4 Proven Ways To Be More Attractive Than Most Men

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In this video, we’ll break down some clips of Robert Downey Jr and Charlie Hunnam to highlight 4 different personality traits you may have that are psychologically attractive to a lot of women.
We’ll also go through how you can show you have these traits in a way that feels natural, rather than try hard or braggy. You don’t need every single trait in order to attract someone, this video is meant to give you a menu to choose from. Some come through in the stories you tell, others only require one sentence for you to establish.
And yes, both these guys are handsome, but the techniques in this video will help anyone to be more attractive regardless of how you look.
Also it’s worth noting, these are far from the only ways to be attractive. There are many other traits we can cover in future videos if this turns out to be a topic you’re interested in.
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 - Intro
0:40 - Use the story baiting method
3:02 - Show that you're a protector
4:11 - Be the first to be playful in serious situations
4:17 - Make yourself the director of any situation
4:44 - Give the spotlight to someone who hasn't had it
6:01 - Be a successful risk taker
8:47 - Be playfully cocky
9:26 - Go over the top with your cocky persona
9:54 - Follow cocky statements up with a joke
10:31 - Be quick to compliment others
11:58 - Tell the story in an attractive way
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@LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 года назад

Confidence is not walking into a room thinking you’re better than everyone, its walking into a room not comparing yourself to anyone at all

@CesarGarcia-nd5xz 3 года назад

Instagram quote material

@moehashim8442 3 года назад

@Juan Cruz Stakys yea therefore there wouldn't be a point in comparing yourself to anyone

@HelianaFranko 3 года назад

Do you comment the same thing in every video? Even on the best food review channel lol🤣

@moehashim8442 3 года назад

@Juan Cruz Stakys in that occasion, yes but generally speaking, it's better to focus on yourself

@renatoarauz7784 3 года назад

Yes exactly you dont need to compare yourself to anyone When you know your are way better than everyone. LOL im joking

@taabishkhanself-improvemen7331 3 года назад

*5 things to quit right now:* *1. Overthinking* *2. Trying to make everyone happy* *3. Living in the past* *4. Worrying* *5. Doubting yourself…* Love from a small channel💙

@faithlyngrace2517 3 года назад

Taabish, just jumped to your channel. Your vids look knowledgeable and interesting. Just subbed. Will be exploring your content very soon.

@num1Jaysta 3 года назад

Working on those

@DamianSzajnowski 3 года назад

Just living in the present would fix most of this. Try meditation along with it, seems to help.

@TheDarkPan 3 года назад

*6. Paying for goods one has not received.*

@quicklittlesnail1616 3 года назад

I did all of those things when i was younger. The result, i couldn't even talk to girls

@user-xg8hv1lu8k 3 года назад

Confidence is like “Show up in every single moment like you’re meant to be there.”

@HeavyMetalorRockfan9 2 года назад

it works all the time, I've gotten quite expensive parties by simply dressing the part and walking through with confidence, smiling at the wait staff, nodding at them and then waving to someone who briefly made eye contact with me. It's ridiculous what acting like you're meant to be somewhere can get you

@sans4124 2 года назад

Where ever you go,act like you belong there and dont look around. No one will confront you

@MrBuketman Год назад

Not trying to be negative, but Charlie sounds like a douche that made up the cat story to look like a hotshot. Seemed scripted.

@PinupSticknerd 4 месяца назад

Like. Pfff Every moment. You've never not meant to be there😊 Appreciate you ✊

@alightened 3 года назад

Imagine Robert Downey jr as a late night talk show host. He’d be legendary

@Circuses 3 года назад

He’s automatic legend at any job that puts him on a screen.

@samsam-tq1cf 3 года назад

Podcast for rdj would be soo much betterrr, TV would just censor everying thing

@covidfartfog8076 3 года назад

Completely agree

@vishnunarayanan5690 3 года назад

i disagree,he's better off as an actor

@damocles8180 3 года назад

He would get cancelled for speaking his mind so quick lol

@jachymandrysek8527 3 года назад

Guys. I was at a party w/ few friends and there was this girl and we clicked. I invited her for a date and she said yes, but our date somehow became a group hang again and I got overwhelmed by the number of people and could not "focus" properly to getting to know the girl properly. I think, it would be a good idea for a video: How to be seen in a group, or smth like that.

