I'M HERE!!?!??!?! I'M GONNQ DO A LONG TEXT AGAIN SORRY GUYS I JUST REALLY LIKE DECIPHERING VIDEOS AND THE UNDERTONES. Let's begin with the start!! ^__^ 0:16 > Normal as to what happens before S/A, PINK has her eyes set on BLUE and is trying to get a quick read on him before continuing, trying to see if she can find any clues to him treating her any different than other coworkers to unravel her plan - bow chika wowwow. I like the touch of adding words like "gullible" , "good boy", "good work", "good job", "good time", and "fun". No reason at all I just think those are good touches considering he likes praise (have it be verbal affirmation or physical like someone cry laughing at his hilarious jokes) - I also like the fact that there's a pink triangle behind PINK, showing how she wants to make a different type of purple with BLUE. I don't know if that's exactly why it was shown (probably not!) but I'll believe it was for now!!! 0:19 > PINK purposefully tripping and being subtle with her sexual advances and getting irritated at BLUE being respectful and not looking was a nice touch as well!!! She even calls him boring since he didn't react the way she thought he would. (
I always love looking at your analyzation of the subtle details of these videos :D and reading these make me realize the small little details in the video too! Thank you :DD
This little part at 0:33 !! I really like the little subtle touch of the picture with the HUSBAND being a WOLF, Idrk how to describe this but the wolf (in my personal opinion) might mean Pink was married to an older guy too and was normalized to it (or, groomed?) !! She might be dumping or coping her s*ual intentions with Blue instead from her past trauma, does not excuse it but i think thats just my theory! :) Edit: I don't just think its an older guy, or just a person that has traumatized Pink with most possibly with other cases like ab*se and etc. It could be anything but I just got inspired by the "Little red riding hood" theory people gave :) The wolf can possibly just mean danger too!
@@ChinoriDesu >> 100% i agree with you!! I definitely believe PINK was doing all of this as a means to cope with her own trauma since she was hurt by a man and finally can hurt a man younger than her. It's horrid and unfortunately how some people work!
The sad thing it's that Blue always tried to confront the girls when he felt umcorfortable. He rejected Red, snapped at Lavender, confronted Purple and Pink in this video, but they always have more control over him and never listened, and at some point he got too tired to have a voice to defend himself. You can see how devastated Blue looks when Lavender deny helping him.
This also proved he never consented any of this, but the attacker keeps on gaslighting him into thinking he actually wants this. in wutiwant, he just let purple do him without any struggles bc he's at the point where he's thinking he actually wants this poor blue :(
THANK GOD THEY MENTIONED IT! The body will continue to react to whatever stimulus it may be, because in the end it is normal, it will continue to have sensitivity (basic biology) to certain things and therefore, a reaction. But those physical reactions don't mean that they go the same way as the mind and emotions of the person who undergoes it. It impresses me that the majority of viewers are so ignorant about the difference between what one thinks, what one feels, and what the body says.
I really didn't know the body could act different to what u fell and think, these videos are very helpful bc they teach and make sa victims fell like they aren't alone...
@@Max--782 Something that people should be clear about is that people have a nervous system that extends throughout the body, and therefore, the stimuli and reactions to them will occur no matter what. And in fact, an interesting fact. The thing is that the feeling of fear and "desire" have a common origin, which causes reactions like the ones Blue had, and can be very counterproductive for any victim. You can investigate on your own, the topic is somewhat complex but it is worth understanding a little how it work! 👏🏻 Currently I am still researching the topic, the association of the body and the mind is quite a mess.💧
@@katherine.ealvarado.p562you (and Victaton) explained everything perfectly. I’m a victim, and I can’t stop watching this animation over and over again and reading the comments. Everything about it, the visuals, the hidden meanings, everything. Its perfect. Your (the commenter) explanation of everything really helps people who haven’t gone through it understand what it was like. Thank you.
its relieving to see an animation that DOESNT treat SA as a quirky joke and educates its audience on how SA can vary,,, thank you so much, as someone who is a survivor of grooming and SA,,,
to add on the "shut up and sleep with me" audio has been used in animation memes where the joke is sexual harassment and sexual assault,,, i am just so happy that your series exists, it makes me feel understood and heard,,, this could also help people who are in these situations realize that they are being abused bc, as im watching your videos, its made me realize that the way my abuser treated me in the earlier stages of our relationship were *signs*,, i never noticed bc i was just 13-14 while she was 18-20,,, i wish i had these videos when i was younger...
@@im3ic im not sure cuz i havent listened to the original song itself outside of just short animations but a majority of the animation memes that spawned from it were
man I like how you explain things that goes against stereotypes you do a great job at showing how things can actually be thank you for raising awareness on that kind of thing
@@rubiiruu345 I don't think it refers to SA tho since Red would not be so comfortable around Purple if she had SAd her, tho I feel the color does imply who she has more power over at the moment In WUTIWANT for example, it was blue because she was clearly in a power position against Blue to the point where she didn't even needed to use force to make him do what she wants, while now its red because she seems to be having quite the influence on Red's way of seeing reality
Lord have mercy I hate how he lost his mouth to signify that his voice once again wasnt heard . The black blank eyes as he sinks further into silence because he thinks nobody cares and that he should just " shut up " Blluueeeee NNOOO
yo, this series is great and I feel like it puts SA in a simple enough and interesting light that younger audiences will be able to understand it and whether it may be happening to them. After watching a few videos I had realized something like this had happened with an ex of mine, it's really hard to process and you're doing god's work helping people understand this topic.
at 0:24 we see purple getting uncomfortably close to red and glaring at blue. And then MULTIPLE black lines appear around purple and red. Black = Unwanted touch We know that purple was already an abuser who goes for younger people, and she only glares at blue because he isn't "fresh meat" to her anymore. This makes me very worried for red because now SHE might be purple's next victim.
0:32 Now that I saw your explanation on what everything means, this part breaks my part even more. We now know that this was Pink grabbing his body unconsentually. So when we get to 0:50, where he is being mocked for having an erection, you cant even say "well, he might have wanted it a LITTLE, because his body reacted to her beauty", because we know that SHE LITERALLY GRABBED HIM, AND THATS WHAT CAUSED HIS BODY TO REACT. Pink knew what she was doing, and that just sucks so much.
