I can’t imagine what loosing one of my children would do to me so I could NEVER pass judgement. Her Mom is not giving them back to her because of her outward appearance and I would not either. I hope she finds some way to heal from way too much trauma for anyone to endure.
Her mom is not giving them back because she probably left them there and doesn't support them. All she has to do is apologize to her mom and stop arguing with her. Keep in touch with the kids. Send money- clothes - something. Nothing is stopping this woman from going to the courts to request visitation. Has she gone to the courts to let them know she doesn't have a job and is homeless? Probably not. Why is she pursuing a relationship with an ex-con? Her choices are not good. She needs therapy. Maybe rehab can help. But right now she's not ready.
@gotchabtchh umm, she is homeless. She may have experienced depression after the death of her son. She is probably recovering slowly. It can be a process. I understand if the mom wants to make sure she is stable before she gives the kids back. The lady doesn't sound like she was abusive to the kids or was a bad mother. My mom would have helped me get on my feet, not kick me out. Or, ask a different family member to let me live with them.
@@sexyclothescentral Who said she was abusive? The grandmother got custody for a reason. All the daughter got to do is forgive and seek help. This woman is near 40yrs and is with an ex felon who just got home. She can do way better by herself. She makes bad choices and wonders why her moms not trusting her with the kids.
I can't imagine losing a child the way she did, so I'm sending love, peace and healing to her. I'm no psychologist at all but losing a child in such a traumatic way will mess up anyone's mental and alongside with that having your innocence taken. She should definitely find a therapist or maybe a counseling group to find ways to cope with her feelings and emotions so she can heal from the inside out. Once she do the work on her she can focus on getting the stability she needs to get a job, home, and then her kids back. I'm sending her positive light and energy to her and her children.
Sorry about your loss young lady 😢 But you do not need to be with a ex-felon at this time. There are states where you can get help without having children. You have nothing to lose. Sign up for therapy too. Your kids are in good hands. Keep in touch with them. Visit without arguing. You can always go to the courts to request supervised visits. Your mom was probably forced by public assistance to put you on child support but that has nothing to do with visitation. To be clear, if one of the children is not in your moms custody and you have the birth certificate, you can go there with the police and get your child. Pray about everything i said. Only God knows what is going on with you and what you need. Dont argue with your mother anymore. Im pretty sure she wants a break from those kids as much as you want to see them. Now shes attached to them and they are stable. You have to make an effort to show you can do better. Getting with an ex-con shows your choices are poor. You need healing from what happened to you as a child and what happened to your son. I hope you get it together girl 🙏🏾
@@roselynholloway7863 that’s nasty work 😒 I would keep my business to myself because that’s crazyyyy he should feed them and give them at least $25-50$ imo 🤷🏽♀️
look at when she was doing the interview when her son recently passed, she was about 33 at the time and looked very young. fast foward 6 years later and it seems like more than a decade passed for her, but understandably she is living in the streets, where it is known to age you faster.
Your not a thepist.. you can trigger people. You bring this drama up and leave them to think about. You take people stories and then when you talk to their family you act if you believe them over people you interviewed
Yeah, just like the Brick Lady who was lying about a Black man hitting her with a Brick. Black women believed all that BS the brick lady was telling them until now. She had you knuckleheads sending her money and looking like complete fools. 🤣🤣🤣
Exactly he plays therapy and like he’s diagnosed these people in the 15 minutes conversation but not addressing what’s being said in those Atlanta streets about him diagnose yourself before you try to diagnose others 🤷🏽♀️
I said this when he started doing interviews, I’m a former abused person, and when I started watching his videos I got triggered and I was so upset that I left him a comment and said you’re not a therapist. I like his work but I just don’t think he asked people about their trauma if they want to share it, let them share
Her mother doesn't like her, I can tell by the things she's done to her daughter and by personal experience. Some mothers are jealous or envious of their daughters.
If I sit down at a table with 20 women more than half was probably molested. What’s so tragic is the fact “this cycle “ is always swept under a rug. My heart just hurts for people especially when they have to hold secrets like this. Mentally she is going through a lot! R.I.P to her son. She said the mom is married now…I hope her kids are safe there with her considering what her mom let happen to her WOW! I hope she gets help she seems very smart and levelheaded.