@corbans5796 3 года назад

I dont know the situation but I would suggest just being honest that you were excited to spend some time just with her. Not getting in to a group dynamic in the first place.

@kingkenton 3 года назад

bruh no video needed. you need to single her out from the group and hang out with her 1v1.. make the next hangout clear that it will only be you two, and if it somehow turns into a group hang again; sorry bro, but looks like you in the friendzone.

@honkhonk5181 3 года назад

@Kenton Nguyen @Corban S Oh god no. Don’t listen to these people. She’ll think you’re the biggest creep ever and destroy your rep on social media if you suggest that to her. Be more subtle about it and do not make any mistakes. Also not a bad idea to have audio or video (preferably both) surveillance on every inch of your property so she can’t say you tried to grape her.

@honkhonk5181 3 года назад

@The Daily Weather Forecast Yet they have a free pass and are even encouraged to be as subtle as they want whenever they want.

@karentaylorsmells 3 года назад

Hey man, all is not lost, it was just the first date. I like some of these comments about taking the initiative to ask her out again, women love confidence in a man - like just be low key about it and put it out there a little, get her reaction, build up a bit of contact between this time and the next time you see each other. She will definitely have still ‘seen’ you in that group hang, but yeah, just keep being you, that is what took her eye and attention in the first place.

@RogueWolfArtist 3 года назад

Relaxed and attentive eye contact shows confidence and assurance to what they’re saying matters to you. As it genuinely should.

@1005corvuscorax 3 года назад

And what if what they're saying matters not one whit to me? Some think "it should", but honestly after Ive listened to a "poor me" martyr over and over again, I could really give not one whit about what he/she says about her life as a self perceived victim. And I still maintain eye contact, and somehow he/she still thinks I give a damn about what they're talking about.

@RogueWolfArtist 3 года назад

@@1005corvuscorax - That’s when you can sell them anything you want. 😎

@RogueWolfArtist 3 года назад

@@1005corvuscorax - But really, I’d just organically move on. They got the coat check into my interests, but I’ll save us from stepping on each other’s toes by not dancing around this conversation. I’m sure you do the same.

@MishaElRusito 2 года назад

The funny thing is that they're not using any "tips", they are just natural themselves. The biggest tip here is to find your passion in life that makes you happy and confident, then your natural traits will come out

@1222242 2 года назад

The funny thing is, that discovery is hard enough as itself. But once you find it, everything else becomes easier.

@kirkfavre3017 2 года назад

@saitamaone2164 2 года назад

Good one

@siler7 2 года назад

How do you know that? They're actors. Being charming and confident, telling stories, keeping people's attention...this is their profession.

@davidcarothers3311 2 года назад

@@jayjohnx Why are you Lying??

@isaiahkipp5509 3 года назад

“Being a successful risk taker may not be attractive to 100% of women but, nothing is” 💀☠️💀☠️

@shalyfemusic 3 года назад

😂😂🤥

@ajhandsome01 3 года назад

Mans speaking truth

@drewpointkouski6571 3 года назад

Boom

@zahra5301 2 года назад

Well, we aren't a hivemind😂

@rambam69 2 года назад

Roll credit scene

@4120306 2 года назад

The worst thing you could do to a person in a group conversation is to shine the spotlight on that person when he/she doesn't want it (has nothing interesting to say). It could be a passive aggressive way to show people how uninteresting/uninteresed that person is. So be mindful of when you call on people to share their opinions because they might not have an opinion they feel is worth sharing at that very moment.

@michaelmcgee335 2 года назад

Good point.

@osamasp7888 2 года назад

Great point man .. 🔥🔥so relatable

@akninety6 2 года назад

@@tonic1667 in other words, be fake. noted ✔

@melikmourali2072 Год назад

You mean don't FORCE the spotlight on someone, right ? Obviously you don't always know berorehand if they are interested or not. There is nothing wrong in including someone that didn't talk much. If they make it clear they don't like the conversation, just change the subject idk

@littlevoice_11 3 года назад

And for woman looking to gain and keep attraction through conversation? I feel the wider scope of 'attractiveness' would be interesting to address. For example attracting colleagues, the public when speaking in general, family, friends etc. Attraction doesn't have to be refined to sexual interest. Communication and general engagement is important in all forms of relationships.

