. My new tip to keep me on track with clothing is I treated myself to some fancy clothes hangers for my wardrobe (you can decide how many is your own right number but stick to it!). Now if I want to buy myself a new item, I have to let something else go out as I only have a finite set of hangers. Plus I bought them in my fav colour so my boys won’t walk off with them! Win win ☺️

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Ah such a great tip! Also love that little bit about the colour hahaha

@barbaracarr17 2 года назад

Do find a sharing community to join to find homes for things you no longer use. I use "Buy Nothing" on Facebook and have enjoyed connecting with people in my area. Someone will post a "need" and I can sometimes fulfill the needed item for them. Just today someone was looking for buttons for a craft project with kids. I had a box of buttons I had collected over the years. I really did not need them. It was fun to think of a group of kids enjoying them. I included the ceramic box I had stored the buttons in too because I really didn't need anymore either❤

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Ah that's so cute, I love that!

@ElBoyoElectronico 2 года назад

My personal tip, as I tend to get G.A.S. (gear acquisition syndrom) when it comes to camera gear: Watch or read review about the equipment you already own! You will feel the value of the things you already have and the urge to upgrade or get something new will decrease

@sluggo206 2 года назад

Packed full of good ideas as always. I like the shop at home but I have a different wording: it's a 100% discount if you don't buy it. I also sometimes wait a day before buying something, to see if I still want it. "Don't browse" is also useful: looking through sale brochures or coupons just makes you want things you wouldn't otherwise get. I don't buy many things in the first place, so I don't bother chasing sales. If something I'm already getting happens to be on sale, that's a bonus. And at Costco I reserve $10-20 to try a new food: you can do the same at the supermarket.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Love the tips! Thanks for sharing Mike

@clairefarrugia5455 2 года назад

Great video! My don't - Avoid buying furniture with unneeded storage space, such as bedside cupboards (buy bedside table instead having only a surface top), etc. The less storage available, the less items you'll have. My do - Plan all purchases (food, home and clothes)

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thanks for sharing yours Claire, happy you enjoyed the video! :)

@rojanjunior1821 2 года назад

Do: speak with your family and friends about the kinda gifts you would like to receive or the ones they want that you can get them. so there won't be that awkward situation where you don't know what to do with the gifts you receive and don't need or want. Don't: Don't expect the perfect result in one go. decluttering takes time, and minimalism is a road not a destination.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Love both of these!

@NinaW1n 2 года назад

A ‘do’ that you once told that I use a lot is to see things like you do in a museum: you can enjoy them, how they look, how they are made, but that does not necessarily means i have to take them home with me.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

YES!! Thanks Nina, I still do that too :)

@frockinj 3 месяца назад

And you can take a photo which doesn’t take up physical space rather than take it home 😊

@flohough1870 Год назад

I've found the Amazon Wishlist is a great way to give yourself the 24 hour (or longer) think period about whether or not you want/need an item. I can't tell you how many times I've put something in the wishlist, only to go back in later and delete it once I thought about it.

@missmisschelle 2 года назад

All the reasons you named not to shop are the moments when I do shop 😂😂😂 Thank you for sharing all of your knowledge!

@erinmaekinghorn293 2 года назад

Do take your time in figuring out what matters to you. It's easy to get I'd of things and clear your schedule but you don't want to get rid of the things/events that matter. Don't be too hard on yourself. The journey towards minimalism can be long, sometimes with many bumps on the way. Be kind to yourself on the way. 😊

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Great advice!

@bethseachrist5075 2 года назад

Don’t forget to tell your family and friends about you’re decluttering journey. They can give encouragement and know not to shop for you! 🤣 Do - just keep going! This will take some time and many sessions.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Hahaha yes!! Great tips Beth

@davedeal9152 2 года назад

Thanks for the inspiration, Vera! Re: #20. One thing I keep in mind is that most trash is sorted through several times after we toss it: By passers by, refuse collection technicians, and again by staff at the collection plant who sort and snag 'useful' items.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thanks Dave! Also, it helps me to be more mindful when buying new things, considering the fact that I might need to discard it sometime in the future if I don't find it useful anymore.