You have to keep in mind that many people suffer from this abuse and don't know what they are going through and just stay silent and don't know how to really react. Taking this into account, abusers take advantage and continue and continue, knowing that they are confused and dissatisfied but they wouldn't really care.This is a lesson in how we should always tell someone (family member, trusted friend, etc.) what is happening to us, that is, ask for help. Always remember to ask for help if you go through these situations or something similar. 𝙄 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙙 𝙪𝙧 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤ღ
I'm glad that this story is educational with s/a and how specifically it could happen to anyone, I always hear stories from a female point of view but never from the male's, or at least not without the acknowledgement that they were a victim. I don't know if my comment made any sense but I just appreciate every information/educational part of these videos
[Will edit when I notice more details] I noticed specifically at 0:22 while Purple is trying to talk to Lilac, Lilac is saying something about another person and a wheelchair. What I immediately thought of was a dad or family member she’s talking to, asking if they have the money for a wheel chair? I think that Lilac has this job to pay for her family’s medical bills. I know this is such a small detail but it seems like it’s going to be really important in the long run. At 0:25 or 0:26 I notice that while Purple is patting Red’s head scribbles form, specifically black scribbles. Which from other videos mean dirty or no consent. Blue then notices maybe how odd the interaction is and how close she is to Red, but then he gets knocked over because maybe Purple is doing something bad to Red? I realized he isn’t actually knocked over, it’s Pink dragging him by his ahoge. There’s also a flash frame of blue crossed out by a bright shade of pink, interesting. At 0:39 she knocks over a photo of two people getting married, the one of the left looks like a younger version of her, the one in the right looks violet. Maybe she’s knocking it over because she doesn’t want Blue to notice? Maybe she’s knocking it over because she doesn’t like her husband/wife? The one in the right looks like they have a wolf mask, maybe a metaphor for covering up who you really are, but sheep are usually used for that metaphor? The only thing I notice is that her ring is still white, so that might add to the layers. At 1:09 Lavender appears, and based off the music it sounds like Blue finally has hope to get away from Pink. Blue try’s to signal to her and, she waves it off. This is when his mouth disappears. I think this is only when his mouth dissapears because that’s his sister who has been nice to him for so long, and she turns his back on him. His irises and pupils also turn black, which could mean something but I can’t tell right now.
Lavender just walking out when blue was clearly trying to signal for help just made me feel so bad for him. I’m glad you’re spreading awareness of this bc it’s something a lot of people need to know.
just wanna say how great you are for spreading awareness on this topic and how it can happen to anyone regardless of gender we really need to break away from the “men are supposed to like this” stereotype
Vic actually isn't leaning into the stereotype- in this video it's showing that *pink* is the one leaning into the stereotype and using it against blue. Blue seeing his body react isn't sure about himself anymore and therefore let's it happen, he doesn't like it at all
@@ストロベリークリームI'm so sorry for you :( I know how it must have been fell, I have experience S/A with a people of my family how lived in the same house with me, and I know how scary and traumatic it can be...
I really like this part 0:43 because it brings an stereotype that not so many people touch, some girls believe that boys are inheritly horny and that they are always willing to hook up, stereotype that is often used to dehumanize male SA victims claiming that there is no way they can get abused because men are always expected to be interested in sex, this stands out much more in cases of flirty men who (as in the case of women) are thought to be willing to consent even without asking them
Yesss!, I noticed how she was questioning his masculinity since he didn't agree with her nor wanted to have sex. It's pretty sad to hear ppl saying men can't get SA'ed by women.
@@ikr1234 I have even heard some people asking boys who were abused if their trouble is because they are gays and that's why they didn't liked the "relationship"
I rlly wanna agree but my friends also act that way. I was s/a and when I tell my friends most of them said "you're so lucky bro" c'mon man you're more than just a pleasure addict, please, have some senses
I honesty didn't expect it was a PSA video. I like how blue represents vulnerability and fear and pink was representing lust and desire. I just hated how people treat male SA if they "wanted it"
I'm pretty sure, the "you wanted it part" happens to both genders, but more people would believe female if they got S/A'd, cuz they think men basically can't get S/A'd.
idk if the colors are chosen that way in particular. I do know however that the colors do have a bit of meaning? that being that apparently the more purple the character has, the worse they are. (like how purple is seen as the worst abuser out of the entirety of them.) which might honestly just be because pattern + blue and lavender are siblings so obviously, gotta make the colors similar. actually that's why I thought for a bit that lilac was the mom of lavender and blue
0:51 The text turning from pink to blue :( This poor man. Going from, "No, I don't want this" to "Do I want this?" to *"Shut up. **_You want this."_* is heartbreaking. All because his body reacted in a way he didn't expect.
Good catch! I thought she was telling him to get down on his hands and knees to please HER, with the implication that's all he is good for... hearing your explanation, though, makes much more sense.
i really appreciate you clarifying that the way your body reacts to being sa doesn't mean you enjoyed it bc I feel like a ton of people INCLUDING victims don't understand that and many victims end up putting aside their discomfort thinking that they enjoyed it cause it seemed like their body enjoyed it when in reality its not the case. Great video and an amazing representation on how people can be sa regardless of who they are
Lavender, his sister, his goddamn sister walking out on him when he was clearly distressed and wanting her to help him out made my heart drop. As an older sister with a younger brother i could never even think of leaving his side in a situation like this. I can see why she's on top of the controversial list.
I'm also an older sibling, and that scene just gut punched me so hard with how Blue reacted to her leaving him Like, could she be any worse? He looked like he was so betrayed.. and very unrelated, but I'm 666th like lol
No hold on! I get this but now here are other things. What if lavender didnt catch on..i catch onto things pretty quickly but not all the time i feel like sadly if i was the sister i wouldnt have caught on but would try to get my bro out and see if he'll tell me why hes waving.. or whats going on,but in this case i feel like i would have noticed... especially if im looking RIGHT AT HIM.