@Mistyfaery 3 года назад

Right. I love their videos! I do wish they would keep their female audience in mind and add more female celebrities breakdowns for us to learn from. 😉

@littlevoice_11 3 года назад

@@Mistyfaery thank you for your comment. I also think more wider scope on charisma could be covered because relationships with family - parents, children, strangers, colleagues and friends are all important connections for happy healthy lives.

@haruyanto8085 3 года назад

@@littlevoice_11 I'd recommend you any Jordan Peterson lectures on family interactions and communications

@corynorell3686 3 года назад

But this video wasn't "refined to sexual interest"....?

@littlevoice_11 3 года назад

@@corynorell3686 no, but it was aimed at a particular kind of attraction and relationship dynamic

@satinekryze2893 3 года назад

Charisma on command : you know he survives Me : YOU SPOIlED IT !!!!!

@ASmartNameForMe 3 года назад

Me: Satine dies in clone wars You: "YOU SPOILED I-.......i-it, *wait* "

@rtoomer92 3 года назад

😂

@AhmetKaan 3 года назад

*You can NOT control what happens to you, you can only control how you respond to them.* There is power in your response. 🔥

@JayYangInspires 3 года назад

Istg you’re everywhere. How many channels do u comment on? I’m just curious

@illuminated2438 2 года назад

Spam

@CyrilSneer123 2 года назад

Stoicism

@siler7 2 года назад

There's a lot you can do to control what happens to you. Life isn't just reactive.

@marke4576 2 года назад

You 100% can control what happens to you. This quote is like someone saying... "nothing lasts forever so love what you have" but saying it like they came up with it.

@AakashSharma-qd5uo 3 года назад

Please make a vedio on Captain Jack Sparrow's charisma

@SuyashK 3 года назад

Yes please

@haseebkhalid9821 3 года назад

Yesssss

@EmmaSaints 3 года назад

I'd love that!

@FroscoToppings 3 года назад

That's too easy. He gets his charisma from all the rum he drinks.

@aydenjensen9395 3 года назад

Yes.

@papl20 3 года назад

I love how we all love RDJ. Like he really is an extremely charismatic guy. It doesn't matter if you're attracted to him sexually, you're attracted to him because he shines and you just want to pay attention to him. Amazing guy.

@Tian.S 2 года назад

Know what help too? Integrity. Knowing who you are. Liking who you are. Absolute confidence and peace with who you are, and who you are not. Something to think about before you start practicing in the mirror how not to be yourself.

@westyNUFC 2 года назад

When Charlie tells that story about the joke prom invitation. He knows for a fact every girl in that room would be thinking they would go to the prom with him. And every guy relates to him or is inspired to become successful despite previous rejection. Well done Charlie, this story hooked in 100% of the audience. RDJ could speak gibberish and you'd still listen with intent. His personality and charisma is just that huge.

@rickonethousand6304 2 года назад

Where in the f is that guy from? That's the weirdest accent I've ever heard. Last name?

@westyNUFC 2 года назад

@@rickonethousand6304 Charlie Hunam. I don't know where he's from. First movie I saw him in was Green Street. So I always thought he was a cockney.

@Tagikakibau 2 года назад

@@rickonethousand6304 He's from Newcastle in England. And yeah, it's such a messed up accent.

@mccormickja Год назад

Just wanted to say, I’ve been watching your videos for years and they really are so good. The way you include real world examples is so helpful and also makes it a pot of fun to watch. Life changing stuff. Thanks again.

@jessi2077 3 года назад

I scoffed at the title but actually ended up feeling very attracted to these men lol

@mrmustangman 3 года назад

me too.!!!! just kidding.... but seriously, that was a wonderful story.

@VintageCardinal 3 года назад

Really? To me they were less attractive.