@steffenreu1789 2 года назад

What is it that I really like your videos: a lot of calma, relaxed voice, some tea, good tips. Just fabulous. Content is brilliant, as usual. Very much to the point. I think you developed your own style during the years, not easy to get there. Keep going, highly appreciated.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thanks so much, that's great to hear :)

@michaelconnolly7681 2 года назад

Hi Vera, I connect with all of your points here. When I started decluttering, I really didn't want to do it. I had so much stuff stored in boxes and in storage areas so I started decluttering a few items daily and progressed from there. It's a continuous process and I enjoy it now. When you mentioned shopping online I remember my neice saying to me that she might go online to buy a nice jacket and suddenly all these popups come up with shoes, trousers etc that would look nice with that jacket. So the temptation is there for sure. I find if I'm in a store now snd putting things in my basket, I pause halfway through and often go back and leave most of the products back where it was on the shelf.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Ah very relatable! :) Also, way to go with the decluttering, keep it up! :)

@munirasultana2313 11 месяцев назад

Loved your video 💟

@sluggo206 2 года назад

We found some Dutch cookies in a convenience store: "stroopwafels", waffle cookies with caramel filling. They're in a thick cardboard box, the cookies stacked in plastic-wrapped batches, with a metal closing-clip on each batch. I'd never seen such cookies or clip before. American cookies are often in a plastic tray, an outer plastic wrapping, and maybe an inner plastic wrapping too, and if there is a clip it's plastic. I wondered if the packaging was due to EU environmental laws or the company's own innovation. Earlier I said if you're looking for ideas for your channel, you could show us the Netherland's parks and natural areas (a minimimalist stroll), or cultural details not well known outside the country. These cookies are an example. Another example would be the bike infrastructure we've heard so much about, and pedestrian-centric architecture. (Architecture for minimalists -- as opposed to minimalist architecture, which I find too modernist and is not at all the same thing.)

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thanks so much Mike!! YESSS stroopwafels, they're the best. Unfortunately the regular kind aren't vegan, so I can't eat them anymore. But I know a place where you can get vegan ones 😇 I did recently post a vlog showing Rotterdam on Patreon, and we often discuss Dutch habits or what it's like to live in the Netherlands here. Those clips for example are very common :) We use them for bread too. Don't really know why :) Also, if you're interested in learning about biking infrastructure (or general infrastructure and how the way that Dutch cities are built effects quality of life), I can reocmmend checking out the channel Not just bikes. He does a much better job at explaining those things than I ever could haha. Have a lovely day!!!

@elizamartin4263 2 года назад

So many great tips! Thanks Vera!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Happy to hear it, thank you Eliza!

@deborahmeyers551 2 года назад

Loved this Vera my do and don't would be do use a sofa throw don't buy a new sofa to change the look 🙃 thanks for Sharing Vera 😊

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Ah that's a clever one! If the sofa is still comfortable, why not do it like this :)

@pj101 2 года назад

Allways a great inspiration, and a calming source!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thank you so much, that's nice to hear :) Have a lovely day!

@maii171 2 года назад

Best video ever!!! I SO needed to listen to this! Thanks!!!!❤️❤️❤️

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thank you so much María, happy to hear you enjoyed it!

@stanley432leasure5 Год назад

been doing baby steps to declutter. got living room, hallway, bedroom and Dining room the way me and the wife want it . we have inherited so many things from family it is very difficult to part with . very hard to get out of the mindset to cherish what your given even if its does not add value or a function . we have a rather big family so you can understand the mounds of things that can fill a room in one holiday . how can we say no with out upsetting the whole family. we tried to ask the family to give only to the kids. but all the aunts and parents and grandparents feel the need to pop in a small gift when they think no one is looking. and that leads to all of them doing the same thing. to give you a glimpse this last past holiday we ended up with 5 different counter appliances a box of knick knacks about 10 holiday hand towles and about 4 sweaters for each of us and thats not counting the toys for the kids. me and the wife feel awful getting rid of things. this has been going on for about 10 years. we have had 4 huge yard sales in the last 2 years before covid and it still keeps coming . with tact how can we stop this. the guilt is killing us. and on a side note our house is the holiday house everyone comes to because we have the space. this is bad to say but covid did slow it down a bit

@minimalmomgreece 2 года назад

I love minimalism. Thank you, Vera. I have learned a lot by you all these years.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Aw thank you so much!! Take care and have a lovely day

@MargoSickele 2 года назад

I love the sculpture analogy!!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thanks Margo :)

@marissaclaridge7627 Год назад

Lovely helpful videoxxxthank you for sharingxxx

@lizzabbott 2 года назад

You look GORGEOUS in that color, Vera !! Sooo pretty !!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Aw thank you! I've had this sweater in my closet for years and years, somehow I don't wear it in my videos that often :) I'll wear it more