The line that makes my stomach sink is “Don’t be afraid of doing what you are best in” it’s just very much a topic people don’t like to touch. You’re very good at portraying these topics, might take a break on watching them for myself because it can be triggering but that is all me and not you. Keep doing what you’re doing cause it’s amazing💕remember to take care of yourself physically and mentally while working on this Vic
A detail that I really enjoy is that Pink’s lipstick is black here and in On The Floor, when in Kiss Me, it was white. Keep in mind: Black: Non-consensual touch White: Consensual touch In LOVEFOOL, her lipstick was gray, implying that her relationship with Blue was becoming toxic on her end. Another thing that may be important is that Pink has a white ring, which is maybe connected to the wedding photo. This could mean that her marriage with that man was non-toxic on her part. EDIT: I was wrong about that last part, forgive me
What I HATE so much when it comes to s/a for men would be other guys saying shit like "oh if I was him I would be so happy" or "if I was him I would just take it" Y'ALL ARE NOT MAKING THE SITUATION BETTER S/A IS S/A DOESN'T MATTER IF THE ABUSER WAS ATTRACTIVE OR NOT
I'm from RU Segment and we literally have the same problem "you're lucky!" or “I wish it were me instead of you!” this is so disgusting to read when there are children there 
holy crap. As someone who was groomed online and abused online, this hits hard, Vic. This is exactly how my abuser acted. This genuinely is a great representation of s/a. Thank you for making this. I feel heard, and I hope others feel heard too.
@@Lucky43221So, an online groomer could say things like: don’t tell anyone about our conversations. Or they could try and keep you away from other friends and family, and even if they know your age, they won’t break off the friendship-of what they want to be a relationship possibly. They could manipulate you, and say weird things. If this has happened to you, you’ve probably been groomed.
@@Lucky43221oh wdym lol? You can be manipulated and sexually abused online in the sense that this abuser will and can still pull you into this feeling of trust. The degree is much different and can take different forms, this can be them soliciting nudes from you. Encouraging you to do acts for them or just to yourself. Sharing and exposing said minor of individual to pornagraphic images and exposing them to not so good circles. Or, encouraging them to create material for you (art or photo) It varies, but even than grooming can happen anywhere because it isn’t like, just irl. There are steps to grooming if you research this
I'm a bit confused, why don't they do anything? I mean, if they're a close family member, and u gave them a signal you ARE in danger, and they took it, why don't they do anything? It's not hate or nothing, I just don't understand
@@Max--782 For me personally the family member I told (my mom) was uncomfortable with the topic and would just rather pretend it never happened than to believe me. It's hard to think about someone you know being hurt like that. I can't really understand why anyone would brush it off either so I don't really have a good explanation besides that excuse
hey, as an SA and r@pe victim, ty for making this. it brings more awareness to the fact we didn't want it just because our bodies natural responses to the situations we're in,,
me and my groupmates are watching educational videos about physical and mental abuse, and our topic is about assault. i remembered you make awareness videos about this topic and proceeded to show it to them. most of my fellow groupmates learned things, from the video and the comment section, but our leader was mad and they said something bad along the lines of 'men always get attention' and that 'women who are r*ped should get more attention because men who have been r*ped 'enjoyed' it'. this stereotype makes me feel so ill. both men and women who have experienced assault deserve compassion, support, and attention. assault is *never* acceptable, regardless of gender. pain, trauma, and suffering do not discriminate based on gender, and it's crucial to provide support to anyone who has been a victim of such a horrendous act. statements suggesting that men "enjoy" or should receive less attention for being assaulted are not only insensitive but also inaccurate. everyone deserves empathy and support, regardless of their gender. it's essential to educate and promote understanding about the impact of assault on all individuals, regardless of gender. no one wants, and asks to be assaulted.
Hey, sorry if this is weird but I really appreciate these. I’m a trans dude who’s been sexually assaulted, and it causes me to struggle with my identity often. Seeing you portray a male character who’s gone through the same thing helps me feel a bit stronger, and helps me know that I’m not alone. Thank you. :)
I was about to comment the same thing, I'm also a trans man who went through the same thing, and this series of videos about S/A Victaton is making actually make me really happy. Some people say it's innapropriate but I think things like that should be more represented, to spread awareness
I have a theory about Purple's relationship with both Red and Blue. Purple may have a weird crush on/obsession with Red and is harassing her through social manipulation. In both the Lovefool meme and this one, she seems to be trying to drive them apart from each other. This is shown with her whispering something into Red's ear while Pink yanks Blue closer to herself in Lovefool and how she immesiately butts into Red and Blue's conversation by pressing her face up against Red's while glaring at Blue, scaring him off, in this one. When Red tries to look past her at Blue, Purple forcfully pulls her in closer, lifting her bangs off of one eye and continuing to stare at Blue as he leaves. Another meme that this shares a detail with is the Look Don't Touch meme, where in both memes, she rubs Red's head - an affectionate gesture - without the latter's consent and clearly making her uncomfortable. I'll even go the extra mile and say that Red's treatment from Purple may be influencing Red's later treatment of Blue, since both women are engaging in possessive behaviors toward those they are obsessed with, which Red may be led to believe was normal. Purple's relation to Blue probably doesn't need much explaining, since she is one of his confirmed assailants and preys on him in WUTIWANT; she seems to be manipulating them both to stay away from each other to exert power over both of them. Also, red + blue = purple, so maybe this ties in to how both Red and Blue are at the mercy of Purple? I know that Vic said that more purple in the design, the worse the character is, but there might be a correlation involving the color schemes of these specific characters. In short: Purple is SAing not just Blue but also Red, and this abuse is warping Red's views on her own treatment of Blue and causing her to think it's okay. This series is focusing on male SA, but I think Red might just so happen to be another victim alongside Blue. I may not be an SA victim myself, but I really appreciate this series. It has loads of details, information, and care put into each upload. Also, Blue's expressions at the very end are just heartbreaking; the fact that not the assault itself but the sheer betrayal from Lavender ignoring his pleas for help is what finally breaks him just feels like a punch to the gut.
I agree on this theory because when I first saw red she didn't really have any intentions of hurting blue, she just really loved blue a lot to the point it became a bit too much and usually people like this might also be victims since it's normalized in their perspective
dude my heart dropped when the sister saw Blue hinting for help and she just left, it looked like the life was just drained out of his eyes :( Edit: I'm talking about the girl who has her eyes closed for the majority of the time. I'm not sure what color she is since the Lilac, Lavender, and Purple colors confuse me lol
@@sonjk_jellyshe’s hinted at from the “Don’t touch it” video where you see a photo of Lavender and Blue together as kids. So she’s technically both his sister and manager
i love that lavender's eyes are closed. in the "look, don't touch" video, the way her eyes were depicted gave me the impression that she hides her actions much better (aka since she doesn't touch him, she isn't viewed as a sexual assaulter, even if that's her brother and he did not consent). however, this video and the context of the story, bring out a different layer to lavender's actions. she completely dismisses her brother's plea for help. the pause she made while turning her head towards him before she left showed me that she understood what he was saying but chose not to help. either because she didn't take the situation seriously or because she genuinely doesn't care for her brother's safety (i wouldn't be surprised if that were the case), but in both scenarios, she's *choosing* not to stop the s/a from happening or continuing. she saw an s/a victim asking for help and "closed her eyes" at the situation.