@Frogman1212 3 года назад

You were attracted to celebrities? Wow imagine that

@Sam-xr8ne 2 года назад

suckerrr lol jk.

@rodovariocragur8732 2 года назад

I think its very important to point out that most of this traits shows up spontaneously when a man actually feels realized in an activity that is intimately interesting for himself

@NickNotas 3 года назад

Ambition is always attractive. Fortune favors the bold.

@apelincoln1616 2 года назад

RDJ is the king of "playfully cocky". It's a rare gift

@srbaruchi 3 года назад

Whenever I see RDJ, I can't help but think about the time, not long past, when he was so drug addicted and spending time in jail that "everyone" presumed his career, and maybe his life, would end soon. What a remarkable human being!

@isthatujeebus 3 года назад

Only found this channel a couple of days ago. These videos are UNBELIEVABLY insightful! Good work!

@concernedcitizen6577 3 года назад

Tip #1 Look like Hollywood movie stars. Tip #2 Don't forget Tip #1

@buffyd5737 2 года назад

Or $$$$$

@louislocke7954 3 года назад

Can you PLEASEEE do more group videos, or parties and how attention and focus flows and what causes it etc. I think it's something a lot of people struggle with

@teddyoshirak4628 3 года назад

I love how Robert Downey Jr. has a different haircut in every clip.

@PracticalInspiration 3 года назад

Excellent points, I really like the one of the idea of being a successful risk taker, it's an important sign of leadership (which is attractive)

@getfreakybaby 2 года назад

I met and hung out with Robert Downey Jr. In the late 1980s at China Club in Manhattan. I have to say super nice...very down to earth guy. We didn't talk acting or movies..just life in general. Neither of us was feeling any pain that night..lol. I have to say his voice was definitely different than most men. It was kind of deep but direct. Cool guy in general though.. I could clearly see why women would want to hang out with him for him. Not for his money or fame. Just because he's a cool dude. He was kind of short guy but big personality. Almost animated. Very similar to Tony Stark. Think he has something special? In the 1980s he was in a movie called weird science. His sidekick in that movie was a model looking actor. Downey stole every scene...made himself more attractive than the other guy. If you held up two pictures of these two actors...he would never be picked. He went on to super stardom and the other guy was never seen or heard from again as an actor. I believe what Robert Downey Jr. Really has is charisma. Huge self confidence... NO FEAR.

@elizabetha8565 3 года назад

"If he would do that for a random cat, imagine what he would do for a loved one." Except many that proclaim to love animals are the types to treat family and co-workers like garbage.

@shreyanag8988 3 года назад

Agreed! That extrapolation does not always work. Fallen for that trap before. :P

@elizabetha8565 3 года назад

It seems that when people brag about being anything it turns out to be more of a warning. Like the 'nice guy' phenomenon or those that say how they don't like drama...

@num1Jaysta 3 года назад

Action speaks louder than words

@Winterreise189 2 года назад

That's because a large portion of animal lovers are narcissists, and they use it as a tool to virtue signal and look like better people than they are. Almost every extreme animal lover I've ever met that has too many pets was a covert narcissist.

@Iron-Bridge 2 года назад

OP: Quite accurate 👏.

@jordanfelt5978 3 года назад

Charlie ran two miles to the vet with his nearly dead cat, that's both so strange and so awesome at the same time. Respect, my guy.

@donaldcalloway4558 2 года назад

Bull hockey...

@Sam-xr8ne 2 года назад

you fell for it too lol.

@okkogono 3 года назад

Well my question is, what about the conversations where you're asking questions, but they're not asking anything back? I have a hard time trying to work in my stories because it doesn't seem natural to me. Like I might end up sidetracking us on a tangential topic, but then come back to the original story, and after the story is done, there's just an awkward lull where I want to share something but I haven't been asked. Me: So tell me more about that necklace you got, it looks very interesting! B: Oh yeah, (blah blah blah) Me: Insert questions to expand on details that I find interesting, then going off on tangents B: Ends story Me: (awkward silence until I ask another question) The problem is I find myself feeling like I'm doing an interview, and not talking with someone. Do I just share stories or experiences, unprompted? I have enough social skills to know which ones to share and which ones to keep to my chest obviously, but I'm so confused by these interactions, and I think it's gotten worse since 2020. If anyone has any advice, or video links, I would really appreciate it. Thank you all.