Honestly some ppl parents just don’t gaf. I’m 31 and I couldn’t stay with my mother if I payed her lol and it’s no reason behind it, she says she brags about how strong I am and how much of a hustler I am. And how I don’t ask for help, it’s because I’m going to get a NO lol everybody tells me it’s jealousy and I took her childhood because she had me young lol it’s actually sad as hell
It is sad and most likely that is the case,I'm sorry your Mama didn't help you when you needed it My girls are grown and I'll always help when they need it because this World is hard.
Why would she brag on you and be jealous too? If she had you young then she's still young enough to live her life. Some of yall be looking too deep and listening to the wrong people.
Her mom is a NARCISSIST for sure. SHE DOES ENJOY SEEING YOU HURT. Please study narcissist and how they operate. She IS turning your children against you.
Marcus you act like you don't know. I love the show, but some of the questions are unbelievable. Two people can be home😢.. you act like you just don't. You don't have to be on drugs to be homeless 😢
She may be at fault to some extent, but what kinda mother doesn’t have compassion for their own daughter who lost a son? It’s so sad we can’t support and stick together in the black community.
Wait did I hear this mother effer Marcus chuckle when this woman said that her abuser put his mouth "downstairs "????Before I go off did anyone else hear it??😮
Ummm, she literally express her son killed himself. You see before and after pictures of her from that time. Any parent will through something mental if they experience and seen something like that. Don't be so judgemental, let that happen to one of you and then you loose everything.
Marcus why do you ask every woman that question what is it about that situation its like how can you relate it seems like that question more you wanting to know about
UPDATE I PRAY SHES DOING WELL I KNOW YOU DIDNT WANT TO LEAVE YOUR KIDS WITH THAT EVIL WOMEN THATS NOT A REAL MOTHER YOU HAD IT ROUGH I COULD NEVER JUST TAKE KIDS FRM THEIR PARENTS IF IM HELPING MY KIDS AS LONG AS THEY TRY TO GET ON THEIR FEET THE INTERVIEWER BETTER HAD BOUGHT HER SOME SHOES THATS A START TO GET ON HER FEET LITERALLY
so not only was this family traumatized by losing a sibling but they were dumped with her mom and instead of spending time helping herself heal and her kids to have a parent present and there for them, and to heal but instead, shes off carousing with some other guy and immediately getting pregnant? AGAIN? she cant even take care of the kids she has? this isnt a failure of government support systems, this is a personal failure to live in a productive positive way... she needs Jesus instead of all the distractions she taking part of instead, and with all the drama happening, its hard to hear about her "sexual problems" which are most definately not the problem❤
6 week’s pregnant, it’s possible she was pregnant already and didn’t know until she was 6 weeks. She didn’t give details, you are making harsh assumptions.
Her mom sound like my mama it’s sad it’s women out here and act like that with they kids!! My grandma always say just cause a woman pushes out a baby don’t make her a mom!
this is so sad these lady's son died and grieve as led her down this path and her mother is trying to pretend she don't believe her when she said her daughter was abused by her step dad because if she said she believed she knows she would have to face up to her husband being a pedo I would not trust him around gran children I hope this lady gets the help she needs
I understand her whole heartedly but her mom did not put her on child support the state did... Her mom probably gets SSI and getting custody of children that aren't yours and trying to figure out how to take care of them on your own is a job. I have custody of a family members child and the first few steps was going to child support. Not only for my family member but the other parent as well.
This is heartbreaking omg R.I.P to her baby boy 🙏 jesus please protect cantenecias she been through so much she is hurting god please protect her and her family and allow her to get permanent shelter and a job on Jesus name Amen 🙏🙌🤍
Yall so damn judgmental in these comments. I dont know who make me cringe more? Got more to say, but send help or pray for the sister. Someone said," i dont like sending money to them"..huh well go find her and get her work clothes then. Then she said, marcus did u buy her shoes". First, he pays them to do the interview. Secondly, he is not going to say he bought the shoes yet. He still doing content. He hasbto keep the people watching and doing God's work.Lets see the update when he post. It still wont be good enough for yall evil spirit asses.