I'm confused, is video "look, don't touch" alredy released or it will be in the future and you're judging by it's thumbnail? 'Cus I can't see it on the Vic's channel, but it can be not shown in my country or smth
@@ЧиакиНанами-в9м oh crap. yeah, no, the video has been out for a while. the reason it might not be able to be viewed in your country is probably because of copyright from the music, or some other reason.
I never thought about how this song sounded so... _like this_ before. I absolutely love how you are handling such a topic with importance and put effort both into the videos and information. Very interesting to me personally. I'm not good with words and explaining but I'd like to say that I love your work, overall. Thank you :)💙
I completely agree. As someone who grew up with animation memes, this audio is typically portrayed in a charming, silly, light hearted manner. When really, the lyrics are quite persistent for something so intimate. It’s really interesting to see popular/misunderstood audios being used to portray this very much needed story.
At 1:08, the background music switches up and the background is white, showing how he had hope of his sister getting him out of this situation, but when she just walked away the bright colors started coming back, and you see a blank stare on his face. I like these details added. You can feel his emotions, even if you can't properly see them.
No offense but I’ve seen some people saying things like “omg how could his sister leave him behind like that?” This is the same sister that was ogling him in the changing room..right? Why would we expect her to actually fundamentally care for him?? Just my opinion.
Ok, I’m just going to say something, I think each’s characters face represents something about their type of abuse. PINK - No eyes Blue is very respectful of Pink, covering his eyes when she puts herself in suggestive position to not look like a “creep” Pink, however, wants Blue to see her. This is possibly because that despite the fact she thinks that just because Blue is a “selfish, body-wanting man” when in reality he’s not, she’s “blind” to these information, hence having no eyes LAVENDER - Closed eyes I’m “Look don’t Touch”, Purples eyes are closed for majority until Blue catches her looking and she quickly closes her eyes again, most likely excusing her behavior by “It was an accident, I barely saw anything”. She also declines Blues plead for help, which could mean she’s ignoring the fact and acknowledging that Blue is indeed being abused, making up excuses for it RED - Heart eyes In “LOVEFOOL”, Red is madly in love with Blue and her eyes are hearts, and she seems to be “blinded” by love because despite Blue telling her she’s not interested (but still suggesting they could be friends), she still tries to get with Blue, being extremely clingy PURPLE - Hidden eyes + Sharp Teeth Purples character is already pretty shady, but it’s even more unusual because we know she’s “hiding” something. When purple sees red around blue, she always walks up to red and tells her something, most likely saying “He actually loves you, he’s just shy” which could be why Red still tries to persue him. Purple keeps her predatory details hidden, presumably making up a facade of Trust and Betrayal That’s all my idea for now
@@Applz_I COME FROM THE FUTURE WITH BAD NEWS. sweet little bumblebee has revealed that purple of all people has tried to get red to knock it off before. however it's shown that she uses the same arguments pink uses on blue, yk saying he's just a body hungry man, though it's shown that somehow Red takes that all as advice and tries to become pink 2.0 because she saw (through purples narration bc iirc red got hired AFTER blue and we know that blue and pink started going out shortly after blue was hired) that blue and pink were a thing for a bit. I think there also was some response on pinks end? in lovefool pinks lipstick is gray and she tugs on blues tie when red passes by. so I'm pretty sure that pink got jealous over reds one-sided crush on blue and rather than talk to blue like an adult or god forbid end her affair as a whole and go to couples counseling with her husband she does ... this. idk what purples goal is tbh. not with the recent updates. at first I assumed that she's probably grooming red too because red is *19* and let's be real she is extremely childish, or at least in how she dresses. even when she tries to be pink she still dresses less like a mature woman and more like a teenager. like my first thought seeing her pink-imitation outfit was cheerleader. which I think is likely intentional since purple tells red that she's too innocent for blue and that he'd only bring her down / defile her. hence why she becomes pink 2.0 yeah idfk what the hell is up with her but anyway since in lovefool and in here it looks like purple tries to worsen reds behavior idk. maybe she encouraged it at first but then went "ok stop" when she saw that red is committed to this???
My thoughts: -The action of his own sister ignoring his silent pleas for help just makes it more heartbreaking. You can see the dead in his eyes when she just leaves. -The action of pink using the fucking excuse of “you’re a boy, you must like this” is fucking disgusting, this is not only inappropriate but also dehumanizing. -Heck, even before that scene it is clear that he isn’t in a save environment, with dark purple already having her eye on him and red still obsessing over him.