@DJRyby 2 года назад

I'm in the same boat my friend. You can try to be direct and call them out (for example I usually say: "Ok can you ask me something?") but if after that they still don't add to the conversation, I for one believe that the other person is not interested in you and I don't interact with them anymore bc I know my worth and if the person is not making any effort in getting to know me why should I?

@wesofsaints 3 года назад

Hey Charisma, could you do a video on the short series called ‘Mixology’ . The series is 13 episodes long and follows the story of complete strangers on their night out, giving insight on night out situations and the do’s and don’ts when approaching someone of interest. Though the series is quite comedic, I still think there is some pockets of knowledge to be acquired from it.

@mummyjohn Год назад

man I was a fan of this show, not the kind of thing I probably would have watched before or since but it landed at just the right time and I got my whole house into it.

@FlamingManofIron 3 года назад

Great video - a video on how to handle group conversations when you're interested in a particular woman would be helpful.

@fernandoroberts3591 3 года назад

so basically be a leader, aware of others around you, complement people and tell stories ;d

@gerdina5168 2 года назад

Basically :)

@radrish2651 3 года назад

I literally wait for your video!! They are great and I love it. They help me grow as a person alot

@izayuhhbohjanglez441 2 года назад

Hey thanks so much bro for all your videos. No joke these videos have changed my life for the better… no.. I mean for the GREATEST!! Lol but seriously though,I absolutely can’t believe on all the opportunities that I have passed up due to my self being my worst enemy!!.. these videos gave me my faith in myself so THANK YOU A ZILLION!!

@picturebreakdown 3 года назад

I’d like to personally give an award to the people who commented “first” to commemorate their stupendous achievement If you’re interested, I do great in depth BREAKDOWNS of MARVEL and Star Wars Movies and TV shows (if you’re not interested, just ignore this and have a great day:)

@Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733 3 года назад

These are the same friendless inbreds that edit their comments to thank for likes

@deborahangel8761 3 года назад

😂😂😂

@mbsucks101 3 года назад

Haha XD

@lev7603 3 года назад

First

@iPuzzlePirate 2 года назад

Great, now I'm going to be self-conscious; I'm definitely a group leader, but I've never done it to make myself look more attractive; I group-lead as described here because I like to allow everyone to get a turn to be in the spotlight, I like to allow everyone to get involved if they want to, and I like to give everyone a chance to be heard. But now I'm afraid knowing about this is going to make me feel like I have ulterior motives.

@pamelaschutz28 3 года назад

love your videos. I always learn so much. Thanks for sharing!!

@ogersteiner 2 года назад

This may be my new favorite RU-vid channel. I usually agree with everything you guys say. I think we are on the same page but I will keep watch to continue to improve on my personality.

@simchaehrman6529 3 года назад

There is finally another video I hit it off impatiently

@mattc1124 2 года назад

Charlie is that guy who just keeps telling you stories about how great and caring he is, whether you want to hear it or not. Do women really fall for that? I guess a lot do.

@mummyjohn Год назад

I think you miss how he tests the waters always, and then tells the story when there's clear interest expressed from the other person

@jjcoll4088 10 месяцев назад

It helps he is hot

@michmich1880 2 года назад

For myself who is introverted and not super good in social interactions but not shy at all! These videos are really usefull so thx a lot!

@nolifezay4636 4 месяца назад

What have u learned

@Valentino016 10 месяцев назад

Your break down of story telling was clear and concise that was super help ful and I'm gonna use this technique you just saved my life

@GENGHISKHAN-hk3qs 3 года назад

RDJ is the man. Everyone knows that. He is a really cool funny guy. I like Charlie as well SOA was a fantastic show.

@cjeff99 3 года назад

Did the audience just laugh at rigor mortis setting in on the cat...

@sampuatisamuel9785 2 года назад

Chill out, the audience knows kitty is now his much loved pet, but they had not expected to hear that kitty had almost died

@c0Ld 2 года назад

i fell out of my chair laughing

@mikomelandro 2 года назад

Robert confirmed what I've been thinking in social occasions for so long! He's a Genius Mentor!