@americanbeautyl Год назад

Oh yes, no24 is me right now. Striving to be better. Thank you for your video

@neelsha11 2 года назад

Lovely info as always🌸

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Happy to hear it, thank you Neelsha :)

@JoannaJUT 2 года назад

Thank you for a very inspiring video. I love the comparison of decluttering to sculpting. I am at the beginning of my journey and all your tips have been very helpful to me.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Happy to hear the video has been helpful for you Joanna, wishing you lots of luck with your minimalism and decluttering journey! Feel free to let me know how it's going :)

@JoannaJUT 2 года назад

@@SimpleHappyZen Thank you and I wish you all the best. I have all I need and even more, so decided to stop buying new clothes. I will shop at my house according to your advice. I will allow myself to buy something new once or twice a year, but I will give away something else.

@kaydixie5727 2 года назад

Very enlightening! Thanks for sharing!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Happy to hear it :) Have a nice day!

@chellogscornflakes 2 года назад

I like the idea of creating a wishlist. Thank you for the tip!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

You're very welcome! :)

@bonnierosendale 2 года назад

This is such a good guideline video, Vera! I sure used to fall into the trap of keeping something for the future because I "might" find it usual later. Then 5 years later, it's still in a box in the bottom of my closet, etc. and never touched! Time to throw it out. Then, too, I've tried to pass on the "family heirlooms". They are another easy trap. I keep them for my kids, who are grown and have grown children themselves, but knowing the kids and the grandkids really have no interest. Instead, I've made stories about the things that spark memories, attached pictures, and then sent these things off to thrift stores for others to find joy in. Sometimes it's hard, but I had to learn it was the memories, not really the items. The kids and grandkids love the stories! Thanks for all the wisdom you share!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Oh I love that!!! Thanks for sharing Bonnie

@Audrey.17 2 года назад

Wish Lists have been a wonderful game changer for me. 🌟 Has made me more intentional.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Happy to hear it, for me too! :)

@pipe2devnull 2 года назад

Use your public library. This does away with the need for accumulating books games and DVDs. The library has printers, and photocopiers, so you don’t need these in your home. Sometimes you can give your old books to the library bookstore.

@pipe2devnull 2 года назад

Libraries could have some unexpected things like musical instruments or bicycle repair tools.

@pipe2devnull 2 года назад

My DO NOT would be - do not minimize on important medical items. This could be items in case of emergency, items for maintaining health and of course items for conditions that apply to you or family.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Good tips, thanks for sharing Bradley!!

@rojanjunior1821 2 года назад

I really liked this video Vera. It felt so real, like every mistakes we actually make in the process. Thank you.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Aw thank you, that's a wonderful compliment :)

@rosieroberts6738 2 года назад

Awesome...idea's!!! Thank you for sharing!!! 😊😁😀👍

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Happy to hear you enjoyed the video Rosie! :) Take care and have a nice day today

@rebeccal.672 2 года назад

These tips are perfect since a lot of people decide to "spring clean' their homes. My do is to have a wish list either with a store online or on paper to give me time to really think about an item I may want to purchase. My dont is to buy something made out of synthetic fibers. i prefer something more natural such as cotton, silk, linen, hemp, etc.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Ah great, thanks Rebecca!!

@juleslively5624 2 года назад

Great video! ‘do tip’ -keep my end goal in mind -it helps me decide if the item I’m mulling over would be included. ‘Do tip’ -imagine my ideal feeling in the space -this helps me feel grounded and brings clarity when I’m feeling overwhelmed. ‘Don’t tip’ -don’t keep something if I would give it to a friend who needs it. If I would give it away happily, then I’m probably keeping it out of guilt.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Ah that's a great way of looking at decluttering guilt! :)

@albashir7140 Год назад

That was brilliant thank you ❤

@SimpleHappyZen Год назад

Thanks so much :)

@annekemahabeer5130 2 года назад

You have helped me so much with my decluttering journey!! Jy is die beste!!!! Thanks for the tips. 100% helpful

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

So happy to hear that Anneke!! :)

@alisonsmee7076 2 года назад

What an excellent vlog, l have always held onto stuff in bags as l felt bad about throwing them in the bin, you have made me rethink.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thanks so much Alison, glad it was helpful! :)

@destamehari3287 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much , its very interesting and helpful video, I try to practice your advice ❤❤❤❤