IT MAKES ME MAD TO SEE SOMEONE EVER DO THIS TO THEIR SIBLING 😭😭 it hurts my heart (as an older sister to my lil bro) It proves that people with corrupted minds like that mostly wont be able to think correctly. Just like those documentaries i watch
Back when i was 10 i was r@ped by my mother's friend and she did nothing and didnt care and put me with that friend even after knowing what he did. And then some people tell me that im lying because i am a guy
I love the amount of attention to little details shown in this. For example, the fact that her lips change from white to black: At first I thought that the dark gray color used for pinks wasn’t anything important and was simply used for the aesthetics of her design (not in any way glorifying her character or her actions in the video whatever, just couldn’t find a better word for it, so apologies if I offended anyone with that), but after realizing that in some scenes, as well as other videos, her lips are a pure black compared to the dark gray used in from time to time, so here’s what I think it could possibly mean unless I’m reading into it too much (although I don’t think so due to the fact that everything seems to have some sort of meaning): From the beginning where we first see pink overall (0:17 - 0:19) she has the dark grey lips. We can see pink making observations on blue, things that when looked and listened to hard enough sound pretty uncomfortable. Though at this point I believe blue doesn’t understand the intention of her words and takes the praise with that sense of uncomfortability, unsure if he’s reading into it too much. Maybe the dark gray is coming from a place of confusion and not understanding the ill and toxic intent of pinks words? After all, all the characters are portrayed in the way they are seen by blue, which is why things like lips, or touches and characteristics in general, change from white (consentual) to black (unconsentual). Maybe the gray is the confusion of the in between, as if blue knows something is wrong, but doubts himself as he doesn’t actually understand or know if he should truly feel put off and disgusted by the behavior. We see pink again (0:20 - 0:22) with the white lipstick. She had purposely fallen to get his attention that she craves once again, though blue doesn’t realize that she had ill intentions in this moment, causing her lips to in fact be white. She even goes as far as to call him boring for not picking up on her intentions and not reacting how she wanted him too. We see pink again with the gray lips at 0:28 up until 0:49. From what I see she’s trying to force him into doing what she wants with him, even though he doesn’t want to, most likely because of how forcefully she’s trying to do so, as well as the fact that she’s married. He’s made uncomfortable, yet he still doesn’t want to fully loose hope and give into the thought that this is the person she’s becoming. He could also be thinking that it’s partially his fault in the first place, after all he did like her first. (Reminder that just because you like someone first, it can still be considered SA if they try to pull anything on you without your consent. You are 100% in the right to feeling uncomfortable no matter your situation, no matter your gender, no matter your age, no matter your relationship with said person, no matter ANY of the circumstances. Victaton portrays this perfectly. Dont be afraid to ask for help. You are worth it.) From 0:49 - 0:50 for literally one second we see pink with pure black lips, telling blue to do “what he is best in”, likely being something sexual. The lead up to this is her confused as to why he doesn’t want to. Pink is beautiful, and frankly everything blue liked in a woman. Plus, he wanted her first in the beginning, so why doesn’t he want her now? Blue is insulted and disgusted immediately, hence why her lips turn that pure true black as he’s realized that he’s not wrong for that split second of doubt he was having. We see her lips gray again for the rest of the video up until 1:17 to the end where they are black. She’s trying to convince blue that he should listen to her, that she’s right, and that because he’s “young and free” he should sleep with her because he’s “allowed to make that decision” even though pink is clearly not leaving any room for blue to make a decision about it in the first place. He could be thinking that maybe she’s actually right, since she’s giving me a choice, she’s not forcing me into anything. Then the sister comes in on the situation. Blue, still feeling uncomfortable, takes this as a moment of a call for help. The sister immediately draws a blind eye too it, though she clearly saw his call for help, and leaves the two of them. Them pinks lips turn that pure black again when blue realizes that he truly doesn’t have a choice in the matter whatsoever and there’s simply nothing he can’t do about it. I feel like it makes sense to me that way, as being a person who’s been SA’d before I’ve had my doubts about it, whether to actually call it SA because I believed I had done something wrong to provoke it even when I didn’t. It’s okay to have doubts, but remember, it’s never your fault. No matter what you’re told by anyone.
after reading this i now feel like this series belongs in a writing class, specifically where symbolism can be taught. Because you can basically apply this logic to any point in this series, even in the beginning!
I absolutely love this theory and how you explained it. And just something I noticed in the video to add to your theory, I noticed how at 0:17 it showed her nail to be white. While after that timestamp, the rest of the video shows her nails to be black. Maybe it could be the same with her lipstick. Her nails are white when Blue thinks she isn’t doing anything malicious, but black when he knows her intentions. Edit: Or maybe it could be based on physical touch, since I just remembered her lipstick was dark gray at 0:17.
All of the characters have some part of then that’s black or dark gray except red (I think). Purple has the dark gray/black teeth, lavender has pure black? Eyes, and as you stated pink has the lipstick. The only one that doesn’t have black is red who has a white bow since I think she is also a victim of purple from the looks of it. The light pink character is fine because she isn’t one of the abusers and (hopefully) will help blue.
I’m sorry that people find this topic so controversial and are actually getting mad about these videos, but these are the types of videos that let victims know they matter and that their situations should not be pushed under the rug. These situations are real and I’m glad Vic gave such insight in how the experiences can be so overwhelming, it leaves victims (which could be ANYONE) feeling confused about themselves and downplaying the experience. To s/a victims, I know it’s hard but I wish you all nothing but healing. They may have hurt you, but you are not your abuser and you are always still worth being loved/and heard. I’m also glad Vic took the time to show how abusers are always thinking about themselves above all, hence why they take any chance they get in spite of no consent being given. You’re truly doing great work, Vic.⭐
1:15 This is such a crucial part of blues story. He has lost nearly everyone he thought he could reside in. Getting sexually assaulted is so hard, but a call for help being ignored by someone, especially your family, is so soul crushing. Being denied your right to consent, denied comfort in your relationship, and even denied a person to reside in. This is the part where blue looses it all, this is where a knife breaks his skin and leaves a scar, this is where he feels like an enemy to himself and everyone around him cant be fully trusted. This is blues story.
i love how you can even see the change too; from white pupils with bright blue eyes and a nervous grin that so perfectly encapsulates the want for help and clear discomfort, to his eyes quickly being nothing but a pitch black void with no mouth that shows what you talked about
Mhmm!! And I've noticed how one of his pupils always seems to go red indicating (I think) that he's about to stand up for himself but something/someone always seems to stop him, in this case, it being how his body reacted to the stimuli
Something I'm only now noticing is that at 0:18 (pausing will be necessary), is that there's 'Good boy' and 'gullible' in his mind. Pairing that with the lyrics 'I like your body not so much, i like your mind' which could be implying that while she likes his body, she likes his mind more because he can be manipulated into thinking he wants the SA, which would explain the 'Shut up' in the background at 0:50 slowly turning blue, as in Pink is saying 'Shut up, you want this. See?' after pointing at his (implied) erection, and Blue, after seeing it, begins to think he *does* when he genuinely *doesn't*. Poor Blue. I hope he gets out of ALL of these situations and lives a happy life and the abusers get what they deserve :(
I’m honestly so glad you’re making awareness videos of S/A. People tend to brush over the topic more than expected. I’m also glad you explained the physical similarities between fear and ar0usal, as they can be easily mistaken to those who aren’t familiar. I hope that anyone who is in a situation simular to this gets the courage to fight back and escape. Keep up the great work, Vic.