@nayan5962 3 года назад

The thing is In the end - your natural instinct comes forward . You got to train yourself at an early age or spend time with intellectual people .

@devoncooley5505 2 года назад

He’s the guest on a talk show people, understand situational awareness. He knows he has everyone’s attention already, put him alone somewhere and uncomfortable and we’re almost all the same, a human that isn’t perfect

@Mistyfaery 3 года назад

Can you guys do more breakdowns on women when it comes to charisma? 😀 Like Ariana Grande, Marilyn Monroe, Rihanna, Beyonce to name a few. It's easier to learn from someone we relate more easily to. 😀

@purplelove3666 2 года назад

You dont know them personally so how are you going to relate to them?

@barkleybarkleyy4418 Год назад

@@purplelove3666 People think they "know" celebrities. Ha ha

@ladyjei Год назад

This is pretty dang accurate. I use many of these tactics in tech negotiations every day. Very observant… And if this course is as good as the insights in the video, it’ll be worth it (to guys especially). Level up your COMMUNICATION skills guys. Women adore that!

@shoff29 3 года назад

when I see people tell stories like that it makes me roll my eyes and tune it out. it feels too much like bragging, and in my eyes, bragging is very unappealing.

@my_family_journal 3 года назад

Yeah, I'm the straight to the point kind of person. Just get to the point, don't waste my time and also yours.

@haruyanto8085 3 года назад

Yeah, but it's good story telling advice, just content doesn't appeal to me either

@Shaddyraddy92 3 года назад

This is why humans overcomplicate life. We tell stories to engage. To share our experiences. To entertain.

@franka9942 3 года назад

I never agreed with a point so much as playful cockiness, that always gets me. I'll take a playfully narcissistic joke over a self-deprecating one any day

@kmacc974 3 года назад

watched this just to see if it was accurate and it really is. I can see all of those things "working". The bad light story does more than what he suggested though, it engages the woman's heart, which is already primed and ready. lol We have the most overactive brains (too many pathways working in too many directions at once) AND hearts or emotions that are always ready to be engaged in any situation. Also, our sexual attraction or desire is sometimes directly connected to our heart/emotions. So take care with your words. They are more powerful than you will ever know, believe or be able to comprehend.

@vojtapro4843 2 года назад

Be confident and be yourself. Worked like a charm for me.

@SeeDestinFlorida 3 года назад

Love your videos, You should check out some older shows main characters, like... castle, burn notice, and white collar, also great examples of charisma

@self-developementhub3731 3 года назад

You need to do a video on Jesus from "The Chosen". He seriously portrays such incredible charisma and genuine kindness. I've learned so many things from watching this actor.

@michaelmcgee335 2 года назад

Hard to emulate to talented.

@ivyjones1881 3 года назад

to the women watching this: you're not alone

@SoVidushi 3 года назад

Lol glad to know

@corbans5796 3 года назад

@@SoVidushi what a woman response

@SoVidushi 3 года назад

@@corbans5796 glad to have a woman response

@corbans5796 3 года назад

@@SoVidushi nice

@stevejette2329 3 года назад

As a guy, what does that mean ? Women feel alone ? Women don't know these techniques of charisma ? Thanks.

@alextaylor29 2 года назад

Fantastic channel thank you again for these videos.

@ninenzinga154 2 года назад

Im at a loss. There is some of these tips on that i have had working organically at some point in my youth but have seemed to go dormant or evaporate. Itd be nice to be my full self again and thats attractive to myself if to no one else

@jthompson1327 3 года назад

The story telling and social directing advice works flawlessly. I'm a 7, but have always attracted higher using these techniques. Thanks for these videos. Helped me transform myself in the early days of this channel.

@lathanturner8608 2 года назад

To make this all clear about the interview. Sherlock is not depressed. He's observing.

@uncleryan3347 3 года назад

This video is great. You guys are awesome.

@johnp.8749 3 года назад

Is it possible to make a video about Raymond Reddington from Blacklist? I think there is a lot to learn about him, especially regarding his personality and confidence.