@adewest2009 2 года назад

I’ve been decluttering for a while but from time to time I get that low feeling. This video as helped so much thank u

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Happy to hear the video was helpful for you!! :) I think it's normal to feel like that every now and then :) Getting some fresh inspiration seems to do the trick for me as well

@jeannakilbane5567 Год назад

Thank you for all your great tips! I'm just "getting ready" to start decluttering and embracing more minimalism. I think the best tip for me is declutter first and then organize. I usually get too Gung ho and pull everything out of my closet and try to organize as I go and I end up in overwhelm and frustration and just throw everything back in the closet. I'll will focus on declutter first this time and hopefully I'll be more successful! Thanks for all you do, I'm really enjoying your channel!

@sct4040 2 года назад

Instead of going out and buy another basket to organize, I use a box for a while, until I decided that I really need a new basket. Most times, I don't need it.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Always good to first see if we really need something :)

@elstal22 2 года назад

I’ve been binge watching your channel and loving it. And in my humble opinion, the blue top you are wearing in this video is my absolute favorite color on you!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Aw thanks so much Elizabeth, and I'm so happy you're enjoying my videos!! :)

@noraluciafermoselle5282 2 года назад

Thanks Vera! I like your videos...Minimalism made Simple! I agree with you..😊🤩😍

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thank you so much Nora, that's great to hear :) Have a lovely day!

@MituDjakarian 2 года назад

I also had to pay attention to why I was getting rid of the items I was getting rid of. It helped me not to bring similar items home 😄 For example, cheap t-shirts that would turn see-through after a while, excessive art materials or stationary that I'd buy too fast for the speed I use them up...

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

YES!! So important :) Thanks for sharing

@MituDjakarian 2 года назад

@@SimpleHappyZen Thank you for sharing all the other 30 tips! :') Your channel is great

@vintageresalemama903 2 года назад

I definitely "DO" make use of the cart on the Amazon website. I put things in the cart and then think about them for a few days to decide whether or not I really need them. I "DON'T" go shopping in person like I used to, which cuts down on impulse buying. This is a result of the pandemic but I think I'll continue to really be mindful of when and why I go shopping in the future. Thanks for sharing this video; I enjoyed it.

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Awesome that this works so well for you! :) thanks for sharing

@wendyhummel9600 2 года назад

Excellent video!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thank you so much Wendy :) Have a lovely day

@joyceschetter5871 Год назад

You mentioned several videos you enjoy watching instead of the news. Are they listed somewhere? You speak so fast that by the time I grabbed a pen you were onto the next topic. Thank you you have a lot of great ideas.

@asee7657 2 года назад

This was very helpful! I personally like to collect virtually, for example I liked to own books because I read so much that I sometimes can not remember every single book I read. Now I have a bookshelf App that helps me sort the eBooks and "real" books I rented or purchased and passed on. So that's my do. You already mentioned my donts ;)

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Ah that's clever! :)

@pinayinuk 2 года назад

So great

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thank you! :)

@cindybarnes1533 Год назад

Thirty is too many! Ten. Keep it simple!

@TheHawzheen 2 года назад

Hello from Scotland,, I am starting my journey .. thank you Vera

@Deb.-. 2 года назад

Good luck on your journey, 😃🌹

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Hi there, lots of luck!!!

@deborahderosa4987 8 месяцев назад

cool bonsai 😊

@SimpleHappyZen 8 месяцев назад

Thanks!! :)

@laurapicchiolechi4203 2 года назад

Hi Vera, I really liked the idea of a decluttering plan! I will make one using your guide. Maybe you can make a video about do and don’t about traveling or slow living? Thank you!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

Thanks so much for that idea Laura! :) It's a great one. Good luck with making a decluttering plan, let me know how it's working out!

@vassili3000 Год назад

Very useful video! Definitely coming back do it for a rewatch in the future. I have a problem with items that were gifts - I cannot bring myself to getting rid of most of them asit feels somehow wrong. Yet there are a lot of them that don't add value to my life.

@ngonigriffith1491 2 года назад

I failed at #18. I helped my mom, who I describe as a hoarder, declutter her garage. Now we can actually walk through it!

@SimpleHappyZen 2 года назад

In this case, I'd say you did wonderfully Ngoni!! 😄🤗 I should have clarified by saying 'don't declutter someone else's stuff without their permission'.

@ngonigriffith1491 2 года назад

@@SimpleHappyZen ah okay, that sounds better. I thought I was in trouble. Lol.😄