Hey Vic, I just want to say thank you for making this series. Recently, I got S/A by my older cousin but more worst. It happened on an early morning of Wednesday, I was sleeping with my little brother at that time when suddenly I woke up and saw a person. It was just my older cousin who came home very late and he was drunk. And after that, he noticed that I barely wake up then he did the most disgusting thing to me. Keep in mind that we're both male and I agree that even same genders can be a victim and predator in these situation. So what he did to me is to take off my short and you know what happened. I feel like my mouth got shut up just like Blue and I feel scared because he did that in front of my sleeping brother. Then after that, he's going to touch my body and lick it which is so disgusting. And just like what Purple with a scary tongue to Blue, he licked and bite my ear. After he finished all of it, he whispered at me and say sorry. When I heard those words, I feel like this happened to me many times in my life. If he truly sorry to me, why he repeat the same disgusting actions to me? I thought that he changed but I was wrong. I ended up moving forward but still after what happened there, it really hurts my feelings. I asked someone for help and they suggested me to tell my parents about what my cousin did to me. But the thing is that I'm scared because I feel like everything will be in chaos if they know what he did and everyone will be mad at him. But I agree that I need to expose this monster to my family to end my suffering since when I was a teen. I'm really tired and sick of him that he acts like nothing has happened while the stain is still inside of me. I'm getting worried if this would happened to my little siblings and I can't let it happened. What my cousin did is wrong and not normal that I need a lot of courage to tell them the whole truth about my cousin. Vic, I can't thank you enough for all of this because you open my eyes and see the truth. I know that this is off-topic from the video but yeah I'm really happy that you spread awareness about this sensitive topic to other people who have experience this like me. Until now, I'm still looking for te right time to tell my parents and I hope that they will understand me. For those who are still reading this message until the end, thank you so much and I hope that you're doing okay today. I pray for all the victims of S/A to continue to be strong and have faith because hope is our light. God bless you all.
@@heeheejolie Good news, I already told my mom about what my cousin did to me and she was shock and couldn't believe it. She secretly told me that she will never trust him anymore and planned to kick him out soon. So far, only me and my mom knows the truth and I'm worried of what will happen next if the whole family knows about his true colors. But the good thing is that finally this stain that was hidden for many years has finally revealed and I'm thankful that I conquer it. 😭❤
I feel you dude... I've gone through almost the same experience. The differences are; opposite sex, happened when I was a child, and my cousin dragged me to a dark room (more than once...) in the family's house (my cousin side). Last time we met, we are all laughing with our families as I act childishly with my cousin. Thinking about it, I feel like my past self had hidden 'that' memory on the back of my head since it happened ages ago and I (me and my past self) shouldn't make it a problem anymore. "It is already passed" I thought to myself. Is my story sounded as one of the "leave it under the rug" situation? I do wonder... since I don't know how to make of that 'experience'. All my past self had thought was questioning myself of what is my cousin doing and why did it 'feel' ticklish. But one thing that I realize, the 'experience' had me grew up with fear of marriage and being intimate with the future spouse. I'm also thinking if I should tell my parents about my past, and about another person had came to my life and haunt me (this one is not S/A situation, but it made me traumatized). Back to S/A, I'm also worried my little sibling would experience the same thing. The chances that I don't want to know because of how often my aunt would invite us to visit our other families and my sibling would be the one being dragged by my aunt. But everything aside, I hope you can finally find the time to tell your parents and spread awareness to your loved ones. I also hope our siblings won't be experiencing S/A from neither our cousins nor anyone in their life. Keep progressing in life bro👍
@@whatwho810 Man, I'm so sorry that this happened to you dude. I'm glad that I can relate to someone who experience with this situation. But don't worry, I already told my mom about what my cousin did and she was surprised. I hope that you have a courage to tell your parents about this. I hope that you're doing okay and don't lose hope.
It's the same level, To mans, if you say that you were s/a, they will say that they wish they had been in your place, as if that had been consensual @@Keren._.Or._6008 so is the same level
I've never felt so disgusted, especially at 1:07 when Lavender acknowledged Blue's discomfort and just played it off as nothing bad. It hurts so much to see this because it's clear that Blue trusted her enough to get him out of this situation, but she chose not to interfere. + That all hurts a lot more once you see the expression on his face and the immediate disappearance of his mouth. This is making me realize Each time he spoke out against his abusers, he was repeatedly shut down and ignored, and that final moment when he at least TRIED to get someone to listen, he was immediately ignored. He lost that voice completely and that's probably the saddest part about this.
I think it’s supposed to represent the “he must’ve liked it” stereotype when it comes to males experiencing sexual assault. Lavender saw this as a “spicy situation between blue and pink” and not as blue’s call for help, thinking he was just nervous to be locked up in a room with a female, and that’s why she left with “tease” laughing and probably something like “don’t want to bother you guys” (aka she thought it wasn’t a sexual assault but rather just something between blue and pink due to the “men can’t be sexually assaulted” stereotype)
@@OmeletteOwl yeah that's what i was thinking, but i didn't know how to really put it into words I feel like that stereotype might play a role later into the story but I can't be sureto be honest. So I guess we just have to wait
0:42 this part is like. one of the most interesting parts to me, because not only is what she said very revealing of her thinking process, but I interpreted it 2 ways. My first interpretation (which I’m pretty sure is what what she said actually means) is that she was like, “you’re a man. men are SUPPOSED to be into this spicy stuff all the time.” Which makes the most sense for blue’s situation. But my second one, which was just an afterthought and doesn’t make that much sense, was “Men are hot, and you’re a man, which justifies my actions.” The first interpretation is better lol. Also the part afterwards, “Don’t be afraid of doing what you are best at.” Im obsessed with this, because it shows the whole “men are usually the ones assaulting women” or “all men want is s€x” thing. But blue doesn’t want that, and is uncomfortable with her doing it to him. I love these animations sm !! s/a awareness for ALL genders is sososo important
I've heard people say "it's payback when we do it because men do it to women all the time" so your interpretation could be correct. although more likely being "why are you acting like this is assault / men assault women all the time you're always into spicy stuff all the time / it's reclaiming power for women / you're a man so you should just shut up and like it" which is all bullshit claims. boys, if a girl touches you in a way you don't want her to or pesters you into doing something you don't want to do, you don't need to say yes. even if she says one of those things. it's not feminism for her to assault you, and it's not misogynistic for you to say no. what IS feminist is consensual expirences. if she tries to claim otherwise, know that you're in your right to call her out. you deserve to feel safe with partners too.