@TheTechAdmin 2 года назад

I wish I had an older face. Women usually think I'm 30+ years younger than I am. It may sound great, but trust me, it's kind of embarrassing when the number is SO far off. When I was 30, and people guessed 20, it was great. At 40, it started to change for the worse. Over 50, I'm at the point that I'm thinking to just tell people that I am 25-30, and just let them think I'm wise for my age.

@YourChangeIsNow 3 года назад

Attractive people can get a halo effect easily. Also, in a talk show, many things depend on the host as well. All is set up for the interview to be as interesting as posible. Celebrities are used to this. You get the laughs and the attentions just because of your fame.

@_valor 3 года назад

Great video as always

@sachinmahajan4362 3 года назад

Please upload more videos like this. I like it

@kimpaintscanvas7023 3 года назад

I naturally do this story baiting thing, but I think I overdo it a bit much cuz people often say I talk too much.

@corbans5796 3 года назад

Then maybe you're not actually telling interesting stories. Or maybe you should put the spotlight on others more

@zsofiasej 3 года назад

I’ve always believed story baiting only goes well if you can hold the audience’s attention. Make sure you’re highlighting the tense/dramatic/funny parts, but being brisk and succinct with all other details. Otherwise your audience will lose interest.

@haruyanto8085 3 года назад

Tell your story pause and ask the listener a question, just engage the listener and make them talk and give feedback during story telling is great as well

@kendawgthemasterdude 3 года назад

In a one on one situation, try to only talk about 40% or less of the time, people talk more than they think

@IAmMrQ Год назад

I've always been relatively charismatic but I'm somewhat introverted as well. Sometimes it attracts negative attention from people who become overly sensitive to your opinions and perspectives in general. There's a time and place to show a little charisma but it's usually better to show a calm and stoic personality overall. IMO

@psi9458 3 года назад

I love the time stamp you have damn

@nickh.44 3 года назад

Thank you, can you make a video on the bare basics of how to interact with people

@dwim619 3 года назад

Can you do a video on how to respond to someone who attempts to mischaractarize you? ie. Falsely accusing of racism, assuming you're something your not or whatever.

@robertwest542 2 года назад

Soren Keikegarrd, the Danish philosopher, referred to as the Danish Time Bomb, in his younger and "anesthetic" days, before he takes his 1st, "Leap of Faith" into his Moral stage, was always the life of the party. But, after the party he wanted to get a gun and shoot himself. He had some physical abnormalities, which did not seem to bother him. One leg was shorter than the other and he was a hunchback. His 2nd leap of faith was his conversion to Christianity. He received a degree in Theology but did not want followers. He was never ordained and wrote to save himself rather than an audience. The bulk of his writings were found 50-70 yrs. after his death. It's possible that he hoped to save the world.

@evans8486 2 года назад

Believe it or not just being nice works too… it’s gotta be intentional and meaningful but I can confirm it does work.

@TakeBackYourMind997 3 года назад

The trick is to make sure you're not just a walking version of these videos, normal conversation and being yourself is a big part of connecting with people as well as these tips.

@PSOnoni 2 года назад

Agreed. You mix in some of these traits with your own traits to create your own genuine style. Even with a genuine style, not everyone is going to like you and that is ok

@juliacharlie3702 2 года назад

My husband reeled me in by telling me about the time he saved an injured owl lol

@rxt740 3 года назад

Please do a charisma breakdown of luther (played by idris elba).

@WheresWes 3 года назад

Yo this video is must watch for men and understanding social dynamics

@mindtheprivacy Год назад

Great video

@JLPayne_78 Год назад

How to be attractive to women: Look like Charlie Hunnam and tell a story about saving a kitten. But most importantly look like Charlie Hunnam. That is all.

@DanielMores 3 года назад

I feel like these things cannot be taught but learned by experience. You certainly won't reach RDJ level charisma by following these rules.

@machupikachu1085 3 года назад

that's the spirit!