I don’t think her mom wants her to have a hard life. I do think her mom is at fault for not believing her & still marrying the guy. Her mom left her in a bad mental state. I understand what her mom means about not wanting to uproot the kids from stability to instability..but honestly, after listening to her speak, I would hire for her an office job. She’s so intelligent…..❤Frfr….May her son rest in peace 🕊️& May she find peace, stability, true love ❤️ & get her kids back…. God bless you Queen 👸🏽
Why would she want to take the kids to a shelter if they stay somewhere where they have everything? It’s like she wants them to struggle with her because they are hers. Not downing her but let they be and get it together baby 😢
She said she needs one of her kids to get into the family shelter, which gives the most help. In other words she wants to use her kid so she can get more help from the welfare people.
@tubester4567 Use her kids ??? She went through something traumatic that most of us couldn't survive and can't get her life back on track because she is out in the street alone . This woman wants her family back and is willing to do what she has too to get them . Most of us probably couldn't survive 1 day on the streets and she's done it for 6 yrs and finally got back in her rt mind and you gave the nerve to say that 😮
@gotchabtchh I don't think she wants to "use" her children. In order for her to get in a shelter and get her a home for her and her children, it is sad, but it would work if she had a child with her. It's a shame that the state only help the homeless that have children and then they barely do that. Also how is she using her children ? They belong to her she carried pushed them out and yet for a tragedy she was a good mom and lost it. I would be nuts to if I lost my child in the way she did too wouldn't you ?
@@iamterriffic7041 The state has already housed her kids with her mother (or some family member) Im sure that person is getting welfare for those kids. It doesnt sound like she really wants her kids back
My condolences to this mom. I understand her mom not letting her take a child to a shelter when the mom had a home for the child. Hopefully, she was able to go to thrift store and get some shoes with the money you gave her for interview. I would have taken her to get some shoes.
Why would she want to take her kid to a shelter, she does not look great as he stated and she can get it together if she wants to. I think more than weed and cigs has her down and out.
while I get that she's dealing with a lot, how do you feel leaving your children around someone you know is a pedo? there's no concern for their safety??
what?... do you have a problem listening to the story? she clearly stated several times that her mother is no longer with the man that molested her, she is in a relationship with a new husband. In her story, there was no relation of that new husband molesting children.
Such a sad story. I wish she would’ve gathered enough strength to keep her family together. I don’t care if you guys come for me. She was wrong for giving her grieving children away. Go to damn therapy. You can be cool with the man that molested you and you still can’t fix things with your mom and you send your children to the person that allowed you to be harmed. She’s phucked up and selfish
Praying for this mom it does not matter how many baby daddies they have . Has nothing to do with anything. A cycle needs to be broken is called respect respect respect she needs some help 🙏 praying for her That's alot going on
I sent money but I want to know if you got the shoes. I want you to start that job. I’m just seeing this. I hope you get what you need in time. I wish I had checked earlier. I would’ve taken you to get them. 😫
@@dariansdoor7098 I am definitely going to get those shoes. I am determined to get everything I lost back and more. I couldn't look at myself in the mirror for 5 years. I was tremendously heart broken. But this is no game, no bullshit, no cap, no gain for attention. I wanted to show the world how devastating and horrible we as Indigenous women allow tragics, depression's, drama's, and etc. that we go through can tear us down. But it's up to us to pick ourselves back up and get things back on track or let go. I serve a high purpose here and my higher power is in command at this moment. Trust me Queen there will be a update on this. And I am so loving and warm to all the negative feedback because it gives me energy and motivation to truly evolve with much abundance. I eat a lot of chocolate and drink sodas, cigarettes don't make it better and stressing and going through a struggle. I just choose not to paint on a fake face and act like everything is ok. I am who I am naturally and love every bit of me because I'm transitioning and this is temporary.
Why the hell are you asking how many baby daddies? Wtf does that have to do with anything? Anyways with a mother who allowed molestation and didn’t believe her daughter with that bad of a character she would’ve never gotten my kids. I would went to a shelter with my kids before I gave my kids to her. They’re in danger.
Im soooo sorry!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏My son passed at 11 because of seizures n my life has not been da same became homeless n stayed in & out of hotels!! Jus now gettin on my feet!!! Hope she can get da help she needs!!!
It’s a RU-vidr with same story while her mother. Put her out because of her husband and 8 yr old daughter. The mother had a relationship with her mother’s husband when she was younger. Crazy cycle