ID ANYONE GONNA MENTION HIM WEARING HIS HEART ON HIS SLEEVE IN 0:52?? People that do that can be really seen as vulnerable and that to me seems like what pink is taking ADVANTAGE of, someone vulnerable.
Something that i havent seen anyone talk anout is that on 0:39, where we can see her wedding pic, her husband is purple. Now, the creator has already said that violet/purple is used for people that are awful in a more noticeable way. Also on the wedding pic, she has eyes and looks very happy. The husband is also masked, which leads me to believe that she used to be a normal, nice person and believed that her husband was as well, but after being married for a while he dropped his act and became more abusive, maybe manipulating her into having intercourse when she didnt really want to, perhabs saying thats normal for a man to wish that and that they should do it cause they are married. This couldve lead her to think that all men are like her husband, and not realize that what she is doing is s/a (her not having eyes/not seeing why this was harmful). Anyway, im probably looking too much into it but its just a theory.
It’s the fact that his OWN SISTER turn a blind eye to his situation when he was obviously crying for help, then his mouth disappeared (and probably won’t be seen again from this point) showing how he has lost the ability to communicate outwardly for any help because he sees that even someone who is his family doesn’t do anything knowing about it, probably making him feel trapped and believe no one can help him at all
Also I noticed that purple is oddly touchy with red specifically, it’s clear that they have some sort of connection, maybe purple sees red as some sort of entertainment? But it also seems like purple is somewhat protective of red?(idk) like the way she got in between red and blue and seems to try to push blue away when he tries to approach, some sort of imbalance in power might also has a play in this but I’m unsure
Something that I noticed through-out these videos is that all girls that had an act on Blue are blind, yet on different forms: - Red is blinded because of her intense feelings for Blue, and doesn't know the impact of her actions. - Pink (in my opinion) looks at this situation as a "fun time", yet she doesn't notice that her actions are harming Blue. Her actions ARE wrong, however she doesn't think so or she hasn't noticed the impact in her moves. - Lavender is FAKING, she tries to appear innocent, but she does know thay what she's doing is somehow wrong, yet she likes it and tries to make you think is not bad at all. - Purple is the most known predator; they look unsettling. Also, they have their eyes covered, but can still see the scenery, they just wanna take power over other people and sexually assault them, and they ARE FULLY aware of it. P.S: Also, Victaton, I've seen more of your videos, and I just wanna say that I love your stuff and I'm glad you're getting the recognition you desserve!!
i hate the fact that blue’s sister isn’t taking any action and is allowing her brother to suffer with these women. she herself is an SAer which makes this even worse. i feel bad for blue i hope he gets the care he needs. :,(
i mean the other pink girl as far as we know din't do anything wrong to him yet so maybe and i'm just being hopeful at this point maybe she will be able to help hime/save him cause he derserve cause i feel like at this point he might just breakdown and do horrible thing to himself while not being in a good mindset hopefully just hopefully he will be saved also i feel like the the last girl the one i'm talking about might just be the boss of the place but that's just my opinion
@@TheChillAndWeirdBeing if you are talking about lilac then yes. i hope she managed to save blue from this chaos. someone mentioned that her eye color may be an indicator that she was a domestic abuse survivor and a sexual abuse survivor. (the purple color from the purple ribbon which is a sign of domestic abuse and the blue eye color from the blue ribbon which means sexual abuse.)
0:24 Looks like Purple wants to manipulate Red, perhaps making Red fall for her since she fell for Blue so easy and making Blue have less people he can go to and trust (many abusers like to isolate their victims from support so their victims feel entraped). Blue sees this and is clearly uncomfortable with it, probably aware that Purple is up to something, and Blue speaks up about being weirded out by Purples behaviour. But his concern gets ignored and/or he’s told to shut up at 0:26
It's oddly uncomfy how much my brain looked over the lyrics of the song, despite how explicitly it's talking about sex,, I honestly thought this series would be more "I understand this, but I'm seeing a portrayal/example? of it" but it's instead been more like "I didn't think about that, there are so many red flags besides just being creepy and forceful" especially at the end with the information about stimulus regardless of context, I knew it but I didn't consider it in my mind This whole series has been very effective in making me aware of the different ways people can go about being manipulative beyond the act itself (as I watch a lot of truecrime and hear the testimonies but not the lead-up to it) I feel awkward coming up with words to compliment this, but you've really done a fantastic job at getting info across in a short amount of time!
@@OlTimeyChara 0:23 you can see lilac going away and a wheelchair and also some red person (who’s colour is more dull so I’m guessing they are not doing so well)
@@OlTimeyCharayou can slow the vid down to catch the scene The dull red person is probably an elder person who's not doing well since he is at a hospital
purple being that close to red and most likely getting Blue to leave and fall into Pink’s trap is just. so disgusting, but I know that’s genuinely what happens sometimes
As an S/A victim at 9 yrs old i thought that since i had reacted to it in arousal i thought it meant i was being dramatic. Im really glad to have this piece of feedback. Especially since i cant talk to anyone about this considering my life would be destroyed if i did especially after waiting to tell someone for so long. thanks so much again.