@antoineboutin8240 11 месяцев назад

Always valuable ❤

@Michael-gi5th 3 года назад

Don't forget looks play a big part in whether you're seen as attractive or not, I get this video is used for motivation but being honest about how much looks effects how others see you as attractive or coming off as creepy is more important than being blue pilled about everything

@camzeee840 3 года назад

Sounds like excuse to me already. Having an attractive disposition can overcome anything.

@Michael-gi5th 3 года назад

@@camzeee840 I haven't said anything about my looks though have I? I'm on about those below who are below average in looks not to rely on these videos to get their self esteem up only to get it blown apart with over confidence that can be a direct result of watching videos like this

@codingisfun9926 2 года назад

This is a Great video. After watching I realized I'm the 1st one - The protector.. I protected my sister and brother from my mom !!... (continue to read to know the story) I'm from India. We are 3 sibling and I'm the eldest - 1 brother and 1 sister. I'm the most obedient one and doesn't backtalk to elderly even when its not mistake. We are not really outgoing, we stay at home and play with each other all the time. When we were little we did something mischievous. My mom got very angry about it. She beat me with a one of the big sticks at home. I took it and I cried a lot didn't say a word. Then she went to beat my sister. I don't know what happened to me at that point she beat her once my blood was boiling. I was furious with rage. At that point , I'm not what I normal was. As my mom tried to beat her again . I blocked her , got hold of the utensil , shouted at her. Didn't let go of the stick. She was shocked I never did anything like that. Then she left That's how I protected my brother and sister. PS : Beating kids is very typical in asia . She still loves us a lot and does take a lot of stress for us. We love her a lot. Beating is a way asian parents use to discipline kids. Looking back though it was harsh and had some side affects I realized it was necessary. By the way I tried using "story baiting method" here . Give a like if I worked. Thank you.

@captaino16 3 года назад

The first story is just making me think of Dennis Reynolds and his fake dog story on It's Always Sunny.

@piufitness5175 2 года назад

I love your videos you are the best

@yoelicon7283 3 года назад

Beautiful right on time video

@KaiserSoze679 2 года назад

See, the problem with a lot of these (and honestly a lot of the traits this chanel highlights in general) is that they at least somewhat rely on having previously cultivated a particular type of persona, which is easy when you're famous and most people have seen you do a number of things, but it's not so easy as a regular Joe just meeting somebody for the first time. Take for example, 8:54 . That over the top cocky joke works BECAUSE it's RDJ, and he's known for that type of personality. Even other celebrities, if they haven't established that type of personality, wouldn't be able to pull that off. Like, can you honestly imagine that joke coming out of Evans or Hemsworth? I sure as hell can't, and if they'd said it, it would have come across really weird, and probably a bit off-putting. He makes it work because that's his shtick. I remember thinking this same thing when watching the video the used Craig Ferguson as an example of flirting, and how he uses these over-the-top, uniquely worded compliments (almost always about someone's appearance) and again, that works because he's Craig... but if a random, less attractive, guy who hasn't established a persona as this whacky, flirty, charming guy copied the same lines, it'd probably come across creepy. So in the end a lot of this seems like lessons on how to use types of charisma you already have... but if you already have them, you don't need to videos.

@user-go2xi7zq5q 2 года назад

Interesting. This is a thought I always have. You can have these kinds of personalities and it works well because you’re a celebrity. I used to be that kind of charismatic person when I was younger. It worked well truthfully but it also sometimes comes off as obnoxious or trying too hard, and that’s a balance that’s easier to achieve if you’re a celeb.

@jomorkenstrseth3526 3 года назад

I became an expert on finding the small thing the person opposite me kind of secretly wanted to show. Like complimenting a girl's n obviously fresh manicure. It allows youu to show that you are comfortable and secure enough in your own masculinity to compliment something that would be considered feminine to notice. I have turned women from meh to just really being curious what else I am a sure shot at.. It sort of became a reputation. To learn it took years of reading behaviour. The focus stemming from explosive adults when I was young. To be safe it was very important to be able to read adults, because I was unconventional in my approaches

@idbefamousifiwere3 Год назад

I love this! I was also really hypervigilant for a long time from my childhood and it sounds like you took something really difficult and made it into a positive trait of yours. That's not easy to do, good on you man