As a transmasc person who has been s/a'd and sexually harassed at a young age, this series brings me comfort, knowing other people can relate and understand how i feel makes me feel like im valid for talking about my experiences and stuff i guess ^_^ im glad you also clarified the body reactions part, due to people not ever understanding it, and abusers taking it to their own advantages. if you have been sa'd or sexually harassed, please seek help and therapy, you are not alone
Damn, you can tell how much research vic put in through the little thing at the end. I really like how fast paced this one is, good work as usual! I also like how you wrote Lavender seeing what was happening, but still neglecting to do anything to stop it
Do you guys notice purples tie? When she was in WUTIWANT her tie was blue which matches blue and how she was talking advantage of him. Now when she is standing by red you can see that it’s a light red color, probably hinting on how she’s taking advantage of red now and manipulating her..🤦🏽♀️
Thanks a lot for these videos Vic. I got assaulted by a girl near my age. You portrayed this PERFECTLY (And you put a girl version of blue in the end to show anyone can experience it)
Noticing the changes in pinks lipstick and blue's eye color change is very interesting. Pinks lipstick is white when she's actually respecting him and his body, but black or gray when she's starting to actually SA'ing him. Blues eyes go spiraly when hes starting to fear her, and redish when he's actively trying to push her away. His eyes go black at the end when his sister(?) Doesn't help him And they go white when he truley realizes no ones coming to help him. His eyes seem cyan when he's hopeful. Another notice is purple(?) brushing blue off when he's with red. I think this could be two things: 1. She's trying to protect red from getting her heart broken 2. She's trying to make blue more vulnerable so she can get to him herself. But i really have to ask, why didn't his sister(?) Help him? I feel she would at least get jealous of pink or see this as an opportunity to hold it against him for a favor, but it could be so that blue is more vulnerable. Also the light pink one (I don't know her name.) Seems to be the only one to actually respect him, and she isn't seen in the title with the others. Maybe she'll be the one to save him, but that's me being hopeful. In most cases, the one being SA'd has to pull themselves out of there because no one believes them. Thank you for coming to my ted talk or whatever
i think red is also being abused by purple like how blue is tbh also i think lavender didn't help because she either didn't see an issue with what was happening, or more likely she just didn't care, since she's also an SAer
Nobody notices the intro, and it’s slightly confusing why people don’t talk a about the detail in it! They first start with showing us the stereotypical abuser, (a sharp teethed clearly villainous character), than show us all the others after it. Also, the colors in the words abuser and victim switch twice from abuser being blue (another stereotype, that men are more commonly the abuser whilst their are equal chances a female is an abuser as any male) and victim being pink (going off of the other stereotype that women get abused more) to abuser being pink and victim being blue. I pay attention to small details, and this is LOVELY to see. You showed so much in only a few seconds, and you deserve to get so much more recognition!
I have never felt more uncomfortable than this video, the sheer aggression in pink and blue's look is just mortifying and i think it shows one of the most common and horrifying parts of SA, the true fear that is felt.
1:17 is such a heart dropping moment, it’s the way Blue is signally his sister for help only for her to ignore it. That’s when he loses his voice and mouth, it happens a lot in S/A victims where they try to show signs to their family only for them to ignore them intentionally or unintentionally which are equally worse for the victim 😕
I absolutely love how you included the “body” part in this video. I’ve never experienced s/a myself, nor have many knowledge about it. So seeing this really explains a lot to me, and makes me understand this topic more. I would absolutely hope that your series could teach people too, more about this topic, just as you’ve done with me.
@@divine555 what r u saying?? It's a natural body response when in a situation like that. Some people can get aroused when being sexually assaulted even though they don't want to.
Interesting seeing this song that was mainly used as a joke in the past being used in a more serious/dark tone. Hopefully Blue’s story has a somewhat happy ending. (I say somewhat cause even if his problems get fixed in some way, it’s still going to leave everlasting trauma)
0:56 I thought she was carrying Red for a sec then I realized it was a chair lmao 💀 (Ik the story is serious if this is offensive I will delete it sorry)
1:30 YES!! YES YES YES THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS!! It took me 2 years to realize I was actually s/a’ed bc I felt this and I was only 13, I had no experience with anyone. I haven’t even even kissed at the time, and I thought that it was my fault. That I was the gross one in the situation. That I can’t tell anyone because “I wanted it”. The way I broke out of that mindset was literally at the start of this school year, when the guy who s/a’ed me got moved to my class and I ended up finally telling my teacher and she was horrified. More ppl need to know this bc feeling lust is not consent. You cannot control your body, Or your reactions to things around you. Especially if you are as young as I was
I'm a woman, but I always felt a great rejection because of that "You are a man, you are supposed to like (everything that has to do with sex)" when Pink shows us that even women can be as perverted or more perverted than men. It has nothing to do with it but I know female classmates who spend their time criticizing boys for being "horny" and there isn't a day that I don't hear them talking about perverted topics (Sorry, I needed to vent about that) Love your animations Vic. ❤️
I’m sorry but as someone with an older sister, seeing Lavender just walk out like that made me so mad. Both my sister and I would both fight to the death to protect each other, it’s sick that Lavender doesn’t have that common sense. I feel so bad for blue. ☹️💙
what you mentioned at the end is something called arousal non cordonance and it gives very important context for mental disorders alongside SA as well. im so glad it got talked about!
I'd like to point out that at 0:12 you canlipstick has changed from white to black which might show it's unwanted with how black and white is difffent (white: consent, black: non consent) as Vic has shown with the WUTIWANT when purple touches Blue inappropriately. I also love that through out this Pinks teeth have gotten sharper. We know that Vic said Purple is one of the most dangerous and she has sharp teeth so maybe now pink has them she could be more aggressive towards Blue. At 0:43 Pink seems to think boys are stupid and easy to manipulate + i also think pinks older than him so she's thinking like "It'll be best i'm older and more experienced," And she uses that to force Blue to sleep with her hence "Shut up and sleep with me," And i don't know the timelines very good but at 1:08 purple clearly notices something and as blues sister she should be helping him but as we know she assaulted Blue in some way aswell which is why i think she brushed it off . 0:39 You can see the wedding photo and the husband/ SO with a mask on. For me it looks like a wolf mask like the Wolf in sheep's clothing phrase but that could just be my interpretation and with the way Pink pushed the photo down maybe she regrets her decision with marriage
More like a sheep in wolf's clothing? Masks are used to hide your face, and were used in theatre. Although...I don't know honestly (lol) like...he's dangerous but actually gullible like Blue and PInkk took advantage of him? I don't know. Also, in the picture Pink has eyes so, maybe implying that it's only after she met Blue that she started acting like this.
I actually support this series, it goes into detail of how S/A can affect the body and mind, and its good for victims who are still struggling to understand it wasnt their fault.
The way purple is weirdly touchy with red specifically from what we seen shows that they have some sort of connection but obviously purple doesn’t have good intentions, the way purple seems to purposely get in between blue and red seems somewhat protective? And the way she try to push blue away and keep distance from red, it’s clear that purple has s/a blue but I’m starting to think red might’ve also been through something similar with purple or something like that, I also think purple wants to have control over red and blue but separately and individually, separating victims like that makes it easier for them to feel trapped and alone or helpless, I think purple is trying to do something like that
I highly respect the effort that you put into spreading awareness about such a topic, im really grateful , i feel relieved that there is someone like you researching the facts and informing us who may not know, thank you :D